America's First Cremation Was WILD

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    "Why the First Cremation in the U.S. Was So Controversial"
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  • @mortua_conjuga
    @mortua_conjuga Před 3 lety +2399

    "slathered in herbs and spices" dude was seasoned before being cooked.

  • @invaderpopz
    @invaderpopz Před 3 lety +2880

    the people who disliked are all 150 year old anti-cremation reporters

    • @invaderpopz
      @invaderpopz Před 3 lety +34

      omg I cant believe you hearted my comment thank you! I'm a HUGE fan of you and the channel and what you do!

    • @lornaduwn
      @lornaduwn Před 3 lety +9

      Or maybe they just think that poor, Hispanic, Asian, American Indian or even white people should be eligible for her scholarship.

    • @jodysales2362
      @jodysales2362 Před 3 lety

      Ha

    • @NZKiwi87
      @NZKiwi87 Před 3 lety +7

      @@lornaduwn huh?

    • @cherrybrown8486
      @cherrybrown8486 Před 3 lety +30

      @@lornaduwn Hey those sorts of scholarships do exist. Also this comment wasn’t about that? Just like the scholarship, sometimes things aren’t about certain things and that’s ok. Sometimes a comment isn’t about a scholarship. Sometimes a scholarship isn’t about certain people.

  • @Nick_Lewis
    @Nick_Lewis Před 3 lety +2118

    “I’m churning butter... that should be obvious” I was like “why is Caitlin rowing a boat.” 😂

    • @Rowancat11
      @Rowancat11 Před 3 lety +95

      I was going with Charon and the river Styx, myself. ^^

    • @AlvarodeAlmeidaSantos
      @AlvarodeAlmeidaSantos Před 3 lety +18

      Same here Nick. I was certain she was rowing.

    • @TheMonstercreator1
      @TheMonstercreator1 Před 3 lety +32

      Thought she was churning the body after not knowing what to do with it tbh

    • @bestbi3587
      @bestbi3587 Před 3 lety +32

      I thought she was stirring a cauldron

    • @wyndhamcoffman8961
      @wyndhamcoffman8961 Před 3 lety +30

      I thought she was sweeping the floor in an old timy manner.

  • @therichlife8657
    @therichlife8657 Před 3 lety +730

    She’s such a good story teller.
    I could listen to her stories for hours.

    • @Jason.cbr1000rr
      @Jason.cbr1000rr Před 2 lety +4

      Lol yes she is and adds great humor and entertainment to it too! How old are you btw chick? Im curious cos i csnt figure your age and i like to figure ppls and and normally guess it right.. ok im guessing 27? Thanks chick.

    • @yourstepdad7285
      @yourstepdad7285 Před 2 lety +33

      @@Jason.cbr1000rr this is such a creepy
      Comment

    • @parkchimmin7913
      @parkchimmin7913 Před 2 lety +9

      @@Jason.cbr1000rr That’s suspicions-

    • @user-ut4tk4ph5z
      @user-ut4tk4ph5z Před 2 lety +5

      @@Jason.cbr1000rr
      Average discord mod

    • @naomistarr2099
      @naomistarr2099 Před 2 lety

      @@yourstepdad7285 i⁸7⁷88 a bit ⁸⁸ it would

  • @molasismusic224
    @molasismusic224 Před 3 lety +2734

    "Cleanliness is next to Godliness, is next to classism, is next to racism.." OOH CAITLIN WITH THE PIPING HOT TEA! This is why we love you.

    • @AxxLAfriku
      @AxxLAfriku Před 3 lety +9

      I broke my feet today because I kicked my computer because someone commented that my videos are bad! I hate unjustified criticism. Please wish me a speedy recovery, dear mola

    • @raibug3180
      @raibug3180 Před 3 lety +48

      piping cold embalming fluid

    • @PeterParker-hn8iz
      @PeterParker-hn8iz Před 3 lety +176

      @Andreas Glad “There’s no such thing as racism! I should know - I’m racist.” Thanks Andreas.

    • @alliahrivera9184
      @alliahrivera9184 Před 3 lety +99

      @Andreas Glad yes ofcourse. Races who were enslaved for hundreds even thousands of years deserved it because they are "different". And yes of course they deserved to be treated differently because they did absolutely nothing wrong and was just born into that race. PERFECT!

    • @ExcludedShadow
      @ExcludedShadow Před 3 lety +79

      @Andreas Glad so every person with the same skin color is exactly the same and does the same things as one another. I see. So, one person “dumps” their family, everyone does! Your logic is as stupid as it gets. Please go back to 3rd grade where you left off.

  • @kevinagreer
    @kevinagreer Před 3 lety +4029

    Caitlin really is that cool aunt that everyone wants.

    • @jennasalgado665
      @jennasalgado665 Před 3 lety +126

      Lol I'd just be happy if she was my friend

    • @papermario3982
      @papermario3982 Před 3 lety +27

      @@jennasalgado665 Saaaame!

    • @alitlweird
      @alitlweird Před 3 lety +69

      ... and we all now have. ❤️
      Caitlin Doughty is a National Treasure.

    • @lilyflare2
      @lilyflare2 Před 3 lety +27

      Funny you say that, 'cause she reminds me of my real aunt.

    • @SaintAlessa
      @SaintAlessa Před 3 lety +17

      She’s awesome ✌🏽

  • @PandaGialla93
    @PandaGialla93 Před 3 lety +215

    "Cut the guy some slack, he doesn't believe in water" BEST LINE EVER

  • @seleuf
    @seleuf Před 3 lety +222

    "I'm churning butter, btw. That should be obvious."
    Lady, I thought you were rowing down the river styx. xD

  • @Kittie28
    @Kittie28 Před 3 lety +2750

    Cait....this was such a missed opportunity to call America' First Cremation a HOT MESS

  • @AHam-lq9fq
    @AHam-lq9fq Před 3 lety +2610

    I love how you always mercilessly photoshop your face onto anything. I love it

    • @ADMusic1999
      @ADMusic1999 Před 3 lety +45

      I just want to say....
      Don't throw away your shot!

