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0:00 An Entitled Store owner tried to blame me for his failing business, and his need to shut down operations. (u/Elim9919)
3:44 Am I the jerk for deciding to cut off my friend and then ever forgive them for kicking me out of their house? (u/pillolalover96)
10:41 An Entitled woman tires to put MY DOG up for adoption without our consent! (u/Peanutbutterloola)
12:42 I found out my mom is cheating, with concrete evidence and proof, but I don’t know if I should tell my dad, and it is eating me up inside. (u/Tomatinaaa)
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Last story: You should absolutely tell your father. The marriage and family dynamic is already toxic and letting this lie go on is only going to cause mental and emotional strain on everyone involved. It'll be rough at first but that clarity will provide a clean slate to build a new, healthier life from. Plus continuously being subjected to your mother's infidelity is going to destroy your ability to have healthy relationships of your own in the future because you'll be too insecure and overly suspicious of partners to trust them enough to build a strong bond without forcing them to live underneath a microscope that they'll very quickly get tired of. Make sure to get therapy afterwards too because you're going to need it.
Nah bro, i would go nuclear and show it to my dad and brother in front of my mom, i was the op
but yes, you're right on everything else
I was getting mad asf hearing this story like bruh you suck as a daughter
Regarding the second story, I may have misunderstood, but Stella kind of blew them off at the bar. Granted, they spent about a half hour talking inside, but the OP and Billy didn't know anyone outside, other than Stella and the girlfriend. Stella chose to stay at the bar, at which point, OP and Billy were kinda free to do what they wished. 4:00am is a little rough to get back in, but at that point, short of finding an all night diner or something, any time they got back in would have been awkward.
In the story with the girl Stella, OP tried to reach out to her. She tried calling only to have that communication blocked repeatedly. Stella doesn't want to communicate and simply wants to cut OP off. What OP did was wrong, but her friend overreacted to high hell. She didn't bother to confront her about the issue and just cut her off. Someone more is at play than her simply being annoyed OP was hanging out with Billy and losing track of time/being a bit inconsiderate. On top of that they attempted to include her and she flat out refused. I don't know. Stella seems to either be really sensitive or OP is committing details.
Second story. I honestly don't think op is in the wrong at all. First I understand that her friend open her home to op to stay in but that doesn't mean op has to follow her around like a puppy, especially when op was put into a situation where she only know 2 people at the gathering and 1 is already engaged in the activity with others. So op walking to the inside bar with Billy to grab some drinks and chat for a few isn't wrong at all, especially when the probably hadn't really gotten time to 1 on 1 catch up. Also op and billy staying out late is a bit of a problem but in there defense they were both drunk and having too much fun (and don't act like you've never been with a friend and got lost in the moment), Stella should have at the very least sent a text saying the group was heading home as a warning, but I can see why having to wake up in the early morning just to let some drunks in can be annoying
Last story: This is a marriage that should have ended years and years ago. OP telling their father will not ruin their family: it's already ruined. Things won't get worse if they get a divorce. Maybe things get better. The question here is: OP telling their father will put a strain on their relationship with their mother. I think this is the main focus, even if OP don't put it this way. If OP wants to salvage their mother-child relationship, I think they should talk to their mother what they know and how the gaslighting has affected their mental health. Depending on the mother reaction, then they should decide to tell their father or not.
3rd story. Tell your dad before he finds out himself. When he finds out you knew the whole time and didn't tell him
He'll think you hate him and sided with your mom. Sucks to say your family has ended years ago. You just didn't want to accept it
4th story but good comment
TELL HIM OR YOU COULD LOSE UR FAMILY COMPLETLY
Story #2- Sounds like Stella had already had her mind made up once she started to be confrontational in the very 1st bar. The OP only went in to get a drink with a familiar friend as the OP said she didn't know the other 12 people & Stella didn't go out of her way to introduce the OP to any of the other 12 people. Time to keep Stella out of your life I'm thinking she just might be jealous of the OP??!! She had zero right to have the OP leave because they got split up the night before. There's plenty of time's I've gotten separated from friend's and vice versa and never had anyone been asked to leave and find other accommodations. Anyway friend's like Stella who need enemies!!?? Good Luck
You know he's absolutely right you shouldn't blame anyone because they want to build their own computers from scratch instead of buying one
This kid has a future ahead of him because building pc bloody hell i wish I could do that
OP of the last story in an ENABLER. she lost all rights to whine about it since she's letting her mom to get away with it.
