I was an MS-13 gang member. Here's how I got out. | Gerardo Lopez | TEDxMileHigh

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  • Gerardo Lopez grew up in gang territory in Los Angeles, California and was just 14 years old when he joined MS-13, the notorious Salvadorian gang. Why did he join and why did he leave? In this courageous talk, Gerardo reveals how we can help others get out and stay out of gangs. Gerardo "Clever" Lopez has worked in gang intervention for over two decades. Formerly of the notorious Los Angeles gang MS-13, Gerardo escaped gang life and now ensures that at-risk youth from making the same mistakes. He is Executive Director of the Denver chapter of Homies Unidos, a nonprofit dedicated to ending violence and promoting peace through gang intervention and prevention. Gerardo is an avid baseball fan waiting for the Dodgers to win the World Series, and the subject of the award-winning, short documentary CLEVER. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @IanD-ut4dy
    @IanD-ut4dy Před 5 lety +4954

    "I got a degree in criminal justice", that gave me chills. Inspiring.

    • @Kpba32
      @Kpba32 Před 4 lety +12

      @jack ramirez how?

    • @realdeal332
      @realdeal332 Před 4 lety +2

      @jack ramirez lol

    • @Will-rn3sy
      @Will-rn3sy Před 4 lety +138

      jack ramirez More gangster than you ever will tho

    • @haykkhulyan6201
      @haykkhulyan6201 Před 4 lety +31

      @jack ramirez and that's a bad thing because....

    • @Jesus.G.Ramirez
      @Jesus.G.Ramirez Před 4 lety +32

      @jack ramirez you're missing the point, wether he comes off as or is a real ganster or not, you can tell he is way past that, his story will still be the same with the same meaning behind it as well, again wether he is or comes off as a real ganster or not.

  • @dco5181
    @dco5181 Před 5 lety +16532

    his accent gets progressively more cholo throughout the video

    • @oFierce
      @oFierce Před 5 lety +259

      deeeco this deserves more likes 😂

    • @bryantfg2072
      @bryantfg2072 Před 5 lety +799

      He talks about himself getting out of the gang but talks like a gangster 😂

    • @numidiadihya3484
      @numidiadihya3484 Před 5 lety +742

      @@bryantfg2072 thats how chicanos talk in general... it isnt just the gangsters ones lol

    • @hector5749
      @hector5749 Před 4 lety +368

      memories of being in the gang will do that. It's like he is reliving each moment as he speaks.

    • @lesquid5540
      @lesquid5540 Před 4 lety +245

      He also seems to get a lot more confident cause he starts off really slow and shaky and by the end that’s all gone

  • @miguelarvizu-luna6334
    @miguelarvizu-luna6334 Před 3 lety +1157

    This guy was our head of security at my high school. He’s come a long way damn!

    • @possibilityyz3351
      @possibilityyz3351 Před 3 lety +6

      Rlly?

    • @carltonthepug
      @carltonthepug Před 3 lety +1

      Ok and?

    • @melymichu6731
      @melymichu6731 Před 3 lety +60

      He seems like a really sweet guy tbh. Props for changing his life around and wanting to help other people.

    • @meme-bz6iw
      @meme-bz6iw Před 3 lety +1

      @@melymichu6731 we are almost 5 billions on mother earth. 4.5 billions judge people by appearance....you are not on the right track for sure....

    • @SqiffyRaptor
      @SqiffyRaptor Před 3 lety +44

      @@meme-bz6iw I would just like to say that there is actually about 7.6 billion people on earth, not 5 billion. that is all i wanted to say lol.

  • @malenaqueteimporta5729
    @malenaqueteimporta5729 Před 4 lety +1189

    My husband was in the 26 gang in Chicago. Today he's an engineer, we have a son in college and he put me through my master's degree in social work. How did he get out? That kid that's now in college was born. He took one look at that baby boy and wanted to be better. My own father got took him under his wing and just like he expected his own kids to go and finish college, he expected that skinny hood boy to do the same. I am so proud of him, he attended IIT in Chicago and is a great father. He started a robotics club with my younger son. I kid with him and tell him, you're probably the only nerdy, ex-gagbanger dad in the world. :)

    • @charleslucas1784
      @charleslucas1784 Před 3 lety +36

      That's a blessing!

    • @Pursuepeace0715
      @Pursuepeace0715 Před 3 lety +29

      that's wonderful story- thank you for sharing! a "bad boy" turned good!. That means it was always in him to be better he just needed a purpose and no stronger and powerful bond than father and child. holding his child he held his purpose. congratulations to you for being by his side and reminding him everyday of his value. you are a strong woman on of the real ones!

    • @fillyfingerz8425
      @fillyfingerz8425 Před 3 lety +20

      That straightened me right out as well. Soon as I had my first child it was no longer about me anymore, it was about him. Never turned back.....and I am glad! My son did more for me than he will ever, ever know!

    • @Groovy_Bruce
      @Groovy_Bruce Před 3 lety +5

      @@Pursuepeace0715 lol. It’s always nice to see one in a million. But that’s all it is.

    • @GlenMitchellSanthmayor
      @GlenMitchellSanthmayor Před 3 lety +6

      @@fillyfingerz8425 God bless! You are a good man

  • @mdnafan1508
    @mdnafan1508 Před 5 lety +4908

    I’m from El Salvador. The history of El Salvador is sad. This man speaks the truth. Great speaker

    • @_cxvenyy9413
      @_cxvenyy9413 Před 4 lety +44

      ur names wrong its mdma

    • @michaelkovtuschenko2206
      @michaelkovtuschenko2206 Před 4 lety +14

      There's even a 80s hair metal song about the children of ES.. to raise awareness

    • @2andygorams532
      @2andygorams532 Před 4 lety +11

      _ Cxvenyy think mdna is short for Madonna and he isn’t referring to happy crystals

    • @mdnafan1508
      @mdnafan1508 Před 4 lety +6

      Smv1312 your absolutely right

    • @davidg5849
      @davidg5849 Před 4 lety +13

      Same in Honduras. I just want to leave this country

  • @ComradeCage
    @ComradeCage Před 4 lety +4338

    Everybody talking about how MS-13 is gonna watch this video and track this guy down, they didn't even listen to what he had to say. Dude works as part of a gang intervention group, as the CEO. It's not like he was exactly hiding before this talk

    • @emekaamerican863
      @emekaamerican863 Před 4 lety +83

      It's because people live in fear

    • @chlamydiayourdaddyishere
      @chlamydiayourdaddyishere Před 4 lety +44

      @@emekaamerican863 No, it is because they have a brain and live on intense realism. Doesn't matter if this guy is a CEO of some gang intervention sht. Jesus and Raul MS-13 members in other states or even the top boss in El Salvador might not know about this guy until they watch this video and might order a hit. This guy is a true more-on.

