Suhoor Fest: Brother vs. Grandma
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Suhr fest:
1. good in theory
2. Terrible in practice
suhoor and fest should never be spoken in the same sentence....kinda weird.
If there was no free mixing nothing wrong .
@@Falafel556 well free mixing is everywhere my friend..almost in all muslim countries too..do u live in a cave or what???or u are a wahhabi
What happened there?
whats even that, why is there a fest for suhoor whats going on why is suhoor being celebrated im confused
They have brought one of these festivals to parts of Florida, and I used to feel like I was missing out on something enjoyable for the Muslim community but after speaking with other sisters and seeing some videos of the events, I am no longer feeling that FOMO. I already was wary about making Ramadan about staying up late and eating food - to top it off the sisters and brothers are mixing freely, playing music, wasting a lot of time, etc. May Allah guide us all
SubhanAllah, assuming you're talking about Tampa, I heard about it.
It is deeply disturbing this festival took place, using Islam to create a gathering completely against it! Free mixing, music, sisters without hijab roaming freely among the brothers, even skipping worship to show up to disgusting things like this, go pray Isha and Taraweeh Jama'a rather than attend fitnafest.
To be fair, the places hosting don't have much of a choice since their customers are Muslims, but this does not justify anything..
The fact there are people still trying to get it to reopen is extremely sad
May Allah protect the Ummah from Fitna.
One of the signs of the last hour is those who call themselves Muslim will be the farthest from it.
Allahuma Ameen
Dawah requires a lot of knowledge and wisdom.
From the fatawa of shaikh ibn baz rahimahullaah:
the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “If the people see an evil and do not change it, soon Allaah will punish them all.”
And he (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever among you sees an evil action, then let him change it with his hand [by taking action]; if he cannot, then with his tongue [by speaking out]; and if he cannot, then with his heart - and that is the weakest of faith.”
This is general in meaning and applies to all evil actions, whether they are on the road, in the home, in the mosque, on an airplane, on a train, in a car or anywhere else. This applies to both men and women. A woman can speak and a man can speak, enjoining what is good and forbidding what is evil, because this is in the interests of all and concerns the salvation of all.
It is not permissible to keep quiet about that to avoid upsetting the husband, brother or anyone else. But it should be done with good manners and kind words, not with violence and harshness, paying attention to suitable times. Some people may not be open to advice at some times, but at other times they may be willing to accept it. The believing man and woman pay attention to the appropriate times for denouncing evil and enjoining good, and they should not despair and think that the one who does not accept it today will not accept it tomorrow. The believing man should not despair and the believing woman should not despair, rather they should carry on denouncing evil and enjoining what is good with sincerity towards Allaah and His slaves, and thinking positively of Allaah and hoping for the reward that is with Allaah.
Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn Baaz (4/50).
Even the name suhoor fest could be playing with the deen. Suhoor is a sunnah of the prophet salallaahu alayhi wasallam and these people make it into a festival or a party like the kuffaar do with their celebrations. Suhoor based on ahaadeeth can be simply a sip of water or dates.
اللهم صل وسلم وبارك على نبينا محمد
آمين
اللهم صل على محمد وآل محمد
بارك الله فيك
Baraka Allahu feek, brother
This is such hikma. You're approach is both firm but meriful, emphasizing unity and not disunity.
You just gained a follower.
Well said sheikh saajid 👍🏽 jazak allah khair brother
What the brother said is entirely true.
"Allah will not better the state of a people unless they make themselves better"
I’m a convert (or revert whatever you want) but to speak to saajids point please do not on our behalf start adding and changing the religion at all, stand firm upon Quran and sunnah, when you start being lenient to try and please people you actually cause more fitnah because as a con/revert in the beginning I had absolutely no idea what is/isnt haram, I thought things that were HARAM were fine/not to bad, this is why I ask Allah to bless the salafi dawah CZcamsrs as when I watched a lot of mainstream guys (will not say names as backbiting) but when I watched them I’d “feel good” but wouldn’t actually learn anything as they never really spoke on anybign meaningful, when the salafi dawah guys brought the evidence even with firmness I actually started to learn and improve (may Allah guide me and the ummah) reality is if anyone loves Allah they will accept the truth regardless who brings the evidence or how firm they are, of course that doesn’t mean purposely be harsh or rude but even if they were, we love Allah not personality we must tell the truth even if it’s uncomfortable and if someone like me has even an ounce of truth in belief in them then they’ll accept
May Allah bless you for this comment. This is very true and I hope that the dwah that try to sugar coat/liberalise the religion actually see reactions from people like you. Authentic Islam is what will bring people to Islam not liberalising it or making it appealing to the modern mood
barakallah fiik bro
Thank you for trying to bring some balance.
