Ben Rector - Old Friends (Official Video)

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  • Check out the official music video for "Old Friends" by Ben Rector
    'Old Friends' from Ben Rector's album 'Magic' - Out Now! benrector.lnk.to/magic
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  • @1mespud
    @1mespud Před 5 lety +3871

    The lyric when he goes: "And I've got some good friends now. But I've never seen their parent's back porch". It really hits home. Great songwriters know life. Thanks Ben..

    • @brooke7770
      @brooke7770 Před 4 lety +21

      1mespud and “cus you can’t make old friends” ❤️

    • @XD-xb8ri
      @XD-xb8ri Před 4 lety +10

      i dont get it , can U explain ?

    • @1mespud
      @1mespud Před 4 lety +40

      @@XD-xb8riWhat he means is: He's got some good friends now - but he never grew up with any of them which makes them new and current friends - but not old friends from his past or childhood.
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    • @wilmafistfit9355
      @wilmafistfit9355 Před 4 lety +32

      @@XD-xb8ri everyone has a friend or group of friends from their childhoods where you've been to their parents house, you've seen where they grew up, their family knows you. Hits hard for me too.

    • @XD-xb8ri
      @XD-xb8ri Před 4 lety +4

      @@1mespud thank U . now i get it

  • @visalh2868
    @visalh2868 Před 4 lety +2623

    My old friends still owe me money. I remember them everyday

  • @TenaciouskInk
    @TenaciouskInk Před 5 lety +2254

    Had a reunion this past weekend - 40 years since our high school reunion, but we've been friends for 50+ years though. There were nine of us. Now eight. We lost one of us to cancer last August. We played this at the funeral. Thank you for sharing this song of friendship, Ben Rector.

    • @jasonpham4554
      @jasonpham4554 Před 5 lety +20

      Sorry to hear that. Was it rectal cancer?

    • @TenaciouskInk
      @TenaciouskInk Před 5 lety +71

      What kind of fucked up question is that??

    • @landonerickson3850
      @landonerickson3850 Před 5 lety +61

      Jason Pham that’s fucked up dawg, get out of here with that shit. I’m so sorry for your loss Kim, i hope you are keeping your head up! best of wishes to you

    • @canyoulendaniggaapencil8719
      @canyoulendaniggaapencil8719 Před 4 lety +9

      @@jasonpham4554 why would you ask that?

    • @elliotbattye6872
      @elliotbattye6872 Před 4 lety +3

      Jason Pham don’t be silly obviously it was terminal

  • @91bravic12
    @91bravic12 Před 3 lety +470

    This hit's me like the quote I've read in the recent year, “At some point in your childhood, you and your friends went outside to play together for the last time and nobody knew it”. These both hit hard.

    • @91bravic12
      @91bravic12 Před 2 lety +5

      @@kellymoorewith4 Really makes you think doesn’t it?

    • @benjaminhamrick
      @benjaminhamrick Před rokem +5

      Heavy Hit 100%. My remedy is to call an old friend just to have a catch with a baseball or football once in a while. And on the rare occasion a light game of basketball breaks out.

    • @jillyann4
      @jillyann4 Před rokem +3

      If only you knew back then

    • @7marmot
      @7marmot Před měsícem +1

      There's a Last Time for Everything...
      czcams.com/video/LWkoquUvD98/video.html

  • @WordUnheard
    @WordUnheard Před 6 lety +2082

    Song: 10/10
    Video: 10/10
    Old friends: Immeasurable

  • @Yikwai1999
    @Yikwai1999 Před 6 lety +3123

    The sad truth is I dont know who to think of while listening to this song

    • @gusalthorp6138
      @gusalthorp6138 Před 6 lety +103

      I'm think of all the friends that's no longer in my sphere

    • @colorfulmimic9464
      @colorfulmimic9464 Před 6 lety +14

      me neither

    • @dakhaikh
      @dakhaikh Před 5 lety +15

      Right in that old ticker of mine 💔

    • @bry593nna5
      @bry593nna5 Před 5 lety +58

      I moved away three times... I don't have old friends

    • @user-xd8vf1nq2y
      @user-xd8vf1nq2y Před 5 lety +104

      Make one now, and someday that person will be your old friend.

  • @LaneCarter
    @LaneCarter Před 5 lety +1098

    I'm only 22, but I've been thinking about this idea since my junior year of high school. I grew up in a small town, so I had the same friends pretty much my entire life. Moving away from each other for college or jobs or the military or whatever has been hard on me. I wasn't prepared to make new friends. And even though I've made some, they still don't come close to the kind of friendship I have with my old friends. Every time we all get back together I'm reminded of that.
    So here I am, scrolling through my CZcams homepage, trying to wind down before bed, and I see this interesting looking music video. I don't think I've ever heard of Ben before, but I give it a whirl anyway. And then he sings everything I've been feeling in such a beautiful way and WITH HIS OLD FRIENDS and suddenly I'm crying for the first time in months. Thank you, Ben. I think I will forever cherish this song, now. And thank you CZcams, for mining my data and realizing that I am the exact kind of person to appreciate this song.

