How To Move Out On Your Own (you can do it cheap and fast) 🗝️Tips on How to Get Your Own Place
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- čas přidán 25. 08. 2024
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I’ve had so many people request a video like this, and as I probably shouldn’t have filmed this at 2 am when I was so scatterbrained, I still wanted to share it for anyone who is struggling with or curious about moving out!
Please feel free to use this comment section as a safe space for questions of giving your own words of advice !
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"i don't like the idea of other people breathing my air" same honestly
I like my solitude and my space.
LMAO RELATABLE
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
real
I was attacked by my last roommate and have had so many bad experiences that I now have anxiety for living with others. I refuse to have roommates now.
ASAP: You need 3-4k in savings.
General: 6-10k in savings
Rent should be 1/3 of your income or less.
Keep 3-4 months of rent in savings.
Keep an emergency fund of 500 or more.
Utilities usually isn't ncluded. Ask your landlord for information.
Furniture will usually cost 0.5-1k.
Remember you need to stock your kitchen and bathroom.
Rent being 1/3 or less is absolutely insane, like I can't even imagine that.
hows 90k lol
@@VoidySan Yeah, rent where I am takes just over 50% of my net income.
@@gonasfwe don’t care
@@ongakira u
20yrs old and trying to move out by the end of the year bc of bad family circumstance. this helps a lot!
You can do it Newjeans!
@@maya356556 this made me laugh
Do you have your work/vocation planned out?
End of the year? This will be a piece of cake.. 6 months is a perfect amount of time to prepare yourself
Likewise!!!
literally just got in an argument with my mom and this the first thing on the timeline 😂
Same here!
We got that Momma Trauma don’t we 😔😭
Sending you so much love and luck.. mother issues are sooooooo painful and I’m rooting for you ❤
im glad im not alone. it sucks. Keep strong!
Lol same
"the worst they can say is no and you already said no to yourself when you decided not to ask for help so you may as well just ask."
dude, that really hit
this is gonna help so much. I’m 18 and currently homeless due to having to flee an abusive household situation at home. I have little to no money right now. thank you so much for this 💜
sending you love! you got this! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
hope all goes well
I hope you find a place you can call yours one day ❤
@@playdoh658 me too tyyyy
❤️❤️u got this
Im 19 almost 20 just feeling like my mental health is holding me back, having my own place immediately would be such a big help 😭
me too 🥲
me too i feel like i cannot live alone but i want to so bad
Glad im not the only one 😭
Me too im 20 and I feel like a loser
@@EdonaComadahoutieEveryone our age is struggling to move out, even people older than us. I'm 19 and struggling too. Don't be hard on yourself. You'll get out one day
25 year old male with a bachelor degree and no credit card, never had a full time job, never made more than 12k a year, never lived alone. I love third stage capitalist!
whats your degree?
It's not capitalism friend, it's like saying the USSR was bad because of communism. The USSR was "socialist" but slipped into more extremist policies (due to many bad, bad reasons), the problem we're having is corporatism and the legal loopholes our legal system has allowed. The problem isn't even corporatism, it's the lobbying of our legislators and the absolute down-to-the-core corruption of our legal system. Please don't take it as an offense but I recommend skimming through these topics, you'll find your own red string and develop a good idea of the shit we're all in. Don't get discouraged, keep applying, keep working to better yourself; DO NOT GIVE UP
@@ricardoosorio9726 ussr slipped into more extremist policies because socialism often encourages it imo
degree prob in roblox
Agreed @@ricardoosorio9726
note about credit: you want your utilization of it to be under 33% or it can bring your credit down so if your limit is $4k then don’t have a balance of more than $1320 at any given time :)
for renting, one thing that really helps me is finding an apartment that at least has *heat* included. depending on where you are in the country and the heat source, as well as the individual utility supplier, heating can add to your utilities in the hundreds and it can be a shock come fall/winter. even if it means renting a place for $100 more than another place i am eyeing, i would rather take a place with heat included for $1000/month than a place without it for $900/month
thank uuuu
true but it really depends on where you live. like if you're in CA or any warm/temperate area apartments generally don't even have central heating.
