I'm not sure I understand the full meaning of that quote. Is that like if your wife cheats on you but you forgive her rather than leave her, she'll just go & cheat again because forgiving the person is another way of saying to them that you're willing to accept that behaviour, so they'll just do it again thinking they'll get away with it?
Swear to the heart I’m not forgiving anymore I’ve whent by forgive & but never forget but I keep getting betrayed always had my heart on my sleeve now I’m switching it up cause I’m tierd of the fake ion want anything around me if they not giving me back the same energy that give with love & no form of judgment
@Attah Godwin & Hussain Khan : Try to spend time in a comfortable , somewhat lengthy solitude. You learn who you are, who you're not & what you're made of. It will help keep you grounded enough to balance love ❤️ for yourself & whomever else you share it with.
It talks about staying true to yourself and not giving in to any expectations from toxic people and their personalities just because they want what's "best" for you, when really, you hear your own little voice in your head, and it's telling you that you deserve better, and that's what true honor is supposed to be about when you're being a true noble to your former self
It’s strange how you don’t realize something so basic until you hear someone say it. This is a man who took the time to really think about every aspect of his life and the world around him.
I like the quote about enemies hiding among friends. It explains why it is so difficult to recover from a different time in your life. The hard part is admitting you allowed yourself to be that way. It is only when your head is back on your shoulders you realize this.
@@loop1479 I believe the best way to understand an enemy is to befriend them. The hard part is remembering they did not give up their initial feeling toward you when you parted?
You know, many years ago in the early 2000s on some forum was a section that contained quote of great men and women. There were a lot from Hemingway. And I remember guys posting on the forum about him, saying how he was bullshit in that he didn’t walk his talk. How he was insecure, a hypocrite..blah blah. And I read about him and sort of found myself agreeing with what was said about him at the time. Now I’m here listening to some of the quotes from Ernest again and I’m thinking so what? So what if he didn’t walk his talk completely, who the hell does??? No one I know. What matters now is most of the stuff he’s saying here is 100% spot on right, and has so much more meaning to me now. And definitely a lot more relatable.
Buddha said this in the words: "Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else. You are the one who gets burned".
It's worth mentioning that some of these statements are by Hemingway _characters_ rather than by Hemingway himself. Indeed some were contrary to Hemingway's own opinions at the time he wrote them.
@@paultimson6674 was gonna say exactly that: if shooting oneself with a shotgun is not both (proof of) (self-)destruction and defeat than i do not what is. the man sure had an ocean of wise words but this particular one was a swing and a miss, i reckon.
The one you're looking for is at 7:54 Not true, sometimes I do that to give people a boost of confidence to make them feel good about themselves (If I feel they lacked self-confidence) So no need to be afraid of me.
I remember many years ago we were at an Ernest Hemingway Restaurant in Miami Beach. The food was fantastic and the restaurant resembled a museum. We loved it! Have a peaceful Easter Sunday this Sunday everyone! ♡♡♡
@@browncatwithblurredbackgro2461 “We deserve some respect. You deserve some respect. You are important to other people, as much as to yourself. You have some vital role to play in the unfolding destiny of the world.” -Jordan Peterson
My cat is male, dominant in the village - and getting old. Never does he act, react or behave except as he wants. If he has left home it's because he's hunting or mating. If he lying on my couch it's because he has finished hunting or mating and wishes to be stroked. What I want or need is never considered by him. If I stroke him too heavily he will sink his teeth into me without hesitation. Cats are the ultimate in self-fullfillment. Why I've posted this I'm not sure.
@@Martin-sp4zf You live in a village ?? I'm a little jealous. I'm 😫 tired of big city life. I've always been a die-hard NYC girl but after a while it can wear a person down.. What country is yr village in , 🇮🇪 Ireland ? ,European ??? Pls indulge my curiosity ( lol) . Hava pleasant day !THANK YOU .
"They wrote in the old days that it is sweet and fitting to die for ones country. But in modern warfare there is nothing sweet nor fitting in your dying. You will die like a dog for no good reason. " Such a great (and incredibly true) way to put it - and from a man who witnessed it firsthand.
"Dulce et decorum est pro patria mori." (Odes (III.2.13) by the Roman lyric poet Horace.) I suppose it all depends on what each of us is willing to give up for a higher justice.
When speaking of war, which is inevitable, I prefer "The object of war is not to die for your country but to make the other bastard die for his" ~ George S. Patton
He was in that generation that actually found themselves in the midst of battle and carnage. Now,in a subtle way I'm finding those words he railed against being touted again. I keep hearing,if I'm mad enough to listen to some BBC or read mainstream news how wonderful the people of Ukraine,they're sweet really and suitable as pets for us,the poor simple uneducated souls that we can pat on the head with gratifying patronage and to show we love them we should GIVE them (no one ever deploys the word "sell") bloodthirsty weapons of mass destruction,ever and ever hordes more. Hemingway and his generation have warned us in their books,plays and writings.
I've only read his late book,his memoir of life in Paris,his happiness with his lovely wife and unexpected baby,then his decision,despite not loving or admiring his wife one whit less,to get off with her best friend while knowing and acknowledging that he was being a complete bastard.
"Be afraid of a friend who often says flattery to you. TO flatter means to tell a person exactly what he thinks about himself." Can anyone elaborate on what they think it means?
