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- Iyanla responds to a letter from a daughter asking for help with her angry mother and soon realizes that there are far deeper issues threatening her family, including a home packed with 14 houseguests.
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all these people living rent free bill free in HER HOUSE and they have the nerve to say SHES THE PROBLEM
Exactly that part
Well that doesn’t negate her being rude to them. Yeah we could argue that if they don’t like it, they can leave but still…
@@JLPerryTVif they don’t like her being rude they can move they grown a**** out! I don’t like living with my people, guess what I did…moved the hell out!
The ENTITLEMENT! SMH!!
@@JLPerryTVit’s her house. If she’s rude to them they should probably leave.
That GROWN one with FOUR children ???? She would need to go IMMEDIATELY ✌🏾😒
IMMEDIATELY!!
IMMEDIATELY !!!! I’m yelling as I type this 😂😂😂
Immediately!!!
And build a mote.
Right, and you noticed after the show she got those kids in school. When Iyanla asked about the kids school curriculum you can clearly tell from her expression that she was lying!
Her husband was the ringleader of disrespect. All those people in there and she was living all alone.
FACTS!!!
@@Maya-ln1osfacts
Def understand why she was ready to leave him, smh
Exactly
Yeah he is . He is allowing his wife to be talk about like she the devil or something
But she isn’t mean enough for y’all to get tf out
OKAY!
Exactly!
this!!!
Hello! 💅🏾
Righttt?!
This episode bothered me so much because they were the problem, not the mum.
ALL those people expecting HER to accommodate for them. In HER house. The audacity is astounding
I feel you, not even 5 min in & I'm pissed! I may not be able to finish this.
And she is so broken. It absolutely kills my soul.
Exactly
Exactly
Why was Jamal upset when Iyanla called it Her house?? Sir it is HER HOUSE. You’re saying all this respect me respect me but you can actually leave HER house and not be disrespected
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He needs a swift kick of reality and put on the streets
Because he feels like it's his uncle's home since he's the "man of the house".
That part!! TF!
Facts‼️🎯
Mac refusing to continue the healing process after he got called out by Iyanla for not standing up for his mother when the other people were disrespecting her is bs. Sir you’re not upset, you’re ashamed. You know you were wrong and that’s that!
That parttttttttt!!!!
And he reiterated that point by not participating in his mother’s healing. Very shameful if you ask me
I give him a little credit for addressing the real source of conflict by moving out. His mom's issues predate the houseguests and none of them really care about her feelings. They just wanted Iyanla to placate her so she wouldn't pull rank and force them out. Now they can mooch in peace.
Exactly because they Father is a Punk and he is upset because he is one as well!
Just my thinking from watching too many scary movies lol
You know how at the end of some scary movies they show a scene that the "scary thing" hasn't died yet hinting to their being another movie.
Well since Mac moved out. And he wasn't there during the healing process.
It's kinda like Mac taking that toxic pathology with him to spread to his new family (if he creates one)
So there might be a sequel of what the family went through before Iyanla came but through Mac's lineage.
They all up in her house invading her space and no privacy .They drove that lady to drinking and then had to nerve to wonder why she was angry.
Yeah, but oh boy the husband was the main problem. He should have respected his wife and told family NO
@@lutishahill1393 he was the main contributor to this woman’s pain and I am so disappointed in his behavior as a husband. It seems like he did it intentionally to hurt her
Exactly
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Agreed. And the husband allowed all of it, painting a picture that's making it all her fault. No wonder things spiraled out of control.
I was so disgusted with this episode, especially her 2 children who sat there and participated in calling their mum a witch, after her home was invaded by 14 ungrateful strangers.
Step 1- Get OUT OF MY HOUSE.
Right! That’s it. That’s the whole process 😅
Shiiiid, step 1 should have been you're not coming in my house, not with all that entitled garbage mentality!
Yes indeed
Step 2...go upstairs ansd pack your husband's bags too....
Please say it louder. So the people in the back can hear that get out.
I’m only 15 minutes in and I’m pissed for Carrie. The nephew has a lot of nerve to get upset with her in a house he is living in for FREE!
I could tell they had a different relationship. He was hurt by the abandonment from her that he needed. She had it to give once she was safe in her husband arms
Like most Gay men he wants to be the "Lady" of the house, and he needs to be a man first and get his OWN Apartment
It's time for all guest to leave the house. Bye
I don’t know how the mum put up with his family . Absolutely not!!!