@@boinkadoinkk definitely! i’ve lived places on the west coast where i got away with space heaters through the winter (in WA). but when i lived on the east coast my heat related utilities climbed over $1000/month, because of the heat source (oil) as well as some regional political stuff with the energy supplier, living in a drafty 100+ y/o house, etc. so having not paid for heat during the warmer months, it was a major shock and stress and required a lot of budget reconfiguring. i recently moved to the midwest and since it’s also a cold climate for a considerable portion of the year, i made sure to find a rental that had heat included in the rent just because heat costs can be so incredibly variable and i like to have my expenses be as predictable as possible when budgeting :•)
All great points. Urgency can really affect people's decision making, especially when leaving abusive situations. So while somewhere without heating is better than not having a stable home, it's better to try and find somewhere with heat, if not all utilities included. Right now I only pay for electric and my ISP.
For the credit utilization thing - I realize most people have to take on credit for essentials, but as a general rule, I try to keep my credit utilization at less than 10% at all given times. This is easier to do with a larger credit card balance.
I'm not the best with my memory and the math, and tend to impulsively spend, but the way I do my best to manage my credit card is repay whatever balances I can within the same 1-2 business days. Or I forget and get overwhelmed when my credit card bill is due. It's difficult for me to keep track of bill payment dates that aren't automated. That way if there's other factors that negatively affect your credit (e.g. opening new accounts, lack of credit age, etc.) you at least have 10% or less utilization.
you look like you could be a character made by Tim Burton, youre so pretty and thanks for the helpful video!
lol I just sent one of her videos to my bf and said the same thing 😄
Omg true
Literally just comment this lol
I was looking for a makeup tutorial she’s beautiful
Plastic surgery. Lipfiller nosejob.
Hold the item in your hand for 10 minutes before buying, makes it easier to decide if you really actually need/want that item. Also, imagine where in the house you will put the new item, many things you don't actually need. Remember that every bit of clutter you accumulate before moving you have to move into a box and then move. I had too much stuff I didn't even really need, it was so bad, just stupid junk.
im glad i found your account. i am 19, been out of my parents house since i was 15. thank you! *i have also been homeless. the struggle is real girl lol
Im so sorry babe, it must have been so hard, I know it too
I’m glad you’re doing better.
Omg ur tough
@@kee7374 🤭💞
the amount of money you need really depends on where you are
Exactly. Watching this from California has me going 😬😬😬😬
Im from nyc… But I’m looking into SD (South Dakota) so this advice kind of help for me?
Better move to a cheaper state.
Florida got diversity. You can get a place for 1000 a month all the way to 650,000 a month. You can screw up your finances however you want here! 🗣️🔥
Studio apartments on the bad side of town go for $1600 here in Sac
Lot of good pointers in this video… Don’t mean to sound like a Debbie downer but wanted to add some more to the conversation here.
avg median rent in the us is $1533/month. Many places you apply want to verify that you will be spending 1/3 of your income on rent for you to even be approved, meaning you should be pulling in at least $4500 a month after taxes which would mean you would need to be making at minimum 69k per year. Let’s say you’re an average restaurant worker making 17$/hr. That equates to roughly 35k per year. At that rate, the take home pay is $2500/month. That means you can’t even get approved for anything that costs more than $833/month before utilities.
Now let’s scale back a little and allow for some wiggle room. Realistically you can maybe finesse an apartment for 1200/month, MAYBE even as low as $1100 BEFORE utilities. Let’s say you can negotiate with the apartment complex you’re staying at to allow you to stay at that rate even though you’re spending closer to half your monthly income on rent. Living very frugally, you spend 300-400/month on food. This leaves you with about $900 savings per month provided you have no bills to pay,.. but in all reality most people do have to pay other bills and gas, so let’s say you spend 200/month on gas and another 200/month on a car payment. That will net you $500 per month in savings. On paper that’s reasonable enough
So there’s our baseline, that’s where we can set our expectations.
Now let’s say you have a good support system, your parents allow you to stay at home and stack it up, you’re well adjusted, responsible, and able to handle the stresses of work without it taxing you, and you’re able to make a plan and stick to it. In that case then heck yea you’re fine, you’ll be able to stack that nest egg in no time at all!
