Is it just me or does everyone notice how Benjamin switches the cushions to match his pocket handkerchief? anyway, i love the show. Thank you for the chunks of wisdom!
As a first born of 6 I can relate to what Benjamin Is saying,I was matured by 14 years , people are amazed by my intelligence despite the fact I don't even have a degree
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I'm 21, single I've had a few relationships but as soon as I started watching Benjamin Zulu I swear I just felt like God was speaking to me😂😂😂 It was after him that I realized there's no business for me in relationships rn for sure.
I'm so glad to see young ladies watching this!! I wish this guy was there when I was growing up, trying to figure out my way with relationships and love. I'm grateful though to have heard him before I turn 40 in a few years. I'm in no hurry to get married unless I can find a partner with the right level of maturity to help me build. I know this is going to sound selfish, I can no longer tolerate women my age, most of the ones I meet are acting and thinking immaturely and yet want to have children because the clock is ticking. I used to ignore younger ladies because I felt that we just didn't have that much in common (a very faulty judgment) or that they just wouldn't be interested or faithful I'm slowly realizing now that I have alot more in common with young focused women, than a woman who is drifting at30 (but doesn't know it). Pointers to girls, get to know the man well. Study his character and the company he keeps. Listen to how he communicates with people and how much he lets you in. Please please don't be fooled by the exterior facades:; hair, car, religion (very careful here!). With the right support and mindset a man can rebuild himself at any age and men who've turned sketchy past into solid characters deserve close attention. Read read and study human psychology and traits of narcissism and the likes. You will save yourself alot of trouble. The way I see it God knows we men are prone to be stupid and slow to mature...that's why our capability to produce is extended almost indefinitely. Women have been blessed with innate understanding and discernment because of your womb and your responsibility to carry life. If you don't put this into effect in good time your characters have formed and most likely will not be able to mould into a caring mother at 40+ . No pressure 😉
Biologically all men regardless of their race or geographical locations takes time to mature.....as a man i would advice ladies to look for older men than their counter parts.
As much as we need to hear about rlship and marriage advices, it's best to understand that everyone has their own different opinions.As much as we're setting standards somethings like marriage are sacred. No matter how many books you read, or advices you listen to, you and I will never truly understand what it takes for such things to work not even age gap or financial status. It's only by grace not by our knowledge of it. Many are the plans of man but its God's purpose that prevails. However let's not be ignorant in the name of God.
Is it God plan for the divorce statistics to be the way it is? So you are right but don't be ignorant in the name of God. He doesn't choose for u, he bless what you have choosen I believe educating yourself matters too
@Anne Sparks I did. Then I was like this isn't what I need in my life. I am not gonna mama this man. Some people will lack maturity so you can't have actual conversations and plans. We just need to understand and make decisions. He wasn't a bad person though.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I always dated younger then me but they eventually didn't work out because I realised that I was making more sound decisions then them which eventually made them feel like I was disrespecting them. Am now with a wonderful man who is 9 years older and I love that he is more mature then me mentally and he takes the lead. No regrets!
I agree with you about first born daughters. Seriously this has reminded me of a Christian fellowship of old women I attended and they were amazed at the contributions I made. I remember them saying your reasoning is far beyond your age Learning more from you. Love from 🇺🇬
As a first born daughter I agree with Zulu 💯.. Personally I really finds it hard to relate with those we schooled together with(age mates) in terms of relationships.
I got pregnant for my first ever boyfriend after university,I was not ready to become a mother or even a wife,you guys are right,I wish the young ones can listen to what your saying.
Patience, after a few years of this life. Let me tell you, a child is the greatest blessing regardless of how. In a few years you will realize how the experience can shape you and put you ahead. Let the blessing take shape!!
This sounds so depressing 😪when I listen to these discussions, it sounds like men are slow in everything. It sounds like us women have to do a lot of settling. Sad af
@@winniewera2510 gosh you don't know Joyce Omondi then, she's the realest person ever! She is a gospel singer and a worship leader apart from being a talk show host. Never judge people you don't know!
I thank fb for locking me down now and then for speaking my mind. Your site has been a source of entertainment when I needed to pass time. But since your last lockdown of 30 days...... I have diverted my attention to CZcams and met the best. I first watched Benjamin Zulu in a heated debate. And I had to look for more of him. I just love this guy. He doesn't sugar-coat anything.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@@favoursenfuma1500 hi dear brother. what a comforting massage you gave me this morning , thank you so much and that shows we are so connected and God got us. i even have a job interview tomorrow morning and i know your prayer has already done it. unfortunately i am in Zimbabwe and i don't know how i can successfully do what you asked.... thank you so much i appreciate the massage.
