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Komentáře • 249

  • @CyanidePusher
    @CyanidePusher Před 3 lety +12

    "Rather be a housekeeper than a home wrecker" love that wording right there, amen!

  • @rosalynnchow5057
    @rosalynnchow5057 Před 3 lety +22

    Can we live without husbands? I can... peaceful life. Freedom.

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 3 lety +6

      Yes. I've been able to live happily since.

  • @logophile92
    @logophile92 Před 5 lety +71

    His loss. You're a powerful woman who respects herself. You made the right decision!

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety +3

      YES ADI!!! YOUR HUNDRED PERCENT RIGHT. THANK YOU SO MUCH. LOVE YOU DEAR!

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety +1

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @truckingwithtobee
    @truckingwithtobee Před 4 lety +37

    Women like that dont care if they are destroying a marriage. But remember. ........ the man makes that choice. If it wasn’t her it would have been someone else. Sorry u went through this. I’m recovering from what my husband just did to me this last July. It so so hard and I feel for you. ♥️

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 4 lety +3

      As I feel for you. It's a hard journey, there is light at the end of all the pain.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety +1

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

    • @tiineetussy
      @tiineetussy Před rokem

      Both decide to go with it no matter what gender

    • @boop8127
      @boop8127 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Agree. Its 99% him. But hookers who make their $ this way knowing they are married are disgusting.

  • @CyanidePusher
    @CyanidePusher Před 3 lety +7

    "She's actually rooting for us, she wants us to work things out" - then she should have stayed in her lane.

  • @kdaye7647
    @kdaye7647 Před 5 lety +35

    Nothing like the Holy Spirit. We do go thru hurts but like you said God never stops loving us. Thanks for sharing. You're beautiful honey!

  • @joanmilano5302
    @joanmilano5302 Před 3 lety +4

    Once a cheater, always a cheater. You made a wise decision to leave the rat.

  • @risenforth96req34
    @risenforth96req34 Před 4 lety +55

    What's the point of men again

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 4 lety +4

      Good question. God intended them to much for us. It seems they have no desire to do so.

    • @perkinskurt6147
      @perkinskurt6147 Před 4 lety

      ill confidently refer you to this pro for SPY/HACK related issues,i can swear on my dads grave he is LEGIT
      INSTAGRAM==instagram.com/slowfire7
      his services are fast and reliable remember a stitch in time saves nine.

    • @nicoletiana
      @nicoletiana Před 4 lety

      risen forth96 re q SERIOUSLY lol

    • @jewelzc
      @jewelzc Před 4 lety

      women cheat too you know

    • @superbobmuffin
      @superbobmuffin Před 4 lety +1

      @@jewelzc yep my ex did, 5 years later she got fat and found someone much better

  • @misdwards6196
    @misdwards6196 Před 5 lety +30

    I caught my x husband cheating many times. He got smarter and smarter about it. He would only cheat when he went off to “work” he had a extra phone and condoms in his work truck. (Our son found them) I set up find my iPhone while he was sleeping and found him at a hotel with a prostitute. We deserve more as women. Let it go when you first find it. Or you may just lose 15 years of your life like me. Currently fighting for child support while he showers his girlfriend and her kid with gifts.

    • @misdwards6196
      @misdwards6196 Před 5 lety +5

      I did the same like you I begged god to show me

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety +8

      @@misdwards6196 , you may feel like you loss 15 years of you life. I learned many things going through divorce. You gain more in the end. My husband did the same thing with storing condoms in his work car. One day he order this large box(1000) of condoms online. He said it would be cheaper then buying the packs at the store. We rarely used condoms but some how that shit went over my head. He was using them for work. SMH. Misty, Your Incredible Women. I pray you and the kids get the support you need. Will chat soon. Much love. Prayers.

    • @adelia9119
      @adelia9119 Před 4 lety

      You have the same story like me . But Im more bad , I really need help somebody now. Because I feel I want to die . I got torture from my husband by verbally, and everything. But i cannot go because I dont have financial power for two of my baby. Im pregnant woman

    • @tobiadisa2050
      @tobiadisa2050 Před 3 lety

      Oh my! And some people will say God insists u stay??! What? God's involved in no shit! ...he's not involved in dirty places
      .... Some would argue...that it's the word...but even when the bible states an exception...they'd argue why it does nt mean that....so I'd say, it's the interpretation of the word that's the issue here....not THE WORD...God's not the author of confusion
      May we all accept the Grace to put down our ego...be it of lewd nonchalance to sin or of highminded self conceited holiness....and just accept the Word AND The Spirit!