But many people have no such luck. Maybe they’re not well adjusted. Maybe they don’t have very supportive parents or are overloaded by stressors at work, are already in debt, have other people leeching off of them, medical expenses, are starting from scratch. Stress spending is a huge thing. Some people party too much. Some people like to vacation a lot. These things makes building a nest egg more difficult, maybe taking the better part of a year or more to do. In those cases, which I think are fairly commonplace, I would recommend people to start tracking. Track your finances, track your stressors, see what you can do to gauge exactly where you’re at and alleviate your circumstances. Maybe you have a taxing relationship. Consider either renegotiating spending with your partner or ending the relationship. Maybe you’re eating out all the time. Consider eating less or making more food at home. Maybe you’re traveling too far for work. Consider working closer to home so you don’t have to spend as much on gas. Maybe you’re spending unnecessary money on drugs because you’re stressed out. Consider addressing the things that are stressing you out so you’re not doing as much stress spending.
Point here is I think saving enough to move out has a lot to do with lifestyle, circumstance and status of the local economy of the area you’re in, so it should be noted that all of these factors should be taken into consideration when making your plan to get out on your own.
It’s all doable, I just want to note these things because I think it’s important to remind folks out here to try to set realistic goals for themselves and not overextend themselves or bash their heads into a wall/feel like a failure bc they can’t seem to save enough and don’t know why
You’re 20?!? OMG!! I’m almost 30! I am still at home. This is super helpful. Thank you for the great advice girl!! Please pray for me I get the place I applied for. ❤❤
Wow… ur almost thirty and u still live with ur parents 😂
@@Mysterious-Night far more common than you think. 26 (obviously also almost 30, but i don’t know exactly how old op is) and in the same boat. there are a million and one reasons someone could be in that situation and attitudes like yours really don’t help. it’s one of the main reasons i’m still here, actually. no one wants to believe my parents are how i say, no one wants to believe that my lack of a job is because i’m not allowed to get one (legally can’t drive for medical reasons, no public transportation in my town, and i damn well can’t afford an uber). while i obviously could be reading your tone wrong, it just puts a bad taste in my mouth. same vibe as “just be happy” to someone with depression and “just leave lol” to someone in an abusive environment.
@@Mysterious-Night I have been dealing with schizophrenia and the BC housing costs. Judging by how ignorant your comment is and you are, you probably don’t know that in many places people save money to afford a place like Vancouver to live alone. Maybe when you grow up you’ll understand not all people have a linear time line. I can tell you’re obviously young and naive. :) I hope you enjoy this time in your life though. It’s very short.
@@EtheraLauer girl believe me I understand your issues. Just remember there is no right or wrong in a situation like yours. Use your gut not some ignoramous’ judgement on YOUR situation. It’s yours only. Only you can truly judge it. Based on what you wrote I’d look after yourself first and take good care. There are too many sharks on the internet. I promise there are nicer more accepting people out there in the real world. It seems they all congregate online. So be safe.
@@EtheraLauer u can work from home
15 years old here! this video is something I will def come back to later in life, my home life is shit and I know that as soon as I can I need to move out, So thank you!
I wish you the best of luck!! I’m also a teen looking to move in the future cuz of problems at home, so i hope it goes smoothly ^v^
@@cherries327 hope it goes well for you,too!
You can leave at 16 if a adult signs off on the lease
yo! i really wish you the best, dude! i believe in you :))
@@HuntersHome01but what if they won’t
hey just wanted to let you know this really is gonna help me later on, i’m 18 now but i’ve lived with my boyfriend and his family since i was 17 because me and my mom got evicted from our old appnt/is crazy. i feel bad for moving in and taking over his room + i’ve always loved my own space and there’s been some family issues so i plan on getting my own place as soon as i save up. I got a new job bartending yesterday and I’ve saved up my money for a little even after getting a new car, plan on the credit card soon (a little scared because my mom fucked up hers so bad)but i’ve done so much research. thank you
You can do it. Your story spoke to me so I believe you can do it. Keep it up 🫶🏾✨
I'm really sorry to hear that you & your mum got evicted!! :(
Congratulations to you on your new job!! 🎉 🎊 There's a lot of tutorials on here to make it less overwhelming for you. Just a reminder.
Years ago... I was given the advice of just buying one outfit at a time with your credit card, so that it isn't so overwhelming. I wish you good luck!! 🍀
*YOU GOT THIS!!!*
Dam I’d break up with you OG 😭😭😭 your POOR bf..
A credit isn’t scary I promise, it hasn’t even been a year since I have one and I’ve already gotten another one with cash back benefits and my score is high high right now too😊. Only use the card if you can pay it back in full, and only pay it after you get your statement (If you pay it before then your score won’t go up because it doesn’t get reported).
