Why You Should NOT Move to Japan

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    Many people tell me that they want to move to Japan, which I completely understand because I personally love it here. I love the food, the culture and how safe it is, relatively speaking. Obviously not everything is perfect in Japan, it’s a small island with a lot people living close together especially in the cities, so there has to be some compromises. I think some foreigners moving here, don’t come here with that compromise mindset and are rudely surprised when things are not as they thought. I wanted to make this video and share issues that some foreigners complain about when living in Japan. So you have a little more information before you decide to move your entire life to Japan to later realize that Japan isn’t for you. Working in Japan and living in Japan takes a special person who can compromise and understand that life in Japan is not going be like life back at home. The people who can appreciate and understand the differences generally do well living in Japan.
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    0:00 - Intro
    1:15 - 1. Small & Expensive Homes
    2:09 - 2. Small Clothing
    3:02 - 3. No Return Policy
    3:31 - 4. Too Much Paperwork
    3:59 - 5. Forms Not Foreigner-Friendly
    4:56 - 6. Small Food Portions
    5:26 - 7. Mandatory Car Inspections
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  • @PaolofromTOKYO
    @PaolofromTOKYO  Před 3 lety +479

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  • @Dimmiiee
    @Dimmiiee Před 3 lety +4648

    Moral of the story:
    Life is unfortunately not like anime

  • @AnnaBluelueluep
    @AnnaBluelueluep Před 3 lety +13092

    "a lot of paperwork" - me being german , living in the land of paperwork

    • @falion2850
      @falion2850 Před 3 lety +525

      „Das Internet ist für uns alle Neuland“ We‘ll get there eventually, just give them another 50 years or so.

    • @takenoshi7
      @takenoshi7 Před 3 lety +50

      so true!!!!!

    • @appleslover
      @appleslover Před 3 lety +47

      How true is this, really?

    • @DerPrenzlberger
      @DerPrenzlberger Před 3 lety +177

      Trust me, it’s more worst in Japan actually.

    • @chrisfuhs1529
      @chrisfuhs1529 Před 3 lety +179

      Germany is nothing against Japan in terms of paper work.

  • @Inception1338
    @Inception1338 Před 2 lety +2493

    Just for the record: Japan has more cities than just Tokyo.

    • @sjefhendrickx2257
      @sjefhendrickx2257 Před 2 lety +36

      But does he know that

    • @bobseeee
      @bobseeee Před 2 lety +49

      Kagoshima is beautiful

    • @RS250Squid
      @RS250Squid Před 2 lety +111

      The same problem exists all over the world though to some degree. Here in the UK we're still pushing, trying to convince tourists that London isn't the UK.

    • @walangchahangyelingden8252
      @walangchahangyelingden8252 Před 2 lety +18

      @@RS250Squid Same as Kathmandu in Nepal. 🇳🇵

    • @skyking2325
      @skyking2325 Před 2 lety +9

      If i go i want to visit kyoto and hirosima. Hirosima for history

  • @yuu-nb7is
    @yuu-nb7is Před 3 lety +1798

    Hi, I'm Japanese.I always watch your channel !
    I didn't realize that foreigner have trouble with their middle name.I think we should change this.
    Japan is comfortable to live so I wish many people come to Japan when the Coronavirus situation settles down☺️
    We are waiting to see you🤍

  • @akshatk6892
    @akshatk6892 Před 3 lety +3743

    *Q:* Why you shouldn't move to japan?
    *A:* People don't speak with subtitles...

  • @briish85
    @briish85 Před 3 lety +1824

    Weebs after they realize it’s not a paradise where they will be trained to be the strongest weapon of humanity and get a girl and marry her
    “Why am I still here? Just to suffer”

    • @christinelomeran9407
      @christinelomeran9407 Před 3 lety +18

      exact comment that I found.

    • @abbypatterson4372
      @abbypatterson4372 Před 3 lety +96

      no “weeb” that is above the age of 13 thinks that way

    • @iwonthesitateebltch3319
      @iwonthesitateebltch3319 Před 3 lety +27

      @@abbypatterson4372 same I'm a weeb I wanna go to japan for school purposes

    • @infoslasher9301
      @infoslasher9301 Před 3 lety +37

      Paolo fromTOKYO: Dont go to Japan.
      Weebs: *im about to end this mans whole career* or *so you have chosen death*

    • @danielaa418
      @danielaa418 Před 3 lety +19

      why do people use weeb unironically...

  • @mochabunny1585
    @mochabunny1585 Před 2 lety +88

    I think even after hearing these things I would still want to go to Japan. There are so many beautiful things to see and experience when moving to a different place. I want to be able to connect and communicate with so many more people however, since I am still a minor a lot of these things like the paperwork and fees seem overwhelming but i know I can learn and grow so that these things won’t seem so daunting to me anymore.

  • @takosdon7754
    @takosdon7754 Před 3 lety +161

    The country of Japan has been completely perfected as a place for Japanese people to live. Therefore, it is more difficult than you might imagine for a foreigner to live in Japan. This is why many foreigners leave Japan as soon as they are disappointed.

    • @avocado8952
      @avocado8952 Před 2 lety +9

      Japanese also leave because of that.

    • @takosdon7754
      @takosdon7754 Před 2 lety +17

      @@avocado8952 It's your fantasy.

    • @avocado8952
      @avocado8952 Před 2 lety +2

      @@takosdon7754 the truth hurts right?
      Now with Google translating pages and you tubers showing everything bullies like you will no longer will be able to hide under a rock. Everything that happens in Japan is now well known. No need for your interpretation.

    • @takosdon7754
      @takosdon7754 Před 2 lety +11

      @@avocado8952 So can you please prove what you mean by truth? Please don't tell me that the source of your information is a CZcams video.

    • @avocado8952
      @avocado8952 Před 2 lety +5

      @@takosdon7754 there is a lot of Japanese migration since World War II…almost 4 million and they prefer to stay abroad after the taste of a better life. I have know many that preferred the US, Australia, Brasil, Mexico, Canada, Europe, etc. in Japan you have an illusion of have good stuff but it’s all about sacrifice and not much efficiency so the quality of life is better even in 3rd world countries.
      There is also a lot of Japanese retiring in Asia as their pension is not enough to make a living in Japan.
      Is either Japan is nice to foreigners so they can work here and help the economy or old people will have to migrate outside Japan to survive.

  • @Cyborg_1612
    @Cyborg_1612 Před 3 lety +4145

    "Homes are tiny and expensive"
    New York: How about tiny, expensive AND dirty???

    • @emperordonaldtrump1st614
      @emperordonaldtrump1st614 Před 3 lety +116

      Thank the democrats for that

    • @lucasevergarden6601
      @lucasevergarden6601 Před 3 lety +144

      @@emperordonaldtrump1st614 your name and profile pic 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yooooo baaaaaaaased???? So cool.

    • @HigherQualityUploads
      @HigherQualityUploads Před 3 lety +45

      @@emperordonaldtrump1st614 It's more of the scourge of multiculturalism. Regardless of being red or blue, if the city were 90%+ Caucasian it would certainly be much cleaner.

    • @AzizAziz-du4jh
      @AzizAziz-du4jh Před 3 lety +2

      You nailed it.

    • @louisehelgesson5471
      @louisehelgesson5471 Před 3 lety +1

      A N D

  • @llanikai9089
    @llanikai9089 Před 3 lety +2709

    I’m Japanese. When I was living in the U.S, I had a pain medication that gives me hallucinations and it was too strong. I think we Japanese are smaller than Western people, that is why our dose is small but they are perfect for Japanese I think.

    • @CanIgetUwU
      @CanIgetUwU Před 3 lety +150

      Well, each country assigned medicine that is suitable for their kind. Asians are much smaller than western so the medication we consume is only much smaller than the west.

