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How are you all doing, really?
Kind of depressed
horrible :(
i'm very stressed but happy
I am breathing what about you??
Horrible.. this video helped me a lot. Love
It's crazy how people talk about their sadness with a smile.
Because the smile keeps you from crying
@@ana-in1ws exactly
It's a way of not having to feel the depth of your pain. We learn this through situations in which we are hurt and lost our trust. It also ain't usual to talk about your true feelings, people sometimes don't know how to even do this, laughing then makes us feel more comfortable.
@@marliesvdlangemheen exactly it is for comfort
Bc they're on camera
The dude who said
"It's kinda hard to choose which "you" you want to pursue" 😭
Orfeas Siozos Mr. Nobody whatch that movie
Me in a nut shell 😶😔
My soul felt that
i felt that
Was at a cross roads - choosing between Science me, Computer me, Business me...laid off in science, recently graduated from Computers lol ... I hope this me is good enough for the cosmos
''I like being alive but I am confused.'' -me everyday for the last 31 years
Sorry to hear that!
Some words of encouragement, I hope: Jesus is the Way, the Truth, and the Life. He is objective truth, and once we have Him and learn about His church, life begins to make so much sense. :)
same...
Edit: last 58 years
@@st.michaelthearchangel7774 OMIFUCKINGJESUSHCHRIST I am SO fucking sick of these religious Jesus is the way comments. Jesus is a figment of someone’s imagination. Get that through your head & stop offering it up as the save all for everything. It’s a load of bullshit.
@@snarkasticsquid2435 They just said their beliefs chill tfo.
A lot of times its easier to talk to a stranger.......
Very true, I can't share my mental illness problems with my family but sometimes CZcams comments and people on CZcams give me hope to keep living and not take my own life.
yes you are so right
Yeah. From my experience it’s because we probably won’t ever see the person again, so just unloading our heart to them with that in mind can be easier. It’s not like we will go home and see them again, and are around them every day, so momentarily telling them things doesn’t feel as much of a threat.
Something like that.
I know for a fact it’s easier to talk to a stranger. providing they’re normal I’d suggest they’d be more objective about my story because they don’t know me & therefore more considerate than judgemental family
i would tell ppl i’m close to about my anxiety, and how i just feel stressed all the time but i’m afraid they’d be mad i didn’t tell them before, and that’d just make me feel even more stressed. i know it probably wouldn’t happen but i can’t convince myself otherwise when i try to talk to ppl irl abt it
They’re smiling because they didn’t want to cry.
Its Noah_04 "if you're not laughing, you're crying," is something i've found myself telling myself & others more & more often these days.
For me I smile becasuse I don't want people to feel sad
A smile isn’t always a mask
shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiittt
@@mypandawilleatyou38 true if you're with the people you love
I would tell a stranger how I am doing much more willingly than I would tell my family or my therapist
So how are you doing?
Wow I feel the same....idk why but its so hard for me to open up to people that are close to me....I feel vulnerable and kinda bad too....but at the same time....I feel lonely for never sharing what is really going on
@@GuilhermeSilva-qg1jr How are you doing, really?
Sameeeee
Why would you tell a stranger more willingly than your therapist? The question is not meant judgemental, I really want to understand better.
“ i told my dad how i was feeling and then he just said let’s go for a walk and then we just talked about it” this is so heartwarming, being a supportive parent it really costs nothing.
@Caitilin Reitmeyer I wish I grow up with my parents either. They have their own family now... And they're happy...
So... I understand where you're going with this point. But, like... Being supportive costs nothing. Being a *parent* is like one of the most expensive endeavors you can ever go through.
@Caitilin Reitmeyer There are plenty of people who are happy to give support to others. Few people get the support they want and need from their parents. It only takes one supportive person who makes a difference. But throughout life you can find many along the way. Some are temporary, and some are for a lifetime. Reach out with openess and honesty to people with similar experiences to you. Particularly those who are further along a path you want to go on. It might not be obvious to others that you need or want support. What kinds of support would you like to have? It useful to know what you are looking for. You wrote this comment, and I responded, and I am just one! 💜
@Caitilin Reitmeyer Yes! :) 💜
You're really lucky, really.. Many of us , me don't have that.. They just don't believe us ..
