Knowing These Life Lessons After 40 is Like Cheating. Literally.
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"Quotes" what are you guys doing ? I mean, you guys are making it seem impossible to just select one quote that I like the most. Every Single quote in this video is a goldmine in its own way. You guys are doing incredible job. This will be my favorite video of 2023.
Thank you for your kind words, we really spend a lot of time creating scripts for our videos 🫡
Glad you liked it!
excellent comment. exactly correct
What posture does failure create
@@quotes_official very inspiring and life-changing quotes. May I ask how did you make that narration voice? What editing software are you using? Thanks.
Agreed! Every last one of them were gold!
3:55 Never brag about your success or tell people your plans as your friends today may become your worst enemies tomorrow. So true
I've told people my plans several times and it's almost always been a mistake.
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❤ This Is So True
The next time someone complains about my behavior I’ll reply “If I took back the pain I caused you I would also take back the strength I gave you, you’re welcome!”
Yeah this is stuff I wish I had learned long before hitting 40 but you can't tell young people anything. They have to learn on their own. Experience is the best teacher, but not a very kind one.
You can't know these things. If a younger person knew these things, it would destroy them. A child is a child for a reason.
@@jeffreybaier5312 You can't know them without experience, unfortunately. When you're young, you're naive, you think you know everything and can take on the world, and no one can tell you any differently. Then you hit your 30's and realize what a fool you've been and begin to go down the path of wisdom. At least, if you're not a total fool, that is.
Yup thats what its all about.
I listened a lot as a kid but you don’t truly know or understand the lessons you’re taught until you experience them.
you can't put an adult head on a childs body,and you can't live some elses life for them.
I was all on board until
" the only people who will never let you down is your parents"
I'm calling bullshit on that one!!😂
Facts!
@@fitlife1205I’m with you on that too
Correct
That's true. After all they are only human and flawed just like all of us.
What I think it means is that most parents will walk throw fire for their children. Esp a mother. That's why the ball players..look at the camera..and say ..'HI MOM'. I had sorry parents. But most people have parents..who they can trust..esp in comparison to non family members. Not saying most are easy to love...this system is set up to cause stress and failure. But most do the best they can. I know I did..even though trama from childhood..affected my parenting skills...and a bad marriage...i always told my children..i will be there for them. It is sometimes hard to love..on both sides..but no one asks to be born. Everyone just have to play the cards..that life deals...
"We cannot choose our external circumstances, but we can always choose how we respond to them." - Epictetus
betrayal never comes from your enemies? i....HALF-agree with that. ever heard of fake people? they pretend to be your friend until their done using you.
Yes, but they can't truly betray you. Betrayal comes through those who are closest to you, that you trust. Typically an enemy is not close to you. Problem is in today's culture is that many people fail to understand the difference btw acquaintances and friends. If one thinks they have over 10 friends, they don't know the difference.
10? If one has 3 true friends they have many. There are many that believe some are friends and it's the exact opposite, narcissist are examples. Some have PTSD and have no choice but to except them as friendships. They keep trying to get their exceptance their entire lives even though they know how they are towards them.
@@Red-vn4xq Well, there is a difference btw "True friends" and "friends". I have a number of people in my life that I'm their "best friend" and they aren't my "best friend". They can always count on me, but they aren't as reliable but they are still "friends", I just know who I can count on. Then there are people I'm friendly with and if I had a party, they'd be invited to, but I wouldn't share anything of true importance with. It's a friendship circle. If one has a business, one learns to cultivate many different types of relationships.
I remember at my 21st birthday party, I had 300 people who came to my party. I actually "knew" all of these people, but they weren't "dear friends" but enough to be invited to a party.
@@mtngrl5859I understand what you're saying. Acquaintances is a term for friendly interaction in general. Saying is one thing, action is another. Action is the only truth in this World. Therefore saying one thing and doing another. Decievers say one thing and do another. Don't do as they do is best observation. Anyways, have a great day
@@Red-vn4xq Thanks for your reply. My main point is that in the previous generations most people understood that there was a certain designations on the concept of friendship. So, there were people one would have different levels of intimacy. In today's world, the concept of acquaintances is not understood, often people think that people they work with are "friends". Typically if one leaves a particular position, the "friendship" after a period of time will fade away. The common interest-the shared working environment- no longer exists.
