The Power of Silence: Why Silent People Are Successful

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  • čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
  • The amazing power of silence is something you might hear about in a ted talk, but not truly grasp. But if silence can make you successful and happy in your life, who aren’t more people hearing about the power of silence? Ironic? We thought so too. So here is a video.
    Sources:
    Mind Wandering, Mindful Awareness, and Mental Tranquility
    www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/arti...
    Brain Scans Show How Meditation Improves Mental focus
    www.psychologytoday.com/us/bl...
    Dynamical Properties Associated with Meditation and Attentional Skills
    www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/2...
    Why Silences Is So Good for Your Brain
    www.huffpost.com/entry/silenc...
    Thanks to Tristan Reed (writing), Troy W. Hudson (VO), for helping to create this video!
    For Troy: / troywhudson
    Music from Bensound.com

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  • @luigiperrone8169
    @luigiperrone8169 Před 2 lety +83

    My grandmother said, "If you want to drive somebody crazy, do it with silence."

  • @Fit.Fusion
    @Fit.Fusion Před 4 lety +1704

    Move in silence, only speak when it’s time to say checkmate 👊🏻

  • @realistic.optimist
    @realistic.optimist Před 4 lety +548

    Always give the minimum amount of information, let them ask for more and you decide what you want to give.

    • @realistic.optimist
      @realistic.optimist Před 4 lety +20

      ADDENDUM: Learn how to answer the question as stated. There are only two answers to "Do you know the time?" Yes or No. Most people will reply with the time. THAT WAS NOT THE QUESTION!

    • @sophiasmith5949
      @sophiasmith5949 Před 3 lety +4

      @@realistic.optimist this would be a great skill for me to learn.

    • @temtem1765
      @temtem1765 Před 3 lety

      @@sophiasmith5949 fczjsc s xi me
      Momolm🙏o9 ok mo.o.o

    • @cindy9155
      @cindy9155 Před 3 lety

      @@sophiasmith5949 Me too!

    • @bryandaniel2614
      @bryandaniel2614 Před 3 lety +5

      @@realistic.optimist If I ask someone that and get a yes for a response, I’m going to be annoyed. I’m also going to assume you’re slow since that’s a common way to ask for the time. I agree with your point, but that’s a poor example.

  • @Valhalla_Heathen
    @Valhalla_Heathen Před 2 lety +204

    “Insecurity is loud, confidence is silent” - Unknown author

    • @rushaunevassell6401
      @rushaunevassell6401 Před 2 lety +5

      confidence is being yourslef whether loud or quiet, in my estimation

    • @stevenopakio2838
      @stevenopakio2838 Před 2 lety +2

      I really believe

    • @stevenopakio2838
      @stevenopakio2838 Před 2 lety +1

      So great

    • @strongtv_creator
      @strongtv_creator Před 2 lety +1

      I love this I came across a Buisness and am growing rapidly I am making so much money and I am always building meaning I am always looking for young people or like minded people who are interested in making some money from home 🏡! You get a 1099 own your own business and all !!!!

    • @strongtv_creator
      @strongtv_creator Před 2 lety

      @@stevenopakio2838 I love this I came across a Buisness and am growing rapidly I am making so much money and I am always building meaning I am always looking for young people or like minded people who are interested in making some money from home 🏡! You get a 1099 own your own business and all !!

  • @PlatinumBuckGorilla
    @PlatinumBuckGorilla Před 4 lety +838

    I no longer want to waste my energy arguing or disturbing anyone else’s peace. I prefer peace. My own peace

    • @Ray2311us
      @Ray2311us Před 4 lety +27

      And there is no greater peace then flying away from every backstabbing friend and enemy you know. Let them realize that then they don’t have any punching bag to direct their aggression on. Maybe then they will see that they have too much time and energy on their hands and are true cunts of pure habit.

    • @sherine3442
      @sherine3442 Před 4 lety +7

      @@Ray2311us exactly

    • @kaifalam7777
      @kaifalam7777 Před 4 lety +8

      Would anyone like to be my friend I want to change my environment
      I want to be with nice people like you

    • @bonitabarbie
      @bonitabarbie Před 4 lety +5

      Same.

