As an ignored male in my 20s, i resolved never to marry a chad-player woman. Finally found a woman to marry who was married 2x in her 20s to unambitious men, she was not a player. Been married 25Y... We have had about the same number of relationships each ...
I actually do like chasing. It's the closest thing to a hunt you can experience in the modern world. I do agree with the guy though, it's not cool to manipulate someone on purpose.
If a guy thought a girl was his soulmate and he talks to her and she is easy, no way he is gonna come and go. From the very beginning, guys know if they want only sex or relationship
The guy in the video is partly wrong. I estimate that about 10% of men like chasing. The men women go after, hump 'n dump these women and after that it's 'where are all good men'.
If you want a guy to chase you will only get the dudes that are into that. But you'll have to play chase forever because if you don't your relationship is over. Decent dudes just want a woman that likes them back.
yepp, a decent honest woman with no kids from a crappy ex that shares similar interests is all I've ever wanted, sadly they are rare where I live, nothing but single moms with bad taste in men :p
@@erasablefallen7223 I know some of this hoes and mostly their ex or ex of her child is in prison or out and werid guy :D I always laugh how it is always the same story and concept.
LMFAO Now THAT'S hilarious. According to today's youth, being off your phone for "A FEW HOURS" is enough to instill fear in them. That's just psycho. I couldn't date someone like that because I want to be off of my phone for DAAAAYYYS.
When her man is on a 20 ft. ladder working, a woman will shake the ladder or drive her car as close as she can and then accuse him of "being insecure." This is metaphoric, of course, but it is how it works. The modern woman will give off all the signs of a cheating tramp and then fault her man for "not trusting her." Trust is earned, there's no other way.
This girl is going to end up alone with all the games she plays. She's young, try doing this with a guy over 30 and more than likely he's gonna drop her hard.
I think I consider myself to be a lucky man, since my prior girlfriend in my life, after we had broken up due to wanting to seek different paths in life and accepting that we weren't for each other, told me much later that she ashamed of the way of how it started out. We had the classic high school love story, but with the sense of having a wild goose chase without communicating properly, since I couldn't understand what she wanted, until much later we sat down and did. I'm glad that she realized her errors, but I forgave her since I knew she did not mean to harm me, but simply did not understand how to communicate properly in relationship. Some people may not get this, but I hope they do. It taught me to understand where define my boundaries and setup my own security so that way I wouldn't crumble for either reason of my own or someone else's, intentional or not.
“Never trust a woman, nor take for granted anything she tells you, and always strive to eliminate her from your mind and the minds of all who come in contact with you.”-- Suzanne Hindmarsh AHEM...
My man saying shit how it is, also I've never understood the idea of wanting to manipulate someone into a relationship, because years down the line they will have no idea how to keep it going as they never took the time to get to know the other person and its going to break down when the charm runs out
the person i've liked the most in recent years is literally someone that made it clear to me she really liked me. So much so that i was ready to risk and do almost whatever to be with her.
Bro finally a guy saying how it is. Easy, simple, logical. We are not here to play games like "chase" we want respectful relationships for christs sake
If you're chasing someone, that means they're simultaneously running away. People that continue to chase after someone that's running from them are creeps who don't respect boundaries. Ask Ghostface.
thats so true. You can't out narcissist a narcissist or out avoid an avoidant. I low key tried to do that when a girl I was dating stopped wanting to give me affection even hugs cuddling etc. And it did not work.
I'm hardcore introverted -- like 95-98% on those personality tests. I don't initiate avoidant behavior, but I've taught a few women a hard lesson. I can out-withdraw them no problem. She wants to throw a temper tantrum and withdraw sex as some kind of punishment? Bet. I will win that battle of wills. Every time. For me, 2020 was just a nice staycation.
@@niallk9336 I was similar during lockdown. But when you are made to think it's your fault and that you hurt her, you feel like you have to make up for it. It makes it much harder. Also I didn't want to lose her but eventually had to cut it off because she was making me stressed and not able to sleep
I found that radical truth is only cure. It also drives narcisist to absolute rage, because it usually means they are at fault and they cant swallow that humiliation. If it kills the relationships, it is still the better outcome. If I want to play games I play on my computer, not in my relationships.
