Chivalry says that men are supposed to do thing like pay for dinner with a women but if I said that a woman should cook for a man that would be sexist when it’s exactly the same
A woman automatically will cook for you if you are in a relationship and you are a chivalrious person. Its ingrained in their minds from thousands of years of evolution. If she doesnt, she is probably not worth your quality.
Feminism killed chivalry I've actually been barked at for being patronising after holding a door. I find it hard because I was brought up in a world where I was programmed to look after women, children and the elderly. But you can't have chivalry AND equality, there has to be a choice.
Bru if u think holding a door will get u laid...n has no stranger been chivalrous to u? Let u cut the line wen u had 1 item? Hold the door for u? Pick up sumtin u dropped?
Yes you can, most people of any gender appreciate kind gestures and prefereably natural kind gestures. Some people may not like you deliberately doing things for them but a passing gesture of kindness is always appreciated universally dude
I want to like this millions. Though you got my 1. I feel like we lost the concept of chivalry due to the confusion of feminism as you so put it. Is true. I was never taught chivalry. It just came to me through instinct. Yet, was pushed away because the concept has been misunderstood. Just as put in this video. I want it to be a series. We need more videos about chivalry to help lesser generations better understand. A world without appreciation is a world of depreciation.
@@philla8916 I think you are confusing an extreme pressure for women to be physically attractive, with narcissism. could you be more specific, what actions do you think we aren't taking responsibility for?
Thank you for this intelligent, acknowledging, interesting video. Respect and love each others men and women. Chivalry is not condenscenting and patronising toward woman, it depends on the intentions that a person has. It's just an instrument that one decides to use for good or evil. Don't be ignorant, use common sense. Chivalry is mans way to show his love, affection care, respect ect to his beloved woman. Only ignorant people use chivalry to be condenscenting and patronazing It's up to you to recognise if his intentions are good and pure or with ulterior motive.
Chivalry is gentleman's way to honour,respect, take care and cherish his beloved woman. Real man does these act out of love, respect and consideration toward his woman. He doesn't want to be condensenting or patronazing. These men who show chivalrous acts to be condenscenting and patronazing don't merit womens attention and time. Women choose men who have pure intentions. Chivalry is an instrument that can be stumentalized to do good or bad acts. Women and men don't get discouraged by malicious people who want to destroy acts of love and service.
Chivalry is not patronising or condescending toward women, men who use chivalry to patronise women are not gentlemen, they are Ignorant people. Good men show acts of chivalry to women because they want to to be thoughtful, honour, respect and take care of them without ulterior motives. Chivalrous gestures is a way real man shows his love and care to a woman.
When I prepare to enter a building I casually check any reflections or shadows to see if anyone is behind me. If the person approaching from behind is a woman, I turn around and walk away from the building until she has gone inside. Some women find it offensive when a man holds a door open and I don't want to deal with inadvertently being considered a creep. Of course I'm already a creep for having accidentally glanced at her as she approached the door. I would love to play the role of a "traditional" man, but women want to be independent. I would have loved to take care of a wife and help raise a family. I have the financial means to do so comfortably. Women never get to discover that I have money. I am merely average in height, features and build, therefore immediately falling short of the standards demanded by modern women. My only reasonable choice is to avoid them.
That moment when Americans discuss a Military Code of Honour called the Chivalric Code, that existed among European Knights and had largely more to do with their loyalty to their Lords and military behaviour rather than the treatment of women as if it's still a thing today in modern times 🤦
This article gives hope. On occasion, my good intentions have been rebuffed by some women and seemingly caused offence. The comments below also suggest that times truly have changed. Women are far less ‘feminine’ now and it is a great shame.
Not necessarily, as various scientific studies have indicated the overwhelming majority of women do indeed find chivalry to be "attractive". Even self-proclaimed "Feminists" do, in spite of constantly lambasting chivalry as "Sexist". Personally, I do not really care for chivalry myself, but most individuals I am aware of definitely appreciate it. Never utilise a couple of "unfortunate" experiences to generalise huge swaths of the population. For any reason that is.
