Father Disciplines His Son How To Behave Toward Mommy
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- čas přidán 11. 09. 2019
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So I’m posting this for a reason. I love my boys more than anything in this world. I’d do anything for them. One thing though is sometimes they act up, like any 4 and 6 year old will, but more so when I’m not around. So when I get home I have to “handle” the situation. I’ll be the first to admit the first few years were pretty rough with my sons. But through it we’ve reached this point. This is how we handle tough moments in my house. I recorded this to show my wife what Leo and I talked about but I love his reactions. My sons have learned that when they are “in trouble” that we have a discussion about it. Quietly, no yelling or screaming, no beating them or overreaction. Just a firm discussion and I always allow them to state their opinion or side too because I want them to feel validated in whatever frustrations they might have. My rules are simple, when we talk we sit face to face, let each other speak, and always hug at the end. The funniest part about this, this is how my parents handled me when I was a kid. I remember only one time where I nutted up to my dad at 12 or 13. All he said was, “no, were going to talk. I’ll let you speak, then you’ll listen to me.” That one day was so impactful in my life and I didn’t even realize it until I became a parent myself. My boys are incredibly well behaved overall, but it’s from the work my wife and I have put in as parents over the years. Plus, his pouting moments I think are adorable I just can’t let him know that lol. Also, I remember my mom telling my brother, “that’s your room, but that’s my door.” And she took it off the hinges for a few weeks since he liked locking my parents out hahaha. I guess we really do become our parents, and I’m not upset about that at all.
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This is a REAL man, a man that has his wife’s back, and a man who loves his child enough to teach him right from wrong. Bravo. 👏❤️
What he is teaching his son is that only men need to be listened to and obeyed. He says himself that he has to "handle" discipline issues. Why can't the mother handle them? She should be teaching the children right from wrong at the moments in question. He tells the child to be "nice" to Mommy but said nothing about listening to her and obeying her.
Why it's my house my door the mother should have handled that situation on her own why the big deal and put it on CZcams what does he want a medal
Wow 🤩 now if every Dad would do this ! We would have a different society
Oedepus compkex just born
@@timothycrowley5065 the mother is only 3 feet tall and has no arms
This is what I call good parenting right here no yelling no spanking the kid just pure firm communication I love it!
Yup. No name calling no belittling. No crying no tears. 🤯👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Plot twist he was listening cuz he was scared of the belt
My wife, my door , my happiness
He's removing his boy's ball's in the same way his were taken , this is learnt behaviour . leading us all into a world of darkness and self hatered
Indeed.
Finally. A dad who firmly gently talks to his son. Kudos for him...
ND TELLS HIM THAT EVERYTHING BELONGS TO HIS DADDY AND CANNOT BE TOUCHED? nO THANKS.
My dad used to do this but not in front of me but on the phone since he used to work night shifts.....he wouldn’t yell he would just talk like this dad did but even if my dad still talked, it always scared the living crap out of me.
Why film it then post online? Point is to be a good parent without cameras..
Watch that shit backfire. Life has physical consequences and parents need to teach children that.
@@shiboof he never said they can't be touched stop being dumb he said "do not slam" he's telling treat them with care just like if I lend someone my phone I'd want them to treat it with care and respect.
THAT'S RIGHT MY MAN GET HIM STRAIGHT NOW. IT'S DEFINITELY WORTH IT IN THE LONG RUN.
@gilles grindel See that’s what I was saying. We don’t even know why the child was angry in the first place.
It really is. My brother will scream and cuss at my mom with no problems 😬
@gilles grindel You know what he could’ve done? The father instead of trying to impose his will on to the his child he could’ve asked him what was going on and why did it happen and then tell him “We don’t do that. we don’t have to yell at people in order to get our point across” I heard a threat in his speech I I don’t like that. Personally my dad used to do the same thing if we had any type of anger or frustration but I don’t know maybe my dad was abusive I’m just saying there are easier ways or softer tones that you can use in order to talk to a child.
Strangely, men don't do that with their daughters when they act like entitled brats!
Amen.
When two parents are in agreement to raise a child the right way the foundation will be sturdy for the child.
Yep. As a child/ teenager I often found it frustrating that my parents ALWAYS took each other’s side, even if one of them was not 100% in the right. As an adult now I am SO grateful that they did that. Because at least I always knew that they had each other’s back, and by extension mine. And I always knew that there were rules and boundaries. Even though I didn’t always agree with them, I’m so grateful they were there.
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@@celticcheetah6371 So you’re gratefuI that your parents did not care!?