I have heared someone say something interesting "men work hard once to not work in the future". This applies to many things, I guess there is some truth to that when it comes to chasing women too. Better think about having a calm, uninteresting lifestyle after marriage. With the occasional fun, that you might to plan yourself from time to time.
I'm a woman , and i dont like playing mind games and manipulation , so i'd imagine guys dont like that either . Instead put that energy in something productive .
Manipulation is rarely, if ever, done out of love. I don't want to chase a woman. If they're demanding to be chased, they are creating a gulf which will swallow love.
I used to do this a lot I learn this from a lot of bad experience and I thought if I want myself to stop chasing people I need to make them chase me and go crazy over me as I used to go crazy over others and I learnt a lot of manipulation dark psychology stuff I applied it not just in attracting opposite gender and getting male validation but also used this with friends and family and it work everywhere and I didn't felt anything is wrong until my boyfriend started to call out me about how I am making his abundant issue worse and I always thought what he is talking about I don't understand but still I stop doing all that shit because I know manipulation is not a good thing you should be honest but this video made me actually realise what was wrong.
As someone who's in a healthy relationship, my partner glad that he doesn't have to play chasing game because i was being real, i want him and i show him that i want him and not giving mix signal. He fully committed to me
"Guys like having something to chase." Sure, holds true for the nines and tens she meets, which are the only men in the world of an attractive lady like her. For everyone else it's 'no'...means 'no'.
If you think you need tricks or game playing "to get a man to" then you're already off in the wrong direction. Real men don't play games. No time for that bullshit.
When a girl ghosts me because she wants me to chase her, I go like "You probably have better things to do than talking to me" So I value instead women to talk and want to meet and want to have a good time, not girls who make themselves chaseable. I forget about them, so I have no options at the moment because of this attitude. I don't talk to any women at the moment, because they're essentially all the same.
smart approach, not worth the chase, if they like you them you wont be able to keep them away, if they want to play social medial hoe games, dont walk RUN
Yeah guys say that but as soon as a girl starts acting clingy because she wants to talk all the time and wants to be around him always…. The guy slowly looses interest and ghosts.
@@iconic860 I don't usually do that. I got a clingy girl once, but unfortunately it was only and online thing and she was from another country, she ended up losing interest herself. A woman's feelings are temporary if they have no backup to keep that flame alive.
Women could have a husband easily with 3 simple rules in life: 1.) Take care of yourself physically. Eat right and exercise, don't be an alcoholic or abuse drugs or cover your body in tatoos. It's important for a variety of reasons, and attracting a partner is one of them. 2.) Don't chase "bad boys". Most of them aren't even physically attractive, let alone faithful partners. Maybe they hit on you a little more aggressively, but if you waste your youth ruining yourself sexually, good strong men will avoid you. Best case, one of them takes you in after you ask for forgiveness and you have to work harder to earn trust and respect. 3. Don't play games or manipulate. Most men can catch on pretty easily and they wont appreciate it. If anything, the games make you look unstable. Good men will call you out then run for the hills and find someone else. Weak/bad men will use you for sex and ultimately leave.
I got my PASSPORT Bros and went to Asia. I spoke with DOZENS of beautiful young girls here. I'm with the one that was honest, didn't play games, had no tattoos, was educated, slim, beautiful and wants to be a wife and mother AND was a virgin. The gold diggers, pros, tattooed, short haired, heavy, loud, party types, I left alone.
@@aikighost ppl who tell anyone how to manipulate others must be intent on manipulating anyone anyway. first of all we must figure out what we want and I bet most normal, balanced ppl are not into game players :)
The only woman a man will love is the one who genuinely respects and submits to him. We can read any pretentious and manipulative energy, brothers have woken up hey, FYI.
post wall mid girl never grew up. She didn't develop empathy because he was cute (enough) to get lots of attention in her 20's and live on easy mode. She might be able to get short term wins, but is not on track to have and keep a long term partner. I see lots of cats in her future.