    • @staticaldaisy969
      @staticaldaisy969 Před 3 lety +67

      Where did you get these "pain meds" lol they shouldn't make you hallucinate if that's the case after like a week of being on them, you should talk to a doctor about finding a more appropriate dosage

    • @SGNedtiz
      @SGNedtiz Před 3 lety +10

      @@typicaltypo5423 LMAO

    • @noonecomics
      @noonecomics Před 3 lety +1

      That makes sense

    • @abigailstoney6103
      @abigailstoney6103 Před 3 lety +46

      your doctor should of taken ur weuight and height into consideration. Thats just US health care its self not westernised countries lol

  • @themkeyline2359
    @themkeyline2359 Před 3 lety +440

    "Lot of people living in small area"
    People in big indian cities :- "It's perfect!!Let's go" 😂😂

  • @abdullahalghamdi9617
    @abdullahalghamdi9617 Před 3 lety +271

    It’s like he’s saying : “don’t come to japan, please”

    • @styres933
      @styres933 Před 2 lety +7

      xD

    • @robertx8733
      @robertx8733 Před 2 lety +8

      Yeah, he has a lot of videos like this xd

    • @machidraws1
      @machidraws1 Před 2 lety +11

      lowkey this channel is like contradicting diffrent videos because one day its why you need to move to japan and then the next why you shouldnt move to japan like huh

    • @Terahnee
      @Terahnee Před 2 lety +17

      It's more like "Don't come to Japan if you don't expect it to be, well, JAPAN." As long as you expect it to be NOT where you're from, **shrug**

    • @avocado8952
      @avocado8952 Před 2 lety

      @@Terahnee It is good that these videos debunk the false Japanese self-promotion. It will save foreigner suffering and death like the 20+ lives that were taken in Japan immigration system..

  • @user-cz6ox6zw3x
    @user-cz6ox6zw3x Před 3 lety +993

    rent for a one bedroom apartment is 700!
    me in San Francisco “wow that’s cheap”

  • @Shabu10
    @Shabu10 Před 3 lety +1323

    Key takeaway: Have a lot of money before moving to Japan, got it

    • @nopenope6151
      @nopenope6151 Před 3 lety +29

      yea but thats the key point to moving anywhere really

    • @OwnerOfGlory
      @OwnerOfGlory Před 3 lety +37

      @@nopenope6151 not really because if someone in USA that receives 50-70k$ a year comes to Portugal were the average receive 15-20k€ a year (keep in mind that the average is 80% of the population), they can stay here for 1 year without earning anything at all.
      You should say "most" not "anywhere"

    • @Toesucker-ih6iq
      @Toesucker-ih6iq Před 3 lety +16

      Another takeaway make sure your skinny

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      @graceboor5662 Před 3 lety

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    • @laurenmccarthy2240
      @laurenmccarthy2240 Před 3 lety

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  • @gjk540
    @gjk540 Před 2 lety +17

    My sister-in-law is Japanese-American. Her Japanese mother would force her and her two sisters to visit Japan with her once a year so they would get to know their relatives and the country. They hated it, and, when they were old enough to say "no," refused to go back. They couldn't abide the patriarchal culture and the way their male cousins treated them. I hope things have changed for the better.

  • @erininoue978
    @erininoue978 Před 2 lety +30

    Adapting to the work culture has been the most difficult part of living in Japan for me! And, having a hard time finding pants and shoes that fit. The portion sizes are a plus for me, coming from America it’s taught me the correct portion size (minus ramen! Those portions are crazy big!!)

  • @NANN506
    @NANN506 Před 3 lety +1919

    Paolo is just trying to get all the tonkatsu for himself! dont fall for his traps!

  • @joshuawangadi1710
    @joshuawangadi1710 Před 3 lety +2405

    It's funny how Japan is so technologically advanced yet still paper-based when it comes to documents.

    • @OiiAris
      @OiiAris Před 3 lety +174

      And still use fax machines lol

    • @Kronos0999
      @Kronos0999 Před 3 lety +159

      It's so ironic, it's not even funny.

    • @alaa341g
      @alaa341g Před 3 lety +269

      Japan is the most advenced/old fashion at the same time country in the world

    • @DDVrns
      @DDVrns Před 3 lety +9

      @張泳偉 nature has no alternative, old technology does

    • @venczchannel
      @venczchannel Před 3 lety +8

      @@alaa341g Totally agree!

  • @AG-nl2sb
    @AG-nl2sb Před 2 lety +53

    The fact that you get to be with groups and socialize is one of the biggest plus point for me. I honestly cannot adapt to the individualistic culture and when I came to US I felt a sense of loneliness and out-casted. I really love the Japanese culture and how beautiful the place is. This feeling was something I learned from my aunt who lives in Japan and told me about the culture since I was a kid. I grew learning about the goods and the bads but the good has always outweighed the bad in my perspective so I will have biases regardless lol but just wanna let people know that these reason shouldn't be the reason to stop thinking of visiting or even living in Japan. Just remember that every country has pros and cons :)

    • @catmerchant8699
      @catmerchant8699 Před 2 lety +9

      I have to say as a foreigner there is a larger possibility to be outcasted. It doesn't matter how outgoing you are if your Japanese sucks people won't talk with you unless they're trying to get free English lessons from you, disguised as your 'friend'. Of course it matter what age you are, your gender, if you're in a language school, university, a teacher, nd if you're conventionially attractive. So it's hard to say.

    • @orinocowomble
      @orinocowomble Před 4 měsíci

      "The better you understand the beginning, the better you understand the outcome"
      Japan has always been a hydrological "rice" farm culture where everyone is water dependent on the other. So social conformity and loyalty was necessary to be successful. And this roots deep in Japanese mentality up today.
      With western "dry" farm culture it's totally different. Every farmer is almost independent on the other farmer.
      Both has positive and negative consequences. The one who knows the difference is the lucky one.

    • @orinocowomble
      @orinocowomble Před 4 měsíci

      @@catmerchant8699 Remember that Japan did not have the best experience with foreigners in history, was a closed country for centuries and was forced to open up. This fear to be dominated by foreigners roots deep in Japanese people.

  • @lenestuart321
    @lenestuart321 Před 2 lety +5

    Such a educational video. I just LOVE your content!
    I live in South Africa. One thing I've noticed about Japan is that it seems that everyone is super cooperative and friendly all the time and I love that about their culture! They get things done! :)

  • @akilmoore
    @akilmoore Před 3 lety +592

    Don't move to Japan because the people there don't speak in subtitles...

    • @vaibhavmukherjee9830
      @vaibhavmukherjee9830 Před 3 lety +21

      @@Andre-rp4pn I lived in Japan for a few months and it wasn't as good as I imagined. Was it great? Yes.
      Was it waaaaay better than all other places? Hell no.

    • @Andre-rp4pn
      @Andre-rp4pn Před 3 lety +1

      @@vaibhavmukherjee9830 do you know anything about animal work there? tbh theres not much in England and especially the way where heading

    • @vaibhavmukherjee9830
      @vaibhavmukherjee9830 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Andre-rp4pn im not sure what you exactly mean by animal work but landing a job without knowing Japanese would be insanely hard. Good thing I didn't have to work there.

    • @Andre-rp4pn
      @Andre-rp4pn Před 3 lety

      @@vaibhavmukherjee9830 zoos or farming

    • @vaibhavmukherjee9830
      @vaibhavmukherjee9830 Před 3 lety

      @@Andre-rp4pn i guess you could get work at a zoo if you tried hard but Im sure you'll need to know enough japanese to hold a few conversations.

  • @lfr2112
    @lfr2112 Před 3 lety +1764

    Paolo: "Homes are small and expensive"
    Me: laughs in New Yorker

  • @grandmaflossieandme413
    @grandmaflossieandme413 Před 2 lety +12

    I lived in Japan for 50 years and loved it. The things you mentioned are true, but not enough of a problem to ruin a person’s stay if we keep in mind that different is not necessarily wrong. It’s just different. I have kept this in mind as I returned to my passport country for retirement and it has helped my reverse culture shock. I have actually been surprised at how much paperwork there is in the US too these days.

  • @bchompoo
    @bchompoo Před 2 lety +35

    Yes I love it there, food, safety and everything. But whenever I was there for over 2 weeks I'd began to feel lonely and stressed out (by unknown reasons, perhaps the unspeakable requirement for perfection of the society).

    • @avocado8952
      @avocado8952 Před 2 lety +10

      It is because the Japanese are not authentic. Being different is wrong. You being a foreigner are wrong by default even though they smile and are very polite they are actually mean to foreigners without you even noticing it. Your emotions will tell you something is off though.

  • @Apureguria
    @Apureguria Před 3 lety +2270

    many of these points are very similar to living in Germany, especially paper documents... they still use fax XD
    now I live in England and everything can be done online or just by calling. I got my residence card in less than one month, while in Germany it took 6-7 months

    • @sebis7733
      @sebis7733 Před 3 lety +22

      All places have pros & cons. Romania too .

