DCMWG Talks Cultural Differences Within Dating, Success Of BMF Series, Damar Hamlin Tragedy + More

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  • DCMWG Talks Cultural Differences Within Dating, Success Of BMF Series, Damar Hamlin Tragedy + More
    Episode 70 | Redemption Day | On this episode DCMWG discusses clarity on some comments made during her appearance on The Joe Budden Podcast, the cultural differences within dating outside your race, Keith Murray has been purposely(?) stating things in interviews recently that are quite confusing, the success of the BMF series and documentary leads us down the road of redemption for incarcerated figures in our community, the Damar Hamlin tragedy, Darkside Of The DMs, Voicemails & more.
    Get your real life advice from Mona on the show! Dial 267-225-2492 and leave a question for a chance to have your voicemail answered on an episode.
    Filmed on Location: The Cube Co-work, Baltimore, MD
    Executive Producers for Breakbeat: Dave Mays & Brett Jeffries
    Executive Producer: Don’t Call Me White Girl
    On Set Producers: Tom Flies & Dre Smith
    Intro/Outro Music - @TrvplawdBeats
    Instagram: @BreakbeatMedia @DontCallMeeWhiteGirl @PhelpsJugo @TomFlies @ItsDreSmith
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  • @kyleannemcneal672
    @kyleannemcneal672 Před rokem +446

    The fact that we don’t have to wait all day 🎉I can smoke my blunt and get ready for work while listening to Mona shout out to Y’all ❤

    • @Tallyellayaz
      @Tallyellayaz Před rokem +10

      Exactly what I’m doing right now 😂😂😂

    • @ashantej7484
      @ashantej7484 Před rokem +8

      Me too 😂😂😂

    • @marquisfraction5795
      @marquisfraction5795 Před rokem +7

      Yoo I’m doing the exact same thing lol

    • @dukeharris4092
      @dukeharris4092 Před rokem +6

      I’m doing exactly what it says in your comment while reading it

    • @sharlogan92
      @sharlogan92 Před rokem +10

      Same y’all! 😂 have a great day today!! 🌹🌻

  • @samarisrivera5917
    @samarisrivera5917 Před rokem +385

    I love how Phelps & Dre are consistently apart of the pod now. I appreciate their insights and comments

    • @Lowlow5900
      @Lowlow5900 Před rokem +40

      I’m so happy we can hear Dre. He is definitely the voice of reason between Mona & Phelps

    • @racheller8753
      @racheller8753 Před rokem +1

      Yes! Agreed ✌🏿✌🏽✌🏼❤️✨

    • @breakbeatmedia
      @breakbeatmedia  Před rokem +11

      We heard yall in the comments

    • @thefashionally2285
      @thefashionally2285 Před rokem +1

      Totally agree

  • @alan.jb_
    @alan.jb_ Před rokem +175

    Adding to the interracial relationship convo, I also believe people tend to go easier on black women dating outside vs black men dating outside is because we don’t see black women openly bashing black men and making them seem beneath other races as much as we see black men doing that to black women.
    To make it clear yes black women bash black men as far as being accountable for certain things but rarely do we see them putting other races of men on a pedestal in comparison to black men.

    • @dnicole4236
      @dnicole4236 Před rokem +10

      This.

    • @caughtmeontheflip
      @caughtmeontheflip Před rokem +3

      I feel that! rs

    • @nikki..007..
      @nikki..007.. Před rokem +12

      They aren’t even ready to talk about that yet.

    • @beg1524
      @beg1524 Před rokem +2

      Great observation

    • @Wetfirdc
      @Wetfirdc Před rokem +3

      As a black woman they might say that they feel a way about us saying that “niggas/men aint shit”. But then again thats a reaction to how they treat us opposed to how they see our skin or how we act “ghetto”

  • @SuperTwihard1
    @SuperTwihard1 Před rokem +79

    I’m so proud of Phelps he really be filtering himself 😭😭😭 “I was finna say sum, but I’m not gon say it”

  • @ninop.9279
    @ninop.9279 Před rokem +123

    She must love us with these hour and a half Episodes

  • @MissyIsMyBeyonce
    @MissyIsMyBeyonce Před rokem +17

    Shout out to everybody who’s watching this while we get ready for work❤ Good morning 🌞

  • @arie2683
    @arie2683 Před rokem +60

    I have a jealous mom and Mona that was EXCELLENT advice! Once you are an adult and can have the honest conversation with yourself it definitely hurts less ❤

  • @CarinRenee
    @CarinRenee Před rokem +51

    Yessss Mona! I love that you drop early..I can watch while “starting” my work day 🤣

  • @Babyyoshi_
    @Babyyoshi_ Před rokem +57

    Can't wait to hear you on the breakfast club Mona!!! Manifesting that will be your next bi weekly gig period!!