    • @bornselfmade9868
      @bornselfmade9868 Před 3 lety +3

      🙏🏾

  • @Faith.Facts.Success
    @Faith.Facts.Success Před 2 lety +64

    WHEN TO BE SILENT
    1. Be silent - in the heat
    of anger.
    2. Be silent - when you
    don't have all the
    facts.
    3. Be silent - when you
    haven't verified the
    story.
    4. Be silent - if your
    words will offend a
    weaker person.
    5. Be silent - when it is
    time to listen.
    6. Be silent - when you
    are tempted to make
    light of holy things.
    7. Be silent - when you
    are tempted to joke
    about sin.
    8. Be silent - if you would
    be ashamed of your
    words later.
    9. Be silent - if your
    words would convey
    the wrong
    impression.
    10. Be silent - if the issue
    is none of your
    business.
    11. Be silent - when you
    are tempted to tell an
    outright lie.
    12. Be silent - if your
    words will damage
    someone else's
    reputation.
    13. Be silent - if your
    words will damage a
    friendship.
    14. Be silent - when you
    are feeling critical.
    15. Be silent - if you can't
    say it without
    screaming.
    16. Be silent - if your
    words will be a poor
    reflection of your
    friends and family.
    17. Be silent - if you may
    have to eat your
    words later.
    18. Be silent - if you have
    already said it more
    than one time.
    19. Be silent - when you
    are tempted to flatter
    a wicked person.
    20. Be silent - when you
    are supposed to be
    working instead.
    *"WHOEVER GUARDS HIS MOUTH AND TONGUE KEEPS HIM SELF OFF TROUBLE
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    • @arjunaiz80
      @arjunaiz80 Před 2 lety +1

      Be silent, when people ignoring you.

  • @shahzainzaidi7142
    @shahzainzaidi7142 Před 4 lety +588

    "Speak Only, when your Words are beautiful than Your Silence", *Ali ibn Abu Talib a.s* 😍

  • @corazonopalla7775
    @corazonopalla7775 Před 4 lety +202

    When you build in Silence,they didn't don't know what to attack. Confuse them with your silence.Shock them with your results. Remember,Those who talk, don't know.Those who know, don't talk.

  • @dimpledimple5545
    @dimpledimple5545 Před 4 lety +2236

    My dad said -
    1. Keep your plans to yourself. Whatever your plans in life are, keep them to yourself and work on them silently.
    2. "Im not raising you to be successful. I want you to be self-sufficient. So when I leave, I don't have to worry."
    I also learned to stay low-key and keep my private life private.
    Not everyone deserves to know what's happening in your life. So when I have to talk, people listen because they're curious about me. Let them assume about you and surprise them with the truth..

  • @angelaprior6645
    @angelaprior6645 Před 4 lety +1456

    Silent and listen are spelled using the same letters.

  • @andrentay6484
    @andrentay6484 Před 3 lety +109

    Keep your thoughts to yourself and you will never regret it
    Silence is wisdom in action

    • @HMMELD
      @HMMELD Před 2 lety +1

      < Silence is wisdom in action > Or, it could mean you got nothing to add to the situation.

    • @idontknowwhatimdoinghere
      @idontknowwhatimdoinghere Před 2 lety

      When I keep my thoughts to myself, my head gets too cloudy and that becomes ALL I can think of.

    • @oceejay5148
      @oceejay5148 Před rokem

      👌🏾 ✅

  • @heartofsteel1972
    @heartofsteel1972 Před 4 lety +156

    Silence is strong...even when you are quiet your silence speaks volumes.

  • @davidsdinero
    @davidsdinero Před 4 lety +876

    Work in silence and let your success do the talking for you💯💯

    • @sw.7519
      @sw.7519 Před 4 lety +7

      No talk on your sucess.

    • @qwentinkappelmann3464
      @qwentinkappelmann3464 Před 4 lety +2

      Nah you let the work you put in do the talking. You don't want people mistaking your hard work for talent.

    • @davidsdinero
      @davidsdinero Před 4 lety +6

      @@qwentinkappelmann3464 We all have a different opinion, but imo it's better for the haters to not think much of you. Then boooooom out of nowhere they see you on top
      *jaws drop

    • @Sa_live.exclsves
      @Sa_live.exclsves Před 4 lety +4

      I read this comment and felt it deep 👏👏👏🔥

    • @RohitSingh-vu8jf
      @RohitSingh-vu8jf Před 4 lety +1

      Let sucess make noise

  • @rickeywambua6950
    @rickeywambua6950 Před 4 lety +104

    Being confident, having high self esteem, respecting yourself that no one can bring yo down and then being silent just makes a good life.

    • @muziki79
      @muziki79 Před 2 lety

      🇰🇪👍

    • @tutubevan932
      @tutubevan932 Před 2 lety +1

      If you put your self higher you only go down. Put your self lower place you only go up .being to confident makes Arrogant. To much Silent it doesn't give you good life either be moderate to much of everything is a killer. Calm down

  • @stephenlbernardjr5757
    @stephenlbernardjr5757 Před 4 lety +420

    Quiet people are always thinking,I know because I am one, Thinking most of the time is better than talking most of the time,to solve a problem you need to think first

    • @effexon
      @effexon Před 4 lety +4

      only exception is Elon Musk. Why? he needs to tell people his plans to get help and investors and such. Other than that, he wont talk so much (eg private life and such, unless reporter specifically asks). He is great example of this video.

