But you shouldn't really change your personality, the word 'persona' literally means 'mask' so it's just what others see, deep down in yourself you should always stay yourself, even if people don't like you, they'll appreciate you more if you are being honest about who/what you really are.
Or go find people we are compatible with. I too agree that im not also with the only person we can change is us. Sometimes you shouldnt change yourself to please others. Plus I think there are times you can influence others to improve themselves as well.
A persona (plural personae or personas), in the word's everyday usage, is a social role or a character played by an actor. The word is derived from Latin, where it originally referred to a theatrical mask. (- Wikipedia) So what that actually means is that the 'personality' that people see is actually just a mask, a role that you're playing, a face that you want others to see, and it's true that we can only change our 'persona' (mask) but deep down we always stay the same.
Here's a good one to add, stubborn. Instead of being receptive and fluid, the stubborn personality ignores new information or ideas just to defend their own convictions typically out of pride. Waste of time trying to reiterate and explain things to these people constantly
I felt like I get shot a few times when you're giving examples of the personalities. I didn't even notice that until you mentioned it. Thank you for reminding me to think from others' perspective :)
I found very interesting how you took that person that always has a negative opinion about everything and turned it around for it to become an advantage for your business. Great content, Pat.
@@YardKat666 Also, if you can't think about anything else, you feel it, you smell it, it keeps you up at night... just go for it.. what is the first step. Make a planning board, do you need a loan, etc... Even when all fails you have learned so much... Start with fam and friends, 'suppose I have this for you, would you be interested' and see how they react... Good luck mate, follow your heart!!
I think in the world of tech, they call it "beta testing". Experiment on a small scale in house, do focus groups, find a few loyal customers to test the product, etc.
In 2004 Brad Hog took Sachins wicket.At the end Hog gave the ball to Sachin for his Autograph. Sachin put his signature with a beautiful line " IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN" Hog could not take his wicket second time..after this both came face to face 21 times..
I'm a 21-year-old female. I take notes when I watch your videos. I'm not typically motivated by speakers, etc .. but your videos have made an impact on how I approach situations and how I perform in the workplace.
"To all the sensitive people, skip this exercise" forced a laugh out of my belly on that one. Already started assembling a mental list of the people of like to have fill this out for me. Love the comment about those who don't want to improve. I've made the same decision. For the worker bees, don't wanna read? Fine don't but they'll never take not one step up. If you take even one step up you will be reading a minimum of 12 books a year. Myself I want to get to 52 books a year. If they don't want to I'm sure there's another company that will fit them better, but it sure as hell isn't with me. Absolutely can't stand people that a) know it all b) refuse to grow. I know I have a few of these. Once upon a time I was unteachable, now you need to be able to explain to me why your way is better. Long ago I was even too sensitive and didn't take criticism well, I'm still competitive as ever but I try to stay out of it. The guys were talking about all the hits they've gotten in their sports and I've been really working to not start sentences with "I" (quickly becoming one of my most hated words ever) finally they turned to me and I just say "I used to play basketball, soccer and baseball but what I really like is fighting. Started learning to box at 5 years old. Now I practice boxing, Jiu-jitsu and Muay Thai. There's nothing like whispering in a man's ear the shit he talked right before he taps or goes to sleep." The conversation changed real quick. I'd say I won that game of one-upping. Anyways, way too many points to recall so I'll leave it at this: in my opinion the lesson is we all have our short comings what's important is we acknowledge then and work to improve them. Stay Passionate! Chef Chris
I’m just a stay at home mom. I don’t know why I geek out on your videos. I love your motivation and strong desire to give away what you worked hard to learn. I really admire that. Dads are awesome, interview your dad some time.
I believe this is one of your best videos you have ever made this is a powerful video that I will forward to as many people... first you saved me a lot work,,,, by the way why you save me a lot of work is because I have to constantly do this two people that are around me which puts me in a category that is not very good I'm A Smarty Pants but the reality is I try to do it with love and kindness as Christian as I can and I love the way you sum up the way of Christian and people out there thank you for what you just did thank you for serving the community like you did our country
with -aggressivess, I've learnt to have realistic expectations, be gentle with myself first and ask for help when needed. -know-it-all, I practise how to shut up, listen, since learning is an on-going process. Now I have amazing informative discussions, instead of baseless arguments. -sensitivity, was due to being over-confident...for me, then when I failed at a TASK I immediately equated it to me being a failure, so even good critism was personal. I know now that my identity is far more than what I do, and welcome critism gracefully.
pranav shastri It truly is a gift and its all about the delivery. He can tell you "you suck and heres why" and explain it in such a way that you get something out of it even though he kinda dissed you in a video. Another video that says the same thing will be way too condescending and a complete turnoff.
