Starting Over - How To Start Over When Life Gets Turned Upside Down

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  • STARTING OVER
    With so much chaos going on around the world so many people are faced with starting over. We wanted to let them know that they are not alone, that others have walked a similar path and that this can be a great opportunity in their life... if they decide to make it one.
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Komentáře • 140

  • @beebryant8175
    @beebryant8175 Před 4 lety +66

    I am starting over at 34! It is a must, I can't stand the way things keep falling apart! I can't wait to see where life will take me! To anyone feeling like this, please believe that you can do it! I never thought I would be able to!

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 Před 3 lety

      What a beautiful comment, thank you 💕

    • @reemthehomosapien537
      @reemthehomosapien537 Před 3 lety

      From the core of my heart, thank you.

    • @karfeishaolyia9567
      @karfeishaolyia9567 Před 2 lety

      thank you i am 31 in a 9 yr relationship that always has me broke he is a good guy i have a daughter that i cant even provide for so i have to start over i am so emotional right now

    • @allygaretzka2323
      @allygaretzka2323 Před 2 lety +2

      Starting over at 24 & I thought I was late. I'm a fetus.

    • @jermainemcqueen8997
      @jermainemcqueen8997 Před 2 lety

      How are things going now?

  • @SunniSide1
    @SunniSide1 Před 4 lety +32

    I turn 30 next month, and I want to start my life over with a new slate! From scratch! No ties to anything negative, no grudges, no looking back! I’m a new person!

  • @AustinHebrew
    @AustinHebrew Před 4 lety +27

    Love how this video is 11:11 (11 mins & 11 seconds)

  • @interstat2222
    @interstat2222 Před 5 lety +44

    They say when you're at rock bottom the only way to go is up, so I guess we should always try to remember that.

    • @odetothemasses
      @odetothemasses Před 4 lety +1

      did you get that from the movie lol

    • @larryk1153
      @larryk1153 Před 4 lety +2

      Sometimes rock bottom has a basement.

    • @davemarchesan
      @davemarchesan Před 4 lety

      That’s a good saying. I also like the similar thinking of the best thing about being at rock bottom is it’s the best place the build a foundation. Literally you’ve got nothing to loose to decide who you wanna be, where you wanna be, and what you’re going to do with your life. It might be hard at first but maybe it’s for the overall growth for the better

    • @markleikin9852
      @markleikin9852 Před 3 lety

      You can keep going down..

  • @Nacho_Boi420
    @Nacho_Boi420 Před 5 lety +34

    I'm stuck in a situation and can't wait to start over

  • @wendyhutchins663
    @wendyhutchins663 Před 5 lety +25

    I searched CZcams for a video that relates to what I'm experiencing now. Having to start over. I lost my job I was employed at for 5 years. I went from having a savings, paying down debt, having a good income to help me plan my ideal life, having a clear plan for myb personal and professional growth and development to where I'm at now. Behind on my bills, no savings, increased debt, a job earning less with less hours, getting food stamps and government medical assistance and struggling to raise my two daughters as a single parent. I'm just tired and pray I get my energy and drive back sooner rather than later.
    I appreciate this video. Thanks for posting it.

    • @troyjackson9437
      @troyjackson9437 Před 4 lety +5

      Hold on Sis... You'll Make It (.)

    • @emmanottingham6233
      @emmanottingham6233 Před 3 lety +1

      Hope you are back up there now! I'm currently going through the same at 50. Hoping for better days

    • @karfeishaolyia9567
      @karfeishaolyia9567 Před 2 lety

      I feel you hun i am 31 and felt like i fail my 6 yr old daughter but all i can do is prayyyyyyyy to God and ask him to help me with my debts and paying bills and knowing that not you are not alone.

  • @showcasesportsnextgen9028

    Some days I try so hard just to smile. To move ahead. To be motivated. My wife left about 5 months ago. Divorce was final a month ago. She took my son and step son and moved on into a life she had already prepared. I had no idea how my life and life of my 4 children would change. I will get through this somehow.

    • @myfaith6944
      @myfaith6944 Před 2 lety +1

      Brother everything will fall in Place just put God First in your life.
      I am going through the same my wife left me and took off with my daughter and she is filling for divorce ext week. I am left with nothing. I have faith in Christ that he will never forsake me.
      So hang in there we both are sailing in the same boat but I believe we will be set to the shore by His Grace and Glory.