    • @complextv7168
      @complextv7168 Před 4 lety +5

      But do not think forever

    • @bornselfmade9868
      @bornselfmade9868 Před 3 lety +11

      Yea but don’t overthink. it can cause you not to even take action

    • @leonwincki8350
      @leonwincki8350 Před 3 lety +4

      To solve problem you need couple things; 1define problem 2 .get information about the problem 3.exchange ideas 4 ask questions related to the problem 5 know how to talk 6 and then get silent.. meditation,thinking, rethinking... depends how big the problem... summarize... talking,asking,thinking,...a lot,not that easy....

    • @itsallyokisplace
      @itsallyokisplace Před 3 lety +1

      I agree as a ....... quite person

  • @9jmorrison
    @9jmorrison Před 4 lety +272

    'You have the right to remain silent' You must remember this.

    • @fluffy_otp
      @fluffy_otp Před 4 lety +1

      You look like Grant Cardone

    • @nashzambia3987
      @nashzambia3987 Před 4 lety +1

      Thank you

    • @dannystephenson4197
      @dannystephenson4197 Před 4 lety +2

      Always the best thing to do !!!!!!! Godspeed. !!!!!!!!!

    • @xianthegaian4060
      @xianthegaian4060 Před 4 lety +1

      @@dannystephenson4197 Not Always lol

    • @blackfordoblique1965
      @blackfordoblique1965 Před 3 lety

      oh. i remembered it for years and years. never forgot. But the first time i heard it (as it had been aggressively screamed) i took the meaning as "Shut up".
      I thought it was simply legal language for do not speak.
      Rights were lost on me.
      No one actually ever explained Right or Rights.
      Probly a name for effective communication.
      edit: nice beard by the way

  • @mukahirwajanet6617
    @mukahirwajanet6617 Před 3 lety +47

    Being silent helps me to observe things more clearly🧘‍♀️🧘‍♀️🧘‍♀️

  • @FABIOh1976
    @FABIOh1976 Před 4 lety +651

    Do no trust people who uses lots of words to say very little.

  • @loveayomanor775
    @loveayomanor775 Před 4 lety +1747

    Silence has never betrayed man. Trust it.

  • @modernadulting6857
    @modernadulting6857 Před 4 lety +371

    Not only do introverts make great listeners, they're mindful of their environment and the things happening around them. Because they're observant, they're able to notice both the mistakes and successes of others and pick up on what to do and what to avoid in order to be successful.

  • @krissyramsey3934
    @krissyramsey3934 Před 3 lety +183

    "Silence is the language that God speaks. Everything else is a bad translation." - Eckhart Tolle (Author of the Power of Now)

    • @johnsonlabarbear4741
      @johnsonlabarbear4741 Před 3 lety

      Hey Ramsey
      How are you keeping,
      Where are you from??

    • @khushtanwar6885
      @khushtanwar6885 Před 2 lety

      Its actually Rumi's words.

    • @HMMELD
      @HMMELD Před 2 lety

      It took quite awhile and some discipline for me to learn how to be silent.

  • @whoswhoo
    @whoswhoo Před 2 lety +39

    Some are silent because they're afraid to speak afraid of being judged . There's a time for speaking a time for silence real wisdom is knowing which one applies in a given situation.

    • @travon526
      @travon526 Před 2 lety

      I don't think so. I think they say "what's the point. They won't listen to me anyway." These people are more aware of human nature than anyone else. No o ne wants unsolicited advice. They know better.

    • @HMMELD
      @HMMELD Před 2 lety +2

      @@travon526 < No one wants unsolicited advice > I absolutely hate that. Advice is about power, not helping somebody out. I only had one person ever who could give me advice and I didn't take offense to it. What made her advice so much different is she asked questions first to be sure it would in fact be of some use to me.

  • @jaguarwarrior8132
    @jaguarwarrior8132 Před 4 lety +34

    Silence speaks louder than words and the greatest thing about silence is that silence has always strong!

  • @hoosierdaddy5191
    @hoosierdaddy5191 Před 3 lety +33

    "A wise man knows when to hold his tongue. Only a fool blurts out everything he knows."

  • @ronnieg1341
    @ronnieg1341 Před 3 lety +47

    Story of my life I’m the quietest person I KNOW.. it definitely got me out of life and death situations and elevated me to run a million dollar business 👨‍💼

    • @patriciamharris5664
      @patriciamharris5664 Před 2 lety

      🥂

    • @tammycompton4355
      @tammycompton4355 Před 2 lety +3

      That's living proof × 2 of how much silence can mean,& it's obvious what it's done for you.congratulations in your accomplishments

  • @kirktheruler5572
    @kirktheruler5572 Před 4 lety +243

    This my friends, is what you call "walking by spirit and not by the flesh". I hope God blesses you all

    • @ultimatewarriors1291
      @ultimatewarriors1291 Před 4 lety +13

      God bless you too.Even the Bible says a successful man talks less.