My reaction to this video is how long Did it take you to put this together? Did you do it by yourself, because there is so much overlap I don't know how it doesn't cloud your mind. I mean why not 20 or 40. I think this is one of your greatest traits. The ability to sort things out and take a box of chaos and turn it into a tray of order. I wish I had it and I am in awe.
Pat, very good details and examples here. When you are an Entrepreneur, this is really important to read through the different personalities that people have. I can say that I've come across all of these personalities. These personalities have pros and cons but people use it the wrong way because it is how they have been taught in life. And if you are an entrepreneur or a business owner and you can read through these, you can help these type of personalities. This is really important when building your company culture, building a new business or getting through business growth. Very thorough explanation. *Also - this is not learned in the Business Class!! This is really good info that people missed -every day. Enjoyed the videos as always.
Technically speaking those are not personalities, but personality traits. Most people cover the full spectrum, and we see prevalence of particular trait set depending on the context(social, personal and business). Nevertheless nice video. You are really good speaker.
Amazing and eye-opening. Thank you so much! I might just have to watch it a second time in a row so I can really Digest areas where I have been difficult 🙏🙏
I come across as a number 11 - I have a very very very logical perspective on life. That is my standard, and if I am presented with something that does not supersede my logical perspective then I will not take it on board. I will aim to be more open to other peoples ideas, show more patience in listening, and take the time to explain my thinking in an open and honest discussion. Great video, keep 'em coming. :)
I think i am difficult to work with.... 2. I am passive, sometime 3. I am too emotional, easily triggered 15. I am little bit arrogant, and sometime have the sense of entitlement 16 & 19. I don't know if i have a bad character in ten years, but sometime i have a little lie to get out a situation that could be a bigger problem later. like "did you eat this morning?" or "did you take a shower?" 20. This is such a childish thing, but i think i am a sore loser 25. I am perfectionist, and i am fucking hate it.... it makes my project take too long 31. Yes, i am sensitive.... God! i am working on it
Its good u said we dont pinpoint at others in the beginning.coz i realised almost all these characters are mine.i better change before pipo fail to wrk with me
Patrick-bet-David 17:46 what game did you loose and who did you give the trophy? Please answer the question! Thank you sir. And after that i will continue watch your video.
I'm the luckiest man alive. My wife has all 32 of the personalities. I got every woman in the world in one tidy package. And she is very sweet. She reminds me every day how grateful I must be. My Dad similar to yours Patrick , he loves her because she is totally honest. :)
I like this reality pat, Ill wait in the future how to deal with this personalities and how to change this problems as personal improvement.more power for you pat.
All of these characteristics can be traced to insecurity. Know your insecurities and you can see where your personality traits come from. Insecurities are fears. Everyone is motivated by fear. There are those who see it in themselves and are able to confront it, they grow. The rest are afraid to look and they stay the same.
I am sensitive 😂. I do my best to improve myself. Thank you. And I think that some situations sensitivity can be advance too. And sensitive people can see through people, motives and lies, so beware 😉
Many people have seen this video (almost 1000) and only 100 liked it so far? I am wondering how many of them were sensitive 😀😃 This topic is so powerful if someone don't take it otherwise! This meant to bring people together, nothing else. Working on ourselves, being aware of our flaws and shake hands with that is so priceless for your life! Let's give more likes to this video... it's worth it! 💯 😎🤗 Thanks for the video! Perfect!
Too Fast, Patrick, We enjoy watching you analyze every single point, so why the hurry ?!! If it has to be only 30 minutes long, i suggest you make 2 eposides instead.