Jaszak Allah ghair
May Allah bless you
Reminds me of Menk x Islam channels "Light upon Light event".
Was newly practising, didnt know nothing about the deen at the time, barely wearing proper hijab...i just saw a talk was being done by a "religious scholar" and thought oh lemme go learn something and connect with some sisters 😂 Never went back again. Worse thing was i went my mum who i was trying to soften up towards the deen.
Tell me why in the front of the building, right outside the doors, you had brothers and sisters free mixing/mobile numbers being exchanged. Everybody could see so you can bet the great Mufti of Deoband saw. Did he address it? Do pigs fly? No.
You eventually learn that not every muslim is sincere and just cuz someone calls himself a Mufti it doesnt mean he is. If i saw the same video after i went id 100% agree with the brother and it would have helped with the confusion i felt after attending.
Astagfirullah I heard about the number exchange part between men and women, so it is true after all. If a new convert sees the haram in this, what are the born muslims doing there????
this is what freemixing leads to, ruining muslim households, beware brothers and sisters from this.
I heard about some men exchanging numbers with women in this event, so it turned out to be true after all. And mufti menk still considers himself a mufti after all this.
If a convert saw the haram in this, imagine what state born muslims are in being there.
Menk himself does ikhtilaat (freemixing), so it makes sense he wont forbid the evil of it
Menk is a scholar and student of madina, not deoband. Please dont spread incorrect information .
@@dudelikeseriously8418 his father is a liar then?
AmeenYaRabbilA'lameen!
I think they could make an arrangement where men and women don’t mix I agree with him
Yeah exactly
Yup simple
That is a good suggestion, but it would become very difficult for families. They could have a separate event for families I guess?
@@MujZaidi it could be the same way we eat iftars at the masjid. There's really no need for the families to eat suhoor together if we can eat iftar separately.
There shouldn’t be a fest for suhoor in the first place make it iftar without mix at least 🤦🏻♀️
For me personally, I am not perfect myself and will focus on that primarily and ask for protection for feeling like I am above others (arrogance). If I see other Muslims doing wrong, I will gently remind them that its prohibited or encourage them to do a positive thing (like attend Jummah for example). I will not, shame them or cut them off, because at the end of the day, regardless of what they are doing wrong, they are my brother in Islam who I love for the sake of Allah. I also know to pick my battles, you can't go around pointing out everything or it's too much for them so pick on the major issues. I don't care if someone may have paintings of living things in their house for example and wont say anything if I know for example they are not praying 5 times a day because that is a more important battle.
English - Sahih International
20:44 And speak to him with gentle speech that perhaps he may be reminded or fear [Allah]."
Tafsir Ibn Katheer in English
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We have to go back to the authentic sources is what Saajid is saying. And in doing so, only then can there be no argument no insulting. We hear and we obey the Qur'an and Sunnah according to the understanding of the first three generations. That is where we find solutions. Khalaas.
Careful. The munafiqs won't like that. They'll call you a "blind follower" or something.
@@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 huh. Taqleed if that is what you're saying is towards a sheikh. I did not make any of that claim. What do I need to be careful of?
@@rathernot6660 by someone "who's faithful' supposedly
what even is suhoor fest?
In Texas, they have these “suhoor” tests where they have just giant mixed gatherings where people come to eat food after iftaar but you usually just see brothers and sisters dressing up and talking and mixing and looking at each other, listening to music and coming to “shoyookh” who promote these events as “Islamic”.
