I'm $110,000 In Credit Card Debt! Should I File For Bankruptcy?

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Komentáƙe • 544

  • @darkgalaxy5548
    @darkgalaxy5548 Pƙed rokem +78

    Never, ever buy a flipped house. All you're buying is a house with cheap shoddy repairs covered with a fresh coat of paint.

    • @jasoncrandall73
      @jasoncrandall73 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +4

      Inspections done by experienced experts. If you get any push back from the seller on any found issues. You walk away.

    • @billjones4986
      @billjones4986 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

      Ya I got burned, everything was cheap,those 69.00 home Depot toilets don't flush well.After a couple flushes.oh well.

  • @VS-fo9py
    @VS-fo9py Pƙed rokem +334

    Dude, don’t give up before you have even started. Take Dave’s advice. Wishing you and your family strength in these next two years. Get after it! You can do it!

    • @roberthuster1503
      @roberthuster1503 Pƙed rokem +15

      Yeah man don't give up. You can do this. You have a bunch of people pulling for you and wishing you the best. I know I'm your fan. You had job loss, created a side hustle then at over 50 you get a higher paying job because your a winner.

    • @Alex-ib4hy
      @Alex-ib4hy Pƙed rokem +1

      @@roberthuster1503 lol

    • @CocoaPuff01
      @CocoaPuff01 Pƙed rokem +5

      This is horrible advice. The person is almost 60 years old and his advice is to work like a madman and put 70+ hours per week? And just pay 40k per year, disregarding his expenses?smh

    • @laz7354
      @laz7354 Pƙed rokem

      @@CocoaPuff01 GOOD advice ...he has time.

    • @curiouscat3384
      @curiouscat3384 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +1

      @@CocoaPuff01 GOOD advice - 52 is hardly decrepit! A couple years of hard work and he can retire comfortably.

  • @vickieclark5931
    @vickieclark5931 Pƙed rokem +84

    It's crazy how some of these people call up scared and ready to file bankruptcy when all they have to do is get their spending under control and they'd be out of debt in a year. So many people aren't in financial trouble, they just have a spending problem.

    • @victorvaldez760
      @victorvaldez760 Pƙed rokem +9

      How can you be out of debt in 1 year when someone like me has a credit card debt of 120,000$

    • @VicDamoneJr82
      @VicDamoneJr82 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +2

      That makes no sense

    • @williamb.6813
      @williamb.6813 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

      ​@@victorvaldez760 Obviously every situation is different and won't be the exact same time frame. The point is the problem is YOU and your spending. People want to look for a way out without fixing the problem.

    • @thefunfam1433
      @thefunfam1433 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

      @@victorvaldez760it’s impossible to be out in one year.

    • @NyNjMafia
      @NyNjMafia Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

      Bankruptcy is not the worse thing if you kept up with your mortgage , I know plenty people that filed and kept their homes , they only had credit card debt.. if you took a 2nd mortgage then you are in trouble , that’s point you need to sell and get out of debt without filing but if you have both it’s better to file and sell and start from scratch, within 6 months credit card companies will start sending you applications for a credit with high interest, who cares? You need to start somewhere, just don’t over 20% of your available credit , you make 3 money monthly payments paid in full and you’ll see more credit card companies want your business and from there you build your credit.. you don’t need a college education , you need to understand how the industry works.. don’t believe what they say that you can’t get credit for 7 years, that’s BS .. within 3 to 4 months you’ll be receiving applications, you won’t be able to get a mortgage for 10 years but you will for a car loan.. yet again who can afford to purchase a home these days ?

  • @leadnsteel1428
    @leadnsteel1428 Pƙed rokem +177

    Everyone wants to be a real estate investor/flipper these days

    • @1jw298
      @1jw298 Pƙed rokem +10

      It’s been that way since the 90’s. Remember the Carlton sheets commercials?

    • @robloxvids2233
      @robloxvids2233 Pƙed rokem +25

      If it was so easy professional contractors would be doing it. Not regular "entrepreneurs."

    • @jimmymcgill6778
      @jimmymcgill6778 Pƙed rokem +4

      That's because he didn't know about it before he first started.
      If you flip house, that have to be your main job, not a second one.

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex Pƙed rokem +31

      Too much HGTV on in the house.

    • @alinatamashevich3354
      @alinatamashevich3354 Pƙed rokem

      Jimmy, who said that? More of your bs

  • @huaninamillion
    @huaninamillion Pƙed rokem +91

    What a stressful situation to be in... I commend you for taking the first and most difficult step: asking for help. It's not too late, you can turn it around! You can do it!

  • @Chele-nm4qx
    @Chele-nm4qx Pƙed rokem +165

    Sometimes people just need to hear that they have options & that they have someone in their corner. I bet he got off that call & felt a weight off his shoulders. I hope he has this taken off his shoulders in a couple years & looks back & realizes what he actually accomplished.

