CHANGE THE PATTERN | from toxic situationships to a ✨healthy relationship!✨
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- čas přidán 28. 06. 2024
- These are the tips that helped me finally break the cycle of toxic situationship! I learnt so much about myself and my deep, core patterns and it changed the course of my dating life. I hope these tips to the same for you 🤍
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timestamps:
00:00 - 01:11 from toxic to healthy
01:11 - 03:23 what part do you play?
03:23 -06:28 hidden positive benefit
06:28 - 10:03 unconscious patterns exercise
10:03 - 13:36 chemistry scale
13:36 - 17:37 single on purpose
17:37 - 18:28 honorable mention
18:28 - 19:33 good luck girly pop
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The moment I knew I was in love with my husband was the day I realized he brings me peace ❤
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@@NikasInnerBeauty in my opinion good to have male and female friends with benifits, to not feel hungry for sex and fall in love for wrong people who just fake play to trigger Love emotions 💕
so sweet and beautiful 🩷
Do you guys like the captions (subtitles) being already edited into the video, or is it distracting?
Would love to know your thoughts if I should keep it for future videos like this. Thank youuu🤍🤍🤍
I personally prefer to have a choice to add them or not :) Thank you so much for your videos! They added the Are you robot test before the quiz because there is already so many people clicking on it :D ❤
Deaf girly here, greatly appreciated! Sometimes when I add/turn on captions on a video the words are incorrect :(
Yes! Thank you for the honesty. TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS! We are also toxic when are in toxic relationships. Be very honest, you might have started the fight but you let yourself get dragged in and release the toxic part of you. This something we all have to do
I laughed so hard at the "he makes me feel special" bc I can picture my old self during dating
Very helpful video thank you so much
I (female, soon to be 27) broke up with my boyfriend of 6 years at the end of last year. He was my first boyfriend and he cheated on me. Last week, I went on a date for the first time ever and then the second date. I was supposed to go on the third date last weekend but he ghosted me. Stupidly I already liked him and I was so sad when he didn't respond to my text and my first experience of being ghosted... And your words hit me so hard!! Thank you so much, now I will do the exercise you mentioned and I will treat myself well.
Oh thank you...I was scared dating after years of being single. You said alot of things that really helped.
I really really needed to hear this today. Thank you so much !
I am a guy .I love this video ,really good insights ,thanks for the link of the books which helped you. My problem is i was soo damn happy with myself and was working on my goals but i still fell for someone who makes me opposite of as you said "intrigued but not obsessed " even after spending those years on self-development and yes childhood plays a hugee role. It is soo painful and tough emotionally.
I wish i have a quick fix for this but meanwhile i am using meditation and some other things to heal me ,sometime i feel ooh i will so solve it easily ,then sometime this situation makes me pain so much.
I've been wtching you fpr some years now, and you have grown so much! You are glowing! It's an inspiration to see. Just know that you have a little slovenian fan who your videos have helped through some pretty dark times. I wish you all the best, dear girly pop.🧡
This video is so relatable and helpful! Thank you Nika Xx.
I am really enjoying this new kind of videos talking to the camara that you are doing. Thanks for sharing ❤
Such great tips, amazing! ❤ thank you
Love. I will say the first point you made I think is important to note that it should NOT be used to then continue putting up with the other person's behaviour. I have fallen for deciding to realise I have flaws too but then made me stay in the environment because I put that on the person deciding they deserved me to be more understanding of them too. So instead of removing the negative energy or person by taking responsibility, I ended up putting up with it more!!
Ohh of course! I was talking about it more in the context of after you’ve parted ways - being aware of how you both played a part in creating the dynamic, so you can see the situation clearly and learn as much as you can from it. I should’ve made that more clear, so thank you for pointing it out! And I’m so sorry for your experience 🤍
Girlll, perfect timing!! thank you for posting this video 💕this is exactly what Im dealing with right now 🥲
Awh it’s my pleasure! I’m sorry you’re going through it, but you’ve got this!🤍🤍
mine is definitely 'emotionally unavailable' 🙂
so helpful and clear thank you 🩵🩵
Such a GREAT video!! Taking this tips to the depths of my soul
Thanks babezzz🤍🤍
I would be happy to see a video with an update about your recovery, mental health, depression. :)
Thank you so much! Such a great video!😊🌞
I totally relate to what you are saying 😮.. you're my therapist from now
This is exactly where I’m at right now! Finally making the conscious decisions to choose better after seeing those sneaky patterns! Love your channel. Also, would love to know what you paired with that gorgeous shirt! Jeans?
Wow this was powerful ❤
Very enlightening video!
Great advice!
Enjoying this! ❤❤❤
Thank you❤️
I am in the process. My ex brought me peace, but then also not. I fell in love with the peaceful part, but he was not over his ex and this repelled me. I was stuck a long time in the feeling that I don't deserve the peace I wanted from him, cause there is a more important person in his heart. How not to enter emotions like this so quickly?
This makes so much sense! Thank you Nika 🥰 I’m just a little bit confused with the ghost partner point. I shouldn’t look out for potential partners that have the positive attributes that I valued in ex partners?
I‘d love some more videos about dating 😊
We need a podcast
Great tipps 🤌🏿 you grew so much! Btw, where is your top from?
I met my boyfriend after 1 year of long distance relationship, and he started to treat me not that much as I expected. I was so exited to meet him, spend time together, do some stuff, u know. So I asked him why he does behaviour like this, because I can see something changed, and he said "I'm not going to jump around you". Wtf, boy? I'm wondering why he is like that, cuz he was amazing, when we started dating.
You're amazing! Hello from Russia :)
I totally took accountability from my former toxic relationships. Unfortunately I believe in love, but I don't want to be alone 😭💔. Today has been 2yrs being single and still healing my ex wants me back and I refuse.
You should really start a podcast!!
'in their little journey' :D
Damn, I love your mind
also, would like a podcast
Do you have any tips or videos on dating on apps vs in person? I just got off Hinge after a year of dating feeling very discouraged. I want to continue dating after a break but not sure if I want to try in person dating only…
Is it Marina Tsvetaeva cup you're holding on the thumbnail photo? If not, the portrayal resemblance is eerie 📝
They’re by a slovenian artist called Polonapolona 😊
@@NikasInnerBeauty, thanks! I checked the reference. So, this cup is called "Alma, the independent one." The only Alma I know is Alma Mahler, not sure if it's her on the cup or some other Alma I don't know about. I initially thought it was a Russian poet Marina Tsvetaeva on the cup, because this is exactly how she is standardly portrayed, with the hair style and all. Thank you! It was a fun investigation.
There is a song in the show crazy ex-girlfriend about the guys that 'hates everything but me', and that's why she feels special! Very accurate and funny 😅 (there is a clip on youtube)
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Something that I appreciate from you is your vulnerability to the audience...
All we struggle with terrible insecuritites but although your love life is good now, you still keep the capacity to connect with the insecuritites of others. 🪷