As a Man who is experiencing this from a woman for the first time ever, in my current relationship… It gives us so much Life! Her affiliations and inspiration has literally propelled me to build 2 new businesses just to create more security around Her
You're weak, too. If a woman has to propell to the next level, she deserves everything you make. SO MUCH WEAK WANNABE LITTLE BOYS OUT HERE ON THE INTERNET GIVING ADVICE. WEAK
He told me he can’t stand praise/ applause I’m like do you truly mean that or are you just not use to it ? I use to think I never liked hugs so pretended I didn’t care but I was just starved for physical touch as a kid. Touch is my #1 love language now
As a single woman about to enter into her thirties and desiring a healthy Christ-centered marriage, I needed to hear this. Showing appreciation is super important! I didn’t do it enough in past relationships.
Huge shout out to Brother Tony & all the good guys who are remaining faithful and committed to growing in a world full of ppl with the spirit of pride , envy & lust ! Satan you chump - your time is up !! Interceding for these men in prayer !! 🙏
That is also true!! I was thinking about it lately! God is orderly in all He does... that explains why He built the environment with all we need to live, then He created the man, to depend on God and steward His blessings... then God saw it good to create a woman to be the man's ideal helper... both are dependant on God !
Excellent message for us ladies to adhere to. I gave to a narcissist, affirmation, building him up. When you build them up, they think they got you!! They think they can play you. However, like Tony said, there are red flags. You may not see them at first, but they're there. Don't dwell in that negative space, ladies. There are good men out there!!
Its so true that my former husbands friend group was a terrible influence. I have noticed that you can have a couple of good men and introduce a bad man and he will degrade the morals and morale of the group. They become lazier and more predatory. One bad apple.
This is so good and so very true! My amazing husband passed away last year but I was extremely intentional about affirming him and being affectionate…he was so easy to love and that man was soooo good to me. ❤❤❤
This is Such a good message! Your channel is why I’m in a healthy traditional relationship today and we are getting married in December! Thank you for all you do!! Xoxo Nikki
❤tell them King.. married 23yrs. Still so very close. Hubby get lots of this 😊, l cut his hair, massage him, he loves to play in my hair oh l can't wait for another 23 years..yes...men needs to feel the affection as much as we do. Oh how l love to kiss his nosey😂... he so loves it too. ❤peace b with you❤
I want to caution not to make the mistake not to keep pouring into an empty cup, though(I wasted three years of my life, thinking that me pouring into a man that was just completely broken and all he did was leave me drained)..
I’m so grateful for you. My husbands love language is physical touch and words of affirmation. He is also expressed that he needs more. I’m going to do better.
I gave my ex of 7 years affirmation love and affection! all I got in return was lies! Negative energy and my heart broken into pieces when I found out he was cheating!!🤷🏽♀️
Men should be glad that a brutha like you are giving women like me some healthy relationships advice.....I have so many comments on this subject....⚘️🙏🏾😎
Im a hairstylist, there's too many bitter Betty's out here and thats so concerning. I like to encourage women, plese dont shut doen because of what happened in the past, move on and learn from that or you'll end up being a bitter woman and will never attract your King.
Omg! I was just telling my sister this the other day and it's disturbing. I keep praying for God to comfort their hearts and fill them with his love before they attempt another relationship. Self love and healing is so beneficial and a lot of people are lacking this. 🙏🏾
One reason women may not be affectionate is that they know sex must follow, and they are not really up for it at the time. We women may have to work on that part.
Glad you made that point. I'm a very affectionate woman...I just don't believe it ALWAYS has to lead to s❤️x. When that happens I tend to stop being as affectionate. 🤔🤷♀️
This makes so much sense. I have been married for 36 years. Honestly, I have not been affirming my husband lately, nor giving him basic affection, and that is wrong of me. This is a good reminder for us wives to do what we VOWED to do, til death do us part. My husband works hard and takes good care of me. I will begin to do this from today on, with the Lord's help.
