Real Families Exclusive: Understanding Autism

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  • čas přidán 6. 12. 2021
  • Kim 'Scruff' Preston is a single mother to three boys, who all have autism. Living together under one roof is a challenging task when it comes to keeping the peace. With different ticks, triggers and habits, Kim has to delicately balance the needs of all of her children with very little time for her own life.
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Komentáře • 62

  • @gabe-po9yi
    @gabe-po9yi Před 2 lety +22

    “Sometimes there aren’t solutions, you just work with what is and find a way to fit it in.” Wise words. Realistic words.

  • @r.1807
    @r.1807 Před 2 lety +35

    She's an amazing mother! You can tell she love her children💜

  • @QueenHonor
    @QueenHonor Před 2 lety +22

    This is a real queen right here someone to admire and very hardworking

  • @lilscratchnsniff
    @lilscratchnsniff Před 2 lety +20

    Must be exhausting....but you do anything for ones you love.

  • @em4655
    @em4655 Před 2 lety +17

    Now this is a parent who can say 100% that she has and still is dedicated/ing her whole LIFE as a mother to her children, not just preparing to leave the nest and off to collage/uni or into fulltime work which is how "normal family life" goes.. she is caring for every single need (×4) for each child as theyre needs will all be different and handled differently. She has learnt herself on how to avoid meltdowns and changed what is "normal" to us, into what is normall for her to avoid meltdowns and fighting all the time.. She has to protect her mental health too though and a bedroom to herself will be a great start. My goodness, she is doing AMAZING! Well done mama x

  • @YourAvergeHuman1
    @YourAvergeHuman1 Před 2 lety +31

    Love of a mother is like no other 💞 God Bless this lady ❤

  • @TheMightyPika
    @TheMightyPika Před 2 lety +25

    I'm on the spectrum and am functioning relatively alright, though with some similar challenges to these gentlemen. It's fascinating to see how the same neurodivergance can effect people so differently and similarly.

    • @jemieculp6847
      @jemieculp6847 Před 2 lety +2

      ASD is a very individualized disorder and I think this family really shows some of the different challenges people with Autism can have even within the same family. I love how the mom recognizes each child has different strengths and challenges and adjusts her expectations accordingly. I also love how she knows how to encourage positive behavior in her kids and reduce meltdowns and anxiety.
      She reminds me a lot of my best friend. Both her children are diagnosed with ASD. She has two boys. She handles them a lot like this mom does, though she has the benefit of having a husband who is supportive.

  • @stressnebula
    @stressnebula Před 2 lety +20

    What a wonderful mother!

  • @shaunalea823
    @shaunalea823 Před rokem +6

    Wonderful mother!!!! It’s definitely possible for all 4 to have their own lives and still be happy. I definitely respect this mother for recognizing her responsibility but she does deserve her own happiness.

  • @kellykim4515
    @kellykim4515 Před 2 lety +19

    What an amazing mother 💚

  • @bethaniel841
    @bethaniel841 Před 2 lety +8

    You say you are lucky to have them, which you are, however, they are equally as a lucky to have you - what an emotionally intelligent person you are my lovely 😊 hope you get some, much needed, respite 🤓 sending much love from the UK ❤️

  • @nicoleb2015
    @nicoleb2015 Před rokem +4

    I had to look this mom up based on a video I came across from 11 years ago. Such an inspiration!

  • @Zeboprancingstar
    @Zeboprancingstar Před 2 lety +8

    What an incredible woman.

  • @two_cent
    @two_cent Před rokem +2

    She is an amazing mother. I like the way she has everything set up each man child has a 101 with mom then sent off to school. I hope she gets the peace they are showing

  • @eduardopadilla5505
    @eduardopadilla5505 Před 2 lety +10

    Huge human beings they all are!

  • @vanessadeklerk2862
    @vanessadeklerk2862 Před rokem +1

    What an amazing woman! She really loves her sons with an unconditional love. If only all parents could be like her. God bless.

  • @jessicaknight8711
    @jessicaknight8711 Před 2 lety +8

    What an amazing mumma! ❤️

  • @ladytj4u
    @ladytj4u Před rokem +2

    Kim thank you for choosing to sharing you story. God bless you and the boys ❤

  • @chelseawaits3630
    @chelseawaits3630 Před 2 lety +2

    I love watching the video I have a cousin with Autism and he gets along with his mom and dad he still doesn't know anything either but he does talk a little bit but communication skills is working a lot better

  • @hopelessly.hopeful
    @hopelessly.hopeful Před 21 dnem

    Amazing, caring and kind mother 🤍
    I hope they're all doing well today.