  • @muddy31331
    @muddy31331 Před rokem +32

    I'm so addicted to the podcast,you,Phelps,dre are so down to earth and original. Still waiting on the live. Live podcasting would hit different. It's 2023 let's get it! 💕 The nails Mona.

  • @_chloeoeoe
    @_chloeoeoe Před rokem +23

    I have a jealous mother & we’ve ALWAYS bumped heads. I finally stopped associating with her completely 3yrs ago, and you giving input to people who may not understand is literally PERFECT!! People don’t get it unless they go through it fr.

    • @_chloeoeoe
      @_chloeoeoe Před rokem +2

      @Blackbeauty my sister is literally just like you you & communicates out of guilt. But I finally stood firm in that boundary. I have that lady blocked on all social media platforms, in addition to her emails and phone numbers. I chose protecting my peace and never looked back.

    • @breakbeatmedia
      @breakbeatmedia  Před rokem +3

      Gotta protect your peace

    • @sharondacosta1505
      @sharondacosta1505 Před 5 měsíci

      I get it!

  • @lifewitla
    @lifewitla Před rokem +17

    I get up at 5:00am every morning. I love that i can listen to you while I get ready for work on Wednesdays!!!!! Period

  • @shamikamichelle
    @shamikamichelle Před rokem +7

    Dre with the “Clappers Commentary” 😂😂😂😂 i cackled at work 😂😂😂😂

  • @lesliejackson9268
    @lesliejackson9268 Před rokem +16

    Latasha Harlins was the young lady that was killed by the asian store owner and although she was sentenced to 10 years, it was reduced to probation and community service.

    • @GoldenMirah
      @GoldenMirah Před rokem +5

      I was looking for a comment to speak on this. The little girl didn’t steal she put the money down

    • @JRABBITTT
      @JRABBITTT Před rokem

      It used to be, you could tell shop owners that what you bought was already on your person; here's your money. As long as you had the money, point to what you want, hand it over and go. Soon Ja Du saw the juice in Latasha Harlins backpack, grabbed for it but snagged Latasha by her shoulder. As she jerked from Du's grip, The shop owner threw a stool at Harlins head which bought her enough time to draw a pistol.Harlins was shot in the back of her skull. Police say that as they arrived on scene, Latasha Harlins had the money for the juice in her hands.

    • @moneypro85
      @moneypro85 Před rokem +1

      Mfs in your neighborhood willing to kill your children should be rioted

    • @alaneofmyown
      @alaneofmyown Před rokem +1

      Didn’t that cause the riots

  • @nafeebanks
    @nafeebanks Před rokem +33

    as a gay black man, I agree with and respect Mona’s answer to the fem/straight men friendship. I also appreciate Phelp’s answer and I wish more straight men would say these things

    • @goodbatch6636
      @goodbatch6636 Před rokem +1

      ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @AA-bm3hf
      @AA-bm3hf Před rokem +6

      Wow, you are so moisturized and glowy in your avi 😍❤
      i know this is a dumb comment😂 but I hope you receive my compliment with warmth! ❤❤

    • @nafeebanks
      @nafeebanks Před rokem +2

      @@AA-bm3hf thank you. I really appreciate that 🥹

    • @breakbeatmedia
      @breakbeatmedia  Před rokem +2

      🖤🖤

    • @SoPrissyChrissy
      @SoPrissyChrissy Před rokem +1

      Your skin🥰

  • @samarisrivera5917
    @samarisrivera5917 Před rokem +8

    Mona!!! I love the bang & bun😊 I really appreciated the segment about having integrity within and outside of the media industry