Chivalry had nothing to do with Women in the first place. It stems from the French term "Chivalerie" I believe. Wich just meant for a Knight to know how to ride a horse. That's it. Chivalry was just for a Knight to pledge loyalty to their lord and know how to ride a horse.
No actually chivalry is dying because men including m aren’t putting a woman over myself because she is woman I don’t do that to anyone (unless I care about them/ love them) so why would I hold the door open for you when u can easily do it urself or open the door to the car like please it’s not cause we wanna show we want to use our strength to signal to u we aren’t doing it to respect u where doing it cause were told to do it cause it’s the gentleman thing to do where also told where replaceable and in life threatening situations to sacrifice ourselves for women I don’t see a single woman stepping up to try to defend me so I’m not gonna do it for them every person for themselves I’m not giving up my life for yours because ur of the opposite sex like no
Women do express chivalry, but in the domain of their natural superiority: sex. The beauty and attractiveness of a woman is a powerful facilitator in a man's world. Women who are modest, chaste and lady-like are willingly denying themselves social advantage over men (and other women) in order to demonstrate their eligibility across all aspects of society.
Well, when a woman calls a man trash and says his life has no value, she instantly loses the right to ask for any type of respect. The only type of respect you deserve after calling a man trash is for him not to physically beat you mercilessly
Yea idek wat chivalrous is....sum dudes seem to think holding a dmn door means u get a pp touch... Like idt payin 4 dinner is chivalry either...uhm hmm...mayb surprising my wife ? Yeah...i wldnt call it chivalry mre than i wld call it bein a decent husband
Nice of her to defend actions that benefit women. Don’t take it up with men. Take it up with women that screamed for equality. Can’t complain about not getting chivalry in a world that treats you equal!
Uhm Chivalry was a military code which European knights lived by, AKA the Chivalric Code which if you actually take the time to research has nothing to do with the treatment of women and was more a Code of Honour which European knights lived by and how they pledged their loyalty to their Lords very similar to the Bushido code of honour practiced in Japan by the samurai, I don't understand why you Americans are discussing it in modern times and from the perspective of sexism and the treatment of women when it had absolutely nothing to do with that.... because sexism towards women existed in many cultures around the world even in ones that had no Chivalric Code within their culture....god I never knew Americans could be so damned sensitive and want to politicize everything so much even shit that doesn't need to be political 🙄
But what if I don't find those act unattractive tho......(I'm a woman btw sorry about the name :)) You may say I was brainwashed by radical feminists but I've been thinking that way since i was 5 even before I knew the word feminism existed. Maybe just like you said, men are being chivalrous just to be polite. But I know for sure that "some" men use it to exert his superiority. For example my ex was (at least he thought he was) chivalrous person. When we started dating I just considered it a courtesy and accepted it even though I felt uncomfortable with it because I didn't really want to hurt his feelings. And when I finally told him that I appreciate his courtesy but I find it uncomfortable he yelled at me and said that what I said was "deeply emasculating".
Exactly! It’s so condescending, and creates an awful power imbalance. I hate the idea that a guy feels he’s entitled to my body because he’s paid for my drink. It all stems from the idea that women want money and men want sex, when we should be equals in both departments. It’s the only way to a healthy relationship.
NotAn Ostrich how did you get from ‘it’s condescending for men to buy women drinks’ to ‘don’t go to bars’. If a guy offers (I mean if a friend I’m with offers) then that’s ok. But some guys won’t take no for an answer. And they seem to be the same guys who also won’t take no for an answer in other contexts. Also it’s just a symptom of a wider societal problem which assumes that men always have more money than women
You’re calling men “idiots” for not paying on a date. What is he was poor and financially struggling ?? Also, why should men have to do anything for women. Women are capable. Also, nowadays, women have many more rights compared to men. If a man was harassed by a woman, nobody would care. However is a woman is being harassed by a man the whole story is changed. Yes, men are more capable in some ways, doesn’t mean this is expected of them. Oh, and how about in court situations where women are much more likely to gain custody of their child and the dad is meant to pay thousands in child support without any chance or choice?? Seriously women who have these beliefs are the “idiots” as you explained earlier about men.
