Finding Dory - Helped Me Share Something About My Life - Movie Reaction
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From the Academy Award®-winning creators of Disney•Pixar's Finding Nemo (Best Animated Feature, 2003) comes an epic undersea adventure filled with imagination, humor and heart. When Dory, the forgetful blue tang (Ellen DeGeneres), suddenly remembers she has a family who may be looking for her, she, Marlin (Albert Brooks) and Nemo (Hayden Rolence) take off on a life-changing quest to find them...with help from Hank, a cantankerous octopus; Bailey, a beluga whale who's convinced his biological sonar skills are on the fritz; and Destiny, a nearsighted whale shark! Dive into the movie overflowing with unforgettable characters, dazzling animation and gallons of fun!
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Fun Fact: the flashbacks in this movie was originally a concept made for the first one where over the course of the movie the audience would find out what happened to Marlin and how he became overprotective and scared of the ocean
Maybe he's overprotective bc his wife and kids were eaten by a barracuda...
@@diegolobato1667 I’m guessing int he original concept of the first movie they didn’t start it off with the scene of Marlin and his wife, and instead just opened with Nemo going to school and Marlin being his usual self. Then later when people are like ‘why are you so overprotective?’ He’d flashback a few times to his wife and kids getting eaten
@@fidgetelftree9432 Exactly, there's even that fragment here on youtube.
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This movie changed the first movie for me ✨entirely✨ knowing that throughout all their shenanigans, Dory’s parents are somewhere collecting shells the entire time 🥺
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Her parents are just the best, really
Never gave up on their daughter after so many years, it just warms my heart ❤
Me and almost all of my siblings have autism, and this movie really hit home for us and our parents, as well. And not just the mental disability stuff, but I'm also physically disabled, so seeing all these new characters who had some sort of disability was amazing. And Dory's supportive parents! My family has a lot of issues, but our parents will never give up on us. Ever. Dory's parents are amazing.
I have autism too. It’s not easy sometimes, but i wouldn’t change who i am at all.
I’m autistic and I have sort of delayed learning skills, but I feel like I’m learning better as I get older
@@springheartedtiger I've had things get easier as I've gotten older, as well. Like how I don't get sensory overload as easily as I used to. I don't have to wear noise cancelling headphones anymore. My concentration has gotten worse and I do still stim, and my hyperfixation has gotten more prominent, but I feel like that's just how things are with autism. Some things might get better, some might get worse, some might stay the same. We're all different. That's why autism is called a spectrum.
@@mikaelacash3791 hyperfixation?
@@springheartedtiger Being completely engrossed with one thing to the point that it disrupts day-to-day life. For example, I've met autistics who were super obsessed with cars and would only ever talk about cars and knew every little detail about different kinds of cars and such. My hyperfixations change, but usually it's something anime related.
I love how this movie connected the dots because I remember as a kid crying asking my mom why Dory forgot her family when Marlon asked her where is your family and she said "I don't remember" in Finding Nemo
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Thank you for this reaction video. The ending really touched me.
I'm a 28 years old autistic woman, and like your daughter, speech came later to me, as well as quite a few things (tying my shoelaces, mastering some fine motor skills and so on). I still have difficulties on day to day basis, but I also see and feel things in a way that I wouldn't exchange for everything in the world.
I think what really helped me is that, despite a lack of diagnosis for a very long time, my parents were always very accepting when it came to me being "different". They helped me to figure out ways to work around some stuff (like telling me when they were making jokes so that I would be able to discern it later more easily), but they also allowed me to back out when it was needed, and that it was okay if I couldn't always put myself out there.
I think your daughter is lucky to have a caring father (mine left when I was three or so, our relationship is extremely strained). If you haven't done so already, you shouldn't hesitate to reach out to the autistic community, there are plenty of autistic people out there open to discuss, willing to answer questions and to shed some light on things that you might not quite get, from your Neurotypical/Allistic pov. The best pieces of advice I've received when I got my diagnosis definitely came from autistic folks.
