Very good inside explanation. I'm a Thai guy who confirms that the information in this clip is very accurate. There are many good Thai Ladies why should you fall in love with the bar girls. Thai ladies are emotionally immature compare to western ladies in the same age. The early 30 years of age for thai ladies are quite emotionally stable that may be a good match for the westerners. Asians ladies normally look younger for the same age as the western ladies, so thai ladies in the early 30 years of age will look like middle 20 for the western ladies. More mature ladies will not drama a lots, so you will not have a headache. If you are a old guy, it is difficult to have a young lady without looking at your wealth. Normally, thai ladies accept age differences between 8-10 years, but some of then may accept age different upto 15 years. If the age difference are too much, it is usually does not work out well.
Lol. This vid made my wife and me laugh hard. We been married for 23 years (we met when we were both only 18 ) and you are soo spot-on on everything d:
I'm about to fly to Thailand for a vacation, and I'm "pre-gaming" on Tinder. Got a bunch of matches and phone numbers, and ALREADY I'm living the drama you're describing here :))))) It really feels I'm chatting with teenage girls, even women who are 35+ WTF
@@JD-vh5hjThe way you are describing it with the added smileys it seems you are very condescending towards Thai women. They behave emotionally because they probably haven't had 30 digs at the age of 20 and are still very excited and hopeful in their relationship especially when they have got the "desirable" and "rare" white guy.
Thailand was number 1 on my dating list, before going there. After spending 5 years, and almost getting married two times, I have now definitely removed it from my list :) and I am totally sure about it. It is a beautiful country, I love the people, but dating like westerner - thai, no thanks :)
@@Thatgigglemakesyoulookamazing 1. constant misunderstandings all the time, mostly due to language barrier and if they do not understand you they just invent themself a meaning of what you might have said, and then they build up on that 2. there is no " how can we collaborate to make things better" 3. real love and feelings Thai ladies keep reserved for Thai men 4. once you get a Thai lady, it means it is already late, she had a few Thai men who already burnt her out 5. you have to pay for the mistakes previous Thai men did ( materially for their children and morally and with your patience about how they "abused" "your" Thai woman ) 6. if you are kind hearted, honest, open, good willing, forget about relationship with Thai woman 7. if you are a "piece of s**t " and "a****le " you will have good time 8. unfortunately I am number 6. and not number 7. and this is related to me. But number sevens, sure they can have good time, fun, and also very good luck in dating Thai women
@@MrIgorradisic depends on the woman I met some amazing Thai women usually older and treated me with respect but I am not in a rush yet for relationship
@@MrIgorradisic Thanks for your detailed opinions on this matter. Important considerations. Seems like communicating early on, your relationship boundaries (e.g. “I’m not yet ready to settle down.” And, “Just so you know, I am just meeting people, enjoying myself, not ready for commitment yet.” Messages like this can be helpful, even if you meet someone who could be a strong LTR contender. Takes pressure off me. Stay in that fun, rare, pre-honeymoon period where she continues to work to prove she can be a good partner. Keep communicating and don’t be the @ssh0le and lead her on. She can then always decide to move on. Be cool, be kind. Be gracious but not too generous. Enjoy life. Be picky. Only consider non-professionals. That’s my current mode. Was married 16 yrs and LTR 6 yrs. Both great women. Don’t jump in too quickly. What’s the saying? “Be slow to hire and quick to fire.” Life is too short to stay stuck when the happy days cannot continue. Just my thoughts. Thanks again, Igor, for your’s. All the best to you.
As a Thai guy who married a Thai woman, I can say that this vdo is valid. If you want to settle down with a Thai girl, don't do it with the bar girls or a girl that you meet in a night club. Thai guy will never get those women as a wife. There are a lot of good women out there espicially in the provinces other than Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket and Chiang Mai. If you found a girl you like on a street, ask her for her Line (chat application) it will a lot easier than ask her mobile number. If you have sex with her, she will expect you to be her "Fan", girlfriend. So think carefully before you do it becuase she will start jealous and drama with you. If you married her, you will married her family too. Thai people are family oriented. We will take care our father, mother, brother, sister etc. So think carefullly.
Having resided in Thailand for 14 years and having formed friendships with many individuals in relationships with Thai partners, I've reached a conclusion. Do Thai women prefer foreigners over Thais? As a whole, the answer is NO. Given the choice between a Thai or foreign partner of equal status, attractiveness, education, and wealth, they would almost always opt for the Thai. From my encounters with thousands of Thai women dating foreign men, a common pattern emerges. Most of these women are: Dark-skinned from Isaan Have short, stubby noses Often single mothers Have a high number of past relationships or have been involved in the sex industry at some point. While this isn't representative of everyone, it's the case for the majority. As you can see, these individuals rank lower in the Thai dating pool. High-quality Thai men typically prefer light-skinned partners with more defined features, who are educated and come from respectable families far removed from the sex industry. Women in this lower category of the dating pool may only attract a motorbike taxi driver or someone of similar social status or wealth. They observe that foreigners do not discriminate based on skin color when seeking a partner, and many overlook their background or past involvement in the sex industry. Therefore, they target foreigners because Thai men want nothing to do with them.
