a shocking phone call from Lilia + addressing the big question about my mom

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Komentáře • 306

  • @Kirstenleah13
    @Kirstenleah13 Před rokem +645

    Turn the sofa to face the corner where the tv is going, so it won’t be against the walls. It will create a hallway/ transition and then it will be a bit more cozy and everyone will face the tv :)

  • @kn397
    @kn397 Před rokem +173

    That's so cool Addie got an award as 'social butterfly' because I remember you saying when she was in preschool, the teachers asked you if she was even able to talk because she was so quiet! She has come a long way.

  • @charlottegunning1548
    @charlottegunning1548 Před rokem +43

    Addie is so cute the way she trys so hard to keep up with her brothers n sister! Her jumping on the trampoline n doing the splits! I'm impressed! All your children are so well balanced n kind. A tribute to you, Chris, Mimi n Pops! You, Jess are so Blessed to have such a giving n selfless mom. I salute your whole family!God bless yall. 🙏🏻❤🤗

  • @ericameyer691
    @ericameyer691 Před rokem +39

    Jessica, you literally have the sweetest/best kids in the entire world...when they were showing you their mother's day gifts & hearing them read you the letters was honestly so adorable! 😊 love you all so much

  • @MarshaKSmith
    @MarshaKSmith Před rokem +11

    Turn the couch where one back side is facing the windows and the other back side is facing the kitchen. Leave walk space between the couch and the windows.

  • @sngray11
    @sngray11 Před rokem +13

    I can totally see Mimi living in a tiny house! 💗 The trampoline was a great addition to your new home and your children’s reaction was priceless. 💞

  • @djdanjalover2008
    @djdanjalover2008 Před rokem +40

    Caden is such a sweetheart!! His reaction to the trampoline was so cute and the poem made me melt ❤❤

    • @djdanjalover2008
      @djdanjalover2008 Před rokem +1

      @@nleb1993 auto correct messed it up and it actually Kayden

  • @KristenH878
    @KristenH878 Před rokem +19

    My firstborn daughter just graduated yesterday im 36 i was 16 and pregnant and gave birth at 17. Im the very most proudest mom u could can even imagine! I love ur videos and OMG just wait till lilla(hope i spelled that right) is a high school grad it will make u cry cuz i did!!!! ❤btw me an my hubby have been together since 2002. 4 kid later ..2 girls 2 boys . We are still going strong

  • @moiragleason5767
    @moiragleason5767 Před rokem +10

    Jess OMG your kids are so sweet!! I cried hearing their poems and cards!! I miss getting them kind of gifts my kids are 22,18 & almost 16. I was a teen mom too I’m going to be 38 on the 31st I was 15 when I had my oldest. I hope you & Mimi had an Amazing Mothers Day!!

  • @jazzyjoleetv8820
    @jazzyjoleetv8820 Před rokem +3

    Watching this next clog I’m a row no matter what kind of mood I’m in right now, I mean these always cheer me up anyways!!❤

  • @omirasantillanes5150
    @omirasantillanes5150 Před rokem +7

    Can't wait to see the new vlog and hope you guys have a great Wednesday evening and night with the kids and can't wait to see what you guys have in store for your guys future house.

  • @mariamalnuaimi8973
    @mariamalnuaimi8973 Před rokem +3

    I truly love your channel. Keep doing the best work.

  • @meganharverson1989
    @meganharverson1989 Před rokem +3

    I would love to see a full video of all of the dances from this competition season now that it’s over 😍

  • @larissadean9616
    @larissadean9616 Před rokem +15

    you dont need to get a new couch, just rotate it and it will look alot better

  • @Thatgirlbella
    @Thatgirlbella Před rokem +7

    Your kids are so grateful ❤️

  • @suzyashby8777
    @suzyashby8777 Před rokem +15

    That’s so awesome Lillia got into leadership. Congratulations Lillia ❤❤

  • @chloerzzx3
    @chloerzzx3 Před rokem +14

    definitely put the couch so that the corner would look at where you want the tv, so one of the ends would kind of extend the hallway to lilia’s bedroom. it will kind of block off the living room but it should still feel decently open. other than that yea get another couch 🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @robyntabangay1299
    @robyntabangay1299 Před rokem +3

    i love ur vlogs i wait for them all the time

  • @VinVlogger
    @VinVlogger Před rokem +2

    Looks like you guys had an awesome day! LOVE YOU GUYS!!

  • @mr.blueshell0967
    @mr.blueshell0967 Před rokem +8

    I loved the fact that Mimi was on the trampoline with the kiddos.