    • @delmarhaley371
      @delmarhaley371 Před rokem

      Hey brother I just went through the same thing your not alone my friend saying a prayer

  • @musa2775
    @musa2775 Před 4 lety +37

    I turn 35 in a month. Just mutually ended an 8 year relationship. I love him but we're not happy. We need to be apart to grow. But we're late bloomers and I was going to be a homemaker when he finishes school next year. Now I'm skillless, jobless, and leaving my home to move back in with my mother. It's gut-wrenching and I feel like a failure. I'm looking forward to finding myself and achieving something outside of a relationship. I just wish I could go back in time and take better advantage of my last 2 decades. Sure wish I knew not to invest everything I am into another person. Hard lesson learned.

    • @saurabhvimal1008
      @saurabhvimal1008 Před 4 lety +1

      Same but I am 27 , Skill less and jobless .I feel lost and feeling like givingup

    • @saurabhvimal1008
      @saurabhvimal1008 Před 4 lety +1

      @Quinton Quiroz same , parents are dead , want to do something good enough in life but feel lost , have made many mistake in life . I just feel lost n stuck n old that my time has passed

    • @IgnorantAnime
      @IgnorantAnime Před 4 lety +1

      I'm 20. Give me the best advice guys

    • @rarirover44
      @rarirover44 Před 4 lety +2

      McK USA just ended a six month relationship with a girl i feell like am not going anywhere with!

    • @musa2775
      @musa2775 Před 4 lety

      @@rarirover44 I'm so happy you found out and took next steps this early on. Congrats to you!

  • @TheHolisticHealthGuru
    @TheHolisticHealthGuru Před 5 lety +64

    This video is so good! I am starting over with just my child- this video helped to inspire me so much. Especially since we are relocating to San Diego! The scenery in this video is getting me even more excited. I know I can do this!

    • @vududawg
      @vududawg Před 5 lety +5

      I'm also starting over and this was a great video, I wish you the best of luck

  • @victoriamossucco5932
    @victoriamossucco5932 Před 4 lety +11

    Starting all over after 50 making decisions not easy at all , what do I want? where do I go ? Thank you for the video .
    You really transmit the message well .

  • @mikebaird1110
    @mikebaird1110 Před 4 lety +11

    life is hard / ovewhelming at times . Looking for a silver lining when every day is a monday. keep focused , never give in to the doughts , stay strong . Your stronger than u think . Get mad at the comfort zone . Thats where dreams go to die . Life is a gift thats why they call it the present .

  • @jasmineborges8702
    @jasmineborges8702 Před 4 lety +5

    I'm 23 years old, and have been feeling super lost in my life, feeling like I have no purpose, giving me depression and anxiety, I was clinically diagnosed with these things. So life really has taken a toll on me, even to the point of feeling I should take my life from feeling so empty, among other traumatic things. I'm trying really hard to push myself everyday. This video is helping me realise a lot about life. Sorry for ranting just want everyone to know we can get through this and we will make it. Just can't give up ❤❤

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 Před 3 lety +1

      I know this was commented a while ago but your comment really touched me and I empathize 💯 because these are my same thoughts 💭 I’m 25 have a quarter life crisis. Hope you find happiness soon

  • @chynnamichele6776
    @chynnamichele6776 Před 4 lety +7

    I am so happy that I found this video, I don’t feel so alone in my feelings. Starting over feels so overwhelming, but changing the perspective to having the ability to choose my new path.

  • @mattbross6517
    @mattbross6517 Před 2 lety +1

    All these people featured are young , attractive and connected and will land on their feet, their problems and struggles are finite and temporary.

  • @lisadonner6889
    @lisadonner6889 Před 5 lety +16

    Thank you. Been feeling so lost

  • @michelletaylor369
    @michelletaylor369 Před 5 lety +8

    Thank you ALL FOR SHARING I LOVE EACH ONE OF YOU FOR SHARING THIS MADE & IS MAKING A DIFFERENCE YOU ARE ALL SO BEAUTIFUL!🦋🙌🙏 1111

  • @ryriffs
    @ryriffs Před 5 lety +11

    oh man, it made me feel so good to hear all those people who felt lost and still found hope. I felt so connected and hopeful. Thank you for this video.

