Difficult Conversations Made Easy | Joy Baldridge | TEDxUCCI

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  • čas přidán 10. 04. 2018
  • Difficult conversations are hard ‐ knowing the right words to use to defuse inevitable tensions makes
    them easier.
    Words matter more now than ever. Globally and locally, our lives, societies and universe are directly impacted by the words that we use at every point when connecting and communicating with one another.
    Whether the communication is verbal via face‐to‐face/or on the phone, or electronic via email and social media, society is becoming more and more careless about word choice. This carelessness leads to hurtful, demoralizing and at times tragically devastating consequences. Words matter and everyone needs to know how. Joy Baldridge is a renown self‐management expert who helps the best companies in the world become even
    better at increasing revenue and productivity while decreasing stress and frustration. She began her
    speaking and training career at birth. She was born into a family of driven entrepreneurs and dynamic
    educators. Her parents founded the Baldridge Learning Center in 1956. Her first official speaking
    engagement was at the White House, at the age of 19. She got there by cold calling the president.
    In 1992, Joy founded Baldridge Seminars International, a professional development organization that
    focuses on management, leadership, sales, communication and priority management skill development.
    In her seminar and keynote presentations Joy shares innovative ways to adapt to change while
    increasing revenue, productivity and profitability. Her keynote presentations and seminars are highly
    entertaining, extremely informative and completely customized. They are known for producing
    immediate, positive, and tangible results. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Komentáře • 64

  • @frankcwf
    @frankcwf Před 3 lety +43

    She definitely has a unique way of presentation! Her messages and philosophy are very profound, yet they are delivered in a kindergarten fashion which makes it surprisingly easy to understand and remember. Great presenter!

  • @Channel-bj1nz
    @Channel-bj1nz Před 3 lety +37

    She reminds me of a real-life Phoebe Buffay. Great presentation!

  • @jerictaborn1694
    @jerictaborn1694 Před 2 lety +3

    This should have substantially more views.

  • @karmataozen
    @karmataozen Před 4 lety +9

    She kinda annoyed me when she started, but I read a few of the comments. Continued to listen and learned why I was so judgmental! Keep listening, you will be "glad" you did.

    • @JoyBaldridge
      @JoyBaldridge Před 4 lety +2

      Thanks for sticking with it Todd. Keep spreading and sharing the JOY!

  • @HiroRavenVideos
    @HiroRavenVideos Před rokem +1

    She's smiling although out the video and it makes me happy too.

  • @chev0804
    @chev0804 Před 3 lety +6

    Love the presentation. I enjoyed listening. My new affirmation "it will never be yesterday".

  • @folabiakin1
    @folabiakin1 Před 5 lety +36

    I didn't like how it started, but she grew on me as she went along. Made a lot of sense. Great talk with useful insights.

    • @karmataozen
      @karmataozen Před 4 lety +1

      same bud, but I kept listening and I am "glad" I did! :)

    • @JoyBaldridge
      @JoyBaldridge Před 4 lety +3

      Thanks! I'm glad you stuck with it! Keep using the skills.

    • @TheCrisses
      @TheCrisses Před 2 lety

      Yeah, it seemed cheesy - but it grew on me too. And as long as I let the other people I send to it know hopefully they'll get past that also.

  • @paulinabarnas8475
    @paulinabarnas8475 Před 3 měsíci

    Joy - this is what I feel when I listen to you Joy

  • @cincinnatislider
    @cincinnatislider Před 3 lety +5

    Just me, or is the audio super-low?

  • @dzenifere
    @dzenifere Před 5 lety +7

    The best presentation I've heard so far! Very clear and fun!

  • @odkbull
    @odkbull Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you, Joy! Just discovered this presentation! Bob is genius! Appreciate you!

  • @nadersafipour5003
    @nadersafipour5003 Před 2 lety

    The era of integrity and strong character is over.
    Update: Simply, Brilliant!

  • @sierrah.9922
    @sierrah.9922 Před 2 lety +1

    So happy I found this presentation, awesome information and presentation 👏🏽

  • @PorscheMaria
    @PorscheMaria Před 2 lety

    What a creative perception of navigating through life. Thanks JOY.

  • @skyhart615
    @skyhart615 Před 4 lety +7

    This was a lovely ted talk . Really enjoyed it and learned pretty valuable human nature 😊👍

  • @CarrieMWill
    @CarrieMWill Před 6 lety +12

    So good!! This one makes my favorite ted talks playlist! So helpful! I realized that I am driven and my boyfriend is helpful, I’m factual and he is social!!

    • @JoyBaldridge
      @JoyBaldridge Před 4 lety +1

      Hi Carrie, Somehow I just saw your comment. So happy I made your favorite TED talk play list! Please keep spreading the JOY!

  • @katywaldrop5036
    @katywaldrop5036 Před 3 lety +2

    Great job, I will remember this forever!😄❤

  • @maryasha6826
    @maryasha6826 Před 3 lety +1

    This is amazing, thank you 🤗

  • @darlenewilliams5993
    @darlenewilliams5993 Před rokem +1

    She's phenomenal!

