When she wants you but is always busy
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- čas přidán 5. 02. 2021
- For questions like these I would put the question back to you of "what do you want to do." At the end of the day if a girl is giving you issues you have to decide to accept her for these issues or find someone whose issues you can accept.
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No one is ever too busy, People make time for things that matter to them. It’s all about priorities. Don’t fool yourself...!!!
No cap, she was just using him for attention , he went out with her on dates . You could’ve just had her over and laid down the pipe on some pimpness
It really depends bruh
Yep, if she's always too busy and doesn't try to help solve the issue or isn't instigating another time to meet. She simply isn't into u. She just doesn't want to give a hard no. Either for the attention, or because she genuinely doesn't want u to feel bad or let down
Exactly. Have your own priorities as well!
@@Rustyhound-Cartoons yes but that sounds like conflict avoidance or bad manners on their part
If she wants to see you, she will move mountains
Not really
Sometimes she will at least a few times but not all the time !
@@growing.grounds4054 yesss! At first hell yeah definitely now 🤷🏼♂️
Maaaan your comment made me think twice about it.
True but I don't want her to call into work she's losing out of money and she should value herself I sure as hell ain't cancelling work to see her. Idc if she'sy gf money first.
If she says she's always busy she's not into you a women will move mountains if she's really into you she's stringing you along
Haha sometimes yes. For others her opinion of moving mountains is different than yours
This is true haha The truly compatible will have same core beliefs...
Sometimes women wait u give the first step
i'm ok with a girl canceling once. but if she cancels twice on me, i move on. that's my rule. one of the things i've gotten better with is having an abundance mindset. i use to get obsessed over ONE girl. there's too many pretty ladies out there to do bent out of shape over one of them.
shes says shes busy is sometimes = im not interested in you or i have somebody else and i see u as a backup plan
They love getting your non sexual attention n not having to trade their sexual attention in return
There is no such thing as a woman who is "too busy" for a man she really likes. If Leo DiCaprio, Drake, or whoever her celebrity crush is showed up and wanted to see her she would make time instantly.
@Cmndr Roy Fokker it's not always that black and white
@Cmndr Roy Fokker dude I had a huge argument on Thursday with two co workers about how I’m Black and White. I’m 31 years old and I know the truth. Those guys were 18 and 20. Beta males telling me to live in the gray area. I’m so glad I got fired on Friday. Fuck that place. They were also trying to dance around the celebrity crush argument.
That's for celebrity meeting up🤔//.
Oh you follow Fitx too huh
Fact 👍❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
It’s called she wants to be chased and she don’t wanna make time for YOU.
Sometimes yes
Maybe
If she's always busy it ain't gonna workout dude find another girl
Man getting a girls number or social media is the easiest part. It’s getting them to text back or meet up is the hard part for me. Even after we hit off pretty well. But whatever I’m bound to score a few if I keep shooting my shot.
Social media isn't designed for dating, don't waste your time. I understand that people kinda have to use the internet at the moment but try some dedicated dating apps and sites. Any women that gives you her social media is probably just looking for followers but if you get her number, she is probably genuinely interested.
sounds more like you need better ammo. i don't know if this channel has covered it much but i know a lot of the other dating advice channels are covering a lot more online and text game because of covid. i recommend tripp advice and todd v dating but there are plenty of others to choose from.
Don’t bother getting a female’s social media bro, thats wasting your time, most likely she wants more followers or is gonna use that to judge you before actually getting to know you. Go for the number every time you’ll have a higher chance and if she says to take down her ig or whatever instead then end it right there
Have you checked out my other videos on this subject?
I approach and shoot my shot but only give women my number I don’t ask for theirs . If she wants to contact me and meet up she will. I’m too focused on my purpose to chase women.
Anyone that’s new here...listen to this guy, I’ve applied his tips to my dating life and have done much better myself.. support good content 💯
Appreciate it man :)
I gotta admit man you hit the nail on the head with this one. I've been screwed with that. Oh I'm busy bs. I need to learn how to focus on my time and not theirs.
She’s dating other guys. She just needs bench depth in case the other guys don’t pan out.
