Non-Traditional Women EXPECT Traditional Men
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Typical modern woman disrespect. It isn’t her name, it’s her fathers name. The fact that he tolerates that speaks to the man he is.
This is just pathetic on his part.
He had a world of pain ahead of him.
Well it isn't his name either, it's his father's name. Stop trying to be triggered, it's sad.
@@kevinathans4191 it’s a respect issue. Women get almost all the benefits and far less risk in a marriage. The fact that a woman won’t do that relatively small thing for you is disrespect that will spill over elsewhere much of the time. Bad precedent to set.
Most men who are wise will not tolerate this behavior from these women. If a man is not respected from a potential partner in a traditional way, then he needs to move on. There are traditional women in other country's who are looking for Tha same type of man. I wouldn't waste my time trying to romance a pig. No matter how good you treat it a pigs a pig and you will eventually get dirty and start rolling in the poo with them. Be a man king and not a pawn
P.S. They want to keep their daddy's name that he passed to them but want to deny that to their husbands. Hard pass on that level of disrespect and backwards prioritization.
🎯 If their maiden name from their father is that important, give it to the kid as a middle name.
@@brawndothethirstmutilator9848 not bad.
Preach it!!! These females have TRULY lost it.
It’s telling when “I don’t care” and “it’s not a big deal” turns into “are you insecure” and “is it some dominance thing?” In a feminist’s mind, even if you don’t care, you can still shame him for his choices.
Children take the man’s surname because he’s responsible for provisioning for and protecting them.
My friend is from Portugal, her parents had a 8 kids. The weird thing is, two out of the 8 have the mother's last name, the others are the father's. Then there's the Spanish who use fifteen hypanated last names.
@@waitwhat32yearsand96thank you. It's ridiculous they don't understand the significance of why we men value our last names in a marriage an family the way they are supposed to value there wombs not having children before marriage. A women that damages,embarrass or destroys the families image or breaks it up for there dumb selfish desires an greed is can forever ruin. That last name for him his reputation an his kids lives an futures. It's the same when women don't think an stupidly allow unqualified an loser men out of there uncontrollable sexual lust inside them an impregnate them an the. She becomes a single mother an no man ever wants to be with her, marry her or ever provide for those children that were never his tobegin with. There wombs being valued an cherished is an should be that big of a deal for them to take seriously.
A man's last name for marriage and a woman's womb being protected until after marriage are an should always be that sacred of things for all men an women to start believing matters alot for there future.
"Buffet approach to equality".........I like that. Perfectly describes how a lot of 'modern women' act.
They say something stupid, get hit with logic, then start backtracking and claiming 'insecurity'..... 🙄🙄🙄
My dad never remarried after my mom passed away in 1993. He said, I will not give my last name to another woman. We were reminded growing up, that every time we leave the house, we carry our father's name and we shouldn't do anything to shame it. It's more than just a last name, it's family honor.
If someone doesn't believe in marriage, then they shouldn't have children as well. Because as far as traditional goes, having a unit as a family with the same last name is what made the society.
Or you can do it like Indonesians do. No middle and last name.
Some of Indonesian ethnic group still have that tradition of giving family names but majority doesn't do that since forever.
In the tombstone however the Muslim use Arabic naming system using Bin and Bint followed by Father name.
If society wants men to marry, even the playing field a bit by writing some protections for men back into the marriage laws.
@@sloebone7399 I agree. The marriage law in the west or in US has no care for the family unit. The law should keep the family together and not incentivize the party that wants to break it.
@@sloebone7399 that's the problem is west they always appeal to fringe group/questionable policy be it in regime change or internal politic, they always paint this in virtue signaling.
This over feminist agenda is about the same as bashing Hijab in Muslim country or pushing law that allow homosexuality in other countries and use them for protest and creating social unrest.
It is after all something that the West good at, they want chaos
'If someone doesn't believe in marriage, then they shouldn't have children as well.' Where does this insane logic come from? It's one of the most idiotic thing I've ever read. 50% chance of divorce, 70-90% of which is initiated by women. Only dumb conservative men still believe in marriage.
Last name is a deal breaker .
If she don't want your last name, that's cool. She can keep her name, be herself. She can die alone. If she don't want my name, she don't respect me. That's all you need to know that she does NOT take you seriously.
Plenty of BETA MALES that will take her last name
Maybe her cats will take her last name
😂😂😂😂
The adoption of the husband’s name indicates to the world that the woman is now are that man’s protection.
