This is very sweet and hopeful. We walk in our family as a way of mindfulness and a way of life, so yes on that. But I lived in Jerusalem for a year, have friends on both sides of that conflict, have heard three opinions for every two people from every last nook and cranny at this point.. nothing surprises me. After a lifetime of experiencing those stories (the most interesting from shopkeepers in the middle east) I more wish we could grab everyone, take them out to space, and show them how the planet looks "from a distance." I honestly believe, although this idea is beautiful, maybe it's the distance thing that illustrates the simplest truth, the most honest story.
I as a relief teacher often explain to fighting kids (usually boys) that anger gives you strength to the limbs and was necessary for our ancestors to fight or flight. This strength (physically) is derived from blood being pumped to those limbs BUT it must come from somewhere (i.e. the brain).
millertas lolol. Is that true? I want to believe it, it seems plausible, but I'm afraid you're manipulating the poor things. Anger definitely shuts down our reasonable, cooperative brains, and makes us single-minded about forcing someone to give us what we want.
non violent communication is the most superior conflict resolution and life changing system i have encountered i still enjoyed this speaker very much and it is useful def
To Whom It May Concern: I have worked in the same office complex for nearly thirteen years, and have been quite happy with my job, general management relations, and our work-environment. Our work space is a large room consisting of eight cubicles-four per side-as well as an enclosed manager’s office, and a larger, enclosed meeting room. As our company takes calls 24 hours a day, there is usually someone in the office working at all times. As you may suspect, with office furniture in varying degrees of “newness”, our chairs do tend to get shifted around as employees borrow more comfortable chairs from the cubicles of those not present on the shift. This has never been a problem for me, as I don’t consider myself a “selfish” person. However, I’ve recently begun developing a strange rash, and, having singled out any other cause, I am quite convinced it is related to this practice of “sharing” chairs in the workplace. I have tried everything short of medical attention, on the durn thing - adding printer ink and toner to the bath, AND as a topical pack, directly to the skin (both inkjet and heatset); scotch-taping economy manila file folders to the inside of my clothes to prevent chafing; covering the unsightly areas with brightly colored post-it notes, or automatic label maker tape printed with positive comments, metric goals, or funny sayings which are safe for work. My question is: Is this a serious condition I should see a doctor for? Does everyone else have to put on a “brave” face and force their way through every itchy moment of every day? I see other people who seem to enjoy what they do or at least do not resent it. Should I lodge a complaint with HR?
I love the idea of the Third Side. I can see this benefiting most conflict negotiations. But what if one of the 2 sides is clearly in the wrong, and is doing something really harmful? How can the Third Side help?
Powerful message... Instead of being more hostile we need to be more kind to each other. Imagine presidents actually listening and trying to find a solution just by talking. #yang2020
the middle east can be solved the same way all our problems can begin to be solved and that is the removal of the outdated "competition" based systems , false separations , and systems of punishment and reward. until we address these core domination structures little can evolve.
Uni Thor Whoa. I just ordered two books by this guy. They'd better be good. I didn't like this video too much, but the books sounded good. I thought his solution was kind of interesting, but not well-explained. I think he tried too hard to be inspiring and didn't lay out enough of a roadmap. I mean, seriously, people are supposed to just implement tourism to save the Middle East? Lol. I have a lot of issues with capitalistic tourism. Hospitality? Well, no shit? That's like saying, "The solution to peace is love thy neighbor." When "Christians" have been starting wars left and right. I mean, come on... he really oversimplified this. But I really liked his idea of the "third side" and the "balcony." It sounds like he's doing some things right.
problem is that the 'story' focuses on the jewish heritage as the frame of Palestine/Israel and so intrinsically takes a stand as to the origins of the country, in one of the most flammable issues in the israel/palestine conflict. For people who mean well, the thought is nice - but ignoring the current noxious situation between jews and arabs seems to me to be the privilege of those who can go back home to their own safe country where they are respected citizens of their own state.
This is very sweet and hopeful. We walk in our family as a way of mindfulness and a way of life, so yes on that. But I lived in Jerusalem for a year, have friends on both sides of that conflict, have heard three opinions for every two people from every last nook and cranny at this point.. nothing surprises me. After a lifetime of experiencing those stories (the most interesting from shopkeepers in the middle east) I more wish we could grab everyone, take them out to space, and show them how the planet looks "from a distance." I honestly believe, although this idea is beautiful, maybe it's the distance thing that illustrates the simplest truth, the most honest story.
I don't know what's got into me when he talked about Abraham, I shed a tear.