    • @paulc3749
      @paulc3749 Pƙed rokem +8

      110k of cc debt is a millstone around the neck

    • @raymondsimmons1617
      @raymondsimmons1617 Pƙed rokem +3

      @@paulc3749 I agree. The interest on that is crippling.

    • @curiouscat3384
      @curiouscat3384 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      Yep, there's a tendency to become paralyzed by all the options a

  • @kellywaddell4448
    @kellywaddell4448 Pƙed rokem +31

    You can’t afford a $500k house with $115k income

    • @hvaball150
      @hvaball150 Pƙed rokem +4

      he owes 300. he was earning 165. sounds ok.

    • @kellywaddell4448
      @kellywaddell4448 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@hvaball150 he’s broke. Not ok

    • @robertbell525
      @robertbell525 Pƙed rokem +4

      The price of your house should be about 3x of your gross income, max.

    • @phattonez
      @phattonez Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +3

      The situation is what it is. He has 200k in equity and ought to leverage that to pay down the credit cards. Dave won't mention it but it's a way better option than keeping the credit card debt outstanding and slowly paying that off.

    • @joepic85
      @joepic85 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci +1

      They didn't pay $500,000

  • @willfishing5605
    @willfishing5605 Pƙed rokem +22

    I'm a residential General Contractor, I see so many people think they're "house flippers" because they've watched a few episodes on HG TV. I gladly take their money. If flipping houses was a good business model, all of us contractors would be just doing that! We do everything at HALF the cost of consumers also, and it still doesn't work all the time. Sometimes it can be done, but overall, law of averages, it's not a profitable business model. It's like day trading stocks... only the brokerage is making money in the long haul

    • @mph5896
      @mph5896 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +2

      Yeah, its a REALLY tough investment. I did 3 flips. First, I took it apart and it was not worth putting it back together.Sold it and broke even. 2nd, down to the studs with 1/2 the house having the floor joists and repaired foundation and third was cosmetic. It certainly wasn't a windfall of $ made, but I enjoyed doing the work. Pretty much a hobby. I'll do another one, just have to find the right house.
      I cant imagine hiring alot of the work out and expecting to make $. I hired the framing and drywall out on the second. Roof on 3rd. Besides that, did everything else myself.

  • @maxvoronin273
    @maxvoronin273 Pƙed rokem +92

    This show always makes me feel better about myself ! Thanks Dave

  • @dennisd4027
    @dennisd4027 Pƙed rokem +23

    House flippers...this is how every story ends unless you get lucky and time it right.

  • @NaNa-lt1po
    @NaNa-lt1po Pƙed rokem +54

    "I agree with dave", says ken as if disagreement is an option..đŸ€Ł

    • @larrybarbee4916
      @larrybarbee4916 Pƙed rokem +18

      😂😂 they all agree with Dave, all of the time

    • @Overbuilt.Gaming
      @Overbuilt.Gaming Pƙed rokem +9

      Oh, for sure! How many times does Dave interrupt? Why does he even have a co-host if he's going to interrupt all the time and the other person sit there like a puppet?

    • @terriesmith2616
      @terriesmith2616 Pƙed rokem +14

      All of them agree with Dave. The only one who's not afraid to disagree with Dave is his daughter, Rachel.

    • @larrybarbee4916
      @larrybarbee4916 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@terriesmith2616 true true

    • @jeremieletellier807
      @jeremieletellier807 Pƙed rokem +11

      It will be a glorious day when Ken or George build up a spine and say « Dave, you are sooooo wrong about this. »

  • @steffilynn0917
    @steffilynn0917 Pƙed rokem +12

    At 52, he better be sure his and his wife’s health can sustain working 65+ hours a week for the next several years before he chooses that option. Money’s no good if they push themselves until they have a heart attack or stroke, and they sound like they’ve already been heading in that direction for a while with these flips and the crazy stress that goes with them. Caller, sell your primary residence and prioritize your health and relationship! You have a window of time where you have enough income and enough time until retirement you could still purchase a more modest home, but if you wreck your health or your marriage, you can’t get that back.

  • @ClaytonBigsby89
    @ClaytonBigsby89 Pƙed rokem +45

    " I purchased a $5 scratch off and only won a dollar"
    Dave: "Sell the house, rice n beans"

    • @curiouscat3384
      @curiouscat3384 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci +7

      This is such a simple little joke but I am ROARING with laughter :)

  • @kara2162
    @kara2162 Pƙed rokem +85

    This Is why you don't go into debt in your 30's-40's. You will be in your 50's working 75 hrs a week when you could be cutting back. No fun.

    • @taylormabanag2535
      @taylormabanag2535 Pƙed rokem +2

      Totally agree!

    • @OTOWN2STOCKTOWN
      @OTOWN2STOCKTOWN Pƙed rokem +2

      Yup

    • @patty109109
      @patty109109 Pƙed rokem +21

      Sometimes life doesn’t quite work the way it says it will in a book.

    • @traveler320ak7
      @traveler320ak7 Pƙed rokem +4

      Yep. If a person lives within their means when they are young..and save like crazy..they can have a nice retirement.

