Tana Almost Lost Everything in Lawsuit Against Her Parents

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Komentáře • 507

  • @devanemily4552
    @devanemily4552 Před rokem +1551

    The fact that Tana went through actual CHILD NEGLECT and her parents tried to sue her for it…. I can’t even fathom how hard that must be for her.

    • @christylynn451
      @christylynn451 Před rokem

      She’s a horrible person

    • @LunaLoveBad6969
      @LunaLoveBad6969 Před rokem +19

      @@donk8105100%! Especially being young in Vegas.

    • @amalio_3098
      @amalio_3098 Před rokem +8

      They did sue her and won hundreds of thousands 💀💀💀 its so annoying cuz people always talk about karma but why did they win

    • @amethystjones9677
      @amethystjones9677 Před rokem

      ....lol Tana is a pathological liar. Its mind boggling that ppl buy her bs not to mention like her.

    • @michmonty95
      @michmonty95 Před rokem +4

      Not saying there wasn’t neglect, abuse or addiction but she has videos talking about how her parents held birthday parties for her with her friends staying at hotels & spas etc so there was definitely some spoiling going on there too.

  • @TheMinorsRap
    @TheMinorsRap Před rokem +1973

    I used to sleep with knives unter my pillow because my father would threaten to murder me and the rest of my family when he was drunk.
    My mother was a hoarder and she stole all my money and kicked me out of the house at age 17 leaving me homeless.
    I am a single father now, and the silver lining to all I've been through is I can confidently say I'm the best dad ever for my son

    • @xokaylee5252
      @xokaylee5252 Před rokem +33

      wow congratulations 🥺💓

    • @hannabooklover
      @hannabooklover Před rokem +64

      Hell yeah dude, break the cycle

    • @snoozy7698
      @snoozy7698 Před rokem +21

      good for you man, hope your son has a great future with you as a mentor/role model (an important thing many kids don't have growing up).

    • @Sarcasmtomasksadness
      @Sarcasmtomasksadness Před rokem +14

      God bless you dude. To turn around your life that way and be a good Dad is the best thing ever.

    • @lisakrikke1991
      @lisakrikke1991 Před rokem +7

      They’re our healing❤️‍🩹 am proud of you.

  • @tylercala
    @tylercala Před rokem +1731

    I used to clown on Tana and I NEVER would have thought I’d ever feel for her on anything- leave it to h3 to draw that out. Kudos to Tana for surviving (literally)

    • @gaylonm.weasel4669
      @gaylonm.weasel4669 Před rokem +9

      I know it right I'm gay too

    • @KP-wj9ch
      @KP-wj9ch Před rokem +18

      Same, I used to not like her but this has really opened my eyes to what kinda person she really is. I'm grateful to have learned more

    • @gaylonm.weasel4669
      @gaylonm.weasel4669 Před rokem +2

      @@KP-wj9ch seriously, I'm definitely gay too

    • @woolphallus
      @woolphallus Před rokem

      She's still trash, she's just gotten better at manipulating people. It's so crazy to see the insane fandom d!ckriding of her just because she has opened up about bad things that happened to her. That's literally a tool in the manipulating handbook that sociopaths use to get people on their side.

    • @frogdrug8282
      @frogdrug8282 Před rokem +16

      I found her annoying but never had a reason to hate her or dislike her as a person.
      Even with all her public mistakes as a content creator.
      It seemed like she was just struggling with life and it was being translated into her work.
      I wish the best for and that she continues to grow and find healthy coping mechanisms

  • @KaylaMarieYT
    @KaylaMarieYT Před rokem +558

    tana used to talk about her childhood and how bad it was all of the time before court. i remember in one of her old videos her saying how she could be so sick, high fevers, throwing up. clearly needing to go to the ER or something and her dad wouldn’t let her because he didn’t want to pay for it. she’s been saying talking about this since her very early days in youtube and it was always just insane to me. and hearing that makes so much sense to me in why she acts the way she does. at some point you do have to take responsibility for your actions, but man. shit like that fucks you up.

    • @miafilesi557
      @miafilesi557 Před rokem +14

      Disgusting. How could you do that to your own f*cking kid!!!?

    • @SP-ov1cf
      @SP-ov1cf Před rokem +3

      She also said she’d fake a bunch of illnesses to get out of school so maybe he was tired of her crying wolf

    • @KaylaMarieYT
      @KaylaMarieYT Před rokem +24

      @@SP-ov1cf if your kid is sick, you take them to the doctor. there is a different between faking sickness and throwing up or having a fever.

    • @cakebby18
      @cakebby18 Před rokem +10

      Anyone else remember the video where she said her dad would ride around on a bike with a gallon of milk 😂

    • @marcellasanchez497
      @marcellasanchez497 Před rokem +2

      @@SP-ov1cf that’s not normal for a child to do though should’ve been a concern

  • @sltorras
    @sltorras Před rokem +831

    And all of that probably just cause she’s an only child and nobody can back her up. As an only child myself it’s terrifying. Nobody believes you and your parents can brush it off as “you’re playing the victim” and even making you believe that and question your own experiences. It’s people with normal parents telling you “but they’re your parents” trying to give you lessons. It’s really lonely.