Major problem is that 99% of foreigners don't speak Thai language even if they live on a constant basis in Thailand. Of course majority of Thai women would prefer Thai man over some foreigner, majority of whom are not interested neither in learning language or culture. Why would they choose them? I saw a lot of foreigners on thaivisa forum, here on CZcams complaining about different aspects of Thai culture. Why they stay there if they don't like it? Easy access to women and cheap living
You are not wrong about Thai men like light skinned. You can see it on the TV. Most celebrities are light skinned. However, there are women with education and didn't work in the sex industry too. I have 3 colleagues who work in a IT company married Farang. And they didn't date Thai men because they have dark skinned and they knew that.
Your conclusions are correct and they are not only correct for Thailand but for everywhere. I have seen the same happen in Vietnam and the Philippines.
Great insights. You said many things i was thinking. Thai dating is bizarre and backwards. So many times I've seen the chubby thai guy with the hottest women and the western chad with the leftovers. I'm only here 2 weeks every 3 months so it will be harder to find Ms. Right but i will enjoy failing and move on to the next.
You'll have a much more enjoyable time if you look for Miss Right Just For Now. Looking for the perfect woman is alot of pressure on you. Happy Hunting.
Greetings from Puerto Rico. The title of your video seemed interesting so I decided to watch it. I'm so glad I did. Great advice and awesone content. Thinking about visiting Thailand in the future. Your perspective will definitely assist me big time when navigating the waters of dating Thai women. You have a new subscriber. Infinite Blessings!!!!! ✌️♥️🙏
Enjoyed your video and found it informative. I can see if you're an expat or long time visitor, that meeting a regular Thai lady is the best option. However for many of us on vacation for about a week in BKK or Pattaya, most of the time your only real option is meeting bar or massage girls. To me the only other alternative is meeting a saleslady at a mall and she helps you to pick something and has the time to get in a nice convo with you and you get her contact info. Other than that is having the game and cojones to just approach a lady who attracts you and start talking to her, like asking her about which BTS station or gate to go to. On the same level is chatting up a lady that works in the hotel you're staying at. Any other suggestions for us short timers?
BKK is full of nightclubs and bars (regular bars like pubs, not the red light type). You can chat with regular girls there. But you need to learn how to differentiate between regular girls and "working" girls. You can also joint meetup events.
Actually this is very great which they like the guy after first date , it's shows they are very kind and sensitive and honest . We should learn to be like them because everything in this world is base on pure beautiful emotion . I've been in Philippines too which girls personality is so close to thai . When i met my gf it was kind of strange for me which how sensitive and full of emotion they are but lately i realized this is how the rest of world should be and we acting wrong in the west .
MyThai girlfriend & I have been together now for 2-1/2 years. She always tells me that what attracted her to me is that I have respect for her & I'm a nice guy. They aren't used to guys opening car doors for them, etc.
The drama / teenage part (10-11 min)... sooo spot on. And it explans in a very positive way the "problem" and the bagground for it. Might be more a strenght than a problem. Still hard with a 40+ teenager... :-)
Subscribed. Thanks man. I wen bangkok last week and I fall inlove with that place and the ladies their was so cute and sexy. I'm glad to hear this insider. This video is worth. I support you all the way too.
The word jao chuu /เจ้าชู้ doesn't mean pimp, it has 2 meanings 1- to flirt or have many partners. 2- playboy , philanderer. The word pimp is maeng daa /แมงดา mamasan in Thai is แม่เล้า mael lao. The words for pimp and mamasan in Thai you should be very careful who you use these words with in Thai as it could lead to a fight.
In America “pimp” is mainly used as slang for what’s Thai would call a playboy and not an actual person who pimps out prostitutes…. Like what 50 cent raps about “I don’t k ow what you heard about me, ima mf P.I.M.P.” 🎉
Thanks for this amazing video. All the girls i date in bkk from offices i’d say 90 per cent i have to pay for meals or even drinks. I get frustrated as i am not rich and if i date many ladies gonna spend a fortune. Also i been dating a girl for over a month and still paying for her. How can i tell her she should do something too for the couple?
The best thing you can do is be honest and communicate with her now or it will be too late!… Next time she wants to spend time with you for a dinner or drinks, tell her you’d like to see her too but you don’t have the budget left this month to eat out or go out drinking. Hopefully she will understand and offer to take you out (if she really likes you) if not maybe invite her to eat in, cook for her or ask her to come over and cook some Thaifood together. Bottom line is if she has a decent income and likes you, she will take you out sometimes or help with the bill. If she doesn’t then she is not interested in real love.. all the best
What he said is very good info. Part 2 I would add is if you aren’t financially able to go for food and a couple drinks take some time for you dude. Build up a little bit. Be more choosy with who you go out with. And as he said, tell her honestly that money is tight and you will find out real quick if the feelings are real on her end, or if it’s just a free meal and drinks
Hey Daniel, this is one of the most entertaining videos I've watched man. Your presentation was spot on and made me laugh a few times, in a good way. You ought to consider starting a business where you can introduce Western men to decent Thai women, become a professional match maker and charge a fee for your services. I'll sign up for sure!