    • @princejaxisblack8789
      @princejaxisblack8789 Před 3 lety +21

      Wait... Japan and Germany are getting increasingly similar? Uh oh-

    • @abilmut
      @abilmut Před 3 lety +2

      Former allies in WW2 🤭

    • @mariyoutube
      @mariyoutube Před 3 lety

      Yes! Many things remember me to Germany

    • @m5a1stuart83
      @m5a1stuart83 Před 3 lety

      Well in here you can create an ID for more than 1 year or more, my neighbor got his for about 3 years or so

  • @Steve.p.007
    @Steve.p.007 Před 3 lety +566

    I don't know why people complain about small homes. The smaller the home, the less cleaning you have to do. I'd love one of those little apartments.

    • @kkjasmine5579
      @kkjasmine5579 Před 3 lety +38

      The price is still too much! Just imagine you start living with your partner and even more rent and then have a family! EVEN MORE RENT that’s over average just to live in Tokyo.

    • @LeeXuan88
      @LeeXuan88 Před 3 lety +16

      Small home = depressed.

    • @Kentang_Enak
      @Kentang_Enak Před 3 lety +8

      Your wish will not be same if you live there, trust me

    • @hiccupmcgee1590
      @hiccupmcgee1590 Před 3 lety +3

      Well, considering the size I believe that it really isn’t worth the prices. So say a one bedroom is 700$ while a two bedroom is 800$ (hypothetically) considering the size difference, the second option seems considerably better. So yes I agree a smaller space is easier to clean yet would you want to be paying for a room that’s not worth the price ?.

    • @florianvugt8312
      @florianvugt8312 Před 3 lety +2

      It's not that much in comparison: here in Amsterdam I pay 650 for 16 square meters while sharing the bathroom/kitchen and toilet

  • @CaptainBlaine
    @CaptainBlaine Před 2 lety +4

    Thank you for sharing this! Actually makes me even more excited to move. I’m learning the language in preparation :)

  • @daichisawamura20yearsago64

    This was a super informative video!! Thanks for helping me understand and think it through, great video man!

  • @noahhyslop5926
    @noahhyslop5926 Před 3 lety +3833

    Imagine moving to a foreign country and expecting everyone to accommodate your desire to live your way 😂

  • @gadaleantudor
    @gadaleantudor Před 3 lety +1611

    Japan: You can control your water temp for you bath from your kitchen.
    Also Japan: We don't have enough spaces for you to write your name on a paper form.

    • @thatgrumpychick4928
      @thatgrumpychick4928 Před 3 lety +50

      Get a little, lose a little

    • @L0vedJinx
      @L0vedJinx Před 3 lety +11

      That’s due to the way they bathe. They usually, not always, but usually start the water and then fill the tub, then get in the shower, then the tub, then sometimes back to shower then back to tub, since bathing is seen as a restful cleaning of the soul mind and body

    • @michaelangelogo1621
      @michaelangelogo1621 Před 3 lety +28

      because their full names are like 3-5 characters long, that whole line of boxes was actually more generous than some would give.

    • @mrmeregaming6333
      @mrmeregaming6333 Před 2 lety +4

      @damicore My name is Rainier so I think I'm gonna be Rainieru in japan

    • @donchiva2222
      @donchiva2222 Před 2 lety +11

      Japan are good for those who like tiny apartments. Americas are good for those who like mansions with several cars, large yard, and DIY.

  • @mr.hamster318
    @mr.hamster318 Před 2 lety +41

    "Home are tiny and expensive"
    Me who loves sleep in cramped place

    • @Kabeerrao8
      @Kabeerrao8 Před 2 lety

      the only problem here is the expensive amount

    • @mr.hamster318
      @mr.hamster318 Před 2 lety

      @@Kabeerrao8 I'm not living there lol

    • @evinghizshaji8783
      @evinghizshaji8783 Před 2 lety

      @@Kabeerrao8 yes I have no problem living in cramp spaces. But my gosh the rent is crazyyy. About 20000₹. With 13000₹ you can get a 2BHK family flat. Ooff. That will take a lot of part time jobs.

    • @deathtomorons9388
      @deathtomorons9388 Před 2 lety

      @@evinghizshaji8783 Actually not crazy rents at all when it's GDP per capita is also high.

  • @classifiedinformation6353

    Very informative. Thanks for the details.

  • @stephenvincent4706
    @stephenvincent4706 Před 3 lety +383

    I learned today; Japanese people have small bodies and large heads. (Source: Paolo from Tokyo)

    • @ukyo6195
      @ukyo6195 Před 3 lety +4

      What about the balls?!

    • @Gulle_jules
      @Gulle_jules Před 3 lety +1

      @@ukyo6195 bruh ahahahah

    • @ukyo6195
      @ukyo6195 Před 3 lety

      @VIBHOR KHMS yes, for sure

    • @jahedul.H
      @jahedul.H Před 3 lety +1

      I found out with anime

  • @Reilly-K
    @Reilly-K Před 3 lety +1065

    In my study abroad preparation class, our sensei taught us about the phases - "the four H's" - of cultural exposure:
    1: *Honeymoon* - The period of infatuation where a person only sees the things they love about the foreign culture
    2: *Horror* - The shock they go through upon realizing the things they dislike about the culture
    3: *Humor* - The point where they can feel comfortable enough about both positive and negative aspects to be able to joke about it
    4: *Home* - Full acclimation to the culture
    Notice the stark contrast between the first two phases. It's human nature to only see the positives of something, impulsively dive right in, then feel the resulting whiplash from the unconsidered potential negatives. Unfortunately, many people will fall into this trap, and - failing to recognize their own prior ignorance and lack of foresight - will come out of it harboring an irrational, xenophobic grudge.
    To anyone who feels the desire to live somewhere else, take heed;
    There is no such thing as a paradise. If you go to any place expecting paradise, it will feel as though you've walked into hell.

    • @zhivago9286
      @zhivago9286 Před 3 lety +55

      Well said, especially the last paragraph. Just keeping your expectations realistic will go a long way.

    • @rohitmukherjee2037
      @rohitmukherjee2037 Před 3 lety +19

      This may be the most objective insight anyone has ever shared on acclimatization to foreign cultures. Thanks

    • @soulplexis
      @soulplexis Před 3 lety +6

      This is why when I am going to japan, I expect it to be the worst hell I ever been in. I will try to make it not so bad and by doing this it will feel like a real paradise except it won't because I must kill my expectations still

    • @zerojaem
      @zerojaem Před 3 lety +2

      this is so trueee people often forgot the cultural differences. everyone must read this

    • @toyokawashigako1643
      @toyokawashigako1643 Před 3 lety +2

      JAPAN IS THE BEST

  • @user-gw5rs7fp9j
    @user-gw5rs7fp9j Před 2 lety +2

    Nice gently presented video. When In Rome sums it up really.
    Appreciate the uniqueness & if it’s too hard, go home. ☺️

  • @winniethepooh8407
    @winniethepooh8407 Před 3 lety

    Thanks for sharing infos. I'm a fan!

  • @subinthapa1075
    @subinthapa1075 Před 3 lety +799

    You forgot to mention the main problem “language “

    • @justin-rt2jg
      @justin-rt2jg Před 3 lety +118

      that's a problem with every country not just japan

    • @karuto5849
      @karuto5849 Před 3 lety +11

      U good lol everyone have that problem

    • @zhivago9286
      @zhivago9286 Před 3 lety +36

      It is worth mentioning. I got friends who don't travel overseas alot and they think everyone speaks English.

    • @James-yl3kk
      @James-yl3kk Před 3 lety +30

      I can't speak Japanese and lived in Japan for 2 years, wasn't a huge issue. I'm more concerned about a huge earthquake.

    • @JyujinPlus
      @JyujinPlus Před 3 lety

      えー?
      どうして語は困り事ですか?学をしませんねー?

  • @spracket
    @spracket Před 3 lety +701

    Why You Should NOT Move to Japan
    List - Times
    1) Small & Expensive Homes - 1:16
    2) Small Clothing - 2:10
    3) No Return Policy - 3:03
    4) Too Much Paperwork - 3:33
    5) Forms Not Foreigner-Friendly - 4:03
    6) Small Food Portions - 4:58
    7) Mandatory Car Inspections - 6:23
    8) Social Conformity - 7:07
    9) Weak Drugs - 7:50
    10) Late Releases - 9:02

  • @snazzyfrodo6833
    @snazzyfrodo6833 Před 2 lety +1

    These all seem right up my alley. Blending into groups is my bag, baby.

  • @lauralee5969
    @lauralee5969 Před rokem

    Thanks for posting this! Some of these things I would have never considered. So interesting about the movie releases arriving to Japan later.