I hope the best for you and for your family. Take care, and always keep an open mind when it comes to disability and neurodivergence. Don't think about it as something to "fix", but as a part that you have to work with, and that can have many beautiful sides when you take the time to think about it. The challenges are here too, of course, but it's not all gloom. Thanks again for this video.
Another older autistic woman here echoing Kanashimimo's sentiments. The autistic community is a great help for those trying to understand and support autistic individuals in their lives. I always tended toward hanging back and watching and "masking" my autistic traits, so other than being the "weird" child, there was never any hint I was struggling until I burned out and collapsed in my late 30s. Lurking in the autistic community on Twitter and here on CZcams helped a lot in understanding my kids following their diagnoses and later myself when I was diagnosed two years later. Following conversations on sensory processing disorder, stimming, AAC, various accomodations autistic adults have found useful at home, in public, and in the workforce, navigating issues in work spaces, and even just learning what things like shutdowns and nonspeaking episodes are has been huge in helping the three of us adapt and self-accomodate.
There are quite a few great autistic led channels here on CZcams, and the all autistics hashtag on Twitter is another great place to find groups of autistic individuals discussing a whole host of topics related to their experiences and issues faced when navigating life from home to the workplace and beyond.
I agree. I am autistic too.
I'm 21 and don't have enough money to get an autism diagnosis
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i work with autistic kiddos around that age group and i just love them all to pieces 😭 thank you so much for sharing that part of your life, it's something that more people should know about and understand more! those proud little wins we get every day are just the absolute best, and i'm thankful that i get to experience those moments so often 🥺🥺💖
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baby Dory y’all 🥺😭💖
Oh my gawsh I know 😭
The section at the end, so lovely to hear that she's progressing like that! My little brother is also autistic and every step seems like a leap; you both struggle to navigate and make compromises at first but it's gotten so much easier especially in the past year or so (he's 9 now). I can tell you're such a good Dad, you should be very proud of yourself and not only your daughter. Much love xx
39:54 bless you and thank you for sharing. Lots of us are on the spectrum and some people never even know, they just struggle on without a diagnosis. It's good that you're already looking in to getting your daughter a diagnosis, it's a head start in helping her. And with loving supportive parents like you guys I have no doubt she's going to thrive xx
(I hope that's not overstepping at all, I have a tendency to over do it) xx
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31:54 Actually, they can. It's super cool and really interesting that they can actually do that sort of thing. A lot of people have admitted and found that octopus can literally showcase a sense of humor or high level of intelligence.
Here's a few examples:
In a German aquarium lives a octopus named Otto, who learned how to communicated his "boredom" to the employees there. At first, it started with him squirting water at the ceiling lights which ended up shorting out all of the lights in the aquarium which scared the night crew for several days. And during the winter, he shows his boredom by throwing rocks at his display case, juggling hermit crabs and even "redecorating" by moving things around his home.
And to also kind of relate to Hank in this movie, there was an octopus in New Zealand named Sid. Sid was an amazing escape artist who always managed to repeatedly get out of his tank. He once spent five days hiding in a drain from the staff. Finally, they released him back into the wild after way too many escape attempts. One of the spokesperson admitted to the press that Sid was just one of those individuals that hated to be tied up or locked away. He apparently escaped at every opportunity and he could fit through gaps that were two inches wide. They believe that he was anxious to return to the ocean to find a mate, so they let him go back home. Kinda the opposite of Hank's wishes in this movie. XD
I like FInding Dory even more than Finding Nemo. It was completely not what I was expecting. I loved how they pieced together all the parts of her backstory such that what she did in the original was not merely random but had an explanation. So much unconditional love in this movie.
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Setting the main part of this movie in the marine rehabilitation aquarium really helped to organically introduce other characters with disabilities and show how they adapted to navigate the world. Aside from just being a fun movie this film also had a good message about living with disabilities and not to underestimate those who may be navigating the world differently.