Love your channel and what you teach but I'll disagree with you about sensitive people. They are the ones that actually may even get emotional but they may also be the ones that are top performers who are struggling with something or someone temporarily finding their way and they are big into self-improvement but they 'd be very different than your personality. Some of the most sensitive people have created amazing value in this world, you may be right they may not be always in business, but we need more sensitive people in the world. I actually think some sensitive people are hungry for constructive criticism and guidance and they care a lot about their work, the business where they add value, and are authentic so they can have the best insight into what is happening in the business when a CEO is not looking because they may not sugar coat or tell someone what they want to hear but what is really going on. Sure it's not good to be sensitive all the time, but some very smart, hard working people are also sensitive people. Again thanks for your content, learning a lot, keep up the good work.
Mr. Patrick bet-david sir. I just wanted to say thank you for the knowledge you are sharing. Your videos often invoke motions different thought patterns happiness thinking about productivity. Here's where it gets crazy Mr bet-david sir. I'm not an entrepreneur I'm not a CEO I'm not a c nothing technically unemployed but I've not been in work since August 16th 2011 I got hurt at work. Why should I was important to tell you is that somebody like me who will be getting a check until I'm 65 no business no high-powered job yet I find Value and things that I can Implement in my day-to-day life so if I was a CEO and I came across this information it would be a bad day for my competition. So true things I wanted to let you know one I really enjoy your content it's entertaining can you come off extremely knowledgeable. The second thing is that your content appeals to somebody like me in mice current situation I thought that might be something you would like to know I know you were into your Analytics data if there's one thing that you do 365 days of the year Christmas Easter Thanksgiving birthday your briefcase is full of numbers you look at the numbers every day so there's another data point for you sir
Get the PDF here: valuetainment.com/32-difficult-personalities-to-work-with/
thanks
Pat interview your dad.
Lol
;)
I don’t usually watch 30 + minute videos unless it’s from you pat 👌🙏
Good informative common sense stuff he saying yes! same for me listening to it till end!
@@biggiebeil5118 people with short attention spans normally don't get very far..
Wow, a 32mins 32 second video about 32 different personalities. You really planned this didn't you.
I know I always do, LOL.
Kush U ikr
Thought that same thing lol
DO IT NOW,USED MY FEES TO START A BOTIQUE,MOM WAS ANGRY AT FIRST BUT NOW SHE IS SO HAPPY .THANKS TO P DAVID
Rede Mwale
That’s great!!
Under rated video! People need to be watching this right now in 2022 & 2023 !!!
So true that the only one we can change is ours
But you shouldn't really change your personality, the word 'persona' literally means 'mask' so it's just what others see, deep down in yourself you should always stay yourself, even if people don't like you, they'll appreciate you more if you are being honest about who/what you really are.
Or go find people we are compatible with. I too agree that im not also with the only person we can change is us. Sometimes you shouldnt change yourself to please others. Plus I think there are times you can influence others to improve themselves as well.
A persona (plural personae or personas), in the word's everyday usage, is a social role or a character played by an actor. The word is derived from Latin, where it originally referred to a theatrical mask. (- Wikipedia) So what that actually means is that the 'personality' that people see is actually just a mask, a role that you're playing, a face that you want others to see, and it's true that we can only change our 'persona' (mask) but deep down we always stay the same.
I was in 50% of the things. I laughed my ass out. And I also cried tears of regret
@Coke Dogg wow. that"s the most accurate description of me ever
This video is absolutely perfect, thank you so much for all the advice & info
Here's a good one to add, stubborn. Instead of being receptive and fluid, the stubborn personality ignores new information or ideas just to defend their own convictions typically out of pride. Waste of time trying to reiterate and explain things to these people constantly
Stubborn is a big one. I was expecting until the end of the video to see an opinion by P.B
James G #21 True Believer
Stubborn is elements of arrogant, know it all, poor loser, ect
but positive if a sign of determination and resilience.
I felt like I get shot a few times when you're giving examples of the personalities. I didn't even notice that until you mentioned it. Thank you for reminding me to think from others' perspective :)
I found very interesting how you took that person that always has a negative opinion about everything and turned it around for it to become an advantage for your business. Great content, Pat.
Hey Pat, can you show us the best way to test business ideas early so you don't engage in a bad idea?
You have that answer. Look inward, and ask yourself the questions that lead to your solution.
@@YardKat666 Also, if you can't think about anything else, you feel it, you smell it, it keeps you up at night... just go for it.. what is the first step. Make a planning board, do you need a loan, etc... Even when all fails you have learned so much... Start with fam and friends, 'suppose I have this for you, would you be interested' and see how they react... Good luck mate, follow your heart!!
