Changing Perspective from Shame to Self-worth | Sue Bryce | TEDxPepperdineUniversity

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  • čas přidán 3. 12. 2020
  • When you hold a camera up to your eye and look through the lens to the person beyond, their vulnerabilities are exposed. Sue Bryce was once a high-school dropout and is now a successful portrait photographer and founder of The Sue Bryce Education Library. She shares her journey from overcoming a lens of shame to having one of self-worth. SUE BRYCE is a proud Kiwi, a professional photographer, an educator and speaker born and raised in New Zealand. Sue has lived in Los Angeles for 7 years. With 30 years of experience, Sue Bryce is one of the most recognizable photographers in the imaging industry. Her contemporary portrait style transcends past stereotypes and has changed the face of portrait photography and photography businesses internationally. Bryce created her own ground-breaking educational platform in 2014, in which she uses her signature techniques to mentor and empower thousands of photographers and businesses around the world. In 2015 Bryce was greatly honored to be chosen to represent Canon USA in the Explorers of Light program. Sue Bryce Education is an online education community for contemporary portraits connecting to photographers globally through live broadcasts, videos, in-person workshops, and The Portrait Masters annual boutique conference.
    suebryceeducation.com, suebryceportrait.com, sbtv.com, theportraitmasters.com, IG: suebrycephotographer, FB: Sue Bryce Photographer This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 117

  • @thewisdom-monkey
    @thewisdom-monkey Před 7 měsíci +9

    "You will become as successful as the amount of pain you’re willing to endure. And the faster you accept the pain, the faster you move through it." Wow.

  • @heyitsaradia
    @heyitsaradia Před 7 měsíci +6

    "The shame isn't your enemy. It's your guiding light to self-worth."
    "Learn a new way to perceive yourself. Learn a new way to present yourself to the world."
    "Understanding and rewriting our greatest shame. Our weakness. Our failure of character. The parts we most hate about ourselves. And bring them to light."
    "I found no physical barrier to success that was not created by me. And i truly believed there was. I empowered my greatest shame and it became my superpower."
    "You will be as successful as the amount of pain you are willing to endure. And the faster you accept the pain, the faster you move through it."
    "Money is value to self." "Bad people make money."
    "How do you rewrite the story? Come back to the present." "Do not numb this pain."
    "The antonym of shame is honor."

  • @rebeccaobanion5053
    @rebeccaobanion5053 Před 2 lety +73

    "The antonym of shame is honor." Wow! That is reverberating through me. Beautiful talk!

  • @JordanPendragon
    @JordanPendragon Před 2 lety +90

    When she said she did not finish high school I just wanted to cry. I too left high school at 16. I’m 26 now and i still let others shame me from not finishing. Especially being from a Salvadoran family. And the first born. They expected more of me. But I am working on getting my ged. Even if at slow pace. Still that’s enough…

    • @rachelsanders2314
      @rachelsanders2314 Před 2 lety +7

      You can do it…don’t give up!

    • @lifehackstv9721
      @lifehackstv9721 Před 2 lety

      God loves you brother, God so loved the world that He sent his only begotten son that whoesoever believeth on him should not perish but have everlasting life
      john 3:16 in the bible

    • @ednan1404
      @ednan1404 Před rokem +2

      You will succeed dear, don't give up, keep moving forward no matter the situation

    • @iXpress
      @iXpress Před rokem +4

      You'll do it. Keep moving 👍

    • @baileystark7629
      @baileystark7629 Před rokem +3

      26 is young.

  • @maureen3621
    @maureen3621 Před rokem +18

    My shame as a child was that I was slow, female and came from Irish working class. In fact at the age of 8 my school report was the piece of paper that wrote me off. I agree with what you said “question fear itself”. When I was in my 30’s I stopped writing myself off and nothing has stopped me since. My worth is not seeking someone else’s approval.

  • @pamjohnston3219
    @pamjohnston3219 Před 3 lety +80

    "You are the poison and the antidote"....Sue, I love your heart. You are the first person I watched on Creative Live when I began my photography journey. I've watched your amazing journey... Lots of tears listening to this powerful, concise talk, full of wisdom. Thank you. Blessings from my heart to yours.

  • @babyboy1971
    @babyboy1971 Před 3 lety +39

    Sue Bryce is my my mentor, my friend, my teacher and my hero. Her work changed my life. I adore her and this talk is stunning. Quite possibly the best TED talk I’ve ever seen, and I’ve seen hundreds.