I think it, basically means, that people often flatter others on things they want in their own lives. It could already be there, it's just that they're not aware of it. That of course, only applies to "true" flatteries. Flatteries given, that are a lie, are about wanting to "control" the person you flatter and, perhaps, to change that person into a person more like, or who thinks they are more like, the essence of those flatteries. Flatteries, that are true, are about making the flattered person more aware of who they are as a person through complimenting them for such. And, possibly causing them to flourish, as a human being. Flatteries, that are lies, are about making the flattered person less aware of who they really are and about causing them to behave more, as they were flattered and less like who they really are. Thus, turning them into more of a fool. ANYONE WHO CAN BE SWAYED BY SHEER FLATTERY, CAN BE SWAYED BY ALMOST ANYTHING. AND, is not at all aware of WHO THEY REALLY ARE, INSIDE. This, of course, is MY OWN OPINION. For what it's worth. True flattery is about love, helping others realize a truth they may not otherwise. False flattery is about the lie, about gaining something from the lied to, whether it be something physical or something emotional. That's my own, personal take on it.
My friend flaters people to try to make them feel good but sometimes they can tell she is just saying that, we need to make sure we are giving genuine compliments,right?
One of the best pieces of advice I was given was “ if you are going to get married make sure that you get married in the morning, then if it doesn’t work out, you haven’t wasted the whole day”.
"Write hard and clear about what hurts.." That nailed it. Did that a couple of seconds ago on your other video that brought me here and I'm relieved.. Thanks. 🙂
OH Dear God how true. I lost my wife of 30 years 12/15/21. We loved each other dearly and I still cry every day. God knows how much I so miss you Kim. Such a hole in my heart.
This is so true, I've closed off every selfish out for themselves person's in my life..being too soft and caring about others doesn't work...it only was effective when I was with groups of like minded people all like self, whom understood that giving is also receiving.. and that the purpose in life was to better it...and help others along the way..that has been impossible living where I live because I understand others but i don't fit in...something to do with something I wrote years ago landing in the hands of the wrong people, whom never forget and are hiving of it still. And all because back then I belonged to an Indian group in a local town and enjoyed the company of being with stimulating, intellectual people. Didn't go down well with close family, and those with a cultured racist mind set...and because I wrote about a famous relative whom I had only spoken to family about, because the story got out, the people not liking me and making assumptions about me, thought that passing it all around town meant I must also have money..and how could they make my life hell. All drug addicts and dealers, now I wanna get something straight...its not the drugs that bother me, or their life style as I've mixed and mingled and given healing to these types before in the past...its their anti social behaviour that worries me and how they point the accusing finger at the innocents and not themselves..because in their minds they have already forgotten about it! My life here has been made abject misery..no point reporting to either police or housing nothing ever gets done...What usually happens is the victim moves! And this is a culture moving right across the UK and one our Conservative government needs to look into, because prejudices are rife, and if ya don't fit in or are seen as different by keeping yourself to yourself you are ridiculed and picked on..this is not an isolated incident for me, previous address was due to an ADHD child. Here it's because I did a test run in writing and therapy it got out by people I trusted and instead of keeping it safe until I collected it, it was being passed all over the world from the UK. Its not much to expect to be left alone and to lead a quiet and peaceful solitary life of my choosing...thank you
Lot of good thoughts here, and a lot of his words allude to Nietzsche's famous statement that whatever doesn't kill us makes us stronger - sometimes, but also sometimes all that happens is that we just manage to survive somehow, but with pieces broken inside!
I am totally impressed with every single quotes ‼️ He is very romantic 🌟 “Never to go on trips with anyone you do not love .” I went to his house in Key West , Florida few times . His cats are everywhere in his garden , I mean his cats great grand cats …
Where the height of efforts is high, luck also has to bow down! So don't curse your luck but keep on trying because trying is the only way :- To get success ️❤️
With all the practical thinking about life still, Hemingway decided to end it all ! This is a fine example of having knowledge doesn’t necessarily change the behaviour. I loved all his novels ❤
Love these: 0:23: "Courage is grace under pressure." -Ernest Hemingway 5:21, "When you love you wish to do things for. You wish to sacrifice for. You wish to serve." -Ernest Hemingway 7:19, "There isn't always an explanation for everything." -Ernest Hemingway
Hemmingway was always aobut profound truths, very serious and often dark ones. He did say, "There is no hunting like the hunting of man, and those who have hunted armed men long enough and liked it, never care for anything else thereafter". I prefer that darkness a little lighter from Jerry Garcia's point of view when he said, "Every silver lining has a touch of grey" ;)
Edison was a prime example of what greed can cause people to become and how they treat other people to get what they think they are entitled which is a terrible way to live life by stabbing others in the back to get ahead in life🤔😳
David said in 2 Samuel, “Who am I, Oh Sovereign Lord, and what is my family, that you have brought me this far?” David was looking back over his life and wondering, “How did I get here? I was a shepherd, now I’m a king. I’m respected; I have a lasting dynasty.” He said, “It could only be one thing: the Sovereign God.” Five times in the next few versus, he referred to God as sovereign. In verse 28 he said, “Oh Sovereign Lord, You have promised good things to me.” The Sovereign Lord has good things for you. It’s not based on how well you perform, who likes you, what family you come from, what the economy does. These are blessings, favor, breakthroughs that God has already written in your script.
@@rensou82 I know that we're told not to ask questions of God, that He says He will bless whom He will bless, but it would be interesting to know the reasons. He created us with a brain, to seek knowledge, so why wouldn't it be fair to ask?
Every Man's life ends the same way. It is only the details of how he lived and how he died that distinguish one Man from another. If you live a fruitful life it may inspire others to do the same...
I believe that travel can be very worthwhile. We go to a place we don't belong and make the best of it, exercising our wits. And I learned that traveling physically taught me to travel in my life. Self reliance is confidence and imagination.