14 ppl?! 9 children?! That's a school! I would sleep in my car!
That part 😂😂
Like are they really surprised?? I’d be slamming doors & disassociating as well !
@@africansister 💯💯
That part. Off this whole scene
No, school is OUT FOR SUMMER!! They’ve got to go!😂😂😂
I was hoping her husband would say... Y'ALL GOT 30 DAYS to find a place!
30 days is too much
"Let me just go in the bush and weep." Ms. Iyanla is funny for no reason.
Iconic line 😂
Hilariously funny 😂
I use this to this day 😂😂😂😂
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She sure did weep….. loosing a child is no joke. It probably triggered her💔💔💔
My mother raised me with….”if you don’t like it in here then, LEAVE”….guess this family never got the memo.
Same but my mother won’t take the same approach with my nephews
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The mom is drinking to cope because she feels disrespected and disregarded in her own home. She feels betrayed by her husband because he failed to advocate and defend her. Her lashing out is her manifestation of pain.
That’s probably the only time she feels any bit of happiness
So perfectly stated 👌🏻🎯💯
Perfect! Plus I reallyyyyyy understand how she feels.
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i've never seen Iyanla weep like that in an episode, you can tell she deeply understands the wife's pain and shes being attacked by his family on top of grieving for her deceased child
I was crying because I couldn’t believe them. In the beginning it had me hot! Sad yelling at the TV especially the cousin man as a husband and as siblings he and his mom if that’s his mom need to get out
But that’s sad she lost a week old baby and all these kids I’m watching grow up and my kids grown and they don’t understand that
When that lady cried in Iyanlas arms that touched my soul. I felt her pain
Definitely felt the same!
That hits really deep😭😭
Me too.
The need to get out of her damn house! Period
Yes! She let go and let her heart break. She felt safe in Iyanla’s arms. 😭😭😭
IDC how many hugs were given, I STILL want them people out of MS.CARRIES house!!!!!!!!!!! ✌✌✌✌✌
THAT WHOLE PART!!!
This is the reason I don’t want to live with family members. I like being alone and in peace.
Amen to THAT!!!🎯💯
Yesss that part
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Yes God!!
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I knew that mom wasn't the problem after the first ninety seconds... How can people be so entitled?
When Iyanla said this was her ministry not a TV show, she never told a lie
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It’s amazing how she was unsure if she could help them that she cried. But then God worked through her
@JLPerryTV yes, it was beautiful to see the healing in that family
You can see how much of herself she puts into each show. It wasn't sustainable for her human body, but she has left a legacy for others to benefit from learning, growing and healing. These shows are her pyramids which stand the test of time. Thank you so much, Iyanla, for allowing God's healing work through you 💜🙏🏾.
The son Mac is soft for allowing his cousin to disrespect his Mom and that’s why he got upset when Iylanla said something to him about it
I would've had my cousin face leaking blood
Scurried off like the rat he was. How do you allow someone to talk about your mother like that???? Just shameful.
The entitlement is astounding.
I feel so bad for Carrie that she’s the scapegoat
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It made me sick. It's obvious they were trying to push her out so they can continue to leech in peace
I am extremely nice! But if all these people were in my house I would be a PSYCHO
that's too many people right. looks like chaos. ditto the psycho bit.
Saaaame😂😂,, you can't talk to and about me like that!
Not in my house
I can't imagine that many families under one roof
Right?? Reactive abuse is real. Then the antagonizing abusers sit there and play victim like this whole family did.
Me too... I would have left after a week
Ive never seen Auntie Iyanla break down like that😢
The problem is too many people living in her house. I believe she would be better if she had her privacy.
And why is a niece and nephew there?? Kick them out to THEIR parents
I thought those were his sister children that was also living there
And I believe her cousin told her how things were going the day before and she was already on like 8 with her. 38:58
And the one with 4 kids she keeps reproducing and no taking responsibility 😮
This was episode is where we seen iyanla affected the most. I never seen her cry. Plus my favorite line "let me weep in the bushes"
I love that part too
8 minutes in and I am PISSED! The nephew would’ve BEEN slapped and out!
The husband set the tone for the disrespect to his wife. She apologized way too much in their own home. Wow!
That lady and her 4 kids would have 30 days to move
2 weeks and 1 day would be all i give her lol
That was the party I was waiting for. When are they all moving out?