One of the first things you said were “I’m proud of you” you don’t even know me and you can say that to me? On the verge of tears right now. I just want to say I’m proud of you and this video is going to help so many people. I also want to say that I really appreciate you and your wisdom💕
hey - i’m proud of you too. i don’t know you either but you are on this video which means you’re doing things to make your life better suited to you, and that is something to be proud of ❤
@@Jupiter-james girly pop, I’m proud of you too and thank you💕
Lotta people here want to leave home and that's cool and all but remember that its all about your state of mind. You don't want to be depressed and having to work a full time job to pay bills for an apartment with zero personality just because your old self wanted it or because "that's what you should do." Make your mind your home then change your environment.
I hate apartments I would rather own my own home and get a job to make money
thank you so much for this video. i have been in a horrible situation all my life and i have had opportunities to leave but my mental health/money problems always ended in me moving back home. i would do anything to get out of this place and i have absolutely no support system so ty for being so gracious to share tips from personal experience. it will take awhile to get somewhere but I hope to come back to this video in a year and see the progress i have made, hopefully living in a new place💝
Wishing you all the best in your journey, you can do it! I've had mental health issues and money problems too but every little thing and effort that you make is going to help towards your goal. Just keep going and be safe 💖
I can relate to constantly ending up back home due to mental health issues. Wish you immense luck this upcoming year and I hope your support systems strengthen. I believe in you!
wishing you luck!! dont give up and if you do come back to this video in a year, hopefully by then you have your own place❤❤
I'm right there with you, hoping we can all look back on this one day and see how far we've come
I got kicked out of my moms house when I was 19. Pretty fucked situation. I didn't do it right and I ended up couch surfing for a minute with family. Made a deal with my mom where she would help me out if I got good grades. I don't talk to her now. She's a piece of shit. But by working smart and hard I got my own studio now in downtown with a beautiful city view. Its entirely possible. You just gotta be smart and play your cards right and you can create a beautiful life for yourself. No matter where you start. I recommend reading the 4 agreements, the 48 laws of power and 7 habits of highly effective teens for a mental tool kit to help u start. Moving out is entirely mental btw. Your biggest obstacle when your young is everything you don't know. Educate yourself, and you can make it.
biggest tip.. hit the library !!!!!!
Got my first apartment at 19, excited 🙏🏼
@@JohnnyCash-pi5hw why liar? are you jealous?
How did you do it??
@@willovacc_1847 I have been working since I was 16, have saved a lot and my job experiences led me to a good manager job, very thankful and possible for anyone
You're so comforting. Wanting to move out soon and it seems stressful. Waiting for a job offer. As soon as I get it, I'm out of my parents house *peace out hands*
Don’t give up on yourself
This is my situation too, I’m only 17!! Praying we both get the job! I need to get out of this abusive household asap 🥹
22, kicked out at 17 a week before i graduated 🎉 wish i couldve predicted it and used this video. only made it bc i never spent money on myself other than needs. hard on your mental health, but even harder is starving yknow
That’s fucked man wish you the best of luck
I’m 17 and watching this for future preparation 😅
This is me
I’m 17 and homeless right now. ..
@@puppydollgirl I fr hope you find a place soon goodluck
im 16 same
I’m 15 with a mother who threatens to kick me out! It even isn’t her house. I hope you all are doing alright at the moment in time 😕
im looking for my first job and youre so comforting its the first time i felt it isnt as scary as im making it, but also im ready to mature it up 💰
Im almost 22 and ive been trying to move away for a long time but fingers crossed i can move at the end of this year. I have a very bad home situation and i dont get along with my family, hense why i need out fast. Im trying to move to london which is far from where i am currently, but im also the only person in my family who has ever wanted to move out of our town, so im very scared to be the 1st. Hopefully I'll be back here to let you guys know i made it out by Christmas ❤
It’s scary but it’s even more terrifying staying there.. you got this, trust the process ✨🫶🏼
For those skeptical of a credit card. I love my credit card. You must be mindful of what you use it on and how much you total up. Try your best to pay it off without interest but if you do get interest pay an amount plus the interest when you pay it.
