How to Tell If a Guy Likes You Part 1 | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

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  • @matboggs
    @matboggs  Před rokem

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  • @liesascott5414
    @liesascott5414 Před 5 lety +79

    I am 71, have been in three committed relationships in my life with men from three different continents.
    Men are all over the world the same.
    If they have an interest in you they will show you and you don't need a class to realize it. It's obvious.
    You can flirt all you want as long as you draw the line by doing it like a lady. If you carry yourself with visible selfrespect and look feminine instead of sexy you will automatically end up with those men who do not just want to huck up.
    Having sex way to soon is what kills and confuses a perfectly good start.

  • @viejachancletuda
    @viejachancletuda Před 11 lety +7

    It seems to me like people are too concerned and worried about the "what are we?" question. As a woman, I never even bother asking this question. There is never an adequate time to ask it. When you are in a relationship and you enjoy being with that person, the relationship develops at it's own pace and is defined by the experiences, emotions and love that the two people share. These things are what is important and has nothing to do with labels. So why even stress over it? Just enjoy it.

  • @raissachiri1302
    @raissachiri1302 Před 9 lety +18

    This is the first time in my life that I feel a man truly understands how I feel!

  • @TheChewycandy
    @TheChewycandy Před 11 lety +5

    This video made me smile just the way he started to smile when he was telling story about his wife. How sweet!!

  • @earthangel5d338
    @earthangel5d338 Před 7 lety +3

    I have watched numerous videos, and you are on point more than others on the internet, so I really want to compliment you! You have become my Love Guru, next step is Personal coaching .... you have earned it too, much respect to you !

  • @oraclepinkmediumandpsychic2557

    Oh Mat you gave me a new outlook on dating and how men think.
    I have been divorced for 4 years now and dating has been crazy.
    Using your tips I feel the right one has finally, arrived . I am happy
    and not overthinking things like I use to . I am relaxed and just want
    to share my own happiness with him . Thank You again

  • @Girlfriendcozy
    @Girlfriendcozy Před 10 lety +5

    I love this!......good communicator!

  • @JerryLiuFilms
    @JerryLiuFilms Před 9 lety +19

    This is very good! From a man's perspective, this is really accurate.

  • @MrsAppetite
    @MrsAppetite Před 10 lety +7

    Gets straigt to point, talk really good and yes .. I like him...not so much crap about himsellf he talkes about the subject.

  • @bielsabas4407
    @bielsabas4407 Před 8 lety +1

    Love it! My mom and dad kind of had the same story! Bravoo props to you guys for building your relationship on so much respect

  • @dindi380
    @dindi380 Před 5 lety

    Thanks for the great tips. Especially at the end part of this video about coming from a place of love abundance, and not being afraid of scaring a guy away if he is not the match, to make way for mr right.

  • @hollys1438
    @hollys1438 Před 8 lety

    You made me smile & laugh, you're very enjoyable to watch, thanks!

  • @angierubyprice999
    @angierubyprice999 Před 6 lety

    I love your presentations.
    Really helpful. Thank you 👍

  • @chandan1015
    @chandan1015 Před 9 lety +23

    'love abundance'
    nice phrase

  • @JuicyOliinka
    @JuicyOliinka Před 11 lety +3

    Matt, these videos just rock! It's a really classy & emotionally mature approach to challenging situations and basically giving a guy a chance. Also taking responsibility for how you show up in a relationship or dating period. Not having discussed together on being exclusive is also not fair to a guy to demand that from him. It's a mature way of taking responsibility for your unspoken expectations.
    I love it! Matt,this approach is really on a high level &thus,not easy;). Please,give us more!:)

  • @HeidyMargarita
    @HeidyMargarita Před 8 lety

    OMG this is the video I needed in my life! Excelent!

  • @Cassamania
    @Cassamania Před 11 lety

    Thank you, Matt, I like all your videos. It is exactly what I need to hear now - I love how you address each situation objectively and in a very mature standpoint. I believe in what you say, so thank you for all the videos.

  • @YorNary88
    @YorNary88 Před 12 lety +1

    Love that you have a vision board and the 'Law of Attraction' poster!

  • @Kippra
    @Kippra Před 12 lety +1

    This totally speaks to me! Thank you!

  • @lujauregui7
    @lujauregui7 Před 12 lety

    Matt you are sooo right! Plus, you explain things in such a clear and engaging way! Thanks for your work Mat :)

  • @Amberlynnskie
    @Amberlynnskie Před 12 lety

    Excellent, straightforward advice! Thanks for this!

  • @SilviaPastanaga
    @SilviaPastanaga Před 10 lety +1

    I love your videos! Thank you

  • @jodenxoxo
    @jodenxoxo Před 11 lety +1

    The more of your videos I watch..the more amazing and awesome you are. It's so amazing how you get how girls feel and how guys act!! Thanks you X100!!

