When You Think The NARCISSIST Is Happy About Discarding You - They Aren't! You Must Know This!
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- When You Think The NARCISSIST Is Happy About Discarding You - They Aren't! You Must Know This! | NPD | Narcissism | Behind The Science
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder
When I needed him most, he was not supportive
If anything, they're at their most annoyed when you need an assist.
They never are but they will accept your help willinging
I thought I was going crazy. I was hospitalized and diagnosed and He's been on a rampage! Basically like get over it. 😮 I have never felt so alone
That's exactly what they do..never can tell them when you are going thru things..they hate you for it and will use it against you to hurt you even more.
If he found out I was weak or emotionally weak, instead of supporting, he would kick me when I was down.
The narcissist will deny anything that they do against you! Envy and greed is what drives narcissists to do what they do to you thinking that you are not intelligent enough to find out the truth about them! It is only after we leave them do we see them for what they really are ! No more Contact is what you will need to solve your abusive problems and issues with narcissists in your life!Healing and Therapy regarding this matter is what you will need in the end of your unhealthy relationship!
1) Lovebombing, 2) Devalue, 3 Discard, that was my experience, came home one day and she had moved out, never said a word to me, it's been almost 2 yrs, let the healing begin!
You got this! She took the trash out herself
Same thing happened to me. She got back with me to do that same exact behavior we broke up about. Moved back to my hometown with me then found new supply bc she lacks the ability to understand relationships take work and reciprocation. And was shocked I said we never got back together. I was giving her a chance to show real change but it never showed up.
It got so bad with the narc I was with that it was just total rejection after a while.
At first she came into my life , and told me things like she wanted to have children with me , she wished I was the father of the children she already had. She would tell me how great I was , and how much she had loved me for years before we even got together.
After a while it got to the point that even when I would say something sweet to her , she would never respond. She never said anything back to me in an intimate way. There was no affection , no intimacy , and definitely no sex between us. She couldn’t even show me any attention at all relationship wise. She would even pull away when I went to kiss her.
Throughout everything she still managed to tell me that she loved me , but after the discard , and after telling me she wanted things to be fixed between us , she quit telling me she loved me. All of a sudden everything was about me and how I ruined our relationship just because I would tell her how she made me feel , and would ask her why she always rejected me.
During that discard I started getting ignored , the silent treatment for days , and she would ghost me every night that she was talking to me. She would never text me at all unless I text her first.
But after all of this , she made sure she would try making me feel obligated to give her money for her rent at her roommates apartment. Not to mention the whole time we were together I paid all the rent and utilities. I paid for every single thing down to the clothes she had on her back , the vapes and cigarettes she smoked. I mean I took care of everything because she couldn’t keep a job and would quit the very day she started.
I understand she was just using me now , but I let my feelings for her blind me for a year and a half. Now we’ve been broken up for 3 months , and I couldn’t handle it anymore , now I’m day 6 of no contact.
I still have yet to hear from her , and she hasn’t tried hoovering me yet , but I’m sure she will since this isn’t the first time that I’ve been discarded from this cold hearted woman.
There’s so much more that I could write about , but I’ve said enough.
I will say that since I’ve went no contact , when I start missing her , for whatever reason I don’t know , or when I get that lonely feeling , I find it helps to watch these videos , and I think of all the things she has done to me , and everything I’ve lost being with this woman. My point being , whatever helps you get away from these cold hearted people , do it.
Another word , don’t ever let another person cheat on you rather that be physically or emotionally. Cheating is cheating and that should be the line you can’t ever cross back over. Get rid of them.
Thanks for everyone’s time who actually read this comment. I wish all of us narc survivors the best and a happy life. We can get away from these people and never let this happen again. Give yourself the knowledge to pick up on all of these red flags right off the bat.
@@actionpls. I understand the feeling. I did everything for the woman I was with as well and all I got out of it was cheated on and rejected completely. It’s a real shame that we give our all and get nothing in return , and it’s not like we ask much.
The thing is many times we should know how to balance the relationship by simply put all of that energy back to us. Do not give to her all the time everything you have keep things for you and see what happens. if she doesn't make any significant steps back then she really is not worth it. We are getting the belief that if you give more then you will receive and after giving some and not receiving you give even more, which most people(especially girls) acknowledge as weak
@@PanethGian yeah they perceive it as being a sucker , but lessons learned and I’ll never go down that road again. It was her that took my kindness as a weakness. So I hope she takes me walking away as even more of a statement. Let some other sucker deal with that. He will learn it’s not worth it.