    • @DavidLawrence-xo3mo
      @DavidLawrence-xo3mo Před rokem

      People are saying not to go to Japan because of the storms well Florida has the most storms than anywhere I looked it up.

  • @AverytheCubanAmerican
    @AverytheCubanAmerican Před 3 lety +547

    well I'll take Japanese transportation over American transportation any day.
    Their railway infrastructure is leagues ahead of the US

    • @gorequillnachovidal
      @gorequillnachovidal Před 3 lety +45

      You are talking about a sprawling large country vs thin island...

    • @wdwfanatic1394
      @wdwfanatic1394 Před 3 lety +51

      @@gorequillnachovidal Yeah, and? A 'thin" island with amazing infrastructure. They use their space wisely. Something America needs to work on. Meanwhile, American tracks tend to be owned/controlled by freight, not Amtrak. American railway infrastructure is falling apart. Just look at the NYC Subway! They really need to update if they want to impress Europe and Asia. Yes America is big, but they can do SO much better with public transportation. The state of Amtrak is embarrassing. And the Acela isn't even a true high speed train. China is BIG yet look at their high speed rail network

    • @the_weasler
      @the_weasler Před 3 lety +7

      @@wdwfanatic1394 They can do better, but there's a culture that makes public transportation, especially rail, a lower priority. If there were a perceived need, the problem would have been taken care of by now.

    • @aus-li
      @aus-li Před 3 lety +1

      @@wdwfanatic1394 NYC subway is a beautiful nightmare.

    • @dannagy546
      @dannagy546 Před 3 lety +6

      Id say its lightyears ahead of the US. Having had the (mis)fortune of spending 18 hours on a US train before, the extremely timely kept scheduling, the ultimate cleanliness, and the politeness of other riders makes Japanese public transport an absolute joy to behold

  • @JyujinPlus
    @JyujinPlus Před 3 lety +184

    Imagine having the desire and drive to move to Japan, the determination to uplift your whole life to a country you are excited to live in, and then complain you can’t live there bc clothes are small

    • @kokocn
      @kokocn Před 3 lety +36

      Let me tell you Admiral, you don't know this struggle until you move to an Asian country and can't find even underwear that fits. And I used underwear because it's something you don't really think about because it's just a given it will be available. That's when one understands how big of a deal it is. I lived in China for school for about 5 years and if I had seen this video before going to China, I would have thought that was a silly thing and laughed. Now though, I'm just nodding in agreement because I know how frustrating those "little" things can be.

    • @RustyBobbins
      @RustyBobbins Před 3 lety +16

      Clothing is not a small thing. Imagine moving to a country where you cannot find clothes or shoes to fit your body. Not even socks. And I’m pretty sure if you’re living there, you job gives you very little time to learn how to sew.

    • @lejenni7591
      @lejenni7591 Před 3 lety +8

      People be answering as if online shopping doesn’t exist and we need to go back in time 100 years and sow for ourselves

    • @RustyBobbins
      @RustyBobbins Před 3 lety +13

      @@lejenni7591 Shipping things into Japan is extremely expensive.

    • @mommymarine1756
      @mommymarine1756 Před 3 lety +6

      @@kokocn agreed. I have yet to find shoes here for my big (for a woman) feet. I bought the biggest size underwear at popular store here thinking it’ll fit... Nope. I’m a size 8 for reference. I still love Japan though and don’t want to leave.

  • @sofiahubbard4570
    @sofiahubbard4570 Před 3 lety

    Hello 'Mr. Paolo from TOKYO' I wached some of videos (by now) All of them have an important point of you making them. Little-by-little we learn about Japan, Tokyo, etc Thanks to your videos. I would like to congratulate you for making such valiable videos (like 'In the Life of...) In conclusion, this video right above, it's so important to know, specialy for someone who is planing to move there. You are right, there are few (or many) things to take in consideration before moving to Japan/Tokyo, etc. Keep making wonderful videos like that. Also, congratulations for your baby, and your wife!!

  • @jourbisnar9484
    @jourbisnar9484 Před 2 lety

    Thank you bro...
    you open my mind...

  • @chickenpastel11
    @chickenpastel11 Před 3 lety +392

    The small food portion is actually a positive thing for me 😁

    • @paris-rianacampbell6267
      @paris-rianacampbell6267 Před 3 lety +3

      i see, thats why you seem thinner

    • @larsgibbon3327
      @larsgibbon3327 Před 3 lety +16

      I went to Japan 2 years ago, the food portions were a normal size sufficient for a meal. It was enough. The quality was excellent, even food from 7-11 or Lawsons were good. Other Asian countries tends to have similar portion sizes. When I went to the US, the portion size were huge, often highly processed, resulting in overeating or wastage.

    • @adrianyong8422
      @adrianyong8422 Před 3 lety +1

      Yup...for 2 pax we can try 12 courses as we can only have 3 meals a day, each meal we can try 4 courses. In western, the portion can be so huge that it feeds 2 pax so less chance to try

    • @edwartvonfectonia4362
      @edwartvonfectonia4362 Před 3 lety +1

      Bad if you pay the same price(or more) as you would in other developed countries, but get much smaller portions.

    • @yamatosoul
      @yamatosoul Před 3 lety

      @@edwartvonfectonia4362 no, restaurant food is considerably cheaper than the US in Japan

  • @wyrda2452
    @wyrda2452 Před 3 lety +581

    Clothes sizes are smaller?
    Me, a small person: so I don't have to go through the embarrassment of looking in the kids section to find clothes that fit me? I'M SOLD.

    • @sharronferreira6420
      @sharronferreira6420 Před 3 lety +3

      Me too!

    • @valkyriar234
      @valkyriar234 Před 3 lety +3

      Hard reality for me x)
      I had already difficulties to find clothes in France

    • @yashironene5170
      @yashironene5170 Před 3 lety +2

      Yes clothes sizes are smaller. I'm very tall and I have a bad situation... not all clothes sizes are small. I go to Florida and Japan I live in both places . I go to Japan for winter and spring and Florida for the rest.

    • @Nikki-xb7yv
      @Nikki-xb7yv Před 3 lety +1

      Same man!!!!!!! Almost everything is oversized for me

    • @Nezumi--
      @Nezumi-- Před 3 lety +2

      haha in australia the clothes are for giants so i'm in like xs sizes, then one brand finally brought out a range of "Petite" cuts too... also coz everyone in my city back home basically dresses the same there's not much choice at the stores.. so i like japan having so many different styles and various stores, and all of it fits me lol and having actual choices in clothing ohmygosh so good ! ! !

  • @deviltear
    @deviltear Před 2 lety

    Most of the things seem really appealing to me. Everything except the being part of the group thing. Thanx for these educational videos. :)

  • @terriensberg5487
    @terriensberg5487 Před 2 lety

    Really interesting information.

  • @steveboi5482
    @steveboi5482 Před 3 lety +2749

    Weeaboos: *"I'm gonna pretend I didn't see that"*

    • @cuteassgiraffe0020
      @cuteassgiraffe0020 Před 3 lety +88

      It’s not that bad actually
      I’m a weeb

    • @bluemoonwolf5438
      @bluemoonwolf5438 Před 3 lety +68

      I plan to move there when Im older hopefully I get the chance and also everyone who wants to move there can also get the chance

    • @kaiyu583
      @kaiyu583 Před 3 lety +1

      xD

    • @kaiyu583
      @kaiyu583 Před 3 lety +6

      I’m a go there for a few weeks :3

    • @steve00alt70
      @steve00alt70 Před 3 lety +113

      @@cuteassgiraffe0020 you need to stop living in fantasy land this is the reality of the situation. It's not like anime at all.

  • @yuu_rei
    @yuu_rei Před 3 lety +1359

    i lived in Japan for over four years and none of this really mattered to me. i love the culture, true i too was a weeb, but i did my research on the country, all the good and the bad, and well, respected it and the people since i landed. this is pretty much the basics of moving to another place. Japan is a wonderful country to live in. can't forget all the kind strangers and all the little corners i left my heart with💜

    • @deadinside8781
      @deadinside8781 Před 3 lety +11

      How difficult was it to move your things there then back out?

    • @yuu_rei
      @yuu_rei Před 3 lety +38

      if by back out you mean return to my country, it wasn't too difficult. i didn't take a lot of things with me in the first place. and had minimal furniture there that i sold off before moving back.