O i didn't know it existed well that is bad@@Moose-wj8sc
@@Moose-wj8scthese influencers like omar suleiman who called for free mixing gatherings are ruining many muslim's hayaa
@@Moose-wj8scand I thought we had at rough here in UK, USA seems like a diff planet 😂😂😂
@Altair-El-Haddad well we're still plagued by the deobandis...I'm not sure which one is worse
Doing 'Dakwa' is NOT doing the takfeer on someone! Dakwa suppose to be the way of bringing people to the truth. If such person is (publicly) speaking about a person's habit or behaviour, they need to talk about it critically but *respectfully*. Its not about saying bad things about what's going on. May Allah Guides us to the straight path
Dont freemix on social media, you dont have to compliment the sister on her conversion or hijab change, or the brother on his fitness routine. you dont have to complain about your marriage to foreign people. This all causes fitnah, what do you think a woman or a man thinks when soemone from the opposite gender compliments them?
Dig your profile pic, I warned a xonlyfans convert about the deception.
ALLHAMDULILLAH for MJ, Saj, Farid
Keep up, exposing... The undergroundkings are found at the comment section
@@411Adil then be careful of the person you have in your profile picture, the scholars like sheikh al-albani and salem al-taweel have warned against this deviant group who claims to care for the palestinian people, when in fact it is an iranian rafidi proxy. It is enough to see that they closed masjids in gaza that weren't subject to them.
May Allah bless you and protect you
@@MenkIsAMubtadiiDeobandiwait who’s the guy in his profile pic? Abu obidah? Also can u explain ur username. I’m not sure if ur the same person or a diff one that I’ve seen with a similar username. I don’t really watch mufti so I’m curious as to why he’s being called a mubtadi and deonandi.
@@donotdisturb6597 his father himself said he is deobandi. he studied under them. he is soemone who hides his manhaj, notice how he doesnt usually speak about tawheed, instead pleasing people with other topics. Sheikh wasiullah abbas has warned about him
@@411Adilbrother u should delete ur playlists or at least hide them so ppl can’t view them.
💥📿🤲🏼💥
whats even that, why is there a fest for suhoor whats going on why is suhoor being celebrated im confused?
Same, first time hearing of this as well :/ doesn't happen in Australia either
Honestly advice is best delivered gently and honestly not harshly and hateful that is just my own opinion but it’s it all depends on situations in that situation I am a famous person I see someone doing something not right I would gently give them advice if they don’t take or listen to it that’s fine try to help they didn’t want the help it’s out of my hands.
So it was a mixed event
Well isn't it true that sins have an affect on the ummah?
Suhoor Fest where I live was a disaster apparently from what I heard from others, there were thousands in a cramped parking lot with lots of free mixing, non hijabis and even people exposing more of their body. Some said there was people vaping and they could smell alcohol but Allah knows best. This event seemed like it had good intentions from the start but it was managed horribly and shouldn't happen again. It looks like a poor attempt at watering the deen down for liberals or people new to the religion, when it probably would be doing more harm then good.
What does “non hijab” have to do here…? What does wearing a hijab have to do with sahoor? Men should not speak or comment on women’s bodies, period. You and others like you are not God’s police. Furthermore, hijab does not equal Muslim and if you’re going to go there, hijab also applies to men - how did you distinguish the men who weren’t wearing their hijab in your comment? Yeah, you didn’t.
@@user-yg3vk8cm5s Why you getting so triggered? You literally answered your own question. I never mentioned gender, both man and woman are commanded by Allah to use the hijab, which is to cover oneself, and it is different for each of us obviously.
Allah did also tell us to enjoin in good and forbid evil, and both you and I are allowed to speak on issues displayed openly committing evil so as so we don't backbite anyone specifically and if there is benefit in raising the issue.
@mhersi2dude in the day of the prophet Muhammad saw men and women gender mix in the city streets but it wqs very limited
@@user-yg3vk8cm5s People like you have weak faith that hide behind the curtains of "no judge policy" It's our responsibility as muslims to call out this kind of stuff that bring fitnah to our ummah and are clearly condemned, if you have nothing of a value to say then stay in silence instead of being an angry hypocrite.
@@user-yg3vk8cm5s People like you have weak faith that hide behind the curtains of "no judge policy" It's our responsibility as Muslims to call out this kind of stuff that bring fitnah to our ummah and are clearly condemned, if you have nothing of a value to say then stay in silence instead of being an angry hypocrite.
Al-Bayhaqi narrated in az-Zuhd al-Kabeer (180) with a saheeh isnaad from al-Hasan al-Basri that it was said to him: People come to your gathering to pick on any error you may make, so that they can make it a reason to gossip about you. He said: Do not worry about it, for I thought of the pleasure of being close to Allah and I hope for that; I thought of Paradise and I hope for that; I thought of al-hoor al-‘een and I hope for that; I thought of being safe from people, and I found no way to achieve that. When I saw that people are not pleased with their Creator, I realized that they will never be pleased with a created being like themselves.