25 years old dude with a full time job with little schoolin but my parents let me live at home and pay rent but I do desire to move out. Thanks for the vid
crazy paying rent at that point you should pay rent to an actual landlord instead of wasting money on your parents. They shouldn’t charge you parents who do that don’t know what they’re doing in life otherwise they would’ve prepared you earlier in life to be independent
@@ogarrtI’d rather waste it on my parents either way and if it’s your parents it’s not really a waste
@@Phnmb the problem is that they think they’re teaching you something but in reality they’re keeping you stuck. if they’re struggling that’s a different situation, although you living there is not the reason..
but anyway, you are your parents child forever and you should want to move out of your own desire to be independent not because your parents are trying to make you by asking you for rent..
@@ogarrt the rent he pays is probably WAY less though
Stay there and save up as much as you can is the best advice I can give
This was so helpful omg thank you. I feel like I manifested this video. I’m moving to San Francisco by myself this year and I’m 18.
I’m going to San Diego 😅🎉
Ahhh I love SF!! I used to live nearby:) sending you so much luck
Moving into SF at 18 is bold, good luck, please think carefully and triple check the logistics of it.
I'm 17, and I'm tryna move out myself and get away from my terrible family circumstances. Literally got ran over by a vehicle, which has significantly fucked up my livelihood and further deteriorated my mental state to an extent of contemplating giving up, suicide, & murder to try to free myself from this nightmare. I've hit some low points in life, but holy shit, I've never felt such a stronger depressive state of mind up until this point. I've been in some rough spots in my previous adolescent years, but damn, this is like hell on Earth. I'm looking forward to getting a job, finding an apartment, and trying to never depend on people much outside of having somewhere to stay for now due to my current age of being a minor. Also, obtaining my ID and focusing on my goals in life. But it could be worse, I usually tell myself. I just wanna be independent and FINALLY be free & happy.
your advice is exactly what i needed this month!!! currently figuring out whether or not i need to move cos of religion differences between my parents and i... i will be taking this to heart :)
Religion differences are so heavy and so hard, from my experience it is absolutely worth it to move to your own place.. but if you’re safe where you are definitely save up as much as you can before you move so you don’t feel too stressed in your fresh new environment
I’m a 17 year old kid, although my money is at 0, I always dreamed about being on my own, although I’m not good with money, I’ve always felt better if I can just go out, and peruse my passions on my own, without the interference of family, I feel like I’m stuck when I’m with them, and who knows maybe it’s just teenage angst, I do love my family, but I feel that if I was in my own space it would be better, but of course I could be wrong.
I feel exactly the same way love i have 0 money, 17 , and want to to get out of my toxic environment bc ik i will grow more on my own and have freedom to do what i love, follow my passions without feeling like im being held back, and not good enough, and enjoy life! I hope everything goes well for youu!!
@@jiselleitzme661 it feels good not to feel so alone
You look like a Tim Burton character! And I mean this as a compliment!
I took consumer math which essentially helps you with day to day math things that would be used in your life. We learned how to calculate security deposits, utilities, down payments, etc. One of the key factors that stayed with me is having 28% of your money be for housing. The rule being that 28% of your earnings would be the maximum cost of a house you can buy with enough money left for any other necessary essentials. Hopefully this makes sense and helps anyone.
This convinced me to take consumer math
@@annafeather6086 yess if you ever need any help, I have all the notes from last year's lessons about car prices, full gas price, how to read and fill a check, installment plans, and I have it this year😎✨
in regards to finding things in dumpsters, I found a desk that I use in one. Granted I wore gloves getting it out and triple cleaned and disinfected it (stay safe yall) but it was a nice find. Keep your eyes out every once and awhile :)
$900 rent XD girl WHERE I need to know its 1400 absolute minimum here and I'm not even talking about in the city *edit: city as in midtown/most expensive area. I was making the point that this video is missing some crucial factors that come into play (area/part of town being one, which city or state you are located in being another) when it comes to how much any one will be paying. Just in case that might have gone over some people's heads..
right its like at least 1200 for me. at least the safe places are. I would rather pay that than live cheaply in the ghettos.
what state do you live in? i live in Illinois and there’s places for 700-800 in decent areas for 1-2 beds
@@cheesefries6453OMG really? Do know about the city??? I’m in the city.
@@cheesefries6453It feels like I’m held up bc, I have no clue where to go! So I’m like “blindly” saving for (I don’t know) 😵💫
@@cheesefries6453 WHERE 😭
u look like a monster high doll!! so pretty and your advice is so nice
it genuinely feels so safe here. thank you so much for this video and the comments here are great too. i’m moving soon and im young too, it seems really scary right now but im taking this as a sign that everything is going to be okay.