My brother was mentally disabled, he learned how to hide it in high school... and I was his voice growing up. Its hard to let them go without you in the end but that a part of growing up. This movie brought a lot of that emotion back for me... and i ended up talking to my mom about my brother (he died just after graduating high school, prepping to leave for college).
I'm so sorry about your brother. Thanks for sharing
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I'm woth you. Special needs bro.. He died 2 yrs ago but hey his last words were he wanted to go to the thrift shop for a new golf.. golf club he meant he was fully paralyzed and died 5 minutes later. Enjoy the little things.
Thank you for your vulnerability, your love and faith in your daughter is so moving. Sending you nothing but love and support, I hope you find comfort in these movies and just like this one, may they all instill hope in you :)
JV, thank you so much for your reaction-and more importantly, sharing your daughter’s story. I know it isn’t always easy to share about a diagnosis, so I appreciate your courage here. I really hope that your family gets all the support (medical, emotional, and otherwise) it needs to help Charlotte thrive.
For what it’s worth, I’ve had a physical disability since birth, and am an adult now. My childhood challenges were probably different than the ones your family faces-but my parents had the same worries you do. I can’t guarantee that everything will turn out okay and you’ll be in a worry-free place one day, but the love and support you give your children count for a lot. Teaching them to be resilient (as you’re already doing) is one of the best things you can do.
Last but not least, you might enjoy the book, “Life, Animated” by Ron Suskind. It’s a memoir by a journalist with an autistic son-more specifically, an autistic son who gained a lot through repeatedly watching Disney movies. Given the nature of your channel, I think you’d enjoy it. (But l hasten to add that this definitely isn’t any kind of suggestion about your daughter! Let her find her own passions in life…) I think it might also have been made into a documentary.
Edit: The book was indeed made into a documentary, and it’s (legitimately) free to stream on CZcams.
I'm 21 who's Autistic and has ADHD! I absolutely love your channel! One of my special interests is reaction videos. It started off in late 2015 where I started watching music reactions to my favourite artists, then it developed into try not to laugh/compilation videos and then last year I got into movie reactions! Looking forward to seeing more content from you!😊💙
Thank you for sharing your story about your daughter 💖 It really touched my heart. I can tell you’re a phenomenal dad she’s so lucky to have you
My brother is autistic and growing up with him was one of the most wonderful experiences I could have gone through. Treat them as normal as possible and they will surprise you with what they can do. They need some extra help here and there but your daughter will be just fine and a wonderful person to be around
9:33 I'm just in love with JV saying "yeah dude, totaly tubular!" heheheheh
Thank you for being vulnerable about your daughter 💗 I never thought how this movie could speak to parents of children who have different needs 💗 Charlotte is blessed to have such great parents!
I have ADHD and I've always related to Dory. I'm constantly forgetting things and am always so easily distracted. She has always been my favorite character, even as a child when I didnt know i even had ADHD and shes treated with so much respect in both the first and second movie its honestly amazing. I will always love her narrative and just her as a character.
I remember crying when I saw this film as well. Once again thank you for sharing your stories with us, it's very touching to know how much a movie can affect and relate to you and all of that.
Also when you were talking about a t-shirt design I was thinking to myself how it could look (since I am in a graphic design class atm) and I was thinking to myself "It would be cool on a mug" and then right as I thought that you talked about a mug lol. So I guess I better try and attempt something, if you haven't already gotten a design yet.
I actually like this movie more than FINDING NEMO, because this is more emotional than the 1st one..