  • @doodles3075
    @doodles3075 Před rokem +5

    Jess you going to have to get this dog... that and the chickens are in EVERY guess😂

  • @tinkabelle2526
    @tinkabelle2526 Před rokem +3

    The ending was so cute lilia was dancing at the front and addy was behind her watching her for the next move 🥰🥰 I love how close they are ❤❤

  • @Mari_bal
    @Mari_bal Před rokem +8

    Your kids are the sweetest ❤❤

  • @007achandler
    @007achandler Před rokem +2

    I've been looking for a new video for DAYS! LOL

  • @christinah4018
    @christinah4018 Před rokem +5

    I would say either put the couch against the wall where the tv is now, pointing at that slanted wall, or maybe against the windows? Or have the couch floating in the middle of the room pointing at the corner where the tv is going. You definitely want the opening of the couch facing the kitchen, that’ll open the room up so much more

  • @victoriarooney9667
    @victoriarooney9667 Před rokem +3

    Those Mother’s Day gifts made me cry 😭
    Nothing better then homemade gifts ❤

  • @jenefier417
    @jenefier417 Před rokem +5

    I love how she's holding melody!

  • @ashleyy.bubbless
    @ashleyy.bubbless Před rokem +2

    im crying about these gifts their all so sweet❤️

  • @mr.blueshell0967
    @mr.blueshell0967 Před rokem +17

    Did anyone else listen to the poem cards from the kids and get a little teary eyed? Kaden's got me. All of them were so precious, don't get me wrong. :)

  • @ilTHfeaa
    @ilTHfeaa Před rokem +3

    i’m literally crying at addies poem 🥺🥺🥺 that was so cute

  • @carolinenelson8709
    @carolinenelson8709 Před rokem +3

    I actually love you guys ❤❤

  • @macimarie0823
    @macimarie0823 Před rokem +4

    Ideally you’d flip things around and have a couch facing the fall it’s currently on, creating a walkway between the couch and glass door toward the hallway

  • @abbyray5947
    @abbyray5947 Před 11 měsíci

    I’m so excited for Mimi and her tiny home.The trampoline was a great idea.I loved the kids reaction.The kids cards were so cute I hope you and Mimi had a good Mother’s Day.🥰

  • @kimray9988
    @kimray9988 Před rokem +1

    I just love watching you guys......you are a good mom

  • @CraftyMcGeek
    @CraftyMcGeek Před rokem +7

    Your family is so precious, I cried when they gave you their Mother's Day crafts ❤

  • @MoniqueCherie88
    @MoniqueCherie88 Před rokem +3

    they're such sweethearts. Kyson has the biggest hearts. They all do but Kyson needs to be a poet or a writer. He's such a sweetie

  • @Jessmsheppard
    @Jessmsheppard Před rokem +2

    I think turn the sofa so it’s facing the little corner you want the tv, and angle it so you can get around but it will open up the space so much as well as being able to still get round but create a ‘zone’ rather than shutting it off! ❤

  • @Pacozq
    @Pacozq Před rokem +5

    I love yalls vids so much ❤️❤️❤️

    • @Cooldridge
      @Cooldridge Před rokem

      STOP jamming the sofas against the wall. You do it in all of your spaces. A sofa can “float” in the room with a table behind it. Furniture jammed up against the walls does NOT look good. Put a bookcase, or a buffet or some nice piece of furniture on the wall and create conversational seating arrangements with sofas and chairs. Layer the furniture.

  • @sandyc6569
    @sandyc6569 Před rokem +4

    Everyone seems so happy!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @katlynbirchfield6937
    @katlynbirchfield6937 Před rokem +1

    Turn the couch to create a walk away between the windows & couch. It’ll be facing inward to the tv and won’t feel like a separate room but will have its own separate little area!

  • @loisglasgow8745
    @loisglasgow8745 Před rokem +2

    Love the videos 😊

  • @kimberlyk3928
    @kimberlyk3928 Před rokem +17

    I heard that Jess! “My kids in the future!” Can’t wait for that!! ❤

    • @ToriNoHiko
      @ToriNoHiko Před rokem +5

      She meant her already existing kids can live there

  • @emilyherman4091
    @emilyherman4091 Před rokem +5

    I think something that would be really cool for Lilia is Civil Air Patrol which involves a lot of leadership and Aerospace and of the other kids are interested it would be fun for them too! The downside is that you have to be 12 to join so everyone else would have to wait a bit.