  • @ashlee2706
    @ashlee2706 Před rokem +10

    “ learn what? how to catch a toad?” 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jaireebraxton393
    @jaireebraxton393 Před rokem +15

    I have put Mona in my weekly things I have to do or watch! Amazing u make the week go by!!❤

    • @breakbeatmedia
      @breakbeatmedia  Před rokem +2

      Gotta schedule Mona Wednesday in your calendar

    • @KT-bh6tr
      @KT-bh6tr Před rokem +1

      Got a date with the pod every Tuesday while I'm on the Arc Trainer. 😂

  • @leeleeIE
    @leeleeIE Před rokem +12

    I love the discussion about black business. I have a small bikini line and I needed to hear Dre’s critique on detailing the branding mechanism. Something I definitely need to work on if I’m considering making it a full time gig. It’s seasonal right now but has the potential of expanding 💭 And I’m actually blessed to have extremely supportive friends and family. That’s where most of my profit has come from. I love y’all 💕

  • @Avaren619
    @Avaren619 Před rokem +7

    That Joe Budden Podcast episode was 🔥🔥🔥🔥. Yall are my two absolute faves so when I heard you were coming, I couldn't wait. It was taking forever to drop but now I see he wanted to save the best for last! You owned the room and stole the show. You're a natural born star.... I just can't wait for the world to catch up.

  • @MzAquarius89
    @MzAquarius89 Před rokem +9

    Hey Mona great show. The story about the 15yr old girl getting killed over the OJ by the Asian was huge pivot in the black community and showed us how they viewed us.Specifically because the girl was going to pay for it but the store clerk accused her of trying to steal it until they saw the girl was reaching in her bag for her wallet to pay for it. The store clerk didn't do any time

  • @louisianacookingwithkay
    @louisianacookingwithkay Před rokem +11

    I took a ecstasy pill once had a really bad trip, thought I was going to die, I couldn't sleep all night, and I never touched it again. It just was not for me, but I used to smoke weed so much they used to call me Smokey. I stop smoking about 13 yrs ago, and I am so proud of myself.

  • @bflowers3702
    @bflowers3702 Před rokem

    Mona you were SPEAKING on this episode! I loved how you spoke about the truths of growing up with jealous mothers, aunts and such… I have been blessed with many women in my life who loved me like a mother should and you’re absolutely right! Love those, who loves you! Keep shining Mona! 👏🏾

  • @raedream_
    @raedream_ Před rokem

    yes! we appreciate the hour and a half!! I 100% agree with Mona that as an adult, you have take the relationship you had with your parents and just make peace with it & choose how you want to move forward!

  • @franchescacordero870
    @franchescacordero870 Před rokem +6

    Good morning! Love the podcast! I binge watched all your episodes! Keep it going Mona! You are destined for greatness👍🏼🤗❤️

  • @fdfdfd1
    @fdfdfd1 Před rokem +2

    The end of this podcast was so real!!!! So many of us go through this with a parent or even siblings. I also believe that cutting off toxic relationships is so necessary

  • @Love_missbri
    @Love_missbri Před rokem +14

    I love when Dre gives his input!

  • @naderiamurray6836
    @naderiamurray6836 Před rokem +2

    Love when you drop in the morning I be at work watching ❤

  • @ItsTinaB
    @ItsTinaB Před rokem +6

    I miss a full set being $25 so much 😢

  • @arielpage884
    @arielpage884 Před rokem +1

    Def appreciate starting my day with yall

  • @BeastMacin11
    @BeastMacin11 Před rokem +6

    I am loving how long this one is. I just finished tidying up in the kitchen while listening and was thinking it’s coming to an end when I have a whole nother 45 minutes to go.🎉

  • @CAMeade85
    @CAMeade85 Před rokem +9

    Phelps: "We not interracial, we NEGUS" time of death...💀

  • @natoshiapurnell5652
    @natoshiapurnell5652 Před rokem +14

    Because of my personal experiences with Asians I really try not to patronize any of their businesses. For one, there's one particular hair store in my area that actually are owned and ran by Asians but everybody on the floor are black that's something new and lowkey appreciated. Because seriously how can you tell me what type of hair grease I need to use to grease my hair???? I just don't feel wanted so I personally just don't patronize them. P.S. Woot Woot✌🏿😘 can't wait too see you on The Breakfast Club👏🏿👏🏿