    • @Deliberatelyme26
      @Deliberatelyme26 Před rokem +20

      I know EXACTLY what you mean and you're 100%correct!

    • @oliverxhmll
      @oliverxhmll Před rokem +16

      my brother is on the autism spectrum and he forgot about his emotions by getting addicted to video games and he acts like nothing bad happened now. He literally invalidated my experiences. It doesn't feel any better

    • @maddiefaye696
      @maddiefaye696 Před rokem +14

      Actually I had a sister who most of my childhood never believed that my mother was a narcissist because my mother scapegoated me and my sister was the baby so she was an angel. Pressure caused me to try to be perfect to please my mother until I was around 14 I realized no matter what I try to do to make her happy she will never be happy because of her own mental issue. Then when I left for college finally to be free and about 2 hours from home I really understood I was not the problem.

    • @maddiefaye696
      @maddiefaye696 Před rokem +8

      My mother started treating my sister the way I had always been treated. My sister a few months in called me on the phone crying about how mean our mom was and complaining about how she was so controlling and everything I had always dealt with. I comforted her. EVEN THO I WANTED TO SAY I TOLD YOU SO. Now me and my sister are closer than we ever were because as children we hated each other. We were pitted against each other and now the trauma has brought us together so I guess that's as happy an ending you can have but trust me having a sibling doesn't help. Narcissistic bullshit never feels okay even if you have someone experiencing it with you. Her trauma is different and I have a lot more in my opinion but she was hurt too and I was able to forgive her for being brainwashed to hate me. Anyway I hope everyone heals and breaks the cycle. Peace and love 💕

    • @nicokl5593
      @nicokl5593 Před rokem +4

      @@maddiefaye696 yeah the scapegoat child and the golden child have very different perceptions of their parents. So having a sibling in the same house doesn’t always mean they will back you.

  • @blethr
    @blethr Před rokem +556

    tana opening up about her life has completely flipped my perception of her upside down. everything about her makes sense in a way. i really hope she continues to thrive and i hope she comes around more often and stays with the h3 gang.

  • @becky5760
    @becky5760 Před rokem +229

    How ironic that suing her for defamation would paint them exactly how she described them to be. Cherry on top of the sundae.

  • @GhostBlossom
    @GhostBlossom Před rokem +418

    It’s so sad how cruel some parents can be to their children. I’m glad she got out and found her own family ❤

  • @anditaylor1452
    @anditaylor1452 Před rokem +956

    This new era of Tana is ✨AMAZING✨ confident, powerful, resilient, and genuine.

    • @yonicepaprika7534
      @yonicepaprika7534 Před rokem +7

      “Era” sounds minimising on the internet. All her struggles are real.

    • @anditaylor1452
      @anditaylor1452 Před rokem +28

      @@yonicepaprika7534 I think you're reading a little to much into my comment, and wanting to put a unnecessary negative spin on it. Touch grass my dude ✌️❤️

    • @bubba94290
      @bubba94290 Před rokem +19

      Didn’t you guys say the exact same thing about Trisha? Y’all are too quick to give credit without evaluating if a person has actually changed

    • @zaccccccccc
      @zaccccccccc Před rokem +5

      @@yonicepaprika7534 era’s are used to identify time periods. and with tana, she has had so many era’s on the internet. don’t deep it

    • @martinam7806
      @martinam7806 Před rokem +1

      Seems she really is grown up now and put together

  • @FancyRPGCanada
    @FancyRPGCanada Před rokem +310

    I used to really hate Tana, but now it really makes sense the way she acted. The poor woman never had a childhood. I’m so sorry she went through that. I’m so happy she’s healing and growing

  • @DeeKTee
    @DeeKTee Před rokem +99

    The fact that she has to dance around her answers in fear of opening herself up to her parents again is so heartbreaking. Thank you for sharing. I hope she can heal.

    • @kaylavarela7215
      @kaylavarela7215 Před rokem

      She can also legally get in trouble for talking about them despite it being the truth. They can come for more money. Send another lawsuit she has to fight or settle. She’s playing it safe and smart. They already took so much from her.

  • @SunshineTinkle
    @SunshineTinkle Před rokem +247

    I’m not rich nor do I have a reality show but my mom has been trying to sue me/press charges since I was 18… over literally nothing. I resonate with this so much. I’m a mom now & I love it & it’s something I’ve always wanted to be because of how bad my mom was to me.

    • @hannabooklover
      @hannabooklover Před rokem +2

      I'm super curious as to why, but if you're not comfortable sharing then you don't have to. I hope you and your child(ren) are doing great

    • @yomom8476
      @yomom8476 Před rokem +11

      the threat of legal consequences from your parents should always be a red flag. It’s a form of manipulation to keep you silent. my mother would threaten to sue me when I started talking to my therapist about the problems going on at home. She never did go through with her threats but at the time I felt so alone and scared because I couldn’t talk to anyone. I’m sorry you went through something similar

    • @Cuddlybunny222
      @Cuddlybunny222 Před rokem +1

      @@yomom8476 it should be illegal for parents to sue their children unless the reason is actually real not some fake be.

  • @LuvableAF
    @LuvableAF Před rokem +33

    When Tana said people would push her to talk to her Mom, and say "call her call her", I could totally empathise and related 100%.