    • @JulesJukes
      @JulesJukes Před 3 lety +34

      @@ADMusic1999 or cheat on your wife

    • @JSJSpeaks
      @JSJSpeaks Před 3 lety +63

      Yes! Agreed wholeheartedly! I think that she should print out a picture book with all of the graphics that have graced our screens over the years, it would be the best coffee table book of all time. Not sure how to bring up death planning with your loved ones? Put it out when they come over! Or a "Guide to The Good Death" as told through the medium of graphics and the lens of gentle humor, that can be used as a conversation guide and workbook! Next publication, please!!!

    • @arthurvanessen5390
      @arthurvanessen5390 Před 3 lety +14

      Or rather her iconic hair style

    • @elliediringer3821
      @elliediringer3821 Před 3 lety +1

      Yesss

  • @nsierra2297
    @nsierra2297 Před 2 lety +111

    I like the fact you mention Colonel Henry Alcock’s interest in cremation as a means to prevent vampires. This makes more sense after watching your video on New England vampires. I love how your lessons connect!

  • @mariebelladonna437
    @mariebelladonna437 Před 3 lety +191

    When she said, "This story, has it ALL." I was like, omg, is she doing Stefan? And then she actually showed Stefan later, and I was like, YASS!!

  • @Lunareon
    @Lunareon Před 3 lety +676

    Names: legendary
    Corpse: iconic
    Furnace: lit

    • @jackreeder215
      @jackreeder215 Před 3 lety +25

      Hotel: Trivago

    • @jasonflay8818
      @jasonflay8818 Před 3 lety +9

      I want a shirt with Rev. Octavius B. Frothingham in sunglasses with that printed around the photo.

    • @fourever2ne1
      @fourever2ne1 Před 3 lety

      It took me a minute to get it lol

    • @fourever2ne1
      @fourever2ne1 Před 3 lety +3

      @@jasonflay8818 dude that’s a really good shirt idea lol

  • @allisonfitzmaurice6948
    @allisonfitzmaurice6948 Před 3 lety +756

    Sometimes when I’m driving I see electronic marquees for funeral homes stating “$1200 for cremation” and I think
    *”Oh no, no, no, Caitlin taught me better than that”*

    • @jasonshirrillmusic
      @jasonshirrillmusic Před 3 lety +66

      hopefully my body will go to the body farm in Virginia so student's can learn about my decomposition? But I'll be dead so who knows? I won't.

    • @witchy-wonderland1416
      @witchy-wonderland1416 Před 3 lety +13

      I haven't watched her long enough to know.. Teach me better 😊

    • @allisonfitzmaurice6948
      @allisonfitzmaurice6948 Před 3 lety +54

      @@witchy-wonderland1416 I’ll try to find a good video of hers, but direct cremation (no frills) shouldn’t be more than $900.

    • @allisonfitzmaurice6948
      @allisonfitzmaurice6948 Před 3 lety +49

      @@witchy-wonderland1416 czcams.com/video/MzrTl3kYHBE/video.html here she gives a figure of $800-1200 but when I did a search of cremation costs in my city, $1200 was far too much considering some places charge $800

    • @CheshireCad
      @CheshireCad Před 3 lety +123

      Y'all are severely overpaying. If you watch the video, Caitlin clearly sets the baseline price at $7.04.

  • @raeorion
    @raeorion Před 2 lety +353

    I would really love it you could interview some indigenous people about their death and burial traditions! I feel like with all of the talk of "Indiana Burial Grounds" there are a lot of miscommunications and the indigenous people of the Americas have some really beautiful death traditions 💕

    • @kevinfox500
      @kevinfox500 Před 2 lety +8

      I second that!

    • @emirparkreiner7801
      @emirparkreiner7801 Před 2 lety +9

      Yeah that would be genuinely interesting

    • @visassess8607
      @visassess8607 Před 2 lety +7

      Yes those classic Indiana burial grounds lmao

    • @LittleLouieLagazza
      @LittleLouieLagazza Před 2 lety +14

      The Mississippi Choctaw professional "bonepickers" who prepped bodies for basket-interment in charnel houses and mounds would be a fascinating talk

    • @raeorion
      @raeorion Před 2 lety +6

      @@LittleLouieLagazza SEE, omg I want to know it all now! 😱🖤

  • @mady6929
    @mady6929 Před 3 lety +283

    Oh my goodness, when you said they lost the body in a baggage cart
    I imagined a train conductor and other workers just walking around the train checking under chairs and between carts
    Until eventually someone lifts a bag in a pile of luggage, and reveals de palms face and he was buried under the luggage
    And they’re like, WE FOUND HIM! 😂

  • @abracadaverous
    @abracadaverous Před 3 lety +820

    I've lost a number of organs over the years, and medical waste is incinerated.
    Therefore, I've already been partially cremated. OMG

    • @IJustWantToUseMyName
      @IJustWantToUseMyName Před 3 lety +191

      It’s like you’re on a payment plan of five easy cremations with one gigantic balloon payment at the end.

    • @withazcooper1464
      @withazcooper1464 Před 3 lety +119

      Partially Cremated would be a great band name

    • @censusgary
      @censusgary Před 3 lety +54

      Hmm, I guess that explains where my appendix is now.
      I actually asked if I could have it back after the operation (so I could keep it in a jar), but the hospital said no.

    • @lilitharam44
      @lilitharam44 Před 3 lety +45

      Same here, guess my gallbladder has been cremated. I would have kept it in a jar, if I'd had the option. It was mine, after all.

    • @carmendelcastillo7724
      @carmendelcastillo7724 Před 3 lety +4

      @@IJustWantToUseMyName that is hilarious!

  • @oriole8789
    @oriole8789 Před 3 lety +1421

    I am truly sorry for this, but I heard the first sentence as: "This video is sponsored by The Great Corpses Plus". My brain obviously has expectations for this channel.

