The Power of Silence: Why Silent People Are Successful
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- čas přidán 26. 06. 2024
- The amazing power of silence is something you might hear about in a ted talk, but not truly grasp. But if silence can make you successful and happy in your life, who aren’t more people hearing about the power of silence? Ironic? We thought so too. So here is a video.
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Mind Wandering, Mindful Awareness, and Mental Tranquility
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Brain Scans Show How Meditation Improves Mental focus
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Dynamical Properties Associated with Meditation and Attentional Skills
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2...
Why Silences Is So Good for Your Brain
www.huffpost.com/entry/silenc...
Thanks to Tristan Reed (writing), Troy W. Hudson (VO), for helping to create this video!
For Troy: / troywhudson
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My grandmother said, "If you want to drive somebody crazy, do it with silence."
Great 👍🏻 thanks
Grandma is very wise!
Always give the minimum amount of information, let them ask for more and you decide what you want to give.
ADDENDUM: Learn how to answer the question as stated. There are only two answers to "Do you know the time?" Yes or No. Most people will reply with the time. THAT WAS NOT THE QUESTION!
@@realistic.optimist this would be a great skill for me to learn.
@@sophiasmith5949 fczjsc s xi me
Momolm🙏o9 ok mo.o.o
@@sophiasmith5949 Me too!
@@realistic.optimist If I ask someone that and get a yes for a response, I’m going to be annoyed. I’m also going to assume you’re slow since that’s a common way to ask for the time. I agree with your point, but that’s a poor example.
WHEN TO BE SILENT
1. Be silent - in the heat
of anger.
2. Be silent - when you
don't have all the
facts.
3. Be silent - when you
haven't verified the
story.
4. Be silent - if your
words will offend a
weaker person.
5. Be silent - when it is
time to listen.
6. Be silent - when you
are tempted to make
light of holy things.
7. Be silent - when you
are tempted to joke
about sin.
8. Be silent - if you would
be ashamed of your
words later.
9. Be silent - if your
words would convey
the wrong
impression.
10. Be silent - if the issue
is none of your
business.
11. Be silent - when you
are tempted to tell an
outright lie.
12. Be silent - if your
words will damage
someone else's
reputation.
13. Be silent - if your
words will damage a
friendship.
14. Be silent - when you
are feeling critical.
15. Be silent - if you can't
say it without
screaming.
16. Be silent - if your
words will be a poor
reflection of your
friends and family.
17. Be silent - if you may
have to eat your
words later.
18. Be silent - if you have
already said it more
than one time.
19. Be silent - when you
are tempted to flatter
a wicked person.
20. Be silent - when you
are supposed to be
working instead.
*"WHOEVER GUARDS HIS MOUTH AND TONGUE KEEPS HIM SELF OFF TROUBLE
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Be silent, when people ignoring you.
“Insecurity is loud, confidence is silent” - Unknown author
confidence is being yourslef whether loud or quiet, in my estimation
I really believe
So great
I love this I came across a Buisness and am growing rapidly I am making so much money and I am always building meaning I am always looking for young people or like minded people who are interested in making some money from home 🏡! You get a 1099 own your own business and all !!!!
@@stevenopakio2838 I love this I came across a Buisness and am growing rapidly I am making so much money and I am always building meaning I am always looking for young people or like minded people who are interested in making some money from home 🏡! You get a 1099 own your own business and all !!
"Speak Only, when your Words are beautiful than Your Silence", *Ali ibn Abu Talib a.s* 😍
Shahzain Zaidi 🤣🤣
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I no longer want to waste my energy arguing or disturbing anyone else’s peace. I prefer peace. My own peace
And there is no greater peace then flying away from every backstabbing friend and enemy you know. Let them realize that then they don’t have any punching bag to direct their aggression on. Maybe then they will see that they have too much time and energy on their hands and are true cunts of pure habit.
@@Ray2311us exactly
Would anyone like to be my friend I want to change my environment
I want to be with nice people like you
Same.
🙏🏾
When you build in Silence,they didn't don't know what to attack. Confuse them with your silence.Shock them with your results. Remember,Those who talk, don't know.Those who know, don't talk.
