Be a healthy man in a culture that hates healthy men
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- Be a healthy man in a culture that hates healthy men
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You know, i know your preaching to men but we woman need this sermon also! Thank you Pastor
Exactly! I’m not convinced that this only applies to men. I think all of this pertains to women as well.
Amen sister
There are plenty of messages, seminars, and conferences that speak ONLY to women, why would you come into a message for men and want women to be included???
@@ALTheFreeManWhy should he ONLY have a series that addresses these things for men? Does he think that his Sisters in Christ have such big egos that we only want to hear these things from another woman? Besides, doesn't The Word forbid a woman to speak in church?
@@jenniferraymond9766 Yes, according to scripture, women are not to speak IN CHURCH, nor have authority over men. In my opinion, I think his message to men is a reaction to a society (as well as many churches) who have put women on the forefront and seem care less about men’s issues. There’s an ocean of women’s talk shows, and even a Christian women’s talk show, “Better Together”, so, while Christian men AND women can benefit from a message like this, again, I think this is a reaction to a society that has made men feel undervalued.
A spirit of bitterness can enter through false guilt too even though you’ve forgiven. This happens when you forgive but the other person has put the fault on you instead of taking ownership. It can also enter when you forgive but the other person doesn’t apologise & repent. You end up in resentment because you remain in a relationship with them instead of severing ties.
Yes you can sever ties & forgive too.
Great point
Pray for those you call your enemies or who do your wrong.
Remember what God has forgiven you for and hope that those who are not you will receive the same.
70 years old, true, parents, ex, outlaws, pastor, all try to put me down, ..but life is good, got rid of those toxic people..
I don't think you listened to the sermon at all. Jesus says to forgive those toxic people not get rid of them. By doing that you're telling God that you want Him to get rid of you because in your heart all toxic people deserve to be punished - which includes you.
@@potapotapotapotapotapota toxic is as toxic does..toxic you, gone! 😆 😆 🤣
@@patriciaburlow8469 ok may God bless you and keep you
My primary issue with this message is that anger isn't a sin, the trick is not allowing our anger to cause us to sin.
Thank you for passing along the straight and narrow, pastor.
If my wife cheats on me with a parade of guys, she's getting served papers. No one should live like that. I'll forgive her, but she's getting divorced.
No you arent allowed unless shes dead.
Otherwise its adultery.
For you too if you get in another relationship.
So then you have to be celibate until she dies.
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Right.. staying and letting it continue to happen would be extremely unhealthy, yet that's what he appears to be advocating.
God will reward your obedience with His favor over your spouse.
You have every right to get a divorce, but God hates divorce and would love it if you continued to be patient with your wife in the same way that God has been patient with you. But everyone has a limit to what they can put up with depending on how much love is in their hearts. You don't want to get to a point where you are treated like a doormat only to blow up in someone's face one day. Know yourself and be straightforward about your boundaries with people before they cross them.
@@potapotapotapotapotapota
Its not just the messing around. Imagine all the STD an unfaithful spouse is exposing you to. Honestly you are sleeping with all the people they slept with. Not only that,but if the person they are messing with gets sprung they may decided to go after you.
I cant even begin to describe how fitting and edifying this was for me.
You have a true calling, and I feel blessed to have discovered your channel
I really needed to hear this right now! There is no coincidences, only GOD.
Gawd
@@firstlast8258what are you trying to do?
So many people have let me down over the years, I’ve lost count.
Friends, family, co-workers, etc; it’s actually sad.
At first, I carried around Bitterness, before realizing Bitterness was slowly killing me but not changing anybody else’s behavior toward me.
Eventually, I’d just shrug my shoulders as I expected it to happen and didn’t care enough to get upset.
Now, I pray for those who let me down. God made me realize that not only do I need to forgive others, but I need to pray for them as well.
I’m starting to think that that’s why all of these people were/are in my life: I’ll be praying for them instead of getting angry with them.
God gave me shoulders big enough to bear the burden of disappointment, and that I am to pray for these people instead.
Amen, brother, love your enemies, take on your cross and follow Jesus! Big message right here
Great perspective & Godly response!
Don't let people let you down. Do things yourself with God's help.