  • @Matt-hc3yk
    @Matt-hc3yk Před 5 lety +6

    I have just turned 40... I have kids I can't see and a past that is horrible and I am alone.. My friends are damaged and I am depressed etc etc I have no education.. What's the point

  • @shellyortiz1977
    @shellyortiz1977 Před 5 lety +14

    Im in a stage in my life where i want to make so many changes but im so scared leaving my night job change everything.that im so used to this video came to me at the right time .

    • @JairekRobbins
      @JairekRobbins  Před 5 lety +2

      Pumped to hear that this showed up at just the right time for you!

  • @theplusparadyme9280
    @theplusparadyme9280 Před 3 lety +3

    Anyone 40 and feeling like they need to start over? Or has? Everything is falling apart and I'm tired to my soul. I just can't do it anymore.

    • @irenemac1545
      @irenemac1545 Před 3 lety +1

      I feel you, I'm 38

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 Před 3 lety +1

      I’m nowhere near 40s yet but I’m 25 and I feel the exact same way. I wish I wasn’t born at times..it’s unfair 💯

  • @touxiong519
    @touxiong519 Před 4 lety +12

    Hated my life have to leave everything behind so I won't be a slave to needy and guilt tripping people. Now it's time to me selfish and do things for me.

  • @arianaromez3576
    @arianaromez3576 Před 5 lety +13

    thank you for this video. i just went bankcrupt, a single mum and away to go to study. life starts now c

  • @mauricefuqua2578
    @mauricefuqua2578 Před 5 lety +20

    I'm Happ I found this video I've been lost for some yrs I truly hope that I can get back on track I Know this is a start

    • @michelletaylor369
      @michelletaylor369 Před 5 lety +2

      You've got this @MauriceFuqua I'm in the middle too judging by the time stamp we did it or are doing it at the same time! 🦋🙌 1111

  • @robbie8194
    @robbie8194 Před 5 lety +38

    I’m leaving my life behind and going to travel Europe

    • @daisye9811
      @daisye9811 Před 5 lety

      How did it go?

    • @robbie8194
      @robbie8194 Před 5 lety +8

      Daisy e great I’ve been to France, Spain and now I’m in Germany the now

    • @daisye9811
      @daisye9811 Před 5 lety +1

      @@robbie8194 right on..so good to hear it's what you wanted

    • @tyhartl5184
      @tyhartl5184 Před 5 lety +3

      robbie 123 how, what did you do for work/money? That the only thing I’m scared of

    • @arturochacon8848
      @arturochacon8848 Před 4 lety +3

      Have fun on your travel

  • @Jordan-sq3zo
    @Jordan-sq3zo Před 5 lety +5

    This is so inspiring. I had a background of working in education and care with special needs. However, from working heavy shifts in care (24 hours+), it had a severe effect on my long-term partner’s health and I knew I had to leave because I value him over anything else. After, I was thinking of retraining within animal care, which I wanted to do before, and now this has definitely inspired me to take the big step. Thank you.

  • @barbiemanifesting
    @barbiemanifesting Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you for this 🙏 going through a global crisis has really cleared the slate for so many of us to be forced to start over. Ive never felt more uncertain but its also allowing me to totally redesign my life

  • @terrycurtin2137
    @terrycurtin2137 Před 5 lety +12

    We spoke together at one of Underwoods MLM deals. That was years back. You have come a very long way. I sadly slipped away
    This video was very helpful in what is a very bad time. The trifecta. Long term GF cheated. Home is hers. I was retired and now I am not. So from MLM million $ earner to Amazon sorter. Its killing me. Literally. Your dad saved me in 88. I was a drunk. Near death. Turned it all around. Made millions. Then gone in the recession.
    Jairek I am in better shape than I was 11 min ago
    Maybe we can talk soon old friend.

    • @JairekRobbins
      @JairekRobbins  Před 5 lety +3

      Glad to hear the video was helpful! Amazon is solid -- my wife made $100k from her sales on there last month. Good news is the 2nd million is quicker and easier than the first -- you know what works and what doesn't -- you've got this!!

  • @derirekanita
    @derirekanita Před 4 lety +5

    February 1st, 2020. I just start over my life since I make a very big mistake. I feel so embarrase and I feel like I'm dying inside. I'm looking forward to what is the good thing that will come to my way...