That is very wise comment.
worked for me.
Move in silence, only speak when it’s time to say checkmate 👊🏻
Boom! I'm making a money move that no one, I repeat, no one knows abt it!!!
Yeah as Puff Daddy said, "Real killa's move in silence"! Hahaha
@@dorisnamondo97 uh!
Lol
Boom!
Keep your thoughts to yourself and you will never regret it
Silence is wisdom in action
< Silence is wisdom in action > Or, it could mean you got nothing to add to the situation.
When I keep my thoughts to myself, my head gets too cloudy and that becomes ALL I can think of.
👌🏾 ✅
Silence is strong...even when you are quiet your silence speaks volumes.
Eh not always.
Like everything else its circumstantial
Silence is a plague in the face of evil
Being confident, having high self esteem, respecting yourself that no one can bring yo down and then being silent just makes a good life.
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If you put your self higher you only go down. Put your self lower place you only go up .being to confident makes Arrogant. To much Silent it doesn't give you good life either be moderate to much of everything is a killer. Calm down
Work in silence and let your success do the talking for you💯💯
No talk on your sucess.
Nah you let the work you put in do the talking. You don't want people mistaking your hard work for talent.
@@qwentinkappelmann3464 We all have a different opinion, but imo it's better for the haters to not think much of you. Then boooooom out of nowhere they see you on top
*jaws drop
I read this comment and felt it deep 👏👏👏🔥
Let sucess make noise
Do no trust people who uses lots of words to say very little.
not*
Well my friend that on my opinion it's a political
Met many a person..they usually have big egos.
This is how you define MODI ,I guess!
Perception is key
Silent and listen are spelled using the same letters.
PREACH!
Excellent✌
It's deep 😲
Wow I’ve actually never noticed this!
Amazing
'You have the right to remain silent' You must remember this.
You look like Grant Cardone
Thank you
Always the best thing to do !!!!!!! Godspeed. !!!!!!!!!
@@dannystephenson4197 Not Always lol
oh. i remembered it for years and years. never forgot. But the first time i heard it (as it had been aggressively screamed) i took the meaning as "Shut up".
I thought it was simply legal language for do not speak.
Rights were lost on me.
No one actually ever explained Right or Rights.
Probly a name for effective communication.
edit: nice beard by the way
Being silent helps me to observe things more clearly🧘♀️🧘♀️🧘♀️
Quiet people are always thinking,I know because I am one, Thinking most of the time is better than talking most of the time,to solve a problem you need to think first
only exception is Elon Musk. Why? he needs to tell people his plans to get help and investors and such. Other than that, he wont talk so much (eg private life and such, unless reporter specifically asks). He is great example of this video.
But do not think forever
Yea but don’t overthink. it can cause you not to even take action
To solve problem you need couple things; 1define problem 2 .get information about the problem 3.exchange ideas 4 ask questions related to the problem 5 know how to talk 6 and then get silent.. meditation,thinking, rethinking... depends how big the problem... summarize... talking,asking,thinking,...a lot,not that easy....
I agree as a ....... quite person
Silence speaks louder than words and the greatest thing about silence is that silence has always strong!
"A wise man knows when to hold his tongue. Only a fool blurts out everything he knows."
Some are silent because they're afraid to speak afraid of being judged . There's a time for speaking a time for silence real wisdom is knowing which one applies in a given situation.
I don't think so. I think they say "what's the point. They won't listen to me anyway." These people are more aware of human nature than anyone else. No o ne wants unsolicited advice. They know better.
@@travon526 < No one wants unsolicited advice > I absolutely hate that. Advice is about power, not helping somebody out. I only had one person ever who could give me advice and I didn't take offense to it. What made her advice so much different is she asked questions first to be sure it would in fact be of some use to me.
When you are silent,all the others are more willing to pay respect.
How? I literally don't know anything about you. What do I have to respect?
Why Bread you’ve no idea 🤦♂️
My friend was letting me stay with him. I had a car. He would ask me from time to time for favors and I would say I'll sleep on it and come back tommorow. He said he eventually appreciated that kind of thinking ..