First play nobody is a jerk except dumb ppl
Ye
With the last story of this video honestly I would have tried to make friends with the daughter of 50 plus year old Mommy Dearest's workplace husband the minute I found out about her and used that as ammunition asking "I wonder how your workplace husband's daughter will react?"
Mom cheating on dad : You should sit your dad down and tell him. I normally do not like for kids to get involved in these things, but last year one of my buddy's daughters caught her mom cheating and was afraid to tell him. Somehow my buddy found out about it on his own, but also found out his daughter knew and did not tell him. He was not surprised about his wife, but was devastated that his daughter was hiding this secret from him. He has since refused to speak to his daughter. You do not want that.
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I think you should tell your mother that she needs to tell your father about the affair and that if she doesn't then you will!
Love these Videos.
Your family is already destroyed... Why not just open it up?
Last story TELL THE DAD YESTERDAY. Better he knows the truth than to keep living a lie. Also send his family these screen shots.
Last story I would probably be panicking of what to do but that is just me
Tell them. OP should tell both dad and the coworkers wife. It’s better to fess up then letting the Dad find out and possibly knowing you knew
Good video
JUST FRIGGIN TELL YOUR DAD
STOP BEING A BAD DAUGHTER
Nice video
That family is fragile and toxic in the 3rd story.
Sometimes I question why they even ask are they the jerk like the answer is so clear
MUNCHY DUDE GAME? NO WAY!
for the last one even though family means lots to you it means you definitely should tell your father their most likely get seperated anyway and if you care about your brother then you won’t let him grow up with such a diabolical mother
For the last story i would just tell my dad and said to divorce her without saying a single thing about the secret relationship
Dad possibly already knows. They are already in separate rooms. They are just together for the children. They have no intimacy in their relationship. Let sleeping dogs lie.
WTF is wrong with OP in the last story, how selfish one can be to not tell the father and the lover's wife about the affair...just for what keeping the illusion of being a family...dude that train already left...they constantly fight and sleep on different beds, they aren't a couple anymore...they are just stuck and as far as you know only your mother is getting a taste of happiness...OP is denying his father a chance of being happy with someone else for his/her own selfishness sake...
If my mom cheated and then turned off my internet... I...I'd have to tell on her.
What if he knows?? What if the only reason they are together is the kids??
12:42
I can relate to this, my mom did cheat on a guy, let's call him "Jacob", I found out in mid-2020 and she was cheating with her " friend" and he even calls me his "daughter" and I told my mom so many times to make him leave me alone but he would call me his daughter despite having 3 kids already, it honestly disgusts me,how he can have the audacity to call me his daughter, he says this to my siblings too
for the last story I would've taken advantage of the fact that OP had their mother's phone and used it to tell the bastard she was cheating with to F off
DOG STORY: sadly that happens all the time. Social media is one of the worst places to go for advise. I mean don't get me wrong. there are a lot of people out there willing to help. But rest assured you will get a Karen or two.
To be fair, if you didn't know a puppy will dump or pee all over the place then you probably weren't ready for a dog.
The last story.... Stfu and tell your dad. Your feelings matter but don't really matter. You're holding on to something broken pretending it's okay.
Last story is hard but it's not the kid's responsibility to keep the family together and the OP should tell her dad. It's better for everyone to just tell him and get it over with.
It's not worth keeping the family together when it's this flawed
Last story, holy crap TELL YOUR DAD, your mother is a lying jerk. This is so unfair to your dad, you, and your brother.
It'll be a mess either way, but it'll be worse to hide that from your dad... and its already hurting you keeping this secret. There's no easy way this will go. I'm sorry I can't be more help.
Your reply to the last story: What would you do if you were in this situation
Me: What do you mean if? Tone some of the things down and I am that father that their wife cheated on.
She needs to tell him and show all the evidence. It shall hurt a lot and the next year shall bring on lots of stress but in the end, you and your father shall be better off without the weight of the secret hanging on you.