My kiddos are both autistic. My youngest has ADHD and is non-verbal, he’s almost 7, and our oldest is 8 and he’s high functioning. They’re both incredible and capable and supported. Good job mom and dad, support and love is monumental in getting your children to be the best they can be ❤️
Here’s some movies you should check out
Over the hedge
Lion King (old or new)
Rango
Bee movie
Cars (3 movies)
Ant bully
monsters vs aliens
Shrek (3 movies)
Ice age (5 movies)
Madagascar (3 movies)
Shark tale
Turbo
Bolt
I know he would love the Shrek movies 😄
All great recommendations 😁 lion King would be great (original in my opinion though 😉) x
I'd love to see the cars movies
I agree with you completely 👏👏
Shrek has 4 movies
Very happy i just found this video! Finding Dory changed my life, suchhhhhhh a great story and all the relationships and their arcs in this film are so special
My daughter has autism, and this movie hit me the same way. This came out when my daughter was 5 and just getting her feet set under her in terms of communication and such. Establishing ways to help her excel in HER way was, and still is, rough and so emotionally taxing...but gosh, when you see your child finally shine in their own light, it's amazing.
not only have I worked with kids with autism but my brother is on the autism spectrum so I just want to say thank you for sharing your story with us! your daughter is so lucky to have such supportive parents who are working so hard to get her a diagnosis so early in her life. this will help her to get the support and services she needs as she gets older. just remember that whether she develops full verbal speech or not, communication comes in all forms and as long as she is able to communicate in some way, she can still have a full and happy life.
anyway, I really enjoyed this reaction! thanks for always putting out entertaining and authentic reactions. I'm looking forward to the next one ❤️
The Finding Nemos & Inside Outs of the world are so important. Every single main-ish character in this movie has a disability, the Hank is missing a limp, the whale shark has bad eye sight, the beluga can't use his echolocation for most of the movie, and in the end everyone is still able to live a full life, they might need accommodations, but their disabilities don't define them
The cat outside the door may just be my favorite part of this entire experience. 😍 haha
I may not have Autism, but my sister is on the spectrum and I have ADHD. I struggle with remembering things. I'll walk into a room and forget why I'm there, I misplace my phone and glasses almost every day, I forget what I did the day before or what I did an hour ago, I forget important dates and names and birthdays, I get distracted very easily and my mind is always running on fast-forward. In a lot of ways I relate to Dory.
'Klaus' is an amazing movie that you should react to!
Maybe 'accepted' too?
Klaus is great for christmas, accepted is always good!
Holy crap, 43 seconds ago
Edit: thanks for sharing your daughter’s story ❤️ I think that as long as you find ways to work with her needs, like Dory’s parents did, you really can’t go wrong. Looking forward to seeing her on the channel some time!
What a great reaction! I laughed so hard with you and of course I cried with you too. After hearing about your daughter I can see why this would be particularly emotional for you. I'm glad Charlotte has such great parents who are so supportive and engaged in her development. There has never been a time in history in which we are better prepared to help kids with special issues, she will do just fine I'm sure. Thank you for sharing.
.thank you for being brave and opening up to us. I love your reactions, they bring me so much joy. Sending lots of love to you and your family.
I really like this one. I have a non verbal learning disability which no one outside my family is aware of and the fact that the movies heroes are mainly people with disabilities of their own was something I really loved.
I love Fluke and Rudder, the two seals. "GERALD! YOU DON'T COME ON HERE! OFF! OFF! OFF! OFF!"
The driver of the truck with the Blue Tangs at the end is the actor who did the original voice of Nemo.
Fun bit of trivia!
Alexander Gould, Nemo's original voice actor from the first movie, plays one of the drivers in the truck at the end! (Passenger Carl, to be precise.)
i need you to know (from a parent that has made some mistakes in my time and patience) this tiny little glimpse into you as a father lets me know your daughter is Your daughter cause she needs someone like you who understands love and support are most important. you got this. be safe and much love
When I was very little, I was thought of being autistic. I didn't start speaking until after I was 3 years old and was almost sent to a special education preschool. Luckily, I had great speech therapists that helped me through it and now things are great! It's amazing what the right teachers and therapists can do to people, so never give up hope!!