There is no one reliable dating site. It’s a lot of work sorting though the scammers and just meeting someone in person. It’s nearly a full time job. I have had fun and spent too much money but I learned a lot. Mostly dating sites suck
I have a Thai woman really interested in me but I think the clinginess could be a real problem. I am independent and and introvert as well so I need downtime. She is so beautiful but I am reluctant because I feel it might just hurt in the end. I also previously dated an Asian woman from another country and it ended up being very toxic, she was so controlling and jealous, and would start fights once a week, accusing me of things, and always suspicious.
Good stuff Danno. I'm glad my folks bought me up with manners, I should do alright when I get to Thailand, I have found some ex-pats who hook up most days at their mates club and they hit the golf course so I might meet a caddy who not only wipes your ball for you but they are also a 10, and I don't mean a 10 Handicap. It's mere speculation until I get there. One big plus is the price of 20 cigarettes is about $3.00 in Thailand as opposed to $45 in New Zealand. Winning already and esp as I smoke Camel and they don't sell them in NZ anymore, ima lucky that Marlboro taste the same basically.
It's what do you say that that these women are left over women? That know no time man wants. But the same applies to the westernized women. But in reverse the old man that goes to the Philippines or the Passport. Pros are left over men that women in the West. Don't want either, so you see it works both ways. The men in the West are not wanted and the women in the Philippines are not wanted, so it makes a great match.
good advises, one hand you know that, on the other hand you really cant reject the HOT thai girl, for all the working girl, most of them just a liar, just lleft you after you have no money
First video of yours I’ve seen. I would add two things: 1. Learn the language. 2. Be sure your normal girl is in fact normal. I saw at least one story about a food vendor (normal- right?) who had a massive freelancer operation going, including a Thai boyfriend who knew about it and was in on it. Even with the normal ones, no property in her name, no motorbikes, cars or other expensive gifts, and do NOT get married. There is no reason to involve the government in your relationship unless you intend to have children.
The thing is almost every other guy will have a different personal experience.For me I’m only 28 years old and I’m smart I’m not waiting till I get to Thailand I already interact with some Thai girls on CZcams and instagram.I have also talked to a few Thai girls on there live stream face to face on live stream for over an hour.I say this to say wen I get to Thailand I won’t be surprised about certain things wen it comes to Thai women.Secondly I’m not going to Thailand looking for love.Even though I’m young I’m not a party person I only been to the strip club one time before and I’m not going back I don’t go to night club bars either,it’s not my type of scene too many people in too small place.I don’t like being surrounded by so many people.The problem with most men is that they wait to get to the see countries to interact with these women.Because they mainly go to the night club bars and beaches looking for love but not me I’m smart.I will go to the cafes instead and the animal sanctuary’s and historical sites.Thats the best way to meet a meaningful Thai women is wen u are actually learning something about the country.And if she’s a Thai woman and she don’t know much a her history if she never goes to any historical sites or animal sanctuaries.If she never does any farming and cooking on her own.If she always goes out to the clubs and bars partying all the time and having herself surrounded by too many people that’s a turn off for me it’s most definitely a no.And most Thai women that are party girls they mainly live in Bangkok,Pattaya and Phuket and the Thai women that is right for me I know she won’t be living in neither of the 3.And actually most Thai women I interact with right now they don’t live in Bangkok,Pattaya or Phuket they go their for the street food and to site see and take boat and city tours but they said they couldn’t live their.They like the rural part of Thailand better I believe I will too away from all the noise,tourism,clubs,bars, conjugated traffic and forever constant back and forth motor bike riding.Most tourists and foreigners don’t like the rural parts of Thailand because u have to drive a lot further to get to everything fine by me.Ill rather do that because im not putting up with all of the choas.Onr of my main top cities that I like in Thailand is hua hin,Chiang Mia and Trang they are all laid back and slow paced.😁
My reserve Navy EOD Unit deployed to Thailand for Cobra Gold. While there, I befriended a 32 yo bar girl. I paid her bar fine but insisted on "Companionship only! No sex!" She ended up clinging. I would come back from a day on the water and find her in my room. Whenever no guy paid her bar fine, she came to my room. The hotel staff would let her in whenever she desired with or without my permission. When it was time to leave, she begged me to marry her. Naturally, it was not that simple. I did give her my mailing address (This was back in 1992). We exchanged a few letters but suddenly disappeared. Must have found another. These videos show me what bullet I dodged. I shudder at the thought of in the current age of internet and social media media how far a little persistence on her part would have gone
Im literally laughing... one because i am regular to Thailand n i know the Thai women quite well n they somehow get very fond of me being their opposite n i generally hit off pretty well with women without judging them n no guys im 200% straight... and second im laughing because being a deliberate single woman, avoiding men to come too close for the same reasons, i can see myself like you guys whats dreadful; the immaturity, clinginessp, drama and the sugar baby attitude ..... Now cmon men, you love clinginess atleast at the beginning, you feel its love and loyalty, u gotto pay a price with the drama that quite obviously comes with it ...hahaha
Bro!!!!!! I wasn't into asians either until I got here. Been about 2 months and my god, so feminine. I'm having a problem though. The dating apps are like 90 percent working girls. I haven't watched the whole video yet, I'll probably feel dumb in a few minutes.