1 thing I cannot not agree with: we are not the same. Our physiology and psychology are different. Our needs, requirements are different. They have similarities and common sections, but in general, we are not the same.
yeah if a girl is constantly with her "guy friends" but wants u to chase her or take initiative with her when she has no issues going around with any random "friend" dude then she will be judged on that, she is easy but is making ur life difficult
Well i did... ex faked loving me till she got what she wanted which was a baby. My world just crashed. I went court and i see my kiddo, we love each other so much.
Trial and error, its that simple, get belter with experience, no one can rush to the end, no one lives a life without mistakes. The important bit is learn from them, so ignore the internet and all it's BS, get out there and live it before its too late.
Only thing I like chasing is success. This is soon to be one of those girls that thinks she's playing hard to get while the guy she's interested in his bedding someone else and she just ends up being another side piece by the time he comes around.
Abandonment wounds suck. Had an ex who triggered them with a hot-and-cold manipulation tactic. Unfortunately it worked and hurt like a bitch but I learned my lesson. Was interested in a guy who then tried the hot-and-cold. Dropped it immediately. Never again.
She is right that men will see women as easy for giving them what they want without a fuss. But she's mistaken in thinking that "men don't want easy women" is a blanket true statement, that all depends on what women are "easy" in respect to. Women want men to marry them; no self respecting man is going to marry a woman who gives him sex on the first date, because she is "easy". He knows he is not the only man she will give that to, and that it's not likely to change if they get married. She flags herself as likely to cheat, so she is blacklisted. But no self respecting man is going to marry a woman who he feels will not give him sex after they are married either. Men don't want to have to work for things like this girl says, they just recognize that if they don't have to work for it, other men won't either, and they don't want a wife who gives out sex to the first asker free of charge. But they still want sex to be easy! Just not on the first couple of dates. (Personally I would not want it until after marriage, but in this day and age I wonder if there are any women left who can catch a man without using sex to do so...) And as far as the relationship outside of sex goes, again, men want it to be easy and simple. They don't want to chase, put in a bunch of work, etc etc, just to keep their partner around. They already put in a bunch of work being the bread winner, they don't have time or energy to play these social games. What they DO want is to feel that they are special to their woman, and have something between them that she has with no other men. If he knows/feels like he was not her first choice, or he knows she settled for him, once again he is flagging her in his mind as very likely to cheat, and he is not going want to have a real relationship outside sex with her if he respects himself.
No, I gave up chasing women - BECAUSE THEY WOULD NEVER STOP RUNNING AWAY! Screw the chase. It isn't worth it. If I want to play games I'll just fire up my console. These manipulators ain't worth my time.
I notice pretty fast, when I am being manipulated. Lots of experience with it ... and lots of trauma-work ... if it happens, I usually tell them: "hey, I notice, what you are doing. it makes me feel uncomfortable and hurt ... disrespected and that i am not worth enough for you to actually treat me WELL. so the only thing, that this behavior of yours is going to achieve, is "PUSH ME AWAY" from you. I don't appreciate it! It's not "cute", nor funny, nor healthy. I won't tolerate it. Better stop doing it, because I will lose any kind of respect, that I have for you."
You tell a girl that you're hurt and you're a little wimp in her eyes, no matter how much she cared (or didn't care) about you. Sad to say that if you're acting so fragile around women, you're far away from getting a real one. They won't respect you. You're probably not going to listen, but if you understand what I mean it'll help you tons. You should let women know your boundaries and that they should respect you if they want to be around you, but telling them ''it makes me feel uncomfortable and hurt'' is only going to hurt your chances, even when the women are well meaning and actually decent.
oh man. society has it all wrong: women enjoy having something to chase and work towards in a relationship (the man) the man need to chase purpose and building something for the relationship to go well
No not all guys like something to chase . If you want to play games then im out It is just better to get to know each other and then decide if the romantic relationship will work or not All of this hard to get stuff is ridiculous This is not one of those unrealistic romantic movies where the guy does everything to get the girl Most guys wont waste time with women like that
The woman giving advice sees a pattern but does not understand cause and effect principles. She sees a man putting out lots of effort and thinks the chase makes him attracted, when it is his attraction that causes him to chase. She sees a man pull a girl with low effort, and he is not chasing and thinks the girl didn't build attraction. He was never, nor would be ever attracted to her, he is just enjoying a low effort fling that he was never going to be serious about. She sees the correlation, but does not understand which came first. Man was correct, no one WANTS to work that hard, but they will to get what they want.
