You are amazing and your Tipps are top! I wish other women had higher self esteem to be able to recognise their own beauty and value to just say “next” in such situations
Do what I do. Leave them in your home country and go on your own. Then come back and tell them about got amazing your trip was because you didn’t have to worry about keeping anyone entertained and did what ever you wanted. Works for me 🤷🏼♂️
On my first dates I always paid my own way because I don't want to owe anybody anything This is about getting to know someone he doesn't owe me I don't owe him... If further down the line we choose to actually be exclusive I don't mind him paying sometimes and I pay sometimes.. but these rules are over the top crazy. Course I've been married almost 40 years so I'm out of the loop maybe..
I thought at the end you gonna pull the uno reverse card but no, you were being serious. You dunked your toes too deep into whatever it was. You need to come back and be real.
I am reading all this comments and I am really confuse. If someone doesn't text after a date, especially if they was the one suggesting it is rude. Someone that gets angry easily without valid reasons it shows that they are not able to manage their emotion in an healthy way. Being sure that you go home safely or asking to send a message when you are home shows good manner. Complaining about exes is just rude and shows poor manner, expecially if you are insulting the entire category of the gender of your date. It's a good manner to pay the trip based on income, and realising that if you are the one inviting the other person could maybe not be able to afford so be mindful of that. All this doesn't matter the gender, if the person is rude or disrespectful: next. If someone wants someting casual it's definitely not a good fit for someone that wants something serious, and viceversa. About splitting the bill or not, I feel like nobody talks about the culture. I live in europe, considered the country and the culture it can be extremely rude for the man not to pay or at the opposite to not accept splitting the bill. Sometimes it's rude if the woman even suggest splitting, other times it's rude if she doesn't offer. Honestly all this is very cringe, can't we all be honest and date only people that are compatible? I don't get why is considered "not ok" to say next to someone that is definitely not a good match for us.
One thing about trips if a woman brings up the idea of a trip do not act on it in any way just be amused. Until she sits down and gets her card out to pay for her half don’t even bother with your payment for your half. Don’t trip over yourself trying to pay the whole thing and have her pay you back !!!
If he complains about women being all about money, obviously she says next. Because that guy is too aware of women like this, who is a perfect example of someone who doesn’t care what the guy is like, simply what his bank account says.
Good afternoon, Madame Esther...I am in your debt... Have leared I HAVE TO be a Man and ask my Crush😮 out on a date!!! Plz realize some guys have to do a " You cant handle the truth "...
Wait. So she’s says if the guy complains that it hard to find a woman that isn’t after a man’s money, but then proceeds to give examples that the guy should be paying for everything without a mention about a woman offering to pay her fair share?? So hypocritical. SMH.
That's why she's single and trying to brain wash other girls into making the same stupid mistakes she has clearly been making herself. She clearly overestimates her own self worth
I would've guessed late 60s, maybe even 70s. Look at her skin (not just the makeup covered face). She's been around a while, and it shows. (I'm in my mid-60s, and I'm not single.)
If young teen women listen to this they will be forever single because they can t do anything and they need a LOT of patience from a man they are not in position to make rules they just need to obey competent mans rules to be tolerable and grow from his wisdom or she can move on for a better man who she will submit. Women at age 25-29 virgin and smart and assertive no kids can demand what they want because they are rare and smart enough to tell a man straight into face what they want to be happy
The real takeaway from this is: If they play games and you don't like it, keep that in mind the next time you decide to play these silly games on a date. Goose/gander.
I agree with a lot of these! But my dad would sometimes only pay for half of my mom’s expenses. For example, he would pay for half of my mom’s cost on a skiing date - since he had a higher salary
😅 so is this for people who have the option of being ridiculous and picky and holding someone to an impossible ideal standard? almost no one fills in all the check boxes. something gotta slide. expect to be disappointed when you find out they are only human
I honestly think u should do comedy sketches or do TV show about being a life coach u are grt and funny...hilarious as evrytin is true❤😂😢😅 Good luck Or maybe travel and do events about this im sure alot of people will come to event
Becareful that the "next" isn't because it's just one of your "icks." Being too picky may land you with a cat, cask wine, and a lonely single life. Also, with equal employment opportunities now and feminism in full power where too many dates ate just a "foody call for her free meal," men are sick and tired of paying for everything. So, show some respect by at least being prepared to pay your own way in the beginning.
I love your videos and agree on everything you share. I am an only parent to my daughter who is 5 and I'm focus on my business and Law degree. I have NO TIME FOR BS. I have to set the example for my daughter. Please continue sharing because she watches them too❤
I feel sorry for your daughter. You’re showing her that a man is there to treat her like the princess that she isn’t. How about teach your kid how to be self reliant and pull her weight in a relationship.