This is exactly like me, somethings changed and suddenly I don’t rate white women and I’m finding myself always staring at the Asian women all here in central London but being an Australian were in the australasia area I think all Aussies like us have a attraction for Asians.
You can meet the women in shopping mall, cafe, restaurant etc. Just go to talk to them. For example, you said you lost and look for a place or something. Thai people are kind and they will help you. After that you can ask her Line (chat app), it will easier than a mobile number.
I met my thai girlfriend on dating apps, you just gotta be patient and selective. I didn't believe it was possible to meet a nice woman on apps but let me tell you that I do think the opposite now. Good luck, be mindful that the video is very correct.
That describes a woman that I was with when I visited Pattaya last year. I didn't realize I was in a relationship. I was there for a week, I met her on Tinder and she didn't leave. She kept telling me she didn't care if I met up with another girl. LIES!! I did and I told her. After that, she started acting up. I left her in a club that I didn't even want to go to and she ran out onto Walking Street looking for me. When she got up to me, she started giving me the business. All of the Hindu men were just looking at us because she was loud. I had to pull her to the side and put her in her place.
unfortunately I have a VERY low tolerance for drama, stress, bullshit. I stick with pay for play in Thailand. If I date a woman it is an educated high IQ woman with a good job who has her shit together and does not act like a 14 year old. Japan is good for that.
Hey dude you're pretty help man yeah I really liked your video and your honesty yeah it's pretty cool stuff dude yeah but I guess all you guys advice next time I'll give you advice I'll give you experience advice if the lady that comes into your life doesn't love her parents man zip up your pants and run dude I mean it run.
The average girl probably not 1-3 but some can be 10+ but unlike in the west. Thai’s do not care about such silly things and sex is much more casual and fun.
Yes and no. I've met some that have had a only 3 boyfriends in the past 8 years and some of my girlfriends friends show up with a different thai guy every time we meet in a group.
@@samboni702 boyfriends and hookups are a different thing, ofc she wont tell u about hookups. But gossip about friends is fine. And the friend wont mind u seeing it shes not dating u.
@samboni7200 being a woman let me reveal a secret.... 3 is the safest number to quote for a woman who has practically lost count .... if u know what I mean
ASIAN GIRLS ALWAYS PREFER ASIAN GUYS, by seeing the couples in the whole Asia (East & South East), 99%+ asian girls are with asian guys, ok! But for Western-born Asian guys who live in the West, if he is not good-looking, how can he find girlfriend, or he just accept being single for a long time? Could anybody tell me please?..... (because we all know that Western-born Asian girls prefer White guys, NOT anything as Asian girls living in Asia who always prefer Asian guys)
Everything he has said (coming from an American in Bangkok right now) is 95% spot on. The other 5% is just opinion. You have never been to another country have you?
Very good inside explanation. I'm a Thai guy who confirms that the information in this clip is very accurate. There are many good Thai Ladies why should you fall in love with the bar girls. Thai ladies are emotionally immature compare to western ladies in the same age. The early 30 years of age for thai ladies are quite emotionally stable that may be a good match for the westerners. Asians ladies normally look younger for the same age as the western ladies, so thai ladies in the early 30 years of age will look like middle 20 for the western ladies. More mature ladies will not drama a lots, so you will not have a headache. If you are a old guy, it is difficult to have a young lady without looking at your wealth. Normally, thai ladies accept age differences between 8-10 years, but some of then may accept age different upto 15 years. If the age difference are too much, it is usually does not work out well.
THX, Thai brother!
western ladies are better
@@giannilyanicks1718 Better for one night stands, or divorce?
@@CoralTheMihn for genuine love.
@@giannilyanicks1718 Very good 3 word joke
Lol. This vid made my wife and me laugh hard. We been married for 23 years (we met when we were both only 18 ) and you are soo spot-on on everything d:
I'm about to fly to Thailand for a vacation, and I'm "pre-gaming" on Tinder. Got a bunch of matches and phone numbers, and ALREADY I'm living the drama you're describing here :))))) It really feels I'm chatting with teenage girls, even women who are 35+ WTF
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Abide by the 2 day rule - keep it pushing - move on and replace the woman 😂😂😂😂 less stress less drama no headache
@@JD-vh5hjThe way you are describing it with the added smileys it seems you are very condescending towards Thai women. They behave emotionally because they probably haven't had 30 digs at the age of 20 and are still very excited and hopeful in their relationship especially when they have got the "desirable" and "rare" white guy.
I wouldn’t bother wasting time on Thai women, Western women are ways more better
You lie me
Everything he said in this video is BIG FACTS‼️Watch it 3 times if coming to the land of smiles‼️
Thailand was number 1 on my dating list, before going there. After spending 5 years, and almost getting married two times, I have now definitely removed it from my list :) and I am totally sure about it. It is a beautiful country, I love the people, but dating like westerner - thai, no thanks :)
Reasons?