Tony Gaskins. It’s official! Just received my last grade and this means that I graduated my bachelor in Laws at the University of Amsterdam cum laude while also participating in the Honours-programme. God is great! ❤
Good morning Tony, thank you for making this video. You are ABSOLUTELY right! I am a teacher, and whenever I had to teach male students of all ages, I noticed how much things changed when I affirmed them, appreciated their effort and progress.... they experienced a massive transformation and were able to overcome challenges that were more suited for older/more advanced students. By the way, the once a week is very true too 😁, if you do it daily, it ends being taken for granted and more damaging than good. Men need a one sincere, genuine and able to understand logically when speaking to them! If this happens with male students... it happens to men in general. Affection can be shown in so many different ways, a simple rub of your hand on his back when you are with other couples and he is speaking... is such a blessing, a look in the eye and smile, a soft stroke on his face... the little things speak volumes. Show that you are a team, that he has your back and admiration, respect.... it is a great example also for our children and younger people to witness more of this healthy behaviour. Thank you Tony, I loved it, not bland, just transparent and rightly so, this way there is no room for the devil to mess up! God bless you and your family.
Thank you for the Gem. I've been saying this for a couple years now...that the way to a man's heart is through/ stroking his ego, not through his stomach, a man can feed himself!!
Not grabbing balls…this is why I listen to you because you keep it all the way real and you know that the quirky women out here will do it lol. Thanks for saving us from doing so.
It’s the scratch the booty and get glad for me lol 😂. But honestly he’s absolutely right. You can’t pour into a man who’s not deserving by any means. You only can do affirmations & affection with a man who’s deserving & who also pours into you. You both have to be emotionally & mentally available in order for this to work. I had to learn this and it definitely works ❤️👏🏾👏🏾
Yup! They do that! But guys use me as a trophy too🤮 i don't want to be seen for just my beauty but my mind and my compassion and kindness and loving heart
I made mistakes with him and he made mistakes with me as well, but he was a taker and very angry because I was doing everything you said. He wanted to bring his chaos into my peace. I am grateful for the lesson and I’m good to sit with God until God feels I’m ready to date again as a single mother. Thank you.
I love how you spoke up for yourself Tony and calling out the ones leading other men astray. Some men just want every excuse to not be good men . Thank you for keeping it real always and warning men about what you been through and teaching them the real .
I’m big on affirming your man. It’s essential part of the relationship. I’ve always been a big believer in that and I’m naturally one to do that. So praying for a man to one day be able to shower him with affirmation ❤
I love how vulnerable he is! I hope one day when I meet my soul mate I’m going to really try too be a good wife! I’m very affectionate. That’s one of my love languages and why my exes just takes from me. But honestly that’s ok I’m over it now and I’m glad I could be that for him! But one day my husband going to appreciate me!❤️ never giving up on love
I'm naturally affectionate, but a reminder that affirmation goes a long way; is empowering! Thank you Tony for stepping in on behalf of the men to share what their needs are, so as ladies, we can love them more & understand them better.
RE:14:44 We should let go of childhood trauma before we get married. I would actually say that before you marry someone, get counseling together for at least 9 months or more. It may not be a complete cure, but it should help both parties comprehend what each other needs to make the marriage successful. From experience: I wish I would have done this.
Man, my husband comin... but I learn so much raising my son and learned how true this is. Males are more sensitive than women!!!! They just hafta mask it so we want them and feel protected. My son has definitely asked me to "pump him up" slash motivate him several times. I'm learning and thank you for this Tony sir.
That’s because we as women are taught to “stroke his ego.” No offense Tony, a good man will receive it and thank you for it, but other men think it’s your job to do it. You are right because I needed my man to affirm me too by speaking about my feminine qualities. If I’m a good cook say “Honey, this food is so good, that’s why I look forward to coming home.” Or “ thx for trimming my beard sweetie, it looks good, and you saved me some $. See how smart you are?”