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking". -Steve Jobs 🔥🔥🔥
In other words don't take it on board just because they tell you it's The Science and it's been thoroughly researched by people who are cleverer than you. Because they're lying.
I read "a farewell to arms" . Did not always agree with all it thank god. That's what made it great. A man's perspective about war. The book still haunts me.
Why? Maybe he or she is content in their own company? Nevertheless Hemingway clearly wasn't looking for friends. He was his own worst enemy. He must have had serious mental health issues. If he had genuine friends and friendship then maybe he wouldn't have ended up committing suicide?
No all men ………….are not women just or more important…….I am thought a fool by so many and many more have almost a need or reason to have be convinced I am nothing at all…..but as I look back as far as I can to history……I find almost invariably that behind the greatest of men there is an even much greater but often quite silent greater woman!!!!!
“Silence is a source of Great Strength.” “To a mind that is still the whole universe surrenders.” “Those who know do not speak. Those who speak do not know.” “Be still. Stillness reveals the secrets of eternity” -Lao Tzu
At the time I asked my father why Ernest Hemingway committed suicide? His answer was because he was a coward. It wasn’t until long after I found out Hemingway had cancer which at the time there was very little that could be done to treat it much less cure or put it in remission. His pain must have been immeasurable
Pain can cause a human to do things they normally wouldn’t think of doing in order to get relief and especially when they see the end of the road is near!
Have read all his books.....War is hell and there is nothing romantic about it.... Worrying is for women and losers...... Guns are not toys...... A true man lives for himself and dies for others, a coward lives for others and dies for himself ..... That is the great fallacy, men do not grow wise in old age, they grow careful..... From him I learned to be true to myself and in that way to be so to and for others, to never take a day or a word or a gesture for granted, and to love as passionately as possible at every moment that is given to me to enjoy, for nothing is guaranteed.
"Every day is a new day. It is better to be lucky. But I would rather be exact. Then when luck comes you are ready" - Ernest Hemingway. this is the ultimate crypto quote.
"Worry a little bit every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of years. If something is wrong, fix it if you can. But train yourself not to worry - Worry never fixes anything."
I starting watching these videos couple months ago and really enjoy the different points of views on various subjects and Im starting to pick up on certain common observations and truths.... And Alcohol strangely enough wine in particular... Just saying.
7:54 The one about flattery, perhaps that is what distinguishes it from 'complimentary.' To flatter is, perhaps, to compliment with the intention of getting something out of it or achieving an end goal. To compliment, at least when I do it, is to share a sincere element of good that I perceive. I believe that if you feel inclined to compliment someone about something, to do it, just do it. Their hat, their dress, the way they do something impressively, whatever it is. If you notice something about someone and you like that thing that you notice, provided it's not indecent like 'nice ass' or 'nice tits' or something, then say it. Or, take that indecent compliment and make it more broad, "You look outstanding." Regardless, though, if a compliment or a bit of flattery is not GENUINE then it is MANIPULATION. So whatever it is, be genuine about it. Do not LOOK for compliments to give or flattery to deliver. If you notice something you like or are impressed by, seems to me that in all my experimentation with the concept, it does no harm to say so. If the person you compliment takes issue with your words, that's their problem. If the person you compliment is with someone (maybe a partner or spouse) who takes issue with it, then it seems to me to likely be a sign of lacking in terms of either self-confidence or trust. I can still remember, taking a photograph of a duck that was probably eating grass or something. I gave a quack like a duck as I did so, deadpan, just one singular "Quack" as I handled my DSLR camera. I then realized that a young woman was coming near on the sidewalk behind me, passing by. She may well have heard me quack, she already had a bit of a smile on her face. I looked back to her, paused as I held my camera, looked her up and down, and quite genuinely said "You look LOVELY today." Something like that. She seemed ever so slightly flustered, grinned more broadly, maybe touched her hair or something and replied quite happily "Thank you." Honestly I felt as though I had a genuine impact on her day, and that perhaps she may have even fancied me a bit. I imagine if I spun about and decided to walk along with her in a spontaneous conversation that she'd have been very happy to chat with me, may have even giggled pleasantly if I turned the camera to her as she walked by, growing shyly self-conscious and flustered yet complimented at someone turning a seemingly expensive camera in her direction. Depending on how things may have went, perhaps I'd have ended up marrying her instead of my current wife. Who knows? Nice tits on that one, though, as I recall. Probably a nice ass, too. And if I said so, perhaps in her case if I talked her up well enough, she'd have been VERY pleased to hear it. But careful in your own experimentation in social interaction. It's a skill like any other, a skill I discovered I was extremely lacking in when I was in my mid-20s or so. Knew I had to fix that, and well, I like to think that I did. I'm also a full-time writer, something I've managed to accomplish at a younger age than Charles Bukowski, though perhaps not quite so in terms of Ernest Hemmingway. Also by 'full-time,' I mean it manages to pay the bills and rent and what not. For Hemmingway, he wrote 'A Fairwell to Arms' at 30 years old it seems or maybe his late 20s. I imagine that did quite a bit more than 'pay the bills' lol Though in my defense, I had not experienced a world war to get wounded in and write about. Nah I just grew up poor with shitty parents, been homeless before, and became an alcoholic. Might be a bit cookie-cutter for many authors who 'make it,' though have I truly 'made it?' I rely on those who commission from me. Without them, I'd be unemployed and a drain on my wife unless I manage to get a job. I hate jobs... much like Bukowski did I suppose.
@@MohsinExperiments sounds more like an incentive to commit suicide. If there is life after, why be scared of death? Why hang onto a life where you are poor, miserable, neglected, abused, sick and tired when you could have another thats better? If you have only one life, then you gotta make it count! You have to find joy in pain, to be good to those around you and keep holding on for their sake, and find a way to make life a little better so you know you didnt waste your one and only precious life.