  • @michellespeaks5165
    @michellespeaks5165 Před 6 lety +11

    I could listen this all day. I love the topic and how you delivered it with ease which compliments the topic. Joy rox!!!❤❤❤

    • @JoyBaldridge
      @JoyBaldridge Před 4 lety +1

      Thanks Michelle! I so appreciate your comments. Keep sharing the JOY! All the best in 2020!

  • @BilalAhmad-qc2ul
    @BilalAhmad-qc2ul Před rokem +1

    You are an amazing person ❤

  • @vanessaalexander766
    @vanessaalexander766 Před 3 lety

    Very useful advice that l can start implementing straight away not only in work but also in every day life. Great 👍 talk love ❤️ it. THANK YOU 🙏

  • @JohnSmith86132
    @JohnSmith86132 Před 3 lety +2

    This is actually great advice!

  • @marysullivan7921
    @marysullivan7921 Před 6 lety +9

    I loved Joy's Tedx talk! Her strategies are so brilliant and yet so simple to remember! I am going to start putting these into practice now so I can improve my relationships! Thank you Joy!

  • @johnkim7802
    @johnkim7802 Před 4 lety +2

    Such a good chat here.... It's always good to remember and practice awareness on how simple things can change the nature and key of conversations!

  • @shawnellemartineaux6212
    @shawnellemartineaux6212 Před 4 lety +3

    I love her. This never gets old.

  • @RachelPlews
    @RachelPlews Před 4 lety +3

    Thanks for this talk - I love Bob's AFA - Always flexible and adaptable! This will help me!

    • @JoyBaldridge
      @JoyBaldridge Před 4 lety

      So happy this will help you! Bob's the BEST!

  • @somegurl7063
    @somegurl7063 Před 2 lety +1

    This was a joy to watch 🙂

  • @glendahunt9207
    @glendahunt9207 Před rokem

    Thank you

  • @hiddens2346
    @hiddens2346 Před 4 lety +18

    *Velvet hammer phrases-*
    1. Noticed & wondering
    2. Likelyhood & when
    3. Really?
    *Types of people-*
    1. Social (being amazing)
    2. Factual (being right)
    3. Helpful (keep asking what uou want till you say yes)
    4. Driven (not expressive, goal oriented)
    -be aware of them and their language.
    -even a little usage of the languages makes a difference.
    *4 core human emotions-*
    Mad
    Glad - (you must: Rest, Exercise Nutrition, Thougts)
    Sad
    Scared
    -"It will never be yesterday" - start fresh
    *_BE FLEXIBLE AND ADAPTABLE_*

  • @taracollalti4368
    @taracollalti4368 Před 5 lety +2

    This was so so good and insightful - simply amazing ;)

    • @JoyBaldridge
      @JoyBaldridge Před 4 lety

      Thanks Tara! So glad you enjoyed my TEDx Talk! 2020 is a great year to be AFA! Always Flexible and Adaptable! Like BOB

  • @malaikakarim7837
    @malaikakarim7837 Před 4 lety +3

    She reminds me of the woman who played Phoebe’s mom at the beach

  • @kidsaffirmations3814
    @kidsaffirmations3814 Před 2 lety +2

    I love her shes like a primary teacher version of Bette Midler. :D

  • @healmehealthy814
    @healmehealthy814 Před 3 lety +1

    Loved this one!

  • @heartworkbykitty7933
    @heartworkbykitty7933 Před 5 lety +3

    This needs to go viral hilarious

    • @JoyBaldridge
      @JoyBaldridge Před 4 lety +1

      Would LOVE to go viral! If only I knew how! Please feel free to share and keep spreading the JOY! Happy New Year!

  • @ChandlerKryst
    @ChandlerKryst Před 4 lety +3

    @Joy Baldridge you’re amazing! Loved this! Does this pull from enneagram and MTBI? If so, would they be good places to further explore communication techniques such as these?

    • @JoyBaldridge
      @JoyBaldridge Před 3 lety +1

      I'm not familiar - Glad you enjoyed!

  • @AnasChemmala
    @AnasChemmala Před 11 měsíci

    ❤❤❤

  • @jenniferlehman3342
    @jenniferlehman3342 Před 4 lety +2

    Can I be all types?

    • @JoyBaldridge
      @JoyBaldridge Před 4 lety +4

      Hi Jennifer, Thanks for your comment. If you think you are all 4 types you may be chameleon. Which makes you very flexible and adaptable. Are you sure you like to be AMAZING, WIN, BE RIGHT and HELPFUL? Is there any one you are less enthused about?
      Sometimes it's easier to tell what you are by what you are not.

  • @RubyRobbins88
    @RubyRobbins88 Před 4 lety +1

    The poor helpful people's explanation got all trampled by the driven speak...but maybe they don't mind.

  • @mickeyconnor830
    @mickeyconnor830 Před rokem

    I can barely hear her 😢

  • @austin4046
    @austin4046 Před 4 lety +1

    Indians 1:04

  • @rosepowell7512
    @rosepowell7512 Před 2 lety

    The succinct breath consequentially move because red syntactically fire during a omniscient factory. tense, abhorrent cemetery

  • @TheSpermalan
    @TheSpermalan Před 3 lety +3

    This was horrible

  • @CocoShade
    @CocoShade Před 8 měsíci

    this was helpful.