This is Amazing! I wish I could play this for Soo many men I know! It's Hard Being A Mature Woman As Well Because it's Soo many guys out here still on that Hit & Quit!! 🤷♀️
I love this message. Tony I think the reason some women hold back affection is because if we look at a man too long, or reach out and grab his hand on the couch, or rub the back of his neck it quickly turns into sex with no warm up for the woman. With the male sex drive being 10 times more than the womans, it's hard to keep up. I left a man because for about 7 years I tried my best to keep him satisfied but it was never enough. I gave up. To this day his relationships with women are up and down because they can not satisfy him and his emphasis on its importance is so high. He was a good guy but I had to let him go..... Sometimes I was scared to reach out and touch his hand, lol. He calls me sometimes and starts complaining about his relationships and I silently shake my head cuz I know what they go through. In any case, better them than me..lol.
Tony Gaskins, this video was confirmation for me. Not the affection part, as I am already a very affectionate woman, it is the affirming part. I was literally thinking on that these past few days. I am in my single season, but it was in my spirit and on my heart. Appreciate you
👀 Who that??? Uncle T looking good with the bright shirt and shades.👌🏽 Thank you so much for blessing us once again with a beautiful message and wisdom. May God bless you with many more. You're saving and changing women's lifes with your videos. NB: Bitter Betty's, please stay out the comments. 😂
You are so correct! Healing is very important before you get into another relationship. Do everything that makes you happy before you settle down again.
Well thank the Holy Spirit a man is speaking up! Sex is so free out there now it makes it hard for us women who don’t sleep around! The thought of a man touching me after having sex the same day with another makes me never want to have sex at alllllll!!! Gross 🤢
I believe I am really ready to love someone's single son now ❤❤...Mature, wiser, healthier,...someone, if it's in God's will, will be very lucky ❤❤ Thanks for always sharing gems with us ❤❤
I appreciated this message of non sexual touching and it's place in relationships. It's important for all women but particularly for women of color. And I also appreciate how he wanted us to stay focused on who the message was intended for and not get distract.
I know exactly that connection you're speaking of. It's a beautiful thing when a man and woman have that special connection where everybody around knows they belong together, and respect it. Other than my faith, my man would always be the center of my focus, affirmation, care and appreciation. Things do happen but you have to see those infrequent instances for what they are. We tie in with who we can feel good about and yes, the desire should be mutual.❤
This is so empowering! These are things that I truly believe in. Not for the grown boys, but for the TRULY God fearing GOOD man. I know he’s out there‼️ Just waiting on my Father to send him my way🙌🏽😁🙏🏽🥰
Being married doesn't elevate social status. I'm single travel the world and in much better position than any of my married friends. My married friends are stressed financially and with family issues 😫.
❤ exactly. I'm so glad I'm single and safe from this nonsense. Men don't xare they're selfish by nature and it doesn't matter if they claim God. Tony is making money off women who center men in their life. I always speak life to men and when I did they drained it up and never returned the life. Women are feeding men more than what men are giving women. I'm done! 😂
@@ShinySilverBunny Majority of men will use emotional and physical intimacy as a weapon too. I haven't met a woman who openly expressed her full love to her husband 24/7 without him taking it for granted sooner or later. My brother's fiancé absolutely adores my brother but he started lashing out on her because he knows she openly loves him so much. Even if we love our men self respect comes before love.
@@user-rx7uh9mg4f Biblically speaking, men have to be commanded by God to love women. If it doesn't come naturally then what does that tell us about male nature? 🤔 I'm not a BW either, I've been listening to Princella and she is spot on all the time. It is nothing to do with ethnicity, all male nature is the same across the board. There are small percentage of males who are emotionally intelligent but they are not the majority. Here we have a bunch of women listening to a man who claims to have all the secrets to a healthy relationship but I even used to listen to John Gray as well who wrote Men are from Mars Women are from Venus and after all this nonsense in trying to do xyz and accommodate males I never met a man who cherished and valued me. Males are incapable of love, they don't know what it is. All they know are emotions. Just look at violent crimes all committed by males. And that physical intimacy is definitely used as a weapon. Why is it that you feel so whole and at peace when celibate? Think about it. On the other hand with alot of women choosing themselves over males sooner or later these males with unchecked patriarchy and testosterone will lose their minds because they can't access us. I can no longer listen to males about dating or anything..its all centered around pleasure for their egos. A male will never seek out how to pleasure women unless he has selfish motivation. Women by nature are caretakers and Nurturing, they want women to be their hospice wife. Stay safe and stay single and build your life and protect your peace. You'll even age backwards because of it.