@@Sakuyamon Let me explain with an example. An old person who doesn't believe in life after death. He lost his family in an accident. He doesn't have money because he spent it to save the life of his son who was injured but he couldn't recover and died. How he will continue living with all this pain and suffering? On the other hand if he believes in life after death then he knows that he will meet his family one day and he will pray for them and do good deeds to go to paradise. He will also know that committing the suicide will send him to hell and he will not be able to meet his family again if he commits suicide.
You're not where you want to be. You feel like you're supposed to be somewhere else. Well, say you could snap your fingers and be wherever you wanted to be. I bet you'd still feel this way. Not in the right place. Point is, you can't get so hung up on where you'd rather be that you forget to make the most of where you are. What i'm saying is, Take a break from worrying what you can't control. Live a little. It's funny. We all have dreams. We plan our futures like we're the captain of our fates. But we're passengers. We go where fate takes us.
I can whole-heartedly relate to many of his quotes yet some others leave me dumbfounded🤔 I.E. “Wine brings out the good in you? He obviously hasn’t known any of the folks I have! 😜
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"The one who forgave the betrayal is waiting for a new betrayal." So true.
That's what I wait for everyday
-And whoever doesn't forgive treason, I'll never find her again-
I'm not sure I understand the full meaning of that quote.
Is that like if your wife cheats on you but you forgive her rather than leave her, she'll just go & cheat again because forgiving the person is another way of saying to them that you're willing to accept that behaviour, so they'll just do it again thinking they'll get away with it?
@@carpathianken perhaps
Swear to the heart I’m not forgiving anymore I’ve whent by forgive & but never forget but I keep getting betrayed always had my heart on my sleeve now I’m switching it up cause I’m tierd of the fake ion want anything around me if they not giving me back the same energy that give with love & no form of judgment
The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much and forgetting that you're special too.
-All thinking men are atheists-
This is something I struggle with and don't know how to control my passion
@Attah Godwin & Hussain Khan : Try to spend time in a comfortable , somewhat lengthy solitude. You learn who you are, who you're not & what you're made of. It will help keep you grounded enough to balance love ❤️ for yourself & whomever else you share it with.
@@husane70 it is common in man but never seen in a woman because it is all about her self
Them soul ties
"There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man, true nobility is being superior to your former self" THE BEST QUOTE FROM ERNEST M H 💚💚
It talks about staying true to yourself and not giving in to any expectations from toxic people and their personalities just because they want what's "best" for you, when really, you hear your own little voice in your head, and it's telling you that you deserve better, and that's what true honor is supposed to be about when you're being a true noble to your former self
@@masterjmv2374 yes true that 💯
yet half of the quotes here are him being superior to his fellow man.
did he shoot himself?
' ...may you envy your own potential...'
It’s strange how you don’t realize something so basic until you hear someone say it. This is a man who took the time to really think about every aspect of his life and the world around him.
It's a great thing to have a sensitive enough soul, to capture the aspects of life that are more fulfilling than what most people percieve ❤️
Lay off your daily distractions and you can, too
"We find our neglected thoughts in the words of a genius". Ralph Waldo Emerson.
"In order to write about life, first you must live it"
- Ernest Hemingway
Worrying is a useless exercise .
Any good books on life?
Talked about this just last week. Have you ever listened to the words in the songs Ozzie writes. He's been there. You can't make that stuff up.
@@condorX2 No . To live life , you write your own book . It will probably be the coolest book .
We live life through eachother and experiences...the more we share, relate and actively interact, the more...
"Never to go on trips with anyone you do not love"
The Greatest novelist
Lots of solitary travel then.
I like the quote about enemies hiding among friends. It explains why it is so difficult to recover from a different time in your life. The hard part is admitting you allowed yourself to be that way. It is only when your head is back on your shoulders you realize this.
Sounds like politicians to me. That's what comes to mind anyway.
@@loop1479 I believe the best way to understand an enemy is to befriend them. The hard part is remembering they did not give up their initial feeling toward you when you parted?
Consider you may be the enemy
Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.
You know, many years ago in the early 2000s on some forum was a section that contained quote of great men and women. There were a lot from Hemingway. And I remember guys posting on the forum about him, saying how he was bullshit in that he didn’t walk his talk. How he was insecure, a hypocrite..blah blah. And I read about him and sort of found myself agreeing with what was said about him at the time. Now I’m here listening to some of the quotes from Ernest again and I’m thinking so what? So what if he didn’t walk his talk completely, who the hell does??? No one I know. What matters now is most of the stuff he’s saying here is 100% spot on right, and has so much more meaning to me now. And definitely a lot more relatable.
I agree with you. We all fail to live up to our ideals. Because it's harder to do than it looks.
"Anger if not restrained, is frequently more harmful to us than the injury that provokes it." - Seneca
-All thinking men are atheists-
Yy true
Buddha said this in the words: "Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else. You are the one who gets burned".
It's worth mentioning that some of these statements are by Hemingway _characters_ rather than by Hemingway himself. Indeed some were contrary to Hemingway's own opinions at the time he wrote them.
Examples?
"But man is not made for defeat, a man can be destroyed but not defeated."
- Ernest Hemingway
Ukraine 🇺🇦
@@nicholaskearney678 Hahahahahah
Hemingway was a Communist.
In the Spanish Civil War he supported the side who murdered thousands of priests and nuns!
"But man is not made for defeat, a man can be destroyed but not defeated." ps, have you seen my shotgun? i feel defeated.