4:18 the video is very interesting for what he says
Last story: Poor OP, they should just tell their dad. This is torture and not fair. This child shouldn't have this burden on their shoulders.
My parents divorced a long time ago.. at the age of 5 to be exact. There was nothing wrong with their marriage they just were better off as friends… i know its not the same but honestly divorced parents aren’t that bad.
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The OP in the last story is really her mother daughter, she as bad as her mother "this can destroy my family" like that isn't happen, living in a lie is away better, she doesn't care about a father, she still want to belieber that her mother is a good person, she isn't not even as a mother.
Last OP made me sooo angry. I know you're going through a though situation and you are not the one to blame, but not doing anything is just making it worst for absolutely everyone, not just yourself, but also your father and the family of the other guy
IIRC, she mentioned how she has issues with anxiety (could be thinking of another story). If the father is realistic and the mother is exactly how she sounds, then the father would understand how his x puts pressure on the kids in order to get her way and thus would have guilt tripped her to stay silent.
I wish the last poster tells her father what has been happening. To cheat on someone is to treat them with the littlest respect and for the mother to be 50 and do it and tell to tell her child that knows that nothing is happening is by far the most toxic and and unhealthy thing to do. She can be a good mother but she’s a terrible person
You should tell your mom that you have proof and SHE should tell your dad. If she don't then you will. Honesty it would hurt your dad even more the fact that you knew and didn't tell him. They are already sleeping in separate rooms, they don't kiss or even tell each other "I love you!" That right there only says that they are together for you and your brother. But give your mom a chance to come clean or tell him yourself.
The reason why she kick her out it wasn’t for staying out tell 4am it’s because she was with the guy that the other like so she kick her out just to get her out of the picture so the other girl can come in and put her moves on the guy she like. Girls are vindictive like that
For the last story… I think you may have judge a bit harshly. I do agree that OP’s dad deserves to know everything, but maybe not from OP. What i suggest is that OP talked about it with their mom, tell her how they’ve overheard and saw some of the messages she sent and receive, tell her how it’s affecting OP’s feeling, then as for the rest it’s for the mom to figure out with the dad. It would totally come out different when you come out clean about what you did yourself, compared to being snitched by your own child. And just because OP’s mom is having an affair, doesn’t mean that she couldn’t be a perfect mom FOR OP. OP said that their father have never been romantic, from the limited information that was given to us, there might have been a fight between their parents that might have caused this, they both have done well to hide from their children that we didn’t know of, maybe even OP didn’t know of.
A messy marriage is not something a child should try to fix. They can be a huge factor to affect it, but all they should do is try to explain to their parents about how it’s affecting them.
Lmao at all the people talking shit about a child in the last story. OP doesnt agree with what her moms doing but its a scary situation for a kid to be in. Like grow up, she's a damn child looking for advice. You cant expect a child to have the same reasoning skills as an adult.
Third story: men mind in your own business, thats your fathers problem not yours
Last story. The kid should stay out of it. Relationships are complicated. She has no idea what her parents private relationship is behind closed doors, how her father has treated her mother, any arrangements that they’ve made, etc. It is not her business and honestly it seems like they are just being roommates and staying together for the kids and causing this kind of hassle could cause them to completely break up which is what she does not want. You cannot force your parents to have the relationship that you want them to have. Putting spyware on your mothers phone is reprehensible. She really needs to go to therapy and stay in her own lane
The girl in the last story needs to tell her father of the affair that's happening between her moms co-work and the mother there shouldn't be any secrets between the relationship. the father might get a divorce and you shouldn't be scared divorce has happened so many times to me that I'm not surprised that this point I've been through different marriages and all of them have ended in the same way and my mom dated the same person three times after every time they broke up so listen to my experience and you shouldn't be scared after all of the treatment that you're going through.
"He was in her room every night."
I think he was in more than just her room.
just sayin but wat if stella had something to do that day that could change her life fur the better, but the chance got messed up because you had to wake her up because of the op comin home at 4 a.m. then it would be clear that it is the op's fault that happened, or somethin like that.