  • @novice5895
    @novice5895 Před 3 lety +36

    It’s not surprising that I’ve never heard of Henrietta Duterte, but her story is intriguing, especially for the time. Thank you Caitlin, for exposing this phenomenal business woman to the Deathling masses. As a black woman, I enjoy learning about outstanding ppl that haven’t been spotlighted before. I will be making a donation. You’re the best!💗

  • @vidblogger12
    @vidblogger12 Před 3 lety +103

    I don’t know why, but out of everything, “Sizzler crematory and grill” at 7:06 made me laugh the hardest.

  • @KarlaRei
    @KarlaRei Před 3 lety +1019

    _"They just wouldn't stop dying."_
    So selfish.

    • @tttm99
      @tttm99 Před 3 lety +20

      Humans are selfish indeed.
      Speaking of... Have you seen Dave?
      I'm worried he's trying to jeopardize the mission...

    • @thematrix496
      @thematrix496 Před 3 lety

      @@tttm99 🤣

    • @fledermaus8694
      @fledermaus8694 Před 3 lety +3

      The AUDACITY

    • @waswestkan
      @waswestkan Před 3 lety

      Reminds me of a yarn, where, a theif, thought cremains, was cocaine.and sold it to a biker ganf.. Suffice to say when the theft, should up in the local new, thing didn't end well for the teif.. One would think the bikers, would have, noticed, they where getting pleasure, than again. it's just a yarn.. Where land is getting scarce, cremation , should be come. the norm; or start planting bodies, in a vertical position. Not seen. in the newspaper; the native off to the side, shaking their heads, at, the white people, making the simple. difficult.

  • @mall0wfluff
    @mall0wfluff Před 3 lety +334

    Okay so I was telling my dad how a CZcamsr made me consider being a mortician and he said “you mean that lady with the bangs?” I was shook 😳 like how did my dad end up here too

    • @quietone748
      @quietone748 Před 3 lety +58

      Dad has good taste!

    • @marnieenglish9400
      @marnieenglish9400 Před 3 lety +4

      What are bangs?

    • @jendubay3782
      @jendubay3782 Před 3 lety +23

      Marnie English the short hair above her eyes. I think Europeans call it fringe?

    • @AHam-lq9fq
      @AHam-lq9fq Před 3 lety +10

      I mean...they are iconic bangs if you ask me.

  • @jzthompson9598
    @jzthompson9598 Před 3 lety +52

    "My haters make me famous." omg, girl. You kill.

  • @gentlemanjared
    @gentlemanjared Před 3 lety +15

    That's it, next D&D character is Rev. Octavius B Frothingham.

  • @hurricanefrid
    @hurricanefrid Před 3 lety +935

    Caitlin: "Coke-fired, coke like the by-product of coal that burns hotter, not cocaine."
    Me, a 27 year old with the naivety of a child: "Yeah, let's pretend I thought of cocaine and not Coca Cola.."

    • @novakiara6150
      @novakiara6150 Před 3 lety +12

      Exactly this but I'm 16

    • @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967
      @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967 Před 3 lety +48

      There are officially 3 things called coke. Coca Cola, cocaine, and the byproduct of coal that burns hotter.
      Edit: I am so tired I just misread 'hotter' as 'butter'

    • @aimeek2858
      @aimeek2858 Před 3 lety +1

      😂

    • @markiangooley
      @markiangooley Před 3 lety +9

      Things go better with coke...

    • @urban_gse_
      @urban_gse_ Před 3 lety +1

      Lol me too bro

  • @bomb2themax
    @bomb2themax Před 3 lety +403

    "Easy, breezy, beautiful Cremated Girl" I died laughing

  • @equalivent_auxiliumchina3286

    Is it just me or does anyone else REALLY enjoy Caitlin’s lessons too… She explains everything so understandable for even ppl like me to understand and I can’t stop laughing, she puts in so much ‘sick’ humor (the one I personally love)!
    Keep up the good work, Caitlin. I❤️U

  • @Monicaerikarita
    @Monicaerikarita Před 2 lety +17

    As a fellow deep voices gal (though mine is not as magnificent as yours…because I teach middle school I actively pitch it higher because it seems to be off putting to them) I very much admire your elocution and confidence.
    Mine gets progressively lower the more tired (obviously) I get, but also the more angry. That’s another reason I pitch higher as a teacher. When it drops, they know they picked the wrong one today. I actually have to practice when it’s time for school to start back! It’s bothered my mother my entire life but I love it.

    • @alienvomitsex
      @alienvomitsex Před rokem +2

      Teachers have my utmost respect. That shit is tough. I love my deep voice and the fact that men are put off by it, tbh. It's always pretty funny when people throw their insecurity in your face without realizing it

  • @madame_milky
    @madame_milky Před 3 lety +1744

    PLEASE make merch with “EASY, BREEZY, BEAUTIFUL, CREMATED GIRL” because ID BUY ONE IN EVERY COLOR SISSS

  • @sarablaira22
    @sarablaira22 Před 3 lety +346

    what Caitlin said: "caused by miasma"
    what I heard: "caused by my asthma"

  • @ashalon8729
    @ashalon8729 Před 3 lety +43

    I thought she said she was sponsored by The Great Corpses Plus at first 😆

  • @mannyalvarado2664
    @mannyalvarado2664 Před 3 lety +20

    Caitlin is something else...i love when she says.."the middle ages were magic"

  • @loranddeka
    @loranddeka Před 3 lety +1355

    Caitlin is like "Nobody is getting into the spirit of the season this year like they used to. Well I'll just have to make them dammit." Happy Halloween everyone

  • @maylahobson7508
    @maylahobson7508 Před 3 lety +327

    I actually live in the town where LeMoyne crematory is located!! Dr. LeMoyne's house still stands and is open for visiting. They just refurbished the crematory as well and opened it last weekend for a tour and spooky stories!

    • @AskAMortician
      @AskAMortician  Před 3 lety +177

      I can't tell you how much we wished we could have traveled and filmed this on site!