    • @clonetrooper2450
      @clonetrooper2450 Před 4 lety +153

      @@chlamydiayourdaddyishere He never said about being threatened if he left the gang. So it's extremely unlikely a hit would he ordered on him.

    • @chlamydiayourdaddyishere
      @chlamydiayourdaddyishere Před 4 lety +16

      @Daniel Gosse "CZcams's foul word filter", e-diot. I don't take risks.

    • @dylanvickers7953
      @dylanvickers7953 Před 4 lety +54

      @@chlamydiayourdaddyishere MS 13 is not a large gang. lol. There are way scarier gangs. The scariest gangs are the ones on the other side of badge, fighting rival gangs with state authority.

  • @joshr5349
    @joshr5349 Před 2 lety +317

    My dad was murdered by 3 MS-13 gang members 22 years ago when I was 11. Glad he's using his past experiences to help younger generations.

    • @rossyvizcarra1927
      @rossyvizcarra1927 Před rokem +6

      😢

    • @jessedutton2474
      @jessedutton2474 Před rokem +1

      What neighborhood did you live in ?

    • @emem2863
      @emem2863 Před rokem +13

      Sorry for your loss. I agree it's good that he was able to overcome his past and police prejudice to help other kids.

    • @3075bridget
      @3075bridget Před rokem +4

      You have a good heart, Josh.

    • @jamilgotcher5456
      @jamilgotcher5456 Před rokem +5

      That's says a lot about you Josh that you are able to wish the man in the video well. Maybe part of the program he talks about should include meeting family members of the people they murdered and telling them how the loss of their loved one has impacted their family.

  • @joshuaball2276
    @joshuaball2276 Před 3 lety +1094

    "In US, gangster wears mask to hide face from police
    In El Salvador police wear masks to hide face from gangsters"

  • @sarag4392
    @sarag4392 Před 4 lety +4782

    “If we want people to leave gangs and re-enter society, then that means we have to let them re-enter society.” That gave me chills.

    • @rudystraight1750
      @rudystraight1750 Před 4 lety +16

      Doesnt matter if ur in a gang or not. You're also slaves. And you're going to die by 2030. UNITED NATIONS AGENDA 21

    • @traww9537
      @traww9537 Před 4 lety +61

      That gave you chills..?

    • @keiahnigbruder1453
      @keiahnigbruder1453 Před 4 lety +37

      @@rudystraight1750 explain bruh

    • @nezmustard
      @nezmustard Před 4 lety +10

      Traww 95 she just cold 🥶

    • @why12983476why
      @why12983476why Před 4 lety +31

      @@rudystraight1750 lmao wtf does that have to do with anything? (I looked it up)

  • @davidreyes1336
    @davidreyes1336 Před 4 lety +2088

    Key statement he made, when he got his first MS 13 tatoo he was excited the "love" he was getting from his gang. It's full of young people looking for love and acceptance.

    • @MrPerfect219
      @MrPerfect219 Před 4 lety +11

      where are the parents?

    • @bmerritt2433
      @bmerritt2433 Před 3 lety +66

      @@MrPerfect219 Sometimes parents can be the worst ppl in your life. (not mine but ppl I know)

    • @GentlemenJack109
      @GentlemenJack109 Před 3 lety +1

      @@bmerritt2433 fax essay, I’m a MS 13 member, l love my parents through.

    • @melymichu6731
      @melymichu6731 Před 3 lety +1

      That's what everyone wants in the love and acceptance and success in life.

    • @robertg6339
      @robertg6339 Před 2 lety +4

      @@MrPerfect219 there's allot of kids from good families that join gangs too.

  • @neryhenandez1636
    @neryhenandez1636 Před 2 lety +122

    I'm from El Salvador and I cried while listening to his speech because it brought me many memories back in the 90s about my 2 younger brothers. I am glad they survived, but they could be killed while in the gang in Houston. Thank God they are fine. My mother was praying for them 24/7. The gang was following my brother when he got out, but he started going to church and Jesus Christ saved him. I am so proud of you Gerardo. Sadly, there are still MS 13 and other gangs in my lovely El Salvador :(

    • @chelseataura
      @chelseataura Před 2 lety +8

      wow PRAISE GOD MY FRIEND!!! Jesus is the only Way, and He gives true freedom. PRAISE GOD! He has such a big purpose and plan for your brothers, for you, and your family. To bring glory to the kingdom of God!!! Let me know how I can pray for you, Nery ❤️ God bless you guys with protection, peace, and healing.

    • @rossyvizcarra1927
      @rossyvizcarra1927 Před rokem +3

      Pray 🙏🏽

    • @ExtremePacifist
      @ExtremePacifist Před rokem

      do you support La Sombra Negra?

    • @rubenbustamante1828
      @rubenbustamante1828 Před rokem +4

      Nayib Bukele is cleaning house in El Salvador 👍

    • @V.E.R.O.
      @V.E.R.O. Před rokem +2

      Bukele put them in jail, he's building a mega prison just for them.

  • @jamesthomas4787
    @jamesthomas4787 Před 4 lety +65

    I get goosebumps hearing this man speak, and I was never in no gangs. Powerful!

  • @Thepenarmy01
    @Thepenarmy01 Před 5 lety +11783

    When will Ted himself, show up to the talk?

    • @sl8103
      @sl8103 Před 5 lety +497

      *the final boss*

    • @krishnabellani
      @krishnabellani Před 5 lety +208

      He’s probably smoking a joint (reference to the movie TED)

    • @tonster5559
      @tonster5559 Před 5 lety +52

      Overused joke.

    • @liamlol7340
      @liamlol7340 Před 5 lety +49

      i think he made a movie called ted were he talks it was pretty epic

    • @HelpMyCatHasNoHair
      @HelpMyCatHasNoHair Před 5 lety +44

      *chants* TED TALK, TED TALK, TED TALK

  • @noxsilentium6550
    @noxsilentium6550 Před 5 lety +2716

    He worked at my school last year as an Admin, pretty cool dude.

    • @bigsoap186
      @bigsoap186 Před 5 lety +64

      Kermit E. Frog I actually saw someone else who said that too! Cool

    • @514musique
      @514musique Před 5 lety +23

      What school did he work at? Was it in DPS?

    • @805monkeyboy
      @805monkeyboy Před 5 lety +22

      Adams City in Commerce City

    • @kristengibson6824
      @kristengibson6824 Před 5 lety +30

      as an admin? so he doesn't have a criminal background?

    • @esxxso
      @esxxso Před 5 lety +109

      Charges were dismissed

  • @yvveherrera
    @yvveherrera Před 3 lety +69

    The amount of pride he had talking about David made me cry.