She doesn't want him . She just wants to keep him hanging on and desiring so she can feel good . She's as basic as they come
You just gave me a moment of clarity.
Very good video. I appreciate the focus on valuing self and valuing one’s time. Solid advice. Cheers.
Really appreciate the insight man it’s great doing some more learning on this kinda thing
This video was spot on! Thank you
This is just the most solid, amazing video!
True shit, I have so in love with this lady, and I like her way more than she likes me. This video helped me see the light ✌️🏾
Very very good video and good point, it always relates to put yourself first, two months after a girl who never dates you and keeps saying she's busy is too much, when she says she is busy so many times it just means she's not attracted enough by you
Thank you bud you taught me about self respect
Very enlightening. Thank you for this!
2:01 MY GOD, that's EXACTLY what happened to me with certain girl. Now I understand what is happening. Thank you Loyd, this was pretty enlightening.
Dropping bombs!
Im glad someone laid it on me like this by the end of the day the only thing that matters is that you shoot your shot to get your answer 😔
Great video bro, enjoyed it a lot👍
Thank you for the advise Sir . It helps me a lot .
I remember this line from a song, "If a rich man behind the door she'll take her clothes off", this literally don't happen but what i think this means is that the "rich man" is her celebrity crush or someone she truly likes or wants and the "take her clothes off" just means she'll do anything to be with that guy if given the chance
the last minute flake means she isn't interested
Probably, if she was genuinely busy, she would have told you and had a reason, just saying "I'm busy" isn't a reason.
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Kinda going through this right now. Very helpful video thanks
If someone is unavailable that's it does not matter what the reason is that they're unavailable. They could be married. They could have a boyfriend. They could have a job that's demanding. They could have a sick relative that they take care of or be sick themselves. Sometimes the story is really sad and they are upset that they can't make something work. But you have to cut them loose because it's never going to work
I needed this
Even if she is genuinely busy you are not a priority to her, so you can't make her a priority. You can let her leave you on standby like that.
Great video as always, wise man. :) Jon
Thanks homie ;)
Its not month i threw my entire years n more ..same suituation... This Guy Is totally Right 🥴
Thanks bro, you've solved something in my life
Mate, you don't know... You just helped me open my eyes... thanks
You can be the Good or Bad Guy and be straight forward to her and she say I'm so busy" give her space and stay focus on your purpose and grind 💯
Thanks Lloyd!
The Harsh truth is you know when a girl is going to sacrifice to make time for you Plain and simple
Wise words from a wise man
Then be busy yourself lol a man who is always available may seem low value since he's not up to something.
The root is lack of abundance.
Lacks of abundance = not approaching consistently and/or wrong place
totally agree with your point, but there is one thing that always bothers me in these situations. my friend told me she and her now-boyfriend was like this for 1 or 2 months before a commitment was made and she told me;
she wasn't taking him that much seriously then, since single girls have 10 guys around them most of the time.
I think it's ok to try for a while. but know when to quit as well.
For you fellas out there stop going after the girl that is not interested in you Go after the girl that is interested in you Make it easy on yourself
I met this girl at a Christmas party last year. For 3 days we were inseparable. But then she started pulling. Saying she is busy with work, with church, with family. blah blah blah.. Then finally when she agreed to meet me she only gave me half an hour of her time. That was the last straw. I called it quits. She probably was talking to other guys as well and was keeping me as one of the options.
When a girl likes you she will help you, if she is putting up barriers. She does not like you in that manner.
Thank you sir!!
Actually for me it's the other way around I'm busy and she wants to spend more time with me :)
same
Man, her schedule and mine always clash so we always struggle to meet up but thanks, I guess I must just let go.
Likewise
She likes you but is busy all the time= she ain’t interested. A true player in the game always has women waiting to see him not the other way around...