Whatever Benjamin has said about firstborns looking for father figures is so true,I am married to a 53yr old n am 38,we have to kids,its been 10yrs of marriage but not easy,because anytime I have an opinion he sees it to be childish,worse still in bed his not performing like before, please listen to what your being advised,I'll come for counselling since I can't leave my marriage now.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Benja Napenda vile unatubeba.. Advise iko dope.. Continue to shape gal child and a boy child.. Don't jump quickly.. We should work about our future! 💯🇰🇪💪
I am a Firstborn and Benjamin unasema ukweli.. I have trouble allowing someone to take care of me...We delight in giving and caring abt other too much and its hard to think of ourselves for once
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I am a first born girl and i cannot wait to get married and allow someone to take care of me. I am tired of constantly giving and parents having so many expectations. Even whilst I was in university, when I would stay in my room and revise I was seen as anti social and unhelpful. Then, when I graduated they expected me to help more around the house. I am not your maid. If you cannot afford a maid then distribute the house chores amongst all your children.
Reality I love Benjamin advise I am a first born in our family I got married when I was 25 and I was very ready but the guy was two years younger than I and after 9 years at foreign country he decided to marry a young girl it was yesterday I was trying to revise the tape of my head and I have come to realise age matters most because to me I needed a mature gentleman who could have understand me and ready to take me as I am but this 2 years gap I notice the guy could not wait for me to come back Home and after spending my money on him and our children he was supporting his side chik where they end up settling together so for me age matters most
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Me and my wife have been together for 18 years and just got back together three days ago after being separated for 6 months. Divorce was on the docket but we are doing our best to keep this from happening. Things are definitely looking up but it's still very challenging but it seems to get better every day. We have three children, 2 boys with autism (17 & 3) and our baby girl with Down Syndrome. Our daughter with Down Syndrome had two open heart surgeries fairly recently at 5 months old, then a pacemaker installed. She also has Hirschsprung's disease which led to her having a colostomy bag installed at five days old. She has several more surgeries to go. If I can say this to anyone, I would tell you do what you need to do to make it work. Sometimes you need to suck it up. You can't be fickle. Fight for your family. People say you shouldn't stay together for your children, well that's fine. But if you still love each other as well as your children and are split due to circumstances or tragedies that have put you in a state of constant depression, stress, about everything you can imagine in this situation like this, then you must come together and not give up. You must keep moving forward and keep on fighting. Many other people have it a lot easier or a lot worse than me/us but I've certainly come out of the other side a lot more knowledgeable and appreciative of my wife and all the things our family is capable of when we are a team instead of constantly at odds and bickering. We are learning to get along again and not take our stress out on each other and our kids get to enjoy both of their parents as well. This is what it's all about. For all of you going through tough times out there, keep your chin up and like I said, don't stop fighting, don't lose hope, never lose hope. If you truly care about the other person you're married to, you can't lose hope and you need to keep fighting. If you don't, then it's time to pack it up and move on. But if you love her or him, keep fighting, HARD! A little patience and understanding and reassurance to your spouse goes a long ways and a big thanks to my godfather dr jaj who help me using his spiritual power and prayers in keeping my family safe and if any of you out there need an astrologer or a spell caster please email; drjajspellhome@gmail.com or whatsapp +2349031670905 result is 100% guarantee and if also you need any of this other 1) Love Spells2) Lost Love Spells3) Divorce Spells4) Marriage Spells5) Binding Spells6) Breakup Spells7) Banish a past Lover.8.) You want to be promoted in your office
Your really right, am the first born but at 18 l was like 35 in my thinking.l.nwver had friends of my age coz everyone blamed me.for thinking ahead of my age but the problem was p had of responsibilities to work hard and pay for my siblings which one was my dream since childhood considering l was coming from a poor family.