    • @adamestes5227
      @adamestes5227 Před 3 lety +38

      @@AskAMortician perhaps you could go a follow-up video in the future.

    • @godlesslippillow
      @godlesslippillow Před 3 lety +42

      @@adamestes5227 Future respectful Post Pandemic Death Tour????

    • @adamestes5227
      @adamestes5227 Před 3 lety +18

      @@godlesslippillow That sounds like a great idea. I’d totally watch that.

    • @mirjanbouma
      @mirjanbouma Před 3 lety +8

      I'm in favour of a revisit with on location after the plague has ended!

  • @VidralliaArchives
    @VidralliaArchives Před 3 lety +15

    Those names be like the Gravity Falls TV gag:
    *"Stay tuned for the Friday night movie, 'The Duchess Approves' starring Stirly Stembleburgiss as 'The Duchess' and Crampton St. Rumpterfrabble as a rascal, coxswain 'Saunterblugget Hampterfuppinshire'."*

  • @mookerimungeri
    @mookerimungeri Před rokem +19

    I was really happy to stumble on this video! I actually saw the cremains and visited the crematory at the LeMoyne House where The Washington County Historical Society is located. I was there to pick up old newspapers for the Pennsylvania Newspaper Project and we got the tour. It was super interesting. LeMoyne is interesting in his own right as well.

  • @kristyhughes3146
    @kristyhughes3146 Před 3 lety +317

    Question: how do you turn bodies into stone?
    Also, I think you need to have a T-shirt that says: Cremation: for a vampire free future.

    • @mandala314
      @mandala314 Před 3 lety +4

      Absolutely!

    • @lu7702
      @lu7702 Před 3 lety +6

      That would make for an amazing shirt.

    • @IJustWantToUseMyName
      @IJustWantToUseMyName Před 3 lety +25

      The corpse has to look directly into the eyes of Medusa to be turned into stone. It’s relatively quick once you get the corpse to focus their eyes, but the waiting list would be too long for this to have been practical.

    • @MsBTmom
      @MsBTmom Před 3 lety +6

      I would defiantly buy that shirt!

    • @ChrisCaramia
      @ChrisCaramia Před 3 lety +8

      ​@@MsBTmom Who's forcing you to NOT buy this shirt? Deathlings want to know!

  • @katconley9702
    @katconley9702 Před 3 lety +462

    Missed opportunity to title this “America’s First Cremation was a Hot Mess” 😂😂

    • @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967
      @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967 Před 3 lety +18

      Even better,
      "America's first cremation was a WILD, HOT MESS"

    • @anelisamorgan8590
      @anelisamorgan8590 Před 3 lety

      *YES!! AGREED!*

    • @ariannaharley11
      @ariannaharley11 Před 3 lety +4

      Nice copied comment the original is right above yours lol

    • @katconley9702
      @katconley9702 Před 3 lety

      @@ariannaharley11 lol honey if I had seen that comment first I wouldn’t have posted it chill out ahaha 🤭😂😂

  • @StoriesbyIrish
    @StoriesbyIrish Před 3 lety +37

    "Corpse-napped by pro burial fanatics...."
    I laughed way too hard at this, then cringed xD

  • @kiraann3299
    @kiraann3299 Před 3 lety +30

    Corpse: dead
    Cremation: a mess
    Caitlyn: corpse enthusiast
    Hotel: trivago

  • @ILoveBeingLoud
    @ILoveBeingLoud Před 3 lety +315

    If that crematoriums slogan isn’t “trailblazing for 150 years” I quit

    • @DibIrken
      @DibIrken Před 3 lety +22

      "Making flaming hot bods for 150 years. Trust us. It's lit!"

  • @saana5996
    @saana5996 Před 3 lety +163

    Ok could someone write Caitlyn's Wikipedia page with the description "principally famous as a future corpse"?

    • @tttm99
      @tttm99 Před 3 lety +10

      I think you've found yourself a job 😉😂

    • @elenaderoet4926
      @elenaderoet4926 Před 3 lety +17

      I went ahead and did it. if I get in trouble.... well, it's still accurate- and I stand by my edit.

    • @Grumplebumple
      @Grumplebumple Před 3 lety +2

      @@elenaderoet4926 not all heroes wear capes

  • @normaramirez9377
    @normaramirez9377 Před 2 lety +6

    I wake up and I put her videos. She is real. No sugar coat. We live, we die, we rot, all part of life. She gives good ideas and I finally through her videos I finally found what I wanted when I pass one day. I always had a panic attack just thinking about cremations and burials. I don't want any of that. I'D rather be compost.

  • @theniceorganization
    @theniceorganization Před 3 lety +9

    I do hope you're planning an episode on the first modern cremation in the UK, not least because it's fun watching the expression on people's faces when you tell them the name of the person cremated. Also: druids.

  • @fiona8230
    @fiona8230 Před 3 lety +860

    Listen, Caitlin, we need to know how they turned bodies into stone! You can't just say they did that and pulverize the bodies into a fine powder without explaining how they did it! I am so intrigued right now!

    • @StoriesbyIrish
      @StoriesbyIrish Před 3 lety +18

      I know I've seen a video with her discussing this. I can't find it though lol It might not have been on her channel though.

    • @kris4247
      @kris4247 Před 3 lety +45

      The earliest attraction in the united kingdom was a cave that once you left an item in the water for a while it became encased in " Stone " I think limestone covered the items over time ... Maybe the same kinda theory

    • @amberkat8147
      @amberkat8147 Před 3 lety +25

      they might not have actually had a working theory on how to do that.

    • @StoriesbyIrish
      @StoriesbyIrish Před 3 lety +32

      Found that video here
      czcams.com/video/-P4WWXWWUg8/video.html

    • @sheepwithfern4325
      @sheepwithfern4325 Před 2 lety +1

      I think it’s just a dry-age… just instead of cow’s carcass, it’s a corpse. Delightful

  • @loisreese2692
    @loisreese2692 Před 3 lety +594

    My very best high school friend (Hindu) died a few years ago, and her husband hit the button on the crematorium. I took her Mom out of the room to make it easier on her. She was not embalmed but treated with many spices, and she looked beautiful. Just wanted to share.