Ash-Shafii (may Allah have mercy on him) said to Yunus ibn ‘Abd al-A‘la: "O Abu Moosa, if you were to strive your utmost to please all the people, there is no way to do that. As that is the case, then make your deeds and your intention sincerely for Allah alone."
brother It seems unfitting here, because the gathering they did is haram.
the brother need to learn some hikma...he is not wrong, but there is a way on how to advice others without making them think you are a jerk and make them go further away from the deen.
You should not participate in such events without knowing who or what organization is behind them! Because where I live, there are always dirty hands behind such activities. It is necessary to participate in the events of reliable organizations. And in the time of fitnah, the best thing to do is to be at home.
Hopefully albania doesn't have suhoor fest
Iron man is a clown. He got caught and went back to doing his pushups
what did he get caught with?
i never heard of suhoor fest until now, so i youtube searched to see what it is. Honestly its cringy, and in Ramadan too. Reminds me of halal rib fest that we have here in Ontario but bigger, and i wasnt a fan of the environment at all. Or even the masjid carnivals, i mean i want to keep my family close to the muslim community and avoid worse options as like you said we have to make sacrifices when we have kids (cant deprive them completely from anything fun) but i feel uneasy about alot of it. May Allah help us all
Brother I don't agree, 😅 what he says
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These fest are changing our deen and you are too worried about pleasing the innovators.
Our job is the enjoin good and forbid evil and leave the results to Allah ﷻ.
*Allah Said:*
O mankind! We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know one another. Verily, the most honourable of you with Allah is that (believer) who has At-Taqwa [i.e. he is one of the Muttaqun (the pious. See V.2:2)]. Verily, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware.
*Qur'an Surah 49, Verse 13.*
*Translated by, Al-Hilali and Muhsin Khan, ( The Noble Qur'an ).*
*Published by, Sajed Munir.*
Genuine question, I'm not saying the suhoor fest is good, but if you go there strictly to get food and not to interact with the opposite gender, how is it different than picking up food from a restaurant?
ask a scholar or local ustadh
In Islam listening to music and freemixing is Haram, both of which occurred at Suhoor Fest. There are almost always other places to get food that do not have these things, and you can always cook and eat at home. I know a common rebuttal can be that most restaurants nowadays have music playing. Almost Every Muslim in a country that isn't war torn like Palestine have the option to cook and eat at home Alhamdullilah or get food delivered to them if they have the money for that. Going to Suhoor Fest and going to most restaurants nowadays with music playing and listening to that music even if your just there to get food and with no other reason is still Haram in Islam. People might find it extreme but please remember that this life is the only chance we will ever get and Jannah is worth missing out on every pleasure of this world.
Two different situations. Suhoor Fest is managed by Muslims. They have the choice to make it free from free mixing and music.
it's like going to a Christmas market to get food, there's no reason to when the vent itself was haram from the beginning
Can any1 tell me a bit more about this Suhoor fest? Why are people getting angry at those going to it? I'm generally against this concept of making Ramadan a food fiesta where restaurants have all you can eat offers for iftaar. Ramadan is a month to increase worship, not to increase our trips to the restaurants/ food trucks around the city. But why did people target this specifically.
Yes Palestinians are going through horrific stuff daily and not to forget those in Sudan too, but do we stop enjoying ourselves which could potentially be for years and years to come? My qs again is why target this event specifically. Apologise if I sound ignorant
I have friends that went to these here in DFW TX, they said it was mostly dressed up hijabis and freemixing
@@thaknobodilet me guess they were baked in hijab makeup?
@@MenkIsAMubtadiiDeobandi id have to ask the boys who went. Theyre young enough to be my kids, im too old now and busy for such foolishness to want to go where fitna is
@@thaknobodi alhamdulilah, a muslim has to be careful from these people who make freemixing events, or call to them like omar suleiman. People have lost their hayaah because of them, muslim households have been ruined and many other things. No need to ask them brother.
May Allah bless you
Basically music and freemixing, etc.
Simple islam
Thsts brother is in his early 20s and just looks down at everyone
Not good