@Full circle with Joyce, I will like to suggest a topic with Benjamin. What does a child need for full development and stability. Is co-parenting a good thing really for the child and will this child be as stable as one who grew in actual family with a father and mother together? What's the psychology behind this. I think co-parenting does not solve the problem fully. This discussion is very important. Before we get children it is important that we ensure they will have a present father and mother together. As Benjamin says, children are not born by wind pollination. I would really love such a discussion. I believe a child who is bred out out of a family set up will lack some thing. Is there some psychology behind this? Benjamin please
My advice for men (From personal experience): 1. Raise your (men) own value in relationship, love & the sexual marketplace. Focus on yourself first. It's a competitive world. Nothing is free. 2. Accept that life is not fair. 3. Whining doesn't solve any problem, action does. 4. Take every relationship (including marriage) loosely. Do not hold any relationship tightly. 5. When you are in a relationship, enjoy every moment positively till last. But always keep in mind-- she may leave you or you may leave her (not a big deal). Move on. 6. Never ever be emotionally attached to any woman. Love her, but never ever fall in love with her. 7. Never put her on a pedestal. 8. You need to unlearn many things (from childhood) so that you can learn new things. 9. Grow an abundance mindset and be positive & relaxed always. 10. The above 9 things will solve 95% of relationship problems for today's Men. Good luck
Applause to the Switch TV team. You guys are doing a great job - keep up with the incredible efforts. Benjamin U’re amazing n I love it when you come out with the raw truth about this age gap thingy. Your enthusiasm in empowering the youths is top notch👌🏾 Just a suggestion, I don’t mean to run down your answer - for the first question asked, since the victim is already married to her spouse, could she in such a situation be encouraged on how to make her marriage work. Putting efforts into learning more about family n career development will aid her cognitive development and enhance her maturity while being married. I believe approaching her question in this way will impact her positively opposed to judging n making her feel she has made a mistake she can’t reverse. Let’s make it a habit to encourage and impact positivity when someone falters - it heals faster than a paid therapy😊
I married at 28yrs and she was 22yrs been married for 25yrs now so sometimes I don't agree with Benjamin about age gap,sometimes people mature differently.
It's very educative , I,m learning a lot thanks . Maturity doesn't always comes with age. Sometimes people grow mature cos of certain event's which happens in life . My grandma married at 18. They stayed until my grandpa left to rest .
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Absolutely true cz l m frist born and l m the one who take care of my family needs evry thing they need is me but if l trip too much wahala.bt l thnk God l do my best.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
*Very true 👌 men do mature slowly, I too I've observed that!* *Personally I've always thought dating/marrying a man who is younger than me SOUNDS AWKWARD* I'm single mum of 2 teenage daughters,I'm not in a hurry to get married again but enjoying life with my kids.....I got pregnant at age 17 by 19 I had 2 kids,never enjoyed my teenage youth but God gave me other ways to enjoy happiness in my life
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I was married by a man how was older then me with 15 years and still was staying with his parents it was hell on earth for me 4years latter I just had to leave yes he was married before me and separate with his first wife I came to realise about it when I was pregnant...so a man can be older and still be like a boy
What this guy is saying is very true. Actually the problem is we as women we screwed towards marriage. It's like we are groomed to be married one of these days which is not how it's supposed to be. Ladies let's work towards our dreams please.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I believe you must have hacked into Benjamin Zulu account... A believer IN CHRIST cannot be spiritually attacked!!! Let that women keep monitoring and plotting delay, I'll keep soaring higher and higher! Christ is in me so no shaking!
I used to think Zulu was bit harsh with the 'Lady must be over 25' story, but woow he is so right, recently I had to deal with someone whos bellow 25 years and they are going to be a mom soon😎 literally u can feel that as though they are going through this stage of their life with half brain, the teenage brain truly can not fully comprehend certain stages of life...goodbess, Lord have mercy🙏
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
True. Benjamin. First born dotaz we are brought up with lots of responsibilities. I agree with you. All you are saying is so right. Thanks for educating us. Joyce looking beautiful and smart.
Benjamin is right. My mum got married below age 25 and I watched her get educated, evolve and remain miserable and depressed throughout her marriage until she passed away.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
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Is it just me or does everyone notice how Benjamin switches the cushions to match his pocket handkerchief? anyway, i love the show. Thank you for the chunks of wisdom!
Dear person reading this, we don't know each other, but I wish you a
very successful love life ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️ ❤️
Thanks 🙏🏾
Thank you and I receive it
Thank you
You too gal
Thanks....you too
I am 50 and my husband is 38, we are happy, how marriage is successful, I never feel like a mother, I feel like his wife. Age has never been an issue.
That is beautiful. God continue to Bless your Union.