@@mondaymotivation2652 Your thoughtless comment alone lost respect. People like you will eventually get hit with bad karma and learn some life lesson
"Silence is the language that God speaks. Everything else is a bad translation." - Eckhart Tolle (Author of the Power of Now)
Hey Ramsey
How are you keeping,
Where are you from??
Its actually Rumi's words.
It took quite awhile and some discipline for me to learn how to be silent.
Not only do introverts make great listeners, they're mindful of their environment and the things happening around them. Because they're observant, they're able to notice both the mistakes and successes of others and pick up on what to do and what to avoid in order to be successful.
Modern Adulting sounds like me
Totally agree 👍
Fax‼️💯
Very True.!!!
Makes good sense to me .very true
Speech is silver whereas silence is golden
Chris Pouliot Deep. 👍🏻
Exactly
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⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Do u talk then?😂
Story of my life I’m the quietest person I KNOW.. it definitely got me out of life and death situations and elevated me to run a million dollar business 👨💼
🥂
That's living proof × 2 of how much silence can mean,& it's obvious what it's done for you.congratulations in your accomplishments
People who talks a lot ,have nothing to say. Silent waters are deep.
Iloveyou
"Still waters run deep"
You too the same
Babbling brooks are shallow.
Silence has never betrayed man. Trust it.
I admire your wisdom
Well said.
Yes it has look at the world
Depends on what context it is used but I understand what you meant.
Well said ty
My dad said -
1. Keep your plans to yourself. Whatever your plans in life are, keep them to yourself and work on them silently.
2. "Im not raising you to be successful. I want you to be self-sufficient. So when I leave, I don't have to worry."
I also learned to stay low-key and keep my private life private.
Not everyone deserves to know what's happening in your life. So when I have to talk, people listen because they're curious about me. Let them assume about you and surprise them with the truth..
So very true. I learned this lessons hard way.
I love this comment👌
dimple dimple God bless your dad. He is a smart man.
1
No.1 ... 👍👍
I find it utterly stressful to be around and near people who cannot stop talking.
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< I find it utterly stressful to be around and near people who cannot stop talking.> Me and my long-time mate had a name for them "Yappers." We knew several who could talk non-stop for 2 solid hours. Neither of us could stand that.
i just cant stand them,not sure why they dont seem to notice my disinterest in their chit chat that seems to have no end!
@@yeukaimachokoto6103 From what I've observed, they appear to oblivious to anything but the sound of their own voice. They don't pick up visual or auditory cues that a person is trying to find a way to make an escape!
Pity!......how then can i possibly communicate my disinterest without being rude?i need to communicate this......please help!😜
This my friends, is what you call "walking by spirit and not by the flesh". I hope God blesses you all
God bless you too.Even the Bible says a successful man talks less.
God bless you too
God Bless you too!! 🙏
Yes ,God bless you. Even in Mathew 6:2 is written "when you give to the needy, do not sound a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be praised by men."
6:4 "so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you." Christianity is indeed the greatest religion but also the hardest one... One should control himself and not give himself up to temptations, to meaningless praise because here, the giving would be only for the means of boasting and showing off. No, we should do it in silent with pure love and humility, for our God only to see.
N M A there are religion/religions harder than christianity my guy
Introverts: Im about to start my own career
Hahaha hah...heh..... *whispers: oh no they are on to me...* ._.
hell yeah
Politics are dying
I'll change the world , remember me
Jhnwrbg lmao
Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time.
Yeah! I agree with you sir.If you want to be successful have the mindset of the rich, spend less and invest More. Don't give up your dreams.
@@tianalucas8147 People come here with the aim of chasing money more than knowledge and that will damage your progress, trust me. Chase knowledge first and I promise! The money will follow you just like it's following some of us now.
@@henrycarl8097 That's very correct
And that is why most of them end up losing they money don't be in a haste to invest. Know what and who you are investing to and be sure that the person will deliver before I n v e s t I n g.
Learn and get the knowledge first before investing..