"I met somebody, who makes me feel like home" I hope some day i'll able to experience that feeling
You will
Imagine knowing you never will
I felt it once 💓🙏🏼
Have you yet?
@@angelinalovescoco my best friend:)
If someone ask me this, I would probably cry.
AJAX because tottenham?
@@AnimationBoss1 ahahahaha would be funny if it were the case 😂😂😂😂
just smile and the sadness is gonna fade away and do what u love
I love u
Same. My life sucks now
Isnt it crazy that 90% of the people are not doing fine?!
Not really most ppl struggle threw life such as myself and a lot of ppl try to hide there struggles and seem fine
That’s why I love her content so much, I’m trying to make similar, but i feel the more we talk about stuff like this and normalize it, the happier of a world we will live in!
@@prismathefur7736 don't worry is life everything will end and get solved just take it easy.
It's actually not, tbh it's sad
Queen C. Vlogs but that’s exactly why we need more of this content, because the more it gets talked about the more we can heal as a society!
If people asked teenagers this question more often and listened to them instead of scolding them, teenage suicide rates would fall so much.
true…
I wouldn’t tell anyone anything lol
Yeahh .. All they have to do is just be there and talk...
underrated comment
If only more people cared and really listened.
I miss that feeling of just being a kid 3:11
We all have to return to this state of being a children for whom a good thing was just waking up after a good sleep
@@forgetit8852 *a child
Honestly, I always wake up after a good sleep. Otherwise I would be dead or in coma.
Sad...but true😐
an innocent and carefree life
@@NipapornP A kid*
"We saw some baby ducks that are now grown, ya know like they're getting on with life so I guess I should be able to get on.''
Bless his heart😭
Rosalie Barvik That part made me cry. No matter the complexities of life we all draw back to the simple things and that's beautiful
I'm glad I wasn't the only one that was taken back by what he said. I couldn't figure out why but I teared up.
@@jmacsss you're never the only one
that was such a perfect moment
I love what he said, it should be a quote or something. He's so smart
3:12 i loved the childs answer.a childs innocence is such a beautiful thing. He woke up feeling nice. So precious
Right? I love that and then you grow up and the society show real face or you see it different and the child innocense is taken from us. But we have to stay positive and keep/hold on to inner child.
It's crazy thinking and remembering a time when I just woke up without a care or worry in the world.
Makes me super appreciate having a pretty good and normal childhood.
It’s good to see kids that are just...kids.
And I have to agree, so pure. ♥️
I know right..It made me smile to see a kid happy tbh ...so real and pure I loved it..
Wish i was still a kid
That little kid waking up feeling nice and good. Hit differently man.
Yea...
This is what struck me too. That childlike innocence and carelessness. It's sad how much we lose of that with time.
All I want is to wake up feeling nice I miss the feeling of being a kid
"a lot of days i just wanna go home, lay on the floor and scream :)"
*i feel you.*
shut up
As do I ❤
"I just want to go home, lay down on the floor and scream"
That actually sounds good
I’ve done that sometimes it works sometimes I still feel like shit
I hope that in the days that doesn't work you can find a way to feel better ✨
All my neighbours know I did it numerous times.
@@alextarot does it work?
@@gloriasainhas7739 no it doesn't.
The most simple question with the most difficult answer
N M haha right?
True. It requires lots of self-knowledge. Which is hard, especially when you’re not used to spending time with yourself and really taking care of yourself.
It’s like asking what’s your favorite [ ]
N M for real tho
Actually quite a complicated question, but we throw it around all the time like it's not. How am I doing?! When one feels and experiences so many different things at once it's hard to even answer that honestly for myself at any given moment.
If it wasn’t for Thoraya filming people extremely up close like that, we wouldn’t know how beautiful humanity really is. ❤️
🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭😭YesssssYessssss
Love!
True
if someone smiles while talking about their stress, depression and sadness, watch out for them. Not when they look sad while talking about it.
Yeah
underrated comment
Watch out for them in what sense? Watch out for them as in be aware that they may be in a terrible place emotionally/mentally or as in watch out they don't smack.you with a hammer when you turn around?