This video fr came at the right time. I fr just want a peaceful existence.
I was literally just thinking about how much I need to escape this terrible situation, and this video showed up! It's a sign I hope. 😢
Please make a video on budgeting! The way you explain things makes it so understandable
You’re only 20!!!!! Cool and you’re brave af
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There wasn't really any information in here that I didn't already know, but I couldn't stop watching because your voice is very soothing. I mean that respectfully, too, not in a scary way. I'm supposed to be moving out soon and I have a hell of a lot of drama going on at home, and I've honestly been a little shaken up as of late. But just sitting and listening to this sort of reassured me that everything will be okay, so thanks.
As someone whos been on there own since 14 do not rush and try to move out doing things cheap its not smart things are very expensive these days trying to minimize your belonging for your home are not gonna help because when the time comes to need it you wont have it and you will have to go get these things also do not just move overseas ever without preparing that goes for any state also just be careful not all advice is good ,make sure u have a job depending on how much money u have saved up or how much u make choose where to live
your such a majestical and empathetic human being and i love your vids, your such a down to earth person, and your content really helps people
Unrelated but your vibe is giving tim Burton and im here for it.
thank you, you are an angel❤💝im thinking about moving out with my friends since my community college is sort of far and i hate the idea of a dorm... these types of videos always make me feel hopeful and almost tear up-- knowing other girls were once in my position and THEY DID IT!!! and now theyre trying to help girls like me, the ones that are just starting out and are feeling lost or misguided.. you inspire me, thank you :)
came to hear the tips but I just gotta say, I've never seen someone wear so many percings so well, they just work perfectly with your aesthetic
For those who's moving not locally, you can rent airBNB(it's like a hotel but much cheaper) until you find an apartment to move into.
I would love to see a video about budgeting!!! This video was extremely helpful and I even took notes while you were talking. Thank you so so so much!
If you're fortunate enough to be in a safe space or have the option to stay living free do it to save up as much money as you can, otherwise be prepared to grind to afford living on your own but just remember that it's temporary. Try to find a roommate if you can, don't make it hard on yourself if you can easily avoid it! Secure a job, save up initial expenses PLUS try to have an emergency fund/buffer between what you know you'll have to pay monthly to live with no financial stress. Unexpected expenses always show up when least expected and could easily put you into debt which is hard to dig out of. Get real about what's a need vs a want. You'll figure it out, don't beat yourself up over making mistakes. We're all learning. ♥
i’m no longer in a crazy bad situation but i’m still not comfortable not being alone and this just gave me so much more insight on how to take that first step thank you so much
I'm trying to be ready to move out, have a feeling sooner or later I'm gonna get kicked out and I don't wanna have to start worrying about it while also trying to keep grades up in uni. Thanks for the advice, I've still gotta watch most of it but I will be back soon!
just finished watching, this 100% helped build my knowledge of how to move. Thank you!
This video came to me at a point where I couldn’t even fathom the idea of not depending on family due to mental health/motivational issues. This didn’t just feel like a how-to but a pep talk I needed and I’ve never came across your channel ever. Thank you so much. You’re absolutely divine for this.
Thanks, this helps a lot. For those who's trying to move out from toxic environment, I'm with ya
i'm so glad i found your video, this saved me so much worry because now i get my head in the game and make it happen by the end of this year
Thank you I’m 25 and moving from the 5th time but it’s so stressing now !
Your wise words really helps ! Thank u gurl ✨🧚🏽♀️
I love silence when I want to sit in silence, and not be uninterrupted by random BS. But I also like spending time with others from time to time.
this helped a lot, I am currently 20 and planning to move out by 2026. thank you.
Same, I wish you luck 🙏
My jaw dropped when you said you lived in Idaho, because I do too!!!😂
this has been one of the best advice videos on moving out I've seen thank you for this!
This was so helpful, and your whole aesthetic is such a vibe
YOU'RE SO AMAZING
i've lived in domestic abuse my entire life and recently my brother shot up our dads house (he's currently in a mental hospital that does nothing to help whatsoever) so my mom was planning to bring him here despite him beating her, my sister, and myself constantly due to mental disorders he just so happened to be born with i guess
I've been insanely lucky and met a family that seem really sweet with a daughter my age and they're allowing me to move into their daughters house for a relatively low price and I'm so nervous and stressed and terrified but I'm hoping to leave my family and improve my situation (I'm currently in the process of packing up)
I can tell that you've been through a lot, yourself, due to how kind and understanding you seem and I sincerely aspire to grow as strong as you are, I seriously thank you so much
stay safe
i fell asleep to this because your voice is so relaxing
This video really put things into perspective 💗 I love how you broke everything down, and that freebie alerts is a game changer thank you Sepherah!