    • @deadinside8781
      @deadinside8781 Před 3 lety +11

      @@yuu_rei yeah that's what I meant. I don't either, just a cheap desk, everything else is clothes. The room I sublet came with a bed, mattress and a table I replaced with the desk because it was square and awkward. Is subletting a thing in japan?

    • @yuu_rei
      @yuu_rei Před 3 lety +10

      @@deadinside8781 It was where I lived, in a considerably rural part of Japan! I guess it depends on where you rent(ed) the apartment from? I got mine from a real estate company on a contractual basis of 2 years. I left before the time period, but it didn't matter as I informed them I'd leave about a month or so ago. You could talk to your company/ landlord and ask if you can sublet it. Usually, they allow, but I'm sure all of them have different terms and conditions.

    • @deadinside8781
      @deadinside8781 Před 3 lety +2

      @@yuu_rei ahh that's good to know. And I've seen videos where whole apartments albeit tiny are rented out for about $800 monthly. How possible is this but it's easier if I just ask for what websites to use😅

  • @daniellehylton2245
    @daniellehylton2245 Před 3 lety

    Super informative! 😛

  • @purnewberry3361
    @purnewberry3361 Před rokem

    this is the good video, has all the info that other videos don't share because "its not important enough"

  • @acertainscientificloli6392
    @acertainscientificloli6392 Před 3 lety +549

    “Homes are small and expensive”
    Laughs in Hong Kong

    • @b1acksol
      @b1acksol Před 3 lety +16

      I know a lot of the dangerous things and such about the protests are over, but still stay safe

    • @alexwatson9757
      @alexwatson9757 Před 3 lety +6

      I was gonna say! Like, let me just look at my $2043 month rent for L.A real quick... oh nice, I’m moving to Japan! 😂

    • @LL-wu5ui
      @LL-wu5ui Před 3 lety

      @@alexwatson9757 For 1 room?

    • @alexwatson9757
      @alexwatson9757 Před 3 lety +1

      @@LL-wu5ui I mean, it's a Studio Apartment, but yeah.

    • @grossartus
      @grossartus Před 3 lety

      Laugh in Switzerland

  • @mrpickle7954
    @mrpickle7954 Před 3 lety +430

    Overall: My love for Japan hasn't changed.

  • @boneless3000
    @boneless3000 Před 3 lety +22

    Late releases on movies
    Me, a pirate: no problem
    All jokes aside-
    I have wanted to live in Japan for years. Yes, I’m kind of weeby, but never to the point that I am ignorant to the reality of Japanese culture. I visited Japan in 2018 and have missed it so bad everyday. I don’t think I’ll live there forever, as I would miss the variety of food that I have here in the US, as well as my family, but I am not surprised by most of these things. The one thing I would not compromise on are drinking parties and things like that. Being part of the group is all okay I guess until it comes to things that may compromise my health. I will never compromise on that. I think people go with, it’s another culture, so you can’t really say anything about it... I can personally say that I believe it to be part of the culture that I consider bad. No culture is perfect, Japan sucks in many, many ways (like sexism, transphobia and homophobia, for example), just like where I’m from, the US, sucks so bad sometimes it makes me want to run away and never look back. Just because you move somewhere else doesn’t mean you have to accept every unfair thing thrown at you... I think this excuse is used a lot for the very archaic Japanese practices. I fully believe this for every place, like I’m not one of those people who are like, this is america, we speak english 😤
    Like talk about being an asshole. Japan is often xenophobic and they need to get over it just like the US needs to chill the fuck out.
    What is the point of this post? Every place sucks! But if you want to try out living somewhere completely different try it... compromise is essential but that doesn’t mean you have to say everything is okay just because it’s a different culture.

    • @frez8141
      @frez8141 Před 2 lety

      in my homeland there is proverb `` You don't go to stranger monastery with their own charter ''
      The Germans also said at one time how to live, as a result, Soviet tanks were in Berlin, the USA repeats this mistake

  • @tanyaasargent1392
    @tanyaasargent1392 Před 2 lety +1

    This was a very informative video thank you ..If I was to visit Japan or wanting to move to another country its only common sense to do your homework ahead of time. Understand how they think. Respect their way of life including etiquette ,culture and learn some of their language. You want to have the best experience be open minded and follow their countries guidelines. I did this every time before travelling. I would love the chance to visit beautiful Japan.

  • @yszettel3466
    @yszettel3466 Před 3 lety +667

    I have lived in Japan for 7 years and honestly It was tough on me. People distance themselves from in school and never talk about how they felt. After I graduated University I finally made some Japanese friends in my workplace because it was an international hotel.Despite that , my job was really tough. They live to work here and are always working for 'Free' to get their bosses approval.

    • @user-fi8vr4cd5b
      @user-fi8vr4cd5b Před 3 lety +23

      I had wanted to live in Japan sinceI was a highschool student because I wanted to make some Japanese friends, but now i'm wondering if i could😔

    • @pengkaryakhayalan4961
      @pengkaryakhayalan4961 Před 3 lety +75

      @@user-fi8vr4cd5b to tell the truth...its the same everywhere in the world
      Its not just Japan...making friend is not about nationality but it’s about personality and knowing who are comfortable with you as a person
      Japan is just another country in the whole world and depending on where you are people can be good or bad...people can be skeptical or hospitable to outsider based on their personality and curiosity so you need to bear in mind that you can’t please everybody

    • @NoMustang273
      @NoMustang273 Před 3 lety +47

      @@pengkaryakhayalan4961 Japan's culture makes it hard to connect to people easily. So the cultures and traditions play a part. You're not supposed to discuss your emotions and feelings much unless you've known the other person for some time. Similar with romantic relationships. It's an entire epidemic with so many youth preferring to stay at home, isolated.

    • @siddharthaxX
      @siddharthaxX Před 3 lety +29

      Wait its not like anime?

    • @w1z4rd9
      @w1z4rd9 Před 3 lety +6

      @@NoMustang273 That really depends on the person. There aren’t cultures like that if I may say but there could be a stereotype. There are millions of people in the country and not even the general population is like that. I’d say it depends on your personality and the person.

  • @hangoutsquad3
    @hangoutsquad3 Před 3 lety +526

    People failed to realize that Japan is not perfect and always try to justify a flaw with the country

    • @zhivago9286
      @zhivago9286 Před 3 lety +76

      Yup, some people idolize Japan and think it can do nothing wrong.

    • @macyoung6634
      @macyoung6634 Před 3 lety +10

      Yes but it's not for foreigners to try to change it. Change should come from within Japan.

    • @papasscooperiaworker3649
      @papasscooperiaworker3649 Před 3 lety +19

      @@macyoung6634 that makes no sense lol ??? foreigners and people who live in japan can have the same wishes

    • @hangoutsquad3
      @hangoutsquad3 Před 3 lety +1

      @@zhivago9286 yup

    • @macyoung6634
      @macyoung6634 Před 3 lety +1

      @Gat Fingaz Now that's what I call a Straw man!

  • @besknighter
    @besknighter Před 3 lety +6

    I never expect any country to be perfect. And having seeing this video, Japan doesn't sound too bad! The only points that I actually care and would need to consider are rent cost and the paperwork not being online + not foreign friendly. If I decide to live somewhere further from the center to get a cheaper rent, I'd get a car. But that makes the annual inspection another pain point. So, at the end of the day, as I said, it doesn't sound too bad for me. I'll still consider this.

  • @sparky1330
    @sparky1330 Před 2 lety +11

    I love how literally everything is perfect and is as i want... Japan seems to be the perfect country for me.

  • @BeheadedPrisoner
    @BeheadedPrisoner Před 3 lety +875

    *"Japan is not your Anime Dreamland."*
    just saw this from Reply Section about the Gang Documentary in Japan.

    • @jordanjoestar76
      @jordanjoestar76 Před 3 lety +44

      It is though. This high level of respect, cleanliness, and consideration is a world I've longed to live in.

    • @HustlerEli
      @HustlerEli Před 3 lety +10

      watch 91 days and go to italy with the time travel machine

    • @shukrantpatil
      @shukrantpatil Před 3 lety +25

      Japan IS an anime dreamland , if you take into consideration non fictional animes like your name , your lie in april , koe no katachi etc

    • @polaris5200
      @polaris5200 Před 3 lety +12

      My anime dreamland is more or so naruto universe so i didn't really expect it to be like animes when i said i wanted to live there when i grow up

    • @anthonyl3257
      @anthonyl3257 Před 3 lety +9

      Japan is like other countries, its has its good sides and its bad sides

  • @SeasonPlace
    @SeasonPlace Před 3 lety +455

    Living in Japan is easier if you speak Japanese fluently. Many of my friends who complain about living in Japan do not speak Japanese very well. This leads to miscommunication even for the simplest of things and can result in arguments about something very trivial. The worst attitude to have when living in Japan is "But in my country..." Japan is a different county, a "shimaguni" and in a sense, they are like the Galapagos Islands. What's the sense of living in Japan if you want it to be more like the country you came from.