  • @MeowPictures
    @MeowPictures Před 7 lety

    Excellent video, thank you!

  • @Kendrach
    @Kendrach Před 11 lety

    Great advice. Be everything to yourself, and then the right person will show up.

  • @anik3752
    @anik3752 Před 7 lety +1

    YOU ARE FANTACTIC! thank you :)

  • @carolawton
    @carolawton Před 10 lety

    Thanks so much for putting in words what I was attempting to put together but was more scattered with it... Greatly appreciate this video and now onto Part 2 ❥

  • @MatthewCoast
    @MatthewCoast Před 7 lety

    This topic is very important for women, Thank you for making this video!

  • @lulusyellowdaisy
    @lulusyellowdaisy Před 11 lety

    Thank you for sharing this. It's very helpful.

  • @susanmorgan8270
    @susanmorgan8270 Před 9 lety +2

    Love your advice and, by the way, I'm a Huntington Beach lady! ❤️ xoxo

  • @stellamarmagno2371
    @stellamarmagno2371 Před 6 lety

    i love this video... i learned a lot even though i never had a romantic relationship... your really coaching me... thanks..

  • @TheMartindigo
    @TheMartindigo Před 9 lety

    Very insightful thanks,

  • @BabyLoo19
    @BabyLoo19 Před 11 lety +1

    Can you do a question and answer blog?? This guy is a genius!!

  • @margaret77449
    @margaret77449 Před 11 lety

    great talking! You say really beautiful things thank you! :)

  • @MirianJordana
    @MirianJordana Před 8 lety

    Thank you very much!

  • @cheery-hex
    @cheery-hex Před 12 lety

    stellar advice! love the stories about you and your wife!

  • @fonzyrivera8775
    @fonzyrivera8775 Před 7 lety +1

    You are born to be this DATING GENIUS... you are always on POINT...😊😊😊

  • @redtulips23
    @redtulips23 Před 11 lety

    Loved this video. thanks.

  • @mino3d1
    @mino3d1 Před 5 lety +1

    I think tonight you have made your browny points with your wife by speaking so nice about your experience. Love you from Mexico ❤❤❤

  • @ebonytoilesechandler7679
    @ebonytoilesechandler7679 Před 8 lety +5

    I just wanted to say thank you. I listen to all 3 videos and me and my significant other are officially in a relationship now. I allow him to be honest and I was honest with him . He was so impressed when I told him my worth. Thank you so much. We are so happy right now.

  • @Exquisitely-A
    @Exquisitely-A Před 11 lety

    This is great advice! New subscriber, pls do more vids like this!

  • @Lizster88
    @Lizster88 Před 12 lety

    Great advice!

  • @lidiyahoma
    @lidiyahoma Před 9 lety +3

    You are in a good place Matthew, and have one more subscriber ;)

  • @nicolecuschieri8661
    @nicolecuschieri8661 Před 10 lety

    thank you matt boggs you are awesome

  • @alonagumansing5279
    @alonagumansing5279 Před 4 lety

    Thanks Matthew Boggs..

  • @mummyof2boys
    @mummyof2boys Před 12 lety

    I'm happy I came across this video.

  • @pinkpink6028
    @pinkpink6028 Před 6 lety

    I actually like this video, make sense.

  • @pifapastoral
    @pifapastoral Před 12 lety

    So excellent!

  • @3228cw
    @3228cw Před 11 lety

    best one i've seen! it means a lot more too because you guys got married so we know it works!

  • @annblanko4529
    @annblanko4529 Před 4 lety

    Good day Matt thank you for sharing God bless 😇❤

  • @SLuMberMoOn7
    @SLuMberMoOn7 Před 11 lety

    Thanks for the info. Mr. Boggs, your idea of love abundance was quite mind-boggling ;)

  • @sagepatdesignscape2783
    @sagepatdesignscape2783 Před 10 lety

    it helps me get to know my man..thanks matt..

  • @niccablue
    @niccablue Před 11 lety

    I like you. You are genuine. I want to see more videos....and more on the Law of Attraction...Great Job!

  • @dariapassarelli1121
    @dariapassarelli1121 Před 4 lety

    Absolutely right!!

  • @Mattesoch
    @Mattesoch Před 11 lety

    You are a genius!!! :)) thank you for making such educational and helpful videos :))

  • @KirstenT12thetalents
    @KirstenT12thetalents Před 11 lety

    Amazing !!

  • @carcarci
    @carcarci Před 11 lety

    True, It called my attention too.

  • @JackieMSmith
    @JackieMSmith Před 11 lety +1

    This gives me so much confidence. Thanks so much :-)

  • @glamgurl297b
    @glamgurl297b Před 11 lety

    Love it! A Man who knows....finally yes!