Wow that's good am your age and have a boy friend whose 41 and I fear marrying him thinking am too old for him
Waaaaaaat!
@rosekomo3048 nope it all depends with how mature he's grown, he may be your age and childish ,not mentally developed
God continue to bless your union. ❤😂🎉
As a first born of 6 I can relate to what Benjamin Is saying,I was matured by 14 years , people are amazed by my intelligence despite the fact I don't even have a degree
Degree haikuji na intelligence... Wewe Ni clever tu
Wisdom or maturity isn't necessarily related to a degree...
There's street smarts, book smarts etc
Same way maturity isn't related to age
you sound like exactly like me...but the female version. Are you married?
@@timzization asante
@@LazloVideos no am not🙏❣️❣️ waiting on the right person
Marriage is not a calling! Develop your potentials ladies! Thank you Zulu
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I like that Benjamin does not sugar coat. The truth always sets free. There is no time to be lukewarm
Am 23 by the way. I agree 💯.
I'm 21, single I've had a few relationships but as soon as I started watching Benjamin Zulu I swear I just felt like God was speaking to me😂😂😂
It was after him that I realized there's no business for me in relationships rn for sure.
I'm so glad to see young ladies watching this!! I wish this guy was there when I was growing up, trying to figure out my way with relationships and love. I'm grateful though to have heard him before I turn 40 in a few years. I'm in no hurry to get married unless I can find a partner with the right level of maturity to help me build.
I know this is going to sound selfish, I can no longer tolerate women my age, most of the ones I meet are acting and thinking immaturely and yet want to have children because the clock is ticking. I used to ignore younger ladies because I felt that we just didn't have that much in common (a very faulty judgment) or that they just wouldn't be interested or faithful I'm slowly realizing now that I have alot more in common with young focused women, than a woman who is drifting at30 (but doesn't know it).
Pointers to girls, get to know the man well. Study his character and the company he keeps. Listen to how he communicates with people and how much he lets you in. Please please don't be fooled by the exterior facades:; hair, car, religion (very careful here!). With the right support and mindset a man can rebuild himself at any age and men who've turned sketchy past into solid characters deserve close attention.
Read read and study human psychology and traits of narcissism and the likes. You will save yourself alot of trouble.
The way I see it God knows we men are prone to be stupid and slow to mature...that's why our capability to produce is extended almost indefinitely. Women have been blessed with innate understanding and discernment because of your womb and your responsibility to carry life. If you don't put this into effect in good time your characters have formed and most likely will not be able to mould into a caring mother at 40+ .
No pressure 😉
@@Rastavibration7981 me too😩
Hi
"In Africa men mature slowly" as a South African woman I agree with you, I have observed this here in my country.
ay shame and South Africa is worse worse worse!
Biologically all men regardless of their race or geographical locations takes time to mature.....as a man i would advice ladies to look for older men than their counter parts.
i agree mkhaya
And to think i was seriously dating at 21, i exhausted myself i tell you the dudes were kids
@Kaye Ti 😂😂😂😂
Huyo ni throw!!
One of the dangers of dating an older person is that they never value your opinion
Your opinion may not be valuable at that point and to that person
I can attest to that.very true
Actions speaks louder than words so it's depends what you u say and do u support wat u say or we stalk sake of talking
True,👍👍
Stop gossip 🤣🤣🤣🤣
There's never a dull moment with Benjamin 😂😂
I know🤣
True
What?
As much as we need to hear about rlship and marriage advices, it's best to understand that everyone has their own different opinions.As much as we're setting standards somethings like marriage are sacred. No matter how many books you read, or advices you listen to, you and I will never truly understand what it takes for such things to work not even age gap or financial status. It's only by grace not by our knowledge of it. Many are the plans of man but its God's purpose that prevails.
However let's not be ignorant in the name of God.
So true...
This is the smartest comment
My people perish for luck of knowledge.
I agree .
Is it God plan for the divorce statistics to be the way it is? So you are right but don't be ignorant in the name of God. He doesn't choose for u, he bless what you have choosen
I believe educating yourself matters too
Am 23years and I haven't even thought of marriage yet 😂
I like how Benjamin refused to gossip🙌🏾
I dated a guy that was 5 years younger than me but was above 30. I noticed he behaved like I was his mum. We didn't last a year.