Amen
This is very true, however you didn't mention that we should still uphold justice, just be careful not to get it out of anger
God bless you Mark, you’re talking directly to me. Much love from Puerto Rico 🇵🇷
1 Corinthians 11:4 Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head.
Why did you comment this?
@@mwaters421I’m assuming he’s referring to the cap that Pastor Mark is wearing
Thank you Pastor Driscoll. This applies to me, as a woman also. GOD bless you. 💙🙏🙏🙏💙🙏
Glory be to KING JESUS CHRIST Amen ❤️
Are Christians in this nation being attacked? And If I as a Christian man say this am I being divisive? When leaders in my church Don't believe there is a spiritual battle . How do I forgive and love brothers in Christ when they want me to be silent about issues I see that they don"t ?
In most cases I will always push people to fight for truth within their church, division is not a good thing. However, if someone thinks you are being divisive doesn’t mean you are saying anything wrong. It likely means you’re right. Jesus said the gospel will divide families and nations. If your “church” doesn’t even believe in spiritual warfare though, then I beg you to run because you aren’t in a church.
@@hannaprs I think My Church does Believe in Spiritual Warfare. The Issue is the Church is young and growing to fast. The Elders are strong in faith but not open to constructive criticism. We have embraced Ken Ham's message, but are unable to understand why the Lord sent him to America to evangelize. The Lord has always used my gifts as the Liver or Kidney in the body of Christ. I feel like this gift is now somehow being rejected.
I think it is more like the Christians in this nation are attacking everyone else.
*"ABOVE ALL ASK for WISDOM"*
@@kanadianbacon7733 Jame's 3 1-19 has helped me. Specifically looking at myself and my Tongue. "Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6 The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell."
❤My life or my birth is the result of a rape and when my dad met my mother where Married... I was 2 years old... My dad went to the hospital got my birth certificate and signed it gave me his name... And he treated me as his first born son out of 6... When I was 50 I found out that I was adopted and everyone that found out that I was adopted became angry especially my siblings and they were upset because I didn't get angry for not being told... But I told them what this is done it's strengthened my faith in Yahshua/Jesus... When you are watched it takes gives you a new name it makes you a new person and he doesn't bring up your past... But there are those that will try to make you angry about the love that has been given to you
Thanks I needed this today.
Make men
Men again
Omg this is so true thank you for this powerful teaching
I chose a relationship with you my Lord God! To walk in forgiveness not bitterness ! Thankyou Paul wherever you are for the heads up !
🌺🌺🌺🌺Please pray for salvation for Chris, Pete and Nick who no longer believes in God 😢
Praying big time 🙏
I love listening to Pastor Mark. Your teaching is enlightening yet understandable. I listen to some minister/teachers that are good but I have to get out a dictionary, commentary, and a thesaurus to understand. May God bless you and your ministry.
All the injustices & betrayal I’ve experienced in my life I now just chalk it up to being surrounded by sinners. I think about what Christ experienced & endured and know that what I’ve experienced is nothing compared to Christ. Have I been bitter? Absolutely! Now I’m more sorrowful… forgive?
Yeah… trust again? No.
We draw the sort of people to us that reflect our own sins. My suggestion is to pull towards Yahusha and cleanse your hands. I am not trying to condemn you. I have been where you are. You can trust again.
Everything you said is FACT!!!!! Is there a video on how to get free from bitterness?
Excellent message!
Keep up the good work.
Newton Iowa USA🇺🇸❤
Mothers draw their daughters into bitterness and evil with them the same way the men do .....
Truth! That is why Yahusha told us we must love no other person more than we love Him!
Amen, men need men like this. Thank you Lord for men like this.
Q: is it acceptable to wear a hat in church?
1 Corinthians 11:4 “Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered, dishonoureth his head”…. So unless I’m interpreting that wrong 🤷🏼♂️
Interesting...
Tells you all you need to know about the Catholic church ,lol
@@TheFrozenCactus_
Am I incorrect women were supposed to cover theirs though?
If so. That blew away too. No pun intended.
For if a woman does not cover her head, she might as well have her hair cut off; but if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut off or her head shaved, then she should cover her head.