    • @stan3998
      @stan3998 Před 4 lety +6

      God bless you too

    • @peterfallon4018
      @peterfallon4018 Před 4 lety +6

      God Bless you too!! 🙏

    • @nma4029
      @nma4029 Před 4 lety +16

      Yes ,God bless you. Even in Mathew 6:2 is written "when you give to the needy, do not sound a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be praised by men."
      6:4 "so that your giving may be in secret. And your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you." Christianity is indeed the greatest religion but also the hardest one... One should control himself and not give himself up to temptations, to meaningless praise because here, the giving would be only for the means of boasting and showing off. No, we should do it in silent with pure love and humility, for our God only to see.

    • @mustafasaid7942
      @mustafasaid7942 Před 4 lety

      N M A there are religion/religions harder than christianity my guy

  • @HenWithATie
    @HenWithATie Před 4 lety +496

    Introverts: Im about to start my own career

    • @erin6439
      @erin6439 Před 4 lety +12

      Hahaha hah...heh..... *whispers: oh no they are on to me...* ._.

    • @coreflakes
      @coreflakes Před 4 lety

      hell yeah

    • @weanon3421
      @weanon3421 Před 4 lety +1

      Politics are dying

    • @jhnwrbg
      @jhnwrbg Před 4 lety +9

      I'll change the world , remember me

    • @ismailhamza4721
      @ismailhamza4721 Před 4 lety

      Jhnwrbg lmao

  • @The_Kevinist
    @The_Kevinist Před 4 lety +424

    Speech is silver whereas silence is golden

  • @maryjanehenke3627
    @maryjanehenke3627 Před 4 lety +276

    People who talks a lot ,have nothing to say. Silent waters are deep.

  • @chrisVvV1821
    @chrisVvV1821 Před 4 lety +163

    When you are silent,all the others are more willing to pay respect.

    • @mondaymotivation2652
      @mondaymotivation2652 Před 3 lety +1

      How? I literally don't know anything about you. What do I have to respect?

    • @arifullahabba8682
      @arifullahabba8682 Před 3 lety +5

      Why Bread you’ve no idea 🤦‍♂️

    • @wolfcola6329
      @wolfcola6329 Před 3 lety +2

      My friend was letting me stay with him. I had a car. He would ask me from time to time for favors and I would say I'll sleep on it and come back tommorow. He said he eventually appreciated that kind of thinking ..

    • @drk9148
      @drk9148 Před 2 lety +1

      @@mondaymotivation2652 Your thoughtless comment alone lost respect. People like you will eventually get hit with bad karma and learn some life lesson

  • @raphaeldouglas9361
    @raphaeldouglas9361 Před 2 lety +72

    Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time.

    • @tianalucas8147
      @tianalucas8147 Před 2 lety +3

      Yeah! I agree with you sir.If you want to be successful have the mindset of the rich, spend less and invest More. Don't give up your dreams.

    • @henrycarl8097
      @henrycarl8097 Před 2 lety +1

      @@tianalucas8147 People come here with the aim of chasing money more than knowledge and that will damage your progress, trust me. Chase knowledge first and I promise! The money will follow you just like it's following some of us now.

    • @sabrinaslime4493
      @sabrinaslime4493 Před 2 lety +2

      @@henrycarl8097 That's very correct
      And that is why most of them end up losing they money don't be in a haste to invest. Know what and who you are investing to and be sure that the person will deliver before I n v e s t I n g.
      Learn and get the knowledge first before investing..

    • @sabrinaslime4493
      @sabrinaslime4493 Před 2 lety

      People wants to do what the 99% does but wants to get results that are fit for the 1%, but it doesn't work that way

    • @isanibenson8402
      @isanibenson8402 Před 2 lety

      @@sabrinaslime4493 Investment is the quickest path to financial freedom, the rich stays rich by spending like the poor yet investing! While the poor stays poor by spending like the rich yet not investing.

  • @nahjacutler
    @nahjacutler Před 3 lety +44

    I find it utterly stressful to be around and near people who cannot stop talking.

    • @skyhigh8942
      @skyhigh8942 Před 2 lety

      czcams.com/video/oXTGpLhPNZM/video.html

    • @HMMELD
      @HMMELD Před 2 lety +1

      < I find it utterly stressful to be around and near people who cannot stop talking.> Me and my long-time mate had a name for them "Yappers." We knew several who could talk non-stop for 2 solid hours. Neither of us could stand that.

    • @yeukaimachokoto6103
      @yeukaimachokoto6103 Před 2 lety +1

      i just cant stand them,not sure why they dont seem to notice my disinterest in their chit chat that seems to have no end!

    • @lynnquin8565
      @lynnquin8565 Před 2 lety +1

      @@yeukaimachokoto6103 From what I've observed, they appear to oblivious to anything but the sound of their own voice. They don't pick up visual or auditory cues that a person is trying to find a way to make an escape!

    • @yeukaimachokoto6103
      @yeukaimachokoto6103 Před 2 lety

      Pity!......how then can i possibly communicate my disinterest without being rude?i need to communicate this......please help!😜

  • @jalan8171
    @jalan8171 Před 4 lety +477

    It's why the Lord gave us Two ears yet only One mouth.