    • @sew_gal7340
      @sew_gal7340 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@traveler320ak7 Thats what i am doing, no debt...30 years old...make good money, have a house living VERY frugally...saving a ton every month...the problem is seeing your savings and being tempted to buy a ton of things or just pay off the house completely

  • @dinospumoni8860
    @dinospumoni8860 Pƙed rokem +49

    Sell the 500k house and use that to pay off the cc debt and move into the flip. Problem solved.

    • @katiejon17
      @katiejon17 Pƙed rokem +8

      But, but, but.... I want my cake and eat it too.

    • @brucefredrickson9677
      @brucefredrickson9677 Pƙed rokem +3

      Exactly...he should have way more equity than 200k in a 500k house he has been paying on for 18 years. Did he sign up for a 50 year mortgage?

  • @Micloren
    @Micloren Pƙed rokem +57

    He might be scared but he’s mostly exhausted & beat down with anxiety. If I were them I’d sell their primary house, pay off the debt immediately, find an apartment, & just cool off till I felt normal again. Attachment to stuff is how people get into these situations & his attachment to a wooden structure is keeping him from getting out. Classic
 the things you own end up owning you.

    • @robdebbilynnreed6339
      @robdebbilynnreed6339 Pƙed rokem +5

      I agree with you! concentrate on there marriage for a little bit, especially if they have kids

    • @rainy3527
      @rainy3527 Pƙed rokem +4

      I wouldn’t get an apartment, I probably would buy a condo outright. I wouldn’t want monthly payments if it doesn’t work out

    • @eugenegutierrez5106
      @eugenegutierrez5106 Pƙed rokem

      That’s what I do. I agree with u.

    • @Mexicobeanpole
      @Mexicobeanpole Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

      💯💯

    • @thefunfam1433
      @thefunfam1433 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +1

      Declare bankruptcy keep his house

  • @haywood4299
    @haywood4299 Pƙed rokem +15

    You don't need a 500k house in MO. Time to downsize and start living within your means.

  • @paulmccracken1038
    @paulmccracken1038 Pƙed rokem +35

    Glad you were able to give him advice and also the encouragement he needed.

  • @OilBaron100
    @OilBaron100 Pƙed rokem +14

    The callers sounds like a very capable and hard working individual.
    I think he can fix his situation and keep his house.

  • @endofquoterepeattheline7516
    @endofquoterepeattheline7516 Pƙed rokem +56

    At one point do you say to yourself maybe I couldn’t keep charging things?

    • @HassanThelander
      @HassanThelander Pƙed rokem +4

      We all go too far in some aspects, we have to be grateful when we don’t take it to the point of having to climb a mountain

    • @kstar1956
      @kstar1956 Pƙed rokem +12

      The CC debt was probably racked up when he lost his job so I can totally see how that happens if they are living off of the CC. Although I'm curious as to why so much especially if the wife was still working , they should have just did some major cut backs.

    • @Ryan_DeWitt
      @Ryan_DeWitt Pƙed rokem +7

      Sounds to me like he got a 50k paycut, but was living the exact same lifestyle he was with the extra 50k.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@Ryan_DeWittkinda hard to adjust to a pay cut like that and not be in the hole

  • @jvarsall
    @jvarsall Pƙed rokem +9

    Sell the flip house, take the profits straight to Vegas and put it all on black!

  • @expat8873
    @expat8873 Pƙed rokem +11

    $500k house that they have owned for 18 years and still owe $300k on translates to lots of cash out refi’s to cash flow a lifestyle they couldn’t afford
    I guarantee they only paid $250-300k for the house 18years ago

    • @dissatisfiedcustomer6423
      @dissatisfiedcustomer6423 Pƙed rokem +1

      If you listen to him it is a house he and his wife built not bought they built it.

  • @kaisersouze41
    @kaisersouze41 Pƙed rokem +22

    He’s not the first person to lose money in a failed business. That’s very unfortunate but he’s already made his decision. After this call he googled Bankruptcy attorney. He didn’t get to this point overnight. At $20K, $30K, $50K he knew he was in over his head. I’m sure he already had looked into bankruptcy back then.

    • @curiouscat3384
      @curiouscat3384 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      Yes because he knew the Missouri homestead amount for bankruptcy

  • @Dunker762
    @Dunker762 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci +332

    Amazing video, A friend of mine referred me to a financial adviser sometime ago and we got to talking about investment and money. I started investing with $150k and in the first 2 months, my portfolio was reading $274,800. Crazy right!, I decided to reinvest my profit and get more interesting. For over a year we have been working together making consistent profit just bought my second home 2 weeks ago and care for my family.

    • @Lourd-Bab
      @Lourd-Bab Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Hi. I’ve been forced to find additional sources of income as I got retrenched. I barely have time to continue trading and watch my investments since I had my second child. Do you think I should take a break for a while from the market and focus on other things or return whenever I have free time or is it a continuous process? Thanks

    • @Lourd-Bab
      @Lourd-Bab Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      @@Dunker762 Oh please I’d love that. Thanks!