  • @dinewithsreya
    @dinewithsreya Před 4 lety +4

    I am 27 yrs old nothing is right in life..not a single damn thing.I wanna start over for a while now.I want to just feel stuck in my mind.I need to break those cages & work on my new life!!

  • @namitanaidu7924
    @namitanaidu7924 Před 4 lety +2

    Wow! I needed to watch this. Getting ready to start over again. The hardest thing in life is to acknowledge failure after investing months and days and night energy into it. And to accept that it is now over. May all of us who are in this turmoil gather strength and start over again.

  • @ms.finesseyouwithbeauty8507

    This was a message for me & it spoke to my heart.

  • @JessNada
    @JessNada Před 5 lety +10

    Only love for this.

  • @BelledelaGroove
    @BelledelaGroove Před 4 lety +2

    I just turned 32 on June 8th and I couldn't resonate more with the young lady that is also 32.

    • @xavierrayashton
      @xavierrayashton Před 4 lety +1

      Happy late birthday sis💕 you've got this, just gotta keep moving!

  • @ParisSantiago
    @ParisSantiago Před 5 lety +12

    This is so inspiring! Thank you 💚

  • @g0lumbi
    @g0lumbi Před 3 lety +1

    Its good that im not alone. I hope all the weight on my heart goes away when i do this. Just be free. Good video and great ppl on the comment section too.

  • @emuny9632
    @emuny9632 Před 5 lety +5

    Great topic and video. Most people including me can relate.

  • @aquiozclips3884
    @aquiozclips3884 Před 4 lety +1

    I'm now embarking on a path without a life partner. I am not afraid. I have concluded I was always this. I wish him and previous a good life. But I now seek one for myself. Life is amazing and change is exciting. Xxxx

  • @svenhassel3150
    @svenhassel3150 Před 5 lety +6

    What a brilliant video. One of the best I have seen on You Tube. Really helped me. :)

  • @naninhastudios
    @naninhastudios Před 5 lety +8

    This video é a master piece thanks for share it ✨ 1111

  • @BossiBabes
    @BossiBabes Před 5 lety +9

    I watched the whole thing!! 😂😂😍😍

  • @wLkByFAITH.
    @wLkByFAITH. Před 4 lety +3

    I got fired in January 2019. So after 13 warehouse .and a divorce in the same year i needed a carrer change. So i went to schoo at RSI for Refrigeration. I just graduated with electro mechanical technoligies and my epa universal. I hope my life changes for the better.

  • @ninamuthoni5938
    @ninamuthoni5938 Před 5 lety +4

    Really inspired by this

  • @kala-adaidakariopusunju6809

    Thanks for this vid.. starting over life again. and it feels like it is the third time I got to destroy what I built but God dey sha

  • @eileengarcia9166
    @eileengarcia9166 Před 3 lety

    thank you

  • @andreathomas9180
    @andreathomas9180 Před 2 lety

    As always, your a beacon of positivity Jairek, Thank for sharing you beautiful wife with us. Blessings to you and your family.

  • @FloridaManConstruction
    @FloridaManConstruction Před 3 lety +3

    Three years later that beach is covered with homeless and the world is crashing….

  • @fermslew5548
    @fermslew5548 Před 5 lety +1

    Welcome to the club of ones shitty reality.
    There is this finite ability to bounce back as one man said--- no matter how significant of a toll your once was path on life took on you. The key is resilience .
    Now today, at 32 i wish or reminisc that if I could go back, didn't drop out of school, wasn't bullied, wasn't so insecure, maybe life would be different. Maybe I wouldn't have this label. Your environment, resonates with your mind, then your mimd resonates who you are and the outcome.
    But you hate what is now, fuck FB, everything, relationships, friendships. It's time to change..
    No more influential thinking!!! 🍻

  • @AnnaMarusich
    @AnnaMarusich Před 4 lety +2

    anyone watching during coronavirus..

  • @sevengodsstark7966
    @sevengodsstark7966 Před 4 lety +1

    Interesting video.....I was only half watching and I kept hearing these statements that kept grabbing my attention, so I ended up focusing on what what being said. By the end of it, I had subscribed. I am going to try to put some of what was said into effect as soon as I start my day (tomorrow morning), so thanks I appreciate this vid. I think I needed to hear it. Thank you again 🌻

  • @7rlalko
    @7rlalko Před 4 lety +1

    This has helped me alot

  • @ninaboston4714
    @ninaboston4714 Před 4 lety +5

    The funny thing is I don't think I ever started. I have no idea what to do...