Or was it
God's order for the woman is the opposite from His order for the man. When she prays or prophesies she must cover her head. If she does not, she disgraces her head (man). This means that she must show her subjection to God's arrangement of headship by covering her head while praying or prophesying. Her action in refusing to cover her head is a statement that she is equal in authority to man. In that case, she is the same as a woman who shaves her head like a man might do. Paul does not say that the woman disgraces her husband. The teaching applies to all women, whether married or not, for it is God's law that woman in general be subject to man in general. She shows this by covering her head when praying or prophesying.
Only while praying. And lower then men. Says everything you need to know too.
@@matthewroper9972 But whatever you do dont insult the bald prophet.
By calling him baldy
That didnt work out well for those 42 kids that he cursed and were eaten by bears.
I love the content and the thumbnail on the vid. Thank you.
I think the big question would be, if you had forgiven your enemies, how would you know that God would deal with them and when? What if they had repented to God? Would it all be forgotten? Even if you forgive someone, that doesn’t make hurt go away and sometimes forgiving makes you feel like you allowed someone to hurt you with no consequences.
They made my life a living HELL, without cause. You reap what you sow-🎯💯🔥☘️👍
Needed this tonight. Beautifully put
Amen 💯 percent agree
If we dont forgive then God dosnt forgive us
Gawd
@@firstlast8258 matthew 6:14,15
Matthew 6:14,15
@@firstlast8258⬅️ troll
I had a very abusive, alcoholic father. I was also the bullied kid in school. While I have forgiven those who have wronged me, the effects of those experiences still remain. While I believe forgiveness is important, it’s not a cure-all, and outside of sitting on a therapist’s couch and crying about my problems or getting on meds, I don’t know what else can be done to make the pain go away.
I can't recommend getting to know Jesus Christ, and asking for wisdom and discernment of what is true enough. That has helped me immensely to keep myself from ending everything based on what I went through countless times. He allowed me to love myself in a healthy way that doesn't put myself above anyone.
Personally, what has worked for me as well is going back through the memories to gain a better understanding of each given situation, to the point that emotions aren't the forefront, and you look at those memories from an analytical perspective. It's a ton of internal work that's very personal, and will take time for sure. That's what works for me, as it allows me to understand why certain people did certain thing, and help me better understand that everyone is broken.
I understand that what you're going through and what you went through in the past is truly horrible (my step-dad used to be an alcoholic), and I hope you find healing for your soul.
Have you tried LSD? It helped with my alcoholism.
@@Jake-mv7yo LSD??? Ohhhh no, I’ve already my dealings with drugs and alcohol. I’m 3 years sober, and don’t even think about alcohol anymore, just wish there was a way to make the pain go away, other than LSD or mushrooms, lol.
If you're not willing to use LSD then the only other thing that will work is time.@@ALTheFreeMan
Wow, this is for me. I need to get out of God's way and let him deal.wirh it.
Pastor Driscoll it is hard to exist without sounding hypocritical.
9:00 1000000%
After getting married and having my daughter and being a dad….its so crazy to think about my parents and how they were with us.
Preach on!
Son’s mother just owns me. I try to be there for my kid and ask for him more often but she “misses” him. She has him 4x as much as me, it’s a slap in the face when she doesn’t acknowledge how much I’m without him. But hey, it’s a good thing I have to help pay her mortgage for her, how nice. What makes me bitter? Pathetic American women today.
You know every time i watch apaster preach i enjoy their it. they teach me so much since im a teenager.and then when a when a open youtube the paster will be exposed about being a scammer or a liar i just hope this doesnt happen to this preacher
Even if it does, it does not change the truth of the gospel message. My faith is in Jesus, he’s the only one who will never fail or disappoint me. Christianity is not the answer. Christ is.
@@hannaprsAMEN Brother! You nailed it.
Sad that so many people want to communicate their feelings and can’t put an understandable sentence together. Don’t criticize pastor Mark for saying something that stings a bit. He is well spoken and speaks truth that has a strong foundation based on proven biblical truths.
Pastor Mark, I fail this test so much that I think God is going to send me to hell on the short bus. However, I am still trying. But with that said I have one question regarding how you are supposed to feel about the way God decimates your "enemies" lives? I have seen this and felt glad... but isn't that a sin too? So I should pray for their recovery and that they be healed as well is the conclusion I have come to. Do you agree? Or is it okay to dance on their grave? My conscious says otherwise though.
🙌 Can you link the full sermon in the description or add the name of the full sermon so it is easy to find?