Great great Video!
bro i should’ve known better.
so this girl and i hung out once in early may. we hung out for about 5 hours and we just instantly clicked at least imo. the next day, i then asked if she wanted to hang out again and she was getting dry, claimed she couldn’t bc she was sick which is fine and she was getting dry for a couple of days. a few days later she was finally talking to me a lot again and i was asking if she wanted to hang out again, but she said again “i’m busy with work” which annoyed me and i was thinking of just ghosting her, but i already got attached and decided to keep pushing. stupid of me. luckily i saw on her m story, she was busy that week i asked her again so i fluffed it off. then when next week came and she was more available, i asked her again “hey u want to hang out sometime this week” and she hit me with the “i’ll lyk” crap and i started getting annoyed. i then would see on her story that she’d be out with her friends and sometimes other guys. at that point, i should’ve just cut her off, but like i said, i got too attached to her. weeks kept going by, and we didn’t hang out again, but she’d still text me and even congratulated me when i graduated high school so it was weird. june comes around, it has been a month since we first hung out and still nothing. i stopped asking bc i felt like it was best for her to come to me. on a saturday night tho, she put on her insta notes “i hate u so much” so then i asked “what happened” and she responded with “just things with me and this guy, but it’s whatever” so that gave me mixed feelings. the next day i asked if she wanted to do something and she finally said “yeah i’m down.” i was so happy, i finally get to hang with her again after 34 days lol. we hung out for about an hour and a half and then she flaked on me. claimed her mom needed her home by 8:30 for a family dinner. i won’t lie, i was quite annoyed. not at her, but the fact i just felt like i wasted so much time trying to hang out with her again only for it to be for an hour and a half. luckily she seemed to feel really bad and said “i got nothing going on tmrw so lmk after u work if u wanna do something” so then i did after work say “hey i’m off. u down to do something” only for her to respond with “oh hey sorry i’m really sick rn like i just caught this random flu. i’ve been in bed all day” i knew she was BSing, but i just told her to “feel better.” now one thing she didn’t know is i follow one of her “guy friends” on insta and he posted a pic of her on his story which honestly annoyed me. like idk why she felt the need to lie she could’ve been honest. now the same bs was happening, trying to hang out with her became a chore and then i eventually left town for a vacation. now she texted me saying “have a safe flight, text me when u land” so im overall just very confused on how she really feels about me. while im on vacation, she posts on her private story on snap that she has been very depressed so she’s sorry if people take it the wrong way when she can’t find time for people. i then text her and ask how she’s doing. she says “i’m doing okay.” i then said “okay just know if you need any support, i’ll be here for you” she then said “that means so much. you’re one of the few people that has always been there for me in the short amount of time i’ve known u.” so now i’m feeling good. a few days pass and then i l come back to town and ask if she maybe wants to do something, she then says “yeah yeah sure when r u free?” i was free at that moment so i said “i’m free now for a lil bit” only for her to say “sorry i’m busy with my parents rn” at this point i realize i’m just wasting my time with her so a couple of days pass and we’re not talking, but then i ask “hey r we cool at all?” and she responds with “okay well lowkey u be blowing up my phone ALL THE TIME on every platform. just pipe down a little.” now i realized she finally revealed how she truly felt about me. i then cut her off bc i just felt like i was wasting my time with her. i start to regret it, but i don’t do anything. a month has passed and i still don’t know if i made the right decision, but overall i do feel better. almost like a weight was lifted off my chest
My job is very distracting so when I say I’m busy; it’s true 🤷🏻♀️ I work w a bunch of incompetent people on my team. No BS
I'm only interested in women who will meet up. And there are many that will. So good talking to ya keep in touch
If she's always busy find someone else if she's not invested in the 2 of you then you don't owe her shit if she comes whining about why you went to this other girl tell her this you think i'm some puppy who's going to wait forever no I move on imediately i'm sorry but if a girl says i'm busy that is the beginning of a red flag because if she's really into you she'll make time or if she's really busy she'll apologize and make a suggestion for another date she'll find a solution to fix it but if she keeps hitting you with the I'm busy text and I always telling you she has other plans that's bulshit or she's just not that into you and it's time to move on trust your instincts they'll tell you what to do sometimes our brains tell us to walk away but we ignore it cause we want to get laid or we let our feelings get the better of us we should be smarter than that there is a reason why they say think with your head not with what's between your legs
Just asked her if she really wanted to see me. The silence said it all.
If shes always busy then she doesnt want you.