@Anne Sparks I did. Then I was like this isn't what I need in my life. I am not gonna mama this man. Some people will lack maturity so you can't have actual conversations and plans. We just need to understand and make decisions. He wasn't a bad person though.
A cougar
@@lilianasaba9846 Iam in the same battle but we are same age
@@nakamijunic5844 that's a lot of work. I can't do it at all.
Mine we are agements but he acts same your ex to the extent he calls me mum
So amazing 😑🤣🤣
Every time I need to laugh + get wisdom from the same container I look for full circle with Benjamin Zulu. This man... Oh God. Much love from Uganda
"Stop Gossip,mind your business" 😂😂😂😂
Some kenyan musicians should hear this. 🤣. Kama wako happy.. GOD bless their marriage🙏
Ok this guy is actually so logic . As a firstborn daughter i was just nodding .
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
As as first born daughter. I totally agree with Zulu. My age does not match the way I conduct myself.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I always dated younger then me but they eventually didn't work out because I realised that I was making more sound decisions then them which eventually made them feel like I was disrespecting them. Am now with a wonderful man who is 9 years older and I love that he is more mature then me mentally and he takes the lead. No regrets!
I agree with you about first born daughters. Seriously this has reminded me of a Christian fellowship of old women I attended and they were amazed at the contributions I made. I remember them saying your reasoning is far beyond your age
Learning more from you.
Love from 🇺🇬
Jebaleko
As a first born daughter I agree with Zulu 💯.. Personally I really finds it hard to relate with those we schooled together with(age mates) in terms of relationships.
Hi
Following from Bahrain....
He just can't stop speaking sense...
Even he laughs sensibly....
Am in love with u guys
Benjamin Zulu is just a vibe.He always speak the truth without sieving words
I got pregnant for my first ever boyfriend after university,I was not ready to become a mother or even a wife,you guys are right,I wish the young ones can listen to what your saying.
So true
Patience, after a few years of this life. Let me tell you, a child is the greatest blessing regardless of how. In a few years you will realize how the experience can shape you and put you ahead. Let the blessing take shape!!
This sounds so depressing 😪when I listen to these discussions, it sounds like men are slow in everything. It sounds like us women have to do a lot of settling. Sad af
l m three years older than my husband but we are gud and we have been together for 7yrs n l m so happy n his happy with me too.
Congratulations all the best
3 years is not much
I wish you all the best 🎊🎊🎊💖
The host( the lady) of the show needs to be real she’s fake!... the way she talks and body language...
@@winniewera2510 gosh you don't know Joyce Omondi then, she's the realest person ever! She is a gospel singer and a worship leader apart from being a talk show host. Never judge people you don't know!
I too as a firstborn daughter,i concur with Benjamin,age mates doesn't work,😂😂somehow feel they are my juniors😫😂
because you have the bossy syndrome.
@I c that makes sense
I thought I was alone in this I once couldn't stand my age mate aaah
@Anne Sparks physically
Its 2024 and I can't get enough of this man. God bless you sir
I thank fb for locking me down now and then for speaking my mind. Your site has been a source of entertainment when I needed to pass time. But since your last lockdown of 30 days...... I have diverted my attention to CZcams and met the best. I first watched Benjamin Zulu in a heated debate. And I had to look for more of him. I just love this guy. He doesn't sugar-coat anything.
Joyce you ask the perfect questions ! May God continue to grant you wisdom.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Wow I love this from Benjamin " responsibility is not inborn it's a virtue to be activated "
Look 4 u
I agree about first born daughters... we see nearly everyone under our age childish..Benjamin 🙌 ✋ 😂🤣😅 you speak true FACTS.. I relate to all these
Totally
💯
I relate totally to the first born daughters thingy...
The reason we are THIRD WORLD is wastage of POTENTIAL! PREACH BENJAMIN PREACH
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Those people who are always holding others are the ones who need to be held the most .....#struggles of a firstborn
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@@favoursenfuma1500 hi dear brother. what a comforting massage you gave me this morning , thank you so much and that shows we are so connected and God got us. i even have a job interview tomorrow morning and i know your prayer has already done it. unfortunately i am in Zimbabwe and i don't know how i can successfully do what you asked.... thank you so much i appreciate the massage.
Joyce must be loving her job, I can assume that she always look forward to work. I love this show, God one day
Whatever Benjamin has said about firstborns looking for father figures is so true,I am married to a 53yr old n am 38,we have to kids,its been 10yrs of marriage but not easy,because anytime I have an opinion he sees it to be childish,worse still in bed his not performing like before, please listen to what your being advised,I'll come for counselling since I can't leave my marriage now.