  • @Jackson-ey7kk
    @Jackson-ey7kk Před 3 lety +96

    Bro, this guy's voice has a beat of its own.
    I feel like he's reading a poem the entire time.

    • @kartushkaportato8301
      @kartushkaportato8301 Před 2 lety +3

      That's the way of the Cholo. True poetry

    • @jc4428
      @jc4428 Před rokem

      I was trying to figure out what I loved about this. Thanks for pointing it out!

  • @jaygill5582
    @jaygill5582 Před 4 lety +3316

    Every saint has a past,
    Every sinner has a future (Oscar Wilde)

    • @baguilar6827
      @baguilar6827 Před 4 lety +18

      This hit me hard :^^ what a wise quote

    • @politefahrenheit8546
      @politefahrenheit8546 Před 4 lety +13

      wait isn’t it the other way around?

    • @kylebooth3253
      @kylebooth3253 Před 4 lety +31

      Jay Gill j cole

    • @NX8234
      @NX8234 Před 4 lety +2

      Sneaks 🔥

    • @PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim
      @PutinsMommyNeverHuggedHim Před 4 lety +26

      Polite Fahrenheit what do you mean? That’s the whole point...even saints have dark things on their past, and even sinners can do good in the future

  • @mikeaskme3530
    @mikeaskme3530 Před 5 lety +2480

    So many negative comments and so few comprehending of what this man is saying. He is not trying to excuse his actions or the actions of MS-13, what he is trying to do is give a synopsis of how this gang affiliation came about and if you live in a safe environment you will never understand.

    • @IcedSilver46
      @IcedSilver46 Před 5 lety +68

      mike askme exactly what I thought. All these terrible comments not contributing to any positive in our world. This guy needs to speak to the children of Long Island where MS13 have a big presence.

    • @Bessency75
      @Bessency75 Před 5 lety +47

      I agree with you most of the people commenting are not listening to this guy. He went through what most Americans have never had to deal with.

    • @Bessency75
      @Bessency75 Před 5 lety +43

      I applaud this guy for becoming more than what society has determined he should be.

    • @kasgarragsak9866
      @kasgarragsak9866 Před 5 lety +11

      That is the problem: most of them don't want to/don't comprehend no matter how much you try to enlighten them, so for your safety you better avoid them...

    • @carpediem8752
      @carpediem8752 Před 5 lety +3

      Best comment

  • @jackdoherty5841
    @jackdoherty5841 Před 4 lety +46

    I love how he speaks up whenever he's discussing his accomplishments, he takes pride in the good he's been able to do for others & I respect him for that

  • @Janney3791
    @Janney3791 Před rokem +19

    This man, by far, is very brave to testify in public of his past gang membership affiliation. Knowing very well that there are risks involved, to put himself out like that. I commend him for turning his life around, and speaking to help others. One of my fav motto in life is, "Don't judge others if you've never walked in their moccasins."

    • @melissazurita5066
      @melissazurita5066 Před rokem +1

      Exactly but people do judge. It’s unfortunate that our past creeps up on us even when we are trying to do better. I have respect for him. He will change many lives. We live in a imperfect world, he’s a survivor 🙏

    • @Ubermensch201
      @Ubermensch201 Před rokem +1

      ​@@melissazurita5066 sometimes it seems like people don't want anyone to change or do better

    • @melissazurita5066
      @melissazurita5066 Před rokem

      @@Ubermensch201 they are afraid because for so many yrs we were led to believe what was written in our history books. We were introduced to the cyber world which has been good and bad, let’s see what the future will now become.

    • @melissazurita5066
      @melissazurita5066 Před 7 měsíci

      @@Ubermensch201 Its because they don't understand the process. Each person is unique, and a good case manager will understand. We need more Peer support and mentors.

  • @pauliedibbs9028
    @pauliedibbs9028 Před 4 lety +1736

    With his size and intellect, he could have easily become a leader/capo for the gang. Glad he ultimately made the right choice.

    • @buttermilkbiscuit6712
      @buttermilkbiscuit6712 Před 4 lety +62

      Paul G yea but I think he got most of his intellect after getting away from the gang

    • @diegomari4478
      @diegomari4478 Před 4 lety +88

      You have to actually kill your bosses to become the boss, its not like they do intellectual battles or so lul

    • @pauliedibbs9028
      @pauliedibbs9028 Před 4 lety +19

      @@buttermilkbiscuit6712....he did eventually smarten up and decide to leave, right?

    • @jimmiranda7181
      @jimmiranda7181 Před 4 lety +19

      @@buttermilkbiscuit6712 his experience with the gang life and his struggle throughout his life has given him the wisdom and the decision-making skills to leave that life.

    • @pauliedibbs9028
      @pauliedibbs9028 Před 4 lety +21

      @Spencer Furby ...I'll bite -- you clearly aren't educated much on the drug war below the border.. are you? "Capo" has been used by Mexicans, Colombians, and even El Salvadorians, for years. It is also a word in the Spanish language (take a guess what it means).
      Also, both MS-13 and 18th street (the dominant gangs of his home country), have leaders throughout both of their gangs, with specific hierarchy.

  • @Fightfuryfilms
    @Fightfuryfilms Před 5 lety +7723

    thank you Ted for putting this kind of content out

    • @bilalhernandez8022
      @bilalhernandez8022 Před 5 lety +47

      Just another liberal attempt to make people more sympathetic to people that don't belong here!

    • @thetechprincess2433
      @thetechprincess2433 Před 5 lety +187

      @@bilalhernandez8022 your name is very fitting to your posts. I love the cohesiveness. Also I appreciate your point. I am confused as to where you dont find value in this mans openness and honesty to share an experience you could have never had. Technically no one ever asked to be born in history so I cannot agree with your sentiments. We all have no choice on our DNA or socioeconomic status. As humans our goal should be to improve ourselves and learn from our mistakes because we are all here until we are not and all of our actions and existence affects the collective and the future. Cheers on your endeavors and journey. I respect this mans ability to recognize and change for what he believes is the betterment of himself and his community. Thanks for reading my humble opinion on this manner.

    • @seth817
      @seth817 Před 5 lety +4

      The Tech Princess - What do you mean an experience he could have never had? Or do you just mean an experience he never had? But why the could part?

    • @adls04
      @adls04 Před 5 lety

      Alcides Fuentes lol

    • @albertocorral9851
      @albertocorral9851 Před 5 lety +3

      thank you . You are a princess

  • @bryanselva8799
    @bryanselva8799 Před 3 lety +26

    Not everyone from the neighborhood have role models.
    This man walked that line and it made him a great character molded by the rough edges of his life.