Chivalry says that men are supposed to do thing like pay for dinner with a women but if I said that a woman should cook for a man that would be sexist when it’s exactly the same
selective equality
A woman automatically will cook for you if you are in a relationship and you are a chivalrious person. Its ingrained in their minds from thousands of years of evolution. If she doesnt, she is probably not worth your quality.
@@barakaobama4017 Hey which VR game are u playing. I think you have connected to a different universe brother. Things like this don't happen
But now its dead since women and their feminism killed it as it should be
I don't think Chivalry is about "supposed to", it's more about "it's good to"
Feminism killed chivalry
I've actually been barked at for being patronising after holding a door.
I find it hard because I was brought up in a world where I was programmed to look after women, children and the elderly.
But you can't have chivalry AND equality, there has to be a choice.
Bru if u think holding a door will get u laid...n has no stranger been chivalrous to u? Let u cut the line wen u had 1 item? Hold the door for u? Pick up sumtin u dropped?
Yes you can, most people of any gender appreciate kind gestures and prefereably natural kind gestures. Some people may not like you deliberately doing things for them but a passing gesture of kindness is always appreciated universally dude
I want to like this millions. Though you got my 1. I feel like we lost the concept of chivalry due to the confusion of feminism as you so put it. Is true. I was never taught chivalry. It just came to me through instinct. Yet, was pushed away because the concept has been misunderstood. Just as put in this video. I want it to be a series. We need more videos about chivalry to help lesser generations better understand. A world without appreciation is a world of depreciation.
Nah women can’t expect chivalry in this modern world.
Why would we ?
@@izday3668 because of your entitlement,narcissistic not taking responsibility for your actions privilege little life’s.
@@philla8916 I think you are confusing an extreme pressure for women to be physically attractive, with narcissism. could you be more specific, what actions do you think we aren't taking responsibility for?
@@izday3668 iam not mansplaining any further, 🥱 “extreme pressures”🤡
@@philla8916 I’m not accusing you of ‘mansplaining’, I’m was just curious what you meant.
You like it because it's nice to be at the recieving end.
Well if it's pro woman, than it's sexist.
I was thinking the same thing
Thank you for this intelligent, acknowledging, interesting video. Respect and love each others men and women. Chivalry is not condenscenting and patronising toward woman, it depends on the intentions that a person has. It's just an instrument that one decides to use for good or evil. Don't be ignorant, use common sense. Chivalry is mans way to show his love, affection care, respect ect to his beloved woman. Only ignorant people use chivalry to be condenscenting and patronazing It's up to you to recognise if his intentions are good and pure or with ulterior motive.
Chivalry is gentleman's way to honour,respect, take care and cherish his beloved woman. Real man does these act out of love, respect and consideration toward his woman. He doesn't want to be condensenting or patronazing. These men who show chivalrous acts to be condenscenting and patronazing don't merit womens attention and time. Women choose men who have pure intentions. Chivalry is an instrument that can be stumentalized to do good or bad acts. Women and men don't get discouraged by malicious people who want to destroy acts of love and service.
Chivalry is not patronising or condescending toward women, men who use chivalry to patronise women are not gentlemen, they are Ignorant people. Good men show acts of chivalry to women because they want to to be thoughtful, honour, respect and take care of them without ulterior motives. Chivalrous gestures is a way real man shows his love and care to a woman.