I think in the world of tech, they call it "beta testing". Experiment on a small scale in house, do focus groups, find a few loyal customers to test the product, etc.
In 2004 Brad Hog took Sachins wicket.At the end Hog gave the ball to Sachin for his Autograph. Sachin put his signature with a beautiful line " IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN AGAIN" Hog could not take his wicket second time..after this both came face to face 21 times..
You are right on point as always. You add a lot of value to us. Thanks for everything Pat and God Bless!
32 personalities in 32 minutes and THIRTY-THREE seconds, so close! Was it intended? Thanks for the content
I'm a 21-year-old female. I take notes when I watch your videos. I'm not typically motivated by speakers, etc .. but your videos have made an impact on how I approach situations and how I perform in the workplace.
29:00 😂 I like how your dad thinks lol
"To all the sensitive people, skip this exercise" forced a laugh out of my belly on that one.
Already started assembling a mental list of the people of like to have fill this out for me.
Love the comment about those who don't want to improve. I've made the same decision. For the worker bees, don't wanna read? Fine don't but they'll never take not one step up. If you take even one step up you will be reading a minimum of 12 books a year. Myself I want to get to 52 books a year. If they don't want to I'm sure there's another company that will fit them better, but it sure as hell isn't with me. Absolutely can't stand people that a) know it all b) refuse to grow.
I know I have a few of these. Once upon a time I was unteachable, now you need to be able to explain to me why your way is better. Long ago I was even too sensitive and didn't take criticism well, I'm still competitive as ever but I try to stay out of it. The guys were talking about all the hits they've gotten in their sports and I've been really working to not start sentences with "I" (quickly becoming one of my most hated words ever) finally they turned to me and I just say "I used to play basketball, soccer and baseball but what I really like is fighting. Started learning to box at 5 years old. Now I practice boxing, Jiu-jitsu and Muay Thai. There's nothing like whispering in a man's ear the shit he talked right before he taps or goes to sleep." The conversation changed real quick. I'd say I won that game of one-upping.
Anyways, way too many points to recall so I'll leave it at this: in my opinion the lesson is we all have our short comings what's important is we acknowledge then and work to improve them.
Stay Passionate!
Chef Chris
I’m just a stay at home mom. I don’t know why I geek out on your videos. I love your motivation and strong desire to give away what you worked hard to learn. I really admire that.
Dads are awesome, interview your dad some time.
Great content as usual, I watch all your videos! It would be cool if one day you codensed these videos into a book. Keep up the good work!
Love you Pat 💯💯💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
I believe this is one of your best videos you have ever made this is a powerful video that I will forward to as many people... first you saved me a lot work,,,, by the way why you save me a lot of work is because I have to constantly do this two people that are around me which puts me in a category that is not very good I'm A Smarty Pants but the reality is I try to do it with love and kindness as Christian as I can and I love the way you sum up the way of Christian and people out there thank you for what you just did thank you for serving the community like you did our country
I am working on increasing my positive vibrations. no more negativity.
one of the best self-help video out there, thank you Pat!
Excellent video, We all must audit ourselves objectively and improve.
Fire!!!!🔥🔥🔥 So good Pat. Love Valuetainment
Pat I don’t know how to thank you , for all these talks you have , it helped me alot in my life , I truly admire you and what you do
with
-aggressivess, I've learnt to have realistic expectations, be gentle with myself first and ask for help when needed.
-know-it-all, I practise how to shut up, listen, since learning is an on-going process. Now I have amazing informative discussions, instead of baseless arguments.
-sensitivity, was due to being over-confident...for me, then when I failed at a TASK I immediately equated it to me being a failure, so even good critism was personal. I know now that my identity is far more than what I do, and welcome critism gracefully.
Great as always Pat 👍🏻👍🏻
Thanks
Loved the video Pat.. love the way you put it.. It's like you have the ability to punch the hell out of someone yet keep them smiling😉
pranav shastri
It truly is a gift and its all about the delivery. He can tell you "you suck and heres why" and explain it in such a way that you get something out of it even though he kinda dissed you in a video. Another video that says the same thing will be way too condescending and a complete turnoff.