Sorry dear but please do take care of yourself.
I can totally agree Beautiful, my parents passed when I was 11, I am the oldest of 5. I always dated older men.
Totally agree with you mr Benjamin... commitment is a VIRTUE that has to be cultivated
So happy to see Zulu! Always brings a lot of wisdom to the table.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
At 22 listening and following the show as usual. Thank you benjamin zulu for education that you give to the world.❣️❣️❣️❣️
Hey agemate
Hey too just listening and talking Note
Benja Napenda vile unatubeba.. Advise iko dope.. Continue to shape gal child and a boy child.. Don't jump quickly.. We should work about our future! 💯🇰🇪💪
Benjamin is on point
But note, just because you dated or married at past 25 doesn't guarantee that the relationship will work.
Very true!!
True
Woooooo I just discovered thid channel some days ago and it has been a blessing to me
i'm learning a lot but this man is a whole vibe😃😃😃😃
Hapo kwa mafirst born Mr. Zulu umesema ukweli! This was an enlightening conversation - thank you!
I laughed so much!!!! 😂😂😂😂😂Mr Zulu is so funny! And what he said about first born daughters is so true!
I am a Firstborn and Benjamin unasema ukweli.. I have trouble allowing someone to take care of me...We delight in giving and caring abt other too much and its hard to think of ourselves for once
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I am a first born girl and i cannot wait to get married and allow someone to take care of me. I am tired of constantly giving and parents having so many expectations. Even whilst I was in university, when I would stay in my room and revise I was seen as anti social and unhelpful. Then, when I graduated they expected me to help more around the house. I am not your maid. If you cannot afford a maid then distribute the house chores amongst all your children.
I’m always learning ...thanks so much Benjamin ,hoping I won’t make the same mistake again .just 21😊
Thank you two. Your are just super great, hilarious and highly educative. Greetings from The Rhinelands
Thanks for watching!
Reality I love Benjamin advise I am a first born in our family I got married when I was 25 and I was very ready but the guy was two years younger than I and after 9 years at foreign country he decided to marry a young girl it was yesterday I was trying to revise the tape of my head and I have come to realise age matters most because to me I needed a mature gentleman who could have understand me and ready to take me as I am but this 2 years gap I notice the guy could not wait for me to come back Home and after spending my money on him and our children he was supporting his side chik where they end up settling together so for me age matters most
Benjamin always a joy to learn. I was married to 16yrs older we crashed on everything esp when i said who are the Beatles?😂😂😂😂.11yrs we divorced
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Joyce I love this guy... He has plenty sense, God bless him so much...
Benjamin Zulu! Guy you are too much. Thank you for this. My first time hearing. I am the first daughter, single, and a lot on me too.
Me and my wife have been together for 18 years and just got back together three days ago after being separated for 6 months. Divorce was on the docket but we are doing our best to keep this from happening. Things are definitely looking up but it's still very challenging but it seems to get better every day. We have three children, 2 boys with autism (17 & 3) and our baby girl with Down Syndrome. Our daughter with Down Syndrome had two open heart surgeries fairly recently at 5 months old, then a pacemaker installed. She also has Hirschsprung's disease which led to her having a colostomy bag installed at five days old. She has several more surgeries to go. If I can say this to anyone, I would tell you do what you need to do to make it work. Sometimes you need to suck it up. You can't be fickle. Fight for your family. People say you shouldn't stay together for your children, well that's fine. But if you still love each other as well as your children and are split due to circumstances or tragedies that have put you in a state of constant depression, stress, about everything you can imagine in this situation like this, then you must come together and not give up. You must keep moving forward and keep on fighting. Many other people have it a lot easier or a lot worse than me/us but I've certainly come out of the other side a lot more knowledgeable and appreciative of my wife and all the things our family is capable of when we are a team instead of constantly at odds and bickering. We are learning to get along again and not take our stress out on each other and our kids get to enjoy both of their parents as well. This is what it's all about. For all of you going through tough times out there, keep your chin up and like I said, don't stop fighting, don't lose hope, never lose hope. If you truly care about the other person you're married to, you can't lose hope and you need to keep fighting. If you don't, then it's time to pack it up and move on. But if you love her or him, keep fighting, HARD! A little patience and understanding and reassurance to your spouse goes a long ways and a big thanks to my godfather dr jaj who help me using his spiritual power and prayers in keeping my family safe and if any of you out there need an astrologer or a spell caster please email; drjajspellhome@gmail.com or whatsapp +2349031670905 result is 100% guarantee and if also you need any of this other 1) Love Spells2) Lost Love Spells3) Divorce Spells4) Marriage Spells5) Binding Spells6) Breakup Spells7) Banish a past Lover.8.) You want to be promoted in your office
All shall be well, dont quit there is no impossibility with the God we serve , healing is a portion to your kids🙏🙏
😂😂
I believe age doesn't matter in a relationship what matters is for you to have the right person.