@@TataMataAkrobata Most people won't smack you
@@TataMataAkrobata watch out for them as, they are probably in a terrible place emotionally/mentally. Speaking from experience!
"I met someone who feels like home."
"what does home feel like?"
"safe"
i had chills. everything i've ever dreamed of feeling. so happy for her.
Beautiful💯
She's right, it took me finding the right person to realize home is not a place, it has a heartbeat.
I met someone and it felt like that, we were together for 3 and half years and then she cheated on me and tossed me away like trash, I haven't even seen her since I found out she cheated. It's been months and I still cry every day.
My favorite answer. It brought tears to my eyes..
@@ivoryandgold88 I just literally quoted you! That is soooo true. You just made my day!
There was a particular comment "if i die who is going to look after my birds" I think that is a beautiful way to think. There is never an inadequate reason to be alive.
I'm only living because my dog would miss me
Same, I would change my mind about not living because I don't trust my family to take care of my fish.
😂 my reason to live is because my brother has horrible depression and is bipolar so I feel like that would be selfish of me to just make him worse 😂 that and my mom would probably be really sad
Suha Nasir I love you for saying this we need more people like you.
@@mmysam420 Thanks, my mom always just wants to put him (my fish) in a small bowl as decoration but I saved him from being a table centerpiece at a baby shower in the first place
"I like to be alive" that made me tear up cause I want to really feel that again
yes
I feel yoy
you will feel it someday. Just live your real life.
I dont know if you'll read this, but please keep going. I was in that situation too, not so long ago. i almost had no hope, but i just.. kept going. i dont know why but i did. its all about the small little changes. try to make yourself feel better each day, dont rush it and dont take overwhelming big steps. maybe try to take a shower again, a short walk outside. if thats too much for first, its okay. then try opening the curtains just a bit more. try brushing your teeth. but just keep going. because i promise you i promise you, there is light in the end of the tunnel.
11:57 weird how she's the only one who asked the question back
True. Nice observation. People need to be more kind
You don't know that, though. It could be the only one that she kept in the video.
well, it's an interview, it makes sense that people wouldn't think they're supposed to ask
It was part of her difficulty answering.
Honestly "I'm fine" is the most common lie ever. How often have I asked my friends knowing there's more beneath the surface, only to be told that they're fine. Sometimes I wish I could heal people's deep wounds.
Kamigon That is very beautiful that you wish you could help people heal. I am sure your friends are very blessed to have you.
As an Aquarius I say that “I’m fine” a lot because of how emotionally reserved I am
Kamigon, you're a wonderful creature. People around you are the luckiest. Lotsa love💖
I feel this so much. I only want to help people but everybody is fake with their emotions because people always try to break them down.
Tumblr 101
“Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind, always.”
Noora
Welcome to Life. I don’t have to be kind nor do I expect others to be. That’s not the real fkng world
True
Skam ❤️
Bug Eye nor do you have to completely neglect the idea. A little positive thinking is mutual both to the person thinking and to the person it is about
“The world just feels so big right now... There’s so many ‘me’s that could be spread out at this point... and it’s kind of hard to choose which one i want to pursue.” YES, what a good articulation of how I feel so often, especially as I’m going into my last year of highschool...
Yeah me too I really need to decide where I wanna go and what I wanna do
Reason for us to be more tolerant of other people: underneath the clothes and styles we portray we are all sad, scared, worried.
"I'm really happy, cus I met someone who feels like home." Damn
Ross Sandeman I wish to say that someday.. I have lost all hope and trust in people. I feel soo numb but i miss that feeling of fully trusting someone and making them a part of my life.. 😭
I’ve had I think two people like that, but because I move so much and family issues on both sides, we just got out of touch. It’s the best feeling in the world.
How bout it ..
Ross Sandeman same
So envious
Lesson from this, get a reason to live, even if it's your birds
I've got many reasons..."I speak for the trees"
Okay, from this day on I will live for the chocolate bar across my room. What if I end up eating it, though?
@@azeylacalaty3182 If you eat it, theres gonna have to be someone there to buy another one 👌
@@MedievalWaffle365 Haha, that's actually smart but what if there's no one to buy you one?
kamara ssakka mine is my dog
3:40 I wish she never loses her 'home'😊
"how are you doing, really?"
completely horrible.. I feel so numb, empty, heartbroken and all the worst things you could possibly think of. But I'll just say I'm fine...as always :)
Better days will come. Keep pushing forward even if it seems impossible. It'll be worth it.