Tony I swear if you had a church in Atlanta I’d be there every Sunday , you are so important to the community man. I loved this message. I swear you are helping me to become a better man just by listening to you, I’m figuring out my wrongs and actually making an effort to change them .
I made a comment on one of your videos saying that it doesn't matter what you teach a woman sometimes because the voids are so deep; I just wanted to make clear that I was under A lot of witchcraft when I said that; & even though the voids are there your words are so valuable & you have changed my life tremendously! Thank you Mr. Gaskins! 💌
Wait a min now.. Uncle Tony, coming through with a message coupled with sunshades and a mint green shirt. 😂
🤣 lookin fly af
Ain’t he sharp
AND A GOLD CHAIN NECKLACE 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
He look good 💚🙌🏾
Vacation outfit.
As a Man who is experiencing this from a woman for the first time ever, in my current relationship… It gives us so much Life! Her affiliations and inspiration has literally propelled me to build 2 new businesses just to create more security around Her
How beautiful is that?! Thank you for sharing and God bless you both!
You're weak, too. If a woman has to propell to the next level, she deserves everything you make.
SO MUCH WEAK WANNABE LITTLE BOYS OUT HERE ON THE INTERNET GIVING ADVICE. WEAK
Rub a man’s head, beard, back of the neck and see him lose his train of thought and eyes roll back. This is true, they love that ❤
scalp, back, face, beard, neck, shoulders GOT IT ain't got a man yet but GOT IT ✏📝
He told me he can’t stand praise/ applause I’m like do you truly mean that or are you just not use to it ? I use to think I never liked hugs so pretended I didn’t care but I was just starved for physical touch as a kid. Touch is my #1 love language now
As a single woman about to enter into her thirties and desiring a healthy Christ-centered marriage, I needed to hear this. Showing appreciation is super important! I didn’t do it enough in past relationships.
Huge shout out to Brother Tony & all the good guys who are remaining faithful and committed to growing in a world full of ppl with the spirit of pride , envy & lust ! Satan you chump - your time is up !! Interceding for these men in prayer !! 🙏
Damn he’s dropping jewels ladies let’s take notes!
The same holds true for our relationship with the Lord God. He desires our praise and affirmation. He is amazing! 💯
That is also true!! I was thinking about it lately! God is orderly in all He does... that explains why He built the environment with all we need to live, then He created the man, to depend on God and steward His blessings... then God saw it good to create a woman to be the man's ideal helper... both are dependant on God !
Excellent message for us ladies to adhere to. I gave to a narcissist, affirmation, building him up. When you build them up, they think they got you!! They think they can play you. However, like Tony said, there are red flags. You may not see them at first, but they're there. Don't dwell in that negative space, ladies. There are good men out there!!
Its so true that my former husbands friend group was a terrible influence. I have noticed that you can have a couple of good men and introduce a bad man and he will degrade the morals and morale of the group. They become lazier and more predatory. One bad apple.
No one I've ever dealt with has ever appreciated me for this but I'm still out here trying to love like I've never been hurt.
Maybe one day
Keep going @nikkinicole! God's not a liar😊
This is so good and so very true! My amazing husband passed away last year but I was extremely intentional about affirming him and being affectionate…he was so easy to love and that man was soooo good to me. ❤❤❤
My condolences for your loss. 🙏🏽
My condolences on your loss
Don’t be grabbing his balls 😂 you crack me up brother. Thank you for these words, definitely a message for me!