I heard or read this quote when I was a child. Have a friend and treat him well. To him your secrets never tell, for when your friend becomes your foe,out in the world your secret goes. Love these quotes. I listen to them everyday. They inspire me to live the life I choose. Blessings from Trinidad 🇹🇹 ❤
Wishing that everyone who watches this video will be safe, healthy, have all their wishes fulfilled, and any prayers answered. May those who feel lonely find comfort, those in poverty escape hardship, and those without daily sustenance have enough to eat and wear.
Thank you. God be with you.
Thanks. God bless.
Va fail. May this moment bring you peace and your future, contentment.
Thankyou, God do all these things for you🙏🏻❤️
Yeah,Liebe &Grüsse von Jesus 🤦🏻♀️
Parents can also let you down, more than kids I in some cases
I don’t agree with the “you’ll never regret your silence”. Sometimes people don’t say things they wish they had
With love, yes, not in anger.
I could see a younger me not seeing any value in these quotes but being older and realizing experiences tied to nearly all of them I wish I'd had them and used them when I was a younger me
hindsight is always 20/20
That's called progress. Good job!!
When people say things like “own your truth “ or “living my truth “ you can be assured that person has lost the thread of objective reality and is not worth your time or attention.
As a 59 year old man who has come far and learned a lot I concur with these gems. Thank you for your effort in compiling them.
You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending.” ―C. S. Lewis
"No one in this world will stand up for you like the way your parents do."
i dont agree with that. me and my dad were never close. and he spent most of my childhood bullying me then actually teaching me anything
I am the opposite my Dad is legend just never see him cos i live in Asia and that is hard tbh. I am sorry to hear about your Dad.
ditto!
mines was evil, it took years to forgive him, thank God i did My Spirit is free from abuse
Time to get over it. Forgiveness is the gift you give yourself.
I agree if you have secrets be careful who you tell them too. But more importantly imo, don’t fear others knowing your secrets. Overcome that fear so if anyone does find out your secrets, you’re good with them. No one can use them to hurt you.
As i finish my coffee and head back to work, I realise I won't remember any of these by the time I complete my first task. Sad.
That's ok. Keep going.
@@alanmcbride6658 Thank you. 😁
Pick your favorite and write it down. Meditate on it for day. Tomorrow pick another favorite.
Years ago, I put together my Readers Digest quote, just in case:
When I was fifteen, I looked forward to sixteen, the year I'd be old enough to drive. It was
wisdom I sought.
Upon arriving at my sixteenth year, I was sorely disappointed to discover wisdom was not yet
mine.
Not undaunted, I again looked ahead. This time, to my eighteenth birthday. The age at which I
could be called to defend my country and give my all, as a man. Surely that was when wisdom
would be mine.
Again, I met disappointment. But I held firmly to that I had merely been mistaken on the timing
when wisdom would be mine.
I, reasonably, chose twenty-one. After all, in law, and other ways, it was said that was the
age at which I'd reached maturity, and I'd be established as an adult.
Sadly, I came to be twenty-one and, was, yet again, sorely disappointed.
In desperation, I came to rest my hopes on the age of twenty-four. The age at which my insurance
rates dropped.
Suffice it to say, I've reached my final conclusion: There are many eighty year old kids running
around this world today.
Kelly Craig
Found that stages of your life you will be disappointed and there's always the next ones!
I waste my OWN Life
never blaming any one
I am res ponsible for my Self
Definitely some great quotes here-- the older one is, the more relevant they are.
This is the best 1 I ever saw on You Tube for quotes. Philosophy may be more important in life that any other form of communication. 1 of the best videos I saw on here in 2023.
agree!
The Only 2 people who will not let you down are your parents, Stop the Nonsense, some people have dreadful parents who cause horrific pain .
If they did let you down, you'd be dead. Say what you like after they've raised you to to walk, talk, crap, pee and eat independently. No-one else is going to give you that.
Not true
One bad quote and dozens of good quotes and you only took away the one you don't like 😜 Think about that for a moment
Cry bout it
Don't read a quote and say "this is wise". But read a quote and say "how could I relate this in my life?". Thank you Quotes.
#80 "Most people are a complete waste of time."
All people do not have loving parents or guardians 😔
“You are not the Voice of the Mind-You are the one that hears it.”
Wrap your listening mind around that!
You are both.
@@333dsteele1 Haha only if you want to abdicate the little free will you might have
I have a saying of my own , it goes like this "if you're going to step on somebody's toes make sure they have toes for you to step on !
It takes a big man to cry, but it takes a bigger man to laugh at that man.
Woke up to see this on my feed. Perfect. Thank you so much!
There can be alot of good things they saved u from unknowingly.