Sam Sadowitz just love him. Really inspiring.
Very good analysis
Why is this so accurate?!?!?!?!?!?!
My reaction to this video is how long Did it take you to put this together? Did you do it by yourself, because there is so much overlap I don't know how it doesn't cloud your mind. I mean why not 20 or 40. I think this is one of your greatest traits. The ability to sort things out and take a box of chaos and turn it into a tray of order. I wish I had it and I am in awe.
Great thought process you have to see it this way and yeah it would be super helpful to know how Pat does it.
Pat, very good details and examples here.
When you are an Entrepreneur, this is really important to read through the different personalities that people have. I can say that I've come across all of these personalities. These personalities have pros and cons but people use it the wrong way because it is how they have been taught in life. And if you are an entrepreneur or a business owner and you can read through these, you can help these type of personalities. This is really important when building your company culture, building a new business or getting through business growth. Very thorough explanation. *Also - this is not learned in the Business Class!! This is really good info that people missed -every day. Enjoyed the videos as always.
“The more you pour into them, the more they think you need them, the more they try to abuse you” dam that hit me hard. Wasn’t even ready for that
valuable , i downloaded the pdf to study it , i found that it missed sensitive title. thanks for your awesome work
Technically speaking those are not personalities, but personality traits. Most people cover the full spectrum, and we see prevalence of particular trait set depending on the context(social, personal and business).
Nevertheless nice video. You are really good speaker.
Time for some self reflection.
I love your dad , remains me of my uncle very honest guy
I needed to hear this!
I am a couple of them
this is why I always watch your videos
If You not improving. - Go home... Love it !
THANK YOU SO MUCH for this video
Pat i need this one shirt, you are my motivator with good inspiration. in fact you give my life a meaning to be
Wow! Congrats Valuetainment for crossing the 700k subs... I'm grateful to God for you guys... God bless you all
Love your special business teachings. What a powerful mentor you are.
Hello Pat.Thanks again.
Pat, this is one of the best channels ive found! Thanks for all the great uploads.
Amazing and eye-opening. Thank you so much! I might just have to watch it a second time in a row so I can really Digest areas where I have been difficult 🙏🙏
27:17
Best 20 second in my whole entire life 😲
I'm buying a shirt!
I come across as a number 11 - I have a very very very logical perspective on life. That is my standard, and if I am presented with something that does not supersede my logical perspective then I will not take it on board. I will aim to be more open to other peoples ideas, show more patience in listening, and take the time to explain my thinking in an open and honest discussion. Great video, keep 'em coming. :)
Great video. Thank you!
thank you Valuetainment.. you opened my eyes that I had #31 issue for the whole my life
Thats was very useful, many thanks!
Thank you!
Amazing video pat 💯👏👏 keep up the great work
Man PBD this video was on point.
You had me laughing way too much.
I am printing out this PDF for sure.
Thank you for all your time.
I think i am difficult to work with....
2. I am passive, sometime
3. I am too emotional, easily triggered
15. I am little bit arrogant, and sometime have the sense of entitlement
16 & 19. I don't know if i have a bad character in ten years, but sometime i have a little lie to get out a situation that could be a bigger problem later. like "did you eat this morning?" or "did you take a shower?"
20. This is such a childish thing, but i think i am a sore loser
25. I am perfectionist, and i am fucking hate it.... it makes my project take too long
31. Yes, i am sensitive.... God! i am working on it
Some of these can tied together. 33 people who admit no wrong doing and hypocrisy
Its good u said we dont pinpoint at others in the beginning.coz i realised almost all these characters are mine.i better change before pipo fail to wrk with me
Yup... I'm just a manager but this is soo true
Patrick-bet-David 17:46 what game did you loose and who did you give the trophy? Please answer the question! Thank you sir. And after that i will continue watch your video.
Pat sold me on the shirt so fast!
Haven't even gotten into the meat and potatoes of the video yet, and I Already Learned Something.
Just goes to show what one has to deal with out there. To thine own self be true.
I'm the luckiest man alive. My wife has all 32 of the personalities. I got every woman in the world in one tidy package. And she is very sweet. She reminds me every day how grateful I must be. My Dad similar to yours Patrick , he loves her because she is totally honest. :)
Good opportunity for you to know where you stand, exactly!!;)
I've got a lot to fix. Most of my defensiveness comes from my past. Time to kill my ego and renew my mind.