@@Thatgigglemakesyoulookamazing
1. constant misunderstandings all the time, mostly due to language barrier and if they do not understand you they just invent themself a meaning of what you might have said, and then they build up on that
2. there is no " how can we collaborate to make things better"
3. real love and feelings Thai ladies keep reserved for Thai men
4. once you get a Thai lady, it means it is already late, she had a few Thai men who already burnt her out
5. you have to pay for the mistakes previous Thai men did ( materially for their children and morally and with your patience about how they "abused" "your" Thai woman )
6. if you are kind hearted, honest, open, good willing, forget about relationship with Thai woman
7. if you are a "piece of s**t " and "a****le " you will have good time
8. unfortunately I am number 6. and not number 7. and this is related to me. But number sevens, sure they can have good time, fun, and also very good luck in dating Thai women
@@MrIgorradisic depends on the woman I met some amazing Thai women usually older and treated me with respect but I am not in a rush yet for relationship
@@MrIgorradisic Thanks for your detailed opinions on this matter. Important considerations. Seems like communicating early on, your relationship boundaries (e.g. “I’m not yet ready to settle down.” And, “Just so you know, I am just meeting people, enjoying myself, not ready for commitment yet.” Messages like this can be helpful, even if you meet someone who could be a strong LTR contender. Takes pressure off me. Stay in that fun, rare, pre-honeymoon period where she continues to work to prove she can be a good partner. Keep communicating and don’t be the @ssh0le and lead her on. She can then always decide to move on. Be cool, be kind. Be gracious but not too generous. Enjoy life. Be picky. Only consider non-professionals. That’s my current mode. Was married 16 yrs and LTR 6 yrs. Both great women. Don’t jump in too quickly. What’s the saying? “Be slow to hire and quick to fire.” Life is too short to stay stuck when the happy days cannot continue. Just my thoughts. Thanks again, Igor, for your’s. All the best to you.
Spot on, Daniel! After watching your video, I subscribed and hit the bell icon.
Great video, loved all the information. keep up the good work.
As a Thai guy who married a Thai woman, I can say that this vdo is valid. If you want to settle down with a Thai girl, don't do it with the bar girls or a girl that you meet in a night club. Thai guy will never get those women as a wife. There are a lot of good women out there espicially in the provinces other than Bangkok, Pattaya, Phuket and Chiang Mai. If you found a girl you like on a street, ask her for her Line (chat application) it will a lot easier than ask her mobile number. If you have sex with her, she will expect you to be her "Fan", girlfriend. So think carefully before you do it becuase she will start jealous and drama with you. If you married her, you will married her family too. Thai people are family oriented. We will take care our father, mother, brother, sister etc. So think carefullly.
That’s the same everywhere.
@@dud3man6969The family aspect? Not so sure.
@@user-cn3uz5hp2c homebodies make the best wives in any country.
This is the best dating advice video i saw so far!
Having resided in Thailand for 14 years and having formed friendships with many individuals in relationships with Thai partners, I've reached a conclusion. Do Thai women prefer foreigners over Thais? As a whole, the answer is NO. Given the choice between a Thai or foreign partner of equal status, attractiveness, education, and wealth, they would almost always opt for the Thai. From my encounters with thousands of Thai women dating foreign men, a common pattern emerges. Most of these women are: Dark-skinned from Isaan Have short, stubby noses Often single mothers Have a high number of past relationships or have been involved in the sex industry at some point. While this isn't representative of everyone, it's the case for the majority. As you can see, these individuals rank lower in the Thai dating pool. High-quality Thai men typically prefer light-skinned partners with more defined features, who are educated and come from respectable families far removed from the sex industry. Women in this lower category of the dating pool may only attract a motorbike taxi driver or someone of similar social status or wealth. They observe that foreigners do not discriminate based on skin color when seeking a partner, and many overlook their background or past involvement in the sex industry. Therefore, they target foreigners because Thai men want nothing to do with them.
Major problem is that 99% of foreigners don't speak Thai language even if they live on a constant basis in Thailand. Of course majority of Thai women would prefer Thai man over some foreigner, majority of whom are not interested neither in learning language or culture. Why would they choose them? I saw a lot of foreigners on thaivisa forum, here on CZcams complaining about different aspects of Thai culture. Why they stay there if they don't like it? Easy access to women and cheap living
You are not wrong about Thai men like light skinned. You can see it on the TV. Most celebrities are light skinned. However, there are women with education and didn't work in the sex industry too. I have 3 colleagues who work in a IT company married Farang. And they didn't date Thai men because they have dark skinned and they knew that.
Your conclusions are correct and they are not only correct for Thailand but for everywhere. I have seen the same happen in Vietnam and the Philippines.
im thai girl but i hate drama things i also clingy bf but still give him space , Maturity mindset can be learned more logical stop being act like kids
Yes me too
Great insights. You said many things i was thinking. Thai dating is bizarre and backwards. So many times I've seen the chubby thai guy with the hottest women and the western chad with the leftovers. I'm only here 2 weeks every 3 months so it will be harder to find Ms. Right but i will enjoy failing and move on to the next.
nobodys leftover. its just thai girls want change, but thaiguys do need to change their ways
You'll have a much more enjoyable time if you look for Miss Right Just For Now. Looking for the perfect woman is alot of pressure on you. Happy Hunting.
I’ve noticed this and it’s so bizzare
so true. very honest review. geat ! finally some useful and practical advice. not like other famous Thai youtubers
I wish I had watched this 40 years ago.
Don’t we all! 😅
just find a western lazdy of your azge then.