  • @GodlyShiba
    @GodlyShiba Před 5 lety +11

    The worst type of lie is when somebody cheats on you, especially if your the husband or wife of them. Hope you find a much better guy! Lord be with you

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety

      Infidelity sucks. One of the worst heart pain I ever felt.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @sheispower4595
    @sheispower4595 Před 3 lety +4

    I love that it's straight to the point. No long-winded introduction. You've gained a new subbie!🇿🇦

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 3 lety

      Ah ty!! 🥰 Hope to eventually make more videos. My labtop took a crash. I've just delayed on getting a new one.

  • @orangetigerlilylane1111
    @orangetigerlilylane1111 Před 3 lety +3

    I found out after 30 years of marriage and raising 2 children my husband cheated on me with his co-worker. I questioned everything! The blinders and what if's are real !! It's been almost 3 years and we are still together after going through therapy but we are still working it out. I am never going to trust him again. I am not sure if were going to make it. But, I know that all of this has made me a stronger person. Thanks for making this video and helping other women.

  • @TerrisaVenus
    @TerrisaVenus Před 4 lety +21

    Omg. I feel bad for you. The day after I saw that text message at the gas station.....I’d be on a date and in bed with another man just to get revenge. I can tell you are a nicer person than me. Always put yourself first! He’s a liar and doesn’t deserve you.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @vibrantvibes6185
    @vibrantvibes6185 Před 5 lety +12

    Nobody can break your home thats all on the person in the relationship

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @user-ex3mx7hk4l
    @user-ex3mx7hk4l Před 11 měsíci +1

    A woman who DOESN’T cheat is 100% better than ANY mistress will ever be.
    Because you have morals & a value system that she clearly doesn’t.
    You respect marriage & she doesn’t.
    They both are at high risk of cheating on each other in the future.
    85% of marriages borne out of infidelity end in divorce.
    It is a relationship based on lies and deceit. It’s doomed from the start.

  • @chrissysfullcreates6711
    @chrissysfullcreates6711 Před 5 lety +16

    I'm so sorry you were treated like that. Haha I always say the same "you can call any names but not a homewreaker." Yes you deserve better!!! I applaud you girlfriend.

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety +2

      Thank you so much. Hope you have a great weekend.

  • @rhiannonflorez5661
    @rhiannonflorez5661 Před 3 lety +5

    Your story gave me ssooo much comfort & hope! My current situation is extremely similar & everyday i cry & wonder if/when i will start to heal. Thank you so much for sharing❤

  • @lisadabbs2181
    @lisadabbs2181 Před 3 lety +4

    The best revenge is to live a good life.

  • @passionpassion-dh9go
    @passionpassion-dh9go Před 10 měsíci +2

    Monica thank you so much for your kind words. God bless you

  • @kyaniteaura
    @kyaniteaura Před 4 lety +18

    Dang every story has the same underlying phenomenon
    Intuition
    Wow so sad you had to go through this. Thankyou for sharing love

    • @byhisgrace9777
      @byhisgrace9777 Před 4 lety +1

      I went through it too.. it’s awful, worse pain I have ever felt

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @Nothing-But-TheTruth
    @Nothing-But-TheTruth Před 3 lety +2

    If King David can fall into adultery, anybody can. Just think before you act! A few moments of pleasure is not worth the destruction of adultery!

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před rokem

      Right, don't allow your flesh to rule your thoughts and decisions.

  • @BarbaraFlowers-wq1ru
    @BarbaraFlowers-wq1ru Před 3 měsíci +1

    What's really funny is the second wife always thinks that she's getting a treasure but within the first year he's cheated on her as well it becomes a habit

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yes, he is currently on his 3rd wife and hasn't been faithful to any woman he comes across. There are deeper issues. God really spared me from so much heartache.
      I pray you're having a blessed week.

  • @saragriffith1643
    @saragriffith1643 Před 5 lety +28

    How can I reach out to you? Due to recent events I really needed to hear this. I may need some advice.

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety +3

      Instagram @lemoncake85 or gmail lemoncake85@gmail.com I would love to help you Sara. Prayers going up for you my friend.

    • @ladyfree3492
      @ladyfree3492 Před 4 lety

      Same here

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @brenda6653
    @brenda6653 Před 3 lety +2

    💓 your so strong for this testimony and how you didn’t exclude God ! Ugh I love you sister in Christ

  • @susieblanco2722
    @susieblanco2722 Před 5 lety +7

    I would’ve drove off after he filled the tank and got the kids 🤣🤣

  • @noone3496
    @noone3496 Před 5 lety +4

    It seems like we all go through this but I pray to god this is the last time I ever have Togo through some shit like this .