Projecting male sexual preferences upon females is ridiculous. Women love men who are attractive to other women. Why else is single motherhood on the rise?
So the guys don't think it's pathetic if a girl says "I like you" to them? We've been told it just serves for their ego but strips us from any respect from his side. What kind of new thing is this? I remember reading a book on how to find a suitable spouse by a male psychologist who said the same thing as her and he called it "evolutionary" and "subconscious" conditioning that men and women carry in their genetic memory. I don't want that you blame the girl, we're even told this by our parents!!! Of course we believe it. I'm quite confused right now.
manipulation doesnt work on me, too many women have tried it on me thus giving birth to my insanity. Know the game so well to the point where i know they are trying an attempt. Im not chasing unless given a valid reason to chase and no, her kitty cave and a pretty face also dont work on me
If you clap your hands while talking to me, I'm immediately out.
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yea that's a new ick for me too
Just wrote that exact same thing, before reading the comments! Great minds, think alike!
Lol, my first thought.
No one’s clapping for you anyways dusty, relax.
i hate being manipulated more than anything, ive been single for over 10 years, and im happy to do another 70 if i have to
if i even get a subtle hint that she's being manipulative, she gets kicked out of my house and my life 😄
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Well gl with that. Define manipulation... most communication is manipulation
Everyone lies, everyone manipulates
@@astronautis1674No. Most communication is not manipulation.
@@astronautis1674 tell me you're an idiot without saying you're an idiot.
18-29 = Having fun with chads/bad boys and girls night out at clubs.
30+= Marrying the guys they friend zoned in their 20’s.
hahaha
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never heard that anywhere before
As an ignored male in my 20s, i resolved never to marry a chad-player woman. Finally found a woman to marry who was married 2x in her 20s to unambitious men, she was not a player. Been married 25Y... We have had about the same number of relationships each ...
you forgot the 40-45 divorce the guys the married
No, I don't like having something to chase, I like crafting and creating things.
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Right? Chasing down resources (that ACTUALLY work, unlike her) is the WORST part of making something.
Me too lol.
I actually do like chasing. It's the closest thing to a hunt you can experience in the modern world. I do agree with the guy though, it's not cool to manipulate someone on purpose.
I was about to say similar. Boys chase girls. Men pursue goals, reshaping their world and creating things.
projecting her own issues
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True
She's gonna be divorced at 30 and cry like a river and never learn anything.
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The ONLY person you ever need to chase, is the better future version of yourself.
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If a guy thought a girl was his soulmate and he talks to her and she is easy, no way he is gonna come and go. From the very beginning, guys know if they want only sex or relationship
exactlyyyy
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Except it may take years to discover someone is your soulmate. Women need to be able to keep a man's interest until he "comes around."
The guy in the video is partly wrong. I estimate that about 10% of men like chasing. The men women go after, hump 'n dump these women and after that it's 'where are all good men'.
If you want a guy to chase you will only get the dudes that are into that. But you'll have to play chase forever because if you don't your relationship is over.
Decent dudes just want a woman that likes them back.
yepp, a decent honest woman with no kids from a crappy ex that shares similar interests is all I've ever wanted, sadly they are rare where I live, nothing but single moms with bad taste in men :p
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@@erasablefallen7223 I know some of this hoes and mostly their ex or ex of her child is in prison or out and werid guy :D
I always laugh how it is always the same story and concept.
The last line was the best line... "Let's just date healthy people instead"
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Ooh, Damn!!! Got to find me a **FREAK** Like that...!
