My mother stopped talking to me after I got married What to do
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My 10 years mentor and well wisher and hardship whatever I faced not crossing alone, with the strong community I am having subhanallah 😢
When your children get married, let them be for a while. Let them be in the sense of leave them alone for a month or a couple of months. Let them figure things out, but don't make them think/feel you don't care about them or you won't help them if they are in need of anything.
When you get married(woman) don't get jelous if your husband shows love to his mother. He hasn't figured everything out yet. Plus who are you to be jelous of a man loving his mother? Who were you to him a few weeks ago? That's right, noone.
When you get married(man) don't think your wife will be your slave, yes she should take care of her man however, she's not your slave. Work hard, take it easy and don't get angry. Don't forget your parents and once again, don't get angry! Also DO NOT GET ANGRY!
And Allah knows best, Allahu akbar!
As a man, you can also think like this: You picked a girl to be your wife, you are essentially prying her from her comfortable life to be with you, serving you whom she barely even knew. Treat her well and fulfill your obligation to her.
Could be his behavior towards mom has changed after getting married or may be his mom feels unsecure after seeing her son more inclined towards his wife.. it is the story of every joint family . Keep going and make sure you do justice with your mom. She has lots of expectations on you and yes with your wife too. Just my thought as a layman
thats typical desi behaviour... the wife always comes first since you are starting a new family with her... get her and seperate yourself... visit your parents often and treat them well even financially support them in every way but no matter how good both oarties are wife and mother in law can not live under the same roof without conflict.... thats why its encoyraged in islam to seperate... also there are other issues too but i hope my point is understood
this inclination towards your wife is natural and should be nurtured... the mothet should understand that you cant always keep your son under yohr wing... they ahould be given time to develop compatibility with each other... its whats best for the future family... i have already decided in my youth to facilitate my children moving out after marriage... its not healthy to still be living with your parents after be it a son or daughter..
Shiekh can we take creatine monohydrate during ramadan, it increases atp in the muscle and aids in building muscle
You mean during fasting lol ?
during fasting(swallowing it) is haram otherwsise base of everything is halaal
@@taimurahmad WHATTT😂
These days, the daughter in laws do want to break the family ties. They want the man to throw his parents on the rd and his siblings also. It's not right for anyone to come into a home and destroy family ties. Many cases now where daughter in laws don't want the man to talk to his parents or family, but they want him to adopt her mothe, father and her siblings.
understanding each other is needed.
husband - wife, parents - childrens, brothers - sisters
maintaining communication is very necessary
this is not breaking ties this is a right for women in islam she is also leaving her parents for the man so whats the problem? and not living together doesnt mean you your throwing them to the streets
Desi man , aren't you? Denying the wife's right to want a separate place to live under the guise of not wanting to break family ties.
@daisybee A man with a capital M, would not let ANYONE break his family ties
@samiraislam7927 I know there's nothing wrong with wanting your own place. It's better to have your own place, and your family expands. But to have your own place that the man has paid for and tell him his family is not allowed to visit him in his own home, but her family can. This is just insane. Also if the parents are old and need care, what is the man supposed to put his parents? But she wants her parents to move into the man's home.