Nothing meant for u will ever miss u and nothing not meant for u will ever get u.
When its meant for u somehw u will be right place or with right person n u will get it.
U can blame them that they turn down the opportunity for u but also u can choose to look on other side that u dont knw what bad experience wud av come frm those jobs.
Perhaps u needed a different job that wud make u mature differently n where u r right now is providing the necessary experience needed.
In truth,we never really knw what is good or bad for us, same time whatever good or bad that comes our way is good for us if in the end if we take proper lessons from this incidents.
Man had been given all the necessary tools to make his life better.For Gold to be pure..its heated in fire n it comes out of pure...u r Gold my Friend😊
I love all your sensible quote!! I wished I had heard them 40 years ago. Anywho, I am now benefiting and passing them on to my younger friends. Thank you!! Thank you!!
Having 0 friends frees you up to write that book, write that song or write that movie.
Also a very empty unfullfilled life.
@@jasonnolan7578 0 friends so many associates. Nothing lonely at all.
Happy New Year!
Thats sad man. Dont have 0 friend. Have that 1 friend that you can trust and have fun with.
Lonewolfs not gonna make it very long😢
@@beavischrist5 Who said I was a lone wolf who's lonely?
0 friends doesn't mean 0 associates.
You think you got friends.
Try losing everything.
3D is boring.
Try life 5D & 6D.
What's understood doesn't have to be explained.
Welcome to The Age Of Aquarius ♒ ✨
Happy New Year!
“You are not the voice of the Mind-You are the one that hears it.” Wrap your listening Mind around that!
Revenge. Ruining my own life... that's a keeper. Thank you kindly..I wrote that down... I can relate to revenge in so many instances where trash instigates and provokes.
I needed this today 😢
Hey, thanks for sharing this insightful piece! It's like a crash course in life wisdom. So many nuggets of truth packed into one transcript. I found myself nodding along with so many points, especially about valuing relationships over appearances and the importance of self-growth. Really eye-opening stuff!
a real man, never shouts what he has found
I don't know about the parent quote. Both of mine turned down jobs on my behalf when I wasn't home and they were good jobs. One even went so far as to deleting the phone number off of the caller ID. The other one waited to tell me three months later about the call and that missed opportunity was for a major fashion designer. Parents can easily get jealous of their kids especially when the kid is better looking than the parents.
That is so sad. I hope you’re doing well despite their failings.
Good luck to you!
Was this in the 90s? What about email or giving them your cell number?
Thank you so much for these wonderful life lessons.
Amazing!!! Most of these struck a cord!! Some from experience and some I need to take a closer look at within!!! Thank you!!!!!
perfect channel. one of the best on CZcams !!! many thanks. much appreciated 🙂
agree!
And Kelly said:
That which I least wish to do is most oft that which I most should do; and,
When you hurt me and I pray for you, I help heal us both;
I like all of them. Learning new things is great.
Threw the years. You find out that people only talk to you because they want something from you. Then. When people don't talk to you. They watch you. To sew what you have. So they can take it from you. How did I come up with that. Watch and listen. You will also come up with it as well. A sad fact.
Meh you can 100% look at it that way but thats a n3gative angle.
Many great lessons.
Personnally I strongly disagree with "forgiving = healing."
Forgiving is atroceously overrated in our cultures and we need to relearn that not-forgiving and accepting that others might not want to forgive those who hurt them is often important.
By expecting others to forgive, we involontarily blame people for the hurt that was done to them or make them responsible for the consequences of what they were victim of.
Think of disrespect, condescension and insults. Having someone disrespect you or talk to you with condescension can be exhausting and can strongly alter your behaviour, even more so when the perpetrator does it on purpose.
At family gatherings for example, if you allow someone to be an asshole to another person and expect the other to "understand" to "cope with it" you allow an asshole to feel comfortable and happy and to steal happiness from his victim. And at the same time, the target will grow resentful, distant and susceptible and will be judge by everybody according to his attitude. The victim is deprived of being considered carefree, enthusiastic, positive etc... people will perceive them as withdrawn and moody, when the reason why they are that way is right in front of everybody's eyes.
So, forgiveness... no. Forgiveness as opposed to revenge, ok, but not as a synonym of "shut up and cope" and certainly not as the main road to "healing." Absolutely not. The biggest part of healing is having everybody acknowledge what happened to you, who did it to you, and why. What heals the most is the victory of truth.
Remember ,there is no such thing as fair,
Perfection belong to museum. Welcome back into reality. It painful isn't it?