    • @Dunker762
      @Dunker762 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      @@Lourd-Bab Judith Ann peace is her name

    • @Dunker762
      @Dunker762 Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      Lookup with her name on the webpage.

    • @Lourd-Bab
      @Lourd-Bab Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

      @@Dunker762 She appears to be well-educated and well-read. I ran an online search on her name and came across her website; thank you for sharing.

  • @Matt-ur3dm
    @Matt-ur3dm Pƙed rokem +32

    Why doesn't Dave suggest he move into the house he is currently renovating and sell the house he has equity on and clear the debt completely?

    • @robdebbilynnreed6339
      @robdebbilynnreed6339 Pƙed rokem +5

      good point. nice 3rd option!

    • @TheDeathvice187
      @TheDeathvice187 Pƙed rokem +4

      Cause he only ever lays out a max a 1 option

    • @donjohnson1416
      @donjohnson1416 Pƙed rokem

      @@TheDeathvice187 Tell us you barely listen without telling us.

    • @Satiusmaximus
      @Satiusmaximus Pƙed rokem

      That’s what I was thinking!

    • @leemp337
      @leemp337 Pƙed rokem

      The caller subtly hinted he wants to keep 1st house as he mentioned he built it and has blood, sweat equity in it.
      He is emotionally tied to it and he is trying to find way to keep it.
      In the end, he may still be forced to sell if there is no homestead exemption on it.

  • @getinthespace7715
    @getinthespace7715 Pƙed rokem +7

    I've paid off $110k in debt over the last few years. $35k of that was medical related to keep my father in law alive got $30k left and we will be debt free. Just keep at it. Be intentional with your money.

    • @Illmatic25
      @Illmatic25 Pƙed 3 měsĂ­ci

      How did you do it? What sort of work are you if I may ask?

  • @Mr.Bungle03
    @Mr.Bungle03 Pƙed rokem +27

    I have $230 on my AMEX and I’m freaking out
.feel so much better now 😅

    • @katiejon17
      @katiejon17 Pƙed rokem +1

      Hahaaaaa! I can relate! We paid off all of our non-mortgage debt a year ago, but we still have like $55k on our mortgage.... and I flip out over that!

    • @so.many.obstacles
      @so.many.obstacles Pƙed rokem +1

      If you have $230 on a card and haven’t paid it off you should be freaking out.

  • @lez2884
    @lez2884 Pƙed rokem +11

    Him and his wife can work extra to payoff the debt. If they can clear an extra $500 a week that is $26k a year and rest out of salary. No reason for him to shoulder all the extra work, he sounds exhausted or depressed.

  • @dinospumoni8860
    @dinospumoni8860 Pƙed rokem +61

    I got 7k of cc debt and make more than him a year and I am freaked out about it. I don’t know how this guy is staying so calm.

  • @budgetingdaddyuk6761
    @budgetingdaddyuk6761 Pƙed rokem +1

    Love Dave's advice.

  • @ThreeorMore209
    @ThreeorMore209 Pƙed rokem +6

    These people wanted to live RICH. This is what arrogance will get you.

    • @angel-ij4xv
      @angel-ij4xv Pƙed rokem

      exactly everyone can't live that luxury lifestyle

  • @shumatsuopost
    @shumatsuopost Pƙed rokem +16

    Love Dave's advice on this one as always!

  • @TheVasMan
    @TheVasMan Pƙed rokem +101

    Dave's math always works as long as you forget that taxes exist.

    • @TheJohnmmullin
      @TheJohnmmullin Pƙed rokem +8

      Yeah I cannot understand his math

    • @spankynater4242
      @spankynater4242 Pƙed rokem +6

      I’m not sure why everyone always assumes Dave doesn’t know about taxes. Always tell yourself, if you’re aware of it, Dave probably is also. Even after taxes, they can still get it done in two or three years.

    • @robertbell525
      @robertbell525 Pƙed rokem +2

      While I do think it would be better to talk take home pay, it's understandable that he talks gross income. Everyone has different taxes, insurance etc, you can go down the hole and never get out. He's trying to keep it simple and quick for a radio show

    • @XennialGuy
      @XennialGuy Pƙed rokem +1

      I'm confused as well. I don't think this was good advice in this case.

    • @SnifferSock
      @SnifferSock Pƙed rokem +3

      30% of 115k is still 80k. 40k into debt, 40k to live on is entirely doable for almost anywhere in the US.

  • @StevenAbbott
    @StevenAbbott Pƙed rokem +9

    I am a master tradesman all trades. I never flipped a house that I was not living in. I always thought it was financially dangerous.

  • @miketracy9256
    @miketracy9256 Pƙed rokem +7

    If you want to be a safe flipper, do what Dave advises for rental homes, pay cash and have the funds to rehab in the bank.

  • @peraltaisrael2598
    @peraltaisrael2598 Pƙed rokem +42

    Why do people think they should be able to just walk away from their debt? Especially when they have a way to pay it off.