  • @sandhiyabeharee9146
    @sandhiyabeharee9146 Před rokem +12

    This has got to be the most profound talk on self worth I have ever heard! The beauty of it is in the simplicity of your words. Thank you, Sue, for these words of wisdom!! 👏🏼🙏🏼

  • @cynthiajones1461
    @cynthiajones1461 Před 3 lety +11

    One of the top 5 Ted talks ever. I will share with everyone!

  • @sdz4383
    @sdz4383 Před 3 lety +20

    She is someone who speaks from experience . Well - thought of speech !

  • @sanjeevbains690
    @sanjeevbains690 Před 3 dny

    The faster you accept the pain, the faster you will move through it. Stay present, observe, soothe. Power = Emotional Mastery. Find your value & attract it.

  • @buttercake5902
    @buttercake5902 Před 3 měsíci +2

    she is so sincere and it is this that give impact

  • @rawsomephotographybyoksana276

    So much love and respect to you Sue!!!

  • @fandreia5428
    @fandreia5428 Před 3 lety +3

    Sue you are so inspirational. You are amazing.

  • @thompsd3
    @thompsd3 Před 3 lety +4

    This person and this message changed my life thank you Sue

  • @katarzynalindner594
    @katarzynalindner594 Před 2 lety +2

    So honest. So direct. So beautiful. THANK YOU.

  • @JulieUlstrup
    @JulieUlstrup Před 3 lety +12

    Incredible TED Talk Sue! You continue to inspire and share your passion, thank you for being a shining example of living our best lives.

  • @rosaline9220
    @rosaline9220 Před 3 lety +3

    The best TED Talk so far- honor yourself

  • @nevillesteer326
    @nevillesteer326 Před 3 lety +10

    Such an insightful talk Sue with so much honesty and understanding of our human condition. As part of your Sue Bryce Education community, this increases my already enormous respect I have for your work and generosity.

  • @mihyunchoi1397
    @mihyunchoi1397 Před 3 lety +3

    She is such an inspiration. Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @ashk504
    @ashk504 Před 2 lety

    Sue Bryce has been such a huge influence on me through photography for so many years !!! She is truly amazing!

  • @marielegare1073
    @marielegare1073 Před 2 lety +2

    Wow! what an amazing talk! Sue, you are for me my greatest inspiration, you talked from your heart and are so generous in sharing your story and passion. I found you on youtube and became a member of your educational program right away. I started my business and followed your guidance. You changed my life!
    The best talk ever!

  • @Nati_lifestylemedicine
    @Nati_lifestylemedicine Před 3 lety +3

    She owns it🔥 beautiful powerful Sue! Thank you so much!

  • @sadekamullings269
    @sadekamullings269 Před 2 lety +2

    Very heartfelt speech. Thank you’

  • @justask1564
    @justask1564 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow, your words have echoed within my soul. Thank you for sharing and for doing it so elegantly.

  • @TeekaZTowns
    @TeekaZTowns Před 2 lety +1

    So eye opening and inspiring 💗 Thank you for sharing your experience, in order to help/inspire others.

  • @khamilarahim3779
    @khamilarahim3779 Před rokem

    Wow ❤ the sincerity and humilty is mind blowing.Listened to this at just the right time in my life.

  • @anaisabel907
    @anaisabel907 Před 3 lety +4

    Amazing as always Sue! Thank you for teaching us so much and bringing us some much value. Congratulations. Well deserved

  • @ninahickey7157
    @ninahickey7157 Před 3 lety +1

    Excellent speech given by a true trailblazer.

  • @epizykloid
    @epizykloid Před 3 lety

    Thank you very much for your inspiration Sue!

  • @maeaghili9321
    @maeaghili9321 Před 3 lety +3

    amazing talk. thanks for sharing your wisdom and your journey

  • @Taystarsims
    @Taystarsims Před 4 měsíci

    That was incredible. So divine timing with my inner work happening right now!!! Thanks to this speaker- what a message!

  • @jenniferabbott1980
    @jenniferabbott1980 Před 2 lety +2

    ❤️💪🏼 beautiful! Just what I needed to hear, thank you for sharing and inspiring!

  • @marthajohnson3250
    @marthajohnson3250 Před 3 lety

    Just amazing, really. So relatable to me. So practical, so useful and insightful talk. Thank you for this.

  • @michaelgross5719
    @michaelgross5719 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm impressed! You inspire me to think that, I too, can turn failure into success.

  • @soulwisdom82
    @soulwisdom82 Před rokem

    Wow! So very powerful and relatable! I feel this within myself; thank you for articulating this inspiringly.