  • @TheZakkusu
    @TheZakkusu Před 3 lety +19

    Say what you want about the man but this is nothing short of powerful and inspirational.

  • @dominicgunderson
    @dominicgunderson Před 4 lety +4561

    His voice sounds like he's always about to climax but he never does

  • @brandonshebester9574
    @brandonshebester9574 Před 4 lety +468

    I hope his mom and grandma got to see his turnaround. He made them both proud

  • @MoshJunkie426
    @MoshJunkie426 Před 2 lety +6

    I had the pleasure of meeting Gerardo as he's a personal friend of my brother. Let me tell you this man is every bit as smart, well spoken and welcoming as he appears in his interviews

  • @tootallzz
    @tootallzz Před 3 lety +38

    This is a powerful Tedtalk and I applaud this man's courage and heart to turn into a force of positive change and love for his community and doing all he can to bring change to the lives he can.🙏🎯 He is part of the solution now, God Bless him for his work and his change of heart.💒

  • @nysrcnc
    @nysrcnc Před 5 lety +696

    so proud of you...thank you for making a difference

  • @ibuprofenPill
    @ibuprofenPill Před 5 lety +1117

    Several years ago I lived next to a guy who escaped gang membership in St. Louis, MO. He moved to Texas, deleted all his social media accounts and changed his phone number. That's all he said was necessary. His family had already moved away, so there was no one left in St. Louis to harass regarding his whereabouts. Over time, he said the people who knew him best would either themselves leave, die or receive lengthy prison sentences. As time passes, the possibility anyone would ever track him down significantly decreases. Even if someone was really pissed about him leaving, he said most aren't smart or resourceful enough to find him. He said those resources cost money, and people in the life would never shell out thousands just to exact revenge. They were way too preoccupied with other things to be that unselfish. He told me all about it when we were having beers. At the time we were neighbors, he was in HVAC training and his wife was an executive secretary. After he started working, he began the slow process removing his gang tattoos. I moved from that apartment 11 years ago but we periodically exchange email, mostly about sports. He's still in Texas and doing well.

    • @DubsCheckum
      @DubsCheckum Před 5 lety +32

      well ye, if you watched the talk closely it's not that hard to "get out" (even though this can be really hard, cause it can mean leaving family members and close friends behind who are in the same situation, but not aware) but to find purpose outside of the gang. especially setting foot in the regular world with this background. it's not so much about being chased by the gang, they also know that most people come back (actually like he said in the vid 70% of ex-members become members again).

    • @rolandomota6411
      @rolandomota6411 Před 5 lety

      L

    • @ibuprofenPill
      @ibuprofenPill Před 5 lety +9

      @@DubsCheckum I got that. Maybe by hearing the stories of other gang members finding purpose and leaving, current members will realize it's not impossible. Admittedly, he had a advantageous situation. But, it's still a good success story.

    • @NJ-gw5dr
      @NJ-gw5dr Před 5 lety +38

      Thanks we've been looking for him

    • @christianarrizon5989
      @christianarrizon5989 Před 5 lety +1

      Most places that's the way it is but la California is different

  • @stuarteverett6544
    @stuarteverett6544 Před 3 lety +26

    The insights this guy gave are absolutely incredible. Big ups to him for the difficult decision he made.

  • @kickster4u
    @kickster4u Před 3 lety +255

    Moment of silence for people that died to gangster life before having a chance to leave it.

    • @melymichu6731
      @melymichu6731 Před 3 lety +11

      They chose that life and they knew the consequences of trying to make easy money. It's a short one.

    • @gholelarry8007
      @gholelarry8007 Před 3 lety +8

      @@melymichu6731 Well sometimes thats the only way to support their family.

    • @ashley1872
      @ashley1872 Před 3 lety +14

      @@gholelarry8007 Gang members destroy honest people just trying to support their family too. What's your excuse?

    • @gholelarry8007
      @gholelarry8007 Před 3 lety +14

      @@melymichu6731 they dont always get that choice. Sometimes its join or die

    • @gholelarry8007
      @gholelarry8007 Před 3 lety +1

      @@ashley1872 Not all

  • @jvburnes
    @jvburnes Před 5 lety +619

    You can curse the darkness or light a candle. This guy lit a bonfire. Very cool.

    • @JackTalent23
      @JackTalent23 Před 5 lety +8

      Damn man. This is the smartest comment i read here

    • @ricohernandez9969
      @ricohernandez9969 Před 4 lety +6

      What is this Dark Souls?

    • @tombuchborn
      @tombuchborn Před 4 lety +2

      @@ricohernandez9969 I mean the bonfire signals hope and happines and gives courage to continue on your way so the metaphor is pretty fitting I would say. Praise the sun my friend \[T]/

    • @ricohernandez9969
      @ricohernandez9969 Před 4 lety

      @@tombuchborn YES BROTHER

    • @spacetimewizard
      @spacetimewizard Před 4 lety +1

      B o n f i r e l i t

  • @wock6496
    @wock6496 Před 4 lety +1997

    My man just spilled gang history you only learn by joining.

    • @Erikz157
      @Erikz157 Před 4 lety +49

      Crooks not really

    • @YosiahW
      @YosiahW Před 4 lety +7

      Never been in one, huh? That's a good thing. It's not what it's cracked up to be.

    • @drm6007
      @drm6007 Před 4 lety +32

      It's not uncommon knowledge.

    • @alexitorico6686
      @alexitorico6686 Před 4 lety +26

      Not true. My late mother was Salvadoran and she told me the same history years before this came out.

    • @3rdrick
      @3rdrick Před 3 lety +15

      Yea, most people who research the subject, understand it's inception. The only thing that isn't spoke about that much is leadership positions and practices.

  • @christiansales100
    @christiansales100 Před rokem +5

    Lots of people have never seen or know that gang life even exists.
    Walking to school, you can get shot by rival gang at age 11 or 12 years old.
    Selling drugs and going to jail is a way of life in low income comunity.
    I can relate to his story. I left a poor environment.
    I went to college to get a degree in teaching.
    I now teach in a prison with inmate students.
    I would not want to teach in any other setting.
    I can relate to this man's story because it is my story.
    Breaking the cycle of gang life is not easy.
    Great testimony.
    I need to do one too some day. My students tell I should share my story more with people.
    Awesome job . Loved his video.

  • @CA-bw9vw
    @CA-bw9vw Před 3 lety +48

    "We had gotten out but we're being punished for where we had been" that was powerful af bruh

  • @jaymeselliot8181
    @jaymeselliot8181 Před 5 lety +938

    When the family at home breaks down, the family on the street takes over...and the rules are completely different.

    • @zeemo2501
      @zeemo2501 Před 5 lety +24

      Beautifully put

    • @jggrimm
      @jggrimm Před 5 lety +4

      Zee Mo, my thought exactly.