  • @aftersexhighfives
    @aftersexhighfives Před 3 lety +18

    I'm crying laughing at your debutante southern accent, you're amazing. truly.

  • @danteaiudi9839
    @danteaiudi9839 Před 2 lety +12

    Caitlin has a great disposition on death and dying. She's extremely informative and knowledgeable about this subject. Caitlin should get an Oscar for her videos and performances. She's hardly dead-pan or stiff in her approach in explaining such a tough subject. It's really terrific! 😂🥃🚬👍

  • @sethg6157
    @sethg6157 Před 3 lety +374

    "cut the guy some slack he didn't believe in water" lol

  • @Daniellelp921
    @Daniellelp921 Před 3 lety +531

    Caitlin is the BEST story teller!! “People would just not stop dying!” LMAO

    • @bobbiejofuller6626
      @bobbiejofuller6626 Před 3 lety +1

      I love how she looks into the camera and not like others who look like they are reading something.

    • @BluePi1313
      @BluePi1313 Před 3 lety +1

      I didnt think I cared too much for the history and science of dead people, but she's really good at keeping me engaged to the point where I wanna learn more.

    • @bobbiellison4315
      @bobbiellison4315 Před 3 lety +1

      @@BluePi1313 yes I also don't entirely agree on the "science" but this left me with more questions. Anyway she is entertaining ! lol

  • @digitaldgirl4459
    @digitaldgirl4459 Před 3 lety +9

    You are the only person I've ever seen who makes death and things surrounding it rather, dare I say, hilarious. Even you sponsorship segment had me in stitches. Thank you for such morbid fun.

  • @kassandrasolon1633
    @kassandrasolon1633 Před 2 lety +8

    You are a storyteller like no other, I LOVE your videos because they are as educational as they are entertaining and they're entertaining enough that I replay my favorites all the time. I get goosebumps every time I hear you talk about this scholarship, knowing that it was already a success and will be a lasting impact from the community YOU brought together. Thank you for all the work you do, and for putting so much of your personality into each of your videos!

  • @rickkinki4624
    @rickkinki4624 Před 3 lety +382

    My younger brother died from a motorcycle accident in October. His ashes were divided among a number of small urns, which were passed around to everybody who was close to him.
    I'm planning on spreading his ashes in Boot Hill, in nearby Tombstone, Arizona. Our older brother intends to spread the ashes over our parents' graves in Cayucos, California, while his wife and kids are going to spread him along the Oregon coast.
    Well, that's my brother all over! Love you Tim, and I'll miss you forever.

    • @mikki3961
      @mikki3961 Před 3 lety +25

      Sincere condolences on the loss of your brother.

    • @lyn3483
      @lyn3483 Před 3 lety +10

      Sounds like a great idea 🙌🙌🙌

    • @bumblebee560
      @bumblebee560 Před 3 lety +10

      I'm so sorry for your loss. 💙

    • @AprilBytheBay
      @AprilBytheBay Před 3 lety +13

      Boot Hill is a great place! Letting him catch some cold ones with the outlaws, sheriffs, and pretty cool prostitutes doesn’t sound too bad. A man who died traveling, traveling all around. ❤️

    • @rickkinki4624
      @rickkinki4624 Před 3 lety +9

      @@AprilBytheBay When I'm gone, my survivors will be instructed to spread my ashes at Boot Hill!
      But not for a very long time, at least another 30 years!
      Thanks for all the great responses!

  • @mndldvs1
    @mndldvs1 Před 3 lety +115

    I just adore Caitlin's impressions, especially the valley girl. Only Caitlin could make mortality hilarious without being crude x

  • @apancher
    @apancher Před 3 lety +10

    These videos are so damn good! I stumbled across my first one maybe a week ago, and have been hooked. Incredible quality, perfect presentation, and just the right amount of humor.

  • @ElizabethHernandez-qv5qn

    The ending bloopers are my favorite parts of your videos! Love your personality/humor!

  • @DawnieD27
    @DawnieD27 Před 3 lety +350

    “In urban places like New York City, people just wouldn’t stop dying.” 💀💀💀

  • @mod8179
    @mod8179 Před 3 lety +621

    “Human body should not come in contact with water”
    But.. but.. what did he drink?

  • @misskitty2133
    @misskitty2133 Před 2 lety +7

    Knowledgeable and HYSTERICAL! You’re reallly good at what you do. I love it. Brought me cheer as I lie here with Covid & the cremains of my cat which were just returned. Turning an utterly crappy day into a rewarding learning experience. Thank you thank you!

  • @katitachulita6841
    @katitachulita6841 Před 3 lety +2

    I am from about an hour away from Washington, PA. I have never heard about this! I will be sure to stop and check it out someday!

  • @krisbailey7160
    @krisbailey7160 Před 3 lety +147

    The 1800’s were “lit”..Flying mystery meat, crazy cremation drama, guys named The Reverend...I think we’ve only scratched the surface here.

    • @nyotauhura7412
      @nyotauhura7412 Před 3 lety +8

      Kind of makes 2020 look less nuts....until you consider that the crazy of the Victorian era was spread out over a whole century.

    • @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967
      @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967 Před 3 lety +3

      @@nyotauhura7412 And Europe.

    • @krisbailey7160
      @krisbailey7160 Před 3 lety +3

      @Rosie Lovett Autumn It’s from the video Caitlin did two weeks ago where she talks about the Kentucky Meat Shower..

    • @asherikamichaela8425
      @asherikamichaela8425 Před 3 lety +4

      @@krisbailey7160 And the fact that some of my fellow Kentuckians actually went all "Dude, let me try that!" and ate the stuff... 🤢🤦‍♀️

    • @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967
      @cedartheyeah.justyeah.3967 Před 3 lety +1

      @@asherikamichaela8425 Let me guess... the 'mystery meat' was actually dead bodies?