Actually when my abandonment wounds are triggered; I do the total opposite of being clingy, I walk away.
that's RIGHT reverse psychology walk away don't look back GIRLS BETTER NOT WASTE MY TIME PLAYING STUPID MIND GAMES.
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@@superkentiktok I like that you still reply to comments. Peace
If she said “simps” instead of “men” it would have been a LOT more accurate
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Plato - " Don't try to make anyone like you
The only thing to do is to allow yourself to be loved "
The problem is, there's *a lot* of people with emotional issues that can be very well used as shortcuts to the heart...
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didnt understand that becaue i am not native
LMFAO Now THAT'S hilarious. According to today's youth, being off your phone for "A FEW HOURS" is enough to instill fear in them.
That's just psycho. I couldn't date someone like that because I want to be off of my phone for DAAAAYYYS.
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I remember what it was like before Nokia Brick Phones. I'd perfer to be off the phone for weeks--catch me by e-mail, i'll get back to you.
When her man is on a 20 ft. ladder working, a woman will shake the ladder or drive her car as close as she can and then accuse him of "being insecure." This is metaphoric, of course, but it is how it works. The modern woman will give off all the signs of a cheating tramp and then fault her man for "not trusting her." Trust is earned, there's no other way.
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"Nobody wants to chase someone"
Jason Voorhees- doubtful grunts
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This girl is going to end up alone with all the games she plays. She's young, try doing this with a guy over 30 and more than likely he's gonna drop her hard.
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I think I consider myself to be a lucky man, since my prior girlfriend in my life, after we had broken up due to wanting to seek different paths in life and accepting that we weren't for each other, told me much later that she ashamed of the way of how it started out. We had the classic high school love story, but with the sense of having a wild goose chase without communicating properly, since I couldn't understand what she wanted, until much later we sat down and did. I'm glad that she realized her errors, but I forgave her since I knew she did not mean to harm me, but simply did not understand how to communicate properly in relationship. Some people may not get this, but I hope they do. It taught me to understand where define my boundaries and setup my own security so that way I wouldn't crumble for either reason of my own or someone else's, intentional or not.
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“Never trust a woman, nor take for granted anything she tells you, and always strive to eliminate her from your mind and the minds of all who come in contact with you.”-- Suzanne Hindmarsh
AHEM...
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My man saying shit how it is, also I've never understood the idea of wanting to manipulate someone into a relationship, because years down the line they will have no idea how to keep it going as they never took the time to get to know the other person and its going to break down when the charm runs out
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I can confirm that I won't chase, life is too short to do something like that.
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the person i've liked the most in recent years is literally someone that made it clear to me she really liked me. So much so that i was ready to risk and do almost whatever to be with her.
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I'd rather find a man that loves me for me instead of lying to him for fake love, but that's just me 🤷
Yesss facts
I don't know a single guy who likes to chase someone
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Only inexperienced and desperate men with no options is going to chase
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The best way to make him like you, is to BE A LIKEABLE PERSON.
Bro finally a guy saying how it is. Easy, simple, logical. We are not here to play games like "chase" we want respectful relationships for christs sake
If you're chasing someone, that means they're simultaneously running away. People that continue to chase after someone that's running from them are creeps who don't respect boundaries. Ask Ghostface.
factss no chasing
thats so true. You can't out narcissist a narcissist or out avoid an avoidant. I low key tried to do that when a girl I was dating stopped wanting to give me affection even hugs cuddling etc. And it did not work.
I'm hardcore introverted -- like 95-98% on those personality tests. I don't initiate avoidant behavior, but I've taught a few women a hard lesson. I can out-withdraw them no problem.
She wants to throw a temper tantrum and withdraw sex as some kind of punishment? Bet. I will win that battle of wills. Every time.
For me, 2020 was just a nice staycation.
@@niallk9336 I was similar during lockdown. But when you are made to think it's your fault and that you hurt her, you feel like you have to make up for it. It makes it much harder. Also I didn't want to lose her but eventually had to cut it off because she was making me stressed and not able to sleep
I found that radical truth is only cure. It also drives narcisist to absolute rage, because it usually means they are at fault and they cant swallow that humiliation. If it kills the relationships, it is still the better outcome. If I want to play games I play on my computer, not in my relationships.
