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EP 34 | Ndamulelo on using substances from age 12 when he remembered what happened to his mother.

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  • čas přidán 6. 07. 2024

Komentáře • 124

  • @stephenmokami4089
    @stephenmokami4089 Před měsícem +79

    I remember it like it happened yesterday. It happened in my village Nzhelele,Ha-Rabali. Sharlot (Ndamu's mother) was such a bubbly person and very beautiful. When going to school in the morning,I was in primary, I was surprised to see many cars Ha-Matzheketzheke and people were crying. It was revealed that Sharlot has passed away,sadly she was pregnant. The guy was arrested but released quickly due to family connections. To Ndamu, never give up in life young man, you will make it in life. To anyone who can help Ndamu, please do so. People from my area cannot be able to help him because his father is very brutal.

  • @thapelolengana
    @thapelolengana Před měsícem +21

    Never felt so broken. I respect this guy, for opening up, fact that he is talking about it means he is healing.

  • @nomthandazomsenga2948
    @nomthandazomsenga2948 Před 27 dny +5

    The enemy saw that you'll heal the nation that's why he wanted 2 keep you in bondage, keep at it my brother.
    With God u have conquered.❤❤❤

  • @Chichinekhubvi-1
    @Chichinekhubvi-1 Před měsícem +32

    The worst part is that, that monster of a father was not even arrested, thanks to your aunt for not giving up on you, im glad you are in a better space

  • @pmo6899
    @pmo6899 Před měsícem +23

    Can he please go to TVET College to further his education. There's NSFAS awaiting him there❤❤❤

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 Před měsícem +17

    He was only 5 but he still recalls all the details . May God heal him❤😢

    • @Her_Self..
      @Her_Self.. Před měsícem +1

      Exactly. One thing about childhood trauma it wil never leave u. I say tbis abt toxic parents who think now that u are grown u shld get over it. .

    • @PhilisaniGumbo-vy8uf
      @PhilisaniGumbo-vy8uf Před 25 dny

      This is so hurtful 💔
      My son remembers things that my ex husband used to do to me Infront of him when he was 4
      Even now he just out of the blues he will say Mama I know you will not stay with Dad again because he used to beat you I know N now his 10 yrs old
      I wish you healing my Brother
      God never fails 🙏
      Great future endeavours to you ❤❤

  • @nwakhubayi
    @nwakhubayi Před měsícem +13

    If this is Ndivhu’s nephew I am glad he conquered 🤍🤍🤍 sending him soo much love . I am soo sorry.

  • @Queendollar83
    @Queendollar83 Před měsícem +13

    He really has a beautiful spirit. Am glad you decided to walk with God through it all. You are going to make it!

  • @MathipaChepape
    @MathipaChepape Před měsícem +13

    The bubles in his voice....
    Him narrating each day that led to the ordeal and days after funeral.
    This child still needs professional help. He cannot be dealing with this traumatic memories on a daily basis.
    I commented before watching this in full.
    This one is an intelligent young man that God allowed for him to go through everything he went through for His glory. I wish you well and fully recovery.

  • @LilianMajeke
    @LilianMajeke Před měsícem +4

    The devil is a liar I pray to GOD ALMIGHTY IN JESUS NAME YOU WON'T RELAPSE AMEN ❤🙏 BIG UP TO NDIVHU T AND PASTOR SHUDU STAY BLESSED ❤LOVE YOU MADAM SPEAKER 😊

  • @Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda
    @Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda Před měsícem +5

    This storry breaks my heart and not being allowed an opportunity to say your goodbyes. Him and his moms family deserved that to say the least and definitely did not deserve loosing his mother in such a brutal manner.😢 May God continue to elivate you my brother.

  • @maytshifularo5415
    @maytshifularo5415 Před měsícem +6

    I hope karma locates his father. I'm feeling so angry about what happened to this child. I cried listening to this. I wish him all the best and I pray that God opens doors for him and I pray for success in his life.