    • @TheBarr1000
      @TheBarr1000 Před 4 lety +17

      I'm 36 and my best friends today are my best friends from 2nd and 6th grade. Some of moved to various parts of the country but we still keep up and visit occasionally but communicate regularly. I found this song in much the same way that you did and it hit so hard. I'm lucky to have made many more amazing friends in the past 15 years who I would do anything for but when I heard this, it took me back. The nostalgia and appreciation for what I have with my "old friends" was powerful.

    • @TheRisskee
      @TheRisskee Před 4 lety +11

      Same here, buddy. I think this just brought a lot of people together with the same feelings. The human experience is so fascinating and heartbreaking and beautiful.

    • @crewstyles
      @crewstyles Před 4 lety +11

      I’m 22 and I feel the same way way, this life can be real hard 😪

    • @jubindeka8087
      @jubindeka8087 Před 4 lety +11

      19 and pretty much feel the same. Moved to new college and so did my buddies. Hope we get whatever we're looking for.

    • @psn.panicrev
      @psn.panicrev Před 4 lety +5

      im 22 too, im the last of my friends to have stayed in the same town all these years, i love my buddies more than theyll ever know

  • @smartereveryday
    @smartereveryday Před rokem +98

    Gorgeous video. I like that it was filmed at blue hour.

    • @sanguinelinguine
      @sanguinelinguine Před rokem +5

      Glad to know you’re a fellow Ben Rector fan!

    • @jakehero95
      @jakehero95 Před rokem +4

      Well what do you know, hey Destin 👋. Not even surprised to see you here, figured you'd like a song like this. Cheers to good music 🍻

    • @susannashenouda7145
      @susannashenouda7145 Před 5 měsíci

      good observation

  • @Bannannah
    @Bannannah Před 6 lety +828

    The parents' back porch line is an ingenious observation of intimacy, and also the point when the floodgates broke in my tearducts.

  • @pixelchu
    @pixelchu Před 6 lety +2048

    The vibes I’m getting from this music video is relatable nostalgia and a happy-sad hybrid. ;P

    • @estebangutierrez1458
      @estebangutierrez1458 Před 5 lety +11

      Pixelchu is called bittersweet ;)

    • @dakhaikh
      @dakhaikh Před 5 lety

      Esteban Gutierrez Ouch.

    • @weirdisspeltweird
      @weirdisspeltweird Před 5 lety +7

      Real nostalgia is always bittersweet

    • @BXvdV92
      @BXvdV92 Před 5 lety +5

      It's them lyrics and that chord at 1:04 in the progression that makes it sad

    • @PatchesJr
      @PatchesJr Před 5 lety +2

      Friends are great

  • @paradoxapple6614
    @paradoxapple6614 Před 4 lety +438

    I'm a senior in high school right now and listening to this song makes me sad. I already know when I'm older, I'm going to be reminiscing and missing the very moments that I am living right now with my friends. I won't take my time with them and my youth for granted any more.

    • @wonder6013
      @wonder6013 Před 4 lety +7

      Paradox Apple ayy I'm a senior too. #Classof2020

    • @daytonhunt2406
      @daytonhunt2406 Před 4 lety +3

      I’m feeling it and I’m a sophomore

    • @paradoxapple6614
      @paradoxapple6614 Před 4 lety +15

      @@daytonhunt2406 enjoy every moment bro that shit flies by soooo quick

    • @daytonhunt2406
      @daytonhunt2406 Před 4 lety +3

      Paradox Apple I go to a private school where every one has a plan for after high school but I can’t see myself with any of them in the future. Cuz I have plans to move away and live a life of joy by doing what I waNt to do for my career. But I makes me so sad bc I have this painful feeling that my four best friends will move on with life and leave me wishing I hadn’t moved away

    • @paradoxapple6614
      @paradoxapple6614 Před 4 lety +1

      @@daytonhunt2406 I get you bro. You've got two more years to make memories with them so get out there every chance you get. Do what's best for your future though man. Just make sure you stay in touch after you move away.

  • @Koko-wl1mm
    @Koko-wl1mm Před 3 lety +154

    shout-out to my fellow loners who were either too shy to make any real friends in high school, moved around too much to get to know anybody, or just lost their old friends for a number of reasons.
    We may not have old friends but we're sure as hell never truly alone 💖
    Hope you're doing well despite it all :)

    • @Crashentyre
      @Crashentyre Před 2 lety +5

      Thank you.

    • @megansouty1391
      @megansouty1391 Před 2 lety

      Moving a lot when u are young sucks cuz of the friends u leave behind

  • @StephanieKPhoto
    @StephanieKPhoto Před 6 lety +964

    Ben's bouncy piano playing is the best

  • @ROHIT_9
    @ROHIT_9 Před 5 lety +4679

    I wish there was a way to know you're in the good old days before you've actually left them- Andy Bernard
    Edit: I'm gonna take the opportunity and ask a favor to anyone reading this, I NEED TO MEET RANVEER SINGH(Bollywood actor), im not a fan but see... theres this "GIRL" who is a big fan and im trying to make that happen. Hope it happens someday. yes im also aware this request seems lame...
    *Edit 11Oct22: update for any1 that cares, "Girl" getting married next month still not met ranveer yet 😕

  • @RagebrosINC
    @RagebrosINC Před 5 lety +281

    Went to the same high school as Ben but graduated a few years later. Everyone at the school was his biggest fan. He is such a nice guy and a beautiful voice.