  • @brittalyster
    @brittalyster Před rokem +4

    Setting the alarm in Australia to catch 👑 Mona...Keep Shining Queen 👑

  • @tia7849
    @tia7849 Před rokem +6

    mona was too serious about that “bada baba” intro 🤣🤣🤣

  • @hollifranklin4
    @hollifranklin4 Před rokem

    i love your response to the girl who was talkin about her parents in the dark side of the dm. i thought u was finna chew her out but u still gave her some real advice ❤️

  • @__culturtingz
    @__culturtingz Před rokem +11

    I love how Phelps brings it the real in conversations

  • @NickButler83
    @NickButler83 Před 2 měsíci

    Aaaaah Mona, I love how you have changed your stance on your son and who he chooses to love. ❤️
    Love is love 🥰
    Checking y’all out all the way from the Netherlands

  • @shakeishah9398
    @shakeishah9398 Před rokem

    Makes my day when I see y’all posted ❤❤❤❤

  • @qelliott2
    @qelliott2 Před rokem +4

    She cracks me up when she's talking in the middle of Phelps and Dre talking LOL. Love her lol

  • @Ell4Bell4
    @Ell4Bell4 Před rokem +6

    Your videos literally make my week. I wait for them to drop. Appreciate you for keeping it real and keeping me laughing 😂

  • @thehemigirl
    @thehemigirl Před rokem +21

    Helping me start my Wednesday 💗 #teamDCMWG

  • @daniyonceknows
    @daniyonceknows Před rokem +2

    I would love a “call in” segment to this pod. Always a good watch either way!

  • @kae9305
    @kae9305 Před rokem

    I REALLY appreciated the long episode❤️

  • @vashatilindsay7156
    @vashatilindsay7156 Před rokem +6

    Even when she says stuff that I completely disagree with, how can I not love this podcast?!?!? 😂😂😂😂.

  • @alexismdyke
    @alexismdyke Před rokem

    NGL you was in yo bag on this whole episode. I just found you on my suggestions ( I live under a rock) and you on it!

  • @EmpressMe.
    @EmpressMe. Před rokem +13

    There's no greater love than BLACK LOVE! No Exceptions! ❤🖤💚

  • @makedawil7408
    @makedawil7408 Před rokem +15

    Phelps starring at the camera had me crying 😩😂😂

    • @jharrisss
      @jharrisss Před rokem +1

      I was thinking the same thing 😭 lmao you good Phelps?🤣

    • @dashareeg4605
      @dashareeg4605 Před rokem +2

      i was screaming 😂😂😂 especially when the tongue came out a little bit 🤣

    • @apoloniacarranza4587
      @apoloniacarranza4587 Před rokem

      Same!!!!!

    • @breakbeatmedia
      @breakbeatmedia  Před rokem

      😂😂

    • @tnt2324
      @tnt2324 Před rokem

      I knew my phone wasn’t frozen because there was obviously talking but he was stuck stuck. Had me second guessing myself for a second 😅

  • @glammedbyviva9105
    @glammedbyviva9105 Před rokem

    That’s so funny you say that about “TBC” because I was watching Druski on there the other day and I was like how the hell Mona not up there yet! I’m excited for that can’t wait to see you on there!

  • @TaylorWinter
    @TaylorWinter Před rokem

    Really good episode I love when they’re over an hour!

  • @classykim
    @classykim Před rokem +1

    I know he’s your baby but Phelps upset me telling you to wrap it up, I could literally listen to you talk all day. Thank you for blessing us with this long episode.

  • @Ebismeee
    @Ebismeee Před rokem +2

    What a whole hour and half yes this episode was too dope not y’all spoiled us today appreciate y’all ❤

  • @MissEBK
    @MissEBK Před rokem +1

    We needed a nail cam last episode too 🙄 your nails were bomb & so was the hair!