The child's reactions prove the Fathers past strength and gentleness. A real man.
This is why fathers are so vitally important. They teach children (especially boys) how to manage their agression and anger. This child is so lucky to have an excellent father to guide him!
Great parenting. I'll put it that aunts and uncles who will be capable of raising families are trainee parents to nieces and nephews.
Well said
@@valeriedhodson3014 Thanks. Valerie was my dead aunt's name. She was 68 and had three children and five grandchildren. A lovely lady. R.I.P.
Bs. He deployed misogyny and oriented females as subordinate. “My doors” “my house” “if i was home” and “mommy’s nice to you”. This taught this boy Fuk all about respecting women and girls as equals. He reinforced misogyny and male dominance. So you are arguing fathers are important because males are more important and males can’t respect females. Sh1t logic. So Men own and are in charge and be nice to women if they are nice to you aka give you what you want.
@@ChiChi-qd3go shitty bait.
Involved fathers are blessings, and the cornerstone of raising future men.
That's right!
Amen!!!!
80th like! :)
Aq@Hanoi Andy ESL Mums the centre of the world for boys they tell mom everything for mom's give the best hugs and cookies from a skinned knees up to girlfriends
Not all the time kids make choices when they grow up
Great Dad however you can tell this is a great little child too, he's not sullen, his demeanor is listening while knowing he did wrong, no cheek, he's contrite, he knows he's done wrong but he's not petrified or scared of Dad. It's a good relationship already.
Great observation on your part!!
@@sheashea4622 thank you🙏
im only 12 but i agree fully, this is how I want to discipline my kids and have as good of a relationship
I was noticing that as well. I love seeing the healthy relationship between them both.
This is so true. Thank you for pointing that out.
Mom is the only woman who loves you no matter what unconditionally. This father is doing a great job!
This is what the world needs. Dads.
& dads aren't just born: they're made out of situations like these 😏
Good dads to be specific.
@@SienneBSame with Good moms
Only if they’re good dads. Drug dealing, criminal, lazy, disrespectful, anti-social dads are worse than no dads at all.
I know he misbehaved but his nodding and his little voice saying "Okay" melted my heart! So sweet.
That's because you're one pure soul and maybe your mom instincts.
yes until he yells at u and slams the door
Me too
It always does!
Blanca ravizza look at eyes hes thinking I see his lips moving but all I hear is blah blah blah get on with it you moran
This is exactly what each and every single child should learn... excellent parenting... respect
@araggon shows your parenting
@Hanoi Andy ESL better teach this to yourself first...hah
@Hanoi Andy ESL same to u Hanoi
Hanoi Learn first and then apply... don't show off unnecessarily..and don't bother so much
@Hanoi Andy ESL genuinely not interested...go somewhere else...
I love that the father reminded the child that he lives in a house, but it does not belong to him. It is his father’s house. That lesson is vital to the child’s understanding of the Chain of Command. It starts with his loving, but limit setting father. This will give the child confidence and provide security.
Omg
So it's not the child home
@@marylynch951 It is the child’s home as he / she grows from infancy to young adulthood and independence ; it is not the child’s property in perpetuity. That’s the difference. Today, millions of children don’t have a home where they grow up. They have “ Daddy’s house” and “ Momma’s house “ . They reside in one or the other on certain days a week and must adjust to the demands of each household. This is how some of my grandchildren have grown up.
Ugh my heart. Good job, Dad ❤...and Mom, for picking the right one!
I love it how this father dude was calm to his son about not slamming the door. Thank god there wasn’t any yelling or hitting.
Thank you sir, and thank you little dude as well. I hope that the little dude will do great things for his future. 😉😊
We need more fathers like this man!
Nothing nicer to see....a man that love and respect his wife and his children. And teach his son to be respectful. This is how a man looks and sound like. ❤
GREAT parenting!! More parents need to teach their children to RESPECT...not only to their parents, but to ALL people!
100%. This would be a different world altogether.
Thank you. The excuse that parents give for their children being disrespectful " Respect is earned" is so lame and inappropriate.
I think we should give respect who deserves it.
I love the way he's speaking to him, for a child to understand, while getting his point across with love. Awesome job!
Great dad for teaching his son what respect and kindness is
Real man, real father
We NEED MORE Dads like this. Real man!
Now that's a great dad . Just a nice talk with his son explaining the rules and regulations of the house. Nicely done dad.
@Ro Pi how is he being a creep for having a talk with his son?