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The end was everything... You can't out avoid an avoidant
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I have heared someone say something interesting "men work hard once to not work in the future".
This applies to many things, I guess there is some truth to that when it comes to chasing women too. Better think about having a calm, uninteresting lifestyle after marriage. With the occasional fun, that you might to plan yourself from time to time.
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The title should be "How to make a man get tired of you very quickly."
hahah yess
manipulating a guy is the stupidest thing you could do, its not real love
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I'm a woman , and i dont like playing mind games and manipulation , so i'd imagine guys dont like that either . Instead put that energy in something productive .
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Yeah, I can't stand it when ppl lovebomb and act all into you then start acting weird and avoidant without even explaining what the issue is.
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Manipulation is rarely, if ever, done out of love.
I don't want to chase a woman. If they're demanding to be chased, they are creating a gulf which will swallow love.
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I used to do this a lot I learn this from a lot of bad experience and I thought if I want myself to stop chasing people I need to make them chase me and go crazy over me as I used to go crazy over others and I learnt a lot of manipulation dark psychology stuff I applied it not just in attracting opposite gender and getting male validation but also used this with friends and family and it work everywhere and I didn't felt anything is wrong until my boyfriend started to call out me about how I am making his abundant issue worse and I always thought what he is talking about I don't understand but still I stop doing all that shit because I know manipulation is not a good thing you should be honest but this video made me actually realise what was wrong.
Just be yourself and attract who belongs to you.
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Or even better, work to be the best version of yourself and attract the partner who sets your soul ablaze.
Fantastic! I approve this message.
Thank you for watching!!
Videos like this are why men need to stay single.
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2 seconds in, hands claps... MASSIVE RED RED RED FLAGS!
ABORT MISSION! HALT! RETREAT!
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As someone who's in a healthy relationship, my partner glad that he doesn't have to play chasing game because i was being real, i want him and i show him that i want him and not giving mix signal. He fully committed to me
"Guys like having something to chase." Sure, holds true for the nines and tens she meets, which are the only men in the world of an attractive lady like her. For everyone else it's 'no'...means 'no'.
Haha
If you think you need tricks or game playing "to get a man to" then you're already off in the wrong direction. Real men don't play games. No time for that bullshit.
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Thank you, redheaded king
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When a girl ghosts me because she wants me to chase her, I go like "You probably have better things to do than talking to me" So I value instead women to talk and want to meet and want to have a good time, not girls who make themselves chaseable. I forget about them, so I have no options at the moment because of this attitude. I don't talk to any women at the moment, because they're essentially all the same.
smart approach, not worth the chase, if they like you them you wont be able to keep them away, if they want to play social medial hoe games, dont walk RUN
Story of my life down to a t
Yeah guys say that but as soon as a girl starts acting clingy because she wants to talk all the time and wants to be around him always…. The guy slowly looses interest and ghosts.
Thisss
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I don't usually do that. I got a clingy girl once, but unfortunately it was only and online thing and she was from another country, she ended up losing interest herself. A woman's feelings are temporary if they have no backup to keep that flame alive.
I'm pushing fifty and let me tell you that after 30.... shit ain't like that.
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Horatio please elaborate
Wow! Healthiest Video I Have Seen In A Long Time.
Thank you for watching 🙏
Dude you're right on.!!!
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Women could have a husband easily with 3 simple rules in life:
1.) Take care of yourself physically. Eat right and exercise, don't be an alcoholic or abuse drugs or cover your body in tatoos. It's important for a variety of reasons, and attracting a partner is one of them.
2.) Don't chase "bad boys". Most of them aren't even physically attractive, let alone faithful partners. Maybe they hit on you a little more aggressively, but if you waste your youth ruining yourself sexually, good strong men will avoid you. Best case, one of them takes you in after you ask for forgiveness and you have to work harder to earn trust and respect.
3. Don't play games or manipulate. Most men can catch on pretty easily and they wont appreciate it. If anything, the games make you look unstable. Good men will call you out then run for the hills and find someone else. Weak/bad men will use you for sex and ultimately leave.