*internet hug*
Don't worry :)
Everyone's struggling right now, I'm struggling, but we'll get through it :)
I hope you will get better soon
Feelings come and go and those feelings you describe will pass. I remind myself of this truth when I don't feel too good. Sending you love and light. ❤️
thanks guys💗
@@broken_orbit7535 have faith
We all are connected in either way dear
You are loved
You are beautiful
You are complete
6:33 "I like being alive but I'm confused"
Oh girl, this one hit me HARD. Great video, as always.
Agnes yeah for sure, I’m in the same exact place right now
SAME
Same
Agnes, I’m your 1,000th like!
yes.
I wanna help the first girl so bad...
If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.
I wanna help her too.
siri olseon thank you
I couldn't tell if she had depression?
so heartbreaking
To admit pain. To admit you re feeling weak, lost or lonely is to admit you're human. We're not alone.
Honestly, I'm depressed and stressed and scared. I'm afraid of being alone and I'm fighting my own battles. Physically life is great but I don't give myself enough credit, I over think everything, stress things I shouldn't and I try to make everyone BUT myself happy. I'm insecure about my body and face and its just hard...I'm trying though...
just keep trucking along, life is hard and we all face struggles. but you will overcome any obstacle as long as you push on. You got this, me and 40 others can relate since we liked your comment. your voice is heard! much love and hope the best for you. we are all in this together!
You can see this sadness and pain in some faces :\
it's unfortunate that most people don't see it until it's brought to their attention.
If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.
True, that really hurts
Mini mimi kindred vibes
"I'm kinda feeling numb.. like I'm not getting better or getting worse"
dang I feel that 😔❤
Want to talk about it? :)
That's where I've been for a while and like the girl said, it's not a good feeling at all.
Ya it's weird, I've been in extreme emotional pain and distress for months and I feel like I'm becoming numb, although I still cry everyday. It seems like improvement in some ways but it sure doesn't feel like it feels better.
Dankman9 why have u been in emotional Laib
@@mifp2498 Long story short, my (ex)GF was cheating on me. Once I found out she just tossed me away like trash and never came home. Been struggling hard, I thought we were gonna spend our lives together, I had boughten her ring and everything. :(
"I'm lonley but I have really great friends"
the fact that all these people are strangers proves that you should always be kind for you never know what the other person is going through
"whos gonna take care of my birds and draw my drawings.. I have to do that"
I felt so proud of her for saying all that and I hope she’s doing so much better these days!
I absolutely loved her answer!!! And I loved that she had enough courage to reach out to her dad and be like you know what I’m not okay and the words and effort he poured into her by taking her on a walk mattered to her and stuck with her and to me that says volumes about how we need to speak up when we’re not okay and also stop whatever we are doing and pour into someone when they’re hurting. We have become so isolated it is causing a major decline in our mental health.
I really got that answer!! It ain't much but nobody else can do it!!!!! I loved hearing about her father helping out!!!!
Older people:
The new generation has it so easy!!
This generation:
Depressed,socially anxious,anorexic,anxious in general,empty,numb,fake smiles,etc.
Edit:
How the flippin' waffles did I get so many likes for something unoriginal?!?!?!
(My way of saying thanks!)
Edit 2:
Okay,now I'm starting to think CZcams is drunk.
In all honesty, I haven't met many older people who say that. People from both generations have their own issues that they're dealing with.
@@nasaspacerock3398 I agree but I posted it cuz I'm unoriginal.
@@enzo8331 points for honesty lmao
@@nasaspacerock3398 Thanks!lulz.
“it’s those damn pesky iphones isn’t it” debra for the love of fuck my phone is the only source of happiness for me
Me: living my life.
Someone: asks how I'm doing
Me: crying.
Why? Are things better now?
First time I cried was in 2015 and I felt so very ashamed of myself for that. I also remembered at the same time how my abusive father would often say to me, "Stop feeling for yourself! You're selfish! Think about your poor sisters!" I have learned that there is nothing shameful about crying and that the reason we have tear ducts is so we can cry and release what hurts us.