I as a relief teacher often explain to fighting kids (usually boys) that anger gives you strength to the limbs and was necessary for our ancestors to fight or flight. This strength (physically) is derived from blood being pumped to those limbs BUT it must come from somewhere (i.e. the brain).
millertas lolol. Is that true? I want to believe it, it seems plausible, but I'm afraid you're manipulating the poor things. Anger definitely shuts down our reasonable, cooperative brains, and makes us single-minded about forcing someone to give us what we want.
Aprinsa Fight or flight. It was a survival mechanism that produced extra strength.
As a survival mechanism, it highjacks the thinking functions of the brain.
non violent communication is the most superior conflict resolution and life changing system i have encountered i still enjoyed this speaker very much and it is useful def
To Whom It May Concern:
I have worked in the same office complex for nearly thirteen years, and have been quite happy with my job, general management relations, and our work-environment. Our work space is a large room consisting of eight cubicles-four per side-as well as an enclosed manager’s office, and a larger, enclosed meeting room. As our company takes calls 24 hours a day, there is usually someone in the office working at all times. As you may suspect, with office furniture in varying degrees of “newness”, our chairs do tend to get shifted around as employees borrow more comfortable chairs from the cubicles of those not present on the shift. This has never been a problem for me, as I don’t consider myself a “selfish” person. However, I’ve recently begun developing a strange rash, and, having singled out any other cause, I am quite convinced it is related to this practice of “sharing” chairs in the workplace. I have tried everything short of medical attention, on the durn thing - adding printer ink and toner to the bath, AND as a topical pack, directly to the skin (both inkjet and heatset); scotch-taping economy manila file folders to the inside of my clothes to prevent chafing; covering the unsightly areas with brightly colored post-it notes, or automatic label maker tape printed with positive comments, metric goals, or funny sayings which are safe for work. My question is: Is this a serious condition I should see a doctor for? Does everyone else have to put on a “brave” face and force their way through every itchy moment of every day? I see other people who seem to enjoy what they do or at least do not resent it. Should I lodge a complaint with HR?
I love the idea of the Third Side. I can see this benefiting most conflict negotiations. But what if one of the 2 sides is clearly in the wrong, and is doing something really harmful? How can the Third Side help?
Ending is the Best part. I promise all of you its the best part.
i agree even though i haven't got to it yet
"The secret to peace is us"
RAFAEL ALVARADO thank you i have to watch this for homework and this is one of the answers
Wow this was incredible and very effective. Thank you
This make me realize that Corona virus it's reallly fucking up everything.
Conflict resolution rests in understanding and knowing the "SELF" in you.
the wise man cited in the begining of this lecture is Ali Ibn Abou Taleb the cousin of the Prophet Mohamed PBH
17 camels... highlight
Very inspiring. Thank you. Leith
a beautiful
clip i will ever remember in my life.GOD give u more days to deliver such speech
"More and more walkers have come" ha.
Thanks for uploading! What is the speaker's name?
I thoroughly enjoyed this. Thank you....
You can check conflict from the below comments
We could do as the bonobos do.
Animals are so wise.
Powerful message... Instead of being more hostile we need to be more kind to each other. Imagine presidents actually listening and trying to find a solution just by talking. #yang2020
I liked the ending the best
Great video, tremendous thanks for you.
Excellent
This vid needs to be promoted.
last Proverb from Ethiopia
the middle east can be solved the same way all our problems can begin to be solved and that is the removal of the outdated "competition" based systems , false separations , and systems of punishment and reward. until we address these core domination structures little can evolve.
The speaker is William Ury.
Uni Thor Whoa. I just ordered two books by this guy. They'd better be good. I didn't like this video too much, but the books sounded good. I thought his solution was kind of interesting, but not well-explained. I think he tried too hard to be inspiring and didn't lay out enough of a roadmap. I mean, seriously, people are supposed to just implement tourism to save the Middle East? Lol. I have a lot of issues with capitalistic tourism. Hospitality? Well, no shit? That's like saying, "The solution to peace is love thy neighbor." When "Christians" have been starting wars left and right. I mean, come on... he really oversimplified this.
But I really liked his idea of the "third side" and the "balcony." It sounds like he's doing some things right.
why the middle east...bec of oil.
problem is that the 'story' focuses on the jewish heritage as the frame of Palestine/Israel and so intrinsically takes a stand as to the origins of the country, in one of the most flammable issues in the israel/palestine conflict. For people who mean well, the thought is nice - but ignoring the current noxious situation between jews and arabs seems to me to be the privilege of those who can go back home to their own safe country where they are respected citizens of their own state.
wonder if Trump will walk that path?