That is why, during the wedding ceremony, the man stands to the right of the woman when taking their vows, so that his (right) sword arm is free.
The father walks the daughter down the isle and places her hand in the hand of her husband to be, indicating to the world that responsibility for her protection has passed from the father to the husband.
Poor left handed dudes.
"I expect a man to pay and provide for me while I go out and get sausage from other men." ~Modern Woman
my last name holds so much honor i would never give up my last name for a woman!! there are so many good men and women before me and i would never disrespect them by taking a womans last name
Women want traditional benefits, but dont want the responsibility that comes along with it.
"If there is a home invasion, who would deal with it?"
Modern woman:
"It's not a big deal"
Sure it is... what that the chance that idea survives contact with reality?
"Insecurity"... no, it is not. Pragmatically, it's like a business acquisition: the company that is taking on the most risk/ investing more usually becomes the "umbrella" under which the others fall. Practically, it's far simpler, Lineage wise; most marriages _joined families,_ but it was the _head's_ duty to carry everyone hence they all had one name, this could be either, but usually male. Respect wise, a man is *dedicating himself to you, legally, at a contractual disadvantage...* and his name _isn't_ an honor to you?
Thank you for being the voice of reason. Especially since so many of us are thoroughly programmed.
@@angrydragon4574 I only seek to provide valid information, friend. Admittedly, though...the idiot gaslighting tactics many of these female panelists fall to by default irks me often, so it's compelling to offer some rational, logic-based data to debunk the crap they say so recklessly.
Here’s the problem that none of these gals are addressing.
Even if they were able to find a man that would be willing to accept these terms in regards to the last name, they would perceive such an action as weakness. Such weakness on a man’s part that he isn’t willing to fight to hold on to his last name or even have it carry on with his offspring will make these gals instantly lose respect for him. And a woman who doesn’t respect their man will treat him like crap.
It's because women hate men and are psychological terrorists. They want to be in a constant state of arguing.
Never be a traditional man for a non traditional woman.
It’s a respect thing and if you don’t take his last name you don’t respect him it’s that simple
The only loyalty the have is to themselves.
Spanish people have been having 2 last names since the beginning of time. First last name is father - second is mother’s first last name. The world survived just fine 😂
These aren't Spanish people we're talking about.
I'm a teacher and several of my high school senior students have three hyphenated last names. None of the student's parents are married, all out of wedlock, some from broken families. Some of the students may not graduate. For the ones that graduate, imagine having to announce their last names during the graduation ceremony?
So either her husband's name or her father's name...
A wise man once said, “She’s for the streets!”
Woman, you NEVER had YOUR lastname! It's your FATHER's lastname!
THANK YOU!!! 🎉
I swear to atheism, if I hear one more girl ask if a man's standard comes from insecurity I'm gonna lose it.
The follow up question should be "Insecure about what?" They won't have an answer and if they so it will be some form of sexual shaming.
They are all strong independent women till its convenient for them not to be. 😅
"She's just a girl. She's emotional."
"I'm going to keep my maiden name." You mean your grandfather's name?
Keep the last name but when you ask for a divorce don’t ask for no child support or alimony
I think that guy she's with is expecting to leave.
My step Mom kept her ex husband's name after she married my dad because she wanted to have the same name as her two children she has with her ex. I think it's so disrespectful.
" buffet approach to equality I like your expression.
Having a name which sounds good won't make people remember it, how you make your name valuable is what it takes.
It's a very big deal .. her working is irrelevant she could be a queen, and it would still be irrelevant. Tradition doesn't change, it's no longer tradition if it changes. ( Seriously, wealthy ruling queen's have married men with no money and still changed the name )
0:32 “rememberable” - Amazin’.
WTF this is a page from my life. I dumped a woman just for this same thing. If my name isn’t good enough for you then F off lol. I was a bit of a simp at that point too and even in that state something said the situation was unacceptable.
I get the reason why you would choose the memorable last name. Most companies, brands and discoveries have their name come from the founder or discoverer. At this point your name can be a brand in itself especially if you become a content creator. The only problem I of picking the memorable name is losing some of the surnames and it's harder to trace your lineage.
“It’s rememberable!”
Jesus Christ….
Equality should be equal. If one side gets to pick and choose what to be equal about, then... No thank you.
These people talk for 3 minute and then contradict themselves Over and over and over and then say that is there answer
Damn, I love it when they trot out the insecurity argument for anything they don't agree with.