If a woman says any of this… next
I love the way you say “next” 😂
Ah yes, single women keeping other women single.
She's married (mentioned in other videos).
LOLOL. Another woman that gives great advice.... What a joke!!!!
if she has all these ridiculous conditions....next!
You are amazing and your Tipps are top!
I wish other women had higher self esteem to be able to recognise their own beauty and value to just say “next” in such situations
She’s single for a reason. Next!
Nuthouse material.
Next! Your clearly single
pay for her part of the trip? sounds excessive. i have a lot of women who want me. i won‘t take the gold digger
Do what I do. Leave them in your home country and go on your own. Then come back and tell them about got amazing your trip was because you didn’t have to worry about keeping anyone entertained and did what ever you wanted.
Works for me 🤷🏼♂️
They just want to pay their part.
I met a great man about a month ago. I could see he's interested but he hasn't asked for a date yet. Should I forget him?
@@danilaroche1156 definitely ask him out. if he‘s a great guy but single it might be because he‘s shy.
And then just get a cat 😂
My thoughts exactly 😂
My boyfriend gave me a kitten. 🤔
We're still together, and our cat is 8 years old.
If she's an entitled golddigger... Next!!
On my first dates I always paid my own way because I don't want to owe anybody anything This is about getting to know someone he doesn't owe me I don't owe him... If further down the line we choose to actually be exclusive I don't mind him paying sometimes and I pay sometimes.. but these rules are over the top crazy. Course I've been married almost 40 years so I'm out of the loop maybe..
If you go on a date with someone with these expectations.......NEXT!!!!
😂kkkkk nxt
I thought at the end you gonna pull the uno reverse card but no, you were being serious. You dunked your toes too deep into whatever it was. You need to come back and be real.
I am reading all this comments and I am really confuse. If someone doesn't text after a date, especially if they was the one suggesting it is rude. Someone that gets angry easily without valid reasons it shows that they are not able to manage their emotion in an healthy way. Being sure that you go home safely or asking to send a message when you are home shows good manner. Complaining about exes is just rude and shows poor manner, expecially if you are insulting the entire category of the gender of your date. It's a good manner to pay the trip based on income, and realising that if you are the one inviting the other person could maybe not be able to afford so be mindful of that. All this doesn't matter the gender, if the person is rude or disrespectful: next. If someone wants someting casual it's definitely not a good fit for someone that wants something serious, and viceversa. About splitting the bill or not, I feel like nobody talks about the culture. I live in europe, considered the country and the culture it can be extremely rude for the man not to pay or at the opposite to not accept splitting the bill. Sometimes it's rude if the woman even suggest splitting, other times it's rude if she doesn't offer. Honestly all this is very cringe, can't we all be honest and date only people that are compatible? I don't get why is considered "not ok" to say next to someone that is definitely not a good match for us.
"Als hij een vrouw tegenkomt zoals jou, neeeeext" opgetieft
There are no normal men left in this world.
One thing about trips if a woman brings up the idea of a trip do not act on it in any way just be amused. Until she sits down and gets her card out to pay for her half don’t even bother with your payment for your half. Don’t trip over yourself trying to pay the whole thing and have her pay you back !!!
If he complains about women being all about money, obviously she says next. Because that guy is too aware of women like this, who is a perfect example of someone who doesn’t care what the guy is like, simply what his bank account says.
Good afternoon, Madame Esther...I am in your debt...
Have leared I HAVE TO be a Man and ask my Crush😮 out on a date!!!
Plz realize some guys have to do a " You cant handle the truth "...
Wait. So she’s says if the guy complains that it hard to find a woman that isn’t after a man’s money, but then proceeds to give examples that the guy should be paying for everything without a mention about a woman offering to pay her fair share?? So hypocritical. SMH.
That's why she's single and trying to brain wash other girls into making the same stupid mistakes she has clearly been making herself. She clearly overestimates her own self worth
Thank you so much❤
That goes both ways lady,don't you women agree?
Makes me wonder how many men said "NEXT" to her... Her being in her 50s I guess A LOT.
I would've guessed late 60s, maybe even 70s. Look at her skin (not just the makeup covered face). She's been around a while, and it shows. (I'm in my mid-60s, and I'm not single.)
If young teen women listen to this they will be forever single because they can t do anything and they need a LOT of patience from a man they are not in position to make rules they just need to obey competent mans rules to be tolerable and grow from his wisdom or she can move on for a better man who she will submit. Women at age 25-29 virgin and smart and assertive no kids can demand what they want because they are rare and smart enough to tell a man straight into face what they want to be happy
It's not advisable to reach out immediately after a date. Especially if she didn't text first and say "thanks" for the evening etc.