She looks like a darn junkie to me
Mr. Respect me, would have to hit the door too
All of this 🥹 these people have got some cheek!
I remember this episode because it bothered me how everyone was blaming the mom for her behavior when it was because of them all along. Grown a** people (w/ children) living in HER house and she's the problem?!?!?!
And not just because of them but also the unfortunate loss of her newborn child 🥺
RIGHT!!! THE NEPHEW IS A WHOLE MESS HE CAN GO! AND THE HUSBAND LIKE YO YOU CHOSE HER AS WIFE AND YET YOU'RE NOT PROTECTING!!
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People ran Iyanla off T.V and she was healing people for real. To see Iyanla cry was gut wrenching. She put her heart and soul in these episodes. People criticized her, made fun of her, and she said she will never return. Imagine how much of Gods work she could have done.
Yes 😢❤
The crazy thing is: the demographic to watch this show are the ones who bullied her because THEY weren’t ready to see themselves. It’s really quite pathetic 😢
Whew I can tell she needed that hug from Iyanla in the hotel room❤
I can feel those types of hugs from my couch when i see Iyanla give them.
The way she cried😢😢😢! I bet aunty Iyanla gives the best hugs
Omg yes... Iyanla gives the best hugs♥️
She probably needs to cry and grieve and process her feelings and she doesn't even have the privacy in her own home to just let it out. 😢
I would be overwhelmed overstimulated and on edge. I don’t blame the mom at all!!
Nothing hurts as much as disregard from your own husband
Having to bite your tongue because it's his family, coming after everyone else. My heart weeps for her as it weeps for me.
May you be blessed and live the life of your dreams that you truly deserve ❤
@@kilaa3417 Thanks sis.. that means a lot❤️
@@mbalenhlebuthelezi3198 You're welcome love, I'm very sorry for what you're going through. just know God didn't put you on this earth to be disregarded -- Hope you do little things every day that make you happy, and that you pray for this to be resolved - I'll send a prayer for you too
Iyanla helped him lie. He originally said he hoped his wife would leave on her own. Because she don’t pay any bills, he doesn’t respect her or her opinions.
The way she cried in that hug you could see she been hurting for a long time and never got a hug
That lil nephew would not be in my house. As a matter of fact not any of them would be there. I would give each and everyone of them a hard deadline. Period.
Yes. Y’all got 45 minutes to gtfo my house.
@@Mrs.Adrian45 mins😂😂😂For real tho
Good lesson from here. Never be too accommodative. the wife is too good to all those people.
Especially the one with four kids. She is very lazy. Your kids aren't even in school?! Who are you to talk? And what stuff does she need to get done? She ain't paying rent. Just making babies
@@Mrs.AdrianYou alright w me! Get your 🤬 and beat it!!!😂😂😂
this is one of the worst families ive ever seen in my life. That poor woman. I am flabbergasted by how they treat her!!!!!!!
Enablers are poison.
Same here
They could just LEAVE her house! Problem solved.
14 people?! 9 kids??! Lakilla???!!! This felt like a boondocks episode
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Lmaoooooo
At the end he should’ve told everybody that they have 30-45 days to find new living arrangements, period.
This is one of those families where we need a part 2 and 3
They have a lot of audacity for free loaders!
This is one the most upsetting episodes of Iyanla because the audacity of this man's family was ASTOUNDING. Also, hopefully CPS was called about those kids not being in school because the mother didn’t care at all.
That woman was a whole mess! I could tell there was something very off about her with the way she was so disrespectful by walking off like that and giving Iyanla that lip smacking, neck rolling, side eye energy when she asked if she had a home school curriculum. Truth be told, she probably didn't even know what Iyanla was talking about. Clearly, she had her own issues and walking away was easier than accepting healing because in order to do that you have to take responsibility. Would love updates on these shows because it's been ten years and more for them.
@@DarlingNikki2 Well my guess is that the ghetto girl is till serving time and her kids are living in the same house with THEIR kids, and the "lady of the house" fled the scene of the living hell she endured and Uncle Pumpkin is senile and sitting in a corner somplace.
23:06 The way she threw that fish on his desk and the *thud* sound it made 😂😂😂😂
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😂😂😂😂 cracks me up every time 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 THANKS FOR THE TIME STAMP?!!!