  • @terrywade3696
    @terrywade3696 Před 4 lety +5

    “It was Sunday morning & we were just leaving church . . .” I don’t get how a family man can go to church & cheat on his wife! Then, the Holy Spirit leads you to him & he’s with 6 others! Did they know he was married? Did they condone his behavior? Did they approve of his whore? WOW! Good for you that you got out!

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 4 lety

      I know a few knew he was married. Some people highly disagree w his behavior. Others didn't even think twice. I am truly blessed and God saved me from so much more pain. Have a beautiful day Terry.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @vonniezuniga6528
    @vonniezuniga6528 Před 5 lety +5

    Stay strong 💪🏽 I love how you know your worth!

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety

      Doing my very best. Thank you Vonnie! 😁

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @skittledee1232
    @skittledee1232 Před 5 lety +9

    God bless you and your babies.

  • @HoneyDubey23
    @HoneyDubey23 Před 4 lety +8

    They will get judged by the one above ☝🏽🙏🏼. ❤️

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

    • @BumbleBee21917
      @BumbleBee21917 Před rokem

      Amen 🎉

  • @ellegolan3992
    @ellegolan3992 Před 5 lety +3

    How did you get out being a stay at home mom? Did you have family/friend support? What if you're all alone?

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety +7

      I reached out to family,church,got a job and government assistants. It was a challenge for sure. However, I do not regret leaving. I'm such a better person and mother for it. Don't let fear get in your way.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @psychicsag5685
    @psychicsag5685 Před 2 lety

    Thank you for being so honest and it’s like listening to a good friend😔❤️ thank you and you seem to be such a beautiful person inside and out! His loss. Real women can only be with real men. I real man doesn’t need to lie, chest and leave. He stands up for what is right and fights to be there for his love. He doesn’t need a cheap thrill in order to be happy. Real love will always take real effort and a strong foundation

    • @sweetman5249
      @sweetman5249 Před 2 lety

      I wish I could find real woman to get married.

  • @neophantomyt1435
    @neophantomyt1435 Před 4 lety +2

    You are so strong and admirable. I would have lost it all over him and her. Someone would have been seriously injured.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @aug07broken
    @aug07broken Před 4 lety +3

    Hi Monica, this video really helped me. how did u get through financially when you separated and then divorced? I am going through the same thing and i do have a job, but i don't make that much. The job I have allows me to be there for my kids after school, he is there for them before school. Any other job, I would have to make arrangements for someone to watch my kids, he doesn't go out of his way to be a father since all this came out. Yes, he had an affair and moved out cause he wasn't sorry, nor was he trying to fix things, so I asked him to leave.

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 4 lety

      Try baby sitting or something you can do at home. It's not easy but the rewards are much greater once your not living in constant pain.

  • @vivianstar6574
    @vivianstar6574 Před 5 lety +4

    Thanks for sharing your story! Sorry this happened to you.. Merry Christmas :)

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety +1

      Awe, your so Sweet Vivian, it was a dark place but with out those hard times I wouldn't be the strong woman I am today. I hope you have a very Merry and Bright Christmas. 😄

  • @OoWtf-sf6ns
    @OoWtf-sf6ns Před 5 lety +2

    I am going to pray you stay happy forever and that you meet your true love who will love you forever and never disrespect you like that

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @v4nnah207
    @v4nnah207 Před 5 lety +3

    Bro that's so fucked up. I been with my boyfriend for 4 years and sometimes I think what if this man cheated. I know I would be going through it. You are such a smart, beautiful, and strong woman. I really look up to you, and you can tell that this whole experience has made you stronger and wiser! He did not deserve you at all girl.. Your kids are so lucky to have you as their mother, and you will find a man who appreciates you and respects you in every way!! This video can help a lot of women, and thank you for sharing your story. God bless you baby girl ♥️

    • @TheSpiritRoom23
      @TheSpiritRoom23 Před 3 lety

      I always wonder the same about mine😩 are you still with yours?

  • @thescarlettsocietyofficial

    Randomly came across this video! Loved it. 💜

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you for hearing my story.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @vanessapyo7331
    @vanessapyo7331 Před 4 lety +1

    New subscriber here! Thank you for sharing this video. Though I have not personally been through this, I love seeing fellow Christians sharing their testimonies and victories with others! I love that we can use our hardships to point others who are going through similar situations to God, healing, & hope.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @christinep.
    @christinep. Před 3 lety +2

    Good that you are out of that relationship. Being Christian means something but morals are not exclusive to them, and being one certainly doesn't assure good behavior.