@@Ferocious_Cat pain is a reminder
This system is set up to cause failure. It's all going to change real soon..Daniel 2:44
@@tonnieverse4038 I cannot wait.
@@NoNamenoonehere yeah.
A real uplifter…
What a truly beautiful voice.
17:57 Be a doer, not just a mere listener 👌🏽
All thoughts are correct! If you apply them to your own life, since high school, there were first best friends who turned into bitter enemies towards the end of their studies. Then already in adulthood met on my way women in whom I was very much mistaken, although I have a high degree of intuition as the heroine of the series "Anna. Medium." I see people through photos and their speeches. Just when you meet great "actresses", you may not guess that in fact in front of you wolves in the skin of sheep .... In my case, the last true love and passion I feel for a person is the only small joy that allows me to hope for the best and that the prophetic dreams of a fabulous future are still in force)! 💘
Life changing lessons ❤
Powerful voice, l feel it, congratulations!!
"When you laugh, people laugh with you. When you cry, you cry alone."
-O Daisu ("Old Boy" original)
A loss of a good friend, even if it hasn't happened, it hurts.
I always try my best to help and forget myself from now on i will learn thank you so much GOd bless
Me too
Life Lessons I Learned Too Late That I Still Regret All These Years Later
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On the bus mom
I chose a partner based on values and he was a fake person and threw his kids and myself away. 🤦♀️. You can chose but could be very wrong when someone is conning you.
Fantastic thanks for the video,
Found this channel a few weeks ago, and have listened to a few videos. Thank you, and subscribed.
thank u so much for this lessons 😊
I'm 45, and I either know, or agree with 99% of these quotes, a couple of them didn't really seat right with me.
Anyhow, I don't think this allows me to cheat at anything, I'd rather say that to reach this point I had to go through a lot of fkd up shit, and like one of the quotes states, it's the hard lessons that teach you the most, that make you strong, give you thick skin, which allows you to go through the next battle with better armour, and a better chance to win.
I get you but go back to these when you hit 60😂😂
Amazing life lessons 👌🏽
Thanks for sharing this vital information and wisdom
Thank you so much.
Some brilliant quotes.
Thank you, creators, you.🌸
7:52 or spite us, if we're in a bad mood. your mood influences your perception.
i feel depressed and a tad angry (best way i can describe it), as i write this. anything i want, and earn without working for it, i'd accept it begrudgingly - or get angry.
17:30-17:38 wisest one i've ever heard.
People generally say what they mean when angry
And drunk😊
Thank you🙏🏾
The dreamer are the one who waste their time in hallucinations.
Appreciate people, most people doesn't not what journey their came from, a fine trivia could be good example for a good footstep, Quotes. Thanks
Fascinating knowledge from this youtube channel!
Thank you.
Great quotes as usual. There r too many nice ones some quotes pierce through heart and liver.
These wise notes propelled me to add this of my own -
If it is of the mind, it would be, or had been engaging,
If it is ironic, sarcastic or a humorous distraction
It is a blip, of insanity that leads to paranoias, causing offence or worse..?
And all philosophies can be encumbered & used by good & evil...
?
Excelente...thanks you❤
Fantastic!❤
Thank you
The world DOES NOT care about your potential or skills NOR does the world care about what you have done or say.
Best I have ever seen ❤
True!
Mixed Quotes Got Me Right In My Core. The Background Music Makes All The Difference -
Love this
What a great lesson on stoicism.
Outstanding!!!
Neh! Both my parents left me down.
Same here but I forgave them.
Sorry, that’s not how it should be though. Some people should not be parents & some just don’t want to be parents. Why are they bad parents? Please research that and forgive.
Theres frenemies and opportunist also , beware of them . Tell a intentional lie to them and see if it comes back to you. A lie will travel around the world, but truth will put its shoes on.
Powerful!
THANK YOU
Thank you ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
Did you guys steal a bowl of Fortune Cookies from a Chinese restaurant?
How could I relate this to my life? 😊
I would give anything to argue this sad commentary on the human condition. Certainly not everyone, but damn! God please protect me from my family and friends.
My home was not a failure, failure was the children who didnt believe in you.
Excellent! Thank you ❤
That parent thing is very wrong buddy. Although I have forgiven.
This is a heavy-hitting list!
Commercials interrupting your deep thoughts, f'ing sucks.
Inspiratif ❤❤
It all relates ✨✅
Sometimes in one's life, in a matter of minutes your best friend can become your worst enemy + there is no such thing natural justice ( just saying )
You do need enemies to succeed.