    • @coffeetoffee7645
      @coffeetoffee7645 Před 4 lety

      Write down what you want and instead of saying “This will not happen” ask “How can I do it?”

    • @irenemac1545
      @irenemac1545 Před 3 lety +1

      I know this feeling...having to trust self

    • @magicallyme96
      @magicallyme96 Před 3 lety +1

      This is exactly what I feel. I’ve only accomplished the basic mediocre things...I really didn’t start..living?? 😭

  • @lovelife02
    @lovelife02 Před 7 lety +3

    Lovely...thank you for this

  • @aquiestoy321
    @aquiestoy321 Před 3 lety

    This is great Jairek, just what I needed right now, thanks for sharing

  • @theadrenalizedartist6843

    I am watching this right after an argument with a loved one, so around 8:05 of this really hit home for me. Thanks. Inspiring video :)

  • @whiteinkpen
    @whiteinkpen Před 4 lety +2

    I’m really interested in what is being said- the music is a little over powering at the beginning. Thank you

  • @lyonesslife9354
    @lyonesslife9354 Před 5 lety +2

    wow like father like son

  • @tytylive4u
    @tytylive4u Před 3 lety +2

    1:12 needs to be a tv narrator 😂

  • @Bo_D_Vine
    @Bo_D_Vine Před 5 lety +1

    Great video! 💫

  • @like.lauren
    @like.lauren Před 4 lety +4

    What if you don’t have family and friends.

    • @JairekRobbins
      @JairekRobbins  Před 4 lety

      Choose to purposefully build the community you would like -- we teach a whole module on this in our high-performance program -- www.highperformancekw.com

  • @josephkelley8641
    @josephkelley8641 Před 3 lety

    Great piece, dude.

  • @katinajackson4362
    @katinajackson4362 Před 4 lety +2

    The girl at 7 min. Very inspiring

    • @LainaCaltagirone
      @LainaCaltagirone Před 4 lety

      Katina Jackson you inspire me !

    • @serena9763
      @serena9763 Před 4 lety

      Laina Caltagirone I loved your story! My relationship ended 9 months ago. But we officially ended it with no contact and blocked each other yesterday. So it’s a new chapter. I don’t know what’s next, but I’m anxious and excited.

  • @maxwellsegbedzi
    @maxwellsegbedzi Před rokem +1

    Hi

  • @25Newengland
    @25Newengland Před 5 lety +1

    This video is inspiring with the visuals of sunny California but going through the processing of starting over when you look outside your window and see the cold New England winter and crime ridden city you live in sucks the life out of you

    • @Karmeezy
      @Karmeezy Před 4 lety

      Then do what I am doing and move to California if that's what you want. :)

  • @victory9015
    @victory9015 Před 4 lety

    City where i live has become very toxic to me. I wanna ask is this a sign i need to change city?

  • @zendyk
    @zendyk Před 4 lety

    I was hoping this would actually tell me HOW to do it. 8 minutes in and it's still just people sharing bits of their own experiences.

    • @alexgscotty1808
      @alexgscotty1808 Před 3 lety

      I agree. Waste of time bearing people's stories,but no real solid advice. Just a lure to try and link you up with someones idea of program to sort out your life.

  • @Lunaxklk
    @Lunaxklk Před 5 lety +2

    My life is over. Everything I worked so hard for, was for nothing T.T

    • @vududawg
      @vududawg Před 5 lety +1

      I want to wish you the best of luck, I have also lost everything and am also starting over. I have to remind myself one day at a time and reach out

    • @vududawg
      @vududawg Před 5 lety

      @WE WUZ VIKANGS!!! n shiet. thank you, things are changing for the better and I will be able to do more than just survive soon

    • @joans6047
      @joans6047 Před 5 lety

      @WE WUZ VIKANGS!!! n shiet. Now it let me tag you. I want to talk to you and help if I can. This is the second comment that I have made to you on this video.

  • @bradleybloom7099
    @bradleybloom7099 Před 2 lety

    Google I can't I had a stroke so I can't just I can't hand right very well I need this talk talk on here if that's possible

  • @beautyeclipse8651
    @beautyeclipse8651 Před 5 lety +2

    The guy at 2:10 😥😥😥

  • @g.pearson4726
    @g.pearson4726 Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you