  • @clareu9539
    @clareu9539 Před rokem +25

    For those of us who moved around a lot and didn't have the stability to make lasting friendships as children, two things: you are not alone, and - it isn't too late to make new friends who can become old friends. I have friends now who know me far better than my childhood friends. I didn't meet them until we were adults, but we've been friends now for almost two-thirds of our lives.

  • @AmericanDoughnutWizard
    @AmericanDoughnutWizard Před 6 lety +1303

    This might just be one of my favorite music videos of all time.

  • @JJ-Malone
    @JJ-Malone Před 6 lety +4984

    When I randomly click videos In hope of finding something good! And it pays off :-)

    • @stephiereimer8729
      @stephiereimer8729 Před 6 lety +6

      same (:

    • @teresamurray250
      @teresamurray250 Před 6 lety +14

      JJ's Life I do the same thing and find some amazing music often...no exception here!

    • @garylibra
      @garylibra Před 6 lety +7

      Yep, totally. I was watching Weezer and next thing I knew I found this guy and now I'm a fan. Life's great, huh?

    • @Hakajin
      @Hakajin Před 6 lety +9

      Found most of my favorite bands that way!

    • @mohineshraman8101
      @mohineshraman8101 Před 6 lety +2

      Same

  • @rulelove1
    @rulelove1 Před 5 lety +379

    I know somebody already say it but the "and I've got some good friends now but I've never seen their parent's back porch" is truly, truly amazing.

    • @jarojoe67cox27
      @jarojoe67cox27 Před 5 lety +2

      Running from the past it is all barbed wire green roses

    • @cowboy_levi6283
      @cowboy_levi6283 Před 4 lety

      Ik I've had 5 friends back in my old town whos parents back porches I've seen now in my new town ive seen none of my friends back porches

    • @jasonchui5317
      @jasonchui5317 Před 3 lety +4

      same energy as 'castle on the hill' by Ed Sheeran. though this is better

  • @MitchPhillips
    @MitchPhillips Před 5 lety +76

    This was an unexpected gem. As a 34 year old father of two boys aged 3 yo and 6 weeks, this song made me yearn for my childhood again, but be so excited for theirs. Brilliant tune.

    • @benjaminhamrick
      @benjaminhamrick Před rokem +2

      Yes! And now I love thinking about all of the yard games my kids play with neighbors and the relationships they'll be reminiscing about when they are my age.

  • @laurasherman99
    @laurasherman99 Před 6 lety +300

    I love the little comments on the lyrics, they really added to the video

  • @katmcdowellmusic
    @katmcdowellmusic Před 6 lety +818

    This video was so touching.. takes me back to my high school band practicing in Stefan’s garage and the adventures we used to go on.
    Stefan passed away from cancer a couple of months ago so this made me teary and touched me deeply. I’ll share this with the rest of my band mates.
    Thank you Ben!

    • @mmx123
      @mmx123 Před 6 lety +6

      sorry for your loss

    • @TonkaJay
      @TonkaJay Před 6 lety +9

      Oh the adventures you can recall. The beauty of friendship are the memories that are forever burned into your memory.
      I'm sorry for your loss.
      It's awesome how music an bring you back and help you recall.

    • @moonishome7896
      @moonishome7896 Před 6 lety +2

      R.i.p 🌹🌹

    • @Inflake
      @Inflake Před 6 lety +3

      katmcdowell My deepest condolonces

    • @thefutureinvestor
      @thefutureinvestor Před 6 lety +2

      Sorry for your loss...

  • @SaltySam43
    @SaltySam43 Před 3 lety +70

    This song leveled me. Sobbing while driving to a buddy’s place. I’m in my 40’s, and seem to get softer every year (physically and emotionally). Initially it made me think of my high school buddies. But my youngest just moved out and went off to college. I immediately thought of him, and his set of buddies. His senior year got screwed by COVID. Its all so fleeting. But those memories stick with you forever.
    Tell your friends you love them! Keep in touch. Raise good kids and love their friends, too.

    • @robertward4785
      @robertward4785 Před 11 měsíci +2

      Wait til you hit your 50's brother Wtf

    • @mhalsmith
      @mhalsmith Před 5 měsíci +1

      this is true! feeling all the similar-feels, bro.