  • @aileenpeak9108
    @aileenpeak9108 Před rokem +2

    Great management of your boys 💖💖

  • @vanessaallen6034
    @vanessaallen6034 Před 2 lety +12

    This is an old one. Would love an update

    • @wresting9899
      @wresting9899 Před 11 měsíci

      How is odd there lots off mothers who has children with complex needs

  • @dreamer33ish
    @dreamer33ish Před rokem

    Absolutely fabulous mother! God’s blessings to you all! X

  • @racheallewis2437
    @racheallewis2437 Před rokem +1

    I wish I could talk to this wonderful Mother. I am so much like you! I don’t want outside interference when it comes to my son. He is 8 nonverbal with autism and I have a neurotypical 24 year old daughter. My husband and I love our children so much and I want to be with my son till I pass on. I didn’t even want my daughter to move out lol.

    • @lizzvilla6468
      @lizzvilla6468 Před rokem

      What's neurotypical? I have a 5 yo daughter and she's going to be evaluated next month I'm nervous.

  • @Hunter-pn9dl
    @Hunter-pn9dl Před 10 měsíci +1

    We need an update 😩

  • @user-xm4qt4sd6p
    @user-xm4qt4sd6p Před 20 dny

    She's a good momma

  • @keenoled
    @keenoled Před rokem +5

    Where the f is the dad...

  • @herrmannbarbara9654
    @herrmannbarbara9654 Před rokem +3

    Where’s the dad?

  • @jamesday2224
    @jamesday2224 Před rokem +2

    i have autisum and from the UK, wish i was in Australia looks like better care

    • @kazb4496
      @kazb4496 Před rokem

      New Zealand 🇳🇿 or Australia 🇦🇺

  • @nickearnest901
    @nickearnest901 Před 2 lety +4

    I have autism ps I have bad handwriting

  • @statusdisarray9598
    @statusdisarray9598 Před 2 lety +5

    Where do they live?

  • @9Risky
    @9Risky Před 2 lety +7

    “Congrats to Everyone who is early and found this comment”!

  • @jnelletrim1478
    @jnelletrim1478 Před 2 lety +12

    Remember God loves you!😊
    John 3:16
    For God so loved the world that he gave his only begotten son that whosoever believeth in him should not perish but have everlasting life.
    Please turn your life around and repent🙏
    The clock is ticking.

  • @roddywishart4613
    @roddywishart4613 Před 2 lety +2

    She probably smoked cannabis when she was pregnant. Judging by the decor.

    • @audrab27
      @audrab27 Před 2 lety +1

      Or harder drugs

    • @lydiai7691
      @lydiai7691 Před 2 lety +15

      an unnecessary and hateful comment. shes a very good mother and her sons a lucky to have her. don’t be prejudiced.

    • @roddywishart4613
      @roddywishart4613 Před 2 lety +2

      @@lydiai7691 If there was evidence which showed that smoking canabis while pregnant increased the chance of the child having mental illness would you still make that comment? I don't mean any disrespect by asking that.

    • @lydiai7691
      @lydiai7691 Před 2 lety +7

      @@roddywishart4613 you are assuming she smoked whilst pregnant. literally at no point in the video does anyone suggest that. you just took one look at her and her home and made an ignorant comment.

    • @roddywishart4613
      @roddywishart4613 Před 2 lety

      @@lydiai7691 Right I just want to try and understand where you're coming from. Are you saying she didn't smoke cannabis when she was pregnant, or, if she did it's not a bad thing?
      If it helps you I'll clarify my position. I would say going by the number of Bob Marley images, some of which contain cannabis leaves, I would say there's a significantly above average chance that she herself smokes cannabis. Whether she continued to do so whilst pregnant is not something anyone can prove one way or the other just off the back of this video. But you would have to agree that the chances are higher in this case than if she had would generally be considered a "normal" looking house. The third question is: if she smoked cannabis whilst pregnant, did it contribute to the autism all three of her children have. Again, given how unusual autism is, and how little it is understood, it's impossible to say whether or not this was a contributing factor.
      I can't prove she smoked cannabis when she was pregnant, but to me it looks like she smoked cannabis whilst pregnant, which caused her children to become damaged beyond repair before they'd even started life. And there is a huge push to legalise this drug which no-one can deny in some cases can cause huge psychological damage. Any woman who smokes cannabis whilst pregnant should be jailed.