😂😂😂😂me too
This is Such a good message! Your channel is why I’m in a healthy traditional relationship today and we are getting married in December! Thank you for all you do!! Xoxo Nikki
❤tell them King.. married 23yrs. Still so very close. Hubby get lots of this 😊, l cut his hair, massage him, he loves to play in my hair oh l can't wait for another 23 years..yes...men needs to feel the affection as much as we do. Oh how l love to kiss his nosey😂... he so loves it too. ❤peace b with you❤
I want to caution not to make the mistake not to keep pouring into an empty cup, though(I wasted three years of my life, thinking that me pouring into a man that was just completely broken and all he did was leave me drained)..
I’m so grateful for you. My husbands love language is physical touch and words of affirmation. He is also expressed that he needs more. I’m going to do better.
I love those shades Tony.
Tony gonna tell you off......Professionally 💀💀😭😭🤣🤣🤣
Professionally🎉🎉🎉
As a licensed massage therapist, I approve this message!
You had me cracking up at “Bitter Betty” 😂 but you’re so correct
Women need the same thing and they both should give that to each other and it should be a given.
I gave my ex of 7 years affirmation love and affection! all I got in return was lies! Negative energy and my heart broken into pieces when I found out he was cheating!!🤷🏽♀️
Men should be glad that a brutha like you are giving women like me some healthy relationships advice.....I have so many comments on this subject....⚘️🙏🏾😎
Men need Respect first. Affirmation is part of Respect.
Im a hairstylist, there's too many bitter Betty's out here and thats so concerning. I like to encourage women, plese dont shut doen because of what happened in the past, move on and learn from that or you'll end up being a bitter woman and will never attract your King.
Omg! I was just telling my sister this the other day and it's disturbing. I keep praying for God to comfort their hearts and fill them with his love before they attempt another relationship. Self love and healing is so beneficial and a lot of people are lacking this. 🙏🏾
One reason women may not be affectionate is that they know sex must follow, and they are not really up for it at the time. We women may have to work on that part.
Glad you made that point. I'm a very affectionate woman...I just don't believe it ALWAYS has to lead to s❤️x. When that happens I tend to stop being as affectionate. 🤔🤷♀️
Tony said we don’t really need to hear from you thank you 😂 Tony be reading the crap out of y’all 😅
“This information is not for bitter Betty” 🤣🤣🤣
Tony always spitting facts!!!
Now THAT’S what you need to do a video on!! “Using a husband for a title.” This is so true!!
I concur with this message! Real man right here! More men need to step up in truth! Just put it on the table!
I love how you're speaking to the comments & politely uninviting issues that are distractions. 😂
“ Bitter Betty” 😂 But this is real! 🧘🏽♀️🧘🏽
This makes so much sense. I have been married for 36 years. Honestly, I have not been affirming my husband lately, nor giving him basic affection, and that is wrong of me. This is a good reminder for us wives to do what we VOWED to do, til death do us part. My husband works hard and takes good care of me. I will begin to do this from today on, with the Lord's help.
Tony Gaskins. It’s official! Just received my last grade and this means that I graduated my bachelor in Laws at the University of Amsterdam cum laude while also participating in the Honours-programme. God is great! ❤
@@tianatiana688 thank you. ❤️ God bless.
Congratulations 🎊
@@nicolemaxwell474 thank you. ❤️ All the praise to our holy father. ☺️
Men yal need to give affirmations to your women also n respect. We all human it go both ways to work . N receive it when it’s being given
Why do one always "Deflect" & "Project"? Let a man speak without what about us or it go both ways or we'll women need such and such too smh.. listen.
@@blackmanskeeper_ Funny, men always always always always make it about them!! She is right!!
@@blackmanskeeper_ Sexist
@@blackmanskeeper_ Let a woman speak!!
@@nofybn7794 I Am A WOMAN And I'm speaking!! Let a WOMAN SPEAK!
💯 👍🏽I am naturally affectionate so this is easy for me and I see his smile and know he loves it!
“Men want to sleep with a lot of women” but when a women does it, men judge them 🙃
I can't get over the 22 body count before graduating high school 🤯🤮.
Good morning Tony, thank you for making this video.