  • @jbeard801
    @jbeard801 Před 3 lety +66

    Caitlin is soooo awesome. She and this channel got me through a really tough time of my life. I found her in early 2018 and then was diagnosed with brain cancer in October and my father died of metastatic lung cancer 2 weeks before Christmas. Caitlin's frank and candid talk about death helped me immensely to deal with the funeral industry in the wake of my father's death and I was able to make sure that his wishes that he not be mutilated or embalmed before cremation werefollowed. We shaved him in his death bed and sat with him all day talking to him and sharing stories. The only thing the funeral home did was to dress and wrap him for his viewing the next day. Never would had pulled that off without knowing what to say and ask per Caitlin. She also helped me be okay with the idea of my own mortality in the face of my cancer diagnosis. Long story short, she has saved my life! I love Caitlin now and forever!

  • @jordanlang1802
    @jordanlang1802 Před rokem +2

    Rewatched this one after recommended in the My Girl video. Forgot how good the delivery and editing is on this one, on top of the wild subject matter!!

  • @mikeford1273
    @mikeford1273 Před 3 lety +5

    Another great video!. Very interesting. Also. My wife wrote part of her BSC about maggot therapy which is still used to clean wounds.. just so you know.

  • @frnz1943
    @frnz1943 Před 3 lety +105

    The moment I heard that the corpse was slathered in herbs and spices, he took on the figure of Colonel Sanders in my imagination.

    • @stevedenis8292
      @stevedenis8292 Před 3 lety +5

      I wonder if that would hide the crematorium and people would think it was just the local BBQ houses.

    • @BennyLlama39
      @BennyLlama39 Před 3 lety

      LOL! Col. Sanders. 😂

    • @frnz1943
      @frnz1943 Před 3 lety +6

      I do wonder if the good Colonel was also slathered with the 11 herbs and spices when he died...

    • @cloudbeams
      @cloudbeams Před 3 lety +3

      I heard that - had to pause the video and said out loud "Herbs and spices? This ain't Kentucky fried chicken, people!"

  • @imzadi83fanvids7
    @imzadi83fanvids7 Před 3 lety +220

    "Turn the bodies to stone then grind them to a powder" Okay...we need to talk about that one a little more please.

    • @hellelujahh
      @hellelujahh Před 3 lety +15

      Yeah - I wonder if they actually had a method to do it (or at least a reasonable idea of how to do it), or if it was just a "what if we could, like, turn corpses into stone" kind of thing.

    • @stevedenis8292
      @stevedenis8292 Před 3 lety +20

      Perhaps it involves a Medusa and a few sledge hammers.

    • @angelcdeath
      @angelcdeath Před 3 lety +4

      We should dust off this topic now that we're less stiff minded... more stiff minded? Mindful of stiff oriented stuff, less petrified. Or are we...

    • @lissaquon607
      @lissaquon607 Před 3 lety +2

      Yea..I have several questions about this...

    • @kellyalves756
      @kellyalves756 Před 3 lety

      @@lissaquon607 Same here, nothing but questions.

  • @user-si8hq8wf4o
    @user-si8hq8wf4o Před 2 lety +6

    I love this woman so much. she makes such a morbid subject so fun and she's so easy to listen to.

  • @beatnikmary
    @beatnikmary Před 3 lety +3

    I am obsessed with your outfit in this video. That blouse, that neckline, that necklace, that colour...*chefs kiss* ...perfection!

  • @DenaInWyo
    @DenaInWyo Před 3 lety +155

    Wait wait wait, I need to know more about this dude who thought God didn't intend people to come in contact with water. I have questions.

    • @christiamark9184
      @christiamark9184 Před 3 lety +9

      I know!

    • @taylor3950
      @taylor3950 Před 3 lety +25

      Yeah like I assume bathing is out but what about crossing rivers? What about rain? What about drinking water to live?!

    • @DenaInWyo
      @DenaInWyo Před 3 lety +9

      @@taylor3950 Right? I had all those same questions! And bathing being totally out? I don't see that being a situation a human could live long term. I mean, even the cavemen probably took a swim now and then. I'm not even talking about stink..just ..crust? And did water include ALL liquids? Maybe a bath in beer?

    • @samuraijackoff5354
      @samuraijackoff5354 Před 3 lety +3

      Some people don’t need an answer I guess.

    • @taylor3950
      @taylor3950 Před 3 lety +7

      @@DenaInWyo the people demand the truth!

  • @aimeewalls8208
    @aimeewalls8208 Před 3 lety +149

    "This funeral had EVERYTHING!"
    AND Stefan?!?! Hell yes, gimme more, more, MORE!

  • @drstevenrey
    @drstevenrey Před 3 lety +2

    Hey Caitlin, I could listen to you all day and night. Such a fantastically good channel. Amazed beyond belief. Thanks.

  • @smithyMcjoe
    @smithyMcjoe Před 2 lety

    One of the main reasons I watch is your voice, it's real chill. It has gravitas.

  • @jimc587
    @jimc587 Před 3 lety +29

    I'm in my 60s, fighting my second type of cancer, and had a stroke. If I had such a nice and funny Mortician in my small village as you are, I wouldn't fight the inevitable so hard! Love your channel not just for the pleasant demeanor and lovely smile and humor, but you are very informative and entertaining. I'll keep watching, as long as I can anyway!

    • @starscreamofvos
      @starscreamofvos Před 3 lety

      Animal products cause cancer. There's still a chance you can win by switching to a plant-based diet. I suggest watching and learning from leading experts such as Dr Greger and Dr Barnard, and reject the lies from the most cruel, destructive industry in the world.
      www.nutritionfacts.org
      www.pcrm.org
      Please, look into it!

  • @PsRohrbaugh
    @PsRohrbaugh Před 3 lety +61

    16:50 this is essentially the reason my mom wanted cremation: "You know me - I've always been a fastidious person. Slowly rotting away in a dark coffin doesn't seem like me."

