Four former wards of the state share their horrific stories of abuse | The Hui 2017

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  • čas přidán 18. 06. 2024
  • Quentin Tuwhangai, Hohepa Taiaroa, Eugene Ryder, and Riwhi Toi Whenua speak out about the physical, mental and sexual abuse they endured in boys' homes such as Epuni, Kohitere, Wesleydale, Owairaka, Hamilton, Lookout Point, and Corrections' Rangipo, and the cycle it created. The Hui's award winning 2017 investigation Ngā Mōrehu prompted the Royal Commission of Inquiry into Abuse in Care. It uncovered an unimaginable scale of abuse of children in state and church care. After years of hearing often harrowing evidence, the inquiry has sent its report and recommendations to the Government. Survivors are now waiting to see whether it will deliver the justice they have been seeking.
    Warning: contains confronting themes and language.
    Made with the support of Te Māngai Pāho and NZ On Air.

Komentáře • 64

  • @jamescooper-hope6930
    @jamescooper-hope6930 Před 26 dny +10

    I wholeheartedly hope all these gents are doing well today. This is what true bravery is, respect.

  • @kjmax1068
    @kjmax1068 Před 24 dny +7

    This tears my heart. Beautiful souls are still there waiting for healing. Let peace come to you all. ❤❤❤

  • @luckykemara7847
    @luckykemara7847 Před 27 dny +12

    there stories are tika...been there brothers,was in a few of those places as well.stay strong,believe in yourselves.try to become a better person bro's,and move forward.

  • @Simo76195
    @Simo76195 Před 23 dny +2

    My heart is breaking watching this. Sincerely praying that all victims of these horrendous crimes heal and get justice

  • @vanetta-joehendriks6018
    @vanetta-joehendriks6018 Před 25 dny +5

    Wishing nothing but love and light to these tane. Thank u for sharing your stories

  • @ngabushallday6642
    @ngabushallday6642 Před 27 dny +12

    Was in Kohitere in 77
    Was a lock-up, in Kiwi villa.
    Kohitere was a place of prodigious dysfunction, violence, including sexual violence was just a part of being there.
    We did learn to fight in those places, not everyone though, some boys were too afraid to help themselves, other boys became girls or acted like girls.
    When i look back, i cant believe how evil this system was, the people who operated these places knew how fukd up they were.
    There are no records available today, all of the institutions that were subject to this commission of enquiry, no longer exist, record keeping wasnt considered a priority.
    Funny.

    • @rodeo4786
      @rodeo4786 Před 24 dny +3

      That bit of boys became girls or acted like girls hit a nerve because it happened to my younger cousin soon after he was sent to Owairaka in the 1980s.went to visit him a few times then he quietly told me what he was going through.he didn't want his parents to find out I felt so angry and helpless what to do how to help him all I could do was support and encouragement at the time I did nothing said nothing to those in authority its something I've been deeply ashamed of not trying to help him but I know he sees the home as the culprit and no animosity whatsoever to me even though in my mind I should have at least tried to do something.

    • @ngabushallday6642
      @ngabushallday6642 Před 24 dny +2

      @rodeo4786
      You need to let that go my bro.
      You were powerless too, it's impossible to process the reality of something like that, whether you're in it or witness to it.
      You could have a sit down with your cousin if he's still around, could be some healing for both of you.

    • @rodeo4786
      @rodeo4786 Před 24 dny

      @ngabushallday6642
      I get it much appreciated take care 👍

  • @JesusIsComing99
    @JesusIsComing99 Před 26 dny +5

    ❤God bless these men and all those that went through that suffering. May all heal and be delivered from all that was done to them. 'Beautiful Brothers'❤

    • @Iam0.
      @Iam0. Před 23 dny

      Fuck jesus

  • @johnfox6662
    @johnfox6662 Před 23 dny +3

    Kia kaha my brothers, much love and understanding from me. We rise above or let them win. That damaged inner child can now be healed and loved by you. Much respect