I understand how the young lady who feels numb perfectly. Not getting worse, but not getting better either. These videos are the first things I watch in the mornings and they do positively affect how the rest of my day goes. It's better to cry happy tears that painful tears. Love you all. Be kind. ❤🥰
yeah ,me too
it's a real awaking not from dream, but from life
I need this. I’m tiered of answering “good” when someone asks how am I.
Move to Finland 😀 People here ask "how are you doing" only when they want the real answer, and when the question is asked, people give the real answer. Finns mean what they say, with other things too.
I'm moving to the US to live with my boyfriend, and I hope some day I will get used to your culture of communicating. It makes me a lil nervous 😳
It's just small talk. They don't really care, so please don't start telling them your life story.
@@crusaderofthelowlands3750 Surely people ask their friends at least how they are really doing? What is friendship without real sharing?
They don't ask how I am nobody does
@@crusaderofthelowlands3750 fuck off
Can you do another “How are you doing, really?” Again? That should be a weekly or monthly video. People really need to be asked that more often
True 😂
You start asking
yes, gives me comfort that I'm not the only one having a tough time much of the time. some real shit.
Mood I want to be asked that
Yes!
If I was asked this question I know I wouldn’t be able to speak. This world June of 2020 is a horrible place to be
I feel you. We are thankful for being alive and deadly scared at the same time
dont worry girls!! it will be okay soon! I wish you good luck and keep smile on your face :)
btw. at least - it will be July and not the June tommorow ;-)
Me too it's July feeling so low kind of don't know what to do....
is it better, girls? :)
how are you girls now? is it good? or at least better? tell me (us) it, I really want to know it, if you are good, trust me :)
I swear I'd cry if I was asked this. Not the usual "how r doing?" Where I don't really get to be honest because I wouldn't want to waste anyone's time.
These videos inspire me and help me become a much better and kinder person. Thank you
It's interesting how the kid in this video talks about how he feels on that day and time; shows how children live more in the moment.
Yo Lo Yes! Good point. Didn’t even realize that till I read your comment.
I wish I could not have to worry about the next five years too :(
Yeah but they are kids, no jobs, no things to take care of or worry about. So...
@@raydaveed it depends what age group you consider kids.
@@tahera1320 Below 14 yo for me they are kids. After that teenagers etc...
It’s amazing how so many of these people all say “I’m good” until they’re really asked how they’re doing.
*We’re all struggling.*
Oh Hi ikr
Oh Hi true and it’s honestly sad
That’s so true, we are all struggling.
Not everyone is struggling.
DVSM yes , everyone is struggling , you would be lying is you say not so.
I wanna hug everyone in this video so bad.
dont care
@@JustAnotherUserx What?
u heard me
@@JustAnotherUserx But what do you mean
what i just aaid
This video tells us why we have to be just nice to others, we really don’t know what they’re going through!
Underrated comment.
If i would tell the whole world one thing it would be this
WoW mental health needs to be taken so much more serious. Its a real big issue these days😢
Very good comment.
Not Bothered it’s been such a big issue forever, but I’m sooooo glad that creators like her are bringing to the forefront, it really makes me so happy. When we can bring it to light and talk about it, healing can begin. ☺️
It's not a mental issue. It's lack of Light in the world
Ouroboros Institute i don’t think it’s ALWAYS been such a big issue , I think since Today we’re alreay so technologically advanced and we’re so DISCONNECTED from nature we lose a sense of purpose AND this leads to confusion and depression. Its a common problem nowadays especially in first world countries.
Not Bothered If people would get outside of their own little neurotic bubble and off of effn Snapchat and Facebook and Twitter and stop subjecting themselves to criticism and hatred, many would be a lot happier. Everyone is into instant gratification and everything is supposed to come to you without working for it. Blows my mind.
"i just wanna go home, lay on my floor and scream. that is how i'm doing" that hit me so hard..
I don't wanna scream though. Im not angry at anything just tired and empty inside
Thats soo me
“Sometimes you gotta give yourself credit for the things you have accomplished”. This is so spot on. She’s wise. We should all take that seriously. We can often focus on what we don’t have or what we haven’t accomplished, when we should take time to appreciate what we have and what we’ve already accomplished.