  • @EddieSoTrill
    @EddieSoTrill Před rokem +3

    I been up all night waiting on this 😭

    • @RuizMrs
      @RuizMrs Před rokem

      Omg… Eddie ? Is that you ??! 🖤

  • @afterworkart
    @afterworkart Před rokem

    This podcast is the only thing enjoy about my Wednesday morning commute... and that's a big ol " W"

  • @22Nu219
    @22Nu219 Před rokem +6

    I so felt that dark side of the DM with a jealous parent, I’ll tell my mom the things I have going on and she’s disinterested asf. same with my father, he’s jealous of all 3 of his children. Gotta be honest with yourself with shit like that enjoy them for what they can offer

  • @natoshiapurnell5652
    @natoshiapurnell5652 Před rokem +4

    Hey Mona I said amazeballs about your hair last week did you read my comment from last week? If not it's cools by the way the messy bun and the bay-angs are popping 👏🏿👏🏿

  • @ReissyBoo
    @ReissyBoo Před rokem

    Love the content sis. Keep it up 🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @theemusee_
    @theemusee_ Před rokem +5

    i be itching to get to these episodes i watch the old episodes waiting for wednesday 🤣

  • @just-a-jerseygirl-lori9109

    It was the professor klumps fah me🤣🤣🤣🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ Love you Mona and keep these lengthy shows. I'm loving it ❤️

  • @valeriecazares8273
    @valeriecazares8273 Před rokem +1

    I heard cthagod mention you the other day and i was like YESSSS!!!!

  • @wwatts35
    @wwatts35 Před rokem +4

    Mona so transparent and has to best sense of humor fr I love ha fr 🥰

  • @shaylatobar7974
    @shaylatobar7974 Před rokem +2

    ❤❤❤So proud of your success! The culture need you!

  • @aliciag3977
    @aliciag3977 Před rokem

    The breakfast club?!! Thts litt. They definitely need you! Cant wait to hear u up there girll ill be tuned in!!!

  • @SmaccsBoosieFade
    @SmaccsBoosieFade Před rokem +3

    I had to pause at work and go in the bathroom when Mona talked about standing up 👀 Didn’t disappoint neither 😂🍑🔥

  • @MrsRobinson8
    @MrsRobinson8 Před rokem

    Love the early drop, AirPods in while I’m at my desk 😊

  • @joycewebster2542
    @joycewebster2542 Před rokem +1

    You really make my day better I laugh I feel what you saying every week

  • @peacesofmymine
    @peacesofmymine Před 8 měsíci

    one of the best episodes

  • @RiCra012
    @RiCra012 Před rokem

    I listen while I get ready for work. ☺️

  • @jennirice4577
    @jennirice4577 Před rokem +3

    I feel the same about after watching documentaries or reading about certain legendary stories...its hard to watch adapted television shows or movies.

  • @Taylors64
    @Taylors64 Před rokem +2

    We need momma Mona back on the show in 2023!❤

  • @Sharenziie
    @Sharenziie Před rokem +5

    I really be here first day the episodes drop lol I be looking forward to listening while I get ready for work ❤

  • @eve9287
    @eve9287 Před rokem

    Mona you are the best love watching you every Wednesday morning 💯💯💯with the central park five docuseries I can agree it's real depressing especially Cory's story but it's worth the watch BMF is incredible and the come up story is a must watch lil meech portraying his father is ❤️❤️❤️

  • @xojudo
    @xojudo Před rokem +10

    Yes 👏🏽 Damona! Thank you for calling out the family & friend dynamic at 1:19:21. I identify people as family based on action/interaction(not blood).

  • @dre_withwithout
    @dre_withwithout Před rokem +2

    56:44 .. thanks Mona ❤😂

  • @joycewebster2542
    @joycewebster2542 Před rokem +1

    I love you for real I watch you every week

  • @JuJuHoee
    @JuJuHoee Před rokem +3

    6am on the east coast I was waiting I love the hairstyle Mona💋

  • @choicewilliams1712
    @choicewilliams1712 Před rokem

    This my best friend in my head. I love DCMWG

  • @tyvenr
    @tyvenr Před rokem +1

    first of all, mona, we appreciate the hour and a half! i understand your answer about the fem topic. i have some fem traits and i do have straight male friends (i’m queer). i went to college with them or they were a friend of a friend. i do have 3-4 that consider me family/vice versa. to the one who sent the DM, it is possible! and i DO only see them as a bro. nothing else. glad that topic was talked about.