  • @benjaminhawthorne1969
    @benjaminhawthorne1969 Před rokem +4

    L. Ron Hubbard died at his sprawling ranch in San Obispo, CA of a stroke. Before an autopsy could be conducted, he was of course, cremated.

  • @Jacqueline_Oat
    @Jacqueline_Oat Před 2 lety +3

    4:59 A whole casket of characters

  • @TheBeautyAndTheBrave
    @TheBeautyAndTheBrave Před 3 lety +104

    When I stumbled across your channel three years ago (because I’m interested in mortuary science) I knew I came across something special. Even down to the way you include your sponsorships are creative and unique. I’ve always been interested in the subject as I mentioned but I get a bit discouraged from time to time because I feel like there’s no job market for me, or how will I successfully accomplish such a goal. After watching your video to the end as I always do, I was so shocked to hear about your donations and scholarships towards African American women who are interested in the study! Not only that, but with Baltimore County Community College! I screamed! And quickly burst into tears! I live in Baltimore County and I’m still very much interested in mortuary science. This has given me hope and faith that I can achieve my dream. This is so amazing! Even if I don’t go through with it I know someone will and that too makes me so happy! Thank you soooooooooo much!!!! This has truly made my day!

    • @tessat338
      @tessat338 Před 3 lety +7

      You GO FOR IT, Maryland Sister!!! Let us know when you're ready to put out your shingle!

  • @Greywolfgrafix
    @Greywolfgrafix Před 3 lety +154

    As Mark Twain supposedly said once..."I didn't attend the funeral, but I wrote a nice letter saying I approved of it".... lol

  • @deanchampion6777
    @deanchampion6777 Před 2 lety +7

    I SO LOVE YOU... prioritization? Your brain. Your sense of humor. Your broad knowledge. Your absolute smoking hottness. OH, and your effortless presentation/teaching.
    And your absolute unfiltered... everything.

  • @foto3077
    @foto3077 Před 3 lety

    Thank you. You are so much fun to watch!!!

  • @agathagasperoni639
    @agathagasperoni639 Před 3 lety +98

    My grandma died this week and her funeral was today. She’s being cremated so naturally you come out with this video today.

    • @healinggrounds19
      @healinggrounds19 Před 3 lety +18

      May your grandma go peacefully into the universe. My condolences.

    • @marnieenglish9400
      @marnieenglish9400 Před 3 lety +2

      Sorry for your loss 💖

    • @YamakieHashiro
      @YamakieHashiro Před 3 lety +2

      I'm sorry for your loss

    • @lyn3483
      @lyn3483 Před 3 lety

      I hope you have a bunch of good memories of her 💗

    • @raygunsforronnie847
      @raygunsforronnie847 Před 3 lety

      My condolences on her passing; may her memory be a constant blessing to you.

  • @tifKh
    @tifKh Před 3 lety +393

    “I’m like the Theranos lady”
    I’m dead. Not really. I mean, I laughed a lot.

    • @RealBradMiller
      @RealBradMiller Před 3 lety +23

      *dispatches hearse to your location*

    • @eidolor
      @eidolor Před 3 lety +9

      Might I interest you in a spot of consolation cremation?
      Weird tho, always thought she had a very comfortable pitch

    • @RealBradMiller
      @RealBradMiller Před 3 lety +10

      @@eidolor I love Caitlin's voice. She's an all around great person. 10/10 would let her cremate me...again.

    • @dernudel1615
      @dernudel1615 Před 3 lety +8

      I hadn't even heard about Theranos until yesterday when I was listening to the Sawbones podcast. They didn't mention her being a complete fucking nutter. I had to find that information, elsewhere.

    • @alex0589
      @alex0589 Před 3 lety +4

      RIP
      (Really Impressive Pulse)

  • @mamalarsen2542
    @mamalarsen2542 Před 3 lety +1

    I appreciate all your donations

  • @amandafoote3043
    @amandafoote3043 Před 2 lety +10

    I love how casually she moves past the statement that some people suggested turning human bodies to stone as the best option. xD I have questions!

  • @ADMusic1999
    @ADMusic1999 Před 3 lety +70

    Cremation was around much longer than that. They just added the "wait until the person is dead" part.

    • @denisemcdougal6445
      @denisemcdougal6445 Před 3 lety +1

      Yup

    • @theblackbaron4119
      @theblackbaron4119 Před 3 lety +11

      Nah, that's apearantly is "arson" and the elderly couple across my street didn't appreciate my helpful and we'll meaning initiative to help them to get a cheap cremation. I've been told that it is a "felony". 🙄

    • @katbowen4800
      @katbowen4800 Před 3 lety +3

      @@theblackbaron4119 omfg

    • @merakiminx
      @merakiminx Před 3 lety

      And I- oop

    • @gnarthdarkanen7464
      @gnarthdarkanen7464 Před 3 lety +2

      Pioneers like Sam Colt help with that "patience" part quite a lot. ;o)

  • @moocowpong1
    @moocowpong1 Před 3 lety +204

    "He was terrified of burial, as allegedly he had known someone who had been buried alive"
    That's a valid fear but HOW THE F*** IS CREMATION BETTER?!

    • @davidhanson4909
      @davidhanson4909 Před 3 lety +48

      It's over faster? And I guess there's at least a slim chance someone will hear you screaming, whereas there's almost none if you're down in a hole with half a ton of dirt holding you down.

    • @ptonpc
      @ptonpc Před 3 lety +7

      You taste better?

    • @NotSoCrazyNinja
      @NotSoCrazyNinja Před 3 lety +6

      Probably a faster assurance of death? My grandmother had the same fear of being buried alive. Her solution? "Make sure they embalm me and embalm me good before they put me in the hole"!.

    • @DrKlausTrophobie
      @DrKlausTrophobie Před 3 lety +1

      @@NotSoCrazyNinja Something like a very last checkup?!