  • @Kacianne21
    @Kacianne21 Před rokem +3

    Turn the couch in front of the window. When its open like that its better to have 2 separate couches instead of a sectional.

  • @mrsterp2399
    @mrsterp2399 Před rokem +1

    Definitely use that couch for the kid lounge and get one that fits that livingroom. My vote :) 🙋‍♀️

  • @Emmie2good4u
    @Emmie2good4u Před rokem

    I’m so early I love your channel❤

  • @Liv.lauren
    @Liv.lauren Před rokem

    For the couch I think you should turn it so it’s facing the corner and the tv is on the middle little wall so it’s more open if you want it to look more open!! 😊

  • @debbieyoung8035
    @debbieyoung8035 Před rokem +7

    I would make the area with the couch your dining room and the room your calling the dining room your family/ living room.

  • @holdendmb
    @holdendmb Před rokem +3

    I’d love a “what Mimi eats in a day” video!

  • @AshleyL1717
    @AshleyL1717 Před rokem +3

    Put your tv where you want it and then have the couch floating in the middle of the room. It’ll create an open space and then you’ll still have a hallway to the bedroom

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa Před rokem +1

    Hi Jesssfam good morning happy Thursday morning and I hope you having amazing day today and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of all of you

  • @kasiasobb1056
    @kasiasobb1056 Před rokem +2

    Put the tv on that wall where you said, and then flip the couches, have one where the tv stand used to be and then have it connect it and then both couches will face the tv

  • @brookes4148
    @brookes4148 Před rokem +2

    I personally like that it is “closed off” because I feel like it separates the spaces.

  • @yadiraespada340
    @yadiraespada340 Před rokem +3

    You should reach out to city & shiplap they will totally help you decorate this space! I've just been learing about them and totally would love to use them when we buy our house one day.

  • @libertoad22
    @libertoad22 Před rokem +1

    Turn the couch so that one section is to the right of the TV and the one that is now against the wall becomes the side that is parallel with the kitchen. That way you can push it in a little so that it doesn't get in the way of the walkway. It will also create a sort of path to that other hallway next to the TV. Then the wall that the couch is on now is open to decoration potential!
    I personally wouldn't put the TV on that slanted corner. Trying to slant the couch to surround that one corner will absolutely make it feel closed off and also just more awkward given the squared shape of the rest of the room. Leave that space available for a nice decorative table or something!
    You could also get multiple separate couches instead of the big one to open things up more but I don't think that's really the style you are going for.

  • @nicolefarish3755
    @nicolefarish3755 Před rokem

    Pull it off the wall so it doesn’t stick out and put a small,thin console table behind it. Add 2 chairs on the left side. Art/Mirror on the walls, plant by the tv. I think the space works great! You can definitely make it work!

  • @emmalee87x
    @emmalee87x Před rokem

    i am always mesmerised by your eyelashes, what product do you use? p.s love the vlogs :)

  • @rosearychavez2414
    @rosearychavez2414 Před rokem +2

    Can you link the trampoline please 💜 love you videos

  • @karenselogic7742
    @karenselogic7742 Před rokem

    Put the large part by the windows and smaller part where you have the broken tv. Cats and kids will love the one by the windows.

  • @lanavives91
    @lanavives91 Před rokem

    That is a sweet Mother’s Day card so is all her gifts

  • @anishinaabrie
    @anishinaabrie Před rokem +2

    STOP that poem that your addie gave you was the exact i poem i had back in 1998- i remember my mom painting my hands for and stamping onto paper that she hung up in my room for 20 years 😭😭😭😭 i was literally just thinking about it the other day and i couldnt for the life of me remember the poem until now

    • @anishinaabrie
      @anishinaabrie Před rokem

      i also had a flashback to being like 18 months old posing for the photo that my mom put that poem onto only because it was the first time i ever saw bubbles lmfao thats how they got me to look super happy in the picture 😂😂 probably my first memory...

    • @anneahlefeld1989
      @anneahlefeld1989 Před rokem +1

      2vof my kids did the same poem in kindergarten.