  • @paoloangelino24
    @paoloangelino24 Před 4 lety +51

    “LAW #4. Always Say Less Than Necessary. When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. "

    • @mondaymotivation2652
      @mondaymotivation2652 Před 3 lety +1

      Stop trying to impress others and try to impress yourself.
      Typically you have higher standards for yourself than the rest of the world

    • @mikeviscusi5681
      @mikeviscusi5681 Před 2 lety

      48 Laws of Power… I love that book

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY Před 4 lety +390

    “It is better to remain silent at the risk of being thought a fool, than to talk and remove all doubt of it.”
    ― Maurice Switzer

  • @Awwwtheskrunkly
    @Awwwtheskrunkly Před 4 lety +165

    In school they keep saying silent people like me don't succeed but little do they know 😌

    • @wt3435
      @wt3435 Před 4 lety +16

      most quiet students are mentally engaging inwardly....listeningvand thinking...evident is in the product they produce during presentation.

    • @weanon3421
      @weanon3421 Před 4 lety +1

      Yep

    • @jhnwrbg
      @jhnwrbg Před 4 lety

      @@wt3435 me

    • @justinaacorn5721
      @justinaacorn5721 Před 3 lety +5

      School sucks, especially if you are intelligent

    • @servantoftheexpander9688
      @servantoftheexpander9688 Před 3 lety +1

      Speaking is good as long as your words are better then your silence

  • @QuestionEverythingButWHY
    @QuestionEverythingButWHY Před 4 lety +349

    “We have two ears and one mouth and we should use them proportionally.”

  • @MandyJRoss
    @MandyJRoss Před 4 lety +61

    There is so much power that exists in silence and stillness as well. Think and listen more than you speak. 🙏🏼

    • @JudgeJulieLit
      @JudgeJulieLit Před 4 lety +2

      "I stood still as a tree within a wood, and knew the truth of things that were rank folly to my mind before." ~~ early 20th century Irish poet William Butler Yeats

    • @matthewgonzalez3086
      @matthewgonzalez3086 Před 4 lety +1

      😘

    • @ThePositivityPrincess
      @ThePositivityPrincess Před 4 lety +1

      Completely agree. What you don’t say... matters as much as what you do say.

    • @allan2149
      @allan2149 Před 4 lety +1

      Absolutely

    • @mondaymotivation2652
      @mondaymotivation2652 Před 3 lety

      You're only able to listen because someone else isnt being silent you do realize that

  • @natashachiware4882
    @natashachiware4882 Před 4 lety +121

    God please expose my enemies, those that wake up in the morning and the first thing they do is think of me and they do this until night time. They think negative of me and they try there best to stop anything that makes me happy. God please stop these evil people! From trying to control my life!!! Let them know your the most powerful one! Not them

    • @eternalgospelcef6941
      @eternalgospelcef6941 Před 4 lety +13

      God has replied to you: Love your enemies, pray for them, bless not curse...then everything bad they think about you will never happen but to themselves. Otherwise you're wasting your time thinking about your enemies: satan & his angels

    • @dannystephenson4197
      @dannystephenson4197 Před 4 lety +9

      You are a Pilgrim passing thru a strange land. We are merely passing thru this evil, wicked and cruel land. Stay strong, stay focused, Heaven is nearer than we believe. !!!!!!!!! Godspeed !!!!!!!!!

    • @xianthegaian4060
      @xianthegaian4060 Před 4 lety +13

      God will use your enemies to bless you. For they shall try to come at you in one way but they will be sent away in seven different directions.

    • @mondaymotivation2652
      @mondaymotivation2652 Před 3 lety +2

      To be so egotistic to think you're at the center of the universe.
      Ever consider those "people" you're referring to feel the same way about you? Consider your actions on a day to day

    • @natashachiware4882
      @natashachiware4882 Před 3 lety

      @@mondaymotivation2652 I will thank you

  • @expertpersuader
    @expertpersuader Před 4 lety +250

    "Silence is sometimes the best answer." - Dalai Lama

    • @ThePositivityPrincess
      @ThePositivityPrincess Před 4 lety +12

      Not everything is worthy of a response. We must choose our battles.

    • @TylerSolvestri
      @TylerSolvestri Před 4 lety +1

      I have seen these days that silence is violence 😂😂😂

    • @cmsaphire_0882
      @cmsaphire_0882 Před 3 lety

      Wisdom.

    • @mondaymotivation2652
      @mondaymotivation2652 Před 3 lety

      Yeah so is communication.
      Literally could be said almost about anything.. super wise

    • @7lamps755
      @7lamps755 Před 3 lety

      Michael Lee - Expert Persuader who’s Dalila Lala 🤔

  • @ivan.r1459
    @ivan.r1459 Před 4 lety +258

    Always let the other people do a great deal of talking, said Dale Carnegie in his book, "HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE"

    • @tonymarquez9975
      @tonymarquez9975 Před 4 lety +3

      Yes he did, good point! 👍

    • @333sh55
      @333sh55 Před 4 lety

      I agree , this is how we share knowledge and benefit from each other experiences , e.g. Ted ex people love to listen to charismatic people sharing their stories and and to influence others! You don't wanna be sitting there like a wall 😁 sorry

    • @effexon
      @effexon Před 4 lety +6

      problem with that advice is you will become their therapist, not friend. relationships require mutuality to become succesful, must give something for them for them to feel you are closer and they know you.