@@paultimson6674 was gonna say exactly that: if shooting oneself with a shotgun is not both (proof of) (self-)destruction and defeat than i do not what is. the man sure had an ocean of wise words but this particular one was a swing and a miss, i reckon.
The one you're looking for is at 7:54
Not true, sometimes I do that to give people a boost of confidence to make them feel good about themselves (If I feel they lacked self-confidence)
So no need to be afraid of me.
Exactly my thoughts 🔥 and thanks for the timestamp btw :)
He might be referring to people that specifically say only things that people want to hear. Although if that is the case, it was not said very well.
Thanks, and agreed.
I think he's talking about narcissists. And yes, you should definitely be afraid of getting tangled up with them!
Yeah
I remember many years ago we were at an Ernest Hemingway Restaurant in Miami Beach. The food was fantastic and the restaurant resembled a museum. We loved it!
Have a peaceful Easter Sunday this Sunday everyone! ♡♡♡
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-All thinking men are atheists-
Same to you and yours.. God bless.. good knights
When you love you wish to do things for, you wish to sacrifice for, you wish to serve... I think that's a great one
"There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man, true nobility is being superior to your former self"
"I believe that individuals nowadays are probably more aware of their inner loneliness than has
ever been true before in history." -Carl Rogers
@@browncatwithblurredbackgro2461 “We deserve some respect. You deserve some respect. You are important to other people, as
much as to yourself. You have some vital role to play in the unfolding destiny of the world.” -Jordan Peterson
"A cat has absolute emotional honesty: human beings, for one reason or another, may hide their feelings, but a cat does not."
Absolutely true.
My cat is male, dominant in the village - and getting old.
Never does he act, react or behave except as he wants.
If he has left home it's because he's hunting or mating.
If he lying on my couch it's because he has finished hunting or mating and wishes to be stroked.
What I want or need is never considered by him.
If I stroke him too heavily he will sink his teeth into me without hesitation.
Cats are the ultimate in self-fullfillment.
Why I've posted this I'm not sure.
@@Martin-sp4zf You live in a village ?? I'm a little jealous. I'm 😫 tired of big city life. I've always been a die-hard NYC girl but after a while it can wear a person down.. What country is yr village in , 🇮🇪 Ireland ? ,European ??? Pls indulge my curiosity ( lol) . Hava pleasant day !THANK YOU .
"They wrote in the old days that it is sweet and fitting to die for ones country. But in modern warfare there is nothing sweet nor fitting in your dying. You will die like a dog for no good reason. "
Such a great (and incredibly true) way to put it - and from a man who witnessed it firsthand.
"Dulce et decorum est pro patria mori." (Odes (III.2.13) by the Roman lyric poet Horace.) I suppose it all depends on what each of us is willing to give up for a higher justice.
When speaking of war, which is inevitable, I prefer "The object of war is not to die for your country but to make the other bastard die for his" ~ George S. Patton
@@dr.skipkazarian5556 ;
Wilfred Owen also has a poem by that name. He was a WW1 soldier and poet. Look him up. He's good!
He was in that generation that actually found themselves in the midst of battle and carnage. Now,in a subtle way I'm finding those words he railed against being touted again. I keep hearing,if I'm mad enough to listen to some BBC or read mainstream news how wonderful the people of Ukraine,they're sweet really and suitable as pets for us,the poor simple uneducated souls that we can pat on the head with gratifying patronage and to show we love them we should GIVE them (no one ever deploys the word "sell") bloodthirsty weapons of mass destruction,ever and ever hordes more. Hemingway and his generation have warned us in their books,plays and writings.
@@Temulon Well put!
Hemingway's quotes show really intelligent he was even if you haven't read one of his novels.
I've only read his late book,his memoir of life in Paris,his happiness with his lovely wife and unexpected baby,then his decision,despite not loving or admiring his wife one whit less,to get off with her best friend while knowing and acknowledging that he was being a complete bastard.
“If you think you’re perfect already, then you never will be.
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"The impression I get of Hemingway, is that he was always very Earnest"...John Harrison 2022
"This is kind of clever so I doubt in its origin." -Wushiba 2022
"Be afraid of a friend who often says flattery to you. TO flatter means to tell a person exactly what he thinks about himself." Can anyone elaborate on what they think it means?
I think it, basically means, that people often flatter others on things they want in their own lives. It could already be there, it's just that they're not aware of it. That of course, only applies to "true" flatteries. Flatteries given, that are a lie, are about wanting to "control" the person you flatter and, perhaps, to change that person into a person more like, or who thinks they are more like, the essence of those flatteries. Flatteries, that are true, are about making the flattered person more aware of who they are as a person through complimenting them for such. And, possibly causing them to flourish, as a human being. Flatteries, that are lies, are about making the flattered person less aware of who they really are and about causing them to behave more, as they were flattered and less like who they really are. Thus, turning them into more of a fool. ANYONE WHO CAN BE SWAYED BY SHEER FLATTERY, CAN BE SWAYED BY ALMOST ANYTHING. AND, is not at all aware of WHO THEY REALLY ARE, INSIDE. This, of course, is MY OWN OPINION. For what it's worth. True flattery is about love, helping others realize a truth they may not otherwise. False flattery is about the lie, about gaining something from the lied to, whether it be something physical or something emotional. That's my own, personal take on it.
My friend flaters people to try to make them feel good but sometimes they can tell she is just saying that, we need to make sure we are giving genuine compliments,right?
The point always speak the truth but in a loving and kind way! Love is the greatest gift anyone can give or receive!
One of the best pieces of advice I was given was “ if you are going to get married make sure that you get married in the morning, then if it doesn’t work out, you haven’t wasted the whole day”.