This is such a great video! Your voice is so soothing. I just got out of a pretty bad situation, so my heart goes out to anyone looking for a place. And don't forget to take some time for yourself as well. Good luck everyone!😄
Had a mental breakdown and u popped up on my timeline thank u for the advice gorgeous💚
You know, seriously, your advice is amazing! You're great and smart! All the best! (-just subscribed!) Greetings from the EU!
To move out and have your own space, the first thing is to have a job. If your current job does not pay well, prepare yourself in getting a better job by getting certificates, taking online courses or going to college. Second, invest part of you income in real state and stock market.
You're literally ANGELIC omg!!!
this video was definitely not for me but I stayed to the end anyway. Cheers! Your doing some great work here :)
this was so great thank you! you talking about how to check in with your body to know if a place is right for you i resonate with so much. i had question about food though, how do you manage food and what to eat on a budget while staying relatively healthy?
thank you for this video
thank you for this video! this is so helpful
I will not say my age here but I had been thinking and worrying what to do first once I get there, thank you very much for this video
I’m moving out for the first time (relatively) soon, so I really really appreciate hearing all of this. Especially long before I want you to move
I love your energy so much. So calming and beautiful. Thank you for the tips
you are so sweet and comforting ily
loved this, thank you so much! a video on budgeting would be so helpful too
New subscriber here that saw this video in my recommended and just wanted to say thank you for this video! I'm turning 20 next month and I always wanted to move out but don't have the money to do it especially with how expensive things are these days. I will definietly be saving this video and come back to it in the future!
I'm moving out of state for school, and one thing that can help with accommodations during the trip is using airbnb for the night. They can be as cheap as $30 with tax and fees if you can find the right place! Motels and hotels for triple the price will often be much lower quality and it's just a waste of money. People's couches or rooms on airbnb are more bang for your buck.
omg I never thought I'd find you here on YT (I didn't know abt this but got recommended even though I know you from tiktok)
Thank you for sharing important info. God bless❤
This video is amazing! Thanks so much for sharing this info. I lost my mom and she would’ve given me advice on this kind of thing.
Your voice is so relaxing and lovely, like asmr
Same day, next year, I’ll be in my own place. I’ll come back here and tell you all
angel ♡ im so early today and i will watch it well 💕 i love youu 🎀🍀
NEEDED THIS
you have such a sweet voice and such a golden heart
You remind me of Emily from corpse bride … I mean that in the nicest way possible.
17, my mom is moving back to her home country after i graduate early from high school this december and my older brother will be moving out after i come back to the states so i’ll be alone with my dad who’s not even home at all. i really appreciate this video, thank you.
Thank you so so so much for this video! Besides making enough money, finding a home, and furnishing it, could you talk about the items necessary to remember to bring with you like SS card, birth certificate, copy of hs transcript, etc.?
This video hits home on every thing i am thinking about. I have experience on everything in life EXCEPT moving.
And i was thinking this out before even 1:00
I love the vibe of this video and I don’t even know why
someone trying to help others
this is very inspiring thank you!
$10k saved up to move out? Holy moly
Costs way more to live alone
Yeah everything adds up. But it’s realistic the more you have the better you are off on ur own.
This probably is a bit of a dumb question, would it be more beneficial to prioritize getting your own car before your own space? That's kind of what has me stuck😅
depends on your commute and lifestyle. you can rent cars for times when you absolutely need it or get uber that's an option too.
thank you so much for this video! i want to move out so badly but ive been anxious about it because i have no idea what to expect or what i am doing haha. but this helped me understand everything a lot more clearly
holy fucking shit dude. i've told people so many times about living alone. i got the whole town bitching at me about the same thing you get kudos for. i even got forced out of my apartment ( illegal rent raise, landlord never authorized secretaries letter) for living alone and not socializing with anyone. and i really mean no friends, family, or anyone.
can you make a vid on how to buy a first car/finance or/save for one
I got you ❤ probably this week!