    • @tobiadisa2050
      @tobiadisa2050 Před 3 lety

      U mean a fake one cos
      ...being christian means behaving like Christ...

    • @christinep.
      @christinep. Před 3 lety

      @@tobiadisa2050 you might be right, but a significant number who call themselves Christians are fake ones then and I'm guessing they don't know it.

    • @tobiadisa2050
      @tobiadisa2050 Před 3 lety

      @@christinep. they don't? More bad. Love frm here.

  • @Forgetaboutthis2024
    @Forgetaboutthis2024 Před 4 lety +3

    I feel so sad for u :( it sucks your beautiful and U deserve more

  • @samanthad473
    @samanthad473 Před 4 lety +1

    Hi! I found out about 3 months ago my “fiancé” was cheating on me with two different women within the past year. One woman he was hooking up with when I was pregnant and a few months after I had the baby, the last was this past summer, roughly a month. He pleaded he wanted to work on things, offered to go to couples counseling, which we’ve been attending. He’s shared his location with me so I can see where he’s at anytime I want. Do you think people can truly change if they offer to go to counseling, offer to share their location etc? Thank you, girl. Would love your insight. 🙏🏻

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 4 lety

      Can you email me Samantha

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 4 lety +2

      I don't believe they can change. That's based off my experience. My ex offered to go get help. Any help he received didn't change him. He just got better at lying and fooling many of us.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

    • @Rainbowsun1
      @Rainbowsun1 Před 3 lety

      No

    • @21truthbetold
      @21truthbetold Před 3 lety

      People can change. If you believe in God then you have to believe that if someone truly wants to repent that God can change them. If your spouse is agreeing to tracking and counseling and being open with you then those are good signs. The most important factor is so you see spiritual changes? Do you see him looking for God more?

  • @googleuser4034
    @googleuser4034 Před 4 lety +3

    Glad you got out of that relationship with that racist man. God bless.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @glamurybella
    @glamurybella Před 5 lety +4

    You are so strong girl keep it up....😉😉

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety +1

      Thanks Bella. It's people like you that help uplift us.

  • @reyiscoolest
    @reyiscoolest Před 4 lety +2

    I don't believe in god but I love your story! You deserve to be in a better place away from that stinky man

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 4 lety

      Thank you for kind words. I'm truly blessed and grateful for all God has done for me. Sending my ❤.

  • @kimberlyblack4969
    @kimberlyblack4969 Před 4 lety +6

    Is he still with that thing? I hope you took him to the cleaners and got everything because you deserve it!! You are so strong.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @laurentalks8660
    @laurentalks8660 Před 4 lety +2

    Been there. Lots of love to you♥️

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 4 lety +2

      Sending lots of love to you.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @wanda4573
    @wanda4573 Před 3 lety

    Not all women have access into their phones.

  • @kristinastukalenko3748
    @kristinastukalenko3748 Před 4 lety +1

    Sounds like you married a narcissist. They discard you and then pretend that it's your fault. He pretended that she was the shit to make you feel inferior.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @NotBelan
    @NotBelan Před 2 lety +1

    I know this was 3 years ago. But wow, this is so sad!!! 😔❤

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před rokem

      I grieve for those who experience this type of pain. Thank you for your comment and compassion.

  • @AshNJunipero
    @AshNJunipero Před 4 lety +3

    You are very very strong. How are you doing?

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 4 lety +1

      I'm doing great dear. Less drama and more peace in my life. Thank you for asking. Hope you are well.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @tschandraheinze1680
    @tschandraheinze1680 Před 3 lety +2

    I wish I could chat with you privately I am going thru this now 5 boys and a stay at home mama ):

  • @knowlexpseeker954
    @knowlexpseeker954 Před 3 lety

    so proud of you

  • @dayanadiaz62
    @dayanadiaz62 Před 4 lety +3

    My bf not allowed to
    Have female friends

    • @superbobmuffin
      @superbobmuffin Před 4 lety

      Hey I hear ya on that. My fiancee has no guy friends thank god. I won't be alone with a woman who's not my wife. Except for family members

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @Rosemary-tz4dm
    @Rosemary-tz4dm Před 3 lety +3

    You are beautiful and you looj decent.your husband is a loser.you deserve to be treated better.good luck

  • @sixtogallardojr560
    @sixtogallardojr560 Před 4 lety +2

    I wish I would of see this video in 2015 my husband i busted him outside strip club and sleeping with escorts i stayed with him now got pregnant and he did it again 😢 and now so hurt

  • @Forgetaboutthis2024
    @Forgetaboutthis2024 Před 4 lety

    I’m Muslim but I respect all religions and loyal women. God help u always...