I thought she was going to go into a metaphor about having bigger fish to fry 😂😂😂
None of them realized how much pain and trauma she was dealing with. Just having those small children living there in the house with her could have been so triggering. Im truly praying for her.
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Absolutely agree!!
Wow didn’t think of the kids being a trigger that’s why she isolates
@keyairab1002 right! Being that she has traumatic pain with her on past of small children I bet non of them really took in consideration that seeing them daily could trigger pain of what could have been with the children that she lost.
14 people living in HER HOME! There is no peace or sanctuary. They are not making any attempt to move out on their own. The entitlement is unreal.
The husband totally disregarded her and allowed them to move in. I hope this woman was able to move on and start healing.
With 9 children too. That’s nothing more than a hostel atp
Wow! I thought the the 9 kids were included in the head count of 14. God Bless her. Can't even turn around with that many people living there.
Oh yeah they are! Sorry 9 kids+5 adults. My bad
I would not let my mom be degraded like that. It is her house. She worked for it
I believe that the big house makes family run to them first. The extra space for empty nesters does not mean that the rooms are for family.
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Divorce him and fight for whatever percentage of the business you're entitled to. He chose his relatives over you.
Shame on her kids for allowing someone to talk so reckless abt her! She deserves better we need an update ❤
The father allowed it! 🤷🏽♀️
@@KnowWhat your right! He’s wrong just as much as they are
My mother in law was at my house for 11 months after I had my baby, and I almost lost my MIND. I could not IMAGINE. My Lord
How do you homeschool a child when YOU don't have a home?..
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Girlllll😂😂😂😂😂
A home school with no home? How dreadful .
@@Mrs.Adrian 🤣😂 not the Dwight
After the Lady of the house announcing, all smiles left the faces.
Oooooooh, Ms Ki'la would not be permitted to remain in my house with that kind of disrespect. The way she responded to Iyanla after being missing from the process and called it bull cr*p! No way mam! To the left 👈🏾.
Exactly!! How you gone homeschool yours kids in somebody else house lol that’s crazy
@@pinkpetals601I was thinking who or what is she teaching exactly?!! Not to judge a book by it's cover but her attitude & patience is thin so I can't see her taking time on any curriculum!!
@@dememurphy7859 exactly!! I’m like no ma’am put them kids in school please. Her attitude was so nasty to be living in somebody else house smh
I feel sorry for the kids if she is homeschooling them smh
@@TierneyWashington1983 They're probably grown now these episodes are old but I hope they turned out well... They said she enrolled them in school at end of show
Everyone calls her a b including the son and husband. The nephew calls her a witch. What a bunch of evil people.
I’ll be scared living in that house, I feel for her
This is beautiful. The breakthrough between the husband and wife. They’ll be okay. Now get those people out of your house. Iyanla we need you back.
Agree 🌷🤎
I hope it lasts and gets stronger. But, the husband saying he didn't care and how he hoped that she would leave was heartbreaking.
Iyanna is wild for bringing that fish in that house 🤣
I was hoping it ends with an eviction notice! I was truly praying they leave.
Where are they now?
I would be on edge too! Too many grown people and all them kids running around…ain’t no way!!
"And imma flip right on out the door." Whew! I felt that😢
I love how Iyanla handled this situation. They thought they were going to gang up on her with Iyanla’s help and that clearly didn’t happen. A house full of ppl who don’t want to deal with their own mess
LaKilla???? Oh she gotta go and take that name with her 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 !
What a group of entitled people !
So, so disgusting. It makes me feel queesy.
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Their uncle is to blame unfortunately he gave them the grace to be
Their uncle is to blame unfortunately he gave them the grace to be
Is it just me or does anyone else think her husband moved all his people in on PURPOSE to eventually make her want to leave her the home and then ultimately the marriage 🤔
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That man has that captain save a hoe complex, especially when those hoes are his family.
He literally said that he was hoping SHE LEAVES!!! .. it was absolutely on purpose!! 24:46
Yup! It's because he wasn't loving his wife like he was supposed to otherwise he would have known that she was still grieving over their child's death. He wasn't willing to face the elephant in the room.
When Iyanla walked up and said Good Morning none said anything😢. Just sad I feel this woman’s pain. She can’t even enjoy her own home with all them adults there. She is angry because she wants you all to leave.
Several adults in the home, all of them working age and not one of them seemingly working?!?! i would be pissed too!!
