EP 19 - Self Care to Self Worth | Forgiving Yourself | The Bible Don’t Say That ft. Operation Niki
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- čas přidán 13. 09. 2024
- Hey LTTA Family!!!
In this episode, I sit down with Rochelle Stewart, AKA Operation Niki on social media.
Niki shares how cleaning became her way of taking control when the outside world was filled with bullying and negativity. It’s more than just tidying up-it’s how she created a safe space for herself. We also get into her personal journey, from her family life to becoming the sensation we all know and love today. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone who wants to get to know the real Niki.
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I love you B ❤ so please don't take this the wrong way but give time for the guest to speak ♥️ I know its a talk amoung women but let the guest finish speaking her part in the conversation ❤.
This was my exact comment. I think she gets excited and then over talks her guests.
Thank you thought I was the only one!! It’s so annoying when you’re really into it
Then take it as is or go away. She is doing it as she is for her self and we get to share in it with her. Why can’t enjoy as it’s delivered says more about you than it does her. People don’t have to be digestible for you. You should be digesting what she gave you The wonderful content instead of putting her on the platter to eat. What if you were doing something you normally do and some one critiqued you on how to do and the thing was it worked for you? Mmhmm right leave her be and enjoy
She’s experiencing and having these conversations in real time so she’s realizing and understanding in real time. Why can’t she have that? Why shouldn’t that happen? Just because you’re watching that’s not fair to for anyone t request. How many times have you heard something that spoken to you that made you holler? If you haven’t you’re not living. I stay talking to my screen to this podcast. We gotta let people have their expression of life what they do and how they do it. They’re not you so there expression is not like yours or like you embody to think it should be because of what you think. Let her have hers and you have and keep yours how you see fit. Not create a false expectation that she should do because you think so.
@@jelisha918 hey sis we are all here to support. There is a thing called constructive criticism. For the sake of the conversation and her guests, all we are saying is we want to hear them finish their thoughts. What we’re saying isn’t to cause harm. We want her to continue flourishing. The issue with so many people is they don’t listen! Just like you’re so deep into our feedback. We love her AND we believe when you are interviewing people, you should LET THEM TALK! Simple.
I must’ve been living under a rock because this is my Niki introduction! What a beautiful soul she has and she speaks so eloquently. We love a fellow woman of God 🙏🏼❤️
Same lol
No seriously im 30 minutes in and i cant wait to go to her page
Hey page is soooooo SOOOOOTHING💗
Ohhhh yall missing out! Come on over and be a bestie 😊❤
I loveeeeee her 😂❤ my yt auntieeee
Niki is absolutely gorgeous. Her skin is phenomenal. One thing I will say is, that the same things people make fun of us for as children are the same things God uses to illuminate the beautiful/best parts of us.
Perfect example is recently deceased James Earl Jones (R.I.P.) I had no idea that he was mute for about 10 years from a young child until 16 years old😐 and just to think his VOICE was his gift.
I wish B would have given her guest an opportunity to speak for herself instead of interject every second sentence. It’s like she didn’t trust Niki to tell her own story. Was excited to really hear what Nikki had to say.
Yes, I absolutely love this woman and would have loved for Simone to sit back and get Niki’s full perspective but hopefully B see’s this comment and will adjust herself in her future casts 🤍
😅😂
Literally came here to say to say this.
Like a hyperactive kid
That "we have not met all of the people who are going to love us yet" whew😢
I remember finding her IG and following at about 500 followers. I came back at 1 million and now she’s at 3.5 million and I was shocked at how nosey we are 😂😂😂😂 My first impression of Niki was “AAW she looks like a beautiful brown skin babydoll!!” I appreciate finding someone who enjoys organization like me. Thanks for sharing all you do Niki❤
She deserves those compliments. I can see her tearing up. Which breaks my heart for her. I watch her videos and was like "oh I know her!!!" When you announced her. Self care is needed when you're going through depression. Really love her content
No seriously! And it’s so true very so many and sweet, beautiful light bright energy. So deserving!
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I felt her on that prayer to remove those not meant to be in your life. Babyyyy god will be like .. “Are you sure? Alright.” And NO ONE is exempt. Lifelong friendships, jobs, family (both distant AND immediate) It’s something you can’t prepare for you just have to trust god. It’s bittersweet for sure.