  • @nikkydasilva1785
    @nikkydasilva1785 Před rokem +90

    This explains a lot as to why she is the way she is. She’s traumatized for life that is so unfortunate that her own parents couldn’t be there for her. Man it’s fucking sad. Good for you tana for staying strong and riding above you are an amazing human!

  • @maddylee5607
    @maddylee5607 Před rokem +194

    As someone who has a bad relationship with my parent(s), I understand the sadness of considering their death even though you don't like them.
    I feel like its the morning of a relationship you should have had with your parent and the relationship you'll never have with that person.
    Start writing that book; give it time and thought, and when the time is right, publish it.

  • @Sara-xk1ns
    @Sara-xk1ns Před rokem +119

    I’m really glad Tana has grown and evolved into the woman she is. Her younger behavior was chaotic but clearly happened for a reason. I think the therapy and life experiences she’s had have really matured her. She could’ve turned out totally different but I’m glad she didn’t. She deserves happiness and success and I hope we can hear more about the real Tana bc she really comes across as a loyal, loving, friend which is rare to see in LA. I’ve been liking seeing her and Jeff together too. I think they’re both good for each other right now.

  • @cherylmorris7067
    @cherylmorris7067 Před rokem +213

    I just don’t understand how her parents could sue her for “slander” or defamation or whatever when she’s speaking out on the truth. If that’s what she lived through and the truth, how could they even prove that she was slandering and defaming them. It’s very upsetting, and it makes me very sad for her. I’ve been through something similar with my own parents and I couldn’t imagine being silenced. Awful

    • @Jessica_Costantini
      @Jessica_Costantini Před rokem +20

      idk personally i’m skeptical of anything she says 🤷‍♀️ just being honest

    • @nicolelara14
      @nicolelara14 Před rokem

      @@Jessica_Costantini she has been talking about it for years now and from what I can recall her story has always been the same

    • @sumtxflygrl1
      @sumtxflygrl1 Před rokem +2

      @@Jessica_Costantini same 🙄

    • @Balxu
      @Balxu Před rokem +18

      The issue isnt really if its the truth but if you can prove it. I had family members sue me over something similar and I was lucky that I had my siblings to back me up. Otherwise I wouldve lost aswell, it was terrifying. But its just their word against hers

    • @Jasmine-ot8br
      @Jasmine-ot8br Před rokem +1

      Imagine how shocked Eminem was when his mom sued him

  • @onism8906
    @onism8906 Před rokem +94

    I never knew this about her im literally in SHOCK she was 15!!!! thats insanity im so sorry for her

  • @sophietjexd
    @sophietjexd Před rokem +62

    For those who are first hearing of Tana's childhood, she talks a lot more and specifically in some of her videos. She made an entire (I think 40-minute?) video about her dad and tells very detailed, specific stories and in a somewhat funny way. It's called something like "Opening up about my insane father". It's the first video that made me really relate to her. It's honestly a great video if you're struggling with abusive parents bc I felt very validated and somehow more positive (bc the way she can laugh about it, even if the situation itself is horrible)

  • @Chloe-dv9hf
    @Chloe-dv9hf Před rokem +28

    i’ve had similar thoughts about talking to my parent(s) on their deathbed and i remember a hospice nurse telling me that even if it’s a parents dying wish to see you, you don’t owe them anything. you don’t owe your abuser anything and it’s absolutely fine to decline, it’s also fine if the only thing you feel is relief afterwards.

  • @sweetgirly888
    @sweetgirly888 Před rokem +27

    I love the way H3 has conversations with guests. No one cuts off too much, the convos go back and forth and everyone listens and reacts. Im so used to people these days being so bad at conversations and not listening or caring. Refreshing 😍🙏🏼

  • @guillianademetrez9675
    @guillianademetrez9675 Před rokem +27

    I feel her so hard when she says she always has the irrational thought that they might some day change or say sorry even though another part of you knows that will never happen

  • @thatwitchychick2717
    @thatwitchychick2717 Před rokem +51

    This type of situation is why myself and so many other victims of child abuse are terrified to come forward until their abusers are dead.
    I was terrified growing up that I would say the wrong thing to the wrong person and my parents would take me to court to ruin my life. They were the exact type of people to do so. People made fun of me and told me it could never be that serious.
    I'm so sorry Tana for the shit you had to live through. It never goes away but it does hurt less over time. I'm 30 now and just now feel like I'm starting to see a future without those psychos in it even though we've been estranged for a decade. Good luck to you.

  • @firelordOzai3
    @firelordOzai3 Před rokem +67

    I always knew this woman went through a lot in life just because of her jokes and I hope her success grows more as compensation for this extremely bad start

  • @InfoSecIntel
    @InfoSecIntel Před rokem +109

    I hope Ethan gets Tom the lawyer or PnP to call in and explain how the heck her parents were able to successfully sue her for this. It's so ridiculous that she lost and I want to know how that's legally possible.