It‘s really sad to see that there is literally no one who can say 'I‘m happy‘ with everything that is going on. Everyone is suffering, in any kind of way. That is really sad to know. You go out there and you know that like everyone is suffering somehow. We should care about ourselves more.
the guy talking about baby ducks is so pure. also, that happy kid saying they woke up feeling good is amazing to hear.
i really felt what he was saying. It's overwhelming tryna pick which "me" to be
I know 99% of people won’t see this...
But to the 1% have an amazing day! 👍
Thanks! You too :)
Same
Thank you
ty :) you too
Ty, u too :)
Hey you scrolling through the comments...are you okay? Remember that I love you ❤
I love you too😊❤️. I'm doing okay, just have a few things I need to work on.
Then she finds out a registered sex offender commented
Thanks so much
@@richiedebosspoptarts3583 HAHAHA
❤️
i’m surprised a lot of people actually shared how they’re really doing
“I met somebody that feels like home”
I feel that. I know that feeling.
Same, sucks when things don't work out w that person, like u feel lost again
Never lasts lol. Pathetic how desperate weak humans are 🤮
@@bugeye8749 I'm sorry you've been hurt so badly
@@MidnightSonnet never place your happiness in someone elses hands..because if you are happy only because of someone else that is not real happiness, and when they leave they will take your happiness with them.
I hope i'm gonna know that feeling too, one day
When that girl said, "if I die who's gonna take care of my birds?" I lost it.
I am struggling with a meth addiction, getting ready to divorce my emotionally/mentally abusive husband of 35 years, 65 with crippling sciatica, working in a physically and mentally challenging low-paying job which hardly pays the bills, in a tenuous relationship with my family, have not been able to connect with people who I can trust, dealing with rape trauma, and wondering how the hell I got to this point in my life. I pray every day that God will give me a path out of this mess and bring me to a place of peace and joy. I teeter every day between slight hopefulness and despair. I blame no one but myself for my situation but I hope that despite any ways I may screw up, there’s something better coming for me. These videos have helped because I was finding it hard to believe in anything good existing without a nasty twist. I hope and pray that all the people in these interviews are finding what they need and want. We all deserve love and second chances.
Stay strong. I have you in my thoughts.
@@monagill6282 thanks!
The way the world works in favor of the rich; leaving most people stressed and depressed. I mean, it’s sad really.
"Good"
"I am having a nice day and I woke up feeling nice."
"Good."
The way this precious child said those words.
Awww, I wish I could shield her from every thing terrible the world has to offer until she is a mentally and emotional stable adult.
How the fuck dare you assume that child's gender you racist facist sexist bigot.
Well I guess you can't be an emotionally stable adult without being exposed to the world though right? :)
Ahmed Benhariz calm down, it's not a big deal
If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.
Pretty sure it was a boy...
Everyone: talking about their problems
This guy 10:21: doing a reflection about what he ate for lunch
He’s like a lower pitched Griffin McElroy
iTs dInNeR TiMe
Such a mood
Hes not reflecting on what he ate, but rather sharing something that bothers him....It obviously concerns him....He may well have an stomach ulcer, or Esophogitis ...which would cause him digestive problems and also give him a gnawing sensation , in his stomach, as the acids build up ....When he eats , it will usually calm the pain and gnawing in his stomach.....but a few hours later, he will get indigestion .....So, poor guy.... He needs to take an alcaline remedy and Magnesium ...
He may be in a dissociative state, or someone who has Alexithymia. He looked like he was really trying to describe emotions... but came up with the description of hunger. That's not really an answer to "how are you doing?" It is hard for some people to answer this question truthfully in general also.
The fact that people ask themselves how they are doing after you asked them, and don't know the answer, really hits me.
if i was asked that question in person, i would probably bawl my eyes out...