  • @progressrak5728
    @progressrak5728 Před měsícem +5

    Tjoooooooooo😢😢😢😢😢😢
    Hes such a great speaker aswell, maybe find a job where you can speak to people. I can listen to you all day, everyday. Sending you lots of love ❤.

  • @ZoeJack451
    @ZoeJack451 Před 29 dny +3

    I pray for him not to relapse again.
    PLEASE GOD HELP HIM HIS BEEN THROUGH A LOT ALREADY..

  • @sumeiyaali3755
    @sumeiyaali3755 Před měsícem +3

    Ndivhu, I’m still listening to this video but all I see through Ndamu is God. Ndamu(o) muhle Ndivhu, what happened to him is so terrible but he’s hear testifying and looking so healthy and handsome. Ndamu please don’t give up, look at Ndivhu, where she comes from and where she is now. You can do it Ndamu, God is with you I’m telling you, God loves you. Qina ndoda and shame the devil. Sending all the love and prayers

  • @nobuhlemtsweni9533
    @nobuhlemtsweni9533 Před měsícem +4

    He is such an intelligent young man, may God bless you

  • @neegee3755
    @neegee3755 Před měsícem +13

    I’m within the first 10 minutes and I’m in tears 😭. Oh Jesus

  • @MusingadiMulweli
    @MusingadiMulweli Před měsícem +2

    No wonder you were stubborn high school it makes sense now hades boy you'll over come this since you're seeking healing shout out to you. God bless you.

  • @gladysrodrigues4932
    @gladysrodrigues4932 Před měsícem +7

    Who is cutting onions 😢😢

  • @magaumasala9915
    @magaumasala9915 Před měsícem +5

    The painful part the father is still alive walking on street peaceful. NO JUSTICE

  • @shirleyrantaoleng6492
    @shirleyrantaoleng6492 Před měsícem +3

    I think its Him the way i am listening his story !! prays the Lord Almighty ❤

  • @mphohappiness1736
    @mphohappiness1736 Před měsícem +13

    The level of karma that the father's family will get...I fear

  • @ZeeInterpretationz
    @ZeeInterpretationz Před měsícem +4

    Ndivhu T May God bless you for assisting this young men.

  • @sumeiyaali3755
    @sumeiyaali3755 Před měsícem +2

    Well done 👏 👏👏Ndamu! 10 months I’m sure can be very long. Stay strong and positive. Big up Ndivhu and Ps Bae

  • @dhiambiokuom2159
    @dhiambiokuom2159 Před měsícem +4

    How painful......May the Lord in heaven see you son....May He favor you going forward ❤

  • @EleanorHozeh
    @EleanorHozeh Před měsícem +2

    Watched him twice I'm so touched nkare nkamutlwa in person like in a seminar he belongs on a world stage this one

  • @murendwaratshikhopha6257
    @murendwaratshikhopha6257 Před 16 dny +1

    Joh this is so touching, may God bless you for us❤

  • @ntokozotshabala8124
    @ntokozotshabala8124 Před měsícem +1

    True!! There's a great seed God has planted in him. Many people's lives are going to change through him. God's is faithful. At the point where others throw hands at you - He opens them for you. He heals you and let His purpose with your life be accomplished. God bless you so abundantly Ndamulelo🙌🏽🙌🏽💯

  • @navelanimkansi8789
    @navelanimkansi8789 Před měsícem +5

    Am so sorry you went through a lot, may you find healing and light❤️❤️ I pray God direct you in everything that you do, apply university and nsfas everything will go well❤️❤️

  • @Wasa35
    @Wasa35 Před 7 dny

    This was such a difficult episode to watch, I feel for the young lad and the fact that there was no justice for his Mom hurts me the most!💔
    Perseverance, will you kindly arrange counselling for him if he hasn’t been exposed to such as yet?
    Can’t the case be reopened? His Dad did the deed and he must serve the time!!!
    Such a handsome young lad!❤

  • @ressiakhakhu1209
    @ressiakhakhu1209 Před měsícem +3

    He is a smart guy very well articulate..Sending ❤

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 Před měsícem +7

    Ayiiii😢😢😢! ....How a whole family of grown ups could unit and do such evil to a child....
    Proud of you Bra for finishing your matric....May God make a way for you and restore you.