If she didn’t thank you, that is not a good sign.
If she's a clout hungry internet narcissist guru spewing out nonsense...
I stopped watching after I saw a wrinkly elephant rug pointing like she is important and her opinions matter 😂
Um, wtf r you talking about, she's gorgeous
Her... Next !!
That goes both ways. I agree.
The real takeaway from this is:
If they play games and you don't like it, keep that in mind the next time you decide to play these silly games on a date.
Goose/gander.
❤thanks very much 🎉
Xha I like all comments But she is so good❤ obviously ❤
here's how it works. the uglier a guy is the more he has to pay for the lady.
Don't take dating advice from a middle aged single woman! 😅
And then when he does
She says next he too clingy
He’s too available
He’s not a mind reader
Typical foolish women mindset
When he calls and she likes him, then she will be pleased, otherwise she is not worth his time
If she says a man is too clingy or too available then she is obviously not the one
And that's exactly how you'll never let anyone get close to you. This woman must be bitter, she gives you tips that make you unhappy.
If you are bored with relationship advice… next 😂
Is that all what woman do? Next?
Hmmm very interesting
This is ridiculous 😂❤
Huh, so that's what a Barbie doll looks like after 30 sec in the microwave. Interesting experiment.
Thank you for showing me red flags 😊
Esther, wish my younger self had had access to your wisdom.
In unrelated news... Awful lot of "pick-me's" in this comment section. 🤣🤣🤣
Only men complaining here so we done know...NEXT😂😂😂
You are so beautiful ❤️
Give ,. . GIVE. . . Give . . .Give . . .
He stayed yes not for long first time I didn't care
I agree with a lot of these! But my dad would sometimes only pay for half of my mom’s expenses. For example, he would pay for half of my mom’s cost on a skiing date - since he had a higher salary
😅 so is this for people who have the option of being ridiculous and picky and holding someone to an impossible ideal standard? almost no one fills in all the check boxes. something gotta slide. expect to be disappointed when you find out they are only human
This chick is 50 and single 😅
I feel like aside from the money related examples, these are mostly pretty fair.
Sorry dating has changed, not 1999. Next
Woman explaining why she is single, and how she is increasing her body count while decreasing her market value.
Sounds like every man 2me...so dat's y I'm single and lovin it. She right ✅ very hard 2 find Mr. Right...so NEXT!!!
He is out there, trust me!
Next, love all those next
I honestly think u should do comedy sketches or do TV show about being a life coach u are grt and funny...hilarious as evrytin is true❤😂😢😅
Good luck
Or maybe travel and do events about this im sure alot of people will come to event
Becareful that the "next" isn't because it's just one of your "icks."
Being too picky may land you with a cat, cask wine, and a lonely single life.
Also, with equal employment opportunities now and feminism in full power where too many dates ate just a "foody call for her free meal," men are sick and tired of paying for everything. So, show some respect by at least being prepared to pay your own way in the beginning.
Love your content and especially love your dress 😍
If she is 50% Botox…. next
Replace "he" by "she"
😂
Insteat of he you can say she 😅😅😅
Who is this old queen 👸
See why she's single
Can't win! NEXT!
Waw if i was like this in the past i wOuld probably never had EX 😂😂😂
Lady ur not in ur 20s anymore. Better go for Younger and not so toxic
Eh i guess nobody is left then😅
If she wants you to always pay for her fun - *NEEEEEXT*
😂kkkkkk Next!!!
😂👍 good one
Thank you 😅
Yessss😅
Ik heb geen next gedaan in sommige van deze situaties en heb daar eigenlijk wel spijt van achteraf gezien.
When I see you ----- next.
Gee Id like to know what you bring to the table?? Be interesting.
this wommans treash talk...we dont nneed XYyou-
Stay alone.. next.
Please stop your bs theories. You don't have a clue about real men.
I hope this is all a prank, this list is longer than a letter for santa at Christmas bruh
Next
If she’s a single mother, next
NEXT
if he doesnt bend on his knees ..next!
And lick your feet next 😂😂😂😂
I've never dated anyone I wasn't friends with first so this is weird to me. Jumping from strangers to lovers is a gamble.
This is so wrong
Agreed 💯 ❤❤
I think next and last is then Ur cat
I love your videos and agree on everything you share. I am an only parent to my daughter who is 5 and I'm focus on my business and Law degree. I have NO TIME FOR BS. I have to set the example for my daughter. Please continue sharing because she watches them too❤
I feel sorry for your daughter. You’re showing her that a man is there to treat her like the princess that she isn’t. How about teach your kid how to be self reliant and pull her weight in a relationship.
Get a cat😂 u'r going to be singel a Long time
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