  • @rupaullechtzino232
    @rupaullechtzino232 Před 4 lety +164

    FULL LYRICS:
    I can still find Wiley's house
    Riding on my bike with eyes closed
    I could name every girl that he took out
    And from my memory, dial his house phone
    Can you take me back when we were just kids
    Who weren't scared of getting older? (yeah, yeah)
    'Cause no one knows you like they know you
    And no one probably ever will
    You can grow up, make new ones
    But truth is there's nothing like old friends
    'Cause you can't make old friends (mm, yeah)
    I can still feel the windows down
    Listening to Jimmy Eat World
    Riding 3-wide on Blake's bench seat (yeah)
    My God, it's been ten years now
    I would have his back tomorrow
    And he'd still fight anyone who tried to touch me
    Can you take me back when we were just kids
    Who weren't scared of getting older? (yeah, yeah)
    'Cause no one knows you like they know you
    And no one probably ever will
    You can grow up, make new ones
    But truth is there's nothing like old friends
    'Cause you can't make old friends
    And I've got some good friends now
    But I've never seen their parents' back porch
    I wouldn't change how things turned out
    But there's no one in this time zone
    Who knows what inline skates that I wore
    Can you take me back when we were just kids
    Who weren't scared of getting older?
    'Cause no one knows you like they know you
    And no one probably ever will
    You can grow up, make new ones
    But the truth is
    That we grow up, then wish we could go back then
    There's nothing like old friends
    'Cause you can't make old friends

    • @RogueJedi501
      @RogueJedi501 Před 2 lety

      @@oliviapedersen8008 to read them with the music video. Sometimes you miss a word or two and it helps to follow it

  • @naomigrace8261
    @naomigrace8261 Před 5 lety +123

    "surround yourself with people who strengthen your character, and remove yourself from people who compromise your character."

  • @robertgallentine1095
    @robertgallentine1095 Před 4 měsíci +6

    "I still find ____ house, riding on my bike with my eyes closed... from my memory dialed his house phone". That hit my heart hard. My best friend, 20+ years growing up. Brothers in all sense of the word, and unfortunately we do not talk anymore. I miss him everyday, but can close my eyes and see every inch of his house and yard.
    I also cannot express how much I love that you got your highschool band together for a song and made a video with them for said song! All too often we see singers leave behind those that helped them make it in the first place!

    • @katrabbit
      @katrabbit Před 4 měsíci +1

      I know exactly what you mean. I can still picture everything.

  • @huss2600
    @huss2600 Před 5 lety +210

    It hit me hard
    "Who Weren't scared of getting older"

    • @MadeByIsmael
      @MadeByIsmael Před 5 lety +11

      its "we weren't scared of getting older"

    • @huss2600
      @huss2600 Před 5 lety

      @@MadeByIsmael haha bro I just realised.

  • @alexquarles1703
    @alexquarles1703 Před rokem +29

    This is the first song that played in when I got into my car the morning I found out my oldest friend had just died in a car accident. We both grew up playing music together from age 11 and shared the stage for the last time only a couple of months prior to him passing at 30 years old. I appreciate this song more than you’ll probably ever know because everytime I hear it, my mind flashes back with the thousands of hours we spent together making music and creating memories that I’ll cherish forever. Just want to say thank you for that, because life becomes so much different when they’re gone.

    • @timouwinga
      @timouwinga Před rokem +2

      Thank you for sharing this beautiful tribute. May they fly high and free.

  • @margaretflynn6682
    @margaretflynn6682 Před 6 lety +372

    I'm gonna be listening to this song 40 years from now, reminiscing.

  • @allison_eide
    @allison_eide Před 6 lety +330

    aaaaand Ben Rector wins the most simplicity-rules making creative genius music video award.... again

  • @SevenEightHeinz
    @SevenEightHeinz Před 7 měsíci +5

    Hey Ben and the EuroMart,
    I just want you guys to know that I found myself straying from my old friends and on top of many factors this song came into my life when I was down and it encouraged me to reach out to Matt and Nathan. Our relationship/brotherhood is rekindling and I want to let you guys know that it touched me so deeply that I reached out and it’s flourishing. Thanks for the push back in the right direction.
    I wouldn’t have had the courage without this last push.
    Much love and respect. Thanks y’all.

  • @McjeamAriexs
    @McjeamAriexs Před 3 lety +6

    I'm crying right now but in a good way because of this!

  • @timeflies313
    @timeflies313 Před 6 lety +419

    Why does this song make me miss and long for friends that I never had...

    • @colorfulmimic9464
      @colorfulmimic9464 Před 6 lety +7

      because if you feel Some type of way like reminscent
      then that means you had friends who were better than anyone you've met, you just didn't realize it till now.
      soon you'll find more friends who'll be your old friends, who you can meet up anytime and not be afraid

    • @timeflies313
      @timeflies313 Před 5 lety +7

      @@colorfulmimic9464 hope I find those friends quick hahaha I need them now because of college. Time really flies so fast it's frightening, but at the same time you feel something unknown. Maybe a mixture of some, if not all, emotions and feelings.