    • @Weakeyedominant
      @Weakeyedominant Pƙed rokem

      He knows he isn't walking away from it that's why he is so depressed. If he sells the flip house he can get his debt down to 80k, that's manageable on his current household income. It sounds like he has no pension savings though which is a bigger problem down the road.

    • @andidede3653
      @andidede3653 Pƙed rokem +4

      Even if he wanted to go with bankruptcy, making 115K a year, his assets being level with his debts or slightly more equity might not clear his CC debt. If anything they would restructure it and he still pays that money. Courts don't care if he takes 20 years to pay it as long as he can

    • @riggitydoo5116
      @riggitydoo5116 Pƙed rokem +3

      It's called the law. And it exists for a reason. If you don't like it fight to change it.

    • @genxx2724
      @genxx2724 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@andidede3653 Bankruptcy payment plans don’t go out 20 years.

    • @andidede3653
      @andidede3653 Pƙed rokem

      @GenX X i know I was just giving an example

  • @ForceFreddy
    @ForceFreddy Pƙed rokem +5

    He could sell his house, pay off his debt and use the remaining 100k as a down payment on a new house that her family could live comfortable in.

  • @AustinF516
    @AustinF516 Pƙed rokem +32

    Remarkable how he is able to think straight.

    • @tylersanders2388
      @tylersanders2388 Pƙed rokem +7

      He isn’t thinking straight and hasn’t been for years. The fact that he racked up over 100k in bills with nothing to show for it means he was living it up on lobster and steak thinking he would be rich from house flipping

  • @jonquindiagan682
    @jonquindiagan682 Pƙed rokem

    Great show. Keep up the Good Work.

  • @jgregg7100
    @jgregg7100 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci +1

    Anyone else listen to Dave to feel better about your financial choices? 😂

  • @taniagarrison6216
    @taniagarrison6216 Pƙed rokem +3

    He seemed reluctant on the side hustle idea đŸ€Šâ€â™€ïž

  • @Albert12893
    @Albert12893 Pƙed rokem +1

    Brilliant advice

  • @stitcher4729
    @stitcher4729 Pƙed rokem +6

    At 52 their house is probably too big for them anyway. Might as well sell it.

  • @briankinslow2995
    @briankinslow2995 Pƙed rokem +1

    Hi, from uk, Great show and advice . Much of which helps here

  • @robertbell525
    @robertbell525 Pƙed rokem +6

    Decades ago a friend and I were looking into flipping houses. The only prayer you have of making money is to buy the house on the courthouse steps. The absolute dumps we were looking at with a Realtor were too close to market value. After fixing it up I figured we'd be making maybe minimum wage if we didn't lose money. Not worth the risk or the hassle. I'd have been better off with a McJob.

    • @mph5896
      @mph5896 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

      Even the court house step houses are tight. Gotta hire the lawyer for eviction and to clear the title. Then you really don't know what you get until you get possession.

  • @RaleighLink
    @RaleighLink Pƙed rokem +2

    Don't be so attached to your house, this man could be debt free with cash in the bank by selling the two homes and paying his debt off. Then go buy a smaller house with the cash you made, problem solved.

  • @Gamma_Labs
    @Gamma_Labs Pƙed rokem +2

    Best of luck Jeff!

  • @adamseidel9780
    @adamseidel9780 Pƙed rokem +22

    This guy has a worse problem than Dave acknowledges: he’s also stacking up about 25k a year in interest. If he can’t find a way to shift the debt into something with no interest for 18 months, or a more reasonable rate, getting out of the House is the only reasonable way out

    • @TheVasMan
      @TheVasMan Pƙed rokem +3

      Bingo. Then you throw the taxes onto that $115K income and the $300K mortgage and coming up with 40K a year to throw at the debt each year is going to be tough.

    • @arcane7298
      @arcane7298 Pƙed rokem +9

      Agree. Dave always seems to forget about interest and taxes when he calculates how fast people can pay off debt.

    • @thefunfam1433
      @thefunfam1433 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

      Which is why he should declare bankruptcy

  • @alexandrajuliette6899
    @alexandrajuliette6899 Pƙed 9 dny +39

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    • @georgemattocks
      @georgemattocks Pƙed 9 dny

      It's a miracle and I would testify, $110,000
      every 4 weeks! I now have a big mansion and can now afford anything and also support God's work and the church.

    • @rosiejones2079
      @rosiejones2079 Pƙed 9 dny

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    • @kenrobin8736
      @kenrobin8736 Pƙed 9 dny

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    • @chrismadison5085
      @chrismadison5085 Pƙed 9 dny

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    • @peteraaron6714
      @peteraaron6714 Pƙed 9 dny

      The difference Mrs Lucy Mary Liam makes in my life is second to none it's definitely a life changing kindness. I really appreciate her effort in my life.

  • @rethinkcps2116
    @rethinkcps2116 Pƙed rokem +4

    Caller's ego refuses to admit that house flipping was a wash - or outright losing deal. Esp. if he puts numeric value on "sweat equity."
    Why call DR just to (very passively) argue with him? His mind won't change...and he's right.