    • @jaymeselliot8181
      @jaymeselliot8181 Před 5 lety +34

      The absence of proper parenting is one of the most complicated problems the world faces. Sadly, the people who employed Mr. Lopez' mother could have paid her more, so that she might work less--thus being able to be present in her child's life. My theory is that people are inherently greedy: I've caught myself doing it as well as many others. Its not that people are bad, its just they don't think about anything except for whats right in front of them. Let me give an example. Say you are picking berries from a bush on your property, and you have just picked the last berry you need for the day. How often do you stop, despite the fact there are still hundreds of beautiful berries just sitting there, right in front of you?
      in my experience, the thrill of getting something valuable (food) for free is exhilarating enough where i will want to keep picking long after my needs are met.
      Now imagine this bush sprouts gold.
      What then? what are the chances of you leaving gold nuggets just sitting out there for the crows, or any bold enough to take them when you are not looking?
      I don't blame people for wanting to milk every dime they can from their business--its human nature to want to take full advantage of an opportunity.
      This is the problem with illegal/poorly regulated business practices--the people running them aren't just going to stop once they have enough to eat--for most people the thought of letting something valuable lie untouched is unfathomable, bordering on painful.
      How do you combat human nature as a human?

    • @NomNomNomNomage
      @NomNomNomNomage Před 5 lety +6

      "The absence of proper parenting is one of the most complicated problems the world faces. Sadly, the people who employed Mr. Lopez' mother could have paid her more, so that she might work less--thus being able to be present in her child's life."
      Are you blaming her for trying to put food on the table for her sons? Do you know what life was like for immigrants in that time? In this time? She worked 14 hour days in a sweatshop because they probably paid her less than minimum wage. Because she was, likely, an immigrant. They could get away with it because the line for US citizenship is notoriously long. And while she was waiting in limbo she was still an immigrant, so they could get away with paying her less. I know that this ties into your point, but you cant blame her for trying to support her family. The first way you combat human nature as a human is compassion.

    • @jaymeselliot8181
      @jaymeselliot8181 Před 5 lety +19

      On the contrary--i applaud her for the courage she had, and her hardworking nature.
      I'm not trying to blame anyone. I'm trying to point out that her employers (and other people in positions of power/wealth etc) are not always thinking of the big picture--merely of how they can turn a profit that is more than what they need--what does a human need with billions of dollars, while the people who work for them get pennies? i am stating there is a massive inequality among people that needs to be addressed.
      Let me rephrase what i said earlier to clarify: Parents in Mrs. Lopez position are being grossly taken advantage of by employers who do not have her best interests in mind, therefor taking away her opportunity to be a parent at all.
      Let me also say this: when you are a 14 year old, and you see honest people like your mom working for table scraps and getting nowhere--and yet you see gold chains, nice cars, and jewel encrusted rings hanging off of gangsters...who are you gonna work for? i don't blame these children for turning to crime--in their situation, it actually pays.

  • @44report22
    @44report22 Před 4 lety +390

    This man really makes a difference in Denver.. I use to be in his programs before

    • @mikecesa4444
      @mikecesa4444 Před 2 lety

      Too bad the Smaldone's of Denver in the 1920's and 30's aren't around. They would do what they did to punks in those days. Shoot em and dump the bodies in a deep canyon. Thats what they did to their relatives in those days if they crossed the Mob of Colorado.

    • @decliningship4208
      @decliningship4208 Před 2 lety +4

      @@mikecesa4444 What

    • @joemama-fz2gl
      @joemama-fz2gl Před 2 lety +1

      @@decliningship4208 what

    • @RetroGamerdoesPvP
      @RetroGamerdoesPvP Před 2 lety +6

      @@mikecesa4444 uhh that just sounds like a gang in itself bro

    • @lewischacon6009
      @lewischacon6009 Před 2 lety

      @@mikecesa4444 mob of Colorado?????😂😂😂

  • @Addicted2A91
    @Addicted2A91 Před rokem +5

    I was never in a gang, but I am a recovering addict. It’s amazing that all of the emotions he is describing, the thoughts he had along the way, his family worrying, and his worry for his family, are EXACTLY the same things I experienced when I was using

    • @3075bridget
      @3075bridget Před rokem +2

      Keep up the good work. We’re rooting for you 😘

    • @Addicted2A91
      @Addicted2A91 Před rokem +3

      @@3075bridget thank you!! I will have 2 years in December…I was finally diagnosed as bipolar, and once I was put on meds for it, I lost all interest in drugs. It’s wild

  • @Here4TheHeckOfIt
    @Here4TheHeckOfIt Před 11 měsíci +3

    Gotta admire him for making such a massive transformation and being so candid about it. Change is tough, but the change he made is even tougher

  • @JavierGonzalez-lp3ke
    @JavierGonzalez-lp3ke Před 4 lety +259

    Took tremendous courage for him to speak up for himself. This guy had me in a happy tear at least twice. Mad respect, man.

    • @scottstone1475
      @scottstone1475 Před 3 lety +1

      Your soft as a an old tomato

    • @michaeltapia8161
      @michaeltapia8161 Před rokem

      He had to kill someone in order to join MS 13 did you ever think about that ?

  • @jacquelineblue5123
    @jacquelineblue5123 Před 5 lety +486

    Well said, Mr. Lopez. 💜 This is a prime example that your past doesn’t have to define you. Great job!

  • @emmcatherine1460
    @emmcatherine1460 Před 3 lety +10

    Thank You Gerardo for your honesty and truth along your way. Thank you as you now inspire others truly. Light and Love along your path.

  • @RandomU2ber
    @RandomU2ber Před 4 lety +373

    Anyone else waiting for him to end a sentence with "esse" 😂

    • @naimahx3643
      @naimahx3643 Před 4 lety +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @mayn90s19
      @mayn90s19 Před 3 lety

      isnt that tall so you mean paragraph

    • @ruzicatowers8693
      @ruzicatowers8693 Před 3 lety

      HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAAAHAAAAAHAHAHAHA

    • @VitaminPoison
      @VitaminPoison Před 3 lety +2

      That word is for Mexican gangs

    • @VitaminPoison
      @VitaminPoison Před 3 lety +3

      @Roast Master Yea and they were used in Mexican gangs, specifically sureños and even the Mexican Mafia. Maybe fact check something before you comment?