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I got my PASSPORT Bros and went to Asia. I spoke with DOZENS of beautiful young girls here. I'm with the one that was honest, didn't play games, had no tattoos, was educated, slim, beautiful and wants to be a wife and mother AND was a virgin. The gold diggers, pros, tattooed, short haired, heavy, loud, party types, I left alone.
you have a very balanced mind and a wise and caring heart
She has no idea what shes talking about.
We are simple. Be hot, fun, loving and dont hurt us. Thats all we want.
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Intellectually compatible and conscientious matters too for a LTR.
@@aikighost ppl who tell anyone how to manipulate others must be intent on manipulating anyone anyway. first of all we must figure out what we want and I bet most normal, balanced ppl are not into game players :)
"Make yourself interesting to him"
...by being like EVERY other woman on thikthot
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The only woman a man will love is the one who genuinely respects and submits to him. We can read any pretentious and manipulative energy, brothers have woken up hey, FYI.
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post wall mid girl never grew up. She didn't develop empathy because he was cute (enough) to get lots of attention in her 20's and live on easy mode. She might be able to get short term wins, but is not on track to have and keep a long term partner. I see lots of cats in her future.
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1 thing I cannot not agree with: we are not the same. Our physiology and psychology are different. Our needs, requirements are different. They have similarities and common sections, but in general, we are not the same.
Guys hate it when a woman claps her hands when talking.
lol
yeah if a girl is constantly with her "guy friends" but wants u to chase her or take initiative with her when she has no issues going around with any random "friend" dude then she will be judged on that, she is easy but is making ur life difficult
when parasites proved that it is worthless and hypocrites.
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Well i did... ex faked loving me till she got what she wanted which was a baby. My world just crashed. I went court and i see my kiddo, we love each other so much.
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Trial and error, its that simple, get belter with experience, no one can rush to the end, no one lives a life without mistakes. The important bit is learn from them, so ignore the internet and all it's BS, get out there and live it before its too late.
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Guys like having intense headaches, said no man ever.
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Only thing I like chasing is success. This is soon to be one of those girls that thinks she's playing hard to get while the guy she's interested in his bedding someone else and she just ends up being another side piece by the time he comes around.
Abandonment wounds suck. Had an ex who triggered them with a hot-and-cold manipulation tactic. Unfortunately it worked and hurt like a bitch but I learned my lesson. Was interested in a guy who then tried the hot-and-cold. Dropped it immediately. Never again.
We seem to be getting crazier every year...
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Just be honest and straightforward, and don't play games. That's it. It's that simple. Anything else leads to a toxic relationship.
She is right that men will see women as easy for giving them what they want without a fuss. But she's mistaken in thinking that "men don't want easy women" is a blanket true statement, that all depends on what women are "easy" in respect to.
Women want men to marry them; no self respecting man is going to marry a woman who gives him sex on the first date, because she is "easy". He knows he is not the only man she will give that to, and that it's not likely to change if they get married. She flags herself as likely to cheat, so she is blacklisted.
But no self respecting man is going to marry a woman who he feels will not give him sex after they are married either. Men don't want to have to work for things like this girl says, they just recognize that if they don't have to work for it, other men won't either, and they don't want a wife who gives out sex to the first asker free of charge. But they still want sex to be easy! Just not on the first couple of dates. (Personally I would not want it until after marriage, but in this day and age I wonder if there are any women left who can catch a man without using sex to do so...)
And as far as the relationship outside of sex goes, again, men want it to be easy and simple. They don't want to chase, put in a bunch of work, etc etc, just to keep their partner around. They already put in a bunch of work being the bread winner, they don't have time or energy to play these social games. What they DO want is to feel that they are special to their woman, and have something between them that she has with no other men. If he knows/feels like he was not her first choice, or he knows she settled for him, once again he is flagging her in his mind as very likely to cheat, and he is not going want to have a real relationship outside sex with her if he respects himself.