  • @screwdriver_bandit
    @screwdriver_bandit Pƙed rokem +2

    Great to hear Ken’s input.

  • @kstar1956
    @kstar1956 Pƙed rokem +110

    These folks don't need to file bankruptcy. They need to hurry up and sell the house they're flipping and then buckle down hard and tight and pick up whatever side jobs they can to pay off their debt. They can do it, they make $115k a year, they just need to be disciplined.

    • @bishwasmishra6447
      @bishwasmishra6447 Pƙed rokem +7

      If they could be disciplined they wouldn’t end up where they are. But hope they do.

    • @workhard7306
      @workhard7306 Pƙed rokem +1

      Turbo debt all I have to say

    • @nigelstanford4
      @nigelstanford4 Pƙed rokem +2

      $115k/year for two people is not enough money. Especially when you're an older couple.

    • @MarksTournaments
      @MarksTournaments Pƙed rokem +1

      @@nigelstanford4 exactly

    • @exgamer07
      @exgamer07 Pƙed rokem +9

      @@nigelstanford4 what? 😼 $115k is plenty of money unless you live in downtown LA

  • @harisadu8998
    @harisadu8998 Pƙed rokem +7

    I would also try to negotiate the debt as much as possible. See how much of a reduction he can get. If he offers to pay up.

  • @FunesLegend
    @FunesLegend Pƙed rokem +1

    At first I heard "couch flipping business" đŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

  • @Theextremepessimist
    @Theextremepessimist Pƙed rokem +17

    I think people NEED to live way below their means. No matter what you make a year. You make 100k a year live on 30.

    • @danclapper626
      @danclapper626 Pƙed rokem

      Ha, I pay 30k in taxes.

    • @reese85
      @reese85 Pƙed rokem +1

      30k really? Smh

    • @danclapper626
      @danclapper626 Pƙed rokem

      @@reese85 yes really

    • @curiouscat3384
      @curiouscat3384 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      @@danclapper626 All the more reason to live on 30 and DON't USe CREDIT!

  • @juliobasloco4927
    @juliobasloco4927 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

    Interesting showing an Eastern Motors commercial before a Dave Ramsey video lol

  • @elainenilsson5472
    @elainenilsson5472 Pƙed rokem

    That was a good one. This was a real problem with a real solution.

  • @aguyandhiscomputer
    @aguyandhiscomputer Pƙed rokem +20

    Once Dave gets going, the co-host might as well get up and take a break.
    He and Kelly Clarkson should do a talk show together.

    • @curiouscat3384
      @curiouscat3384 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      That's okay. It IS the Ramsey show and his protege's are never quite as skilled as Dave.

  • @NickTortorici
    @NickTortorici Pƙed rokem

    This was awesome

  • @TopVillain
    @TopVillain Pƙed rokem +5

    The homestead exemption is 300-600k in California. If it’s your primary residence.

    • @dianecelento4974
      @dianecelento4974 Pƙed rokem +2

      He could do a chapter 13 bankruptcy and keep his house if he has too much equity.

    • @curiouscat3384
      @curiouscat3384 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      In North Carolina the homestead exemption is $35 K unless you're over 65 !

  • @gooserich3970
    @gooserich3970 Pƙed rokem +5

    I bet he is looking at his wife on the other end of the phone like I "you did this to us"!

  • @morganottlii2390
    @morganottlii2390 Pƙed rokem +8

    I would pay someone who has experience 3X my hourly pay to do repairs on my house that I don't have time to do. 25 hours a week for a few weeks would be great for me. He should look into that kinda side hustle. I'm not the only one

    • @curiouscat3384
      @curiouscat3384 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      There is HUGE demand for a skilled person to do small jobs. HUGE! But he seemed reluctant when Dave suggested that. I think he was starting to say something about his job but Dave talked over him as usual. But I agree this guy can't just file bankruptcy and rest on his laurels.

  • @Hugo-py2ce
    @Hugo-py2ce Pƙed rokem +1

    How can someone get themselves in this situation? This is insane!!!!

  • @IvyPlans
    @IvyPlans Pƙed rokem +4

    They make 115k+ between the both of them. They can live on half and pay their debt in two years. If they sell the house faster. Fear will stunt your ability to see things clearly.

  • @Dmoney617Bost
    @Dmoney617Bost Pƙed 2 měsĂ­ci

    In Massachusetts, if you have a homestead, we are covered up to $500k in equity. If no homestead, equity is covered up to $190k. Varies wildly by state. Sometimes, bankruptcy is the best option for some.

  • @kcor4
    @kcor4 Pƙed rokem +70

    Hard for me to feel bad for people who flipped houses and ran prices up on everyone.

    • @OUTDOORS55
      @OUTDOORS55 Pƙed rokem +10

      Lol thats not how it works😂

    • @wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303
      @wewhoareabouttodiesaluteyo9303 Pƙed rokem +12

      Yeah, kind of karma for him.