    • @jubdubz9426
      @jubdubz9426 Před 5 lety

      Because thats litterally the name of the song

  • @Jenn1429
    @Jenn1429 Před 6 lety +601

    I can still find Wiley's house
    Riding on my bike with eyes closed
    I can name every girl that he took out
    And from my memory, dial his house phone
    [Chorus]
    Can you take me back when we were just kids
    Who weren't scared of getting older? (yeah yeah)
    'Cause no one knows you like they know you
    And no one probably ever will
    You can grow up, make new ones
    But truth is there's nothing like old friends (oooh)
    'Cause you can't make old friends (oooh) (mmm yeah)
    [Verse 2]
    I can still feel the windows down
    Listening to Jimmy Eat World riding 3-wide on Blake's bench seat (yeah)
    My God, it's been ten years now
    I would have his back tomorrow
    And he'd still fight anyone who tried to touch me
    [Chorus]
    Can you take me back when we were just kids
    Who weren't scared of getting older? (yeah yeah) (oooh)
    'Cause no one knows you like they know you
    And no one probably ever will
    You can grow up, make new ones
    But truth is there's nothing like old friends (oooh)
    'Cause you can't make old friends (oooh)
    [Bridge]
    And I've got some good friends now
    But I've never seen their parents' back porch
    I wouldn't change how things turned out
    But there's no one in this time zone
    Who knows what inline skates that I wore
    [Chorus 2]
    Can you take me back when we were just kids
    Who weren't scared of getting older? (oooh)
    'Cause no one knows you like they know you
    And no one probably ever will
    You can grow up, make new ones
    But the truth is
    That we grow up, then wish we could go back then
    There's nothing like old friends (oooh)
    'Cause you can't make old friends (oooh)

  • @ejoe8261
    @ejoe8261 Před 2 lety +3

    I remember the last hangout night with my best bud before he took off for the Marines. We camped up on our favorite spot as a last hurrah to the good ole days. We were 17. This was in the summer of 2001 (pre 9/11) Little did we know what was to take place. Sometime after boot camp, he got sent off to Iraq and almost lost his life in the war. He was a changed person after all of that- he had grown into a man and the pastimes of our childhood were over. He’s still my closest friend but life isn’t as sweet as it was when we were kids. We’ve had to help each other through life’s greatest hardships, painful break ups we both went through, him loosing a lot of his friends in the war, me loosing my Dad… I am so grateful to God for him. So this song hits deep for me- if you’re young and reading this, cherish your friendships, call your friends and tell them how much they mean to you, take them out to lunch and pay for it, because one day you’ll wake up and it’ll be a distant memory in the past.

  • @maxwolthuis
    @maxwolthuis Před 4 lety +49

    Dude this song had me in tears, I look back on my childhood and feel like my youth was wasted

    • @nathaniel4869
      @nathaniel4869 Před 4 lety +7

      Nah way, your story is your story. Live your life and be grateful!

    • @katelynbrown98
      @katelynbrown98 Před 3 lety +2

      Idk how old you are, but I'm 27 & feel the same way. Don't get so lost with your time online that you forget to live in real life. Never be someone you're not. Don't compromise your values or interests to please other people and just live in the moment. Dont be so worried with recording everything & just live in it. You can recover your youth for sure. There's always new ways to make new friends and make up for any time you feel has been lost.

    • @civilfree6455
      @civilfree6455 Před 2 lety

      finally i actually
      found out someone who got feeling like me

    • @bmad8691
      @bmad8691 Před 2 lety +3

      I was crying to. I have no friends now not old not new. My only friends are my kids husband and 2 kitty cats

    • @civilfree6455
      @civilfree6455 Před 2 lety

      @@bmad8691 😢

  • @ericaaguirre6881
    @ericaaguirre6881 Před 6 lety +3561

    I can’t even make new friends

  • @rachhafreakk123
    @rachhafreakk123 Před 6 lety +180

    This song made me realize that I have had my "Old Friends" by my side this entire time and I am SO thankful for that. Find your people and never let them go.

  • @julianm5911
    @julianm5911 Před 3 lety +32

    I’m a freshman in high school and trust me I’ll make the most of it

  • @gabriellemasone3443
    @gabriellemasone3443 Před 4 lety +61

    I wish I still had those friendships from high school. Nothing touches that.

  • @benderbi
    @benderbi Před 6 lety +772

    OMG! I'm not too old but this song bring tears to my eyes! Soooo good!

  • @karsenpiatek6439
    @karsenpiatek6439 Před 6 lety +231

    I can still find Wiley's house
    Riding on my bike with eyes closed
    I can name every girl that he took out
    And from my memory, dial his house phone
    Can you take me back when we were just kids
    Who weren't scared of getting older? (yeah yeah)
    'Cause no one knows you like they know you
    And no one probably ever will
    You can grow up, make new ones
    But truth is there's nothing like old friends (oooh)
    'Cause you can't make old friends (oooh) (mmm yeah)
    I can still feel the windows down
    Listening to Jimmy Eat World riding 3-wide on Blake's bench seat (yeah)
    My God, it's been ten years now
    I would have his back tomorrow
    And he'd still fight anyone who tried to touch me
    Can you take me back when we were just kids
    Who weren't scared of getting older? (yeah yeah) (oooh)
    'Cause no one knows you like they know you
    And no one probably ever will
    You can grow up, make new ones
    But truth is there's nothing like old friends (oooh)
    'Cause you can't make old friends (oooh)
    And I've got some good friends now
    But I've never seen their parents' back porch
    I wouldn't change how things turned out
    But there's no one in this time zone
    Who knows what inline skates that I bought
    Can you take me back when we were just kids
    Who weren't scared of getting older? (oooh)
    'Cause no one knows you like they know you
    And no one probably ever will
    You can grow up, make new ones
    But the truth is
    That we grow up, then wish we could go back then
    There's nothing like old friends (oooh)
    'Cause you can't make old friends (oooh)

  • @raymondroe8722
    @raymondroe8722 Před 2 lety +14

    This video just warms my heart to no end. We can’t make old friends and they do know us differently. Played this dozens of times and grateful to have found it. Now I gotta see Ben live!