  • @precious14stones
    @precious14stones Před 8 měsíci

    This message was so powerful, i couldn't but take notes. And i really want to use this advice in my everyday life

  • @Mexicotravelltd.
    @Mexicotravelltd. Před 3 lety +5

    i never saw her before , she is an amazing inspiror

  • @randichilds1922
    @randichilds1922 Před 3 lety +2

    Amazing TEDx Talk Sue!!!!!!

  • @esmeraldaborregophotograph464

    She is a inspiration ,thank you for you for share your work !

  • @allcalmsoothing9443
    @allcalmsoothing9443 Před 2 lety +1

    Wow, such an awesome speech and great explanations of self-worth.

  • @marabudd4670
    @marabudd4670 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you! You are an angel 😇

  • @reginah2656
    @reginah2656 Před 2 lety

    What a humble human being!

  • @tampagirl7533
    @tampagirl7533 Před rokem

    Absolutely amazing!!! Inspirational and providing a roadmap to honoring thyself

  • @user-km4jl7vh3h
    @user-km4jl7vh3h Před měsícem

    So brave and inspiring. Thankyou

  • @christina7561
    @christina7561 Před 3 měsíci

    Amazingly inspiring. Just the reminder I needed. 💖🙏

  • @LahoriyaLegacy
    @LahoriyaLegacy Před 3 lety +2

    I feel connection

  • @hellopanda1664
    @hellopanda1664 Před rokem +1

    my goodness ! i heard so many powerful truth experiences !

  • @brianmunce2592
    @brianmunce2592 Před 3 lety +2

    Incredible, Sue

  • @Sky-ui5cd
    @Sky-ui5cd Před rokem

    Feel, observe, and ACCEPT emotions
    Analyze why it's there and move through

  • @erindarruci1015
    @erindarruci1015 Před 3 lety +5

    She has style!

  • @batman1820.
    @batman1820. Před 4 měsíci

    Thank you for this lesson ❤

  • @rebeccaveal7528
    @rebeccaveal7528 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you!!!!!!!💞

  • @sarahcooper3960
    @sarahcooper3960 Před 3 lety

    Fantastically inspiring - thank you!

  • @simmee3782
    @simmee3782 Před 2 měsíci

    Incredibly powerful

  • @aniaphotouk
    @aniaphotouk Před 3 lety +4

    Love Sue. I had a chance to see her speaking live, she is incredible

    • @KarriePorterBond
      @KarriePorterBond Před 2 lety +2

      I never cried so hard as listening to her keynote at WPPI. She changed my life and my sense of self confidence forever.

  • @monicadart4070
    @monicadart4070 Před 3 lety +6

    Such an is inspiration, Sue. The light you have shone into your darkest places, is now shining bright on your students. You have changed my life and business beyond anything I could ever have imagined. Thank you. This is a talk I’ll go back to watching, again and again.

  • @maurogarces7337
    @maurogarces7337 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for this

  • @inbetweendreamsteresaalves
    @inbetweendreamsteresaalves Před 6 měsíci

    I could feel her pain. Moving

  • @charlesegbulefu7709
    @charlesegbulefu7709 Před 2 lety

    Thank you

  • @buddhaneosiddhananda8499
    @buddhaneosiddhananda8499 Před 2 lety +3

    All the answers lie in spirituality...

  • @movingforwardfco1587
    @movingforwardfco1587 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you beautiful lady!

  • @marwanqannam9400
    @marwanqannam9400 Před 2 lety

    To be an worthy person deserve the respect it's your choice

  • @neeld.6649
    @neeld.6649 Před 2 lety

    Beautiful!

  • @Larry21924
    @Larry21924 Před 4 měsíci

    This is genius at its best. I read a book with a similar theme, and it was truly remarkable. "Your Body Your Temple" by Sophia Wintergreen

  • @GregtheGrey6969
    @GregtheGrey6969 Před 8 měsíci

    Brilliant...thank you

  • @juliedipietro2147
    @juliedipietro2147 Před rokem

    wow! thank you so much for sharing...You will never attract more than what You believe you're worth! I have work to do now!!!!!

  • @andrejakardelis8377
    @andrejakardelis8377 Před 3 lety

    best talk I watched...

  • @bertoonz
    @bertoonz Před rokem

    Thanks for this

  • @evanlinford6256
    @evanlinford6256 Před 2 lety

    Awesome Ted Talk 👏

  • @Thunderactionsports
    @Thunderactionsports Před 3 lety +1

    Superb!