    • @sneakerfreak2002
      @sneakerfreak2002 Pƙed rokem +6

      No sympathy here

    • @sglacf
      @sglacf Pƙed rokem +11

      If he was running up prices by flipping houses then he wouldn't be in this much debt

    • @michaelp9707
      @michaelp9707 Pƙed rokem +4

      It is the massive money printing and bad monetary policy running prices up

  • @nancybashista1390
    @nancybashista1390 Pƙed rokem +3

    Great advice. 🙏

  • @runningdebate2670
    @runningdebate2670 Pƙed rokem +3

    Jeff if you're reading this, you can do it!

  • @choicemeatrandy6572
    @choicemeatrandy6572 Pƙed rokem +6

    Sell everything so hard that the kids think they're next.

  • @bigcahuna42366
    @bigcahuna42366 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci +1

    I wouldn't feel confident flipping houses in today's market unless I get the house for a dirt cheap price (which is really hard). Currently the vast majority of home prices in America are inflated, and what goes up, not all but in a lot of cases eventually come down.

  • @kr7584
    @kr7584 Pƙed rokem +22

    Dave's advice here is 100% spot on. Save the house which you live in and pay mortgage for. Do whatever you can ( even late payments to creditors is fine ) and work like a maniac.

    • @PInk77W1
      @PInk77W1 Pƙed 9 měsĂ­ci +3

      I’ve never made a late payment
      But don’t they charge u a large late fee?
      Three years is 36 late payments.
      $50 a pop is $2000 more

    • @GuitarGuy650
      @GuitarGuy650 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci +1

      Except when you take into account taxes and interest in the debt...sure, killer advice! 😂

    • @marnarenteria4203
      @marnarenteria4203 Pƙed 5 dny

      Why would he have to pay anything late if he's current now? Why not just stay current and let the proceeds from the flipped house give him a head start?

  • @coppingtonfarnham7731
    @coppingtonfarnham7731 Pƙed rokem +3

    They are in better shape than others I've heard of. Need to sell the flip, sell and downsize from the house they're living in, then pay debts. Won't be able to live in a half-million dollar house for now.

  • @theunit5939
    @theunit5939 Pƙed rokem +2

    Good lord and I'm having major anxiety with 600$ after Christmas buying

    • @curiouscat3384
      @curiouscat3384 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      You should be! Why spend that much on Christmas? It's insane and is a perfect example of how weak all Americans are being influenced by advertising or the kids being jealous of friends' toys.

  • @genxretiree
    @genxretiree Pƙed rokem +18

    Been there and dug out of it (twice) without BK. You can 100 percent do this.

  • @dahbajanman7044
    @dahbajanman7044 Pƙed rokem +5

    I would sell both houses then pay off the cc and buy another house.

    • @Eastahtata
      @Eastahtata Pƙed rokem +2

      Yep he's probably got a 25%APR on that 110k. Ouch. Gotta ditch that burden first.

  • @hectorkjv_1611
    @hectorkjv_1611 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci

    Dave says "CRAP" with such vehement emphasis. 😅

  • @HippieColonel
    @HippieColonel Pƙed rokem +4

    Can’t say I feel bad for house flippers.

  • @roswellramseur621
    @roswellramseur621 Pƙed rokem +5

    Move into the flip and sell the 500k home walk away with 90k come on man.

  • @kentondragon9263
    @kentondragon9263 Pƙed rokem

    When did dave and Co ditch the headsets? đŸ€”đŸ˜

  • @mikesawyer4707
    @mikesawyer4707 Pƙed rokem +2

    At 52 he is still a kid. He can turn this around. Please do not file for bankrupsy ever.

    • @thefunfam1433
      @thefunfam1433 Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

      Why? Makes the most sense to file

  • @BKDDY
    @BKDDY Pƙed rokem +24

    If you can't make CC payments you can call up the CC companies and bargain with them.
    They can lower your monthly payment & even cut out a lot of your debt you owe them.

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 Pƙed rokem +10

      They can but they won't.

    • @robertthompson5908
      @robertthompson5908 Pƙed rokem +4

      I think he said they just did that.

    • @alexarihani2902
      @alexarihani2902 Pƙed rokem +4

      Why should they? Just penalizes the people who pay on time

    • @aboutwhat1930
      @aboutwhat1930 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@alexarihani2902 Not really, you're already paying 10%+ APR on unsecured debt because of the risk, so they're doing what they can to make sure they get paid back without sending it a collection agency or lawsuit, both of which will probably cost more than the discount on the accrued interest as the debts will be sold with a sizeable discount.

    • @AnthonyDonkor
      @AnthonyDonkor Pƙed rokem

      Actually what you do is pay the first payments on the CC and then after 2-3 months ask them to reduce and pay the rest of debt off.

  • @countdown2xstacy
    @countdown2xstacy Pƙed rokem +1

    Poor guy is on the verge of tears.