FINAL STORY: If you see this. Tell your father STAT about your mother. Your father is becoming more and more curious probably seeing the sudden change in attitude. Also, they already fight. So; it wouldn't hurt at all to tell your father.
Third story: Your family is already ruined. That's harsh truth. Tell your father asap, he deserves to know that and it would be a jerk move not to tell him.
Is there an upgrade for the last story?
Anyone have an update on the last one?
omg its om nom
14:11
maybe it was your dad, like my dad called a service dude
i can hear someone in call saying our house adress
then i called my dad
turns out it was just him
he called the service dude for water filter
The kid needs to mind his own business. Your parents are unhappy and clearly aren't doing well. It's not your business.
The story about the father being cheated on for over 5 years but there is no romantic Tennessee at all I think they're only staying together for the family and they don't have any interest and each other that's what makes the most sense because why in the world would have married couple sleep and totally different rooms but supposedly the relationship is ok
My dad and my half brother knows how to build PC's
Third story OP is kinda selfish for keeping it a secret cuz she doesn't wanna cause the family to separate.
Tell your dad, let them split. Its better for both of them, and it's better for you.
They argue all the time, the marriage is doomed, just let them get divorced and I assure you, they'll be happier (or the mom won't, if the co-worker doesnt also split with his wife).
Don't keep these secrets period.
Your mom yells at you for it, AND you're hurting yourself trying to protect something thats already gone.
i played the omnom game
the rip off of subway surfers XD
Honestly I think the wife of the Cheater Story should also know what her husband has been doing cuz that is just wrong I don't care if the dude was single or not it is not right for him to enter the Op's mother's life and I think the OP should show her dad and the family of the dude that her mom is cheating with.
I definitely agree that the father deserves to know for sure. But I think that the kids should bring it up with the mom in such a way that they're saying look. I know this is going on. I have proof you're not gonna talk me out of it okay? Stop treating me like I'm an idiot. Now I'm giving you a choice. You can either tell dad that you're cheating yourself. Or I will tell him. Keep in mind that I really do have proof so if you try anything, its not going to work. Which would you like that to be?
I would never tell my dad if mom is cheating because she knows alot I mean alot but my dad is not that kind of a father who knows alot about math but he is a English teacher I need them both alot and I can't handle a divorce
20:48 doesn’t the guy she is having a affair with have a family try to get into contact with them anonymously and tell them
Last story. Your a child stay in a child's place why are you investigating your mother. You don't know if your parents agreed to stay with each other just for you.
I swear the last story is similar to my dad and my now stepmom, who must love my family, because her ex husband was my 2nd cousin, but whatever, my dad had been cheating with my stepmom who was married at the time and had a kid with the guy, and my dad was the brainless idiot who bragged about it to the husband, he just left out the name and specific address, one day the husband was told by his neighbor that he was being cheated on and realized who my dad was talking about, and to this day my dad will claim he didn't start sleeping with my stepmom until he was accused of it, and he has been with my stepmom for about 19 to 20 years, including the whole cheating incident, and funnily enough my dad has cheated on her with his best friends wife, and my stepmom knows and for whatever weird reason she actually expects him to cheat because that what she believes a man should do, and that's why her husband was a piece of crap in her eyes, because he always treated her right, according to 20 different people, I will point out my dad should probably be in jail for the rest of his life because he has done crap that violates basic logic/ decency, heck most animals wouldn't treat there own children like he has treated me and his 3 other kids, my stepmom should just be locked in an mental hospital for the rest of her life, because she disowned her firstborn son, because he chose to live with his father who was the only parent who actually treated him like a human and tried to raise him right, and actually told everyone but the youngest kid who was a baby at the time, that her son got ran over by an ambulance at the time all because he chose what was better for himself, and disowned her family for calling her out on it, I only found out last year the full story from her supposedly dead son, he has said that she can go die for all he cares because she hasn't been there for him since he was 16 and for about 8 months when he was a kid, and I can honestly say she and my dad will get there just deserts because I am helping my cousin and his family make a legal case to get the kids, because I know the hell I went through and still somewhat am going through with them, which ultimately ended up In my dad being told he threatens me again he will have about 50 bullets lodged in his brain, and the cops who showed up that dad know about that and they said, I had every right to do that because I was scared for my life, and as far as they were concerned, he deserves to die yesterday
Last Story: Maybe the parents don't divorce bc the kids want them together (and society indirectly tells you to endure almost everything bc children need their parents together.). I don't say that's ok or good.