"Write hard and clear about what hurts.." That nailed it. Did that a couple of seconds ago on your other video that brought me here and I'm relieved.. Thanks. 🙂
The world breaks everyone and afterwards it makes you strong in all the broken places
If 2 people love each other there can't be a happy ending hits hard...
OH Dear God how true. I lost my wife of 30 years 12/15/21. We loved each other dearly and I still cry every day. God knows how much I so miss you Kim. Such a hole in my heart.
I was making dinner, and hearing all these quotes had me crying because of how deep these quotes were from Papa Hemingway.
Fantastic collection of quotes from a master of living in the world of injustice .TY!
We are all Broken, Thats how the light gets in
Ernest Hemingway
"There's a crack in everything.... that's how the light gets in" L. Cohen, channelling EH??
@@geoffhastwell6870 Maybe
This is so true, I've closed off every selfish out for themselves person's in my life..being too soft and caring about others doesn't work...it only was effective when I was with groups of like minded people all like self, whom understood that giving is also receiving.. and that the purpose in life was to better it...and help others along the way..that has been impossible living where I live because I understand others but i don't fit in...something to do with something I wrote years ago landing in the hands of the wrong people, whom never forget and are hiving of it still. And all because back then I belonged to an Indian group in a local town and enjoyed the company of being with stimulating, intellectual people. Didn't go down well with close family, and those with a cultured racist mind set...and because I wrote about a famous relative whom I had only spoken to family about, because the story got out, the people not liking me and making assumptions about me, thought that passing it all around town meant I must also have money..and how could they make my life hell. All drug addicts and dealers, now I wanna get something straight...its not the drugs that bother me, or their life style as I've mixed and mingled and given healing to these types before in the past...its their anti social behaviour that worries me and how they point the accusing finger at the innocents and not themselves..because in their minds they have already forgotten about it! My life here has been made abject misery..no point reporting to either police or housing nothing ever gets done...What usually happens is the victim moves! And this is a culture moving right across the UK and one our Conservative government needs to look into, because prejudices are rife, and if ya don't fit in or are seen as different by keeping yourself to yourself you are ridiculed and picked on..this is not an isolated incident for me, previous address was due to an ADHD child. Here it's because I did a test run in writing and therapy it got out by people I trusted and instead of keeping it safe until I collected it, it was being passed all over the world from the UK. Its not much to expect to be left alone and to lead a quiet and peaceful solitary life of my choosing...thank you
"Life Isn't Hard To Manage When You've Nothing To Lose" Now That's A Classic
"you cant get away from yourself by moving from one place to another". i love this.
i have some quotes on my channel too
Lot of good thoughts here, and a lot of his words allude to Nietzsche's famous statement that whatever doesn't kill us makes us stronger - sometimes, but also sometimes all that happens is that we just manage to survive somehow, but with pieces broken inside!
"People's running for money, car, fame but I walk for find me. " G. Sinha
I am totally impressed with every single quotes ‼️
He is very romantic 🌟
“Never to go on
trips with anyone you
do not love .”
I went to his house in Key West , Florida few times .
His cats are everywhere in his garden , I mean his cats great grand cats …
-All thinking men are atheists-
Where the height of efforts is high, luck also has to bow down! So don't curse your luck but keep on trying because trying is the only way :- To get success ️❤️
"Whatever you are,be a good one"
- Abraham Lincoln
With all the practical thinking about life still, Hemingway decided to end it all ! This is a fine example of having knowledge doesn’t necessarily change the behaviour. I loved all his novels ❤
Just because one has vast knowledge doesn’t mean they had meaning in their life! Life without meaning is not a life he wanted to live🤔😳
He was in constant pain from injuries sustained in a plane crash. Pain will wear you down. When there is no hope, these things happen.
Love these:
0:23: "Courage is grace under pressure." -Ernest Hemingway
5:21, "When you love you wish to do things for. You wish to sacrifice for. You wish to serve." -Ernest Hemingway
7:19, "There isn't always an explanation for everything." -Ernest Hemingway
The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall.
“Fail forward!”
Hemingway is a big favorite of mine.
"A cat has absolute emotional honesty: human beings, for one reason or another, may hide their feelings, but a cat does not." So true
How do you know this? You are presenting speculation as fact.
" When you love you wish to do things for. You wish to sacrifice for. You wish to serve."
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When I read these quotes I realize I was never alone
The seriousness of the cat quote cracked me up! it was funny, true, and funny!
Hemmingway was always aobut profound truths, very serious and often dark ones. He did say, "There is no hunting like the hunting of man, and those who have hunted armed men long enough and liked it, never care for anything else thereafter".
I prefer that darkness a little lighter from Jerry Garcia's point of view when he said, "Every silver lining has a touch of grey" ;)
Ernest Hemingway's quotes are really inspiring for one.Thank you for sharing them through this video.
I am not handsome
but I can give my
hand to someone
who needs help...
Because beauty is
required in heart not
in face..
"When I have fully decided that a result is worth getting, I go ahead of it and make trial after trial until it comes."
Thomas Edison ❤️
Is that the same Edison who stole and bought others inventions and passed then off as his own?