  • @Madmags22
    @Madmags22 Před rokem +1

    One of my mutual friends has the same Oopsy Daisy shirt that Addie was wearing😂

  • @annamorgan1772
    @annamorgan1772 Před rokem +1

    Why do they always want cereal for an AFTER school snack? Lol my teens always come home and eat a MIXING BOWL size of cereal! Like what?! 🙈🤣

  • @crystalmarie93120
    @crystalmarie93120 Před rokem +1

    hi Jess! ❤

  • @angiefuentes4752
    @angiefuentes4752 Před rokem +4

    Your kid are so sweet ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @jgmgreen01
    @jgmgreen01 Před rokem +5

    I like your moms layout for her ADU--- instead of adding so many sliding doors, which I see she loves, add a long rectangular window that can be opened for fresh air.
    For resale value purposes, I would build it out as an apartment with 3 rooms:
    **Living space w/ Kitchen- full size kitchen (small version), not a kitchenette
    **Full Bathroom w/ sink, toilet, shower, and stacked washer dryer w a small linen closet(washer/dryer supplies)
    **** add big rectangular skylight over the bathroom, or one over the shower
    **Bedroom w/ closet
    **** add a skylight in the bedroom
    *move the entry man-door to the back where she has sliding door or window next to the sink (this will be a private entrance)
    *do WALL TO WALL FRENCH DOORS/ BI-FOLDING DOORS on the part facing your yard, and put in a small area with pavers/or a concrete porch area
    * flip the bedroom to have the north wall facing your field with a sliding door/huge window for the view

    • @SweetkissesAda
      @SweetkissesAda Před rokem

      Why do people feel the need to give unsolicited advice, or make suggestions like this.. especially when it's not asked for!! It's clear they have a plan and are gonna do it their way so your long comment wasn't necessary

    • @jgmgreen01
      @jgmgreen01 Před rokem

      @@SweetkissesAda your comment wasn't necessary lol. mine just gave other design options. they have an architect, so he/she will come up with a great design. I'm a Construction Project Manager and I work with Architects, Designers, Engineers, etc on a regular basis...

  • @ladybug3699
    @ladybug3699 Před rokem

    If you do end up getting a new couch get a lovsac I am obsessed with mine and I love that I can swich up my livingroom layout as often as I want

  • @momsternash
    @momsternash Před rokem

    I’ve never heard of a springless trampoline! That would be nice!

  • @MsHeyheyhey
    @MsHeyheyhey Před rokem

    I'm sure this has been suggested but Sofa away from wall flip it so it lines up next the the wall with the arch. It will face the fireplace wall and feel more inviting walking in the main path

  • @amysaunders506
    @amysaunders506 Před rokem

    If the couch goes in two pieces you can always put the long couch piece in front of the windows and leave the other where it is and that would open it up . And you can still put the tv on the wall where you want it

  • @Sirlie08
    @Sirlie08 Před rokem

    Your Kids are so cute. I just can‘t 😭

  • @annasalz9063
    @annasalz9063 Před rokem

    My Mother bought us the same trampoline an it latest at least 8 years and we are 3 kids. I loved it!

  • @mariatinsley9654
    @mariatinsley9654 Před rokem +2

    Aww such sweet letters for you

  • @Brittanyleighplusthree
    @Brittanyleighplusthree Před rokem +2

    get two love seats and a chair with end tables so it’s more of an open living room

  • @elizabethf4167
    @elizabethf4167 Před rokem +13

    Now she’s taking care of 7 children how thoughtful ❤❤😂😂 I love your bond with your kids!!

    • @migdaliarivera7539
      @migdaliarivera7539 Před rokem +1

      She only has 5 kids the other 2 are Chris boys she only be with them when they come to visit

  • @kimray9988
    @kimray9988 Před rokem

    I love your hair

  • @justelleslife507
    @justelleslife507 Před rokem

    I would move the large couch lengthwise where that open airway is, the couch would make a hallway and move the tv opposite the couch, you could then move the smaller couch where the large couch is now making sure it doesn't stick out, you would make it an inviting place for your family to gather to watch tv or a movie.

  • @Lilythe_rat12
    @Lilythe_rat12 Před rokem

    Hi I love ur channel and fam

  • @eelirofficial8190
    @eelirofficial8190 Před rokem

    I’m in school to be an interior designer. If you prefer a sectional I would recommend a couch that has a shorter back. Put the couch where the TV and open area is now. Add two chairs to where the opening to the kitchen is. Just decorate the fire place wall and put the tv on the wall with the opening to the front door. Sorry this is kinda hard to explain with just words I’m a visual person.

  • @bethan-maejames1170
    @bethan-maejames1170 Před rokem

    I personally would get two 3 seater with a lower back (maybe in a brighter colour) sofas and put them opposite sides to the TV (where there are no walls) to create a walk way, but still be open?
    Then a few cool chairs, that way when your family get together they can face each other for convos or they can cuddle on the sofas to watch a movie. Plus when you have parties you can then move the sofas to the inside walls (as noone is gonna be watching the TV) so you have a big open space for games, dancing.. etc.
    Hope that makes sense.