  • @naleditshehla917
    @naleditshehla917 Před měsícem

    You are a living testimony boy❤. God's ways and thoughts can't be compared with anything of these world🙏.they have tried to bury you but your Almighty God said His will not theirs shall be done and nobody can snatch you out of His hand. You belong to God's kingdom so please let His Glory go to Him only🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @selinabatlhaodi612
    @selinabatlhaodi612 Před měsícem +3

    The most cruelest family ever.😢

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 Před měsícem +5

    10mnths will become 10yrs ×7🎉🎉🎉🎉well done Bhutiza

  • @rofhiwamashige516
    @rofhiwamashige516 Před měsícem +1

    I'm in tears it's so painful, I'm proud of you my brother God will intervene

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 Před měsícem +1

    Ooh woow Boy you sound like a Councelor now I tell you you will help a lot of youngsters even older people struggling with drug addiction

  • @MsMattie
    @MsMattie Před 26 dny

    Wow super thankful for this Young man indeed ni Ndamulelo ... May the Lord be with you, you are meant for good great things no shuma ,May God heal you.

  • @umadumawangempela6098
    @umadumawangempela6098 Před měsícem +7

    Ndivhu T is this not your som you always talk about? The stories are so much similar I think it's him mern I'm super proud of Ndami he has chosen the path that you and PB has always wanted him to chose that's staying clean anf focused in life I pray Gods strength upon him 😢🎉🎉🎉

    • @zamamorakile1518
      @zamamorakile1518 Před měsícem

      True they are very similar and the guy is also from Limpopo, and also divhu is having a little brother he mentioned that her grandmother had a son

    • @RoseKotana
      @RoseKotana Před měsícem

      I also think is Ndivhu s sister s son❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @shirleyrantaoleng6492
    @shirleyrantaoleng6492 Před měsícem +1

    I believe its Him the way i listen to his story and hope for the best and Godbless you Brother ❤

  • @pinkymncube4096
    @pinkymncube4096 Před 24 dny +1

    I JUST WANT TO GIVE TIGHT HUG U HAV BEEN THRU A LOT MY BOY

  • @tshilidzindou2606
    @tshilidzindou2606 Před 5 dny +1

    Yoo zwi khou baba, fhedzi mudzimu ba do ima nae hothe hothe

  • @mihlalihoofman8970
    @mihlalihoofman8970 Před 14 dny

    He’s so eloquent 🥹🥹🙌🏽

  • @zandilevinjwa3659
    @zandilevinjwa3659 Před měsícem +1

    I’m lost for words, this is traumatic. I hope he finds healing

  • @raesetjemuroa3767
    @raesetjemuroa3767 Před měsícem

    I am so happy for him to take courage to come out, I know the pain of having a drug addict in the family, especially if the person doesn't want to change..it is very stressful..

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 Před měsícem +3

    Yhooo sibuhlungu kakhulu le story,u shared more details.ooh handsome boy Your story will bring His glory,you are blessed to have Ndivhu T and Pastor Bae😢

  • @user-ey1mh9wp9t
    @user-ey1mh9wp9t Před měsícem +2

    Sorry bro ,I'm glad u saw a pain s opportunity to change your life 🙏. Your changed forever

  • @ayandiswazibi1824
    @ayandiswazibi1824 Před měsícem +2

    All the best Mfowethu ❤ M proud of you 👏

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 Před měsícem +3

    They were afraid but now you are telling the entire South Africa.

  • @thabangmalepe1663
    @thabangmalepe1663 Před měsícem +2

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Thank you for opening to us buti

  • @joycesebati4695
    @joycesebati4695 Před měsícem +8

    I can relate with so much and i feel so much pain for my little brother i think they are the same age and he was beaten from my mother's womb it triggered lot of emotions from me and i have two boys to raise and i am also healing from emotional and physical abuse from their father i am crying so bad this triggered a lot hey,sending healing and praying to everybody who went through this and i dont even wish this to happen to my worst enemy

    • @neegee3755
      @neegee3755 Před měsícem

      🫂

    • @spm9130
      @spm9130 Před měsícem

      I pray God's healing on you.