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No, I gave up chasing women - BECAUSE THEY WOULD NEVER STOP RUNNING AWAY! Screw the chase. It isn't worth it. If I want to play games I'll just fire up my console. These manipulators ain't worth my time.
Never chased a whamen. Will/would NEVER compete for whamen with other men.
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Random guy taking notes
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Wow ,children are experts in relationships now are they ?😂
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I notice pretty fast, when I am being manipulated. Lots of experience with it ... and lots of trauma-work ...
if it happens, I usually tell them: "hey, I notice, what you are doing. it makes me feel uncomfortable and hurt ... disrespected and that i am not worth enough for you to actually treat me WELL.
so the only thing, that this behavior of yours is going to achieve, is "PUSH ME AWAY" from you.
I don't appreciate it! It's not "cute", nor funny, nor healthy. I won't tolerate it.
Better stop doing it, because I will lose any kind of respect, that I have for you."
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You tell a girl that you're hurt and you're a little wimp in her eyes, no matter how much she cared (or didn't care) about you. Sad to say that if you're acting so fragile around women, you're far away from getting a real one. They won't respect you. You're probably not going to listen, but if you understand what I mean it'll help you tons. You should let women know your boundaries and that they should respect you if they want to be around you, but telling them ''it makes me feel uncomfortable and hurt'' is only going to hurt your chances, even when the women are well meaning and actually decent.
That was nice. Need more people saying and doing things like this.
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Thank you for showing me what to avoid from women.
oh man. society has it all wrong:
women enjoy having something to chase and work towards in a relationship (the man)
the man need to chase purpose and building something for the relationship to go well
If she looks like THAT and she's getting gamed, who the HELL is she trying to countergame?
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I don't chase. I get.
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Absolute Delusional.
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Women copying PUA tactics is ironic af, but it actually makes sense for beckies to try it on chads.
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I just leave the girl be. I know emotional manipulation and am sick of it. The games are stupid and i wont deal with it.
Nope, We want a partner.
Factsss
Well said.
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No not all guys like something to chase .
If you want to play games then im out
It is just better to get to know each other and then decide if the romantic relationship will work or not
All of this hard to get stuff is ridiculous
This is not one of those unrealistic romantic movies where the guy does everything to get the girl
Most guys wont waste time with women like that
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signs when you raise by a single mom
The woman giving advice sees a pattern but does not understand cause and effect principles. She sees a man putting out lots of effort and thinks the chase makes him attracted, when it is his attraction that causes him to chase. She sees a man pull a girl with low effort, and he is not chasing and thinks the girl didn't build attraction. He was never, nor would be ever attracted to her, he is just enjoying a low effort fling that he was never going to be serious about. She sees the correlation, but does not understand which came first. Man was correct, no one WANTS to work that hard, but they will to get what they want.
I wont chase anything.
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Nailed it
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Projecting male sexual preferences upon females is ridiculous. Women love men who are attractive to other women. Why else is single motherhood on the rise?
Hay everyone... Don't take advice from a child. Simple as...
Great video
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So the guys don't think it's pathetic if a girl says "I like you" to them? We've been told it just serves for their ego but strips us from any respect from his side. What kind of new thing is this? I remember reading a book on how to find a suitable spouse by a male psychologist who said the same thing as her and he called it "evolutionary" and "subconscious" conditioning that men and women carry in their genetic memory. I don't want that you blame the girl, we're even told this by our parents!!! Of course we believe it. I'm quite confused right now.
I see a 45 yo divorcee living in a trailer park and running a discount escort service from her phone, wondering what she did so wrong to get herr
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swallow hard = 5 minutes of love now what
ya it’s super easy, women don’t get it. Swallow whenever we want as often as we want.
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manipulation doesnt work on me, too many women have tried it on me thus giving birth to my insanity. Know the game so well to the point where i know they are trying an attempt. Im not chasing unless given a valid reason to chase and no, her kitty cave and a pretty face also dont work on me
Theyre there own worst enemy
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nope. she was pretty wrong.
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Woke TicTok junkies give the most rational relationships advice… 🤔
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we looking for reciprocation.
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