Meanwhile, if a man doesn't talk about his feelings, they're worried he's upset at them, instead of the innumerable other things it could be.
A woman takes her husband's name because it is a powerful symbol. In marriage, a man is literally taking a daughter from her father's family, and entering a new family. If the woman rejects her husband's surname she is essentially saying to her husband, "I am not a part of your family, and I don't respect you or your family." That is twice as bad if you refuse his surname to the children. A nuclear family is meant to be ONE family. Not some hyphenated mess of disrespect and disunity.
There is no way she can spin this to make the men come off like he's controlling. The other women are even laughing at her knowing what she's saying is retarded
It really doesn't matter to me but yet we're talking about it. She's lying basically LOL
"Is it an insecurity thing" bahahahahah
"Rememberable"
Imagine hyphenating your last name and thinking that’s an upgrade lmao
If someone breaks in and you have kids, you’re both taking care of it. Nothing can get to my kids and mama bears can be vicious.
I was about to ask what was up with the bar of soap on the table, but then I read what was on it and now I dont wanna talk about it :D
"I'll be keeping my last name I don't want a man's last name"
"You mean you'll be keeping your grandfather's last name?"
I'm pretty lucky. Everybody wanted my last name growing up.
Modern women love to pick and choose their benefits and responsibilities that only favor them.
I checked out after she said rememberable for the 3rd time.
I'm sick of these massively arrogant modern women.
It's only about what they want. Eff the family. The compromise is my way or nothing.
Bingo. There's been a concerted effort by communists over the last 100 years to make women into narcissists in order to destroy the family unit. Feminism is an offshoot of communism. Once the family is destroyed the children grow up maladjusted and dependent upon the state. I can't get into who is behind communism because that would be anti-Semitic.
When I got married my wife took my name, when we got divorced she had the option to go back to her maiden name but choose to keep my name.
That's such a bad argument from the moderator, 50-50 in terms of last names means both go and confront the burglar not just the female!
These children want a daddy to take care of them not a husband.
The word is "memorable".
I'd even take "Memorex".
So my surname is a Saint.... So I was damn sure my wife and children are being honoured with that lastname.
The women are right about having kids without being married. Brian fucked that up
Don't hyphen do like they do in the Philippines. Fathers name is last,mothers maiden name is in the middle
Interesting. That's how my name is and I'm an American.
Actually this is dependent upon the country some countries they do hide for them so
Say “rememberable” one more time
How dare they have their father's last name?!
They'll have their grandfather's last name!
Keyword: memorable
If a woman has her children take her last name, many people (especially schoolchildren) will assume the children don't know who their father is and/or they have different fathers.
Traditional man worked from dusk till dawn WORKED. not sitting in front of laptop with a pen never writing anything. you will talk tradition xd
"rememberable" is bothering me so much 😂
My wife was going to hyphenate, but instead she made her old last name her middle name. The kids have my last name
Why do these women feel the need to hyphenate, when they can just change their middle name to their maiden name, and use that whenever the mood strikes.
simpy boy likes my name....the marriage is temporary anyways.
Last name don't matter, lemme hear lux one more damn time...😂
The cute babe in the Sailor Suit is yummy. The “Lux” one is like a Dutch Harbor Alaska “4”
"Hunter-gatherers" lol What? I'm a gatherer I guess, lol.
I'm gonna hyphenate
Marriage is a traditional institution..... So wanting marriage, as a modern feminist female, is very hypocritical even from the start 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤷♂️🤦♂️🤷♂️
If he is expected to provide and protect, then she has to offer something of equal value in return. Women instinctively look to a man when times get tough so in order for this to happen he has to have authority in that home. If she won’t take my name then she needs to stay single because she is unfit for marriage.
If I had it my way, I'd gladly drop my last name. Not like there's a shortage of Hunt's. Too many childish, crude jokes go with my last name anyway.
Given the state of current marriage laws, a woman demanding to keep her last name is a huge insult. If you are basically going to become my dependent under the law, you better take my last name.
Here is a list of the things I am truly insecure about
Is Lux a good last name?
If you're a stripper, yes. 🤷♀️
Sounds like a stripper/pornstar name
it is. but it doesnt matter since it should be the father's last name.
If she wants her own last name then she should marry her father and have her father take care of her for the rest of her life.
The spanish have it right - 72 last names ))
Last name of men is given to clearly indicate paternity of the child , heck even nordic cultures have sir names like odinson(son of odin) .
Hyphenated last names are BETA!