    • @joycesebati4695
      @joycesebati4695 Před měsícem

      @@spm9130 thank you very much

    • @maytshifularo5415
      @maytshifularo5415 Před měsícem

      Love and light to you and your little brother. May God see you through this. Sending you hugs 🤗🤗🤗

    • @joycesebati4695
      @joycesebati4695 Před měsícem

      @@maytshifularo5415 thanks

  • @siwemalele1884
    @siwemalele1884 Před 9 dny

    May he find healing more than anything …. Forgive himself and be a better person

  • @mokgadimabitsela4
    @mokgadimabitsela4 Před měsícem +2

    This is very sad🥲🥲 im very proud you gain strength

  • @BrilliantMathonsi-oz2ne
    @BrilliantMathonsi-oz2ne Před měsícem +1

    God bless you my brother 🙏 🙌

  • @Prism446
    @Prism446 Před měsícem +2

    Most well up families have dark secrets to maintain isdima sabo .

  • @fulumnkanzi9746
    @fulumnkanzi9746 Před 29 dny

    such a painful story.... i am lost of words this is heavy

  • @ZolaNgemntu-v8t
    @ZolaNgemntu-v8t Před měsícem +1

    Wishing him all the best in future

  • @tinyikochauke2237
    @tinyikochauke2237 Před 20 dny

    The worse part is dat it’s happen on his birthday meaning every his birthday it’s a reminder of the accident 😢…may God heal him internally n forgive him for his peace..it’s won’t be easy but I pray to God to give him strength to be strong nd fight the spirit of taking his life to dark place..

  • @nompumeleloluthuli9963
    @nompumeleloluthuli9963 Před měsícem +3

    What a sad story.. Sorry my boy.

  • @siyalwandiso3767
    @siyalwandiso3767 Před měsícem +2

    So sad. Our kids are going through hard times

  • @Kleynhansbrotherstv
    @Kleynhansbrotherstv Před měsícem +1

    I’m crying

  • @barbaramotsepe45
    @barbaramotsepe45 Před měsícem +1

    Very sad story

  • @dimakatsondala9229
    @dimakatsondala9229 Před měsícem +3

    😢Yeah neh,Askies my brother.

  • @lusi9720
    @lusi9720 Před měsícem +1

    Im glad you stopped❤

  • @khetimthembu8465
    @khetimthembu8465 Před měsícem +5

    Firstly i’m so proud of him❤️🤍! I pray his relationship with God grows & he becomes a better man❤️!!!
    Please tell him to go to tvet college or university, he qualifies for NSFAS🥹❤️!!

  • @lettahkhutso3083
    @lettahkhutso3083 Před měsícem +1

    The grandmother did because of stress 😢not seeing her child's body and grandchild is so painful 😢

    • @naleditshehla917
      @naleditshehla917 Před měsícem

      Don't worry we are all going to pay for everything we have to others, our children too shall pay for our sins so be careful what you do to others

  • @wisanimaluleke8508
    @wisanimaluleke8508 Před měsícem

    😭 sorry my brother, My God bless you ❤

  • @thandimaseko2104
    @thandimaseko2104 Před měsícem +1

    HEAVY

  • @busisiwemichelle5391
    @busisiwemichelle5391 Před měsícem

    Yooh that's hard yooh Nkosi yami

  • @nthabisengmasemola7989
    @nthabisengmasemola7989 Před měsícem

    Love your hair❤❤

  • @amahKebonang
    @amahKebonang Před měsícem +1

    Iyooo ths is so sad...why did they take him away from his Mom's family....😢😢
    Im proud of you my brother... Keep pushing and keep clean..And May God richly bless your Aunt..