  • @kendalfurman2603
    @kendalfurman2603 Před 3 lety +4

    I found my old friend from high school 33 years later at our daughters' middle school! We will never let each other go again. Love you Carole.

  • @laramievanhoesen1587
    @laramievanhoesen1587 Před 6 lety +105

    I didn't want this music video to end. Such a great song and wholesome video. I need a thousand times more Ben Rector in my life.

  • @biltrex
    @biltrex Před 6 lety +92

    Ben's got that straight-to-the-heart emotion of the best Spielberg and Pixar films, plus the infectious catchiness of the best pop hooks, but it all seems so effortless and natural, like a woman who's beautiful even without makeup. Proud to share a home state with such a talent. :)

  • @elic6484
    @elic6484 Před 5 lety +52

    whenever i feel scared of moving away from high school and losing the friendships ive built i come to this song

  • @rjbeatsradio2172
    @rjbeatsradio2172 Před 4 lety +720

    *All the dislikes are from his new friends*

    • @jackshadow1234
      @jackshadow1234 Před 4 lety +9

      hell yeah! i don't know what kind of person just goes to a video to leave a dislike, they don't know how to live life to the fullest and realize were all in this together. We lift one another up.
      Hope your all having a wonderful day like i am.

    • @chanlereleton
      @chanlereleton Před 4 lety

      😂😂😂

    • @elizabethpettigrew4382
      @elizabethpettigrew4382 Před 3 lety +1

      Love this comment 👏🏼❤️

    • @ShainaCilimberg
      @ShainaCilimberg Před 3 lety

      lol

    • @nukkungtayeng3658
      @nukkungtayeng3658 Před 3 lety

      Noice~~~😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @alohacoach8002
    @alohacoach8002 Před 3 lety +21

    That line, "you can't make old friends" got me

  • @ravenoraka1169
    @ravenoraka1169 Před 4 lety +21

    If only I wasn't at the office right now, I probably already cry my eyes out. Thanks Ben for making me miss all my old good friends, the ones who were there in the beginning.

  • @flippinin
    @flippinin Před 4 lety +7

    I’m a senior in high school and I’ve grown up in a small California town my entire life. The friends I have now are the people I grew up with, for better or for worse. Now that I’m a senior, I’m realizing my time with them is about to expire. I’m moving away with my family to Tennessee since california is getting too hard to live in, but I may never see them again, which is hitting me pretty hard. And don’t get me wrong, I’m excited for a new chapter of my life in a place I love so much, but the love is not the same kind of love that I feel for my little hometown. As he said, the new friends I’ll make will not be the same as the ones I’ve known my entire life.
    I’ve made a promise to try and come back as often as I can to see them, but who knows what life will busy next up with..?

  • @geekytechycool
    @geekytechycool Před rokem +13

    Song literally brings me to tears.
    Growing up my friends were my family because my "family" was a shit show. I'm lucky enough to still be friends with a lot of my core group 20+ years later. I wouldn't change any of it for the world 🙂
    Thank you for writing such an amazing song that speaks to my soul.

  • @benjensen8336
    @benjensen8336 Před 5 lety +22

    *THIS SONG SHOULD BE A HIT ON THE RADIO!!!!!*

  • @TejuAbiola
    @TejuAbiola Před 6 lety +232

    This is fantastic. The video enhances the song so much in its simplicity. Bravo, Ben!

  • @fionawallace2412
    @fionawallace2412 Před 14 dny +1

    I listened to this song in highschool with my big friend group that saw each other everyday after school. Now we’ve been out of highschool for a couple years and I miss how often we were able to see one another. We all still talk but I can’t remember the last time we were all together. Thank you for this song.

  • @TheLiddell4
    @TheLiddell4 Před 5 lety +7

    You ever just get a sick gut feeling that you will never be young again and all you have left is memories that you wish you could relive? I’m 19 and already have these feelings lmao

  • @RobertoHernandez-wl1kl
    @RobertoHernandez-wl1kl Před 4 lety +18

    Listening to it right now while in high school, knowing that this inevitably will happen with the people I know right now.

  • @bluewin13
    @bluewin13 Před 5 lety +64

    I wish I could relate to this song. I really do.

  • @daveferrara3493
    @daveferrara3493 Před 2 lety +1

    Had a garage band back in high school in 1967 . Me, Rick, mick and Dennis reminds me of such a great time in life. 70 years old now still see some old friends girls to talk about listen to us playing in the garage.What a cheap ticket back to the future. All the memories start flying by things that you’ve done people that you’ve made friends with and still are friends with. Thanks for sharing your song is Ben!!!!