@@giannilyanicks1718Western women are crap
U should get a lady boy
Greetings from Puerto Rico. The title of your video seemed interesting so I decided to watch it. I'm so glad I did. Great advice and awesone content. Thinking about visiting Thailand in the future. Your perspective will definitely assist me big time when navigating the waters of dating Thai women. You have a new subscriber. Infinite Blessings!!!!! ✌️♥️🙏
U gonna show them how that Cuban sausage tastes
Excellent informative video.
Thank you for this information Daniel
Enjoyed your video and found it informative. I can see if you're an expat or long time visitor, that meeting a regular Thai lady is the best option.
However for many of us on vacation for about a week in BKK or Pattaya, most of the time your only real option is meeting bar or massage girls.
To me the only other alternative is meeting a saleslady at a mall and she helps you to pick something and has the time to get in a nice convo with you and you get her contact info. Other than that is having the game and cojones to just approach a lady who attracts you and start talking to her, like asking her about which BTS station or gate to go to. On the same level is chatting up a lady that works in the hotel you're staying at. Any other suggestions for us short timers?
BKK is full of nightclubs and bars (regular bars like pubs, not the red light type). You can chat with regular girls there. But you need to learn how to differentiate between regular girls and "working" girls. You can also joint meetup events.
Wow spot on with your analyzing Thai woman
Great video! Great narration!
Dont stop making content Daniel, How is dating in 2024?
Awesome content!
Actually this is very great which they like the guy after first date , it's shows they are very kind and sensitive and honest . We should learn to be like them because everything in this world is base on pure beautiful emotion . I've been in Philippines too which girls personality is so close to thai . When i met my gf it was kind of strange for me which how sensitive and full of emotion they are but lately i realized this is how the rest of world should be and we acting wrong in the west .
MyThai girlfriend & I have been together now for 2-1/2 years. She always tells me that what attracted her to me is that I have respect for her & I'm a nice guy. They aren't used to guys opening car doors for them, etc.
The drama / teenage part (10-11 min)... sooo spot on. And it explans in a very positive way the "problem" and the bagground for it. Might be more a strenght than a problem. Still hard with a 40+ teenager... :-)
Hey Hey
Nice channel and keep it up
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Awesome advice mate.
Thanks for all the info Daniel I definitely don't go to the bars to pick one up😁
An old friend of mine once said to me “If it Floats, Fly’s or F@&k’s just RENT IT…..🤔
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Thanks man. I wen bangkok last week and I fall inlove with that place and the ladies their was so cute and sexy.
I'm glad to hear this insider. This video is worth. I support you all the way too.
Thank you 🙏🏼
The word jao chuu /เจ้าชู้ doesn't mean pimp, it has 2 meanings 1- to flirt or have many partners. 2- playboy , philanderer. The word pimp is maeng daa /แมงดา mamasan in Thai is แม่เล้า mael lao. The words for pimp and mamasan in Thai you should be very careful who you use these words with in Thai as it could lead to a fight.
Maeng Da is a strain of Kratom.. guess it means “Pimp Grade”
In America “pimp” is mainly used as slang for what’s Thai would call a playboy and not an actual person who pimps out prostitutes…. Like what 50 cent raps about “I don’t k ow what you heard about me, ima mf P.I.M.P.” 🎉
Slang difference between English. Means chad or stud or a dude that girls like and dudes wanna be
Thanks for this amazing video. All the girls i date in bkk from offices i’d say 90 per cent i have to pay for meals or even drinks. I get frustrated as i am not rich and if i date many ladies gonna spend a fortune. Also i been dating a girl for over a month and still paying for her. How can i tell her she should do something too for the couple?
The best thing you can do is be honest and communicate with her now or it will be too late!… Next time she wants to spend time with you for a dinner or drinks, tell her you’d like to see her too but you don’t have the budget left this month to eat out or go out drinking. Hopefully she will understand and offer to take you out (if she really likes you) if not maybe invite her to eat in, cook for her or ask her to come over and cook some Thaifood together. Bottom line is if she has a decent income and likes you, she will take you out sometimes or help with the bill. If she doesn’t then she is not interested in real love.. all the best
What he said is very good info. Part 2 I would add is if you aren’t financially able to go for food and a couple drinks take some time for you dude. Build up a little bit. Be more choosy with who you go out with. And as he said, tell her honestly that money is tight and you will find out real quick if the feelings are real on her end, or if it’s just a free meal and drinks
Just the other said. Be honest with her and if she love you, she will ok with it.
Good Job here mate!
Thanks for your advice bro
Nice job!
Very good breakdown…so very true.
Thanks for advice
after dating a girl for 3 years, I finally found out that she was a mia noi, and I leftt her immediately.
great video
Hey Daniel, this is one of the most entertaining videos I've watched man. Your presentation was spot on and made me laugh a few times, in a good way. You ought to consider starting a business where you can introduce Western men to decent Thai women, become a professional match maker and charge a fee for your services. I'll sign up for sure!
Is there any reliable online dating to find good Thai girl? Or any other way to meet good Thai girl?
There is no one reliable dating site. It’s a lot of work sorting though the scammers and just meeting someone in person. It’s nearly a full time job. I have had fun and spent too much money but I learned a lot. Mostly dating sites suck
Coffee shops and food courts, not night clubs or gogo bars. Shop girls are always keen and they have a legit job.