Yes. I agree.
🤣🤣🤣the tuktuk comparison is something else🤣🤣🤣u guys u are doing great job continue impacting lives...especially this mellanials time...
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Oops
Am a first born daughter n honestly,,,,, its hard connecting to agemates
Same!
We are together in this
Here I am
Same
So true !
Congrats Zulu... always on point with your answers 🔥🔥💯💯💯
Your really right, am the first born but at 18 l was like 35 in my thinking.l.nwver had friends of my age coz everyone blamed me.for thinking ahead of my age but the problem was p had of responsibilities to work hard and pay for my siblings which one was my dream since childhood considering l was coming from a poor family.
I just love the maturity & ethics with Benjamin...”no gossip here, strictly talk about yourself”👌🏾😄
@Full circle with Joyce,
I will like to suggest a topic with Benjamin.
What does a child need for full development and stability. Is co-parenting a good thing really for the child and will this child be as stable as one who grew in actual family with a father and mother together? What's the psychology behind this.
I think co-parenting does not solve the problem fully. This discussion is very important. Before we get children it is important that we ensure they will have a present father and mother together.
As Benjamin says, children are not born by wind pollination.
I would really love such a discussion. I believe a child who is bred out out of a family set up will lack some thing. Is there some psychology behind this? Benjamin please
Looking forward for this if given attention
Hapa sawa, I look forward to this too.
My advice for men (From personal experience):
1. Raise your (men) own value in relationship, love & the sexual marketplace. Focus on yourself first. It's a competitive world. Nothing is free.
2. Accept that life is not fair.
3. Whining doesn't solve any problem, action does.
4. Take every relationship (including marriage) loosely. Do not hold any relationship tightly.
5. When you are in a relationship, enjoy every moment positively till last. But always keep in mind-- she may leave you or you may leave her (not a big deal). Move on.
6. Never ever be emotionally attached to any woman. Love her, but never ever fall in love with her.
7. Never put her on a pedestal.
8. You need to unlearn many things (from childhood) so that you can learn new things.
9. Grow an abundance mindset and be positive & relaxed always.
10. The above 9 things will solve 95% of relationship problems for today's Men. Good luck
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@@wanyamuthimookariuki2012 really nice
You need to heal
@@Godsmasterpiece33 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂on a serious not....
Applause to the Switch TV team. You guys are doing a great job - keep up with the incredible efforts.
Benjamin U’re amazing n I love it when you come out with the raw truth about this age gap thingy. Your enthusiasm in empowering the youths is top notch👌🏾
Just a suggestion, I don’t mean to run down your answer - for the first question asked, since the victim is already married to her spouse, could she in such a situation be encouraged on how to make her marriage work.
Putting efforts into learning more about family n career development will aid her cognitive development and enhance her maturity while being married.
I believe approaching her question in this way will impact her positively opposed to judging n making her feel she has made a mistake she can’t reverse. Let’s make it a habit to encourage and impact positivity when someone falters - it heals faster than a paid therapy😊
I agree with zulu I am a first born n I rarely related with people of my age I was strictly raised I feel I am over responsible. I agree
I married at 28yrs and she was 22yrs been married for 25yrs now so sometimes I don't agree with Benjamin about age gap,sometimes people mature differently.
He says that they are outliers...meaning you are one of the few people who mature early.
I think what he says reasonates with the young people today ie between 25-35.
Because those were old days of our parents...you can't compare yourself with younger generation
People in the past valued marriage and matured fast 💨
@@cynthiamaua .exactly
This is so educative thank you Benjamin and Joyce 🙏💕
It's very educative , I,m learning a lot thanks . Maturity doesn't always comes with age. Sometimes people grow mature cos of certain event's which happens in life . My grandma married at 18. They stayed until my grandpa left to rest .