You are ABSOLUTELY right! I am a teacher, and whenever I had to teach male students of all ages, I noticed how much things changed when I affirmed them, appreciated their effort and progress.... they experienced a massive transformation and were able to overcome challenges that were more suited for older/more advanced students. By the way, the once a week is very true too 😁, if you do it daily, it ends being taken for granted and more damaging than good. Men need a one sincere, genuine and able to understand logically when speaking to them!
If this happens with male students... it happens to men in general.
Affection can be shown in so many different ways, a simple rub of your hand on his back when you are with other couples and he is speaking... is such a blessing, a look in the eye and smile, a soft stroke on his face... the little things speak volumes. Show that you are a team, that he has your back and admiration, respect.... it is a great example also for our children and younger people to witness more of this healthy behaviour.
Thank you Tony, I loved it, not bland, just transparent and rightly so, this way there is no room for the devil to mess up! God bless you and your family.
My marriage has just been elevated!! Thank u
I agree Tony! Real intimacy is non sexual... its intuitive! 👏🏾
As we say in Jamaica ...TALK UP DI TINGZZZZZ BREDA!!!!
Thank you for the Gem. I've been saying this for a couple years now...that the way to a man's heart is through/ stroking his ego, not through his stomach, a man can feed himself!!
Wow...Thanks for the wisdom! Peace, Safe Keeping and Blessings To You and Yours!🙏🏾💓
Not grabbing balls…this is why I listen to you because you keep it all the way real and you know that the quirky women out here will do it lol. Thanks for saving us from doing so.
It’s the scratch the booty and get glad for me lol 😂. But honestly he’s absolutely right. You can’t pour into a man who’s not deserving by any means. You only can do affirmations & affection with a man who’s deserving & who also pours into you. You both have to be emotionally & mentally available in order for this to work. I had to learn this and it definitely works ❤️👏🏾👏🏾
"Please be quiet when it's something for the man"
Thank you. That was very much needed.
It's such a blessing to watch their eyes light up when you affirm them....its such a joy❤
Good stuff! Thanks for this. I’m in a new relationship after being single for a long time and I feel like I don’t know what I’m doing 😂
Tony went off in the most eloquent way, I can’t 😂 he told y’all. Love this message.
….this information ain’t for Bitter Betty….teach the women, Tony!😂
When Tony dress up, he dresses up!! We see you, king.
Thanks, I needed to hear this 😊 Sometimes life gets so busy with little kids that I forget to affirm my husband, and he really does love it when I do.
Yup! They do that!
But guys use me as a trophy too🤮 i don't want to be seen for just my beauty but my mind and my compassion and kindness and loving heart
My family didn't say I love you or hug 😂😂 lol but I'm definitely breaking the cycle. I realized I can't live like that. 🙏🏾
Love that!
That is so beautifully inspiring ... Thank you for sharing and God bless you.
I made mistakes with him and he made mistakes with me as well, but he was a taker and very angry because I was doing everything you said. He wanted to bring his chaos into my peace. I am grateful for the lesson and I’m good to sit with God until God feels I’m ready to date again as a single mother. Thank you.
I love how you spoke up for yourself Tony and calling out the ones leading other men astray. Some men just want every excuse to not be good men . Thank you for keeping it real always and warning men about what you been through and teaching them the real .
You are absolutely right about this Tony!! And if you have a good man, this behavior comes , natural for women.
Yes I agree!
I’m big on affirming your man. It’s essential part of the relationship. I’ve always been a big believer in that and I’m naturally one to do that. So praying for a man to one day be able to shower him with affirmation ❤
I love how vulnerable he is! I hope one day when I meet my soul mate I’m going to really try too be a good wife! I’m very affectionate. That’s one of my love languages and why my exes just takes from me. But honestly that’s ok I’m over it now and I’m glad I could be that for him! But one day my husband going to appreciate me!❤️ never giving up on love
I’m going to be intentional about doing this with my husband. He works so hard for our family; he deserves it.