Thank you! 🙏
When I prepare to enter a building I casually check any reflections or shadows to see if anyone is behind me. If the person approaching from behind is a woman, I turn around and walk away from the building until she has gone inside. Some women find it offensive when a man holds a door open and I don't want to deal with inadvertently being considered a creep. Of course I'm already a creep for having accidentally glanced at her as she approached the door. I would love to play the role of a "traditional" man, but women want to be independent. I would have loved to take care of a wife and help raise a family. I have the financial means to do so comfortably. Women never get to discover that I have money. I am merely average in height, features and build, therefore immediately falling short of the standards demanded by modern women. My only reasonable choice is to avoid them.
Chivalry as behavioral code was a piece of a larger puzzle that no longer exists. Because it no longer exists it makes still existing pieces useless.
That moment when Americans discuss a Military Code of Honour called the Chivalric Code, that existed among European Knights and had largely more to do with their loyalty to their Lords and military behaviour rather than the treatment of women as if it's still a thing today in modern times 🤦
Right on. Chivalry AKA Courtly Love is a work of fiction invented about 900 years ago. It never was alive except in the minds of it fans.
This article gives hope. On occasion, my good intentions have been rebuffed by some women and seemingly caused offence. The comments below also suggest that times truly have changed. Women are far less ‘feminine’ now and it is a great shame.
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Not necessarily, as various scientific studies have indicated the overwhelming majority of women do indeed find chivalry to be "attractive".
Even self-proclaimed "Feminists" do, in spite of constantly lambasting chivalry as "Sexist".
Personally, I do not really care for chivalry myself, but most individuals I am aware of definitely appreciate it.
Never utilise a couple of "unfortunate" experiences to generalise huge swaths of the population.
For any reason that is.
Phenomenal! 🤗
If we should do do cherry then you guys should still be in the house cooking washing the dishes taking care of the kids
whats wrong with that? thats how most women are happy
@@kaizenability
What's wrong with cooking, cleaning washing dishes and looking after kids and be housewives
@@eaglemgtow2789 I said that’s how women are happy. I agreed
@@kaizenability
I don't a crap about they happiness I care about Responsibility
@@eaglemgtow2789 a good wife doesn’t moan about her responsibility and even gets satisfaction from it
We could all be chivalrous to each other, beyond gender roles. It's just being a kind human.
Women want to have their cake and eat it too.
no, keep you equality we don't want to do it anymore.
How so you supposedly believe in "gender equality" yet you simultaneously demand chivalry?
Isn't your statement inherently hypocritical?
This is the 21st century, lady. Hold your own doors, carry your own crap.
Chivalry had nothing to do with Women in the first place. It stems from the French term "Chivalerie" I believe. Wich just meant for a Knight to know how to ride a horse. That's it. Chivalry was just for a Knight to pledge loyalty to their lord and know how to ride a horse.
No actually chivalry is dying because men including m aren’t putting a woman over myself because she is woman I don’t do that to anyone (unless I care about them/ love them) so why would I hold the door open for you when u can easily do it urself or open the door to the car like please it’s not cause we wanna show we want to use our strength to signal to u we aren’t doing it to respect u where doing it cause were told to do it cause it’s the gentleman thing to do where also told where replaceable and in life threatening situations to sacrifice ourselves for women I don’t see a single woman stepping up to try to defend me so I’m not gonna do it for them every person for themselves I’m not giving up my life for yours because ur of the opposite sex like no
Finally, something I want to hear.
So why can’t women do the same ?
Women do express chivalry, but in the domain of their natural superiority: sex. The beauty and attractiveness of a woman is a powerful facilitator in a man's world. Women who are modest, chaste and lady-like are willingly denying themselves social advantage over men (and other women) in order to demonstrate their eligibility across all aspects of society.
@@ursamajor6347 cooking is traditionally feminine try that
I am not paying for a woman’s dinner that I might not see her again after a date. She may consider me cheap which is ironic cuz she wants a free meal.
Well, when a woman calls a man trash and says his life has no value, she instantly loses the right to ask for any type of respect. The only type of respect you deserve after calling a man trash is for him not to physically beat you mercilessly
Yea idek wat chivalrous is....sum dudes seem to think holding a dmn door means u get a pp touch...