Great snippet as always.
One disagreement though, respectfully, there's no such thing as generational curse.
There's repetition of patterns, good or bad behaviors (that kids learn from their parents) passed down generations after generations until someone conciously breaks the cicle (mainly through Jesus, in the case of breaking off of a bad habit through and after being born again).
Some Bible passages that contradict this doctrine are, among others, Jeremiah 31:29,30, John 9:1-3.
Some people argue in favor of this by quoting Exodus 20:5, for instance, but that's not what the text means, whether in (or specially out) of it's context.
Amen.
Avoiding marriage can solve 90% of these issues. Lol
Is that Biblical?
This guy's 501c3 (not a Church) can't preach actual truths. The tax exempt status is too precious to these grifting pied pipers.
My so called friends started hating me because I didn't do drugs.
You deserve better.
Been through that as well my friend, except it was with the drink. Dump em, it’s better to be alone than with bad people for bad company corrupts good character (1- Corinthians 15:33).
@@Will-ze2yq indeed....so sick of substance abusers, bud...if you have some level of religious belief in your life you don't need it....I was in the music industry.... Australia.... very good music here but silly idiots ruined it for me....
@@kingbradley9066 I am better than that
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It's so hard being a man these days.
Matthew 6:14,15
70 x 7 was a euphanism for an infinite number
Be a real man and no regrets. Don't give a damn what anybody thinks about it.
My dad
What sermon is this from?
Pastor Mike I have a question I just became a child in Christ and my baptism is in 2 weeks for me and my son! But I’m worried my daughter is 15 and she loves Harry Potter and something inside of me is telling me it’s sorcery and witchcraft am I being to over whelming or is it a true witchcraft please help me ! What is your view on Harry Potter ??
Learn to pick your battles wisely. If you start banning everything in your child's life based on your fear of things that cannot harm you so long as you are grounded in Christ and reality, you're going to get all out rebellion from your kids and push them away from the faith. Believe me, I've seen this many, many times in my own family and friend's families. It's better to make sure your daughter knows the difference between fantasy and the reality of the faith, and you won't be dismissed as a paranoid Bible thumper. Satan loves it when families argue and divide themselves, and you would be amazed at the surprising ways he accomplishes this goal. This is one of them.
Teen sex, gender bending lifestyles, smoking, drinking, drugs, hanging out with other kids hostile to The Gospel...by all means put up a zero tolerance policy on those things.
A fiction book? Waste of time and energy for you.
What is he saying to stay with a wife or spouse who sleeps with a parade🤦🏻♂️🤷🏻♂️ no I forgive her but I’m out. No Jezebel for me. Thank you Lord for showing me the truth.
5:13
Many of the insults used against men are not necessarily spoken because the speaker thinks it's true. The are spoken because the speaker believes those words can be used to manipulate the listener. The goal is to lower the listener to a point of feeling powerless. Then when the listener is sufficiently lowered, they are mocked and provoked. The goal at this point is for the listener to act out of anger and spread chaos in the world. This increased chaos is used for other purposes. Ultimately this is a spiritual war that is being waged against everyone.
The best defense of this is described in Ephesians 6:
11 Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.
12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
A very important part of this process is to understand what is right and what is wrong according to The Creator rather than accepting the morality according to governments or other human groups.
toxic MAN is GOOD JEUS SAY SO
I think Tate makes good points but he is too prideful. He seems to see money as the highest priority
Pride is the only thing you find problematic withhim as a Christian? How about how manipulates young weak women into selling their bodies online? Or how he manipulates weak men into paying thousands to see naked women then play games with thst man making him think she actually likes him. So he will send more money?
He is Muslim and also has been in trouble for trafficking women.
Tate is a degenerate
Look up a sermon called "why modern church buildings look like hell" by the channel born again barbarian. 🤔 makes sense
A culture that hates healthy hates innocence first.
You forgot All-Out Rage and Fury, Justified. NEVER turn your back on EVIL, NEVER-If I go to HELL, so be it-I'll take them with me.
Was just scrolling through these comments but God bless, I’m sorry you’re dealing with such hell in your life from the way it sounds I pray God leads you through it and helps you make it through this time seeing him open and close doors and that you find peace in this time you are in!
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Jeremiah 29:11 11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end.