People wants to do what the 99% does but wants to get results that are fit for the 1%, but it doesn't work that way
@@sabrinaslime4493 Investment is the quickest path to financial freedom, the rich stays rich by spending like the poor yet investing! While the poor stays poor by spending like the rich yet not investing.
In school they keep saying silent people like me don't succeed but little do they know 😌
most quiet students are mentally engaging inwardly....listeningvand thinking...evident is in the product they produce during presentation.
Yep
@@wt3435 me
School sucks, especially if you are intelligent
Speaking is good as long as your words are better then your silence
“LAW #4. Always Say Less Than Necessary. When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. "
Stop trying to impress others and try to impress yourself.
Typically you have higher standards for yourself than the rest of the world
48 Laws of Power… I love that book
It's why the Lord gave us Two ears yet only One mouth.
Think twice, say once
Haha.
thats the most stupid thing Ive ever heard
To listen/recieve twice as much as we put out.
Great Analogy.
“We have two ears and one mouth and we should use them proportionally.”
Their mouth you can be sure a lot of people use it deeply.
Their mouth you can be sure a lot of people use it deeply.
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My old boss used to say this....you have 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason
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Thank you. I hope you get yours too.
@@ThePositivityPrincess 💖🙏💖!
@@spottable Bless you!💖🙏
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“It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt of it.”
― Maurice Switzer
Actually king Solomon said that first.
That's from the Bible. In Proverbs I believe.
Thats why I talk only when needed 😁
Proverbs 17:27-28
Always remember that "Silence is Golden" and you can say a lot without saying a word.
Always let the other people do a great deal of talking, said Dale Carnegie in his book, "HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE"
Yes he did, good point! 👍
I agree , this is how we share knowledge and benefit from each other experiences , e.g. Ted ex people love to listen to charismatic people sharing their stories and and to influence others! You don't wanna be sitting there like a wall 😁 sorry
problem with that advice is you will become their therapist, not friend. relationships require mutuality to become succesful, must give something for them for them to feel you are closer and they know you.
Because of that book I read at 18 I've Kept Most of it in my Head & Answered alot of my own question s on Life 🌺
@@nancycrockett4276 < Because of that book I read at 18 I've Kept Most of it in my Head & Answered alot of my own questions on Life > - But, did it do you any good. I read it at 18 too and still remember parts of it.
A great speech is worth in millions but silence at times is worth in billions
A great speech is worth more than all the silence in the world.
Words of those that came before me allowed me and you to advance as much as we did...
There is so much power that exists in silence and stillness as well. Think and listen more than you speak. 🙏🏼
"I stood still as a tree within a wood, and knew the truth of things that were rank folly to my mind before." ~~ early 20th century Irish poet William Butler Yeats
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Completely agree. What you don’t say... matters as much as what you do say.
Absolutely
You're only able to listen because someone else isnt being silent you do realize that
God please expose my enemies, those that wake up in the morning and the first thing they do is think of me and they do this until night time. They think negative of me and they try there best to stop anything that makes me happy. God please stop these evil people! From trying to control my life!!! Let them know your the most powerful one! Not them
God has replied to you: Love your enemies, pray for them, bless not curse...then everything bad they think about you will never happen but to themselves. Otherwise you're wasting your time thinking about your enemies: satan & his angels
You are a Pilgrim passing thru a strange land. We are merely passing thru this evil, wicked and cruel land. Stay strong, stay focused, Heaven is nearer than we believe. !!!!!!!!! Godspeed !!!!!!!!!
God will use your enemies to bless you. For they shall try to come at you in one way but they will be sent away in seven different directions.
To be so egotistic to think you're at the center of the universe.
Ever consider those "people" you're referring to feel the same way about you? Consider your actions on a day to day
@@mondaymotivation2652 I will thank you
"Silence is sometimes the best answer." - Dalai Lama
Not everything is worthy of a response. We must choose our battles.
I have seen these days that silence is violence 😂😂😂
Wisdom.
Yeah so is communication.
Literally could be said almost about anything.. super wise
Michael Lee - Expert Persuader who’s Dalila Lala 🤔
I have never regretted my silence, as for my speech, I have regretted over and over.