Asian women keep their last names and the kids take the name of the father.
I believe in Japanese culture the men would sometimes take last name of his wife’s family in the event his name was dishonored but in western culture the last name is extremely important in father’s sons as they continued his lineage. Daughters never keep fathers last name as it changes at marriage. I don’t want minimize love of a father daughter relationship but men throughout history preferred sons.
I don't think it's a slight if the woman chooses to retain her maiden name, but for her surname to be passed along to the kids instead of the husband's, that's not customary. I mean, I think I could even compromise on the hyphenation as long as it doesn't apply to the kid's as well.
"I like stag it's a cool name" your last name is literally a male deer how is that cool hahaha
People tend to forget that traditions have a social purpose, and no, most of the time it is not because of bigotry or misogynism. In a town, let's say, everybody knows who a child's mother is, it is easy to link a child to his/her mother, she gave birth to them. But there is no easy way to link a child to her/his father. THAT is the reason why families take the father's last name: to link fathers to their children and wives ( in most cultures). The Petersons, the Smiths, the Roberts, etc. If a family decides to take the mother's name, the first one who should change his name is the FATHER, at the time of marriage, before the children are born. Hyphenated names make no sense, only complicate things, and show a lack of commitment to creating a long-lasting family heritage and lineage. Yes, women should lose their last names for the benefit of their descendants. No, it is not misogynistic, is practical.
Surely kids take the man's last name to Confirm they are His Children. We know where they came out of not who put them in there in the first place.
Shit the way these women sleep around in 100 years there may only be 3-5 last names lmao
Surely if the name is hyphenated then you should double team the home invader?
More undesirables
This guy is finding these girls on Hinge? T.F.!?!?!?!? Creepy a.f.!!!
She keeps saying. We havent really had conversation about it. In conversation we talked about it. I want my kids to have my last name. But it doesnt really matter to me.
This Lux gal is walking contradiction.
She said she was fine either way but he still leaned into the burgalur thing. He REALLY wanted pushback. Idk sometimes it feels like Brian really wants to lean into that. Her last name is cool and she thinks itd be nice for her kids. Her man is fine. I would LOVE to see a podcast where the women just all agreed with him. No content. And i bet people in the comments would STILL find a way to clown on them even if they repated talking points verbatim...probably call them "chameleons" or something
Morgan is a 3 out of 10
Who is she??
You dont want the guys last name for your children? Try this…..stay single!!!
Excluding the 2 women with clearly having common sense. The 2 chick's plus the raven haired chick dressed like kagomei from that anime inuyasha making it 3. They are the only women that should be qualified to ever get married. Women don't even understand how precious an significant a man who is a husband's last name really is that they are literally inheriting to keep the continuation of family linage an legacies going. For us men. An im saying this cuz I think alot of men have forgotten just how important it is of a big deal to bestow you're last name to a women that has earned it to become a worthy wife an future mother of you're children. Our names are on the same level of how women are supposed to treat an value there wombs an not have sex before they marry a man that is qualified for them to allow em to give them the best children with really good genetics.
Our last names for us men should be respected an seen as valuable. It's what men should cherish alot when we are growing up being boys to adult men. Look at all the crap that comes from women we have seen time after time destroy so many men of a higher level of status an fame to the basic average but comfortable an loving life as a man who has a significant purpose to provide for his family that gives em joy an fulfillment. When a women that never should have been handed a very high honor for any women to have a man's last name. What have we seen these women do time an time again when they are born in a society where they have the mindset of men an feminist strong an independent me me me an does what she wants with zero care if what that would loo, li,e for the husband's image, respect, character, job, etc etc an what does that do to the children with the humiliation an what they have to go through having mothers that have the same last names as they do. An it will do more damage when these very modern women decide to throw away a title they didn't even comprehend was such a valuable achievement to ever get being a women that will get older an one day be alone, invisible and unwanted by all the men that she would have never given the time of day to or wanted to play with or use cuz she thought those options wanted to commit to em when in actually. They never for a minute ever saw you as anything more than what you have always presented yourself to everyman you wanted to get attention from. An object to have fun with.
A these women don't ever deserve the right to be wives or to have a man marry them when they talk about disrespecting the one thing men should cherish when it comes to creating a legacy. Having there names be carried down. In history way after they are gone. These women don't even cherish there own wombs an the significance of child birth so it makes sense they would behave like men as if they really think any man would ever want to want there wife to hyphen the name they granted to em an want there future children to proudly inherit down the generations