    • @youtuber89895
      @youtuber89895 Před rokem +62

      From what it sounds like she didn’t “lose” the case, but settled out of court because she didn’t want to deal with the emotional trauma of confronting her parents in a public court setting. (Which makes sense)

    • @velcro-is-a-rip-off
      @velcro-is-a-rip-off Před rokem

      they had the money and toxicity to keep it going. anti slapp laws in california (and Nevada?) come into play, but Judges can deny those claims. They could drag on for a long time, like she said, and become public information, and she loses control all over again over what happens to her and how vulnerable she becomes to an entire world, basically. Many people with the money would pay to prevent that and take it as an essential cost of living. Many people pay off terrible people to keep them away. Victims are re-victimized by perpetrators using courts, all the time, every day. She paid what she could and probably grateful she was able to make it stop.

    • @youtuber89895
      @youtuber89895 Před rokem +13

      @@velcro-is-a-rip-off absolutely, it’s unfortunate that some victims are deterred from seeking justice due to the emotional trauma that comes with the court cases as well. This is also one reason why so many victims of sexual assaults, domestic violence, etc can be hesitant to press charges.

  • @anyalaASMR
    @anyalaASMR Před rokem +53

    Holy shit I just had basically the same thing happen with my dad about a year ago.
    I cut contact with him when I was about 12, and now I’m 20 and recently found out he was sick and had a lump in his throat that was spreading. I didn’t think I would be upset, but I cried.
    Sometimes things like that catch you off guard, and maybe someday I’ll talk to him again, but for now, I know I won’t.
    Basically, feel how you wanna feel about your parents, no one else can understand the experience you had with them, and grieve how you grieve.

    • @lemondaeh
      @lemondaeh Před rokem +1

      I needed to read this

    • @anyalaASMR
      @anyalaASMR Před rokem

      @@lemondaeh I’m glad you did ❤️ I hope you’re well

  • @jamienicole1987
    @jamienicole1987 Před rokem +22

    This is why I've always been a Tana fan from day 1....as a fellow child trauma survivor no one gets it unless you've lived it, my father recently apologized I'm 35 & stunned.

  • @hotpinkkt
    @hotpinkkt Před rokem +30

    Wow, crazy how close Tana and my relationship to my parents is. My mom has NPD and is a covert narcissist. I have diagnosed BPD due to it. Me and Tana were soooo alike and basically have the same backstory. I hate my mom too and wish cancer on her, My therapist even said "sometimes the best relationships we'll have with our parents are when they are dead".

  • @CaySandy
    @CaySandy Před rokem +34

    can we take a second to appreciate hila’s look

    • @girleyreds11-11
      @girleyreds11-11 Před rokem +1

      Seriously my first thought was WHAT DID I MISS...IS THAT HILA??? WOW!!!

  • @TheMosesFile
    @TheMosesFile Před rokem +27

    NOT RARE!!! I’m going thru something similar right now. With my fiancé. And his parents. Exposed it all and they’ve threatened to sue us and take our home. Because they have control over the land until we pay them. They threatened to shut off our water. It was and is bad. I love tana so much more and relate with her SO MUCH.

    • @mariahm6059
      @mariahm6059 Před rokem +4

      they gave y’all land though lmao they didnt do shit for her

    • @bece00
      @bece00 Před rokem +9

      ​@mariah m you're a bad person LMAO

  • @Cmoreau27
    @Cmoreau27 Před rokem +43

    This was such a good episode and Hila looks STUNNNNNING

    • @LovelyLauraZoo
      @LovelyLauraZoo Před rokem +2

      Omg for real i was looking for this comment about hila lol

  • @BobaTeaBeech
    @BobaTeaBeech Před rokem +28

    Ethan and Hilas reaction really shows how kind they are and what good parents they are. It’s always people surprised at your abuse because they can’t fathom doing that to their kids. I hope Tana heals from this, I can hugely relate.

  • @thewindmariahh
    @thewindmariahh Před rokem +8

    Hearing this breaks my heart but seeing Tana speak so eloquently and be so raw and vulnerable is incredibly refreshing. I’m so proud of her and I wish I could give her a hug. I had a similar upbringing and I’m just proud of her for being so strong.

  • @LeXyStAr77
    @LeXyStAr77 Před rokem +17

    People that didn't have shitty parents will never understand that feeling of Not wanting nor caring about your parents. And what A LOT OF PEOPLE don't get is that they're people and not all people are good people and when bad toxic shitty people have kids they don't automatically turn into wonderful caring parents. And it is TOTALLY OKAY not to have a relationship with your parent(s) . You don't Have to be in their lives if they are bad .

  • @sheady
    @sheady Před rokem +40

    i remember watching a video of her going to urgent care and she said she never had healthcare growing up. Her dad would take her somewhere tell them to bill him and never pay it. next time she would need to see a doctor she’d go see a different one and he’d do the same thing. i think that’s what the lawsuit was about. not sure why else they would need medical subpoenas haha.

  • @saraho204
    @saraho204 Před rokem +8

    Trauma dump time: i also never grew up without routine either, although I'm the youngest of 3 and have a single mom. I'm 18 and moved out with my own apartment now. My mom was emotionally abusive, as well as physically verbally, s/xually weird, (not assault probably), etc. Starting when i was 14 one sibling was diagnosed with schizophrenia and had a drug addiction- during covid i was home alone all day and my mom was a health worker, gone all the time. He was going in and out of our house and homelessness and jail, i was so scared and he made several attacks at our mom, police would call me to tell me to lock the windows sometimes, it was terrifying. Now that it's over i haven't processed it well yet, but learning to live has been really difficult. I've watched countless videos of "how to clean floors" or "how often to clean x", or how often to floss shower etc. It's so hard when no one taught you. It's so hard being lonely. But i keep making more friends at university and things are going well. When i was in middle school i loved Tana's videos, they were exciting to me. I'm very introverted so it was crazy to me, but now i really relate to her. It's kind of touching to me. I hope she continues to heal and i can't wait to read the book.