    • @pol1315
      @pol1315 Před 2 lety +39

      Who tf even thinks of moving to a place without properly speaking the language?

    • @baqikenny
      @baqikenny Před 2 lety +15

      @@pol1315 well some americans do lol, I donno exactly why but they probably assume that Japanese folks will look at them with great understanding and xenophilic smiles giving them free food and guide like they are the bosses speaking English just because Japan is like a vassal country of the "Big brother" American government

    • @YDGFX
      @YDGFX Před 2 lety +1

      @@baqikenny damn they be livin in their own world 😂😂😂

    • @OcculticRomantic
      @OcculticRomantic Před 2 lety +8

      @@pol1315 Lol Well these plenty of people that try to cross the southern border don’t speak English very well if they even speak any at all.
      If you came to California and said they needed to learn English you would be called racist.

    • @Maniacguy2777
      @Maniacguy2777 Před 2 lety

      They might've thought your friend is a Gaijin.

  • @Avichayil
    @Avichayil Před 2 lety

    in my opinion this should be named, Why you should move to japan, most of these was a plus for me. thanks for sharing

  • @tunnelsnakes1383
    @tunnelsnakes1383 Před 3 lety +2

    When you were talking about clothing sizes and I saw the arale shirt I almost cried cause I know ide never get to wear such a great shirt!

  • @innocentdevl9499
    @innocentdevl9499 Před 3 lety +843

    "why you should not move to japan"
    you'll work forever until you die,

    • @randallmart92
      @randallmart92 Před 3 lety +65

      Hell i already do that here in the states...ill never be able to stop working...

    • @innocentdevl9499
      @innocentdevl9499 Před 3 lety +45

      @@randallmart92 hell is it more sadden in japan, you live alone you die alone. work till 80s

    • @pauldg913
      @pauldg913 Před 3 lety +9

      They hang themselves too, i cant understand that part when they are already living in the best country

    • @toushiri9476
      @toushiri9476 Před 3 lety +6

      @@pauldg913 anywhere without money will turn to hill😶

    • @innocentdevl9499
      @innocentdevl9499 Před 3 lety +9

      @John David Santos tbh this is darkside about japan.. my boss owned a company and then he got covid they were sent to underground dirty facility.

  • @sarezfx
    @sarezfx Před 3 lety +380

    It's funny how the japanese in Japan only eat tiny meals, while basically all asia restaurants in germany serve meals that could feed an entire army, just for one person. :D

    • @genghiskhan5701
      @genghiskhan5701 Před 3 lety

      Well you have an island where its mostly mountains and the other pretty much unlimited land to grow food

    • @WendelltheSongwriter
      @WendelltheSongwriter Před 3 lety

      Ditto U.S.

    • @Ysumbruh0
      @Ysumbruh0 Před 3 lety +2

      Guess my fatass is going to Germany then

    • @Ysumbruh0
      @Ysumbruh0 Před 3 lety +3

      After corona is gone of course

    • @user-pt8tg7dv1b
      @user-pt8tg7dv1b Před 3 lety +5

      The food portions in America are grossly huge. No wonder we have such a big problem with obesity.

  • @whitegoriller7888
    @whitegoriller7888 Před 2 lety +3

    日本は旅行とかで来るのがちょうど良い気がする

  • @oscaraiken5484
    @oscaraiken5484 Před 2 lety +3

    This video is interesting you go into a lot of detail over trivial things like clothing sizes and food portions but breeze over the "conforming to the group" as if that's easier said than done. I think this one of the most important things!
    language, cultural barriers, the fact that you stand out everyday of your life as a gaijin. Makes this a near impossible task. How does one exactly conform? Can you teach me?

  • @KagLuvsInu
    @KagLuvsInu Před 3 lety +545

    "small portion sizes"
    Me, trying to lose weight: hell yes

    • @sunwukong3108
      @sunwukong3108 Před 3 lety +1

      haha

    • @justjihra
      @justjihra Před 3 lety +8

      On God!! And it's ramen? Or sushi? Okay bet

    • @est4277
      @est4277 Před 3 lety +13

      You don't need to move to Japan to eat small portion sizes of food🙄 quit the excuses start doing from now

    • @KagLuvsInu
      @KagLuvsInu Před 3 lety +17

      @@est4277 lmao, it's a joke

    • @justjihra
      @justjihra Před 3 lety +7

      @@est4277 please leave the comments if you gonna be negative 😂 it's a joke.

  • @jeffhoward9186
    @jeffhoward9186 Před 3 lety +371

    Lived in japan for 8.5 years. I wish I was back living in Japan!!! Loved each and every day.

    • @deadinside8781
      @deadinside8781 Před 3 lety +5

      Hey! How did you find an agency to rent from? I saw a video about finding a place to rent and it seems that apartments are treated like real estate? As in you go in an office and go from there.

    • @danieldavid891
      @danieldavid891 Před 3 lety +2

      Hey Jeff sorry I know this comment is old, but how did you move to Japan. Did you apply for a job first then get the eligibility cert or have a sponsor/rep or ? Im starting the process from scratch. Any help would be great thanks.

    • @wehyehyehye8104
      @wehyehyehye8104 Před 2 lety +3

      curious question, why did you leave?

    • @danieldavid891
      @danieldavid891 Před 2 lety +1

      @@xiagm-kemasmfadlic150 Most examples are always for people in the US you see. I'm in Ireland. Ive been doing more research though thank you for replying to the question I had to him

    • @Sunshine_Hime
      @Sunshine_Hime Před 2 lety

      Hey Jeff, could you please answer the previous questions that people wrote under your comment?

  • @feejus
    @feejus Před 9 měsíci

    Paolo,
    I wanted to express my appreciation for the excellent video you created. The content was truly remarkable, and your delivery exhibited a high level of professionalism.
    Regarding the topic of car inspection, it's worth noting that in the EU, a practice similar to Japan's is followed. Every car undergoes inspection; however, the costs associated with this process are notably more affordable. Interestingly, the inspection expenses remain consistent whether the car is 20 years old or just 5. Much like Japan, the initial inspection is conducted 3 years after factory delivery.
    Shifting our focus to medication, it's noteworthy that painkillers in the UK are incredibly affordable. For instance, at Tesco, you can purchase a pack of Paracetamol or Ibuprofen for as little as 45 Pence, which is less than a pound, and this includes 14 tablets.

  • @thenight8471
    @thenight8471 Před 2 lety

    This sounds.., interesting and flawless

  • @MarkJetronValencia
    @MarkJetronValencia Před 3 lety +585

    "Why you should not move to Japan"
    "Because you're broke that's why"

  • @mashumashu555
    @mashumashu555 Před 3 lety +468

    Hi, I’m Japanese. Thank you for such an interesting video( ¨̮ )
    Well, I feel sorry for not joining a drinking party because I'm glad just someone invite me.
    In addition to this video, I think most of Japanese people feel it hard to decline our boss's invitations. My parents and grandparents said they had no idea that they turned down invitations for business drinking party. But now, the number of young people who say no is increasing little by little.
    And we wear masks, especially in winter, for protection or because we don't want to spread our cold😷😷
    Sorry for my poor English😣😣

    • @leviathan_3431
      @leviathan_3431 Před 3 lety +47

      Your english is perfect! Don't worry about it :)

    • @abilmut
      @abilmut Před 3 lety +1

      素晴らしい英語だと思います ☺️

    • @HustlerEli
      @HustlerEli Před 3 lety +3

      Uh, do you guys wear masks during the winter only when you have a cold or everytime ?

    • @hkpfalldie
      @hkpfalldie Před 3 lety +8

      @@HustlerEli normally when they get a little sick and also in Spring time because of pollen allergy

    • @Tiger74147
      @Tiger74147 Před 3 lety +5

      From the US, thanks for your comment! Hello from overseas. :)

  • @otakio.9735
    @otakio.9735 Před 3 lety +3

    5:04 this is actually ok for me because i tend to eat smaller meals as well

  • @jackriley5974
    @jackriley5974 Před 2 lety

    Well said!!