@Ro Pi you’re not making any sense
@Ro Pi
How's he being a creep by telling his son not to yell at his mother , to respect his mother and not to slam the door in his house . How the hell is he being a creep .
@@jvjustvibes9103
I agree I don't think he understood the video , hahahahaha hahahahaha
@M Redmond someone called the dad a creep but he deleted his comment
I love how the father even spoke to his son at eye level. Everything he did was thoughtful, loving and respectful.
Good job Dad, supporting Mum and setting a good example for your son.
0:36 His little "OK" is sooo adorable 😍 ❤❤❤
He is a very good husband father teaching his son the right things whats not right to do..
Wonderful father. Wonderful role model. Well done.
The most important thing a man can do for his children is Love their Mother.
The most important thing a woman can do for her children is to love their father.
@@Amilakasun1 its got to do with the birthing bond. Nothing to do with man vs woman.
Amen
@@bari2883 I'm not sure what you mean by "birthing bond" ? Maybe you are talking about in the first 3 years of life for child to feel secure because mother is feeling secure but if the mother doesn't love the father it will cause turmoil for the children later on in life.
Truly, the best thing for children is to be raised by both mother and father who love and respect one another and give to their children out of that abundant love.
The man loving the mother may have a greater impact on the baby's immediate mental and physical well being more than the woman respecting the father does but that doesn't mean it continues to be true when baby grows older.
Have you ever been in a household where the woman doesn't respect the man and right infront of the children, too ? Then you would know the impact it has on that environment. You'll know how it beats down the man and how that effects his ability to parent, partner, and love well.
You really can't seperate the two as science or psychology tries to do if that is where you are getting your information from, for man was made in God's image and He made them both male and female. The human being is male and female. Indeed, it isn't about man vs woman as there is no such thing in the law of God. The law of God says, " these two will become one. " Therefore, neither one is more important than the other.
I am convinced neither one is more important than the other but in their respective roles they do dominant. But rather how well they dominate in that area is dependent on one another.
Yes, for a baby father loving mother is more important in that stage of life but we do not get to the truth of things by looking at one side and having but one perpective and basing our argument or judgement on one span of time and in this case an extremely short span of time. All things have to be considered. All things meet their connection.
It may be more important for that baby that the father loves the mother more than she loves him but does it continue in that way as baby grows older and as mother and father continues to be together ?
Or is it just as important that the mother respects the father as he loves the mother ? For rather she respects him or not and how she shows it or not will effect him and in that continual line effect the children and effect herself, as well. And for a husband not to love his wife will effect him in negative ways, as well.
I would say, it does start with the love of the man but that love cannot continue if it is returned to him in vain. So then, if the mother doesn't love also the father then it is a love that is voided out and returned to him empty. A love she will no longer receive because love isn't meant to be empty or unprosperious. And that in return truly effects the baby or the children well being.
Amen, To Love Jesus 1st and their Mama !!!
He didn’t yell, he got face to face with him, was calm, didn’t spank
in my house THAT WUD BE THE FIRST TIME !! ...as a mama when i whispered ... my kids TOOK OFF runnin!!!!!!!!
The fact that people are calling this "good parenting" makes me wonder what the previous generation has been doing to their kids. This good parenting deserves to be normal and practiced by all parents.
@@anneapolinario5958 well, spankings and more were considered good parenting. And I assume a lot more of us got a lot more than that. When you set the bar at spanking is good parenting, it can only go downhill from there.
Cope@@anneapolinario5958
@@torrielindeblad9534I disagree, but to each their own I guess.
So refreshing to see.. Way to go Dad…!
Great father world needs such men
Now thats not only a Father...thats a Dad... Mentor... and a Role Model. Wow! Way to go!
When I disrespected my mom/elders as a kid, I remember getting my ass whooped. This kid is lucky.
Well this man is more mature than that
wait til your father get's home, lol, i talked to my dad years later, and, he said, he would come home and we (5 boys) would scatter. he said all he wanted was to see everyone. don't know why we were so afraid, he was great, never remotely mean.
Yes, my Mom had a yardstick on hand if we kids got too wild, and my Dad had large, beefy hands! You learned NOT to mess around in those days before psych majors ruined discipline.
@S M Yeah the world has strayed too far from its roots where if you screwed up you got punished, usually brutally as cavemen and such, but 5-1000 years ago ,maybe longer with spankings and being disciplined.