  • @stephenlennon7369
    @stephenlennon7369 Před 27 dny +6

    Awesome mahi Mahingarangi ka mau te wehe

  • @KayzKara
    @KayzKara Před 12 dny +1

    Awesome you guys my heart goes out to yous nobody or no child deserved to be abused like that it was never your fault our system was not built 4us

  • @user-sx3nt2do1u
    @user-sx3nt2do1u Před 25 dny +3

    I am half way through this and need a break
    Can’t fucking believe what you fellas and all the others went through
    So sorry for your lives being torn apart
    So grateful for your strength to speak up
    May the force be with you

    • @tinkat2208
      @tinkat2208 Před 24 dny

      Me too, they were just little kids

  • @Bebedollie
    @Bebedollie Před 21 dnem +1

    There is beauty in the broken 🙏Kia kaha 💔

  • @estelleanderson9788
    @estelleanderson9788 Před 23 dny +1

    Ty for sharing and exposing them

  • @nickywilliamson6514
    @nickywilliamson6514 Před 23 dny +1

    This is so heart breaking 😢

  • @lorrainebarry7184
    @lorrainebarry7184 Před 24 dny +1

    these men are very very brave i was abused in foster care for 7 years by my foster father and two foster brothers you never forget i hope all of you guys get Justise me I'm not as brave as you guys I don't want to talk to anybody yeah I'm 63 years old you are not believed but you guys are very brave survivors of that horrible past you all endured I feel for all of you today i still don't trust people

    • @daytonprerssilp7544
      @daytonprerssilp7544 Před 14 dny +1

      You are brave just for commenting ❤

    • @lorrainebarry7184
      @lorrainebarry7184 Před 14 dny

      @@daytonprerssilp7544yes i can relate to what happened to them or anybody else its happened too thankyou very much for your comment

  • @JRTIGER07
    @JRTIGER07 Před 23 dny +1

    Some people shouldn't be Parents .. if you can't look after yourselves what makes you think you are going to be a good parent .. Just want the Solo parent unemployment Benifit for selfish reason not for the kids that suffer ...You will give an account on Judgement day.
    May God's love be with all those who suffered in Silence ❤

  • @sandrareihana2559
    @sandrareihana2559 Před 20 dny

    I bet those social workers who abused these men & are still alive, will be having sleepless nights, wondering when they get a knock at their doors. The time when everything is disclosed & no longer hidden has arrived.

  • @jewelz5761
    @jewelz5761 Před 24 dny +1

    😭 May God bless you all ❤

  • @jesstandy7098
    @jesstandy7098 Před 15 dny

    May we use the mistakes of history to create a better future.
    Today is a brand new day, let yourself be present in it.
    From my heart I send you all the love and light you need to love yourself! The very best thing you can do is love yourself MORE everyday.
    The system is crumbling!
    The evil in the hierarchy has been exposed!
    Some people aren't ready for the truth.
    Be honest anyway - much love ans respect for sharing your story 🌍🌿💚

  • @silita6193
    @silita6193 Před 22 dny

    this abuse still continues love respect to these men imagine the abuse our wahine went through still going thru

  • @AlmaDaFunn
    @AlmaDaFunn Před 25 dny +1

    Sad thing is that more kids are going into government care today

  • @mariaharris5753
    @mariaharris5753 Před 25 dny +2

    For a females prospective i can relate 😔 big time, i take my hat off to these brothers an u feel their mamai and I 😥💔

  • @vx3533
    @vx3533 Před 16 dny +1

    Expose it so it wont go forward to the future it stops here

  • @freddiegibbs586
    @freddiegibbs586 Před 8 dny

    Yep my dad was one of these kids he spent the next 40 years in jail

  • @trendingnow8499
    @trendingnow8499 Před 27 dny +4

    Mauri Ora Tuakana Ma

  • @tinavirtue4650
    @tinavirtue4650 Před 21 dnem +2

    Tru warriors been to the dark lands n back too the light Brothers

  • @davisnicholls8714
    @davisnicholls8714 Před 24 dny +2

    You guys are true heroes, thanks for sharing, kia pukuru o vaevae kia mokora o kaki.