  • @ZebraStripesLover51
    @ZebraStripesLover51 Před rokem

    Turn the couch along the wall with the window like long end along window and short end devising kitchen and living room. It’ll open it ip a lot more

  • @Kennedye_77
    @Kennedye_77 Před rokem

    I think for the couch you should put the long side on the wall where the TV is so I won’t feel as closed off in the kitchen and you can see the TV better

  • @RJB1980
    @RJB1980 Před rokem +1

    Every time Jess says "square feet" take a shot.

  • @berdawn82
    @berdawn82 Před 10 měsíci

    Listen, all of your kids are so super cute but can we talk about how insanely beautiful Kyson is?? Hims just so handsome and seems like the softest soul!

  • @melissagreen1117
    @melissagreen1117 Před rokem +1

    Congrats Lilia.

  • @Jayden-oz6em
    @Jayden-oz6em Před rokem

    put the couch in the other side so everyone on the couch is able to see the tv! than on the other side of where the couch is leaning against put 2 chairs and 1 table there to look more cozy

  • @andriaswiatek6400
    @andriaswiatek6400 Před rokem

    Couch idea…..
    Just turn it and put the larger side against the right side of the doorway, to create sorta a hallway effect and it will only block part of the dining area because that will be the shorter side

  • @addy4377
    @addy4377 Před rokem

    I love your channel! Does the queen respond? ❤

  • @kourtneemarisa9716
    @kourtneemarisa9716 Před rokem

    3:53 if you put the tv on the old fireplace wall turn the couch where the back is facing the back yard 💜💜

  • @katherinem9628
    @katherinem9628 Před rokem

    Hi!! I think the tv should go on the normal flat wall where it is now, not on the angled wall

  • @talena_justice1
    @talena_justice1 Před rokem

    i have been waiting 3 days for a new video lol

  • @irishlove2322
    @irishlove2322 Před rokem

    Move the sofa to face the corner and then if you do put the tv up in the corner put the white stand underneath it and then put floating shelves on the other wall and add decor

  • @Heathero3424
    @Heathero3424 Před 8 měsíci

    All of their things made me cry

  • @sharagrant342
    @sharagrant342 Před rokem

    Slide the couch towards the window. They’ll be walking room around it all and it will be more centered and you’ll be able to push it forward so it won’t be in the doorway, maybe 🤗

  • @kelssiekrick
    @kelssiekrick Před rokem

    Yup turn the sofa to face the new TV corner. Have one edge of the couch touch the other wall with the arch doorway to create a "hallway" keeping the living room that open feel

    • @kelssiekrick
      @kelssiekrick Před rokem

      Certified interior designer here

    • @kelssiekrick
      @kelssiekrick Před rokem

      Oh then you can add a recliner or 2 cute comfy chairs on the other side

  • @meiraloraduncan8953
    @meiraloraduncan8953 Před rokem

    Put the largest section of the couch so the back faces the wall with windows leaving a large walkway behind it. Then divide the remaining sections and add them to the ends of the larger one creating corners. Then you can either put the TV above the future fireplace or on the wall across from the newly setup couch. If you get or have built a piece of furniture that has cabinets on the bottom and either shelves on either side of where you could put the TV. And one longer shelter that goes across the top you could make it look like a built-in piece that also gives you more storage This setup allows you to see from the kitchen to the other wall without anything blocking the space visually making it look larger. You could put a large family photo above your future fireplace. You could add a couple of comfy chairs and a small table with a lamp or sconces to the far wall. Add a blanket ladder or have a movable Ottoman with storage to hold blankets. If you get the built-in you can store board games, puzzles and other things in the cabinets on the bottom and add decor and books and pictures on the shelves which could have glass doors or not.

  • @sheribiggs2355
    @sheribiggs2355 Před rokem

    Maybe try turning the couch? Make the back toward window ,so everyone can see the tv if you mount the TV where the fireplace was.

  • @Kymbers.world.
    @Kymbers.world. Před rokem

    I love that u guys are so positive but so real at the same time also can I get pinned please

  • @user-vu7lo5nb6i
    @user-vu7lo5nb6i Před rokem

    That’s exactly what we do at our dance studio to

  • @emilycampbell2479
    @emilycampbell2479 Před rokem

    I think you should put the couch over by the windows, put the tv on the angled part of the wall!!