  • @chrisplayzhd6722
    @chrisplayzhd6722 Před 2 lety +1

    It's sad that we grew up with our childhood friends and now having friends that we didint know in our childhood. I miss you David.🙁

  • @louhvie
    @louhvie Před 4 lety +15

    this song feels like an old friend. man. Ben, your music is always so good.

  • @NeekaDaWeirdo16
    @NeekaDaWeirdo16 Před 5 lety +6

    Ben’s bouncing gives me life! 😂❤️ I LOVE THIS SONG SO MUCH!!

  • @avonazil
    @avonazil Před 4 lety +10

    Where did all those years go? 🙁
    Missing all my childhood friends, we're all so close back then,this song is so true " you can grow up , make new friends but nothing like old friends" 😭😭😭

  • @docradio
    @docradio Před 6 měsíci +1

    Some of the most "heart hitting" lyrics i've ever experienced. Thanks you, Ben.

  • @mariapena627
    @mariapena627 Před 6 lety +98

    I’m home for the summer after my 2nd year of college and this video has got me missing my old friends from high school that live minutes away. So sooo cute. Incredible music video for an incredible song!!

  • @midnightcatianfanfic3994
    @midnightcatianfanfic3994 Před 4 lety +5

    Is anybody else scared because they aren't that close to their best friends and realizing they may never actually have old friends this valuable?

  • @lauravd3113
    @lauravd3113 Před 3 lety +8

    We need to never forget how amazing this song and video are. Classic. Ben has so much talent, more than any other artist out there right now.

  • @toddharmon8141
    @toddharmon8141 Před rokem +3

    Ben is a fantastic example of great lyrical phrasing. And his songs are almost always easy for everyone to relate to. Not like most music that speaks to a small minority. He's just damn good......

  • @manthatsfunky
    @manthatsfunky Před 6 lety +12

    Great call to action at the end! I remember being at summer camp in Lampe, Missouri at K-West (or maybe K-2?), and Ben was a camp counselor that summer for some of the younger guys, but he was also the main worship leader that summer! It's so rad to see where he has come and gone since then. Bless you Ben!

  • @ancientbuns6770
    @ancientbuns6770 Před 5 lety +84

    All I got is one old friend, and that’s enough for me

  • @daniafifaamalia8143
    @daniafifaamalia8143 Před 4 lety +6

    don't know why I'm crying listening to this song... old friends are irreplaceable forever

  • @RamblinAround
    @RamblinAround Před 2 lety +3

    I come back to this one over and over. Love everything about it.

  • @breanamalloy137
    @breanamalloy137 Před 6 lety +107

    I love this song so much. I’ve been a fan since I was 13 entering high school and now I’m almost 20. I just find Ben to be such a down to earth and amazing person. His music is truly one of a kind.

    • @mariapena627
      @mariapena627 Před 6 lety +3

      Breana Malloy I’ve been a fan of Ben’s for the same amount of time!! I turn 20 this month. He’s incredible 😭❤️

    • @breanamalloy137
      @breanamalloy137 Před 6 lety

      Maria Pena omg that’s so crazy!!

    • @alexride242
      @alexride242 Před 6 lety +2

      I just turned 20 and im remembering all the wonderful times with friends :)

    • @TejuAbiola
      @TejuAbiola Před 6 lety +1

      Are we the same person, lol?

    • @willdathrillafromdavilla
      @willdathrillafromdavilla Před 6 lety

      turned 20 two days ago

  • @jpdempat1
    @jpdempat1 Před 5 lety +81

    This makes me long for that small-town neighborhood experience I never had. Not sure if anything else ever has.

  • @migwelfrancisco5915
    @migwelfrancisco5915 Před 4 lety +1

    that little fist bump between Blake and Wylie at 2:46 is just one of the many things in this video that hit so close to home

  • @wcoyote1466
    @wcoyote1466 Před 2 lety +1

    As a Wylie who values my oldest friends, this song is amazing. Thanks for sharing it with us.

  • @hopepaschall35
    @hopepaschall35 Před 6 lety +121

    This is probably one of the simplest yet coolest concepts for a video I’ve ever seen :) I loved the little tidbits of info that were shared too, as well as just the song itself. Thanks for making another great one.

  • @sheldonstevig7938
    @sheldonstevig7938 Před 5 lety +6

    When a song makes you cry within 15 seconds, you know its great..
    Wish I still talked to my old friends.

  • @JahmarleyGrant
    @JahmarleyGrant Před 5 lety +1

    Damn, I made it to the end and then started weeping like a baby. How they were playing together and smiling so hard. We used to smile like that, I miss my old friends.

  • @atbattson
    @atbattson Před rokem +2

    This song is so EPIC!!!!!! Nostalgia, reflection, life x10000000000000000000000000000000. The older I get the more it works. Cannot thank Ben enough for writing it.

  • @poptemporanea
    @poptemporanea Před 6 lety +6

    Wow!!! I´m crying. Love the song, the video, the friendship.
    The old friends are a blessing.
    My best friend died when we were 16. It´s been 20 years now. But he´s still here wearing he´s band shirt and the dirty snickers. And singing in our favourites chorus. Thanks!
    Love from Argentina.