A lot has change with the people, back then in school teacher usually hit the student with wooden ruler or throwing chalkboard eraser to our head and the whole class will laugh including the guy who get hit, coz we know that we do something wrong
Nowadays there's teacher go to jail for pinching the student because the student messing around in the class, and even some student bullying / hit their teacher and the law cant do much coz they under age
Hopefully he ended it with a hug and an I Love You!
Love the calm way he is talking to his son.
God bless this father and husband!❤❤❤
That is the way to train your child. Well done sir!
Ok he’s ready to listen learn and improve. I appreciate that.
This is the way my brother raised his children and he has the best children I've seen with manners respect and they care for everyone. He spoke to them never yelled or spanked but just sat and talked to them calmly
God Bless that cute little boy. Now give him a hug!
Not right then. You give him a hug a few hours later. Hugging a child immediately after disciplining him waters down the discipline so it has less effect in changing behavior.
I know that sounds like you're a saint, but it's confusing to discipline then hug them. You hug them for doing something special or for no reason at all, but you never hug them for being disrespectful.
I love that this father is teaching his son how to respect his mother and what small child goes around slamming doors on their parents face. At my uncle's house you slam the door you lose the door and oh yeah and at the same time you will be taught how to treat people around you, because you will treat people how you want to be treated.
No shouting no smacking,well done dad 🌹🇬🇧🌹
I’m shocked that I’m moved to tears!! This type of parenting is almost a foreign concept to most people. This father is INCREDIBLY !! 👏🏽👏🏽🙏🏽 Beautiful family. Even though it’s a really private moment, thank you for sharing and allowing other young people to witness proper parenting examples.
Teaching a child to have respect for others will go a long way.
Respect has to be earned!!
First you learn respect
respect and fear appear the same, but are world's apart- that father may hear the same attitude when he's old and helpless
@@JohnSmith-lt7jwNo it is given in the sense that you treat others with it regardless. You dont physically have to respect them, but the treatment is still that of respect...
@@GTRKT-qr5sf if respect is commanded/demanded that’s when it completely goes out the window
I like this approach because Dad isn’t going all psycho-babble on his son like a lot of parents do now. The boy did wrong, he knows it and Dad is laying down the law.
What an amazing father for teaching his son how to behave in a loving, kind, respectful and caring way.
Amazing man! Thank God real men still exist. It takes a real man and a real father to teach a boy how to be a man in the future. God bless u and your family.
This is what is missing in homes, a father's presence and time. A father who is teaching his child to respect his mother. Great job!
I love the manner he talks his son, he doesn't put him down or make him scared or try to intimidate him. But this conversation will stay with both of them. Mommy is probably gonna get a hug or two!
That’s why it’s so important having a father!
I could cry for him and mommy.. daddy is great.
Fantastic dad
Awesome father. Wow....very proud of you dad.
This man is a very respectable man. God Bless him and his family!
AND...This is how it’s done! No yelling, No belittling, No spanking, No frightening the child...just flat out “Daddy to Son” a real talking to. Our son did this a few times in his earlier years of this age as well, my Husband had him open and close the door calmly and quietly 10x in front of him. Also informed him it was his door and if he does it again the door will be taken off the hinges and put in the basement and he will NO door. Great having Mommies back too. ❤️
Your kid deserves a door in his room no matter what, how would you feel if you had no privacy in your own home? He isn't 2.. I'm guessing since you said his "earlier years." Your kids will never respect you if you do not allow them some privacy and at the very least a door on their room. Put yourself back in your 4/5/6+ yr old shoes and try to think how you would feel.
@@pamelabaxter2829 well considering he’s 20 now and is doing fantastic in his second year of college, with great grades and holding down a PT Job I say we did pretty AWESOME. Frankly, I don’t give a rats ass what you think of our chosen parenting techniques when he was 4 years old. Have a Blessed Day.
@@AM-qg6bj so he is a sophomore in College and is a Physical Therapist?! Ha! I think not.. get your lies straight before you put them out into the world. Also, you obviously give a rat's ass or you wouldn't have responded at all. 🤷🏼♀️
@@AM-qg6bj oh no, I will start running now! Lmao.. I'll send my son this link.. you are something else. And I am not self loathing, lmao.. you really know nothing about me. I am great actually! Buh-bye.
Buds Gun Shop and Range lmao.. girl, it isn't so serious that you need to state where your son works. Nobody cares.
What an incredible young man he is to teach his son respect for women. Three cheers for you Dad
Respect for ‘’women’’
l beIieve the word you were Iooking for is ‘’Moms’’
This is how my father was with 6 of us. We were 2 yrs. apart. He is calm & loving. Sat with his som and looked I'm his eyes. Children know more then you know. What they see in their homes also and what you do. They remind adults ❤.