Definitely #4 is the most difficult part of me, with #5, #15, #27 & #31 to a lesser degree.
I like this reality pat, Ill wait in the future how to deal with this personalities and how to change this problems as personal improvement.more power for you pat.
Absolutely great content! Respect! 🙏
Love the content PBD
All of these characteristics can be traced to insecurity. Know your insecurities and you can see where your personality traits come from. Insecurities are fears. Everyone is motivated by fear. There are those who see it in themselves and are able to confront it, they grow. The rest are afraid to look and they stay the same.
Great Video much luv Patrick u got a great personality
Your leadership traits make you very attractive🙂❤️
Wow great video!
Great content! Respira Pat! 🙏
I am sensitive 😂. I do my best to improve myself. Thank you.
And I think that some situations sensitivity can be advance too. And sensitive people can see through people, motives and lies, so beware 😉
I am a true believer of PHP and Valuetainment !!
GREAT VALUE 👍👍👍
Well done! LOVED IT! Spoke to me too, I learned!
First time I heard Patrick actually cuss. Haha! Great vid!
This one with sex is very true, It stops being fub if you have had all kinds if sex.
Great video man. Also angry people are very difficult to communicate with (short tempered)
this is gold
Many people have seen this video (almost 1000) and only 100 liked it so far? I am wondering how many of them were sensitive 😀😃 This topic is so powerful if someone don't take it otherwise! This meant to bring people together, nothing else. Working on ourselves, being aware of our flaws and shake hands with that is so priceless for your life! Let's give more likes to this video... it's worth it! 💯 😎🤗 Thanks for the video! Perfect!
K M I could watch 20 videos in one go some nights... Ich gerade nicht mögen Sie
this channel is extremely useful
I think we missed the 18th one. Thanks for the knowledge as always. Much Love
thanks God bless . always great info thanks..
Too Fast, Patrick, We enjoy watching you analyze every single point, so why the hurry ?!!
If it has to be only 30 minutes long, i suggest you make 2 eposides instead.
Number 12... is Seattle people
WOW! At 25:37 30 seconds before I was like who ever this mario I like this guy and then you plug at the perfect timing.
I love Pat
you hurt my feelings so ima cry now
no one is perfect, find right guy and deal with them on right process according his\her habits and weaknesses.
Love your channel and what you teach but I'll disagree with you about sensitive people. They are the ones that actually may even get emotional but they may also be the ones that are top performers who are struggling with something or someone temporarily finding their way and they are big into self-improvement but they 'd be very different than your personality. Some of the most sensitive people have created amazing value in this world, you may be right they may not be always in business, but we need more sensitive people in the world. I actually think some sensitive people are hungry for constructive criticism and guidance and they care a lot about their work, the business where they add value, and are authentic so they can have the best insight into what is happening in the business when a CEO is not looking because they may not sugar coat or tell someone what they want to hear but what is really going on. Sure it's not good to be sensitive all the time, but some very smart, hard working people are also sensitive people. Again thanks for your content, learning a lot, keep up the good work.
I love what you do 💯🌐💪
Great video thanks for posting ,I agreed with about 84% ....
This was spot on!!! 😂
Mr. Patrick bet-david sir. I just wanted to say thank you for the knowledge you are sharing. Your videos often invoke motions different thought patterns happiness thinking about productivity. Here's where it gets crazy Mr bet-david sir. I'm not an entrepreneur I'm not a CEO I'm not a c nothing technically unemployed but I've not been in work since August 16th 2011 I got hurt at work. Why should I was important to tell you is that somebody like me who will be getting a check until I'm 65 no business no high-powered job yet I find Value and things that I can Implement in my day-to-day life so if I was a CEO and I came across this information it would be a bad day for my competition. So true things I wanted to let you know one I really enjoy your content it's entertaining can you come off extremely knowledgeable. The second thing is that your content appeals to somebody like me in mice current situation I thought that might be something you would like to know I know you were into your Analytics data if there's one thing that you do 365 days of the year Christmas Easter Thanksgiving birthday your briefcase is full of numbers you look at the numbers every day so there's another data point for you sir
32! I narrow it down to 2. Winner or loser.
This is golden!