  • @user-qv6px2bg4x
    @user-qv6px2bg4x Před 3 lety +1620

    “Small and expensive homes” - Hongkongers be like: LMAO

    • @donkeyd7773
      @donkeyd7773 Před 3 lety +1

      Are hongkongers rich?

    • @0dyss3us51
      @0dyss3us51 Před 3 lety +21

      No HK'er be like we moving out

    • @user-qv6px2bg4x
      @user-qv6px2bg4x Před 3 lety +28

      @@donkeyd7773 that’s the problem actually
      We don’t have that much money to handle the expensive house price in Hong Kong
      fyi it cost about 2000usd per square feet

    • @tofuloword2829
      @tofuloword2829 Před 3 lety +3

      @@0dyss3us51 actually that's true, my cousin's moving to Canada from HK lol

    • @donkeyd7773
      @donkeyd7773 Před 3 lety +4

      Oooo makes sense thats why my friend who moved from hk to canada has a mansion basically

  • @dazzlingfreeman8903
    @dazzlingfreeman8903 Před 3 lety +348

    You still need to experience living in Japan. No matter what anyone says. That's my take on it. Every country has it's flaws.

    • @brixxjones8093
      @brixxjones8093 Před 3 lety +33

      Love ur comment! Theses ppl jus want only in a good and lerfect life! They forgot that everything here on earth is not perfect! i still want and love to live here in japan whatever these ppl says

    • @shubhamsemwal2225
      @shubhamsemwal2225 Před 3 lety +6

      @@brixxjones8093 yes brother i follow a fellow indian youtuber ''rom rom ji' thats his channel name and in spite of all the struggle one have to face he is still living happily in japan.
      He has a full time job and shoot videos in his free time. He has shown everything there is to live in japan and its not as bad as these people tell

    • @leowribeiro
      @leowribeiro Před 3 lety +2

      Thanks but no thanks.

    • @DeepestFour
      @DeepestFour Před 3 lety +10

      Exactly, my friend. If you let the internet and the media decide everything for you, you will never reach your dreams. Like you said, you gotta experience it for yourself, then reach your own conclusion. If you end up hating it, well there isn't a problem. It's not like you are going to be forced to stay there. If you end up loving it, great. You can stay as long as you like and enjoy it for yourself despite what everyone else says. After all, are you not the one who will actually be present in Japan? Good Luck!

    • @shashanknayak8307
      @shashanknayak8307 Před 3 lety +6

      Try saying this to a third world country and see the difference. Japan is overhyped regardless of what you think.

  • @taylorhelm7146
    @taylorhelm7146 Před 2 lety +1

    What an interesting fact about the helmet size. Its actually quite a good tip. When I last visited in '09, an XLG was equivalent to a US LRG. Maybe even a medium... irony of being a large American, I thought portions were fair but for a big guy I recommend order a side or two of rice. CoCo Ichiban Curry was my brother's and my favorite 'chain' restaurant. The employees treated us like regular folk, as opposed to the mass populous at the time.
    I remember meeting an older Japanese gentleman in our hotel(we stayed at the Tokyo Prince Hotel), we met downstairs in the bottom floor convenience store(7-11). He was elated to see me; and I him; he had what seemed to be a vintage trench coat and fedora on(maybe 60 or so). He asked the standard formalities, and I him. I was asked how I faired Japan so far during my stay, my response was unfortunately met mostly with dismay and "the cheek turned away". He told me the Japanese were weary of outsiders, but to see through to their true compassion. I've never forgotten that experience, probably the second most inspiring moment I've had outside of my father. He had nothing to gain, just another interaction with someone outside of his world. Willing to breach a boundary and close the gap between cultures. You have to give respect to someone willing to put the first foot forward. I wish I had remembered his name, it was so out of the blue.

  • @sonnguyen-kh3rx
    @sonnguyen-kh3rx Před 2 lety

    Thanks so much for this useful information. After watching your video i will not consider to move there or even thinking of visiting it, because i will not be able to survive there with 10 things you have stated. Having said that, i do love Japan and have a lot of respect for Japanese people. From Australia.

  • @InconsistentContent
    @InconsistentContent Před 3 lety +584

    "Car inspections every 3 years"
    Laughs in yearly Dutch car inspection

    • @raleraly2599
      @raleraly2599 Před 3 lety +20

      Yee in Serbia we do it to, guess it's a thing in all Europe

    • @MT-xy7fw
      @MT-xy7fw Před 3 lety +12

      UK car inspection from new is on 3rd year and then every year. £40-50 per inspection.

    • @Daniel07Eleven
      @Daniel07Eleven Před 3 lety +2

      Over here also yearly LOL
      And it's expensive if you don't wanna get ripped off by donkey farmers.

    • @mateuszsmagacz8332
      @mateuszsmagacz8332 Před 3 lety +1

      We have MOT in UK

    • @sonntagskindlein
      @sonntagskindlein Před 3 lety +3

      He claimed it would be $960 every two years. 😳

  • @guhansundaram
    @guhansundaram Před 3 lety +872

    Paolo: “ Not everything is perfect in Japan ”
    Me: *we’ve been tricked, backstabbed and quite possibly bamboozled*

    • @3r1nlyn99
      @3r1nlyn99 Před 3 lety +63

      @Chris Lawrence Can someone tell me if this man is joking or not?

    • @deltaishostile2838
      @deltaishostile2838 Před 3 lety +15

      @@3r1nlyn99 I guess you can say they got bamboozled

    • @leowribeiro
      @leowribeiro Před 3 lety +2

      @@3r1nlyn99 He's not. Japan is actually horrible for non-japanese.

    • @Curryboikutty
      @Curryboikutty Před 3 lety +11

      @@leowribeiro I just landed in narita a week ago, So far it has been a wonderful experience with everyone treating me with absolute respect and I believe that if someone moves her permanently and can speak fluent Japanese there should be no issues. Obviously there’s the occasional prick but that’s the case in every country guys lol

    • @Idk-km2yv
      @Idk-km2yv Před 3 lety +3

      @@Curryboikutty that depends. If you are white you will be fine but if you are black or brown it will be shit show

  • @uwegrauert7680
    @uwegrauert7680 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for all inspiration. We want to come to Japan , next year. Because we love to travel the world. see you on our Chanel

  • @blankseventydrei
    @blankseventydrei Před 3 lety +1

    my wife did the Tokyo marathon and the night before we went to a local pasta resturant for dinner. The portion size of the bolognese she got was the size of a ice cream scope. She was carbo loading and then asked for a second portion, the waitress was shocked... but she did well the next day. Also the price for drugs he describes here is the same in Germany.

  • @fernandostar3507
    @fernandostar3507 Před 3 lety +745

    Thank you for making this video, I'm tired of people wanting to move to other countries and trying to force the country to cater to them.
    When you move, you adapt to the country's culture.

    • @belletim1086
      @belletim1086 Před 3 lety

      gagu

    • @prapanthebachelorette6803
      @prapanthebachelorette6803 Před 3 lety +13

      Exactly!

    • @kartikchauhan2778
      @kartikchauhan2778 Před 3 lety +23

      Muslims : 😏

    • @fernandostar3507
      @fernandostar3507 Před 3 lety +14

      @@kartikchauhan2778 sure. Or americans in every other country

    • @CFinch360
      @CFinch360 Před 3 lety +35

      @@fernandostar3507 ​ Not every american expects other countries to cater to them. I've lived all over the world, traveled 5 times to Japan, work for a Japanese company. I enjoy learning about other cultures, foods, styles of doing things. I'm american and have met many, many on my travels and only a few were stereotypical 'ugly americans" FYI there are lots of poorly behaved people from any & every country. I've even met a few poorly behaved Japanese.

  • @Jordan-inJapan
    @Jordan-inJapan Před 3 lety +193

    I think that when most people think of ‘moving to Japan’, they’re thinking of Tokyo. Tokyo is amazing, yes. But honestly, life there is pretty hard compared to many other (especially less urban) areas of the country.
    Ilive right in the center of Japan in Mie prefecture, and it’s pretty rural...but also convenient. Cheap and fresh food, relaxed culture and lifestyle, beautiful scenery and nature. AND it’s only an hour from Nagoya one way, and an hour and a half from Osaka the other way on the train. And guess what? I’m still here after 20 years!