Umar Ibn Khattab
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"A wise man once said nothing" -Wise Man
If I can sit in comfortable silence with someone it's usually a good trusting friendship
My house is full of quiet people. Some are successful some not so much. I will say that we are a happier than most.
Silence gives way to get in touch with yourself, that's why.
I live close to a thriving woodland nature reserve and find it refreshing taking time alone for a walk to sync with nature, seeing different types of plant and animal life. Taking a deep breath of fresh woodland air is vey refreshing and a great source of therapy. Going to near by parks is very calming and relaxing.
One of the main reason I love my own company.
Very interesting as usual. Thanks a lot. I use to avoid silence but because I did a lot of mistake, I learned to take time before answering. I am still learning to be comfortable with silence. I am better than yesterday but I am not yet where I want to be with silence. I am on my way to change
Amen, it surely is a journey.
To much silent is a killer to much talking is a killer be moderate
Good for you!! 🥂
Whoever is suffering of emotional stress and over thinking, may god bless you and keep you strong.
In other words we should learn when to remain silent and when to communicate because silence and communication have the same value
Many people believe that if someone pauses for a few seconds after a question that they are trying to think of lie.
As long as your hands are clean then who cares what people think.
Politicians do it all of the time! to no avail... as they end up still saying nothing of substance that would answer the question! just thinking of what best lie to use or waiting for the man behind the curtain to tell them what to say! (in the ear)!
@@theresefournier3269 well they are technically taking a moment to think 🤔
Weak people are loud . Strong people are quite .
The loudest man in the room is ALWAYS the weakest one.
Silent helps reveal your inner most thoughts ,this where you’re best plans ,goals ,and creativity lay dormant, till you activate them with silence.
"Understanding the question is half the answer." - Socrates
"Do you know what time it is only has two answer.” Yes or No.
People listen to reply not to understand.
It actually has 3 answers... One could reply YES then realizes he was wrong... So maybe MAYBE could be an option.
The Gaian 777 just stop ✋🏾
Asking the right question is harder than it sounds
Go through life answering everybody like that and see how far that gets ya! Show you care and at least "give them the time of day"!
@@Ladiesandgentlemen141 I answer with the time because I know what they meant to ask but I usually say - it is X:YZ . Lets face it we have to deal with incorrect questions all the time.
WORK IN SILENCE,LETS U'R SUCCESS MAKE NOISE❤
I like the fact that you are so silent like I'm
I practice silence a lot but notice that doesn't make my mind less chaotic when it's time to actually speak
Mhm...I tend to over think....eh
@R V does that really help with ataying in the present?
also, to learn to express ideas, must practise also. always silent, mumbling comes out of mouth, even tho may have thought them through many times in head. But practise and experience makes perfect, no secret there.
Good tutorial. When I find myself talking too much, I stop. It's generally because I'm hyper or excited. I then try to calm myself down and stay silent and let others talk.
Silence is a sacred tool to pull out the bag whilst constant talkers usually have troubled egos. Excellent video👏👏👏
This advice is so good that I had to watch the last 3 minutes on mute
😂 Best comment ever!!!
😂😂😂share what you use
Great, INSTANT APPLICATION
Hahaha... Made my night..
0:38 a moment of silence is a moment of thought. Love it 👍🤐
"Be silent, or make the words worth more than silence" - Pithagoras
I hate that me being silent gives people the idea that i have low self-esteem or that im shy
Lol, me being silent give people the idea that I'm hiding or up to something. Just goes to show you how people will make up things when they don't know you.🖤
What we authentically and intuitively know is what matters! In time, we realize, just how what others may or may not think about us, is truly irrelevant, none of our business even, and nothing to do with who we are or where we are going!
Silence is gold!
I get lumped into the same category but in fact im either not interested in talking to ppl i dont like or give out too much vital information since they can turn around and use that against you and always being in my head analyzing everything right down to every minute detail generally when you see the bigger picture helps make better judgments but thats just me
So if everybody else opinions count, why do you discard yours?