Bruh! Just go there and talk to girls in coffee shops etc. Don’t use an app!
Thailand is #1 cheating capital of the world. I thought it was American women.😅
My foreign friend get a girl in a MK restaurant and now she is his wife. Just go to talk to a girl in a shopping mall, street, cafe etc.
John Wayne Bobbit had his procedure done by a Thai surgeon. It is so common over there that such procedures are quite common
I have a Thai woman really interested in me but I think the clinginess could be a real problem. I am independent and and introvert as well so I need downtime.
She is so beautiful but I am reluctant because I feel it might just hurt in the end.
I also previously dated an Asian woman from another country and it ended up being very toxic, she was so controlling and jealous, and would start fights once a week, accusing me of things, and always suspicious.
Again it depends on the woman
I am introverted too and too scared for relationship as fearful of hurt if have to leave
Ive always wanted to go to Thailand. Id love to chat with you sometime about everything.
Good stuff Danno. I'm glad my folks bought me up with manners, I should do alright when I get to Thailand, I have found some ex-pats who hook up most days at their mates club and they hit the golf course so I might meet a caddy who not only wipes your ball for you but they are also a 10, and I don't mean a 10 Handicap. It's mere speculation until I get there. One big plus is the price of 20 cigarettes is about $3.00 in Thailand as opposed to $45 in New Zealand. Winning already and esp as I smoke Camel and they don't sell them in NZ anymore, ima lucky that Marlboro taste the same basically.
Sounds like latinas
Agree
7 years with a latina... Peruvian. I agree, sounds like it.
It's what do you say that that these women are left over women? That know no time man wants. But the same applies to the westernized women. But in reverse the old man that goes to the Philippines or the Passport. Pros are left over men that women in the West. Don't want either, so you see it works both ways. The men in the West are not wanted and the women in the Philippines are not wanted, so it makes a great match.
be mindful of jealousy , it can get ugly really fast, and violent.
where do you find the non train ones to get your money .because evryone i meet no mater where i meet then they are all freelancers????
we should do a colab one day where you interview me about a woman taking advantage of a per son.
good advises, one hand you know that, on the other hand you really cant reject the HOT thai girl, for all the working girl, most of them just a liar, just lleft you after you have no money
First video of yours I’ve seen. I would add two things: 1. Learn the language. 2. Be sure your normal girl is in fact normal. I saw at least one story about a food vendor (normal- right?) who had a massive freelancer operation going, including a Thai boyfriend who knew about it and was in on it. Even with the normal ones, no property in her name, no motorbikes, cars or other expensive gifts, and do NOT get married. There is no reason to involve the government in your relationship unless you intend to have children.
The thing is almost every other guy will have a different personal experience.For me I’m only 28 years old and I’m smart I’m not waiting till I get to Thailand I already interact with some Thai girls on CZcams and instagram.I have also talked to a few Thai girls on there live stream face to face on live stream for over an hour.I say this to say wen I get to Thailand I won’t be surprised about certain things wen it comes to Thai women.Secondly I’m not going to Thailand looking for love.Even though I’m young I’m not a party person I only been to the strip club one time before and I’m not going back I don’t go to night club bars either,it’s not my type of scene too many people in too small place.I don’t like being surrounded by so many people.The problem with most men is that they wait to get to the see countries to interact with these women.Because they mainly go to the night club bars and beaches looking for love but not me I’m smart.I will go to the cafes instead and the animal sanctuary’s and historical sites.Thats the best way to meet a meaningful Thai women is wen u are actually learning something about the country.And if she’s a Thai woman and she don’t know much a her history if she never goes to any historical sites or animal sanctuaries.If she never does any farming and cooking on her own.If she always goes out to the clubs and bars partying all the time and having herself surrounded by too many people that’s a turn off for me it’s most definitely a no.And most Thai women that are party girls they mainly live in Bangkok,Pattaya and Phuket and the Thai women that is right for me I know she won’t be living in neither of the 3.And actually most Thai women I interact with right now they don’t live in Bangkok,Pattaya or Phuket they go their for the street food and to site see and take boat and city tours but they said they couldn’t live their.They like the rural part of Thailand better I believe I will too away from all the noise,tourism,clubs,bars,
conjugated traffic and forever constant back and forth motor bike riding.Most tourists and foreigners don’t like the rural parts of Thailand because u have to drive a lot further to get to everything fine by me.Ill rather do that because im not putting up with all of the choas.Onr of my main top cities that I like in Thailand is hua hin,Chiang Mia and Trang they are all laid back and slow paced.😁
"Lots of drama" is the understatement of the year! 😂
Married to an Asian for 38 yrs and counting.
You get the behavior you tolerate.