Love 💕 this father. He’s teaching his son respect for his mother And their household!
What a FANTASTIC father!! THAT is what is missing in so many homes today - strong discipline with love and respect.
That little guy will grow up to be a fine young man. God bless that family.
No spanking, no screaming. Just communication and education. Perfect.
Wow😢😢Just,Wow!!!If only all men could have such moments with their sons and daughters,instead of running around to nowhere in particular, a world would be a better and beautiful place to live in👏👏👏👏This man was brought up by a REAL MAN🙏🙏 BLESS U😘
Great Dad.
Till mom walks in and says who's door is it?????
May be they have an understanding that the house belongs to his wife while the doors in that house are his
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@@shivangimodirak8125 lool
@@shivangimodirak8125
The house belongs to the one who pays the mortgage. End of discussion. If she pays it's hers. If he pays it's his. If they divorce it's her house but he pays
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
A demonstration of true fatherly love and ensuring respect for his wife. Done with kindness towards the son. Love it. We need more of this dad in the world. Thank you to the uploader.
Perfect! Young fathers, please take note! Absent fathers you’re missing a lifelong loving relationship
I could have used a dad like this..this kid doesn't know how lucky he is to get this lesson..I am 36 years old with serious self regulation and problems because my father was a bully and someone who instilled physical violence the old school way...much respect man I shed a tear watching this
I love this! This is a REAL man who does know how to correct his child ....... a round of applause for him. When he grows older he will remember.....
Now this is real discipline, without yelling and without spanking, he talked firmly to his son explaining what he did was wrong. We need more parents like this man.
OMG what a father. Discipline with love and he has mommy’s back. You r the best.
What a great dad teaching his son respect at a early age.
That is SO sweet.. to explain to your child to have respect for his parents.
He's a very good daddy for teaching his son how to treat his mom he's the one day he might treat his spouse real good someday
Now That's A Real Man Right Here
I love that he is firm. I love that he strengthens the authority of both parents involved in raising the child. I love how he sets boundaries; he doesn't present it as something that is negotiable. The one thing I wonder is when a parent tells the child that he is living in the parents home, what are other people's feelings about that? I get it, the child does not pay the mortgage. The parents set this home up for themselves and their child.
He's so cute... My heart could never...awww that face.. daddy's do this part well❤️
Teach Dad ! More Dad's needed like this. Teach early people.
Good job Dad! This is how you train a child.
Teach not train 🤦🏻♀️
Animals are trained, not children. Children are taught and led by example.
@M Redmond Amen and Hallelujah to that!!
it’s always the religious freaks who talk about training kids.
Not "train", teach and show a child.
Thank you, every child needs this type of discipline. A great dad👏🙏
His daddy really cares about him!
Linda Wild is that why he put his INNOCENT vulnerable kid on CZcams are you for real?
That is good to teach over children's earlier heart wining
This is really sweet. Great dad, modeling boundaries of what he will and won’t put up with in a loving manner.
This is why we need REAL MEN in our homes, to teach our children the rights and wrongs of life.
Also when communicating with children especially when reprimanding them ...always come down to eye level or thier level.
You young man, are a good father. Good for you and your family and hope for our future. Coming from a Nana of 2 boys. ✌🏻❤️👏🏻
Thank you for being a real parent and teaching your kid right from wrong and supporting your partner.
This is beautiful. Love and respect that he is instilling into his boy. This how you raise a real man. I just love this ❤️
That’s what I call “ nipping it in the bud” 😉 Good parenting too!
With America being one of the most incarcerating nations on earth, this is missing in many families today.
Good parenting now saves a ton of problems later.
“Would you slam the door if I was home...!?!” The kid’s reaction tells everyone who the boss is “;)))
When dad said “ mama is also nice to you and gives you that respect” his eyes went “🙄 hahah
He did a Good Job Disciplining his son.
When I was young (12 and under) my dad used to talk to me in the same way when I did wrong.
This will get recommended to everyone one day and I know it
You can tell that the father parents raised a good man
Not necessarily.
You dont need to have great parentd to be a good parent urself
ExactIy!
The best dad award confirmed
Asian kids are most respectful towards their parents, just saying.
Great dad, teaching your kids early how to behave and be respectful. Wish more dads are like him
This is how we teach our children to love , respect and obey their parents. They learn that these are the rules in our family. It builds a man. Hats off sir.