    • @NotSoCrazyNinja
      @NotSoCrazyNinja Před 3 lety +3

      @@DrKlausTrophobie There is a non-zero chance of being buried alive. It has happened, it continues to happen, and will continue to happen. It's rare though, so the chances of being buried alive are very low. Embalming makes sure you're dead, but then again, so would cremation.

  • @jwpipes47
    @jwpipes47 Před 3 lety +11

    OMG WHEN YOU SAID THE FUNERAL HAD EVERYTHING I IMMEDIATELY THOUGHT ABOUT STEFAN 😂🖤

  • @kimsuds927
    @kimsuds927 Před 6 měsíci

    Love your vids. Cant wait for the next one to come out

  • @junjunjamore7735
    @junjunjamore7735 Před 3 lety +117

    *Caitlin:* "Buckhorst.. had a real _joie de vivre..._ "
    *Caption:* "Buckhorst.. had a real (speaks foreign language)"

  • @diquedahlia1935
    @diquedahlia1935 Před 3 lety +64

    During the sponsorship I thought she said “the great corpses plus” and I didn’t question a thing for a good minute

  • @bjspranger
    @bjspranger Před 3 lety

    Best video EVER!! Thanks Caitlin. Love all your videos!!

  • @ellegates
    @ellegates Před 2 lety

    Being of high pitched voicing, I appreciate your deep tones, absolutely lovely ❣

  • @JohnW941994
    @JohnW941994 Před 3 lety +63

    Just want to say I loved this video. We recently cremated my father, when he passed away in September. He was the first member of my family to be cremated. It was simple and cost effective. Coming from a background of traditional "Christian" burials, We were leery about cremation at first, but it just seemed to fit our needs at the time and I know Dad would have loved the little memorial service we had. He & I used to watch Ask A Mortician videos together and they gave us a better understanding of the options we had. Thank you so much, Caitlin! If not for the work you've put into your channel, mine is one family that would've been far less prepared to deal with that loss. He got to experience the good death! ❤😢❤

    • @daniellecaven2198
      @daniellecaven2198 Před 3 lety +4

      Sorry for your loss

    • @elaineteeter2904
      @elaineteeter2904 Před 3 lety +7

      I don't wish to be indelicate, but where did you choose to place your dear father's remains? I'm a senior and want to be cremated, but I don't have an idea where my cremated remains should be placed. I want the easiest and most cost-effective means to dispose of my mortal remains. I want the most cost-effective method for my children. which will cost the least and expose them to the least difficulty in terms of cost and emotional anguish.

    • @JohnW941994
      @JohnW941994 Před 3 lety +8

      @@elaineteeter2904 We actually still have his ashes. Mom is keeping them for now until she decides what she wants to do with them. I think she wants to be cremated too and have their ashes buried together...but right now his ashes are in a nice little urn in our living room. We took some ashes to put into jewelry urns for me, my brother, and sister.

    • @elaineteeter2904
      @elaineteeter2904 Před 3 lety +8

      @@JohnW941994 thank you so much for sharing this with me. Such a lovely way to honor your father. It's clear that your family is a loving one. Your words have been a comfort to me and so helpful in my thinking. I'm so sorry for the loss of your dear father.

    • @elaineteeter2904
      @elaineteeter2904 Před 3 lety +6

      @@ayyasudhamma7452 I knew my dad wanted to be cremated; he wrote me a notebook with all kinds of instructions. I never wanted to read it, but when he was gone, it helped so much to read his words to me. I'm going to do the same thing for my son and daughter. When my dad died, I was in such a fog I couldn't think properly. Having that notebook made me feel like he was still with me, telling me what to do. You're right, it helps to plan ahead.

  • @dsantamaria713
    @dsantamaria713 Před rokem

    Well done as usual..
    Love where your Scholarship funds are going! ♥️♥️♥️

  • @missyvoigts6410
    @missyvoigts6410 Před rokem

    Caitlyn, your videos are the best! I love how you make serious subjects fun. Keep it up, girl! 👍🏼

  • @lygiabird6988
    @lygiabird6988 Před 3 lety +179

    The Reverend Octavius B. Frothingham sounds like something Shawn would make up as an alias for Gus in Psych

    • @manfrommeeteetse3880
      @manfrommeeteetse3880 Před 3 lety +9

      It's the initial B. that makes the name

    • @Philemaphobia
      @Philemaphobia Před 3 lety

      De Palm made up his whole family XD

    • @awesomesauce1238
      @awesomesauce1238 Před 3 lety

      @@manfrommeeteetse3880 I don’t know why he didn’t just keep whatever the B was, it’s already a mouthful🙄

  • @hauntedmasc
    @hauntedmasc Před 3 lety +131

    "I'm churning butter; that should be obvious." - Caitlin Doughty
    And they say nothing good happened in 2020...

    • @yvellebradley2502
      @yvellebradley2502 Před 3 lety +1

      Creamery, crematorium, whatever...

    • @hanstun1
      @hanstun1 Před 3 lety +1

      @@yvellebradley2502 Creamatorium?

    • @marcye5469
      @marcye5469 Před 3 lety

      I thought she was sweeping the floor for some reason 😂

    • @yvellebradley2502
      @yvellebradley2502 Před 3 lety

      @@hanstun1 Drive-thru with the kids. See grandpa off, get ice cream afterwards...

    • @hanstun1
      @hanstun1 Před 3 lety +1

      @@marcye5469 I think we can all agree that this is Caitlin's first time churning butter. :)

  • @wandamazzulo779
    @wandamazzulo779 Před rokem +1

    Love the way you narrate, thank you so much

  • @tylerraven1632
    @tylerraven1632 Před rokem +1

    I really enjoy watching your videos and the explanations with the history. Keep it up!

  • @Spencer481
    @Spencer481 Před 3 lety +169

    I think the weirdest part of the whole story of the Barron's cremation was the fact they kept opening up his coffin, like guys, STAHPPPPP

    • @father_mae_i
      @father_mae_i Před 2 lety +26

      But we gotta make sure he still in there 😂😩