And now a question for this kid: Do you really think it's ok what you do? I got the feeling kids don't like their parents to spy on them. How can it be ok to spy on your mother? If you are so concerned go and confront her with your evidence. You told she's a great mom to you so there's no reason to fear. And yes this may result with divorce but this would in no way be your fault bc it sounds as if the marriage is already over (but who knows maybe this is a chance for your parents to mend their relationship).
I stayed in my relationship bc my daughter wanted us together. I feel very miserable but if it is what she needs I'll endure it. I work hard on faking so she doesn't realise the truth. There is no cheating - at least on my side I can't speak for her Dad.
Maybe it's the same with your mom.
If my daughter is unsure and checks my phone to be sure it wouldn't be ok but it's understandable. But it would be trust wrecking if she tells her Dad without confronting me first. You don't know the agreements of your parents.
And yes, I think you have the right to get an honest answer!
The last story pissed me off her dad may have little cold but you said nothing of what he actually did to "deserve" I wouldn't be surprised if he disown his daughter after he fine out she new and did nothing. She apparently is saying she not taking side while she basically covering her mom
what kind of goofy ahh game are you playing
What game is it
18:18 Tell. your. Father.
would have told his family, and my dad. let these cheaters crash and burn....
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It's that poorly programmed
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Hey Am I The Jerk? I have a question. Where do you get all of these stories because I would like to read some of these myself to look at things myself because I just want to so if you see this can you tell me where you get these really crazy bizzare of stories and if you can thank you very very much. Thanks for making these videos because when I feel like I'm going crazy I just watch these videos and the "entitled" people make me feel better by watching or imagining how stupid and crazy they look just like bro don't be such a Karen oh my god just like leave everyone alone for not just Pete's sake FOR EVERYONE'S SAKE GOD DANG IT!!!
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The final story OP is selfish. Its all about themself and what them staying together does for them. There is no regard for what is best for everyone in the family. The immediate result wouldn't be good, but ultimately the end result will turn out being best for everyone, even OP. They just lack foresight.
OP was not selfish. OP was a child asshole.
Dude..... both parties married.... throw them both under the bus. If life is already miserable, then it couldn't get any worse. If she can't drop her ovaries and file for divorce, then who know what and how much she's lied about with the poster.... family or not, cheating is f*cked
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Last story your family is already ruined if fact if I was your dad I'd be pissed at you for not telling me as soon as you had evidence
I don't think you're a jerk I just think she overreacted
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2nd story. I don’t believe you valued the friendship as much as you thought. You yourself feel you were on the wrong and if you hurt your friend bad enough to warrant kicking you out, then if you truly valuedvthe friendship you would apologize and do what you can to mend it.
On the last story, I believe it wasn't the daughter's place and to spy on her mom instead of bringing it up with her dad immediately was her fault. It's likely that her dad knows, hence the fighting, no gifts, and no intimate relations with the mom. If I were this girl's parent I would send her to counseling for multiple reasons. Bringing this up NOW to her Dad will definitely fracture any future relationship and trust with the mom. I would then have the mom check her phone for spyware. It's never the child's responsibility to govern what her parents do.
Yet at the same time, a child shouldn't have to be put in that situation. OP did nothing wrong. The fact OP is a child has zip to do with the situation itself. It's called speaking up. This is the problem with people. People frown on those who speak up, but when all hell breaks loose, the wrong person is blamed for not opening their mouth.
I'd honestly be suprised if you still have any faith in humanity at all at this point.
I dont have faith in Americans, i have watched too many fail clips that where from there
Anybody else annoyed with Op in the last story? 😅
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The last girl is the jerk hands down. The way she's treating her isn't a good mother. She's got soms problems and claims he doesn't deserve it but chooses not to help him.
If I was that dad in the last story and I found out on my own and find out my daughter knew all this time, I'd have lost a wife and a daughter.
Good thing you're not a parent then, you'd be HILARIOUS at it