    • @sueeland5675
      @sueeland5675 Před měsícem

      Also wondering 😢😢 you kill my sister then take my nephew yaaa but the guy is so welspoken God has a lot of good stuff for him in store

    • @naleditshehla917
      @naleditshehla917 Před měsícem

      For wickedness only cause if they killed your mother how can they love you

  • @Sesi_Nano
    @Sesi_Nano Před měsícem +3

    Cried myself out through the whole episode😢😢😢 theres hell waiting for such vile people!
    Love and light bro!🤍

  • @Child_of_God.971
    @Child_of_God.971 Před měsícem +1

    Yoh my brother, sorry 😢

  • @pheladinare2876
    @pheladinare2876 Před 27 dny

    I believe he was in Ladcag it is the best in Polokwane.

  • @magaumasala9915
    @magaumasala9915 Před měsícem +1

    Mmm 😢

  • @jackiemoloi6406
    @jackiemoloi6406 Před měsícem

    It's bad news only God will provide u

  • @fulufhelomakhado4082
    @fulufhelomakhado4082 Před 26 dny

    I'm half way the video and I'm so so sad😢😢😢😢

  • @hounzagift1250
    @hounzagift1250 Před měsícem +1

    😭😭😭

  • @gladyslebo7525
    @gladyslebo7525 Před měsícem

    Modimo o moholo👫👫🙏🙏

  • @user-ls8me8dx2v
    @user-ls8me8dx2v Před měsícem +2

    Ya ne😢

  • @gladyslebo7525
    @gladyslebo7525 Před měsícem

    💔💔💔😭😭😭

  • @Firstimemom
    @Firstimemom Před měsícem +1

    Whoever watching scandal will attest that its colerating with this rehabilitation story the guy is talking about. Guys investigate the rehabs first

  • @esthernong3372
    @esthernong3372 Před 3 dny

    Heeee baan there is a possibility that the it's not His Mum who was buried
    Y dd they prevent Mum's side to bury their child??

  • @nthabisengmasemola7989
    @nthabisengmasemola7989 Před měsícem +1

    His story is soo sad

  • @thatomasoeu383
    @thatomasoeu383 Před 22 dny

    Kharma, watch the space 😢

  • @pulengphatedi8153
    @pulengphatedi8153 Před 29 dny

    😢😢😢😢😢😮

  • @nenesibanda4171
    @nenesibanda4171 Před měsícem

    What an evil man 😢

  • @Ladydee510
    @Ladydee510 Před měsícem

    Painful story, but were they married or he was a boyfriend? Because he says they even kept her even bury her?

    • @TheTeaWorld
      @TheTeaWorld Před měsícem +1

      She was just a girlfriend and they had money and connections

  • @MuhuluNekwakwane
    @MuhuluNekwakwane Před měsícem

    Some in laws are so wicked shem

    • @naleditshehla917
      @naleditshehla917 Před měsícem

      Mostly in black families shem, i don't know if is the curse from hell or an inherentance from our forefathers

  • @nthabisengmasemola7989
    @nthabisengmasemola7989 Před měsícem +2

    So the father's family chise to silence him and protect their brother by making him feel that ATLEAST they are there, sies family. Sorry brother

  • @MuhuluNekwakwane
    @MuhuluNekwakwane Před měsícem

    😭

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 Před měsícem

    Is Mother's sister Ndivhu by 38:58 any chance😊

  • @NoxoloMhlanga
    @NoxoloMhlanga Před měsícem +1

    This is Ndivhu’s son right??🥹

    • @buyisiler
      @buyisiler Před měsícem +1

      That’s the first thing I thought when he said his name and what happened.

    • @NoxoloMhlanga
      @NoxoloMhlanga Před měsícem +1

      @@buyisiler me too.. I am so happy for him that he finally changed may God keep him under his wings..❤️

    • @nompumeleloluthuli9963
      @nompumeleloluthuli9963 Před měsícem +1

      I think it's her nephew

    • @NoxoloMhlanga
      @NoxoloMhlanga Před měsícem

      @@nompumeleloluthuli9963 yes the one she calls her son

    • @mikovheshares5483
      @mikovheshares5483 Před měsícem +2

      Who's ndivhu??

  • @HEROLDKHOROMBI
    @HEROLDKHOROMBI Před 28 dny

    Very sad story