The reaction was great like always, and when u started sharing at the end I started to tear up. Thank you for sharing. :)
This movie was incredibly well done, and everything that you and your family are doing is amazingly admirable. Enjoyed the reaction!
Man I love you so much this channel is so wholesome and beautiful. Thank you for sharing your heart with us blessings to you and your family 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you for sharing that personal story with us, JV. I’m so proud of Charlotte for progressing even when the odds would typically be stacked against her. She has wonderful, loving, and kind parents who are teaching her day by day to believe in herself and know that she’s special in every way. Teach her positive affirmations that she can recite and understand in her own way and she’ll grow to be independent and confident!
🙏 thank you for sharing your personal story ❤. You're so brave in showing your vulnerability. That's important in this world. Have faith in yourself as a parent and in your daughter. She learns, but you learn just as much from her ❤
26:49 That part gets me. After all these times, they were waiting for them and Dory found them again. These white shell is her medicine to follow and remembering
I imagine it was difficult for you to share that *JV.* I'm no doctor, but I will give you my anecdotal experience with two individuals with autism. One young adult and one adult (mid to low on the spectrum).
Of those two, it can be said it is difficult to even tell they're autistic in most circumstances. And after your video, I spoke to one who was diagnosed in her teens, and the issue was mainly growing up with kids who didn't understand. She said she didn't feel any different, but was treated as such.
Kids will be kids, and as I can attest, you don't have to have a disability to be picked on as a kid.
It is good to know that educators and medical professionals know more about it now than they did then.
I was asked to pass on a message to you from one of these individuals: _The best thing you can do for any autistic child is to be loving, patient and supportive._
That being said, regardless of the outcome, when it comes to navigating this world (and life in general), it seems to me that _Charlotte,_ and _Cheyenne_ as well, already have a tremendous advantage having you and _Jane_ as parents. Just know, you have an army of support here and via your other channel.
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Two movies I think you should definitely watch: wolfwalkers, and Tarzan!
Charlotte is lucky to have you guys, and that her autism was identified so early, I'm sure she will have a wonderful life; there will be challenges, but it's just like you said, she will learn to navigate the world in her own way and having the help of loved ones will be essential, so she is already a step ahead of so many children that go with their autism not being identified. But now she has the support of a lot of people she will never meet, but the good energy will be sent her way nonetheless.
I never thought i would cry over fish reuniting...
I enjoyed watching finding Dory, after I graduated from high school.
I don't have any proper words for what you talked about at the end, but I greatly appreciate your vulnerability and everything with sharing. And I wish the best for you and your family in the future!
This is one of the funniest Pixar movies, in my opinion. Emotional, of course, but extremely funny.
My top three requests:
1. The Prince of Egypt
2. The Mitchells vs. The Machines
3. Klaus (a great one for Christmas)
Other random ones in no particular order (some have sequels):
-Hotel Transylvania
-James and the Giant Peach
-The Lego Movie
-Missing Link
-Abominable
-Road to El Dorado
-The Croods
-Shrek
-Antz
-Chicken Run
-Trolls
-Over the Hedge
-A Bugs Life
-Corpse Bride
-Ice Age
-Cars
-The Good Dinosaur
-Cloudy with a Chance of Meatballs
Definitely Klaus! It's so good!!
The perfect list
I didn't discover I was autistic until well into my adult years. If I had been diagnosed in childhood like your daughter I would have received the help that I needed and I wouldn't have struggled as much. The fact that you guys are giving her the tools she needs to thrive and learn in her own way is the best thing you can possibly do for her.
There are programs that help not as verbal kids get access to AAC devices and teach kids and parents how to use them. Idk if you guys have looked into that for her but I know they're useful tools to help your child communicate if they lean toward the "not verbal" side. I even use them on the days talking is just too overwhelming. Thank you for sharing this part of your family with us. I hope we see updates 💜💜
I actually liked this one more than the first one.
Mr. Peabody and Sherman is also a great movie, maybe you can react to that one?