    • @nancycrockett4276
      @nancycrockett4276 Před 2 lety +2

      Because of that book I read at 18 I've Kept Most of it in my Head & Answered alot of my own question s on Life 🌺

    • @HMMELD
      @HMMELD Před 2 lety

      @@nancycrockett4276 < Because of that book I read at 18 I've Kept Most of it in my Head & Answered alot of my own questions on Life > - But, did it do you any good. I read it at 18 too and still remember parts of it.

  • @HowellConsultations
    @HowellConsultations Před 4 lety +289

    If you are reading this, may you attract everything you’ve been patiently waiting for & be passionate to pursue it whole-heartedly. It will naturally flow into your life when you are ready to receive it. Hope our channel helps you on your journey 🙏

  • @rose-marlinesidney4896
    @rose-marlinesidney4896 Před 4 lety +56

    Very interesting as usual. Thanks a lot. I use to avoid silence but because I did a lot of mistake, I learned to take time before answering. I am still learning to be comfortable with silence. I am better than yesterday but I am not yet where I want to be with silence. I am on my way to change

  • @tailor-maid1976
    @tailor-maid1976 Před 3 lety +20

    Always remember that "Silence is Golden" and you can say a lot without saying a word.

  • @zvifumisokuchera4870
    @zvifumisokuchera4870 Před 3 lety +8

    I live close to a thriving woodland nature reserve and find it refreshing taking time alone for a walk to sync with nature, seeing different types of plant and animal life. Taking a deep breath of fresh woodland air is vey refreshing and a great source of therapy. Going to near by parks is very calming and relaxing.

  • @CFMGlobalLtd
    @CFMGlobalLtd Před 3 lety +11

    I have never regretted my silence, as for my speech, I have regretted over and over.
    Umar Ibn Khattab

    • @skyhigh8942
      @skyhigh8942 Před 2 lety

      czcams.com/video/oXTGpLhPNZM/video.html

  • @dlcventuresindia
    @dlcventuresindia Před 4 lety +33

    A great speech is worth in millions but silence at times is worth in billions

    • @mondaymotivation2652
      @mondaymotivation2652 Před 3 lety

      A great speech is worth more than all the silence in the world.
      Words of those that came before me allowed me and you to advance as much as we did...

  • @1astralfx
    @1astralfx Před 3 lety +18

    "A wise man once said nothing" -Wise Man

  • @brieze1233
    @brieze1233 Před 4 lety +4

    Silence is a sacred tool to pull out the bag whilst constant talkers usually have troubled egos. Excellent video👏👏👏

  • @Jxvr25
    @Jxvr25 Před 4 lety +92

    This advice is so good that I had to watch the last 3 minutes on mute

  • @jamesstafford583
    @jamesstafford583 Před 4 lety +5

    Spot on. I always seem to offer my help knowing I'm strapped for time. Been working on this for a while. Older I get more i recognize it's very stressful and unproductive. In the long run anyhow.

  • @realistic.optimist
    @realistic.optimist Před 4 lety +85

    "Understanding the question is half the answer." - Socrates
    "Do you know what time it is only has two answer.” Yes or No.
    People listen to reply not to understand.

    • @xianthegaian4060
      @xianthegaian4060 Před 4 lety

      It actually has 3 answers... One could reply YES then realizes he was wrong... So maybe MAYBE could be an option.

    • @bornselfmade9868
      @bornselfmade9868 Před 3 lety

      The Gaian 777 just stop ✋🏾

    • @giffsgaffs615
      @giffsgaffs615 Před 3 lety

      Asking the right question is harder than it sounds

    • @Ladiesandgentlemen141
      @Ladiesandgentlemen141 Před 3 lety +1

      Go through life answering everybody like that and see how far that gets ya! Show you care and at least "give them the time of day"!

    • @realistic.optimist
      @realistic.optimist Před 2 lety +1

      @@Ladiesandgentlemen141 I answer with the time because I know what they meant to ask but I usually say - it is X:YZ . Lets face it we have to deal with incorrect questions all the time.

  • @heavymeddle28
    @heavymeddle28 Před 3 lety +10

    If I can sit in comfortable silence with someone it's usually a good trusting friendship

  • @amanita1964
    @amanita1964 Před 4 lety +6

    One of the main reason I love my own company.