Very helpful video man, I am currently in the same situation. Met a MILF met 3 times 2 weeks ago last week she said was busy, so this week I will go for last attempt, if she tells me she's busy, I will say bye
Right on the dot. Makes senses.
Thank you man
I have this problem just now. I’m talking to this girl at my work, I asked her out and she said yes!
The next time I seen her she says she’s got exams and stuff going on just now.
I said No worries when your finished and you want to hangout, text me.
Hopefully things progress, till then I’m going to focus on my own hobbies and studies 👌🏽
That was once she did that. Two more times and that's it
@@jorgefigueroa2231 I asked once and I’m not going to ask again. I only see her like once or twice a week at work, don’t blow up her phone with texts and don’t really view her stories on Instagram. If she likes me, she’ll contact me
Update?
Hahaha they are never too busy...if she actually likes you she will make time.
Dealing with a similar situation with a girl I’m texting and FaceTime from hinge . But every time going for the hang out she seems to be resisting and I’m getting a little tired of it but she likes to keep texting and she seems interested in me so this video and your example really hit home for me and she’s also in medical school
Yeah I've had family members who went to medical school, is time consuming. I'd say let her meet someone there and find someone else yourself.
Read what you typed again. "every time going for the hang out she seems to be resisting". Do you think a girl who's really into you and wants to make something happen be "resistant" to it?
Omg mines works in the Medical department too , she works as an Cardiology Sonographer , and she tells me shes busy after me being there for her when she needed a whole month of help soothing her from a broken friendship with her best friend and now shes back with her best friend all of a sudden she says " Don't go falling for me " i was like what ?? i wasnt falling for you just wanted to our friendship to be casual and then she started the " Am too busy BS " for 3 months straight !!!!! wtf ??!
Sometimes girls/women are just bored to stay alone. And for some reason her boyfriend dont give him much attention. So she finds you whom she can get free attention and just wasting your time. Because if you press a little more hard to get her, you will find out the truth soon. She will be telling you, yala yala bla bla am in relationship or i was not serious with you. Or am married
Great video
It sucks how busy women are but I get it and respect it
Agree. Sometime it's not that she is not interested but is playing mind games/hard to get to test you and see how far you willing chase her.
If you think she is worth it and there's a possibility of a healthy relationship. Then go ahead.
Nobody is too busy for things that matter to them.
Judge her by her actions, not by her words. For dating/spending time together. I will only ask once. If it's not a solid 'Yes' or suggest a time she is possibly available. Then I won't ask again and friend zone her.
If she repeatedly playing mind games even after I called her out on it. I will block her.
Why do they play these games? Drives me insane
I put myself through the same torture back then...... I’m so angry that I let her do that to me.
what was your story?
When I heard "medical school" I was like - I get it.
Time will not stop wasting life alone is beautiful beautiful beautiful
people will always make time if they want
Personally I view it as this. Unless they're like.. the president or a CEO, no one is ever that "busy". Like he said with the girl in his example. Yea med school is hard as shit. I'm not gonna knock it. But she coulldn't make time for this guy for a month?
Guy in the email. This girl isn't really trying to make anything happen. Regardless of what's actually going on you gotta look at her lack of movement as a sign to move on. The right person will figure the shit out and make time to see you.
I would just move on quick. If she was really interested, she would make it easy and move her schedule around or suggest a time.
@TheSingleGuy what to do if she says yes to the date but tells me I work 6 days a week and will let you know when I'm free
Bro that story you told is very similar to mine situation! Meet a nice girl (she’s Arabic) at first we saw each other and genuinely hanged out for hours but over time I saw her less and less (due to work and how she got promoted awhile back) she is now an assistant manager and when I saw her recently during her lunch she didn’t seem too into our time together even though she made time for me to see her but she was too focused on work and making phone calls to her work during our hangout (which was an hour barely) she says she always thinks about the future and doesn’t think about today...