  • @kyranicole6899
    @kyranicole6899 Před rokem +27

    I’m glad that Tana made it on YT and made a life for herself bc who knows what would happened to her otherwise 😢

  • @samanfersilyk
    @samanfersilyk Před rokem +5

    i’m so glad she talks about this. people think she’s crazy and troubled but she’s a human with feelings. i grew up poor & neglected but not so horribly to where i couldn’t say i don’t love my parents. you can only imagine what she went through

  • @cazzi6927
    @cazzi6927 Před rokem +6

    Tana def went thru it as a kid. She was forced to be an adult so young, now she’s finally able to act like a kid. I’m so happy tana was able to raise herself as well as she did…things could have gone so wrong…but whether u think so or not, she’s doing so good!! She turned her life around!! We don’t have to grow up in the situation ur in and stay stuck there, if u know there r bigger and better things out there, and u know what u want, Tana is proof that u can start from nothing, and improve ur situation, and damn Tana has improved hers!! She is doing so good, and she literally did it on her own. She’s a brave brave girl ❤❤ I’m so pissed at her “parents” and the legal system, these bad ppl didn’t take care of her, didn’t love or support or care for her…then had the audacity to sue her for telling the world, look, love me or hate me, this is what I went thru, this is what I came from, this is where I am now, and I did it on my own…and these assholes sue her!!! Wtf!!! U were never parents, then u come take her money!!! F U those r not parents!! I’m so proud of Tana!! ❤❤ I would love to read a book from Tana, I bet it’s going to be amazing!! I can’t wait for her to be able to finally say her truth!! And I can’t wait to see Tana be a mom!! We learn what not to do from how we were raised, and we can do better for our kids ❤

  • @vvvvvalentine
    @vvvvvalentine Před rokem +4

    My mom thinks she was a good mom to my brother and I. She fed me dog food, made me shower in the hose outside, let "doctors" alone with me in a room, choked me, hit me, threw me in pools, etc. And she is still my mom right? I talk to her like a distance friend. I understand Tana completely. The way she talks about this in this interview, to me, makes her look INCREDIBLY strong willed.

  • @nellysw0rld
    @nellysw0rld Před rokem +51

    Honestly I stan. I’ve been watching her since the beginning.

  • @Brimarieddddddddd
    @Brimarieddddddddd Před rokem +13

    I used to make videos on CZcams and made a couple about being no contact with my mother and how hard it was. I talked about why and what it was like growing up ect ect. My mom got word and started saying she was going to sue me and I was a liar. It was really scary. To have the person who gave you so much trauma than threaten to take your livelihood is awful. Not to mention how it feels to be gaslight that you are lying and it “never happened” can’t believe her parents actually won.

  • @TR-ly6kq
    @TR-ly6kq Před rokem +8

    I 100% used to judge her before but this brings a completely different perspective. She has been trough a lot and this explained so much. Wish her the best.

  • @LoveAshleyChristine
    @LoveAshleyChristine Před rokem +6

    I have always felt that connection with her... I related to this so hard with one of my parents. I am proud of the work she has done for herself. It's hard to leave that...

  • @gucciraccoons1637
    @gucciraccoons1637 Před rokem +7

    There are laws to protect child actors from their parents stealing all of their money. A percentage of everything they make goes into so,etching called a Coogan Account that can’t be accessed until the child turns 18. Something like this needs to be set up for all child entertainers immediately.

  • @nathycolombia
    @nathycolombia Před rokem +14

    I havent watched H3 since just after baby #2 was born and holy shit Hila I was not expecting to see you blonde and with makeup. You go girl!

  • @keiviajando5168
    @keiviajando5168 Před rokem +5

    can’t emphasize enough how much I relate to Tana’s situation. Her feeling towards the ab^se when it was happen and how she feels about it now, and about her parents… If there was someone I was not expecting to relate to it was Tana and here I am. I can see the excitement to break the circle of violence. Love that for Tana. You guys kept it very respectful and empathetic for her and for that I say thanks

  • @serarrist
    @serarrist Před rokem +23

    SO MANY of the things Tana said about her upbringing and her relationship (or lack of) with her parents RESONATED with me hard and made me feel so much less alone about my memories of my childhood.

  • @lilly-id7js
    @lilly-id7js Před rokem +6

    so glad tana is beginning to really tell her story, shes been saying for years she's gonna do a tell-all and i hope she does. i relate to a lot of what she experienced growing up, and even now i can relate to her cutting off contact with her family. i think its really important for people to see this side of her. this kind of parental neglect/abuse/manipulation is so common and should be called out.