I can’t believe none of them saw the problem
Never do when people want things their way
Selfish
Oh they saw It identified it and all they just didn't give a f!ck 💯
Retards!
So La'kila had 4 kids and none if them were in school? How are you home schooling children in someone else's home?
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Where are the daddies, she keeps reproducing with no responsibility 😢, her entitlement is beyond comprehension
They all just need to move out the lady’s house 🤷🏽♀️ that’s the resolution
Yup that and what Iyanla had the husband and wife do
“When you leave there you take you with you”. What a profound statement.
That man said he didn’t care about her feelings and she felt all of it.
The way she weeped in his arms 😢
Another upload just in time for my lunch break. Y’all got my auntie crying in the begin ?! Oh hell no !😫
Right?!! 👏👏💫💜💞
Lunch break is brave! I can only watch these in the evening, when i can take the time to hysterically cry for hours during and after.
Girl, let’s jump em! I don’t play about my Auntie. I would’ve packed up all my ish and left the husband there with what he created. A mad house 😂 I would’ve turned my device off and been somewhere sipping a margarita. I wouldn’t spend one red cent in that household.
How can NONE of them care about this woman? None. Heartless
Selfish, spoiled jerks!! Unbelievable that they are all so sure they are right.
Oh Ms. Iyanla got me in tears with this episode. This episode shows how selfish, insensitive and mean humans can be to each other. Every episode helped to be a better person to my children, friends and others. Excellent job Ms. Iyanla!!
That nephew 😠
First time I've ever seen Iyanla crying 😢
14 people and they wonder why that lady mean and drink a lot?
I don't how she even stayed that long living in that situation. The hurt of losing baby is still deep and raw. I hope she continues with Iyanla one-on-one in therapy.
Is slapping someone like Jamal legal? The entitlement is through the roof 😮. It's her damn house, he needs to get his own house and demand for respect that way. Huh!
He needs an ice cold drink thrown in his face. Not the glass, just the ice cold liquid.
LMAO! Just plain rude..
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In Africa it is
Recently, a guy in my country Kenya, a city called Kisumu, was beaten by neighbours for GBV
We endorsed that 😂😂
@@dorahmulinge3800what’s that? GBV?
&&& the fact she allowed 14 grown as people with kids live with her RENT FREE is mind blowing ... We need a update on this family . .😢😢😢😢😢
I can't believe that you left this lady in the same space with these disrespectful, toxic people
Well damn... when the husband just out right called her a b****. 🙃
He actually the one that's a b*tch
These entitled clowns are ridiculous!!!i would love to see sn update on this family
Update= they STILL there...not contributing in any way.
@@raycurry4168you know what 😂 I hope that’s not true , that would be a hot mess
I love iyanla could immediately see through the bs & understand that this woman wasn’t the real problem here
Man but they DONT have to live there lol
True hey
They don't!!
I need an update, whoo Chile!
I cried when I seen her break down in iyanla arms like that . She needed that hug
My mom always said if you don't like to abide by MY RULES IN MY HOUSE YOU CAN GET THE F... OUT. the audacity of these people
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Interesting how much she keeps emphasizing that it’s HER house and the family keeps side stepping that when they’re explaining “the problem” 🥴
Imma start using that saying with all the stuff going on in the world. “Let me just go in the bush and weep.” 😆 “I just have to go in the bush and weep.” 😭 OWN keep cranking out these episodes!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
She might be like that because of too many people. She need peace of mind.
Exactly
Right! Hell, I'm mad, and it's not even my situation!
@@tiheshakpI swear I’m all frowned up at my phone lol
Fr though, she’s overstimulated and i dont blame her one bit!!
Now I'm crying, seeing Mr. WILL AND Carrie crying.
Baby when Iyanla said she would've choked that disrespectful nephew with his imaginary pearls I gagged! Because that was exactly what he needed to hear! He was out of line!
The niece's drug addiction is something else being swept under the rug! And why the children are there and she's not. And why they're not attending school.
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I laughed so hard about the pearls attack lol😅
The way it keeps going over their head when she keeps emphasising “IN HER HOUSE” 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
They nephew acts like he head of household 😢this family is the problem and her son knows it😢 the mom is NOT THE PROBLEM
This episode has just broken me. Many women go through this all the time. It is so so painful. The only thing people can do is to trust love.
They drove that woman to drinking. They living under her roof rent free and have the nerve to complain about her. Smh. I hope she finds peace 🙏🏾