Edison was a prime example of what greed can cause people to become and how they treat other people to get what they think they are entitled which is a terrible way to live life by stabbing others in the back to get ahead in life🤔😳
“If you don’t have obvious enemies then they are hiding amongst your friends “
FACTS
David said in 2 Samuel, “Who am I, Oh Sovereign Lord, and what is my family, that you have brought me this far?” David was looking back over his life and wondering, “How did I get here? I was a shepherd, now I’m a king. I’m respected; I have a lasting dynasty.” He said, “It could only be one thing: the Sovereign God.” Five times in the next few versus, he referred to God as sovereign. In verse 28 he said, “Oh Sovereign Lord, You have promised good things to me.” The Sovereign Lord has good things for you. It’s not based on how well you perform, who likes you, what family you come from, what the economy does. These are blessings, favor, breakthroughs that God has already written in your script.
Yes ... for some, blessings, favor, etc but not for all of us. Wonder what His criteria is?
@@chrisa1146 Shush! You aren't supposed to make questions! I learned that bit a least in my childhood.
@@rensou82 I know that we're told not to ask questions of God, that He says He will bless whom He will bless, but it would be interesting to know the reasons. He created us with a brain, to seek knowledge, so why wouldn't it be fair to ask?
@@chrisa1146 Even Jesus questioned God, I have no problem doing the same. Lol
SUPERB QUOTES FROM A WONDERFUL MIND. THANKS FOR THIS.
For such wise and beautiful words, from such a person, to loose his own life to suicide, is a loss to us all.
Every Man's life ends the same way. It is only the details of how he lived and how he died that distinguish one Man from another. If you live a fruitful life it may inspire others to do the same...
*-All thinking men are atheists-*
“Opinion is the medium between knowledge and ignorance.” Plato
All things truly wicked starts from innocence.
I believe that travel can be very worthwhile. We go to a place we don't belong and make the best of it, exercising our wits. And I learned that traveling physically taught me to travel in my life. Self reliance is confidence and imagination.
The hardest way to find out if you can trust someone….trust someone!
Thank you sir for providing such an eye-opener quotes
"If you are sad you cant be happy", deep I know
When you love you wish to do things for. You wish to sacrife for. You wish to serve.
Ernest Hemingway's Quotes are eye opening! ❤❤❤
Wise words indeed.
-All thinking men are atheists-
Yes they are
"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma - which is living with the results of other people's thinking". -Steve Jobs
🔥🔥🔥
Absolute get your own relationship experience express from there
In other words don't take it on board just because they tell you it's The Science and it's been thoroughly researched by people who are cleverer than you. Because they're lying.
The greatest American author in my opinion.
I read "a farewell to arms" . Did not always agree with all it thank god. That's what made it great. A man's perspective about war. The book still haunts me.
His war novels do not glorify the soldiers.
This was comforting to listen to have a awesome weekend everyone 🧘🏽♀️ 💜 meow 🐈⬛
Thank You. I needed to know these to end my sufferings.
I understand..... Hemingway says " A cat has absolute honesty" I have two cats and I we smile every day. They are the best teachers!!...
"Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else. You are the one who gets burned".
- Buddha
Another favorite quote from Hemmingway: If a man is not looking 4 friends, than he is his own enemy.
Why? Maybe he or she is content in their own company? Nevertheless Hemingway clearly wasn't looking for friends. He was his own worst enemy. He must have had serious mental health issues. If he had genuine friends and friendship then maybe he wouldn't have ended up committing suicide?
"All thinking men are atheists."
Einstein: "Am I a joke to you?"
He was using the word "God" metaphorically.
No all men ………….are not women just or more important…….I am thought a fool by so many and many more have almost a need or reason to have be convinced I am nothing at all…..but as I look back as far as I can to history……I find almost invariably that behind the greatest of men there is an even much greater but often quite silent greater woman!!!!!
This channel is my inspiration ❤️
2:12 that quote is legendary for me.
It was being so cheerful that kept him going.
yes
One of these quotes made me realize how superior this person is compared to me
“Silence is a source of Great Strength.”
“To a mind that is still the whole universe surrenders.”
“Those who know do not speak. Those who speak do not know.”
“Be still. Stillness reveals the secrets of eternity”
-Lao Tzu
At the time I asked my father why Ernest Hemingway committed suicide? His answer was because he was a coward.
It wasn’t until long after I found out Hemingway had cancer which at the time there was very little that could be done to treat it much less cure or put it in remission.
His pain must have been immeasurable
Pain can cause a human to do things they normally wouldn’t think of doing in order to get relief and especially when they see the end of the road is near!
Have read all his books.....War is hell and there is nothing romantic about it.... Worrying is for women and losers...... Guns are not toys...... A true man lives for himself and dies for others, a coward lives for others and dies for himself ..... That is the great fallacy, men do not grow wise in old age, they grow careful..... From him I learned to be true to myself and in that way to be so to and for others, to never take a day or a word or a gesture for granted, and to love as passionately as possible at every moment that is given to me to enjoy, for nothing is guaranteed.
Makes me wiser with each one of them. Period.
*_-All thinking men are atheists-_*
If I were reading back your dictation, it would end with _...them period period period_
"Every day is a new day. It is better to be lucky. But I would rather be exact. Then when luck comes you are ready" - Ernest Hemingway.
this is the ultimate crypto quote.
My favorite is "The world is a fine place and worth dying for. I agree with the last part."
I am watching this from South Wales, UK. Best quotes.
"There are so many women with whom you can sleep and so few women with whom you can talk."
...I'd like a minute for rebuttal.
"The Sun Also Rises" all talk and no action as a war victim
There are so many men with whom you can talk, but so few men with whom you can enjoy the conversation.
Live every day as if it were your last, and, one day, you'll be right
St. Louis Missouri, USA. Be kind. Always. Out lies and evil.
Wise quotes...I loved it
*_-All thinking men are atheists-_*
This fills my fro with knowledge.😎
"Worry a little bit every day and in a lifetime you will lose a couple of years. If something is wrong, fix it if you can. But train yourself not to worry -
Worry never fixes anything."