You divide a Thai girl's chronological age by HALF to get her emotional age.
true
She's different🤣🤣🤣
that is true but they are definitely Different than western Girls
My reserve Navy EOD Unit deployed to Thailand for Cobra Gold. While there, I befriended a 32 yo bar girl. I paid her bar fine but insisted on "Companionship only! No sex!" She ended up clinging. I would come back from a day on the water and find her in my room. Whenever no guy paid her bar fine, she came to my room. The hotel staff would let her in whenever she desired with or without my permission. When it was time to leave, she begged me to marry her. Naturally, it was not that simple. I did give her my mailing address (This was back in 1992). We exchanged a few letters but suddenly disappeared. Must have found another. These videos show me what bullet I dodged. I shudder at the thought of in the current age of internet and social media media how far a little persistence on her part would have gone
Im literally laughing... one because i am regular to Thailand n i know the Thai women quite well n they somehow get very fond of me being their opposite n i generally hit off pretty well with women without judging them n no guys im 200% straight... and second im laughing because being a deliberate single woman, avoiding men to come too close for the same reasons, i can see myself like you guys whats dreadful; the immaturity, clinginessp, drama and the sugar baby attitude ..... Now cmon men, you love clinginess atleast at the beginning, you feel its love and loyalty, u gotto pay a price with the drama that quite obviously comes with it ...hahaha
god i hope she says yes
Bro!!!!!! I wasn't into asians either until I got here. Been about 2 months and my god, so feminine. I'm having a problem though. The dating apps are like 90 percent working girls. I haven't watched the whole video yet, I'll probably feel dumb in a few minutes.
This is exactly like me, somethings changed and suddenly I don’t rate white women and I’m finding myself always staring at the Asian women all here in central London but being an Australian were in the australasia area I think all Aussies like us have a attraction for Asians.
I have a short attention span.
I lost interest 3 minutes in. He kept talking about what he was going to be talking about.
It it makes me laugh when most of you CZcamsrs always rag on the " old guys " there are many young guys who come to Thailand and get ripped off.
Where did I rag on the “old guys”?
This only applaus to farang men who LIVE in Thailand, not the holiday farang.
How about No
Where do you meet the nice Thai women though?
You can meet the women in shopping mall, cafe, restaurant etc. Just go to talk to them. For example, you said you lost and look for a place or something. Thai people are kind and they will help you. After that you can ask her Line (chat app), it will easier than a mobile number.
I met my thai girlfriend on dating apps, you just gotta be patient and selective. I didn't believe it was possible to meet a nice woman on apps but let me tell you that I do think the opposite now.
Good luck, be mindful that the video is very correct.
Solid run down
That describes a woman that I was with when I visited Pattaya last year. I didn't realize I was in a relationship. I was there for a week, I met her on Tinder and she didn't leave. She kept telling me she didn't care if I met up with another girl. LIES!! I did and I told her. After that, she started acting up. I left her in a club that I didn't even want to go to and she ran out onto Walking Street looking for me. When she got up to me, she started giving me the business. All of the Hindu men were just looking at us because she was loud. I had to pull her to the side and put her in her place.
unfortunately I have a VERY low tolerance for drama, stress, bullshit. I stick with pay for play in Thailand. If I date a woman it is an educated high IQ woman with a good job who has her shit together and does not act like a 14 year old. Japan is good for that.
All women act based on their emotions.
"they're not mentally ill. this is the way they were taught." omg
answer: move to another country :)
man if i ever hit a lotto or manage to come into a small fortune i might move to thailand
You don’t need a fortune, I moved here with only a couple grand and a dream!
well... time time to book a flight to bangkok
Hey dude you're pretty help man yeah I really liked your video and your honesty yeah it's pretty cool stuff dude yeah but I guess all you guys advice next time I'll give you advice I'll give you experience advice if the lady that comes into your life doesn't love her parents man zip up your pants and run dude I mean it run.
Do thai women have high body counts?
The average girl probably not 1-3 but some can be 10+ but unlike in the west. Thai’s do not care about such silly things and sex is much more casual and fun.
Yes unless u speak the language fluently or hook up with 16 year olds.. All english speaking girls have been riding hundreds of tourists lol
Yes and no. I've met some that have had a only 3 boyfriends in the past 8 years and some of my girlfriends friends show up with a different thai guy every time we meet in a group.
@@samboni702 boyfriends and hookups are a different thing, ofc she wont tell u about hookups. But gossip about friends is fine. And the friend wont mind u seeing it shes not dating u.
@samboni7200 being a woman let me reveal a secret.... 3 is the safest number to quote for a woman who has practically lost count .... if u know what I mean
Guys will do anything for the women they love, and Thai woman love men who will give them all their money.
ASIAN GIRLS ALWAYS PREFER ASIAN GUYS, by seeing the couples in the whole Asia (East & South East), 99%+ asian girls are with asian guys, ok!
But for Western-born Asian guys who live in the West, if he is not good-looking, how can he find girlfriend, or he just accept being single for a long time? Could anybody tell me please?..... (because we all know that Western-born Asian girls prefer White guys, NOT anything as Asian girls living in Asia who always prefer Asian guys)
99.9% of men there are Asian. What do you expect?
😂😂😂😂
Stereotypes
Western women are ways better
First and last time watching this channel. A complete waste of time
Everything he has said (coming from an American in Bangkok right now) is 95% spot on. The other 5% is just opinion. You have never been to another country have you?
@@portlandGTR I've been in more countries then you most likely. You always prejudge?
I live in Thailand and have a thai girlfriend. Video is spot on, I hope some day you can come to the paradise and have good experiences :)
Only want a short time girlfriend not a long time one. :D