Tony’s vacation fashion’s are 🔥🔥….Man looking sharper than a sword 🕶️
This resonates with Jesus’s love for us thank you black man ❤
I'm naturally affectionate, but a reminder that affirmation goes a long way; is empowering! Thank you Tony for stepping in on behalf of the men to share what their needs are, so as ladies, we can love them more & understand them better.
RE:14:44 We should let go of childhood trauma before we get married. I would actually say that before you marry someone, get counseling together for at least 9 months or more. It may not be a complete cure, but it should help both parties comprehend what each other needs to make the marriage successful. From experience: I wish I would have done this.
Man, my husband comin... but I learn so much raising my son and learned how true this is. Males are more sensitive than women!!!! They just hafta mask it so we want them and feel protected. My son has definitely asked me to "pump him up" slash motivate him several times. I'm learning and thank you for this Tony sir.
ok with the shades😎 Tony! Enjoy Yallselves 🙂
That’s because we as women are taught to “stroke his ego.” No offense Tony, a good man will receive it and thank you for it, but other men think it’s your job to do it. You are right because I needed my man to affirm me too by speaking about my feminine qualities. If I’m a good cook say “Honey, this food is so good, that’s why I look forward to coming home.” Or “ thx for trimming my beard sweetie, it looks good, and you saved me some $. See how
smart you are?”
This is Amazing! I wish I could play this for Soo many men I know! It's Hard Being A Mature Woman As Well Because it's Soo many guys out here still on that Hit & Quit!! 🤷♀️
“Dog of a man” 🤣🤣😅 .. ahh I love Uncle Tony’s wisdom! Praise God!
Glad Tony speaking on this. & I’ve noticed a lot of bitterness too from both sexes, both sides who are struggling with accountability.
Tony sicka y’all bitter Betty’s 🤣 he said stay up out them comments!
I love this message. Tony I think the reason some women hold back affection is because if we look at a man too long, or reach out and grab his hand on the couch, or rub the back of his neck it quickly turns into sex with no warm up for the woman. With the male sex drive being 10 times more than the womans, it's hard to keep up. I left a man because for about 7 years I tried my best to keep him satisfied but it was never enough. I gave up. To this day his relationships with women are up and down because they can not satisfy him and his emphasis on its importance is so high. He was a good guy but I had to let him go..... Sometimes I was scared to reach out and touch his hand, lol.
He calls me sometimes and starts complaining about his relationships and I silently shake my head cuz I know what they go through. In any case, better them than me..lol.
this is exactly why women don't compliment men or show sincere affection towards them.
Tony Gaskins, this video was confirmation for me. Not the affection part, as I am already a very affectionate woman, it is the affirming part. I was literally thinking on that these past few days. I am in my single season, but it was in my spirit and on my heart. Appreciate you
Teach Tony, I got the lesson. Now I am trusting God, learning more about men and myself. Glory to God.❤
That’s good male friend group who’s positive n all faithful n respectful to their wives
The right men/ kings will like this and appreciate it.
👀 Who that??? Uncle T looking good with the bright shirt and shades.👌🏽
Thank you so much for blessing us once again with a beautiful message and wisdom. May God bless you with many more. You're saving and changing women's lifes with your videos.
NB: Bitter Betty's, please stay out the comments. 😂
You are so correct! Healing is very important before you get into another relationship. Do everything that makes you happy before you settle down again.
Well thank the Holy Spirit a man is speaking up! Sex is so free out there now it makes it hard for us women who don’t sleep around! The thought of a man touching me after having sex the same day with another makes me never want to have sex at alllllll!!! Gross 🤢
I believe I am really ready to love someone's single son now ❤❤...Mature, wiser, healthier,...someone, if it's in God's will, will be very lucky ❤❤
Thanks for always sharing gems with us ❤❤
Same here ❤
I knew this but didn’t know a man needed it. Thank you for this
They don't relate to you because you tell the truth❤
I appreciated this message of non sexual touching and it's place in relationships. It's important for all women but particularly for women of color. And I also appreciate how he wanted us to stay focused on who the message was intended for and not get distract.