  • @maleerowell1087
    @maleerowell1087 Před rokem +5

    Emotionally and verbally abused everyday from childhood to my teens by my Asian mother - since moving out to this day have never received any sort of acknowledgment or apology other than “yeah I know I had some bad days” or something vague and not at all enough. Makes it hard to move forward with a genuine relationship just trying to ignore and forget all the pain. Some people just can’t accept the consequences of their actions or see it from the others perspective.

  • @seaurchin4451
    @seaurchin4451 Před rokem +9

    I remember when she had her parents on her CZcams channel reacting to her Hugh Hefner music video and it all made sense why she is the way she is.

  • @beavis4664
    @beavis4664 Před rokem +9

    it's messed up how she got pretty famous when she was still really young and dealing with all this, people immediately formed an opinion on her because of her behavior and still hold it to this day. even though her brain is like developed now lol, it's just weird how people are so objective

  • @neen2660
    @neen2660 Před rokem +9

    My half sister had that same moment with her very ill and awful mother. It’s sad.

  • @stephbeth8228
    @stephbeth8228 Před rokem +12

    This actually makes me really sad for Tana

  • @Taylor-jv5od
    @Taylor-jv5od Před rokem +10

    I saw tana in Vegas like 4 years ago it was right after the Jake Paul wedding she was with her mom taking her out gambling for her birthday but there was this weird tension between them like she was super quit and kinda just there it was really sad actually now that I know this

  • @amanda1838
    @amanda1838 Před rokem +12

    Wow I never knew this about tana it gives me a totally different view of her

    • @shaggygriffon
      @shaggygriffon Před rokem +1

      literally me too! i used to roll my eyes at her back in the day, but now i can see why she acted that way and while im sad for her, im proud as hell that she is fighting for HERSELF finally. makes me grateful i have an amazing family, not everyone is that lucky it seems :(

  • @angel101w
    @angel101w Před rokem +5

    I can relate to tana and what she went through so so so much…. And I just want to say I am so proud of her for making it out and making her way. 💕

  • @777savw
    @777savw Před rokem +3

    Im a longgg time tana fan & watcher & her story always gets me. Love her so much & proud of the person shes become & is actively becoming everyday❤️

  • @flynnmehlhopt3186
    @flynnmehlhopt3186 Před rokem +5

    What a refreshing view of a controversial figure. I don’t like in USA but hearing someone silenced for telling their side of life is always heart breaking. Big up Tana. Respect up.

  • @gagaleras
    @gagaleras Před rokem +3

    Tana and I share the same age but I always saw this level of maturity that she was always ahead of. She's really looked like she's not afraid of anything. Now I think I understand why she behaved that way. I'm glad she's happy and has a family, blood-related or not, that supports her.

  • @sharongonzalez6162
    @sharongonzalez6162 Před rokem +4

    The way she’s saying opinion because opinions not slander in legal terms is beautiful

  • @ashleeburden
    @ashleeburden Před rokem +4

    Not my Vegas experience but if ur bad ya

  • @afiggy17
    @afiggy17 Před rokem +3

    The way Hilas face went to concerned mom 🥺🥺😭

  • @casperdimmick2245
    @casperdimmick2245 Před rokem +6

    I grew up with tana as my role model. In combination with being in foster care and then was adopted by a really emotionally removed couple, growing up it was a super traumatic so I followed her footsteps of making crazy decisions with the only goal of having a crazy story to impress my friends with, living in a car for over a year, all of it, she’s the reason I looked forward to doing crazy shit, otherwise I probably would have just ruminated in my abuse and trauma and would have focused more on taking my life. In a super weird way, tana was one of the biggest role models in my life, she’s exactly like my friends growing up.

    • @christylynn451
      @christylynn451 Před rokem

      How sad you chose a degenerate as your role model? What’s wrong with you?

    • @casperdimmick2245
      @casperdimmick2245 Před rokem

      @@christylynn451 I was 14 fuckwad

  • @stephhhknee
    @stephhhknee Před rokem +2

    This makes me see her in a different light honestly. So much childhood trauma becomes detrimental and I’m so happy for her making it with her crazy ass stories and becoming so successful. As a parent to three amazing children I could never ever imagine taking a penny from them even if they offered.

  • @caramckee2558
    @caramckee2558 Před rokem +5

    hoping one day that someone may change is the worst feeling:( love u tana

  • @mumemimomy
    @mumemimomy Před rokem +4

    Never knew this would be happening in the background of her life at that time. Im so sorry Tana!!

  • @annaconda78
    @annaconda78 Před rokem +7

    When she talked about the dental work I cried , I’m older then Tana, and due to illness and abuse i look like an addict is so bad 😢but never drink or smok or due drugs , it’s so sad I can’t afford i I woudl just love to fix it , now I also have a hard time eating and beeing sick with neurological illness is so expensive, I just hate this no one would ever knwo I just close my mouth and don’t speak to people and hide , it’s sad really sad 😢 it’s actually worse then my illness to not have teeth and look somewhat normal in mouth area is torture 😭😞🥺

    • @minaharker674
      @minaharker674 Před rokem

      I relate to you so hard. Just tryna tell myself hopefully my inner beauty shines through.