Like idt payin 4 dinner is chivalry either...uhm hmm...mayb surprising my wife ? Yeah...i wldnt call it chivalry mre than i wld call it bein a decent husband
I just liked the video based on the title before I even watched it 😝
Thank you so much for this content Please please please keep up the great work I am looking forward to more
Too late. You are strong and independent now. Deal with it :)
Yeah don't think this chick knows what sexism means.
Yeeeee
I like ladies! They are best!!
Nice of her to defend actions that benefit women. Don’t take it up with men. Take it up with women that screamed for equality. Can’t complain about not getting chivalry in a world that treats you equal!
Nope. It’s definitely sexist. Even though it can come from a good heart.
Uhm Chivalry was a military code which European knights lived by, AKA the Chivalric Code which if you actually take the time to research has nothing to do with the treatment of women and was more a Code of Honour which European knights lived by and how they pledged their loyalty to their Lords very similar to the Bushido code of honour practiced in Japan by the samurai, I don't understand why you Americans are discussing it in modern times and from the perspective of sexism and the treatment of women when it had absolutely nothing to do with that.... because sexism towards women existed in many cultures around the world even in ones that had no Chivalric Code within their culture....god I never knew Americans could be so damned sensitive and want to politicize everything so much even shit that doesn't need to be political 🙄
Against men that is.
But what if I don't find those act unattractive tho......(I'm a woman btw sorry about the name :)) You may say I was brainwashed by radical feminists but I've been thinking that way since i was 5 even before I knew the word feminism existed. Maybe just like you said, men are being chivalrous just to be polite. But I know for sure that "some" men use it to exert his superiority. For example my ex was (at least he thought he was) chivalrous person. When we started dating I just considered it a courtesy and accepted it even though I felt uncomfortable with it because I didn't really want to hurt his feelings. And when I finally told him that I appreciate his courtesy but I find it uncomfortable he yelled at me and said that what I said was "deeply emasculating".
Exactly! It’s so condescending, and creates an awful power imbalance. I hate the idea that a guy feels he’s entitled to my body because he’s paid for my drink. It all stems from the idea that women want money and men want sex, when we should be equals in both departments. It’s the only way to a healthy relationship.
NotAn Ostrich I’m sorry but is that even a serious question
NotAn Ostrich how did you get from ‘it’s condescending for men to buy women drinks’ to ‘don’t go to bars’. If a guy offers (I mean if a friend I’m with offers) then that’s ok. But some guys won’t take no for an answer. And they seem to be the same guys who also won’t take no for an answer in other contexts.
Also it’s just a symptom of a wider societal problem which assumes that men always have more money than women
NotAn Ostrich would you let a woman buy you a drink ?
Iz we should be equals in certain aspects to make a relationship work
You’re calling men “idiots” for not paying on a date. What is he was poor and financially struggling ?? Also, why should men have to do anything for women. Women are capable. Also, nowadays, women have many more rights compared to men. If a man was harassed by a woman, nobody would care. However is a woman is being harassed by a man the whole story is changed. Yes, men are more capable in some ways, doesn’t mean this is expected of them. Oh, and how about in court situations where women are much more likely to gain custody of their child and the dad is meant to pay thousands in child support without any chance or choice?? Seriously women who have these beliefs are the “idiots” as you explained earlier about men.
it is sexist, sexist against men.
Chivalry should be genderless.
no it's already dead
You cannot demand "gender equality" while you simultaneously want chivalry.
Something tells me that you want your cake and to eat it too.
Why this video/her looks cgi?
It's all the lip injections she has.
Who care if woman like it or not 😂😂
It is sexist chivalrous men view women as worthless.
It is sexist you woman look at men the same and as ATMS
@@philla8916 i earn my money i don't need yours.
youtube deleting commetns nice
@@jacindapeters2303 men built society and security.
@@jacindapeters2303 Is it sexist to say ladies first?
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