Absolutely 💯
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I love you Niki. Because of you I'm considered bringing disposable sheets to these questionable hotels 😂.Thanks for being so transparent.
Same😂 I been cleaning my hotel rooms and bringing my own satin pillow case BUT I ordered disposable sheets and towels because of her😂😂
But another content creator showed a better option. Sleeping bag liners, it sounds weird but it’s cotton (so more comfortable than disposable sheets and eco friendly). It basically covers the entire bed and folds back so you can sleep comfortably
Look it up, you won’t regret it especially if you travel frequently
Nikki seemed like she had a lot on her heart and that she’s still striving to heal from past trauma and hurt. She’s so beautiful. Great show B Simone!!
When B started validating her, I started to cry. In the 36 Years I've been alive I've never heard another woman validate someone like this and it's beautiful.
I love this podcast and happy for B. I would just like for her to allow her guests to finish their thoughts. I know she gets excited, but I feel we miss out on everything the guest wants to convey. Overall great podcast! Much love from Atlanta ❤
Thisssss she’s great but just needs to let them talk more without cutting her guest off let them think before asking more questions
Yessss! OMG
I was gonna say the same thing
I be wanting Niki to post every single day 😂 love her content so much
Same, she helps me get through some rough days
Right me too
Yessss , lol 😂
@operationnikki you’re so beautiful💌
The interview we never knew we needed. Saving this so I can watch it later while I clean. I can’t watch Nicki and not clean lol I love this! ❤
Protect Nikki at all costs she is a beautiful Queen with a beautiful spirit.
I need Operation Nikki to start her own podcast. her voice is so soft and soothing and i believe she has alot to offer our ears and hearts.
B. Simone asks alot of good questikns but goodness gracious woman, let the guest finish a thought. I feel the excitement and the energy flowing, but it can be overwhelming and make it feel rushed. some emotions take time to bring to the surface. i feel like B.Simone would make a great radio personality. that would be a great place for her upbeat/fast paced energy to flourish.
I was so excited when I saw this video pop up on my timeline. During Covid I lost my dad and stopped taking care of myself to take care of my grieving mother. Watching Niki’s videos helped me to get back to myself and loving the process of taking care of myself and my space. I am grateful for both of these ladies 🫶🏽
❤❤❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽
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I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏾
B.Simone I really love you and your pod but I would like to hear more from the guest. Sometimes u interrupt and add in your adlibs or just cut them off. This may be due to you not wanting to lose your thoughts I do it to but I want to hear more of the guest ❤
talks too damn much, like it feels inauthentic and thirsty
Yes she still learning and growing
OMG, drove me nuts. But I love you B❤❤
Omg, I was just coming to say this. I’m glad she has this platform, but she does not create a space that allows her guests to be truly vulnerable. Use of silence would definitely create that.
It was almost too painful to watch. 🤦🏽♀️ She'll have to retrain herself to make space for other people to share.
I dont think @B.Simone interrupted intentionally. I feel she's a little anxious and speaking is her therapy. Its a calming mechanism. You're doing well. Keep up the good work. Glad you're doing better.
Yeh but I feel she prob speaks plenty in her therapy sessions so she should sit back and let the guest speaker speak in these interviews
Time and place for everything
Not sure if this is her issue but I am a high functioning ADHD person so its a common trait (it’s rude and annoying) I truly don’t think she can help it… I do it a lot. I’m usually afraid that I will forget what I’m about to say so I just end of interrupting a LOT🤦🏽♀️🙈😟
@@APTTMHYforever I get it might not be her fault but she is going to therapy and she also shouldn’t be a presenter if she knows she has this trait as it causes not so great comments for her
I’m all for being inclusive but maybe she should find a better suited job or try writing down her questions so she won’t forget
I love watching Niki’s videos. They are so soothing for sure. She truly is a beautiful black woman and has so much to offer us all. Keep shining your light queen!
I love love love Niki!! She has a gentle soul! Thank you for sharing and the vulnerability. It’s hard when you are set apart- it’s for a reason. Never downplay the heart God gave you and the gifts He’s given you!! Much love to you. B Simone - I’m new to your platform but I love your energy.