  • @lovelyzza3694
    @lovelyzza3694 Před 5 lety +3

    Wow!! Good music! Walker Burroughs led me here 😍 im so happy to find another songwriter to admire! Praise God for His many good gifts!

  • @jamemceebigbee5631
    @jamemceebigbee5631 Před 9 měsíci +2

    Can y'all come organize my garage, please and thank you? The struggle is for real. That's what old friends are for right?

  • @thyswifey
    @thyswifey Před 4 lety +2

    Standing here in my kitchen, making breakfast for my five kids, listening to this for the first time...there’s something in my eye 😢

  • @jackshadow1234
    @jackshadow1234 Před 4 lety +3

    Man you never forget old friends, the good old days is a blessing to us all and this world isn't big enough to ruin opportunities that will come to us, ive been really thinking about song writing and now i just might do it. *"Follow your dreams people, words can save a persons life, and rewrite history."*
    i don't know what kind of person just goes to a video to leave a dislike, they don't know how to live life to the fullest and realize were all in this together. We lift one another up.
    Hope your all having a wonderful day like i am.

  • @JadenMaskie
    @JadenMaskie Před 6 lety +4

    So underrated. One of the most meaningful songs. Beautiful!!

  • @mitochondrion97
    @mitochondrion97 Před 5 lety +1

    Goosebumps. Really. When you and ur old friends get together nothing gets hyped up more. Familiarity is to die for still

  • @scottbuck455
    @scottbuck455 Před 2 lety

    My wife and I just got back today from my home town. We got to see some old friends I haven't seen in 25 years and she's never met. Man how a town can change in 25 years.

  • @rosestrohm7986
    @rosestrohm7986 Před 5 lety +132

    Idk why but this has a Contemporary Christian vibe better than Contemporary Christian music does

    • @ChetSamuel.
      @ChetSamuel. Před 4 lety +2

      Derek Strohm it’s the vocals

    • @katelynbrown98
      @katelynbrown98 Před 3 lety +1

      It kinda reminds me of Tenth Avenue North or Relient K. I wouldn't be surprised if he was influenced by them.

    • @ttone2379
      @ttone2379 Před 2 lety

      this thought crossed my mind as well hit me harder than some worship songs haha

  • @starstalker0
    @starstalker0 Před 5 lety +17

    I'm only 18, but to be honest, I've been feeling this way for a while now. Can't imagine how much more I'll feel it as I grow older

  • @miraclebugs7199
    @miraclebugs7199 Před 3 lety +2

    This is so pure.

  • @SwissArmyCheese
    @SwissArmyCheese Před 4 lety +3

    I'm so jealous of this song. You really have to be a certain type of person, and have had certain experiences to write and sing/perform a number like this. Especially with a band where the lyrics resonate as well. I have old friends, but they're long gone now. I don't know them anymore. I definitely couldn't reach out to them to bring the band back together and put together something like this, as much as I'd love to.

  • @bookreader100000
    @bookreader100000 Před 5 lety +14

    just found this song, A childhood friend of mine just Od'd earlier this year and when the line "I would have his back tomorrow And he'd still fight anyone who tried to touch me" hit i just started bawling. we used to have each others backs all the time and that line hit me in the gut.

  • @tj1332
    @tj1332 Před 3 lety +1

    I first listened to this song on Oct.18.2020 and thought about my childhood friends. I cried because I was so grateful to still have them in my life. On that day I considered send sharing this with them and letting them know I missed them. On Oct. 24. 2020 I woke up to the news that one of them had passed away. I'm hurt and honestly stuck because it was sudden to me. She was my oldest childhood friend and was the type of person that everyone wanted/needed in their lives. Today (a day after) I listen to this song with frustration that I never sent it to her, but deep in my heart, I know she knew I loved her and all the memories we created.

  • @DIYwithGideon
    @DIYwithGideon Před 4 lety +1

    Me and my 3 best friends used to have sleepovers and play Minecraft and Roblox and Garry's Mod till all hours of the morning. But one of those friends you could go to for any kind of technological help and he'd help you no matter what. He's my BEST best friend. What a friend

  • @jEsUsLoVeSmE87
    @jEsUsLoVeSmE87 Před 5 lety +5

    Literally one of the best nostalgic videos ever made. Ugh, the feels ❤️

  • @sephsingko
    @sephsingko Před 6 lety +17

    Now missing my old friends. It gets better and better hitting the replay.

  • @dgyoutube2405
    @dgyoutube2405 Před 11 měsíci +1

    You will never top that song. Its amazing

  • @Docsamadhi
    @Docsamadhi Před 2 lety +1

    To all the seniors/ high schoolers...make the effort, make the time, hug your friends, there's no better time then right now. I know your excited about moving on in life, but take a minute to look around.

  • @courtneyvavricka6180
    @courtneyvavricka6180 Před 6 lety +14

    My favorite music video probably ever done. I love the additional comments throughout the video -- so fun! THANK YOU for sharing such a personal part of you, Ben. We're all the better for it. 💕