  • @brickstunram9391
    @brickstunram9391 Před 5 lety +3514

    With this guy’s tone of voice, I was lowkey expecting a “carnal” or “vato” to slip out at the end of one of his sentences lol

  • @jtmnavy
    @jtmnavy Před 5 lety +7526

    I finally clicked

  • @randomrangoon5476
    @randomrangoon5476 Před 4 lety +13

    I imagine this man has stories that he can't tell on camera.
    Glad he got out and is now doing better

  • @carolenegabrail320
    @carolenegabrail320 Před rokem

    This was amazing. Thank you for this TED talk, Gerardo

  • @CoffeeAd
    @CoffeeAd Před 5 lety +5646

    I thought it was impossible to leave a gang. Like they say"blood in, blood out"

    • @TheBlackdragon936
      @TheBlackdragon936 Před 5 lety +602

      Funny Instagram Vines unless you snitch, pay out or God gets you out.

    • @BryanBarrerapket
      @BryanBarrerapket Před 5 lety +263

      Its just matter of time
      ...

    • @RackedandStacked
      @RackedandStacked Před 5 lety +83

      nothing is impossible!!

    • @cathyyg
      @cathyyg Před 5 lety +152

      That movie “Blood in Blood out” is so good 💪🏾

    • @AntwonThaDon
      @AntwonThaDon Před 5 lety +354

      You never leave... you just dont bang anymore.. but it’s still in your DNA

  • @emoquent9447
    @emoquent9447 Před 5 lety +523

    I never noticed how great this accent is for speeches. It really makes any speech more moving and captivating

    • @emoquent9447
      @emoquent9447 Před 5 lety +4

      @End Political Correctness of course not! its positive

    • @barahng
      @barahng Před 5 lety +23

      It's not really his accent, hes quite good at modulating his tone and volume for dramatic effect.

    • @pquin77
      @pquin77 Před 5 lety +4

      It's not his accent, it's the truth behind the words that moves our souls. We are all here together and built the same way.

    • @emoquent9447
      @emoquent9447 Před 5 lety +3

      I guess it would probably also be great without the accent, but the accent is more like the cherry on top

    • @alicyclicda3566
      @alicyclicda3566 Před 5 lety

      He walks the walk too. Pretty moving story

  • @sage2520
    @sage2520 Před 3 lety +7

    I work with at risk children and it’s so difficult sometimes to get them to turn their life around. When the only thing their families have exposed them to is the life of crime and drugs, I can’t blame them for the way they glamorize the lifestyle. I can only hope one day that the reality checks get through to them before it’s too late. People like this give me hope.

  • @joked87isback
    @joked87isback Před rokem +7

    Your a product of your environment. This man had the fortitude to look around that environment and realize that even though MS made him feel loved it wasn't real and that he had to not only find himself and leave his environment but now is helping the next generation who he sees himself in. Nothing but respect for this man. God bless him

    • @robertocabrera6521
      @robertocabrera6521 Před rokem +3

      great speaker and very informative information. God bless him and his organization.

  • @kgoon4689
    @kgoon4689 Před 4 lety +744

    This dude looks like he came straight out of just cause

  • @VelemaCSGO
    @VelemaCSGO Před 4 lety +1368

    To get kids out of gangs he made his own non violent gang.

    • @rudystraight1750
      @rudystraight1750 Před 4 lety +20

      Gang is a gang

    • @ericmendez5815
      @ericmendez5815 Před 4 lety +32

      The only thing who can stop gangs are armed Fathers and Village Men! The cops have failed.

    • @mattw6399
      @mattw6399 Před 4 lety +15

      Everyone needs a foundation for which they can grow, it can be a family, a gang, or anything but we all need something

    • @pahdy93
      @pahdy93 Před 4 lety +5

      We should award badges to good gangs and give bad gangs a silly hat to wear.

    • @3rdCoastAlliance
      @3rdCoastAlliance Před 4 lety +28

      @@ericmendez5815 the man just explained that MS-13 originally formed to protect El Salvadorian immigrants from Mexican immigrants. This is very similar to how most gangs form...they're discriminated against, they bond together, they protest against discrimination peacefully, the peaceful protests are ignored, then they begin to violently protest. It's the same story throughout history.
      You want to stop gangs from forming? Then stop discriminating against people who aren't like you, then there won't be a need for certain people to band together.

  • @installgreentoday
    @installgreentoday Před 4 lety +1

    Very encouraged by his testimony and what he is doing for the youth. Proud of you bro.

  • @misaeltoledo9704
    @misaeltoledo9704 Před 2 lety +3

    It is crazy how our youth is so easily impressed and joins not fully knowing the outcome...God bless this man and any one out here growing up in that struggle

    • @jbdbean242
      @jbdbean242 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes, easily impressed and easily led. And not just street gangs....

    • @misaeltoledo9704
      @misaeltoledo9704 Před 2 lety

      @@jbdbean242 very true

  • @nicosalinas920
    @nicosalinas920 Před 4 lety +3451

    Imagine if at the end he said "jk" and a bunch of gang members came in with weapons

    • @gottagrind22
      @gottagrind22 Před 4 lety +71

      Bladez fnm underrated, sir you are a legend

    • @nicosalinas920
      @nicosalinas920 Před 4 lety +6

      @@gottagrind22 😂 did you see my insta or my yt? Cuz on @bladez_on_mobile i have more recent clips

    • @chanburrell4513
      @chanburrell4513 Před 4 lety +9

      Bladez fnm wow so funny

    • @nicosalinas920
      @nicosalinas920 Před 4 lety +52

      @@chanburrell4513 dark humor isnt for everyone

    • @herbhungry7565
      @herbhungry7565 Před 4 lety +21

      did you just create multiple accounts to stroke yourself for that joke? so edgy bro. so edgy. you got some juul i can hit?

  • @ahmedmia6125
    @ahmedmia6125 Před 5 lety +395

    I want this dude to narrate my life to my kids one day...

  • @bxofficial5413
    @bxofficial5413 Před 3 lety +2

    Thank you for being strong and loving yourself first and then loving others 💯💪🏾 Help me

  • @osvaldotellez2044
    @osvaldotellez2044 Před 3 lety +4

    This is one of my favorite TedTalks by far. That man saved houndreds of lives without a single bullet.

  • @lilmoezoe208
    @lilmoezoe208 Před 5 lety +945

    Finally a true G doing some tedtalk

  • @MascarasMil
    @MascarasMil Před 5 lety +517

    Proud of you my brother.

  • @robadams1506
    @robadams1506 Před 3 lety +3

    Congratulation for sharing your story. More need to hear this message. Stay positive in you efforts. It will continue to be at the center of your peace.

  • @sheilag.834
    @sheilag.834 Před 2 lety

    Thanks a mil for putting this on here. People really need to know this. The news wasn't telling us what was really going on back in the 80s. ...

  • @jordonlarsen4752
    @jordonlarsen4752 Před 4 lety +431

    Damnit, I need to go to sleep. They just keep popping up.