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @itzelrodriguez2150
    @itzelrodriguez2150 Před 3 lety

    Gosh your story is really sad :( I would like to talk to you. I am going through something similar.

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 3 lety

      Email me @lemoncake85@gmail.com. you are courageous and bold!!!

  • @asifmuniruniverse7732
    @asifmuniruniverse7732 Před 3 lety

    You don't know I'm cheated, lier and wrong

  • @kimberlyb1878
    @kimberlyb1878 Před 4 lety

    Time will heel you!💜💜💜💜💜

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @marinamills4129
    @marinamills4129 Před 25 dny

    She be gone in a snap, on to the next , dumP HIS booot‼️

  • @ChaN-ks3ov
    @ChaN-ks3ov Před 3 lety

    Going through the same thing now.

  • @Rainbowsun1
    @Rainbowsun1 Před 3 lety

    The holy spirit told me the password of my soon to be ex husband password on plenty of fish, he was lying and traveling to Dominican republic to sleep around, even sending them money.

  • @pinkrush6768
    @pinkrush6768 Před 5 lety +2

    You have kids right?

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety

      Yes, I do Pinkrush. How are you??

    • @pinkrush6768
      @pinkrush6768 Před 5 lety

      Monica Mendez How did it go when you and your husband got divorce. Like who did your kids go with?

  • @Erika-vj5sy
    @Erika-vj5sy Před 5 lety

    I pray you two find your way back together. Forgiveness is a powerful tool :) ❤️

    • @noone3496
      @noone3496 Před 5 lety +7

      Melissa Skinner “find your way back together ???this shit really messes with someone I would definitely not recommend it .at all

    • @FishesAndLoaves997
      @FishesAndLoaves997 Před 4 lety +3

      Once a Cheater always A Cheater!

  • @foodquipo4971
    @foodquipo4971 Před 4 lety +1

    can you help me

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 4 lety

      You can email me @ lemoncake85@gmail.com

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @zolushka4823
    @zolushka4823 Před 3 lety

    "being christian" has nothing to do with this crap? don't add faith and believe that All Christians are saints! It's BS to think that! Remember the bishop case and little boys?

  • @stillpril8942
    @stillpril8942 Před 5 lety +1

    Can I email you?

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety

      Of course you may email me. lemoncake85@gmail.com

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @GurpreetKaur-uz4xj
    @GurpreetKaur-uz4xj Před 5 lety +1

    Hi there, I need your advice

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety

      So glad we could chat together.

    • @chrisrock1021
      @chrisrock1021 Před 4 lety

      I suspected my wife of cheating on me but I never had any proof. This went on for months, I didn't know what to do. I was so paranoid and decided to find a solution, I saw a recommendation about a private investigator and decided to contact him. I explained the situation of my wife to him and he said he was going to help me. I gave him all the information's he required and afterward I received all my wife's phones Text messages, Whatsapp messages, and calls, I was hurt when I saw a picture of my wife and her lover. I feel so bad about infidelity. but I am glad summer was able to help me get all this information, you can contact him via Gmail (cyberspylove@gmail.com) or whatsapp : +1(213) 290-4041

  • @JXtreme85
    @JXtreme85 Před 4 lety

    😢

  • @jayrider2726
    @jayrider2726 Před 5 lety

    Why do women cheat all the time? Online, work, every opportunity they get. In the car. I'm done dating.

    • @monicajoy111
      @monicajoy111  Před 5 lety +5

      All I can say is any human that cheats is a selfish person. You have to be very careful who you share your heart with.

    • @neverwhere1391
      @neverwhere1391 Před 4 lety +2

      jay rider why do men cheat all the time? Can you answer that?

    • @jayrider2726
      @jayrider2726 Před 4 lety

      @@neverwhere1391 Men do not cheat in my home country.

    • @neverwhere1391
      @neverwhere1391 Před 4 lety +2

      jay rider you are either, a) A highly unimaginative troll, b) Utterly stupid, c) Both a & b. I am guessing you’re option c. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @jayrider2726
      @jayrider2726 Před 4 lety

      @@neverwhere1391 it's actually D.) You are a cheating woman who defends cheating women