Omg Miss Operation Nikki is my Bestie in my head!!!! I love how she takes care of herself and family. She's such an inspiration 💓💓
Skin is flawless 🥰….She’s a gentle soul
I love Operation Nikki!! This was amazing!! Keep doing you Nikki. Keep letting your light shine.
✨Survivor's Remorse I believe is the term B might have been thinking of
When u feel bad cuz u "made it out" or gained a level of success and the others u know are still struggling or weren't able to achieve the level of success u have
I love B, and I enjoy her podcast! I wish she would allow her guest to speak, she interrupts constantly! I truly want to hear what the guest has to say
Niki is telling the truth that people who know you don’t support you😢❤❤❤
That part where she talked about how when your setting up your social media and they ask you if you want to add people from your contacts and she was like no. I felt that because that's me "friends" did not support me they talked about me behind my back and i had to over come self limiting beliefs and doubts about myself and i was like i want to do this but i didn't want those people knowing what i was trying to do as far as my creativity because you have total strangers that will support you!
Sometimes when you say “NO” to others you say Yes to yourself!! “Yes I have boundaries, Yes I put my metal Health First and yes I am making myself happy.
And you wouldn’t have to deal with forgiving yourself in the long run.
And sometimes people even will Respect you more. I am also learning how to say NO !!
So good👏🏾👏🏾
@@ariz.1711 yess this!!! and my mantra is overfunctioning for others produces underfunctioning in others.
When she said she feels like it’s her fault and she is the common denominator….I felt that. The whole interview resonated with me. ❤ love Nikki’s content
Thank you B. Simone for pouring into Niki. I felt like she needs to hear those beautiful words more often but coming from herself. That will be her breakthrough.
B when you started speaking life into her, and she started to cry. I'm over here like yasss recieve this sis! You deserve it. I will be following her now! Amazing show, as usual and a equally amazing guest. ❤❤
She’s stunning, gorgeous 😍 the beauty of her soul is palpable. Thank you both for your vulnerability. Very healing ❤❤
Omggggg B I love how you poured into her‼️ what a sweet soul Ms.Niki is. A lot of people need to hear this conversation.
I love me some Operation Niki. I watch her videos faithfully. Definitely very soothing. Such a beautiful soul ❤
21:25 my favorite part!! Yaaaaassss SPEAK LIFE!!!! We need to do this over each other more often!
Bsimone stop cutting this girl off so she can get her point out. lol. The adlibs after everything was a bit much. 😂
She doesn’t know how to listen she just wants to talk. She made the interview about her 🙄
I hope she knows how beautiful and inspirational she is. I am in tears hearing someone voice the things I’ve felt about myself so honestly. She is bomb af. GOALS 😍😍😍
Wowww she is such a beautiful soul and those bullies should be ashamed of themselves. They were intimidated by her light, but I’m so glad she is continuing to shine on!!👏🏽
I LOVE THIS .... Nikki is just so beautiful, inside and out. She has this authenticity about her that's so refreshing. If only I can muster up the energy to be as productive as both of these beautifully inspiring ladies.
talk about a veil being lifted! I felt that at my core!
YES💗🙏🏾
11:53 🤯
Wow! I got goosebumps 🛐🙌🏾 ..... Prayer works yall!
Ive been following Operation Nikki 🎉 thank you b Simone for this interview.
I had to forgive myself for allowing my sons father to treat me horrible. I saw the red flags but still stayed, we now have a autistic 8 yr old so I had to forgive myself so I can raise this baby right. I didn't wanna continue carrying that mom guilt
We love her!!! So glad you brought her on she’s such a dope soul and consistent!
I would love to just sit and converse with Nikki, she has such a gentle spirit of God. I can relate to her in many of the things she spoke about and would love to hear more ❤
Love you both. Listen, i am on a healing journey and whew child aunty is tied...i said what I said. Heres some revelation i recieved in prayer just 2 days ago. Revelation: its not that we are wrong for loving others too much, its that we arent loving ourselves enough.. Love you more.
Love this 🙌🏽
I literally just jumped up and down bc I’m SOOOO excited for this!
Omg. I love Niki! She's the motivation behind my getting organized and starting a beauty regimen.. Keep going sis! We need you! ❤
Omg, I love love Niki! Thank u for this B. Simone 🙌🏽 🙋🏽♀️
B Simoneeeeee girl please stop interrupting the guests. It was so annoying. She couldn’t fully express her thoughts before you jump in!!!!