  • @CaitlinBrenton
    @CaitlinBrenton Před 12 lety +5

    I wasn't really paying attention to this video because I was daydreaming about how absolutely wonderful it would be to go out with the guy I like. -3

  • @MyMagicalHorizon
    @MyMagicalHorizon Před 11 lety

    Great insight

  • @MissEnbie
    @MissEnbie Před 5 lety

    You are the best!

  • @Lily-wl4jg
    @Lily-wl4jg Před 8 lety

    you are amazing!!!!

  • @shieahmarie1
    @shieahmarie1 Před 11 lety

    Thank you Mathew. :)

  • @FLsaltinmyhair
    @FLsaltinmyhair Před 11 lety

    Great video...explained very well. :o)

  • @prettynooot
    @prettynooot Před 11 lety

    dude you're awesome !

  • @posaule
    @posaule Před 11 lety

    omg thanks! that means i been in this potential category twice! ok good to know;D

  • @smooy1000
    @smooy1000 Před 11 lety

    I love this man.

  • @littlehellokitty911
    @littlehellokitty911 Před 12 lety

    you're awesome!

  • @AgentDoubleOhSoul
    @AgentDoubleOhSoul Před 12 lety

    Thank you.

  • @mariethompson5721
    @mariethompson5721 Před 6 lety

    Im 58. Came from abusive marriage. Thought Id found someone after. He said he had loved me many years. Asked me if he could court me after divorce. Now he never texts. Ive listened to your programs. I think I found the answer in the He’s not into you video.

  • @mariamarti459
    @mariamarti459 Před 11 lety

    Very interesting! It is nice to see the view of a man for a change.

  • @waters129
    @waters129 Před 12 lety

    I love you. and I mean that in the most respectful way possible!lol thank you SIR!! :D

  • @aola7
    @aola7 Před 12 lety

    I wish I had seen these before. I'm trying to use these advices to make my situation better and I don't know if there is anything that I could at this point but to let go. I really dig myself in a hole that I can't figure how to get out. I met this guy a few months ago and I wasn't attracted to him inititally and kept rejecting his invitations to hang out, but eventually I accepted. I grew attraction to him so fast that I moved to fast & now he doesn't seem to want what I want.

  • @OnRandom24seven
    @OnRandom24seven Před 10 lety +16

    I tried to scare off my fiance on our first date too by telling him what I truly wanted and before I knew it, before I expected he asked me to marry him XD we're getting married this April, thanks for helping me understand how I got my fiance (who use to be a big time player) to fall in love with me.

    • @moonstarr8053
      @moonstarr8053 Před 10 lety +3

      and are you married? fiance and wife are two very different things :-)

    • @luckyme100178
      @luckyme100178 Před 3 lety +2

      Are u 2 still married?

    • @millag93
      @millag93 Před rokem

      Update please 🥺

  • @michelemedina104
    @michelemedina104 Před 8 lety

    Clarify what makes "potential" & "casual". I think i just need specific behaviors. Might seem obvious but it is not. Thanks!

  • @mohanchandra9001
    @mohanchandra9001 Před 2 lety

    Thank you ...

  • @McHenryBruiserFamily
    @McHenryBruiserFamily Před 11 lety

    i m glad this vid helped you manipulate your boyfriend better

  • @lp182rox
    @lp182rox Před 12 lety

    I love it :)

  • @SitatheNightGoddess
    @SitatheNightGoddess Před 12 lety +2

    OMG I just did this recently! Guess I'm doing something right. I thought he was a player too so I just stopped talking to him and lol un-friended him on FB. He asked why I did that and I told him I want a relationship and I could tell he isn't ready. I told him its ok if he wants to keep flirting with lots of girls if he isn't ready to settle down. Since then he talks to me everyday. We're not 'dating' but I'm happy with who and where I am in my life. :) So we'll just see what happens.

  • @DJTambie
    @DJTambie Před 10 lety

    I like this guy!

  • @meldbeach
    @meldbeach Před 8 lety +28

    He allowed me to think that he likes me - he was flirting madly with me for days. Then the 5th day he gave me the cold shoulder and I found out that he's married.
    what the fuck is going on?
    Im seeking revenge on this.

    • @CoolKidOx
      @CoolKidOx Před 8 lety +19

      +meld beach lmao don't bother. he is too childish

    • @meldbeach
      @meldbeach Před 8 lety +1

      CoolKidOx well,guess what. he warmed up to me again and i'm still puzzled about it. ;\

    • @meldbeach
      @meldbeach Před 8 lety +4

      ***** Thanks. He actually played mind games with me yesterday calling me paranoid and blaming me for "pursuing" things.
      when in fact, he pursues me!
      He made me feel like Im dumb.
      I actually decided to not return his calls and Im building up my strength.
      He seems like a good person though. Im already hurt but I have to move on.

