What autistic people can teach you about communication | Kalen Sieja | TEDxCU

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  • čas přidán 18. 09. 2023
  • Often portrayed as lacking communication skills, individuals on the autism spectrum actually utilize a communication style that we can all learn from. Autistic activist Kalen Sieja draws on his own (sometimes humorous) experience as an autistic person to demonstrate the surprising lessons we can learn from individuals with ASD.
    Kalen Sieja is a student at the University of Colorado Boulder, where he studies evolutionary biology. Kalen is a passionate autistic advocate and speaker. In his capacity as an engaged political activist, he hopes to utilize his strengths as an autistic person to advance justice, equity, and inclusion. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 65

  • @hadiFez
    @hadiFez Před 8 měsíci +22

    I am really starting to look at ASD people from an inspiring perspective.

  • @rwpopeye12
    @rwpopeye12 Před 8 měsíci +38

    This was a truly comprehensive lecture on those who struggle with ASD. As someone with Asperger’s I can attest to all the strategies I had to come up with to blend in and succeed in life.

    • @FatherSpencer
      @FatherSpencer Před 8 měsíci +2

      Asperger's isn't really used as a diagnosis anymore. It's more appropriate to say you're autistic with low support needs. You didn't do anything wrong, just letting you know. If you want to know why then I'd be happy to elaborate, but It's a bit of a dark subject so I'd recommend doing research on your own rather than talking about it here.

    • @rwpopeye12
      @rwpopeye12 Před 8 měsíci +4

      @@FatherSpencer I understand. Thank you for your thoughtful comment. Personally when I say I have Asperger’s it’s better for my mental health than saying I’m autistic with low support needed. The stigma of autism is something I have struggled with, so I claim to have Asperger’s for the sake of my anxiety.

  • @danmuzicman01
    @danmuzicman01 Před 8 měsíci +7

    Thank you for representing and advocating for us.

  • @snehakalmath
    @snehakalmath Před 8 měsíci +6

    My son is on autism spectrum and I get to learn from him so many things..I feel he is super smart and genius beyond his age..though he can't speak but his actions loudly say that he is unique and special ❤

  • @SanthiyaTheepan
    @SanthiyaTheepan Před 8 měsíci +24

    That was THE best way to educate everyone and she proved her point through the presentation. Simple terms, easy to understand and Used logic and humour to help everyone comprehend how to approach anyone with ASD💕🙏 will truly help me speak to my four year old daughter 🙌

  • @simonwatson1233
    @simonwatson1233 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Fantastic presentation...THANK YOU!! I have an autistic nephew who shocked me at his 18th birthday gathering. "You're my favourite...because you say things the way they are!" I was very humbled but delighted. He struggled at school despite his staggering computer skills which I always told him would become his future....6yrs later he runs a team of IT programmers and earns a very significant salary.
    He still prefers living in a caravan😊

  • @EllieVJ-sz6ot
    @EllieVJ-sz6ot Před 8 měsíci +2

    I hope non autistic people can learn from thus video and appreciated more their autistic friends, beautiful ❤️🙏 Thank you

  • @Dawn_Aramoana63
    @Dawn_Aramoana63 Před 8 měsíci +6

    Just as I thought, quite the intelligent mind. Autism is a rare gift often mistaken for a communicative and behavioral disorder. But, only a gifted person sees something more beautiful, because these disorders are cancelled out of their more clearer minds. Intelligence is nurtured, not branded or stigmatized. That's why I call Autism a rare gift.

  • @puzzles2820
    @puzzles2820 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Thank you for sharing!!! I am a proud Autism dad. My 12 yr old is in regular classroom and a member of the National Junior Honor Society. Locked on being a doctor when at 4 I was wondering how I was going to get him here. Lots of patience and therapies, fights with the school system and even had to hire a lawyer. But all incredibly worth it and we all see the results of early intervention.
    That is why we are Puzzles. Good day to all!

  • @carsonlovescarts
    @carsonlovescarts Před 8 měsíci +3

    Great talk as somone who struggles every day since middle school. Those laughs were absolutely dubbed in at the end, though.

  • @t.nysted4146
    @t.nysted4146 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Well spoken.
    I do however wonder if my dear coworkers will see your Talk 'as it is', once shared by their quirky co-worker with a habit of being lost in translation.
    I often feel like people rejects the world as it is - while it appears clear as day to me. Which makes my input seem naive, our good solutions hard to reach and leaves everyone frustrated.
    Thankfully they do have good faith in me. That is the most important part to establish I feel like.

  • @sophie.whitehead
    @sophie.whitehead Před 8 měsíci +3

    What an informative talk! Truly inspirational and groundbreaking.

  • @jcht6343
    @jcht6343 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Brilliant. You did a fantastic job. Thank you. And thank you TEDx for posting this.

  • @christinascire-roberts8960
    @christinascire-roberts8960 Před 8 měsíci +5

    A thorough and entertaining presentation, thank you!

  • @tomoyaito9295
    @tomoyaito9295 Před 8 měsíci

    As said, the ability to feed the world is very significant folk owned by autistic persons.

  • @kalinakulig1465
    @kalinakulig1465 Před 8 měsíci +3

    You are a stellar role model for the kind of communication you talk about! This talk was so informative and well put together. I hope you're really proud of the results!

  • @roycannon6724
    @roycannon6724 Před 7 měsíci

    OMG. I have been hoping and praying for the logic just like everything she speaks about ASD. I wish she could be close friends with my stepdaughter. I've got to get you two in communication with one another. She is a college graduate and a nurse. I'm constantly overwhelmed and confused.