Definitely never heard of Niki until watching this episode but I LOVE cleaning so I am definitely going to go tune in. Thanks B.
I’ve been watching/following Nikki for a long time now. Her videos are very soothing! Her skin flawless. Her energy unmatched…Not to mention all the Amazon goodies she have me buying☺️
Whewwww that 20 min mark the WAY u spoke life into her!! Got me bawling!! U woke the words the little girl in her needed to hear!! I relate to Niki so much! Love u both!
Whew🤧🤧🤧
Had to pause and comment. Ahhh the interview I never knew I needed. Nikki is bomb. ❤ her. And thank you for having her.
Ahhh the girl we all wanted to know. She is surely a friend in my head and this interview sealed it. Great interview!
I love this episode. I love watching Niki videos online. People sure can be mean but Keep doing what you are doing! Hey B💞
I totally understand when people you truly love, don't treat you the same way .
Awwwww. I found u love Meg by people bashing her because she moved from a trailer to a nice, bigger house. It’s like people was mad that she elevated. Keep doing you Nikki🫶🏽
Nikki big up yuhself ❤🇯🇲you are such a sweetheart I’m happy you did this podcast to get to know you a bit more. may God continue to bless you
I’ve been watching her for so long as soon as I seen her face I clicked immediately. I do the exact same thing binge watch her for hours and I get everything done with her in the back ground. Love her
Love her ! She has such a calming personality and I love how she takes care of what God blesses her with ❤🎉 Congratulations Nikki! Love this episode ❤
I'm crying just at the first 3 minutes. THIS IS MY GIRL!!!!!
I can’t remember which one of her videos I seen first, but I instantly fell in love. Beautiful woman and sweet all around
She is so gorgeous, I love her videos (so inspiring). Thanks for having her on ❤
This episode has me crying. I am on this journey and i needed to see this.
I LOVE Operation Niki and always wanted to hear more about her story so THANK YOU for this B!!!! 💝💝💝
B. Simone…. Please stop taking over your guest! LET THEM FINISH TALKING!!! Damn!
I love operation Nikki videos ❤ her content is so refreshing and makes me want to be better.
Thank you so much for having my FAVVVV on 😅❤ OMG!!! Nikki you rock babes. Look at what God has blessed you to do through your platforms. You are truly loved by many but most of all the CREATOR! 🫶🏾😍🥰😘😘 Thank you B. 😘
Man I needed this interview. Literally cried throughout the whole video. B thank you for this one i still have work that i need to do and this reminded me of that. Self Love is important but SELF WORTH that's another beast.
Awww I love niki! I love you too b but I couldn’t finish this interview. I wish B would allow the guest to actually answer the question. I know she’s still learning, so I will continue to support but only when she’s by herself. Because interviewing and interrupting gets me so anxious. I’m literally yelling at the phone saying B please!!!! I wanna hear the answer To the good questions you’re asking!
I really enjoyed this episode! It’s crazy cause I was just telling my mom how I can feel the love through watching Operation Nikki & for B Simone to say she feels that while watching Nikki’s posts really confirms that Jesus’ light shines through Nikki! I pray she continues to find healing during this transformation in her life! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I love Niki!! And now I love her more! I’m also in a season of healing and all I can say is this conversation between you ladies gave me goosebumps. The way Jesus filled that room! To give you both messages you needed to hear but to also give those messages to the viewers that watch you. ❤
You said a word! People who know you really don’t support you the way you’d think they would. My sis and I started our page and this was one of the first lessons we learned. Thankfully, you find (or God brings) your community if you stay committed to the goal 🤍🤍🤍
Nikki is such an inspiration...you can never do too much for yourself..🇯🇲
Yeah the thing is people are complaining about literally the blessings God has given Niki - which is hilarious because that's just how much he can love on anyone who pays attention. People get blessed in different ways but wealth and material goods is one of those ways!! I have a similar situation/level of ability to have stuff and skincare and whatever and I know exactly why I have all the things that I have! God is good and anyone who questions what Niki has is not paying attention to her life. Loved hearing the background story of Ms. Operation Niki, about her marriage, everything. What a fun beautiful person. I can only imagine the depth of relationship someone could have with her. Femininity, class, and grace at its finest. Beautiful!!