    • @faithdance22
      @faithdance22 Před 8 lety +2

      +meld beach now you know the warning signs and what NOT to put up with ;) cutting off contact with a married man IS the best thing for you. As long as you're willing to play his game of course he'll keep enjoying you yet returning to his comfortable home with his wife each day/night! Very valuable lessons are learned from men like this ;)

    • @meldbeach
      @meldbeach Před 8 lety +3

      *****
      Thank you so much for the empowering words!
      I actually avoided his ass and he thought I was just pretending to be busy.
      Youre right - I should be on my way to the next best thing.
      Its hard though - Because the attraction Im feeling with this person cant just be ignored like that.
      He gets me sizzling like a hot pan!

  • @speechless00
    @speechless00 Před 12 lety

    wow one of the best videos ever. I knew half of the stuff, but I just never knew how to word it. Great job! This makes me just wanna trust in God.... and learn to love the way he has made me so I will attract a man that is right for me. Again thanks man! so much. May God bless you. amen

  • @chryschilcott8641
    @chryschilcott8641 Před 8 lety

    This guy really knows what he is talking about--are you open, I hope so, I want nothing more than my "sisters" having the kind of happiness I have--too many good guys out there lonely and gals walking past good guys not recognizing what they are passing up. After 2 failed marriages, and now this one lasting for 14 years--with a totally loyal guy, beyond normal human limits--I can tell you that this guy and Rory Raye know what they are talking about. You create the relationship you want, if you know really know what you want. What is important to you? Inspire what you want, open your mind and heart to learning how, open yourself to the reality that it is all right under your nose. You are more powerful than you think, you just have to step into that reality and learn to own it and live there.

  • @SkinnyGirl125
    @SkinnyGirl125 Před 12 lety +1

    You my friend, are BRILLIANT!
    Another thing, sometimes guys say "yeah yeah, i want a relationship too" but then they persist in trying to turn the conversation sexual or trying to probe you with intimate questions. What do you do in that situation? What do you say?

  • @katieherman3989
    @katieherman3989 Před 11 lety

    This helps

  • @Miss316jc
    @Miss316jc Před 11 lety

    soooo true!

  • @costaioana
    @costaioana Před 8 lety +6

    Tough times for women. Millions of conditions, unbearable conditions. Better get a cat with guaranteed unconditional love. Thank you so much you convinced me.

  • @elisebean1
    @elisebean1 Před 9 lety

    PREACH.

  • @Blueeyeznblonde
    @Blueeyeznblonde Před 12 lety

    Love abundance is pretty much confidence, it seems like.

  • @ComiendoFeliz
    @ComiendoFeliz Před 8 lety

    guao this video is very good.

  • @SandieCastaneda
    @SandieCastaneda Před 8 lety +12

    Matt, have you ever done a video about guys who put you in the friend zone? And how to get out of course :) Thanks!

    • @May04bwu
      @May04bwu Před 8 lety +2

      +Sandie Castaneda You see, I've been thinking about this too. I can't really tell what is a friendly gesture and what means something more. Most men also say there is no such thing as friendship between a man and a woman. So what's the truth?

    • @liesascott5414
      @liesascott5414 Před 5 lety

      To 99% you can't and don't want to get out of the friend zone. Don't live a phantasy. Turn around and look somewhere else. He is doing the most respectful thing he can do which is to enjoy your company in clear limits.
      You are disrespecting his decision by trying to forceful overrule his consistent behavior towards you.
      Why would you want to do that?

  • @abegailjose2257
    @abegailjose2257 Před 11 lety

    Any advices for long distance relationship?

  • @bensommerMusic
    @bensommerMusic Před 9 lety +2

    Good thoughts. Am a guy on an odd
    Limbo between a half-promising 2nd date and am unsure 3rd date. Someone should pepper in advice for folks like us with kids and other unusual "handicaps". The normal advice doesn't always fit us folks with existing families who are dating

  • @3228cw
    @3228cw Před 11 lety

    yeah, but he smiles an extra big smile when he talks about her :) so cute :)

  • @LaBellaVenere
    @LaBellaVenere Před 10 lety

    its all about mind power and will ;)

  • @briannareynoso4466
    @briannareynoso4466 Před 12 lety +1

    OMG I LIVE IN HB XD i love Tuna Town!

  • @DeborahLArmstrong
    @DeborahLArmstrong Před 12 lety

    Makes sense to me. And funny too))

  • @digitalfairy27
    @digitalfairy27 Před 12 lety

    I want to know too, how long into going out with a guy, should u wait for him to show interest in taking things to a more committed level? How early should u engage this convo?