  • @sarafatima5069
    @sarafatima5069 Před 4 lety +52

    WORK IN SILENCE,LETS U'R SUCCESS MAKE NOISE❤

    • @mohamedm9391
      @mohamedm9391 Před 3 lety

      I like the fact that you are so silent like I'm

  • @christoskaloudis8800
    @christoskaloudis8800 Před 4 lety +78

    Many people believe that if someone pauses for a few seconds after a question that they are trying to think of lie.

    • @andyf8704
      @andyf8704 Před 4 lety +33

      As long as your hands are clean then who cares what people think.

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 Před 4 lety +1

      Politicians do it all of the time! to no avail... as they end up still saying nothing of substance that would answer the question! just thinking of what best lie to use or waiting for the man behind the curtain to tell them what to say! (in the ear)!

    • @camc3893
      @camc3893 Před 4 lety +1

      @@theresefournier3269 well they are technically taking a moment to think 🤔

  • @simplemind7
    @simplemind7 Před 3 lety +10

    The loudest man in the room is ALWAYS the weakest one.

  • @camc3893
    @camc3893 Před 4 lety +10

    My house is full of quiet people. Some are successful some not so much. I will say that we are a happier than most.

    • @andresmorales7228
      @andresmorales7228 Před 2 lety

      Silence gives way to get in touch with yourself, that's why.

  • @maryjohnson1890
    @maryjohnson1890 Před 2 lety +2

    Good tutorial. When I find myself talking too much, I stop. It's generally because I'm hyper or excited. I then try to calm myself down and stay silent and let others talk.

  • @user-nt4nm4fb3u
    @user-nt4nm4fb3u Před 4 lety +11

    yes! guys, it's true. Keep practise it, even when you are in a conversation listen more & talk less. Keep meditation as a Daily Routine.
    Influence of meditation is much more than anything. Concentrate on the present moment. Do one thing at a time.
    You must keep you away from Distractions if you want to do those which has mentioned above.

  • @raymondchoyce4796
    @raymondchoyce4796 Před 3 lety +10

    Silent helps reveal your inner most thoughts ,this where you’re best plans ,goals ,and creativity lay dormant, till you activate them with silence.

  • @anthonymartinez7844
    @anthonymartinez7844 Před 4 lety +3

    Hopefully most understand. This important subject. Thanks for sharing.

  • @sharmanmcnally4746
    @sharmanmcnally4746 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you so much. I just listened to this twice. Really needed to hear it.

  • @djswivells3613
    @djswivells3613 Před 3 lety +1

    Great knowledge your channel is providing!
    I love this video for so many the area’s of self help it touches.

  • @lanarey7687
    @lanarey7687 Před 2 lety +5

    In other words we should learn when to remain silent and when to communicate because silence and communication have the same value

  • @carmenworthy9330
    @carmenworthy9330 Před 4 lety +31

    I practice silence a lot but notice that doesn't make my mind less chaotic when it's time to actually speak

    • @erin6439
      @erin6439 Před 4 lety +4

      Mhm...I tend to over think....eh

    • @treyvonchesney-hendricks8198
      @treyvonchesney-hendricks8198 Před 4 lety

      @R V does that really help with ataying in the present?

    • @effexon
      @effexon Před 4 lety

      also, to learn to express ideas, must practise also. always silent, mumbling comes out of mouth, even tho may have thought them through many times in head. But practise and experience makes perfect, no secret there.

  • @mabrooklibyano2352
    @mabrooklibyano2352 Před 4 lety +9

    0:38 a moment of silence is a moment of thought. Love it 👍🤐

  • @arifahmad-7261
    @arifahmad-7261 Před 4 lety +349

    100%
    Silent people are succesful becoz👇👇👇👇
    They didnot waste there energy in talks👍

    • @gingerindian1141
      @gingerindian1141 Před 4 lety +2

      ...and had 'good keyboard skills writing a message to fellow CZcams people'.

    • @jeezythecat
      @jeezythecat Před 4 lety +4

      Damn right son! I was always that quiet kid in school. Just the past year I really began to understand exactly why. I always felt a bit ashamed it. Now I see that my instincts and intelligence were not incorrect, it's just that back that I felt no choice but to be silent. Now when I'm silent, it is with strong intent; and when I speak, my words have power and weight, because I always choose my words precisely, to convey what I mean to convey, in the most honest way that I can. I can easily see when somebody is beating around the bush and not speaking me to directly, which is also a useful ability to have.

  • @mrq3205
    @mrq3205 Před 4 lety +94

    Makes you a dangerous person. God father 2, the moves Michael corleone makes after his father's death.

  • @tigerx36
    @tigerx36 Před 4 lety +14

    I feel like I needed this. it reminds me how easy it is for me to be like this.

  • @QueLindaLV
    @QueLindaLV Před 4 lety +2

    I love love love this channel!

  • @gumatohuka8827
    @gumatohuka8827 Před 4 lety +2

    In silence you grow inwardly. I love it ❤️❤️. Thank you 😘.

  • @tshepondlovu1562
    @tshepondlovu1562 Před 4 lety +84

    Empty tin makes a lot of noise but silence is golden....