I starting watching these videos couple months ago and really enjoy the different points of views on various subjects and Im starting to pick up on certain common observations and truths.... And Alcohol strangely enough wine in particular... Just saying.
*_-All thinking men are atheists-_*
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The one about flattery, perhaps that is what distinguishes it from 'complimentary.' To flatter is, perhaps, to compliment with the intention of getting something out of it or achieving an end goal. To compliment, at least when I do it, is to share a sincere element of good that I perceive. I believe that if you feel inclined to compliment someone about something, to do it, just do it. Their hat, their dress, the way they do something impressively, whatever it is. If you notice something about someone and you like that thing that you notice, provided it's not indecent like 'nice ass' or 'nice tits' or something, then say it. Or, take that indecent compliment and make it more broad, "You look outstanding."
Regardless, though, if a compliment or a bit of flattery is not GENUINE then it is MANIPULATION. So whatever it is, be genuine about it. Do not LOOK for compliments to give or flattery to deliver. If you notice something you like or are impressed by, seems to me that in all my experimentation with the concept, it does no harm to say so. If the person you compliment takes issue with your words, that's their problem. If the person you compliment is with someone (maybe a partner or spouse) who takes issue with it, then it seems to me to likely be a sign of lacking in terms of either self-confidence or trust.
I can still remember, taking a photograph of a duck that was probably eating grass or something. I gave a quack like a duck as I did so, deadpan, just one singular "Quack" as I handled my DSLR camera. I then realized that a young woman was coming near on the sidewalk behind me, passing by. She may well have heard me quack, she already had a bit of a smile on her face. I looked back to her, paused as I held my camera, looked her up and down, and quite genuinely said "You look LOVELY today." Something like that. She seemed ever so slightly flustered, grinned more broadly, maybe touched her hair or something and replied quite happily "Thank you." Honestly I felt as though I had a genuine impact on her day, and that perhaps she may have even fancied me a bit. I imagine if I spun about and decided to walk along with her in a spontaneous conversation that she'd have been very happy to chat with me, may have even giggled pleasantly if I turned the camera to her as she walked by, growing shyly self-conscious and flustered yet complimented at someone turning a seemingly expensive camera in her direction. Depending on how things may have went, perhaps I'd have ended up marrying her instead of my current wife. Who knows?
Nice tits on that one, though, as I recall. Probably a nice ass, too. And if I said so, perhaps in her case if I talked her up well enough, she'd have been VERY pleased to hear it. But careful in your own experimentation in social interaction. It's a skill like any other, a skill I discovered I was extremely lacking in when I was in my mid-20s or so. Knew I had to fix that, and well, I like to think that I did. I'm also a full-time writer, something I've managed to accomplish at a younger age than Charles Bukowski, though perhaps not quite so in terms of Ernest Hemmingway. Also by 'full-time,' I mean it manages to pay the bills and rent and what not. For Hemmingway, he wrote 'A Fairwell to Arms' at 30 years old it seems or maybe his late 20s. I imagine that did quite a bit more than 'pay the bills' lol Though in my defense, I had not experienced a world war to get wounded in and write about. Nah I just grew up poor with shitty parents, been homeless before, and became an alcoholic. Might be a bit cookie-cutter for many authors who 'make it,' though have I truly 'made it?' I rely on those who commission from me. Without them, I'd be unemployed and a drain on my wife unless I manage to get a job. I hate jobs... much like Bukowski did I suppose.
NORMAN ; Thou art a character ! My true love @ at the age of 16 & the father of my only child also, is named Norman
Hemingway is favorite quote. Happiness is the rarest thing I know in intelligent people Ernest Hemingway
Beautiful! A real man, a true person!
Strange how a man who wrote so strongly against suicide ended up committing it.
So true. He was a very sick man though at the end. He wasn’t really the man we think of as Ernest Hemingway.
The best way to keep ourselves from committing the suicide is to believe in the life after death.
He suffered from bi-polar disorder.
@@MohsinExperiments sounds more like an incentive to commit suicide. If there is life after, why be scared of death? Why hang onto a life where you are poor, miserable, neglected, abused, sick and tired when you could have another thats better? If you have only one life, then you gotta make it count! You have to find joy in pain, to be good to those around you and keep holding on for their sake, and find a way to make life a little better so you know you didnt waste your one and only precious life.
@@Sakuyamon Let me explain with an example. An old person who doesn't believe in life after death. He lost his family in an accident. He doesn't have money because he spent it to save the life of his son who was injured but he couldn't recover and died. How he will continue living with all this pain and suffering?
On the other hand if he believes in life after death then he knows that he will meet his family one day and he will pray for them and do good deeds to go to paradise. He will also know that committing the suicide will send him to hell and he will not be able to meet his family again if he commits suicide.
You're not where you want to be. You feel like you're supposed to be somewhere else. Well, say you could snap your fingers and be wherever you wanted to be. I bet you'd still feel this way. Not in the right place. Point is, you can't get so hung up on where you'd rather be that you forget to make the most of where you are.
What i'm saying is, Take a break from worrying what you can't control. Live a little.
It's funny. We all have dreams. We plan our futures like we're the captain of our fates. But we're passengers. We go where fate takes us.
@@browncatwithblurredbackgro2461 im sorry where the fuck did this come from
Mark Twain: "When a man loves cats, I am his friend and comrade without further introduction."
I can whole-heartedly relate to many of his quotes yet some others leave me dumbfounded🤔 I.E. “Wine brings out the good in you? He obviously hasn’t known any of the folks I have! 😜
😘Love all of them 😘