  • @matai2437
    @matai2437 Před 24 dny

    My son is tied up being moved around the north island Morehu is also the name of his mother also in the Ratana Church this information was handed to me at moms funeral in Te Kuiti i have unfinished business in Australia over Identity theft and corruption be back home in October

  • @bronwynsmith2157
    @bronwynsmith2157 Před 16 dny

    Seem like nice Men to me its the system that failed them they still fail children now😢Respect to them all for opening up can be the hardest thing to do but needs to be done.💯its okay to not be okay❤

  • @skyline472
    @skyline472 Před 27 dny +3

    Most of the guards will be still alive

    • @user-dz5ju3jj1z
      @user-dz5ju3jj1z Před 27 dny +2

      Of Course some are still Alive..

    • @user-dz5ju3jj1z
      @user-dz5ju3jj1z Před 27 dny +2

      I feel you guys..I was a in Miramar Girls Home ..Kingslea.. Christchurch... Brings back memories...I'm in deep Counseling..I'm 63 now...As a kid I was a runaway..put in the home,. thought I was safe..Not..f..king not..a bigger hell..

  • @BradCollier-zn2uc
    @BradCollier-zn2uc Před 4 dny

    Kia Kaha whanau ❤ they got their karma I'm sure but apologie need to happen

  • @churhikurangi3311
    @churhikurangi3311 Před 15 dny

    The stolen generation continues.

  • @RaheraTeika
    @RaheraTeika Před 25 dny

    😔💪❤️✊

  • @debraimahupuku6798
    @debraimahupuku6798 Před 24 dny +3

    How sad you make it a maori issue. I grew up in the Hutt Valley and there were plenty of boys that this abuse happened to. Both maori and pakeha. Why not make it about what really happened and not a racist issue.

    • @ngabushallday6642
      @ngabushallday6642 Před 24 dny +2

      Hey there buddy, I think you're not seeing the issue here, yes there were pakeha kids that suffered abuse within the social welfare system in 60' 70' & 80' in these institutions.
      The problem though, is that the vast majority of them came from less than 10% of the national population.

  • @karenhubbard1644
    @karenhubbard1644 Před 27 dny +4

    The sins of the colonizers.the truth must be revealed to ste these men and many others free. .

    • @LuanaHenare-gp7ii
      @LuanaHenare-gp7ii Před 25 dny

      Exactly the sins of the colinizer.Our men were broken to keep them down. Our parents worked and lived the pakeha ways! Drinking was new to the Maori and broke our families down. These guys are showing there true kaha and spiritual guidance from our tupuna

    • @LuanaHenare-gp7ii
      @LuanaHenare-gp7ii Před 25 dny

      Exactly the sins of the colinizer.Our men were broken to keep them down. Our parents worked and lived the pakeha ways! Drinking was new to the Maori and broke our families down. These guys are showing there true kaha and spiritual guidance from our tupuna.

  • @shaririki7343
    @shaririki7343 Před 24 dny

    MK ULTRA TAUTOKO ❤

  • @hardlydavidson1937
    @hardlydavidson1937 Před 26 dny +1

    All lies.
    There just trying to get a free ride in life.

    • @TroyJensen-ns9zc
      @TroyJensen-ns9zc Před 26 dny +3

      Yea on your mum.

    • @tonigilsenan6320
      @tonigilsenan6320 Před 24 dny

      I think you got the free ride. Your mother should have taken plan B

    • @hardlydavidson1937
      @hardlydavidson1937 Před 24 dny

      @@tonigilsenan6320 so you're most likely one of them that's been on the benefit all your life.
      You should've been born if your going there or your parents been deported back to South East Asia

    • @rodeo4786
      @rodeo4786 Před 24 dny

      Yes they are acting aye. Porangi

    • @tracymichaelsen493
      @tracymichaelsen493 Před 22 dny +1

      Lies. Wow you are wrapped up so tight in the comfort of your ignorance. You must be so proud of your outlook on life.

  • @shonatyson5934
    @shonatyson5934 Před 22 dny

    So sick of the violence done to people shame on the goverment take responsibily

  • @shonatyson5934
    @shonatyson5934 Před 22 dny

    my heart cries for you all