Play piano 💜
Me too
MiriamPlaysPiano me too and I would talk for 10 hours😂
Me too 😔
Me too
*me:* watching memes and laughing
*youtube:* i'm gonna have to stop you right there
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I loled
@@alyibrahim Nobody said otherwise though... Lol
Relateable
CZcams: " Go ahead and log off for me"
The guy who ate something bad but still felt hungry and looked forward to sleeping is the realest person in the video
This makes me so sad that so many people are having a hard time but also comforts me in a way. Just to know that I’m not the only one struggling. I wish people would ask this more and also answer more honestlyx
«We saw some baby ducks that grew all up and if they’re gettin on with life I guess I should to»
Yes.
that dude is deep lol
Video hasn’t even started, but just reading the title made me cry
same
I was ugly crying. I would never be able to be asked this type of question. Id have a whole breakdown in public
Feel you bruh...
Feel you bruh....
That's me
'I'm not getting better but I'm not getting worse' I feel that with my whole heart 💜
"im not getting better but im not getting worse" it is a very frustrating feeling
Felt that. It's just kind of being in a limbo, or suspension where it's almost nothing.
"I'm scared that I have to work from 9 am to 5 pm for the rest of my life and not do anything I want... I want to figure out how to set myself long term to be happy" Damn... This is tough and might be (probably), the main root cause of depression nowadays.
this hits super hard for me, because seeing my parents and people these days it just seems like at my age (early 20s) noone really knows where they're going or what they should do to be happy. I'm graduating in a couple weeks and i'm terrified thinking about where to go and what to do.
@@hibye-by3yb it's okay not to know where you are going because it takes work experience and a time to self reflect to discover who you are. Be humble, talk to different people, get out of your comfort zone and when you are stressed out take a moment to find peace.
@@350zay2 that's very reassuring, my classmates from highschool all seem stuck. We're all not able to move on except for the few who have their life together which makes us super anxious. Guess we all need to take a step back and go at our own pace because this is our first life. Thanks older person, I was in a mood rn, but you made it better
I had these feeling when in university and in my early career. I think something that people could benefit from realizing is that working 9 to 5 isn't going to stop you from living a purposeful life. For me it's almost the opposite. Having a stable work situation enabled me to do MUCH more with the time outside of my "9 to 5".
I work 8pm to 11am on a baitfish boat pulling nets lol dont be too sad
No one’s ever asked me how I’m doing really. No one’s ever asked me how I’m doing.
But I’ll survive. We’ll survive
How are you doing? I honestly hipe you have several reasons to smile each day
Thank you. And I’m doing okay. I’m a fortunate person with a fortunate life. Plenty would love to be in my shoes, however, for me happiness is based on more than just materials. I am somewhat happy, don’t get me wrong,
But I’ve had to leave many people behind and many have left me. So I’m just trying to find someone who’ll love and care for me, as I do for them. But patience is key, and I’ll be alright. I’ll find that true happiness.
Thank you again for asking. And how are you?
@the burritø gone incognitø I am sending a whole lot of love and hugs your way .
hey hey hey, I want to intervene and say that you are all loved and all will be well. maybe better than now. just .... be positive and you will attract positivity, be good and you will attract the good .. no one is alone in this world. absolutely no one.
and surely for each of us, someone will appear and take our heart into their hands, and then ... then we will heal ourselves completely. then we will remember the things for which we ask today. you have patience, everything comes from itself. allow things to come exactly as they were written.
I love you all and hope you have a better life as the day goes on !!!💕💕💕
And maybe one day, triumph. If we put in the work, we won't even have to believe in it.
I actually ask every single person i know “how are you really?” genuinely
Communication is the #1 in the community. We need more of this❤
Am I the only one who has mastered a fake smile but when I get 'home' it goes away? 🙃
Yep that's me. Xx
I just put it on when I get "home"
Same here... doing it every single day, stay strog tho' everything passes
You're not alone.
I know what you mean. My life feels like the line in that old song, "The tears of a clown when there's no one around". I put on a happy face to show the world but I'm dieing inside and don't want to show the pain.
The "how are you doing, really?" should be a series - I can't get enough of hearing what everybody has to say to this question.
I agree, Cassidy. This makes me feel more welcome in the human world.
Same
There's a podcast with guests basically based on this question.
@@EridanP drop the name sis
@@albertofiorentini6594 It's called Terrible Thanks For Asking (ttfa) There's even an episode called "How are you?"
"Sometimes.. you don't give yourself enough credit for the things you have accomplished"
Wow that hit hard..