A few seconds in and already knew I would enjoy this reaction! Thanks for sharing your story 🤗
Thank you for sharing. Bless your daughter!
I love how they got from Sydney to california in about 10 seconds or being tubular that’s one strong current to cross the entire Pacific Ocean😂
Presented by Pixar starring Dory voiced by Ellen DeGeneres as the one who gets taken and to a zoo. Marlon and Nemo are on the mission to go get her. While in the zoo Dory encounters a group of various animals each with an issue of their own.
I've never had many mental problems myself but I am nontheless always touched so much by the scene of Dory getting lost just before finding the shell trail. It allways makes me tear up. To me it seems like an obvious reference to depression and finding a way to better places. Start small and just keep swimming and surely the road will take you to better places
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I feel ya, when I first saw this I burst into tears too
Yay I’m early! I was looking forward to seeing your reaction to this one! It gets ya in the feels for sure!! 😊
I like that Dory essentially became the step-mom.
0:32 please tell me I’m not the only one who thought that cat who open the door was a ghost
You guys are the best kind of people to be parents, just period. But coming from a family with lot of disabilities, including autism, you are the best kind of parents for children with nuerodivergance, whatever it may be ❤
Omg i just noticed that you hit 20K subscribers congrats you deserve it!!!
Hi! I just wanted to say, that I love your channel. You have such a beautiful soul, and I really appreciate all the content you put out for us and all the work you do. I wish I had money to join your pattern but I really like watching your reaction vids. I hope you get to accomplish all your goals and all you want in life 💜🙌🏼🌟 and lots of love for you and your gorgeous family 🥺💜
Thank you for sharing, I have Dyslexia and (although it is not as sever as other disabilities) this movie really hit home for me. Especially the "you did it in your own Dory way" made me sob because it is difficult not thinking or behaving like the societal "norm".
33:18 the way he laughed 🤣
It's so great that you are able to come out and talk a little bit about it! It's amazing and awesome that Charlotte is progressing. I wish you and you're family all the blessings in the world! I'm not sure if you are planning to do Christmas theme animated movies, but if you do, a good one to watch if you wanna save it for Christmas time would be The Grinch (with Benedict Cumberbatch) and the Polar Express.
I'm very close to this movie because of how they portrayed disabilities. I'm autistic too but I got my diagnosis at 23 years old...it was a tought life and i wish I had parents that cared so much about me as much as you do with your daughter. Most of us, autistic people, struggle a lot because this world seems built against us. Meltdowns, non verbal episodes, sensory issues are the worst thing ever but I try to see the positive side too. I love that I have so many passions and that I can see the world differently, I can see the nature in a mode vivid way, music makes my body super electric and when I'm happy my body can't contain it so it needs to jump and flap my hands, I think it's amazing.I can assure you that if you're gonna stay with her and learn to know her that would make a huge difference. My parents are learning now how to treat me and how to understand the different ways that I communicate, that's why we're getting closer. My therapist told me is like I speak Japanese and my parents English, we can't understand each other but we can try to find common grounds to communicate in a different way you know? I wish you and your family the best things, have a great day and as always great video!
Great job with the video and thank you so much for sharing your story😊😊😊
Dory is my favorite Finding Nemo character
Thank you for sharing something very personal to you.
You guys are amazing parents I love y’all ❤️
My daughter was 3 when she was diagnosed with autism. she's 9 now, and i know you have a journey ahead of you but you will be humbled and awed by your daughters growth. you'll never stop worrying but there will come a time when you know that she will be able to have a fulfilling life.
my girl didnt use words at all up until 3. then she started speaking, one or 2 words, and pretty much taught herself to read. now at 9 she still struggles with talking but she can express her wants and needs clearly and in complete sentences. she only ever had a casual talk with me once, told me what she was thinking in the car, and I had to pull over because i was bawling like a baby. she's such a sweet and stubborn little girl. she has a bold personality and even with her challenges, she gets everyone she meets rapped around her little finger.
talk about your girl, brag about her. some people might not get it but more people need to be aware. she's no different on the inside than any other kid, she just doesn't express it the same way.