  • @bryannag.
    @bryannag. Před rokem +3

    lmaooooooo when Phelps said “umph” when she said how much her nails cost. i felt that 🤣🤣🤣

  • @jaymoneyjr
    @jaymoneyjr Před rokem +1

    Another fire episode

  • @LLMoneyMaine
    @LLMoneyMaine Před rokem

    I love the long episodes!

  • @erneishadugar2896
    @erneishadugar2896 Před rokem

    Love ya'll 🥰❤️I watch and listen to this podcast. Keep being real,proud of you lady. Love from East Oakland Ca a.k.a. Tha Bay

  • @szasremmurd8002
    @szasremmurd8002 Před rokem +5

    Omg Mona that would be AMAZING having you on the breakfast club!! I’ll start back watching 😅
    Did everyone just missed that? I slid through the comments and not a word 😭 PRE-CONGRATULATIONS MONA I MANIFEST IT ✨

  • @rochiggidy
    @rochiggidy Před rokem +3

    LaTasha Harlins was killed for attempting to buy an orange juice. The store owner assumed she was attempting to steal, grabbed her and after LaTasha defended herself and left the orange juice, the store owner pulled out her gun and shot her in the back of the head as she walked away. RIP LaTasha ❤🙏🏾 Devastating to her family and all of us growing up in South Central. She attended my high school but was younger. The store owner was supposed to get a max sentence of 16 years for voluntary manslaughter. Instead the judge sentenced the store owner to probation. That part was another heartbreak.
    That was end of 1991. The riots occurred in early 1992 after acquittals of the officers who beat Rodney King. Both had videos and neither resulted in jail time. The rage behind these two incidents and the miscarriage of justice were the spark which started the riots.

  • @shaunapulley718
    @shaunapulley718 Před rokem

    I been trying to find the pod with you and joe. At least I know why I couldn’t find it.

  • @desireefranco3671
    @desireefranco3671 Před rokem

    No wonder I couldn’t find you! I was reading pod descriptions trippin out. But I can’t justify paying for more content when I have 700000 subscriptions already! But I know the pay walls are necessary. Hope they release it later

  • @itsthearishow
    @itsthearishow Před rokem +2

    Ummm miss ma’am I am going to need these episodes to be a minimum of an hour & 30! I WFH so you make time fly I am always cracking tf up

  • @osjaneejohnson2972
    @osjaneejohnson2972 Před rokem +1

    I’m such a fan. Click immediately in less than an hour of posting

  • @janiquebroughton
    @janiquebroughton Před rokem +1

    I would LOVE if you could give us a new documentary to watch every episode! 🙏🏾🙌🏾 im obsessed with documentaries 😂

  • @samirahwatts2601
    @samirahwatts2601 Před rokem +1

    Not Phelps rushing this amazing episode. I’ve been waiting for a long one😂

  • @courtney8477
    @courtney8477 Před rokem

    Love when it gets deep!

  • @dm_nd3555
    @dm_nd3555 Před rokem +3

    That Jaw rock has me crying 😂😂😂😂

  • @marquita948
    @marquita948 Před rokem +2

    It's a damn shame I'm sick and could've watched this another time but I'm addicted

  • @ValenciaTrib
    @ValenciaTrib Před rokem

    I love this podcast!!!

  • @ashash9888
    @ashash9888 Před rokem

    Not. The shades 😎 at the end 🤣 I just love yall great show! 🖤

  • @apoloniacarranza4587
    @apoloniacarranza4587 Před rokem +1

    Phelps looking at the camera is killing me 😂😂😂 he high as hell

  • @Clacci38
    @Clacci38 Před rokem +3

    Snow Fall is EVERYTHING!!!!! Watch it, just for the one liners alone. A Really good show.

  • @BlvdTL84
    @BlvdTL84 Před rokem +5

    An ex pill had me high three days. You telling the truth Mona.

  • @BrittanyCaprice86
    @BrittanyCaprice86 Před rokem +3

    I’d love to see more diversity in Black businesses. Most only seem to cater to the urban black community.