Different era today
And nothing to say she was fulfilled..
That was then dear
I can relate to 90% of the things Benjamin has spoken about in regards to first born girls.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
His generator going down has killed me with laughter 😂😂😂😂
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Absolutely true cz l m frist born and l m the one who take care of my family needs evry thing they need is me but if l trip too much wahala.bt l thnk God l do my best.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
*Very true 👌 men do mature slowly, I too I've observed that!*
*Personally I've always thought dating/marrying a man who is younger than me SOUNDS
AWKWARD*
I'm single mum of 2 teenage daughters,I'm not in a hurry to get married again but enjoying life with my kids.....I got pregnant at age 17 by 19 I had 2 kids,never enjoyed my teenage youth but God gave me other ways to enjoy happiness in my life
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
He'll mentor you all the way to heaven🤣🤣🤣🙌
I love Joyce's hairstyle...she is so beautiful.
I was married by a man how was older then me with 15 years and still was staying with his parents it was hell on earth for me 4years latter I just had to leave yes he was married before me and separate with his first wife I came to realise about it when I was pregnant...so a man can be older and still be like a boy
Snapple Apple Fact Beautiful
Watching from Zambia. Mr zulu makes alot of sense
Just recently finished high school then came across this.... Thank you so much....now I'm very sure that I won't make a mistake
Focus!focus. You have no business being in a relationship. Chase your dreams, know who you are before 25
Benja always on point: are you going to be his partner or his nurse?!…😂
I felt that "Don't come here to gossip your uncle."
😂😂😂😂😂 the response was funny 😂😂
Hahahahaha, waah!
Classiest lady on Kenya TV
Are you a partner or 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Benjamin you always make my day ....listening from Zambia
Wow👏👏 it's the CHARACTER that stays👍 super awesome. Benjamin Zulu👏👍👏👏👍. And always remember CHARACTER is not a gift but a VICTORY.
im just siping my worraa... learning from the best.. i know when the time comes i will be all round
Always keeping it real. I hope we are all taking notes
What this guy is saying is very true. Actually the problem is we as women we screwed towards marriage. It's like we are groomed to be married one of these days which is not how it's supposed to be. Ladies let's work towards our dreams please.
I agree hapo kwa first born daughters. To date I find it easy to relate with older people. It's just how I was raised.
Me too being the eldest I relate more with adults
It seems we're many😊.
I relate too! I'm the first born child .I relate with men way older than me..
Same to me
I totally agree , relate with older people more
Always such a pleasure to watch and learn 😍
The pastor's exploration period😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thanks for the work done.
I appreciate.
Thank you Benjamin and Joyce. We all need to be prepared and experience life on our own before committing to another human being. Don't Rush!
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I believe you must have hacked into Benjamin Zulu account... A believer IN CHRIST cannot be spiritually attacked!!! Let that women keep monitoring and plotting delay, I'll keep soaring higher and higher! Christ is in me so no shaking!
Very informative! Thanks Zulu
I used to think Zulu was bit harsh with the 'Lady must be over 25' story, but woow he is so right, recently I had to deal with someone whos bellow 25 years and they are going to be a mom soon😎 literally u can feel that as though they are going through this stage of their life with half brain, the teenage brain truly can not fully comprehend certain stages of life...goodbess, Lord have mercy🙏
Great topic, It have changed my perspective of seeing things in a marriage of agemates.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Benjamin speaks facts only!!! Out of experience, I can attest. I wish this show started 5yrs ago.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
This guy needs a CZcams channel...so hilarious
He does its called Benjamin Zulu Global
I think we may need a segment focusing on first born daughters because I need some help lol
Strongly seconded. We really need help.
So true
Me too
Benjamin and Joyce... Thank you so much... First born, we get our special package always 🥰😂...
Marriage is ministry!!
I enjoyed watch his show today
This man is talking absolutely truth💯💯💯
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@@favoursenfuma1500 Amen
True. Benjamin. First born dotaz we are brought up with lots of responsibilities. I agree with you. All you are saying is so right. Thanks for educating us. Joyce looking beautiful and smart.
Benjamin is right. My mum got married below age 25 and I watched her get educated, evolve and remain miserable and depressed throughout her marriage until she passed away.
True first borns were strictly raised.. Am one of them waaah!
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on (+2349159597426) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you