I know what u are goin thru! My 3 year old daughter has autism! It’s been tough seeing her and not be the same as other kids but we gotta stay strong and keep helping our children to get better and loving them
In a way it does make sense that the fish are still in their baggies, plastic takes forever to degrade..
I didnt knew octopus' could........... Drive!? 😂😅🐙😜😜
Bless you, JV, for sharing your daughter’s disability. She’s young, yes, it’s still new to her and your family, but as she grows she will learn to master the world. Our mind grows along with the rest of us.
MORRO BAY CALIFORNIA?? that's where I'm from!!
God bless you and your family, keep up the beautiful work you all are doing in the lives of your daughters. I’m not a parent but my younger brother is autistic and easily the kindest, smartest, funniest person I know. Autistic people are definitely hidden gems, and as you already know when you take the time to pay attention to how they think, they are amazing people. :)
This movie is seriously great when it comes to disability. I'm autistic and yes, I struggle alot because the way I function doesn't work to well with society. Though I do like the message where disabled people can do things when they put their mind to it and how you should support your kids and belive in them, its also important to know that not everything is possible. Like in monsters university, mike put his mind into it to get what he wants. But to do his physical appearance, he isn't able to do it. No mater how hard he try. He just can't. He's not built for it. But he still has the talent and cecame a coach. So be aware that disabled or not, You can do it. But you shouldn't have to push them and pressure them into having these expectations. I have been pressured by my parents and they always expect me to do well. And so when I fail, they just think that I don't want to do it and keep pushing me over and over again and telling me that I can do it and that I jave to stop telling myself that I can't. Like ok I get it. Maybe I can, but I'm just not ready or I'm not built for it. Or maybe I need extra support and a different method in trying to get through. Dory's parents hope that she would come home. She may not return or find them the way a normal person, or this case a fish would. They are aware that she likes shells. So they made a path that would lead them to their home. They also know that dory feels more comfortable around kelp as it makes her feel safe. So they made their home near there through the kelp forest. They tried to think like her to help her get through hopefully. It's weird and different to some people, but it helps them survive. Might not be super convenient for the real world, but it helps as a guide or a bit of a boost. It's kinda like how autistic people would have comfort toys whenever they are stressed. Or when they try to use their own interests to help them remember some school subjects. Also just like what crush said, you will never realy know when they are ready. But if they know, you'll know. Let them see how well they do. But also don't push them to do everything they are expected to do.
It's a hard topic to explain. But I guess the best example is how you can't force someone to make a friend or hang out with them just because you expect them to socialize. And if someone can't talk you can't force them to speak and expect them to talk. You can still jave friends while being an introvert. You can still be happy when alone depending on the person. And there is always another way to communicate if they can't talk such as sign language or using a tablet.
thank you for sharing your story with us. if you want, you should check out this book called “There’s a Boy in Here” which is a semi-autobiography written by an autistic son and his mother. it is set in the 1960’s so negative stigma around austism was strong during this time (some of the content can be uncomfortable) but it gives excellent insight on the thought process of a person with autism. i have full faith your daughter will have an amazing future and life with loving parents like you guys.
Since Alexander Gould have grown up since Nemo, he isn't voicing him in this movie but he does voices the male driver of the Fish Truck at the end of the movie. Sadly the thing can't be said about the swedish dub.
My daughter has schizophrenia and adhd, she was very delayed in speech development and reading etc everything was a struggle, she’s now 19 and has a job and a boyfriend and a bright future, I’m sure she will always have obstacles to overcome but I’m confident now that she will succeed in life. When she was young I was worried she wouldn’t ever be able to live on her own or function in society but with all the help from schools and drs and family she can have a somewhat normal life.
I remember watching this in the cinema,
I was laughing with the kids through most parts of the movie,
Then sobbed with the parents...