I didn't know her story but I knew there was one and I'm happy to be here for it. Niki's content is inspiring. B. Simone keep doing what you do. ❤❤❤
NIKKIIII !!!! I love her!!!
I’m always watching her videos like mannnn I gotta level up 😂😂😂 so glad to get a glimpse into her heart ❤
Yessss im so unorganized but I've been trying really hard since I'm a single mom and girl i will start it but it doesn't stay consistent 😂😂 her videos have been my motivation my amzon wishlist has alot of her items she uses in her videos! Im like we gonna try this again!
Thank you for showing us this side of her, I’ve watched her videos for so long and have been wanting to know her better. I love her even more now! Her calm confidence is EVERYTHING
I love Niki!!! I’m happy B.Simone was able to give her this platform to showcase who she really is as person out side of her cleaning videos
I have been wanting to heat Nikki's story for the LONGEST. Thank you for having her here!
This is exactly what I needed to watch in this moment! Thank you Niki and B. Definitely cried during this one.
Oh my goodness I felt this episode! When you’re excelling in certain areas and others around you are not, and you want to bring them with you! Jesus! Who wants to be at the top alone?
I normally don’t comment on videos, but this one moved me! This was a crossover I didn’t know I needed!! Two beautiful women lifting each other up. Wishing you both peace and love ❤️
Niki is so beautiful! Wow! She is so glam and pretty and her energy is so calm
I just love everything about Nikki she's a breath of fresh air I always catch myself being stuck on her page as well keep putting your beautiful love in the world... I'm here for it...
I’m just now tuning in, I’m hoping to learn more about Nikki! I’ve been following her for about a year or two! Super excited about this!
Very relatable interview… i learned that relationships, whether romantic and/or friendships are mirrors to reveal where you are not free. God definitely took me through a pruning phase where any and everyone dropped from my life. It can feel lonely, but I used the time to discover myself… likes/dislikes. It all came back to self-love and boundaries ❤
The interview i knew i needed to see/watch/hear. I have been following Nikki for the very things B said about her. Her essence is very real and can be felt through the videos she shares. Thank you for this beautiful talk that I know for sure I needed!!🦋💜🫂
This was an amazing episode! Niki really does exude femininity! She’s speaks so calm and assuringly! She is a treasure! (Everyone is 🤭) but I’m grateful we all can share the bit of her that she does share because she is really an influencer of cleanliness, femininity, self care and GREAT energy 🙏🏾✨
This was an amazing episode, Thank you for having her on the #LTTA POD lol , she just gained a new supporter I went to her page and got HOOKED, I LOVE CLEANING/ORGANIZING VIDEOS. I love her energy and seems so kind and loving.
Shut up B. I'm literally obsessed with this lady. Omg....., how did you know 😂😂😂❤❤❤❤
I love how she takes such good care of her husband 🥰. Nothing wrong with loving your family down to detail.
That's my girl Nikki!!! I love you. I can't wait to finish this episode ❤❤❤
Thank you B & operation Niki! y'all got me in tears at work!! xoxoxo Bless u 2 sista...thank you for feeling spirit, heart & mind this morning...
I love me some Niki! And watch her videos faithfully! So soothing!! ❤ I get inspired to clean because of her! So glad to learn more about her story. Praying for continued healing for all of us! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊
I never skip any of her videos on tik tok! I just love her aesthetic! Thank you for bringing her on and letting her share her story . It was so good
This was really good. Nikki spirit comes across as so soothing,calm and nurturing. She’s seems like a very lovely person.
That part when she gave her those beautiful flowers of words it was so amazing . I’m also glade she confirm how good smelling Nikki is because I swear I think the same thing. I have been following her two years and have been wondering that. And she in Tennessee too I would love to come across Nikki in person she seems amazing
Ephesians 3:20-21
This is an awesome Podcast. I enjoyed Operation Nikki for the first time ever joining. I pray that God bless you all abundantly this is so uplifting. I pray for y’all marriage that the will of God will stay at the center of y’all life. 20 Now unto him that is able to do exceeding abundantly above all that we ask or think, according to the power that worketh in us,
21 Unto him be glory in the church by Christ Jesus throughout all ages, world without end.
Amen.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