Long story short I she became very occupied to her job and it went from seeing her every few weeks to every 4 to 6 months with just barely like an hour to see each other. I talked to her about it and she said to be patient and eventually we’ll end up together but I still get bother with all the waiting... idk I’ve dealing with this over a year now. A part of me wants to wait but another feels like it’s never go to end this cycle of waiting. I’m just confused just cause she told me to wait and it’ll be ‘worth it’ but again she likes to work and prefers her busy schedule
Sorry for the long message but I really needed to share my story
I know how u feeling my girl friend she ast manager she flert be with me and her eyes sparkle 💖 but she keeps saying she busy but New years Eve I got upset because I want take pictures with her
Teach me more ways, master.
Damn that’s scary similar beside the fact she has time to hangout a bit more but not alot of time to text and talk if not out together
I have to say that I disagree about that. But I user to act like that when I was scared to meet the Guy, or to do something stupid. And I'm really vers busy sometimes.
But you're right. I always found time to see People I like
What’s the name of that beat you played at the end?
If a girl says " sorry I just been busy" or "things are hectic" then forget about her because she's either dating someone and not telling you or a straight up beech that doesn't care about your feelings. Basically a waste of time. Move on and be a better version of yourself so that the next girl that comes along will not be busy.
Wise wisdom words lit up your lamps journey myself silence
If you like someone, you'll make time for them...
Had a exact same girl always make plans all of sudden makes excuses that she’s busy or she can’t make it everything going well for three months try to take her out on a second date said that her friends birthday is coming up and I knew for a fact she was seen another guy .
Anyone who is too busy for a real relationship should NOT be in relationships.
We are both 15 and she says her parents wouldn't let her go out. She lives like 30 miles away from me. Is this a valid reason for a no
What if it’s the other way around ? There’s this one girl, we already went on 3 dates and she seems really into me and is down to hangout but we never actually text each other - i don’t really know what to make of this
If you have money she is ready to lay down every opportunity u have , but if you are an average guy with the money u need to training yourself to hear this shit ! It’s not about how you look , it’s all about the money ! Money talks, bullshit walks
I just want to take a moment and remind everyone that CZcams comments are not a source of good advice
These people don’t know you or your relationship, they don’t know relationships themselves(hence why they’re here) and more often than not they may come in here with a pre established bias against easy functioning relationships
You can always take anything with consideration, but certainly MAKE YOUR OWN DECISIONS
She might be genuinely busy, but still getting done every now and then, express way.
When she talks with you over phone but at the same time she does other things as well on phone at the same time such a surfing youtube , insta , facebook , whatsapp , etc
What is to be done ??
it’s always those medical students, i’m living his past i’m 23 and she’s studies medicine but i’m at my senior year of dental school and honestly i don’t feel like i wanna be with someone that isn’t available most of the time.
i guess i know what to do right.
If its just “an hour and a half date” after three attempts asking her out, you know its a “shut up” date. Meaning, “Fine, I’ll just go out with you so you’ll shut up.”
I have been dating a girl. Maybe 4 dates in 3 months. For a total of about 10 hours together. Scheduling has been painful. I have initiated everything. We text everyday. She cancelled so many times. One weekend, she flaked on me twice. One occasion it was my birthday.
At the time, I didn't make a fuss, but it sort of festered. I began to feel very different. I broke it off. I feel if I cared much about someone, I would have made damn sure I at least made an effort on their birthday.
She promised and kept cancelling.
Her being busy will never end but a lot of busy woman find time for hot guys. I had a woman say these exact words she's too busy. Meanwhile he's single, works from home, her daughter just went off to college. It was b.s. So that was the end for me.
I have the same problem here..it has been over a month.she is not coming to me,she keeps complaining about how she is preparing for her exams and her aunt looks on her.but when i threatened living her she will call me for apologizing and telling me she wants to live with me forever.bt we live in the same town,our distance are not even far from each other 2ndly she is still 18yrs.i want to leave her but I don't how to start.bc i know she is giving time to another guy..bt she keeps telling me am the only one am confused please help 🙄
my gf never makes time for me never meets me, we have been togather since 2 years , the reason is her parents got to know about us and she's scared about it , what to do
just same i have gf now, if she gonna do some busy things and i let her do the things, but she doesn’t want me to go and wants me to stay, but ill try to say “i let you do, if your busy” plus if i tried to play with her and saying “i can’t” every single days i had so.
She wanted to be with someone within the same economic status
Not too busy she doesn't want you