I seriously believe I’ve heard every adults there sobbing...
Please watch The Chronicles of Narnia you would Love it 😍
25:09 "No, no no. They have to be alive. There's no way they're dead. They wouldn't have a movie for kids like this." Except, oldschool Disney totally would. They never shied away from death. But they did so in a tasteful manner that kids could understand, without neither traumatizing nor scaring them too much. It's always a fine line, and they always walked it perfectly.
What a movie, though! As you said, even the WATER was beautiful to look at! And they even gave detail to the fish's scales up close!
The first time I saw it, I hated it for some reason--but the second time went better. But it wasn't exactly a happy time. In fact, I was mostly terrified. We get to follow an amnesiatic around as she blunders her way through oceans, aquariums, and fishtanks--and she has nothing but pure luck and her friends to help her. I can relate to Dory, though. I don't have short term memory loss, but I can be directionally challenged as hell. I can easily navigate through outdoor and indoor environments, but it takes a ton of practice. That's why I need so many reminders, pictures, and notes that I can review if I ever have to do it alone. But somewhere in the movie, Dory had to navigate a series of dark and dingy pipes, alone. And it was nerve wracking. She went on the simple directions of "Two lefts, then a right", but she lost her way, and spiraled--getting progressively more flustered, and more lost as a result.
I start driving lessons in just a few days, but I could totally see that happening to me. I may even lose my own car in the parking lot if I don't take a picture of it, and the exact location of where it's parked. And I'm so not looking forward to that. It's just frustrating how I can remember stupid things like song lyrics off the bat after just a couple of listens, when the really important stuff can be a hit or miss, years later. I'm going to try and keep Dory's positive, determined mindset as I go through this, though. "Just keep swimming~"
As an autistic adult i'd like to say is that i believe your kid will be fine. As long as she's allowed to be her true self and feels accepted, that's already a huge help. You're a good person and i can tell how much you love her. It'll be alright. Just remember to keep your kid away from ABA therapy (it's traumatizing) or anyone who tries to 'cure'/change her, as if being autistic would be a bad thing. Being neurodivergent can make life more difficult in many ways, but it can be pretty cool as well. Sending love to you both
Hank the octopus is voiced by Ed O'Neill 😀
Yah I love the ending them saying/telling dory since you can find your own way home you can do what ever you want to put your mind to and will know that we can trust you 🧡. Like I got epilepsy and I can’t get a job for myself because they always say that I might have a seizure at work and I get it some brain flaws have conditions . But I just love you can tell dory’s parents trust her with short term memory loss. But I can’t be trusted alone for more than an hour because my parents think I’ll have a seizure
The Ant Bully and Monster House are a MUST!
I remember going to see this in theaters and the video cut out RIGHT when Dory was lost in the pipes. It came back a minute later, but talk about the worst place to cut off!
Thank you for sharing ❤
I recommand 'happy feet'. I really cry every time i seeing that movie
When you think you saw everything and then suddenly you watch an oktopus driving a truck :P
The giant squid scene used to scare the crap out of me
i just realise that the one who played fluke is the same person as the one who played chief bogo in zootopia. no wonder he sounds familiar
My 5yr old daughter, our first and only kid is autistic. Sounds very similar to how your daughter is.
She started kindergarten this year. Has trouble with communicating. She can try and get her point across with a few words at a time. But she can't do longer sentences nor can follow them like she gets lost midway when said to her. She knows what things are and understands a lot of things. But it's just something with her communication. She's doing great at school so far this year. For 1hr each day she gets 1 on 1 time with the special education teacher. Really helps her focus more.
It's tough brother, it really is. Just give her nothing but love and the support she needs. It's a learning process for the parents as well that's for sure.
Much love man, stay strong. When you get frustrated, cause it does happen. Just remember that little smile looking at you.
Sorry for the rant. Figured I'd chime in as a father who is going through something similar with a kid a few years older