I’ve done all of this naturally and failed not because of me but because of him
Very enlightening! Thank you so much.
I know exactly that connection you're speaking of. It's a beautiful thing when a man and woman have that special connection where everybody around knows they belong together, and respect it. Other than my faith, my man would always be the center of my focus, affirmation, care and appreciation. Things do happen but you have to see those infrequent instances for what they are. We tie in with who we can feel good about and yes, the desire should be mutual.❤
I understand. Help to build him up and love on him because the world and life is hard enough.
Unc looking fly and preaching
This is so empowering! These are things that I truly believe in. Not for the grown boys, but for the TRULY God fearing GOOD man. I know he’s out there‼️ Just waiting on my Father to send him my way🙌🏽😁🙏🏽🥰
Scratch ya booty and then get glad 😂 blessings brother Tony.
Uncle Tony still got it now 😂😂
Tony, Thank you for sitting in the hot sun sweating bullets to get this message out to us. I needed this. ❤
This convicted me and helped me tremendously. Thank you for doing what God called you to do Tony. It's very much appreciated !
Thank you Tony from a healed woman who wants to love a man as he needs to be loved. This was very insightful and useful.
I did all of this in my last relationship. Guess it was for the wrong person. ❤
Exactly, he was not ready to receive it. Keep being you Queen the appreciated man is on the way!
@@latonyafalls6979 ❤️
Being married doesn't elevate social status. I'm single travel the world and in much better position than any of my married friends. My married friends are stressed financially and with family issues 😫.
❤ exactly. I'm so glad I'm single and safe from this nonsense. Men don't xare they're selfish by nature and it doesn't matter if they claim God. Tony is making money off women who center men in their life. I always speak life to men and when I did they drained it up and never returned the life. Women are feeding men more than what men are giving women. I'm done! 😂
@@ShinySilverBunny Majority of men will use emotional and physical intimacy as a weapon too. I haven't met a woman who openly expressed her full love to her husband 24/7 without him taking it for granted sooner or later.
My brother's fiancé absolutely adores my brother but he started lashing out on her because he knows she openly loves him so much. Even if we love our men self respect comes before love.
@@user-rx7uh9mg4f Biblically speaking, men have to be commanded by God to love women. If it doesn't come naturally then what does that tell us about male nature? 🤔 I'm not a BW either, I've been listening to Princella and she is spot on all the time. It is nothing to do with ethnicity, all male nature is the same across the board. There are small percentage of males who are emotionally intelligent but they are not the majority. Here we have a bunch of women listening to a man who claims to have all the secrets to a healthy relationship but I even used to listen to John Gray as well who wrote Men are from Mars Women are from Venus and after all this nonsense in trying to do xyz and accommodate males I never met a man who cherished and valued me. Males are incapable of love, they don't know what it is. All they know are emotions. Just look at violent crimes all committed by males. And that physical intimacy is definitely used as a weapon. Why is it that you feel so whole and at peace when celibate? Think about it. On the other hand with alot of women choosing themselves over males sooner or later these males with unchecked patriarchy and testosterone will lose their minds because they can't access us. I can no longer listen to males about dating or anything..its all centered around pleasure for their egos. A male will never seek out how to pleasure women unless he has selfish motivation. Women by nature are caretakers and Nurturing, they want women to be their hospice wife. Stay safe and stay single and build your life and protect your peace. You'll even age backwards because of it.
Tony I swear if you had a church in Atlanta I’d be there every Sunday , you are so important to the community man. I loved this message. I swear you are helping me to become a better man just by listening to you, I’m figuring out my wrongs and actually making an effort to change them .
Help me find a lil building
I love this for you
I made a comment on one of your videos saying that it doesn't matter what you teach a woman sometimes because the voids are so deep; I just wanted to make clear that I was under A lot of witchcraft when I said that; & even though the voids are there your words are so valuable & you have changed my life tremendously! Thank you Mr. Gaskins! 💌
“Get the lesson, scratch your booty and get glad.”😂 I understand, Tony. Thank you!