SELF EMPOWERMENT IS THE ONLY KEY THAT OPENS ALL DOORS.
@Umbuko DaJuko I can relate little do they know
Silence is golden indeed.
Empty tin makes a lot of noise but silence is golden....
No its not.
yes! guys, it's true. Keep practise it, even when you are in a conversation listen more & talk less. Keep meditation as a Daily Routine.
Influence of meditation is much more than anything. Concentrate on the present moment. Do one thing at a time.
You must keep you away from Distractions if you want to do those which has mentioned above.
Spot on. I always seem to offer my help knowing I'm strapped for time. Been working on this for a while. Older I get more i recognize it's very stressful and unproductive. In the long run anyhow.
For everything, there is a season.
From tomorrow onward will have to keep silent and learned to speak a certain amount of thing. I am no longer the mister know it all guy now. For 28 years I was wrong, now I started to change.
100%
Silent people are succesful becoz👇👇👇👇
They didnot waste there energy in talks👍
...and had 'good keyboard skills writing a message to fellow CZcams people'.
Damn right son! I was always that quiet kid in school. Just the past year I really began to understand exactly why. I always felt a bit ashamed it. Now I see that my instincts and intelligence were not incorrect, it's just that back that I felt no choice but to be silent. Now when I'm silent, it is with strong intent; and when I speak, my words have power and weight, because I always choose my words precisely, to convey what I mean to convey, in the most honest way that I can. I can easily see when somebody is beating around the bush and not speaking me to directly, which is also a useful ability to have.
Better to be silent and let people think your a fool. Than to speak and remove all doubt
I like this. Your words represent you... but at the same time... we should not hold back out of fear of judgment.
@@ThePositivityPrincess You are right, I stand corrected.
William billy really? Or sarcasm... I suck at detecting sarcasm. Lol
Abraham Lincoln said this quote.
I literally live in my mind
The world doesnt exist for me
WTF
The world is mind.
Let's all thoughts pass my friend. Don't dwell
Become a writer
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Silence is not empty.it has a great meaning which cannot be expressed by words......
Makes you a dangerous person. God father 2, the moves Michael corleone makes after his father's death.
“You have the right to remain silent.” Remember that.
That's why I stay Quiet. TALK, when it is necessary.
YEP!! ME TOO!!!!
SILENCE IS A TRUE FRIEND WHICH WILL NEVER BETRAY - Sun Zhou. The man was telling the truth. I try to say this in my mind EVERY TIME I WANNA OPEN MY STUPID MOUTH.
This really helps because people say I'm too quiet.
This guy talks so much about the importance of silence but he doesn’t stop talking!
This Man is talking but wisely
Ummm how else will he get the message out??🤦🏾♂️
I used to find it difficult not to talk with people in the public, now I realized that I just wanted to let people know how nice I am and make them like me.
🙂I often regret that I have spoken, never that I've been silent🙂
Hopefully most understand. This important subject. Thanks for sharing.
"Silence is the element in which great things fashion themselves.." Dr. Normal Vincent Pearl
Silence speaks louder than words. Let us speak.
Thank you so much. I just listened to this twice. Really needed to hear it.
Silence is golden
That the best saying in the world
Boisterous people that talk fast and brag are full of low-selfesteem, selfishness and want approval of others. However, silent people observe, plan and strategize then speak with dignity and directly to get a point across and smile
Hey Gerri
How are you keeping,
Where are you from ??
Great knowledge your channel is providing!
I love this video for so many the area’s of self help it touches.
I've always heard that Silence is Golden, I've learned through the yrs that Silence is more precious than Gold‼️💯
Successful people are direct and concise.
Well said ⭐⭐⭐
The Power of Silence is the power catching your gut feelings
Hey Jennifer
How are you keeping,
Where are you from??
Watching this in silence for ten minutes. The graphics are superb.
Silence is Golden
I feel like I needed this. it reminds me how easy it is for me to be like this.
This teaches us to THINK more and TALK less.
Vel Karimi. Ur absolutely right.im agree with you .
I love love love this channel!
Thank you so much I needed this! 27 and broke is no joke! God bless you 🙏