I know how you feel man I just like over a year just woke up then I was like wtf he was using me the whole time ahhh😢
I can't really emphasize enough how the sad the situation is when you realize you lost time to someone who never intended to stay. I hope you are better now. I don't know why a narcissist would want to lose time as well, maybe it's a level up thing
This is the best explanation of a narcissist I have ever heard , I'm still dealing with mine and I pray all who go through this finds Peace ❣️❣️
Me too! Stay strong in Christ sister 🙏🏼✝️🔥🔥✨❤️ they’re demons
This is exactly what I have experienced. Unbelievable how accurate this video explains it.
Excellent video! Your content validated my feelings and gave me clarity about things I experienced towards the end of an extremely toxic relationship with a malignant covert narcissist. I didn't know or even understand what was happening. The narcissist devalued me constantly and started a romantic relationship with an acquaintance of mine and kept it hidden from me for over 1 year!
When I made it clear that I had enough and that I wanted nothing to do with him romantically, he acted like he understood and requested that we remain friends. Then he would, out of nowhere, say you probably will never speak to me again then disappear for a few days then act like nothing happened, or I keep trying to leave you but I just can't which I thought was weird because he had new supply and I was alone. Then I took my power back and went no contact, and I haven't looked back since. 💨🙏💪🏾
I needed to listen to this today. I’m keeping my faith close to my heart. ✡️✡️✡️✡️
They don't have a need to know God
When I made it clear to my narcissist ex-fiancée that I could no longer envision a future with her she cut off all communication. There was no attempt to mend the breach.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
@@peterwilliams6361 Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@@DailamiPuang Her name is chamani White, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
@@peterwilliams6361 Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Please listen because I completely understand. You are trauma bonded to her. Narcissist do that and unless you understand what trauma bond is and get help to remove it she will remain in your thoughts.
I pray for healing
God been listening to my prayers again because I needed this video helped me see something and understand better
Great video! Wow! Thank you. Some of the most painful yet “happy” years of my life.
They can’t connect which means they don’t connect!
Well Said!!!!!!
OMG this video resonates with me I want to say thank you thank you so very much for this video I myself am not a narcissist but I tend to always get trapped by some of them in their web of manipulation and deceit and my family members are narcissists and everyday I fight against that type of spirit please pray for me sir you are a great person for having his channel I've been following you ever since thank you so much I'm going to get some type of released today thank you in Jesus name
This video is amazing I swear THANK YOU !
I funkin cant believe i let this woman get away with her behaviour .lm glad i learned about narcissism behavior. It gives me info and power about whats real and whats not .the one i was involved rwith was a good one .i fell hook line sinker but then realized something just was not right
They can be super smart and manipulative. Mine was a psychologist… so she could analyse me and hurt me with my deepest vulnerabilities
We are set up for this
Get married young, don’t even know what a good relationship is, if we date more than one person we are a bad person, it will never change(she’s been around) too late once you have children with these monsters, they go on to the next person and ruin their life’s too
They do this because THEY CAN
They are never happy ! Think about this : you were once the new supply, they discarded someone and made you the new supply. The old supply suffered and underestimated herself / himself when she / he saw the narc with you, believing that you both are happy ! Were you really happy with the narc ?? Was the narc happy with you ? Narcs are never happy.
Love this message thanks so much ❤️
Very well said and appreciate the spiritual perspective as well
Spot on video - raw truth
The narc sister is his biggest flying monkey
I have a bad sister too .I had all my life ,her rubbish until my mum and dad past away .After she tried to get everything she thought should be hers.
OMGoodness are u ever right
Amen to this
He likes spreading rumors about me and he is selfish. It seems like the only goal in his life is making more and more and more money for his own wow I do without and he does with out at this time
Yes thank you so much for this journey that I follow you for already almost 2 years be 2024 on March I see you and please continue with the CZcams videos I'm learning about narcissism I haven't heard from the external for 8 months and I would like to keep it that way and his ex are not family his mother was so phony and fake I mean she was a female narcissist so I'm glad that he's got discarded me the ex narc so hope for the best for him and God's graces🎉
Thanks!
God cannot save Satan as he will not repent, neither can a narc
Trying to learn more about myself
I should too
What a weird label that has popped up in the last decade. Aren't we all somewhat selfish?
What if my husband whom I've been with for 27 years is a narcissist? And I realized who he is after all these years...? What about “What God has joined together, let no man separate"?
I've had the same struggle with ending my 41 yr marriage. I understand what you're dealing with on both sides - stay or leave?
First, be in constant prayer for wisdom, Protection and guidance. Pray for your husband and don't stop no matter what your decision is about the relationship.
Second, find a trustworthy source to talk to who understands this behavior.
Third, we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers.
It isn't man that is separating you, it is the influences of these powers.
The devil comes to steal, kill and destroy.
Be aware, this behavior DOES take a physical, mental and relational toll on you - not in them.