    • @Bigdawg42069
      @Bigdawg42069 Před 4 lety +12

      Jordon Larsen dude I’m legit doing the same thing right now 😂

    • @jynkzy5587
      @jynkzy5587 Před 4 lety +3

      Dak Koob same bro

    • @K_Z_R
      @K_Z_R Před 3 lety +2

      Checking in from your comment posted a year ago wondering if you ever got some sleep 😁

    • @jordonlarsen4752
      @jordonlarsen4752 Před 3 lety +3

      @@K_Z_R Yes I did. Lol.

    • @bobthe7thh
      @bobthe7thh Před 3 lety

      @@jordonlarsen4752 how did you feel the next day because I'm doing the samething

  • @bruatou
    @bruatou Před 4 lety +601

    This hit me hard, I was lucky I never got into a gang my cousins and homies all were in one, and never let me join or let anyone try and mess with me, I was always working out and working I had different role models like Arnold Schwarzenegger and Larry wheels, Kai Greene and Ronnie Coleman, and I guess they saw that and made sure my passion was my main priority, I was one of the lucky ones.

    • @jackedvette8258
      @jackedvette8258 Před 4 lety +37

      Yung Wynna god blessed you

    • @darrenbrogan5328
      @darrenbrogan5328 Před 4 lety +1

      Wow you sound pretty tough

    • @anoncanon1100
      @anoncanon1100 Před 4 lety +10

      I didnt join cuz they didnt want me when i was annorexic but when i started to get to normal weight and was violating everything, seemed like i was in a gang already.

    • @NiSE_Rafter
      @NiSE_Rafter Před 3 lety +2

      Yeahhhh buddy!!! I'll never get as big as the men you mentioned but I sure do look up to them. Pure determination and willpower right there (and a sea of testosterone).

    • @psychedelicpain420
      @psychedelicpain420 Před 2 lety +1

      @@darrenbrogan5328 wow you sound pretty sarcastic for a simple inoffensive comment

  • @Satsui_No_Hado
    @Satsui_No_Hado Před 2 lety

    Best Ted talk I've seen in a long time , bravo 👏

  • @aliahsan507
    @aliahsan507 Před 3 lety +4

    His personality and way of speech was so captivating. Hope he's doing well. God bless him. Amen.

  • @daizonfyre6463
    @daizonfyre6463 Před 5 lety +476

    His accent! It just keeps getting more pronounced as he goes on. Especially with his hand motions. Reminds me of the mexican dude from Ant-Man.

  • @glidewillie5767
    @glidewillie5767 Před 5 lety +5869

    "How Ms-13 found me and killed me because I was on ted Talk"

    • @arthurias7693
      @arthurias7693 Před 5 lety +1051

      Part 2
      "How I came back to life to tell the story"

    • @nikoaguilera1960
      @nikoaguilera1960 Před 5 lety +1415

      FAA LCC idk if if ms 13 is sittin around watching ted talks lol

    • @MrMinigunman101
      @MrMinigunman101 Před 5 lety +114

      Niko Aguilera lmfao

    • @glidewillie5767
      @glidewillie5767 Před 5 lety +80

      Niko Aguilera I thought that they may have been sitting around watching CZcams 😂😂😂

    • @presentfigure92yearago89
      @presentfigure92yearago89 Před 5 lety +254

      Rephrase: "How Ms13 tracked me down through my Ted Talk"

  • @breannarroyo7866
    @breannarroyo7866 Před 4 lety +1

    Very inspiring, thank you Gerardo Lopez!

  • @jaclynsugg6662
    @jaclynsugg6662 Před rokem +2

    One of the best talks I've heard!!! Excellent advice!

  • @StraightOuttaAddiction
    @StraightOuttaAddiction Před 5 lety +229

    *It was like getting married at the weekend then Monday you regret it that's what it was like when I joined MS13.. what a great comment*

    • @steliokantos1118
      @steliokantos1118 Před 5 lety

      You must never been married lmfao!
      Boom im the new king of YT comments
      Haha

  • @c.1211
    @c.1211 Před 5 lety +382

    This guy has a big pair of balls! I must say, I respect that. Getting out is no joke. I know for a fact that he has to be always aware if his going to be killed for getting out. I hope that's not the case. I do wish him and his family the best of luck. I will pray for this dudes security. 🙏

    • @frezzyfears9473
      @frezzyfears9473 Před 4 lety +6

      It's like what they say " blood in, blood out"

    • @colleenjohnson1508
      @colleenjohnson1508 Před 4 lety +2

      Did he have to kill someone first to be in the gang ?

    • @c.1211
      @c.1211 Před 4 lety +2

      @@colleenjohnson1508 probably. Scary position to be in.

    • @sarahirodriguez3679
      @sarahirodriguez3679 Před 4 lety +15

      @@colleenjohnson1508 No, to be initiated in the gang he had to get beaten up by the gang members for 13 seconds with out surrending

    • @userhbiron1806
      @userhbiron1806 Před 4 lety +2

      @@sarahirodriguez3679 a lot harder then that

  • @truarnett5519
    @truarnett5519 Před rokem +1

    Wow! Congratulations Sir! I am so proud of you! How inspiring. 🙏💙🙏

  • @harryv6752
    @harryv6752 Před rokem

    Much respect and props to him for changing his life around and helping to change the lives of others around for the better. 🤘

  • @b.a.7046
    @b.a.7046 Před 5 lety +504

    My son goes to Adams City High, I gave him his phone back after he got in trouble just long enough to watch a little youtube! He found this and was shocked because he recognized Gerardo as being the principal from his prior year at ACHS in Commerce City Colorado!

    • @justinterrapin942
      @justinterrapin942 Před 5 lety +6

      Which city. I would love to speak with him. Please any info anyone can help with. Much appreciated. Awesome speaker.

    • @codyginther540
      @codyginther540 Před 5 lety +1

      My cousin goes to Adams City also

    • @b.a.7046
      @b.a.7046 Před 5 lety

      Cody Ginther, that's cool. i went to the old ACHS back in the day.

    • @PD-we8vf
      @PD-we8vf Před 5 lety +3

      Cali commie schools

    • @TheOnlyBobE
      @TheOnlyBobE Před 5 lety +14

      Justin Terrapin seeming like an MS 13 scout lol

  • @Sai-iz3ep
    @Sai-iz3ep Před 5 lety +117

    He looks like any normal person you would find on the street yet he was part of a gang.
    Bless him and I wish the best for him

    • @selacalifas5390
      @selacalifas5390 Před 5 lety +7

      Hriday Sainathuni theirs a lot of people like this but soon as people find out they were gang memebers they start to think negative about the person

    • @theredtomahawk6206
      @theredtomahawk6206 Před 5 lety +3

      Oh yeah yeah Why would you not think negatively about someone who was in ms13. He is charismatic and had a good speech. That is probably how he got out but his crimes are not forgivable. How many people he killed will get to go camping?