  • @michaelwilliams7907
    @michaelwilliams7907 Před 2 lety +4

    SILENCE IS A TRUE FRIEND WHICH WILL NEVER BETRAY - Sun Zhou. The man was telling the truth. I try to say this in my mind EVERY TIME I WANNA OPEN MY STUPID MOUTH.

  • @ashfaqkhanrafin2683
    @ashfaqkhanrafin2683 Před 4 lety +1

    Your videos are very good than most other CZcamsrs.

  • @shivu9114
    @shivu9114 Před 4 lety +1

    Awesome! I am so blessed listening to this Video!God Bless you!!

  • @mbonuchinedu2420
    @mbonuchinedu2420 Před 4 lety +7

    Successful people are direct and concise.
    Well said ⭐⭐⭐

  • @dlginvestment6898
    @dlginvestment6898 Před 4 lety +19

    That's why I stay Quiet. TALK, when it is necessary.

  • @bonnieoles4212
    @bonnieoles4212 Před 2 lety

    Excellent video! Thank you! Just what I needed to hear! 🙏

  • @raymondforbes19
    @raymondforbes19 Před 4 lety

    Brilliantly written video shows greatly appreciated thank you!😁

  • @melaniebiberger2191
    @melaniebiberger2191 Před 4 lety +125

    I hate that me being silent gives people the idea that i have low self-esteem or that im shy

    • @anngenettekennedy5328
      @anngenettekennedy5328 Před 4 lety +30

      Lol, me being silent give people the idea that I'm hiding or up to something. Just goes to show you how people will make up things when they don't know you.🖤

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 Před 4 lety +20

      What we authentically and intuitively know is what matters! In time, we realize, just how what others may or may not think about us, is truly irrelevant, none of our business even, and nothing to do with who we are or where we are going!
      Silence is gold!

    • @raijin1378
      @raijin1378 Před 4 lety +2

      I get lumped into the same category but in fact im either not interested in talking to ppl i dont like or give out too much vital information since they can turn around and use that against you and always being in my head analyzing everything right down to every minute detail generally when you see the bigger picture helps make better judgments but thats just me

    • @bobbyjhay4594
      @bobbyjhay4594 Před 4 lety +4

      So if everybody else opinions count, why do you discard yours?
      SELF EMPOWERMENT IS THE ONLY KEY THAT OPENS ALL DOORS.

    • @subseb3896
      @subseb3896 Před 4 lety +1

      @Umbuko DaJuko I can relate little do they know

  • @moussinobied8782
    @moussinobied8782 Před 4 lety +3

    Silence is golden
    That the best saying in the world

  • @Angel-ql1ms
    @Angel-ql1ms Před 3 lety +1

    Thanks for everything.

  • @lindabest3184
    @lindabest3184 Před 2 lety

    I've always heard that Silence is Golden, I've learned through the yrs that Silence is more precious than Gold‼️💯

  • @dankanivas7184
    @dankanivas7184 Před 3 lety +9

    "Be silent, or make the words worth more than silence" - Pithagoras

  • @RedPandas3111
    @RedPandas3111 Před 4 lety +24

    This guy talks so much about the importance of silence but he doesn’t stop talking!

  • @FightFearless
    @FightFearless Před 2 lety +1

    Great reminder thank you 🙏🏼

  • @kirkdavenport7896
    @kirkdavenport7896 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you so much I needed this! 27 and broke is no joke! God bless you 🙏

  • @annadavid11
    @annadavid11 Před 3 lety +3

    Silence is not empty.it has a great meaning which cannot be expressed by words......

  • @lordking44
    @lordking44 Před 4 lety +94

    I literally live in my mind
    The world doesnt exist for me

  • @BreuckelensFinest
    @BreuckelensFinest Před 4 lety

    The best advice on CZcams & in CZcams history!

  • @srajansiju_3467
    @srajansiju_3467 Před 4 lety +2

    The graphic of the video is awesome

  • @QueenQueen-tq1le
    @QueenQueen-tq1le Před 3 lety +4

    This really helps because people say I'm too quiet.

  • @josephmileyka2184
    @josephmileyka2184 Před 4 lety +12

    For everything, there is a season.

  • @francismoyer8470
    @francismoyer8470 Před 3 lety +1

    Keep the Silence. All answers are within.. Namaste

  • @gemdom6585
    @gemdom6585 Před 2 lety +1

    Powerful and enlightening message 👍

  • @theoldcat4614
    @theoldcat4614 Před 4 lety +7

    Saw, the notification, took the video and as always, video was very useful and inspiring. Thanks ❤️

  • @Theydonotcare
    @Theydonotcare Před 4 lety +3

    Thank you.

  • @ko1533
    @ko1533 Před 3 lety

    I am going to work on this in my life. Thank you for the great video.

  • @spiriitualminded
    @spiriitualminded Před 3 lety

    Omg thank you!! I can relate to every word u spoke