  • @tanakaren1822
    @tanakaren1822 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Fabulous Kailey, you nailed it!

  • @PuftPrin
    @PuftPrin Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you!, Kailey! That was an awesome presentation and 100% fact!

  • @angelasolorio5235
    @angelasolorio5235 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thanks 🙏 for sharing I really learned a lot today

  • @Lotschi
    @Lotschi Před 8 měsíci +1

    In the past month I have seen some weird Tedx-Talks but this one is amazingly good!

  • @Smlychck15
    @Smlychck15 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Thank you 🫶🏻☮️

  • @siriusa5298
    @siriusa5298 Před 8 měsíci +3

    I loved this 👏

  • @AntoineTutStewart
    @AntoineTutStewart Před 8 měsíci +2

    Amazing!!

  • @treavam5653
    @treavam5653 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Awesome!

  • @sinathipeter5258
    @sinathipeter5258 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Beautiful

  • @hhwippedcream
    @hhwippedcream Před 8 měsíci +1

    Thank you so much for this message! I hope it becomes more widely and popularly understood!

  • @briellefrench8777
    @briellefrench8777 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Wooo Kailey!

  • @shannadowd7176
    @shannadowd7176 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Awesome

  • @Tulku
    @Tulku Před 8 měsíci +2

    Note to editor: please don't edit the laughs so they are cut off.

  • @monicaparkin3148
    @monicaparkin3148 Před 8 měsíci

    Fantastic

  • @teeve1500
    @teeve1500 Před 8 měsíci

    If my autistic daughter wasnt deaf, she would say so! Thank you.

  • @trappevasken
    @trappevasken Před 8 měsíci

    unfortunately the sound is just under my laptop to be clear, but from what I hear - it sounds good ........ 😀

  • @johnngigi5692
    @johnngigi5692 Před 8 měsíci

    1:42 the last few sentences describe me. 😂

  • @mikestaub
    @mikestaub Před 8 měsíci

    I think it's a 2-way street. People with ASD can learn from typicals to become more intune with their emotions, and typicals can learn from people with ASD to not let their emotions rule them.

  • @lakeshagadson357
    @lakeshagadson357 Před 8 měsíci +1

    autistic people can let you know something about yourself

  • @conned
    @conned Před 8 měsíci +3

    People with autism."... ❤

    • @cs5384
      @cs5384 Před 8 měsíci

      "autistic people" is preferred

  • @richardlynneweisgerber2552
    @richardlynneweisgerber2552 Před 8 měsíci

    Hear Here! ;-)

  • @arnoudh6203
    @arnoudh6203 Před 7 měsíci

    Audio sounds really weird and is also delayed? Idk if this was an attempt to improve audio quality, if so put some reverb on it and also don't do the laugh tracks

  • @kittee6409
    @kittee6409 Před 8 měsíci +8

    Sheldon Cooper wasn't written to be autistic. The production team has said this a thousand times.

  • @monavallejo
    @monavallejo Před 8 měsíci +2

    😍😍😍😍😍💪💪💪💪💪👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @DeXio94
    @DeXio94 Před 8 měsíci +2

    this sitcom laugh applause audio edit is really bad. I see no reason to do that in such videos

  • @brendan5419
    @brendan5419 Před 8 měsíci +3

    Goood but why the canned laughter / clapping?! Sounds so fake 😂

  • @mariaantoniettamontella9173
    @mariaantoniettamontella9173 Před 8 měsíci

    applausi😅

  • @ajaysivaramakrishnan7283
    @ajaysivaramakrishnan7283 Před 7 měsíci

    T e d Slide

  • @melbaangel420
    @melbaangel420 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Or my pants are touching my legs

  • @DexClanTv
    @DexClanTv Před 8 měsíci

    🫡🫡

  • @user-bh8ww6ku7u
    @user-bh8ww6ku7u Před 8 měsíci +3

    我愛直播女❤

  • @HikingLeadership
    @HikingLeadership Před 8 měsíci +1

    Hello there! I just came across your fantastic video and it got me thinking about how, much like hiking, the journey of leadership and personal development is a challenging but incredibly rewarding path. 🌄
    That's why I created 'Hiking Leadership,' my CZcams channel. It's all about embracing the similarities between hiking and personal growth. Just as every step taken on a trail brings us closer to the summit, every lesson learned in leadership and development gets us closer to our goals.
    If you're passionate about self-improvement and love the metaphor of hiking, 'Hiking Leadership' is the place for you. Let's embark on this transformative journey together! 🔥
    Feel free to drop by and join the conversation. I'm always excited to connect with fellow travelers on this long and fulfilling expedition. Thanks for your inspiring content, and I look forward to having you as a part of the 'Hiking Leadership' community!L

  • @PremiumSA
    @PremiumSA Před 8 měsíci +3

    Great content and very informative...
    Just constantly seemed like they used a Big Bang theory like laugh track...in my opinion that detracked from the Talk's impact.
    Humor has its place, but I don't watch TED to laugh...I watch TED to learn...if it's funny laughter would come spontaneously...this seemed forced and out of place
    Nevertheless, I'd watch it again for the message

  • @IAn0nI
    @IAn0nI Před 8 měsíci

    Video was good enough without the canned laughter artificially superimposed into it...

  • @98BlackTransAm
    @98BlackTransAm Před 8 měsíci

    what a nice young man

  • @illsmackudown
    @illsmackudown Před 8 měsíci

    try transistioning from autistic to alcoholic

  • @illsmackudown
    @illsmackudown Před 8 měsíci

    autism

    • @arnoudh6203
      @arnoudh6203 Před 7 měsíci +1

      yup that's what the video is about