    • @shmeatloaf
      @shmeatloaf Před 5 lety

      Oh yeah yeah why is a maximillian fan here lmao

  • @professorrivera3471
    @professorrivera3471 Před rokem

    WOW! So proud of your achievements, Gerardo! Keep it up! Continued blessings to all the Davids in your group.

  • @davidclaro152
    @davidclaro152 Před 3 lety

    That was beautiful and it hit home for me. Thank you very much!

  • @DanJFilms
    @DanJFilms Před 4 lety +1618

    Ms-13 was literally the name of my middle school bus

  • @davidg2013
    @davidg2013 Před 5 lety +473

    Mother Teresa said once, if you want to change the world go home and love your family.

    • @itisimatadvc
      @itisimatadvc Před 5 lety +10

      That's why she spent her life as a nun fetching babies out of bins.

    • @dominikno3495
      @dominikno3495 Před 5 lety +6

      I know right. Unbelievable person, she unselfishly left everything and went to help those who didnt have a propper life/family.

    • @pomonoli
      @pomonoli Před 5 lety +7

      Noone ever changed th world by going home and loving their family

    • @r011ing_thunder6
      @r011ing_thunder6 Před 5 lety +2

      Right, they changed the world by changing themselves

    • @6angels451
      @6angels451 Před 5 lety

      Pomonoli that’s true to

  • @xVestmanx
    @xVestmanx Před 3 lety +1

    First ted talk like. I watch a lot of the videos but this one made me feel connected to my community.

  • @brittyluvzruben
    @brittyluvzruben Před 3 lety +2

    This talk brought me to tears ..

  • @marcossantana1312
    @marcossantana1312 Před 5 lety +994

    He got out of gangs, and those biceps are about to bust out his sleeves too.

  • @arthurfisher7198
    @arthurfisher7198 Před 4 lety +3058

    “I used to be a MS-13 gang member. Here’s how they can find me”

    • @spaghettios5252
      @spaghettios5252 Před 4 lety +382

      ms-13 gang members watching ted x yes

    • @arthurfisher7198
      @arthurfisher7198 Před 4 lety +267

      @@spaghettios5252 you wanna kill a traitor bad enough theyll find him anywhere.... just because theyre in a gang doesnt mean they dont do the normal everyday things everyone else does, theyre humans too with more free time than most people

    • @cerebrxll6064
      @cerebrxll6064 Před 4 lety +34

      AJ Fisher this got in my recommended so prob theirs too

    • @ctrlawpdelete8266
      @ctrlawpdelete8266 Před 4 lety +43

      Cerebrxll this man isn’t itachi they not gone come after him

    • @cerebrxll6064
      @cerebrxll6064 Před 4 lety +10

      CTRL AWP DELETE I know, a was just creating a scenario of how they could, because the other guy says they don’t watch Ted x

  • @karenkennedy6293
    @karenkennedy6293 Před 3 měsíci

    What a fantastic role model you are for fellow gang members who want to change their life and get out of that life.
    Hope for their future, believe in them and giving them love and support. You are living proof that people can change

  • @joshstephens3694
    @joshstephens3694 Před rokem

    amazing, thank you for this message!

  • @theomniscientvoid9553
    @theomniscientvoid9553 Před 4 lety +158

    Always beautiful when one transmutes their darkness into the light

  • @Supertalldude68
    @Supertalldude68 Před 5 lety +970

    Are you happy CZcams? I finally clicked the video you’ve been spamming me with.

  • @ornellarose6378
    @ornellarose6378 Před rokem

    WOW!!!!! You're truly Amazing!!! God Bless You and all your endeavors, You're truly making a difference 🙏

  • @luismendoza7739
    @luismendoza7739 Před 3 lety

    What a powerful speech! Amazing job

  • @Heelsandholster
    @Heelsandholster Před 5 lety +259

    It hit me really hard when you said that you were alone a lot. I have two boys. I am committed to being home. We have dinner as a family each night. I vlog about this. It isn't about eating healthy but also about breaking bread together and reflecting on our days together as a family. Thank you for this beautiful and complex talk.

    • @nicksmith3746
      @nicksmith3746 Před 5 lety +8

      Kristen Linton I hope the father is there too.

    • @Heelsandholster
      @Heelsandholster Před 5 lety +1

      @@nicksmith3746 he works swing shift so he is home with us 3 days a week for dinner. subscribe to my channel to see :)

    • @boctama6626
      @boctama6626 Před 5 lety +43

      self advertising at its finest

    • @KalvinJack
      @KalvinJack Před 5 lety +5

      He was born is El Salvador, use your head lady unless you are there or is some super poor area your kiddos are is no harms way of getting into gangs

    • @shaltonmartis1314
      @shaltonmartis1314 Před 5 lety +8

      @@KalvinJack thats not true. kids that grow up with parents absent alot of the time have a great chance to develop some kind of mental problem of disfunction and do bad stuff. do your research.

  • @mrsexy7242
    @mrsexy7242 Před 5 lety +153

    He chose the gangster life, but changed the life as a “normal” life.
    That’s awesome and great.

    • @runeplate123
      @runeplate123 Před 5 lety +3

      Not Normal.....”GREAT LIFE” you mean.

    • @bensong486
      @bensong486 Před rokem

      @@runeplate123 Not Great….. “AWESOME LIFE” you mean.

  • @geelovepooh
    @geelovepooh Před 3 lety +5

    I could listen to him talk all day🙌🏾

  • @darinvangundy4183
    @darinvangundy4183 Před 4 lety

    What an awesome message! Stay strong and keep leading our future generation in the right direction.

  • @thadude9850
    @thadude9850 Před 5 lety +3181

    Plot Twist : He's just promoting his Gang.

  • @xbrus1132
    @xbrus1132 Před 4 lety +598

    “CONSEQUENCESSSS”

  • @GODSON5000
    @GODSON5000 Před rokem

    I have much respect for this brother and I salute 🫡 you for everything you have done and been through. Your not just out here talking that talk your walking the walk. I truly believe in your methodology “EACH ONE TEACH ONE IN ORDER TO REACH ONE” great principle to live by.And I feel you when you say the police were punishing you for your sins of the past. And the fact that you didn’t give up and or give in to the pressure and you persevered on through all of that situation is a testament to your commitment. In my 50 plus decades of life on this planet I’ve learned some hard lessons like sometimes we end up paying for the slick ish we did out in the streets and thought we got away with in the past.

  • @jessicavolis2606
    @jessicavolis2606 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for sharing your story takes courage!