This episode really resonated with me. All too often when asked "how are you?" my quick response is always "im okay" in fear of people not really wanting to hear the long version. So far, no one has asked for an in depth response or questioned if i'm really "okay". It's easy for me to pretend & put a smile on like everything is great, but on the inside, my mind is at war fighting a battle i'm struggling to win sometimes. I strive to provide that space to so many, but I often feel that falls short for myself. This video inspires me to create a vlog on my page to bring to light what i'm truly feeling. I hope we can all bring to light the importance of mental health & how normal it is to be able to express our true emotions without judgement.
Thats actually kinda funny.. I used to be this same way. Untill I hit a certain point and I just started asking them "do you want to know how I actually feel or do you just want to hear that im fine?". At this point.. If they answer that they don't want to hear than I just generally stop talking to them, even co workers. I'll avoid them purposely. Somebody truly want to hear how you feel and some don't. That's just reality, sadly.
hello to the people reading this, i really hope you are doing great, you deserve it.
Thanks, you too
Thank you so much...I hope you’re doing amazing and continue to grow & live out your dreams! You, too, deserves it ❤️
Thank you 💜 you too
Thank you, same for you girl! ❤️❤️
Thank you, I needed this. I hope you are doing great too, you deserve it as well!
Stumbled on this page during a rough patch. It brought me so much hope, sadness, and joy. Thank you for all of these feelings and everyone who shared.
I just found your videos and you made my heart feel so much peace towards people as a society. On social media you find so many horrible things that a certain part of your mentality starts to change and you start to see double intentions in everyone even if there are none.
This makes me feel close to the rest of the people in the world, everyone lives their own story and goes through their own afflictions, but we all live in our own bubbles and ignore that there is so much beyond ourselves that we can learn from each other.
i wouldve bursted into tears the second i was asked this question, oh my
Sameeee
/hugs me 2
I feel you
Omg same
*sigh* same, friend
You should do a video called “answer the question you want me to ask”
That's good!
❤️❤️
That's brilliant!
yes!! this!!
I love that idea.
This video would be on a whole other level if it was made this year. I personally almost cried just by reading the title of the video.
❤
Honestly I don’t remember what it is like to feel happy
10:21 This Man is so funny. How he talked about that his stomach doesn’t agree with what he was eating but starting to be hungry again and that feels weird. 😂😂
Looking forward to sleeping, too! Yaasss😊😊❤
If you are struggling with mental health please look into Any Cutlers work, and start by reading the success stories and then the article by Rebecca Rust Lee on the Weston Price website. This underlying issue is much more common than what you would think.
Actually I feel his pain because you can have chronic illnesses and not be diagnosed yet, so he might not know yet that he has a health issue - I know exactly what he's talking about and digestion problems and pains are so awful which isn't really that funny. Just saying
I think he’s lactose intolerant and he doesn’t know it yet
Heartmindandsoul_ FR I WAS DYINGGG
This was very eye-opening at how much everyone else is suffering too cuz sometimes it feels like you’re alone.
This is the most human thing I have ever seen, on any platform. Thank you for putting this together.
this is great cuz no one really does this enough, someone asks you and you feel compelled to just say "fine" or "good" because you don't want to alienate people you meet by telling them all the shit you're going through. I've told my therapist so much and my mom, but it would be nice if someone came up to me that genuinely cared that didn't have an agenda or is doing it because they have to, I would feel comfortable sharing but I know that most people aren't comfortable getting into those kind of discussions or hearing the answer. Thank you for this.
„There are so many alternative me‘s that could spread out from this point“ dude that hit me🤯
Great for people’s mental health. You’re making a better world.
I always come back to this video when I’m stressed, knowing people deep down people are having struggles. I can relate so much to them. I hope life is better for all of them❤️.
On a side note, I think with times we are going through right now, I think we need another one of these videos.
i love watching these videos when i first wake up . it makes me feel that i am truly not alone . that i’m not as terribly different than the rest , emotionally .
it makes me realize that there is always a way . it just starts with how your handling what’s thrown in .
if you ever interview me for this you better NOT zoom in on my face lol
Lol, same! It’s much too zoomed in
Or just dont appear in the vid at all lol
Zooming in on the face like that cuts out everything and let's you focus on the people talking and the raw emotion in their facial expressions.
lmaoooo