  • @p0werpunk9irl
    @p0werpunk9irl Před rokem +2

    Why do people always do that? Why do they make it the CHILDS responsibility to make amends. She was the literal child in this scenario. Why the hell do people say “but that’s you mum” yeah, and? She clearly was never any kind of mother. It is never the child’s fault or their responsibility. See this is why narcissist parents get away with what they do so much. Not every single parent is in the right. And I am saying this, as a parent!
    I genuinely enjoy Tana when she’s serious and understand her and why maybe sometimes she is the crazy person she portrays to the world a little more. And I feel for her. I feel so sad that she has never felt that love from her parents. And the fact that she has no siblings to lean on and to help her to see that the way she feels is valid is also extremely sad. I really really hope that one day she finds that thing that she needs, whether that be from them or maybe from her own children one day.

  • @mrs.elentz2336
    @mrs.elentz2336 Před rokem +11

    This is so sad. It was until I became a mom and later a bonus mom that I realized that the childhood I had and the childhood that my children had and have is really becoming less and less common. I had the BEST parents growing up and I try my best to emulate that for all my children- bio and bonus. I didn’t know until becoming a bonus mom and entered therapy with my husband to blend best we could that even things like empathy is taught. 90% of people aren’t born with it. On top of all the “social shit” parents are supposed to teach their kids.
    Im EXTREMELY blessed and I never knew it until in my late 20s, early 30s. My husbands childhood story is very similar to Tanas. He has nothing to do with his bio mom today. He’s now 8yrs completely abstinent and getting his ministerial license, but it led him down a dark path of drugs and alcohol to numb it all.
    Tanas a strong young woman!! She’ll be a great mom one day- she’s very aware.

  • @babytriin
    @babytriin Před rokem +2

    i always knew from the first ever video i watched of tana that she was missing something in her life. but the way she’s acted in the past and even now, it explains everything. i love her sm

  • @larasmeath5792
    @larasmeath5792 Před rokem +6

    She is honestly such an amazing women who is trying to get through life with what she has been dealt with and she is KILLING IT!!!!

  • @doeeyes2
    @doeeyes2 Před rokem +2

    Wow I follow Tana kinda closely, like keeping an eye on her and how shes doing bcuz she reminds me of a younger version of myself.. and I had no idea this whole lawsuit thing was happening. But I am happy to see the growth in Tana, especially lately. Shes a real one. Alot of people hate on her but she grew up in the spotlight with ZERO parental influence. Im honestly proud of who shes become, esp considering her past. Shes a multi millionaire and she did that 100% on her own. Not just the Onlyfans, her Merch, Dizzy Wine, the MTV show and growing a devoted audience thru her youtube channel and other social media finessing thru brand endorsements... before people even knew what a discount code was. TanaCon was clearly a diaster but she was like 18 at the time!
    Also Ive seen Tana's parents on her channel back in the day... and she telling the truth, her parents are a piece of work.

  • @princesssdoll15
    @princesssdoll15 Před rokem +2

    Im happy to see all the Tana support but she’s been saying this for years !! I remember her telling a story about how her parents didn’t use AC in the summer in LAS VEGAS bc it was too expensive . In Las Vegas !! Where you can fry an egg on top of a car! 😢🙄

  • @cujcrew9497
    @cujcrew9497 Před rokem +2

    Hands down one of the hardest 180 interview I've seen on h3

  • @Hekeepblessingme
    @Hekeepblessingme Před rokem +7

    This is NOT a rare upbringing …

    • @vjc25
      @vjc25 Před rokem +8

      The only rare part is that she got super rich afterwards lmfao

  • @RiloCooper
    @RiloCooper Před rokem +8

    Crazy how they used to ride and make fun of Tana and all her content, Tana-con, EVERYTHING!!! Now they have her sitting across the table 😂🤣

    • @smome7773
      @smome7773 Před rokem +2

      Not really crazy 4 H3 . They're always open to changing their minds

  • @mads1864
    @mads1864 Před rokem +3

    I stopped watching Tana at one point but with this information it makes so much sense the things now. won me back for sure. my mom is a narccist I went no contact with her on my 20th birthday when she cussed me out on the phone. that is the final push I needed to say goodbye forever lol

  • @jaydenhere6722
    @jaydenhere6722 Před rokem +3

    Being indigenous is really common for your parents to not care about you in any way. Most of the time they’re just wanting a pay cheque from you.
    I wish I could go on here to talk about how native people are treated.

  • @maddiegracie4427
    @maddiegracie4427 Před rokem +3

    i’ve loved tana since the bleach and tone days. she has should a beautiful and genuine soul.❤️‍🔥 when parents kick it, her book should be called; Tana Unsilenced

  • @johny_playz7059
    @johny_playz7059 Před rokem +10

    Never thought I could relate to Tana. My parents are probably not as bad as hers but they were absolutely shitty parents. And I’ve said several times that if could one day pay to never see my mother (just cuz step dad is gone) again I definitely would.

    • @em84c
      @em84c Před rokem +1

      I haven't spoken to my mother in over 10 years. She hasn't tried to contact me either. I feel bad for my half sister though. I hope I see her one day but I don't want to see our mother

    • @johny_playz7059
      @johny_playz7059 Před rokem

      @@em84c dang that sucks. I kinda feel the same way because although I could very easily move out rn, my siblings need me cuz I know damn well that without me my mother would struggle to take care of them. For context I’m the oldest and help take care of them in many ways. Also I really do hope you can see ur sister again soon.