With God's guidance, you will make the decision that is right for you.
@@cheryldelang8980 So I can blame the devil only? Demons? It's not my husband's responsibility?
There is something going on with my husband at the moment & I can’t pinpoint it, I never can. I can guess, but this silent treatment usually last 3-4 days, then he’s slow coming back around. I know he’s talking to other women. It’s happened before so after 14 years I can tell. He will not leave nor let me leave. My question is: Will he for sure discard or do some of them stay in a marriage till eternity. God I hope your answer is not eternity. I’m already crazy because of him, or so everyone thinks. How different I would be without him around. ❤ party time🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉!!
I was diagnose BPD 3 months into relationship (36) 38 now.
I now know I have a lot
Of autistic/adhd traits and have had them from childhood.
I dysregulated and cried what feels like everyday. This has got worse since the final discard 10 weeks ago.
I was abusive verbally, which got very bad at the end. She rarely abused me in any outward way. To be honest i used to call her normal and think she was an angel. It was me that was the issue. I only saw her cry 3-4 times in 3 years.
The dysregulation was always around lack of validation and abandonment.
I only grew suspicious somthing was off, which was a feeling I had throughout the whole relationship but put it down to BPD. at the end but was discarded before I realised and had any chance to confirm my thinking/feeling.
The breakup has left me really messed up.
I bounce between the signs I seen throughout the relationship and believing I have NPD.
I own up to my part, but I need to know if she was a covert as I suspected or if she was the angel she made out to be to everyone else.
It’s a horrible crossroad.
I don’t need closure. I need clarity to move forward.
I feel like I’m suffering covert narc abuse or narc mortification.
Seriously because I have no clarity it feels like I’m experiencing both and it’s doing big damage to me fast.
We all have narcissistic traits, but since you are learning and becoming self aware you can heal and do better for yourself. Get right with God. God will never abandon you.
Covert Narcissist are super kind and wonderful to everyone during the Devaluation stage… But behind the scenes at home, they ignore you and make comments to consistently show you “you are nothing, Not at all important or intelligent or wonderful or special in ANY WAY to Them”…
Creating a sense of Drowning in their victim.
Then they become VINDICITIVE.
What happens if the narcissist is happy with the new supply?
Give time don't panic ,they don't surve on relationship
My ex narc is my direct NEIGHBOR. She is very toxic but im not over it. I now moved temporary but one day i have to go back.How can i forgot her, while im jealous because she already have new supply i can hear and see? Do i need to move? HELP!
Your Job is too “Blind yourself of that person! LOVE YOURSELF… Your Job is to Cure yourself of the “WANT” of this Facade Fake was they Dish out! Trust me! 26 amazing Beautiful and Painful years, just to have him do a Final, “Adios “ like he Never knew me or our home or anything in our life!
He was a MILITARY COMMANDER…. once he retired He Needed More…. Evil came into him
Probably a good idea.
That’s not true
Men and woman have completely different brains, sexually we are compatible that’s it
What is the common medication they get on?
There is no medicine for the narcissist. It is beyond me how one can internally inject a drug that helps them empathize with another human being.
Mine began drinking more after discarding me…
That’s horrible
Unfortunately i was i guess the main supply until i wasn't im ok with that now i was like good luck getting your daughter to like some other woman ummmm.....
I don't care what they will do or say I know who I m they don't know who is
Narcissist belong 6ft under
This video is way too polarizing lol
This is NOT written from a centered, aligned and balanced perspective lol
God didnt create men woman the world or anything in it...tiny mad idea
God knows nothing about narcissists, sinners, the human race or unreality
"...Their fear of missing out on something better overcomes them." Ba-da-BOOM. Truth bomb about the ADDICTION that is narcissism.💣✴
And MY job was to have the self-love to see that I needed to overcome my fear of missing out on the experience of enjoying his Mr. Wonderful/Prince Charming side. Cuz the reality is that all that persona EVER was, was a facade - a role, an act, a charade, the "false self" meant to delude others from seeing his true unlovely self.
Lesson learned and MY addition to chasing the experience of the non-existent Mr. Wonderful, overcome. Mahalo for your excellent videos on your awesome channel!!
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Wow!!! Brilliantly SAID!!!!
Again, this was Perfectly said! Stands out in my brain..” My Job is to get OVER the wanting Mr. wonderful Fake Facade!”
My Job
My job
My X gf destroyed my houss in lunatic rage of pure Malevolence, i believe she is truly evil. Now she's prego w her New bf and living together. But she will be going to prison in the fall. She's facing a slew of felonies and misdemeanors. She destroyed me ugh.
This is the best *comforting* video I’ve seen so far 🤍🥲