  • @rogermarr9067
    @rogermarr9067 Pƙed rokem +2

    Hey Jeff first things first I work in Springfield Missouri so I'm really interested in this call I really am going to listen and I'm hoping that maybe I can give you some great advice compared to Dave I mean it might be the same who knows but I hope this call goes good for your brother because I feel you it's tough out there for us I'm not a business owner but it's tough out there for us

  • @mikeparker6322
    @mikeparker6322 Pƙed rokem

    “Sweat Equity” only has value to to the person who actually perspired.

  • @Travis21G
    @Travis21G Pƙed rokem +1

    Cash out refinance, consolidate the debt, save all that monthly , put towards loan and pay off.

  • @everardoaleman2252
    @everardoaleman2252 Pƙed rokem +1

    Flipping houses is not a business. Its a calculated gamble.

  • @michaelb.8953
    @michaelb.8953 Pƙed rokem +40

    I'd move into the flip and sell my house that I'm currently living in to increase my cash flow as the flip is significantly cheaper.

    • @eljefe4473
      @eljefe4473 Pƙed rokem

      Yes sir

    • @DeepDeepSpace
      @DeepDeepSpace Pƙed rokem +3

      I imagine the flip is in a bad neighborhood which is why it's cheaper.

    • @michaelb.8953
      @michaelb.8953 Pƙed rokem +9

      @@DeepDeepSpace Okay. It's just one of the sacrifices one has to make for a quicker cleaner debt payoff.

    • @jejekelley8204
      @jejekelley8204 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@michaelb.8953 my safety wouldn’t be worth it.. but if it’s in a safe neighborhood I would definitely make that sacrifice


    • @abark
      @abark Pƙed rokem

      A flip is usually on a short term like a balloon or bridge loan, hard money at double digits for 90 days etc. He's had it for a while it sounds, so who knows but generally he would need to pay off the note on an investment property relatively quickly. Unless they paid cash, but I doubt it.

  • @littlesongbird1
    @littlesongbird1 Pƙed rokem +5

    the guy could spend that 25 hours a week doing task rabbit andget extra money

  • @arga400
    @arga400 Pƙed rokem +3

    This man really thought he could declare bankruptcy, all the bad stuff goes away AND he gets to keep his 500k house?
    Bro you have no clue what bankruptcy means... it doesnt sound like you're bankrupt just overwhelmed, you can make it thru

  • @thomasfranco5997
    @thomasfranco5997 Pƙed 5 měsĂ­ci

    I have a neighbor who bought a house across the street last year for $1.4 million. It has the same floor plan as mine. They have been having problems since they moved in. Even before they moved in, they waited 2 months to get the house done. New roof, new paint and repaving the pool. Now they are having problems with pipes in all three bathrooms. The house is forty years old. I think they were better off buying a new house for that much money.

  • @chuckdameron5626
    @chuckdameron5626 Pƙed rokem +8

    I say sell your house and move in to the flip house all your bills be paid and you can save money and buy a big house later

    • @bettysmith4527
      @bettysmith4527 Pƙed rokem +1

      I was thinking this too! He didn't mention having kids, so maybe it's an option!

  • @byteme368
    @byteme368 Pƙed 11 měsĂ­ci +1

    If you pay late, then you have to pay a buttload in fees... why would he advise that?

    • @curiouscat3384
      @curiouscat3384 Pƙed 10 měsĂ­ci

      as an option to bankruptcy - either way his credit is shot.

  • @Barneyjo
    @Barneyjo Pƙed rokem +3

    He’s got this!!! đŸ™ŒđŸ‘đŸ”„

  • @One-Crazy-Cat
    @One-Crazy-Cat Pƙed rokem +2

    He should move into the flip house he owes 115 on and sell the one with 200 equity pay off the cards and the house he’s flipping so he’s free and clear.

  • @mattm597
    @mattm597 Pƙed rokem +1

    House flipping just seems shady and greedy. People who do it deserve what they get.

  • @rodrigofernandez9055
    @rodrigofernandez9055 Pƙed rokem +1

    Why does he need a half million house that pays a ton of property taxes?... Downsize and pay off your CC debt.

  • @DM-ed9os
    @DM-ed9os Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

    Why not do a cash out refi on the house, pay off the cards, then put all of the payments he was once making on the cards toward additional principle payments each month to get the mortgage paid down faster?

  • @DanielGarcia-zz9eg
    @DanielGarcia-zz9eg Pƙed rokem +2

    Sell the your house.
    Save on home insurance, property taxes , maintenance and move in a small apartment or family.
    Start over

    • @bovnycccoperalover3579
      @bovnycccoperalover3579 Pƙed rokem

      We are now in the bad time before the Post WW2
      Living with family may become much more prevalent

  • @NadoJoe
    @NadoJoe Pƙed rokem

    I’m cali it’s between $4-600k equity and u have to live in it. Forget which was the number.

  • @steelcastle5616
    @steelcastle5616 Pƙed rokem +1

    Sell the car too!
    Eat beans and rice and deliver pizza (by bike).