  • @fernandablonski1117
    @fernandablonski1117 Před rokem

    Outstanding 👏👏👏

  • @NewOldObsession
    @NewOldObsession Před rokem

    pain comes from resistance and non-acceptance of yourself
    abundance is a metric for worthy and worthless, not good and bad. success follows self-worth
    "the faster you accept the pain, the faster you move through it"
    "you are the poison and you are the antidote"
    disable avoidance
    fear is your old story talking, don't listen to it!
    declare what you want and obsessively focus on it EVERY SINGLE DAY
    the antonym of shame is honor
    you will never attract more than what you believe you are worth

  • @ro55reel5
    @ro55reel5 Před rokem

    Wise

  • @allyjoyce
    @allyjoyce Před 2 lety +1

    Yay a Kiwi 😀

  • @aitch365
    @aitch365 Před 3 lety +1

    Brilliant :O

  • @JohnnyFive626
    @JohnnyFive626 Před rokem +1

    6:26 grew up poor and was not fed dinner most nights bc my mother was Too Proud to apply for food stamps/govt aid.

  • @brandnaqua
    @brandnaqua Před 2 lety

    WOW THIS IS AMAZING!!!! :D

  • @samuelmitchell5408
    @samuelmitchell5408 Před rokem

    Find your value.

  • @CharlesSantiagoRE
    @CharlesSantiagoRE Před rokem +1

    My eyes are sweating

  • @shekeliasmith5103
    @shekeliasmith5103 Před rokem

  • @Sky-ui5cd
    @Sky-ui5cd Před rokem +1

    numbing is kind of like avoidance

  • @marwanqannam9400
    @marwanqannam9400 Před 2 lety

    You are responsible for make progress . Nobody will gives you the success if you didn't know the importance of your existence .

  • @nellyymessy
    @nellyymessy Před 2 lety

    💗😊

  • @nathansurrett2088
    @nathansurrett2088 Před 2 lety +2

    Sure, that is well and good. Where is the 'HOW'?

    • @CentaurPress
      @CentaurPress Před 7 měsíci

      I thought a “how” was to stay with your feelings. Don’t avoid them. I know that I have often numbed my pain instead of being with them.
      It is like the saying, the only way to get over something is through it .
      That’s what I got out of it🤷.

  • @marwanqannam9400
    @marwanqannam9400 Před 2 lety +1

    Worthlessness is your choice it's up to you how do you see yourself with others . It's not an optional decision it's your accomplish vision .

  • @Cindy-gb3ms
    @Cindy-gb3ms Před rokem

    10:30

  • @NorthtownAP_647
    @NorthtownAP_647 Před 7 měsíci

    I believe high school for some, maybe even most of us is a waste of time. The ciriculum taught is of very little value. It doesn't teach the necessary skills to be successful in life.

  • @davidwhitcher1972
    @davidwhitcher1972 Před rokem

    Her story literally puts me to shame.

  • @432hzlovefrequency-truthinside

    Theoretical perspectives are the basic assumptions about how society functions, the role of sociology, and the application of a specific set theories in studying social life.
    -- Society is a unified whole that seeks equilibrium
    -- Society is composed of groups competing for scare resources
    -- Social life can be measured through observing daily interactions
    -- Sociology should be used to enact social change
    -- Sociology should be value free

  • @MS-ns4ki
    @MS-ns4ki Před 7 měsíci

    No one talks to me feels great 😂

  • @sitizanariahmohamad5688

    I am Alive Now.

  • @charlesthompson9889
    @charlesthompson9889 Před 2 lety

    what a shame

  • @lifehackstv9721
    @lifehackstv9721 Před 2 lety

    God so loved the world that HE sent His only begotten Son that whoesoever believeth on Him should not perish but have everlasting life

  • @jeremiahkatete1113
    @jeremiahkatete1113 Před 3 lety

    Send me

  • @ishir1495
    @ishir1495 Před 3 lety +3

    .....
    you are probably wondering why do i have so many likes

  • @bellareylancorrea4009
    @bellareylancorrea4009 Před 2 lety

    Imagine being educated and wealthy and still be worthless

  • @brandnaqua
    @brandnaqua Před 2 lety

    from doing portraits in her Garage to Creative Live to a TED Talk! AMAZING 🤍🙌🙏🙏

  • @ashmeadali
    @ashmeadali Před 10 měsíci

    Sing HU daily to open your heart to love yourself and all life. HU app describes how