  • @Gypzee
    @Gypzee Před rokem +7

    we are so much a like.. same birthday, same name but im tanya marie, same fucked up childhood, but i got preg at 16 trying to escape, the dad left me too. ive been in survival mode my whole life. im glad you have a better life now

  • @Youtubing5999
    @Youtubing5999 Před rokem +3

    I loved Tana when she was younger and just started CZcams. Hated her during the idubbbz drama, etc. She became very problematic very quickly. It seems like lately she has turned it around. I hope she keeps working on it 😊

  • @corpsmankind
    @corpsmankind Před rokem +5

    "Against" her parents or brought on by parents 🤔

  • @Donirexian
    @Donirexian Před rokem +6

    the people watching this finally realizing that people can change and aren't so one-dimensional: 😱😱

  • @BAMCarter12
    @BAMCarter12 Před rokem +5

    I think they were scammers....bc she has that in her ... She was scamming hard .... I'm glad to see her doing well

    • @Jasmine-ot8br
      @Jasmine-ot8br Před rokem +1

      This. And that’s her childhood it’s hard to unteach yourself

  • @TheCubicleReview2
    @TheCubicleReview2 Před rokem +20

    I love how tana says "I cant talk about this, its massive trouble for me" and ethan make it a podcast highlight without even thinking twice about repercussions. Wonderful.

  • @jennalyn6704
    @jennalyn6704 Před rokem +2

    I think a big part of it 2 is that they couldn’t have fathomed that tana would ever be this successful & make this insane amount of money & she wasn’t buying them houses, cars, ect. So they turned around & said if we can get her in court & have a good chance at getting a decent lump some of her money then let’s go for it. So sad!! Esp when both her parents have gambling problems & prob have gambled most if not all of the 200k she had to give them. Not taking ur kid to the dentist EVER growing up or the ER/drs when she was horribly sick is complete child abuse/neglect !!

  • @karykartoon7857
    @karykartoon7857 Před rokem +1

    Omg I didn’t even know that 😢💚 I like seeing this side of her😭 hugs and much love 💕 yes interview

  • @blackacidss
    @blackacidss Před rokem +2

    I felt this and her feeling, I am also an only child and my parents are older both doctors, they were "there" but not actually there for me my entire childhood cause they were busy, I was abused on my teenage years, and raped at 23 by my ex, they felt embarassed for me and doubt so much if I was saying the truth, they refused to help me to sue my ex so I did it on my own, I almost lost everything, lost my career, my opportunities, my friends, my mental health even got threats. They act still like I blame them for what happened to me when It wasn't the case, I just needed them there for me and they failed to be there. They make like nothing happened. Tana went through so much, I understand her feelings now and everything she went through

    • @maddyhernandez9441
      @maddyhernandez9441 Před rokem

      My ex did the same and I was underage no one believed me even though underage can’t consent to a person who is over 21. They acted like nothing ever happened and treat him so good like he was better than me until the very end. I know how you feel.

  • @Tia.K.C
    @Tia.K.C Před rokem

    Sharing this is so therapeutic for those who can relate. Thank you 🙏🏽❤

  • @justthetruth3950
    @justthetruth3950 Před rokem +5

    Hila looks AMAZING.

  • @mmmmargarine
    @mmmmargarine Před rokem +1

    I used to discount Tana, but hearing more about her parents and her childhood shows how much she's grown and how she's gone from surviving to thriving. I've recently gone no contact with my narcissistic father so I'm here for her story and glad to hear she's healed from needing/seeking their approval. You gotta respect her strength and courage!

  • @Sofiamamitaa
    @Sofiamamitaa Před rokem +4

    I think tana has serious issues and I think society has played a lot on those issues, but I also think that she has played into those issues and made a career out of it, which is just sad.

  • @notimeforthebullsh
    @notimeforthebullsh Před rokem +1

    Wow! I had no idea about her story. I actually have tears in my eyes. What a way to grow up.

  • @Chloe-dv9hf
    @Chloe-dv9hf Před rokem +3

    the first time i made significant money (around 20k one month at 19 years old), i got to keep around 8k after my parents manipulated where it would go (their bank, covering my brothers debt) and it’s sad. If i had a child that made money like that, i’d be so proud, not money hungry for their money. especially when those parents make really good money, they weren’t struggling otherwise i would’ve happily given them anything they needed

  • @fernanda-uc9qs
    @fernanda-uc9qs Před rokem +4

    “when they expire” wow i’m-

  • @meli1872
    @meli1872 Před rokem +3

    Tana sounds like a different person lmao. So much more genuine. I like this version of her

  • @BAMCarter12
    @BAMCarter12 Před rokem +1

    I understand her and her parents..... I'm like that w my parents as well....i DNT want to be around my parents bc they make me feel a certain way... They are always trying to hinder me...

  • @an.ticristo
    @an.ticristo Před rokem

    I’ve lived through the exact situation and now i’m 24 living with my mom for the first time, helping to take care of my kid brother. I understand everything Tana said completely, and honestly thank god for therapy and time, because the worst feeling in the world is carrying that trauma and resentment from your past. It was hard to forgive my mom but the life I have now with her in it is so worth the internal work it took to get there.