You gotta be kidding. How does does this with Jesus' saying "love your enemies"?
@@jonathanhonorwood4818 I’m not talking about enemy’s just peace from the Lord
@@user-gi5dp1uh5h I didn't refer to you, but to the OP
PLEASE take your hat off when you are in the pulpit Mr Driscoll.
I am the toughest guy in the comments section. Bow before me
When did Driscoll move from young, restless, and reformed to demons and generational curses?
When he was exiled from Washington and settled in Arizona.
It's all valid
9:00 wait what we can divorce for cheating divorce her and get a real wife
Recall that even Jesus said divorce was not part of God's original design for mankind. He does allow it but as an option, not a mandate.
@@brandonsnyder4770 yeah and she is going through a parade this isn't a 1 guy came back sorry etc etc?????
Read the passage again. Jesus allowed for divorce in such cases but NOT remarriage
I find this pastor kind of strange. He says sll thi stuff about men being mistreated by society yet does bot get why more men dont stand up and do this or that.
Don’t think you want to invite the association with Tate, that dude would still be with a man as long as he’s wearing a wig
Normal men and normal women don t kill, injured, be evil for for people or animals
What do you mean? I'm having a hard time following. Are you saying we shouldn't eat animals?
This guy is so incredibly, piously arrogant.
Because living in fear of an imaginary friend is "healthy".
lol! Yeah right. So you have unlocked the key to doing whatever you want. Lol.
So, denying basic reality is healthy?
Maybe that's why your ilk have killed 200 million of your own citizens in the last 125 years.
And no, I'm not talking about wars.
God is not an imaginary friend. There are many arguments for the existence of God. Some common arguments are the cosmological argument, fine tuning of the universe to trillions of a degree, hundreds of fine tuned parameters on earth for life to exist, a 3.5 billion character information code called DNA that just jumps into existence, the irreducible complexity of the cell, objective morality existing, immaterial realities existing like the laws of logic/reasoning capabilities/free will, the scientific facts in the Bible, the fulfillment of numerous biblical prophecies, the messianic prophecies being fulfilled especially Isaiah 53 which predicts Jesus 700 years before he came and Psalm 22 which predicts his crucifixion 1000 years before it happened. Isaiah 53 talks about a lowly servant of the Lord who will come to be beaten, whipped, pierced, then killed as a criminal for the sins of his people then buried in the grave of the rich, but will rise from the dead. This was predicted 700 years before Jesus was born. Psalm 22 which predicts Jesus’s crucifixion 1000 years before it happened including being nailed through the hands and feet. This is significant because this was predicted 700 years before crucifixion was invented by the Romans. We know these passages were written before Jesus since thanks to the discovery of the Dead Sea scrolls we have copies of these passages that are older then Jesus himself. There is also the evidence for the resurrection which can be summarized in Gary Habermas’ four minimal facts argument
Have you ever had your parents or your boss walk in on you doing something wrong? It is that kind of fear that is being spoken of.
Mark is a coward.
Thank you, pastor, for talking about it.
I am blessed to become a father this year.
My own father taught me bitterness. Towards everything in life.
I always knew I had to do it differently. But forgiveness was a long way to go.
But I realise that I should try to do it and leave this matter to our Lord.
Lord, I trust You in taking care of this matter for me.
For my earthly father taught me how I dont want to be. But You, my heavenly Father, teach me to become the perfect version of myself through Your guidance.
You are sovereign and Holy. There is no one I rather have as my Lord and Master than You.
Deus Vult!
"But Yahusha answered them, saying, “Who is My mother, or My brothers?” And He looked around in a circle at those who sat about Him, and said, “Here are My mother and My brothers! For whoever does the will of God is My brother and My sister and mother.”" Mark 3:33-35
@@jannaswanson271 Thank you for saying this, my brother/sister in Christ
Healthy men don't need to be babysat by preachers coaching every moment of their lives.
But yet here you are listening to said preacher and even leaving a comment lol
said the Devil.
Healthy men recognize they have issues that they need to regularly address and temptations that put us on guard. You clearly aren’t healthy emotionally if you came here just to criticize. Let go of the bitterness. It feels good.
You must not be human to not have moments of weaknesses and seek growth
Healthy men don't troll. They're too busy livin' their best lives in Christ.