    • @creativez9819
      @creativez9819 Před 3 lety +2

      hello any tips when learning japanese nihonggo? , my grandma planning to move me there but im quite anxious because i don't know nihongo . :(

    • @aslamnurfikri7640
      @aslamnurfikri7640 Před 3 lety +6

      Also maybe this is why most manga and anime sets in Tokyo. That's what most people think about Japan

    • @louiegilalano7685
      @louiegilalano7685 Před 3 lety +5

      @@creativez9819 You need at least two Japanese learning apps, you'll be able least to understand JLPT N3.

    • @olamide6712
      @olamide6712 Před 3 lety

      Near Matsusaka?

    • @Jordan-inJapan
      @Jordan-inJapan Před 3 lety +4

      @@creativez9819 Because Japanese is quite different than English (and other European languages), it's definitely a good idea to study or practice a bit before coming. (I didn't much, and the first 2 years was quite challenging.) But don't worry, there are lots of good resources online to help you get used to the language a bit before you come here. And practice reading! -- at least hiragana and katakana at first. It will make things easier too (reading menus, etc.) 頑張って!

  • @princessxandraaurelio8570

    yup, will definitely just visit 🤤

  • @shirleys4157
    @shirleys4157 Před rokem +4

    I can do everything besides fitting into a group. I always had my friends, but liked doing some things my way. And i can't give up individuality.

    • @kalinga2nihon
      @kalinga2nihon Před rokem +3

      Same, and I also don’t want others to force me to drink or attend late night office parties or dress up in a particular manner, etc. I’m not changing myself just because others are intolerant.

  • @triplearielinfinite2
    @triplearielinfinite2 Před 3 lety +305

    Japanese learners: don't worry about writing kanji, everyone types or texts in japan.
    Japan: *bursts out laughing*

    • @rx-7veilside622
      @rx-7veilside622 Před 3 lety +7

      Many japanese doesn't know kanji

    • @rx-7veilside622
      @rx-7veilside622 Před 3 lety +2

      @@Rikki.travels59348 bruhh i say "many" so, it's mean not at all japanese knows their alphabet language

    • @user-nj4bf9ht8w
      @user-nj4bf9ht8w Před 3 lety +22

      @@rx-7veilside622 that's actually a relief. I've been having headaches trying to figure out how they even memorize Kanji especially those similar looking ones

    • @Ohakoo
      @Ohakoo Před 3 lety +3

      @@user-nj4bf9ht8w They do know write kanji, but not as proficient anymore since technology is already in it's peak

    • @kuma4925
      @kuma4925 Před 3 lety +8

      @@user-nj4bf9ht8w sorry to break it to ya, but youll still need to learn how to read jouyou kanji

  • @Nexxarian
    @Nexxarian Před 3 lety +721

    "Why You Should NOT Move to Japan"
    "Why Japanese Don't Like Foreigners Living in Japan"
    You know, I'm starting to think I wouldn't be welcome.

    • @shukrantpatil
      @shukrantpatil Před 3 lety +51

      bruh they do it for the views , chill ......its nothing like this and if you still feel depressed watch this video to see what it really is like ,( its not a depressed society or anything , it fun , trust me )czcams.com/video/9sH_bwNbx2Q/video.html
      the younger generations are generally chill with foreigners

    • @drydenkuramoto950
      @drydenkuramoto950 Před 3 lety +43

      hes not lying but japan isnt as bad as it seems from these videos

    • @kanna4176
      @kanna4176 Před 3 lety +28

      Well we will welcome you if you come but tbh I’m japanese and I hate it here in Japan LMAOO

    • @drydenkuramoto950
      @drydenkuramoto950 Před 3 lety +7

      @@kanna4176 the school is so strict compared to overseas where I am now

    • @kanna4176
      @kanna4176 Před 3 lety +28

      @@drydenkuramoto950 I hate Japanese schools there so strict like please. Can I have my hair down for ONE day

  • @TheEvilFoxy
    @TheEvilFoxy Před rokem

    In Finland you have to do a yearly tech inspection of your car that costs around 50€ if it doesn't pass, you're not allowed to drive it until you have it fixed.

  • @Jedi_Judo19
    @Jedi_Judo19 Před 20 dny

    Wow this video is so much better than the last one I watched. The last guy was a British Asian guy who was just complaining about his life and compared the entire country of Japan to Bangkok!!

  • @HopefulGaijin
    @HopefulGaijin Před 3 lety +86

    “7. Car Inspections. You have to have your car inspected every 3 years.”
    Well in Texas you have to do it every year so...
    “It costs $960”
    WHAT

    • @iainmcclumpha
      @iainmcclumpha Před 3 lety +3

      We have our cars tested every year as well. Only about £55 for the test.

    • @SNGHammiam
      @SNGHammiam Před 3 lety +5

      This was my exact reaction being a fellow Texan.

    • @mdahsenmirza2536
      @mdahsenmirza2536 Před 3 lety +1

      Here where I live, we have to have pollution checked for our car every three months but good thing is that it costs less than 2 usd

    • @camelway
      @camelway Před 3 lety

      It's probably same in every western country except the crazy fee.

    • @stephaniebartsch4807
      @stephaniebartsch4807 Před 3 lety

      Yea and trust me, you can't have a car older than 10 years old, you pay like double to keep it. Hence, new cars everywhere!

  • @dantestryder
    @dantestryder Před 3 lety +1599

    “750$ for a small apartment”
    Laughs in california rent☠️
    edit: lmao thanks for 1k likes, i don’t think i’ve ever gotten that many before😭❤️

    • @thingswhatilike
      @thingswhatilike Před 3 lety +5

      Here in Asia it's very expensive.

    • @lynb2039
      @lynb2039 Před 3 lety +91

      Laughs, then grimaces in New York rent. For $750, you rent a broom closet 😁

    • @justjihra
      @justjihra Před 3 lety +4

      Colorado rent too haha

    • @saheruthepharaoh
      @saheruthepharaoh Před 3 lety +21

      Lmao I’m paying $1520 for a 850 Sqft apartment in California, not even in a nice place 😂😂

    • @jj6407
      @jj6407 Před 3 lety +12

      Keep voting demorat. All that high regulation and taxes really give you great social benefit.

  • @saiidviken2022
    @saiidviken2022 Před 2 lety +1

    The biggest problem for me would be the impossible task of filling my name on a form. The second problem is group socialising after work as I don't drink alcohol

  • @user-eb7lz6xh7t
    @user-eb7lz6xh7t Před 2 lety +14

    First of all, Japan isn't your dream country as you may think. Japan is busy to solve it's own issues so you can't expect Japan to take care of everything for you automatically. You have to do your own part. Social conformity is often discussed, however it isn't a real issue any more. If you are confident and original enough, you can get away with that. Try to show your unique ideas! Then people around you will become your conformer! One thing I want to point out is that if you speak (almost) perfect Japanese, it will immensely help your daily life in Japan because English isn't a popular language here. I have noticed that people with a reasonable Japanese language competence have more chance to get Japanese friends easier including boy/girl friends, or even get married to genuine and sincere Japanese. This fact greatly contribute to your feelings of being accepted to Japan if that is what you want. Hence mental stability and happiness. Speaking English only may be enough for business, but it will surely leave you in isolation and loneliness in your personal life.

    • @maegalroammis6020
      @maegalroammis6020 Před 2 lety

      you are discouraging. they can't expect us to speak fluently a language.

  • @SupremeLeaderKimJong-un
    @SupremeLeaderKimJong-un Před 3 lety +911

    Rent is nonexistent in the DPRK. You're given your apartment in Pyongyang for free

  • @ml8183
    @ml8183 Před 3 lety +284

    Japan is expensive, get used to the prices.
    Me a Swiss: lol

    • @jonaramire
      @jonaramire Před 3 lety +8

      As a Swiss, can relate lol

    • @wolkcumulus2547
      @wolkcumulus2547 Před 3 lety +4

      Lol I thought the same. I was on holiday 2 times in Tokyo and the prices were kinda normal to me. But the apartment is kinda cheap :O I pay 560 euro for 14 m2 q.q fml

    • @larkinthesky
      @larkinthesky Před 3 lety +5

      So true. Except for fruit, that's horrendously expensive in Japan.

    • @HazasDump
      @HazasDump Před 3 lety +4

      I want to move to Switzerland in the future. But that's a long-term plan.

    • @xhelenes-stuff
      @xhelenes-stuff Před 3 lety +4

      Norway is rated the most expensive country appearantly, so it will probably not change much for me.

  • @pearluniverse7878
    @pearluniverse7878 Před 3 lety +1

    These are great to know! I already knew as a plus sized woman it's going to be harder there. I'm just going to keep ordering clothes online like i already do