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  • @mariahpowell
    @mariahpowell Před 2 lety +348

    “He better have transportation, a place to stay and citizenship” 😭😂😂😂

    • @DH-zi5ob
      @DH-zi5ob Před 2 lety +6

      And when Brotha Tony said that third middle leg ready to dip that stick🤣🤣 that right there made me enthusiastic to wait!

    • @drea1228
      @drea1228 Před 2 lety +8

      He is soooo humorous 😂😂

    • @elizabethcross8372
      @elizabethcross8372 Před rokem +14

      Emphasis on citizenship 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jacquelynsimmons6131
      @jacquelynsimmons6131 Před rokem +4

      Say that!!

    • @elizabethclarke2005
      @elizabethclarke2005 Před 2 měsíci

      OMG I cant stop crying and laughing at the same time

  • @YodyBrown2011
    @YodyBrown2011 Před 4 lety +803

    I criiiieeeeedddddd when he said he has to have Citizenship in the same Country 🤣😂🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂😂, nothing but the TRUTH

    • @Empressshorts
      @Empressshorts Před 4 lety +17

      Yolanda Marie he be having me hollering!! 🤣

    • @lyndapeoples8127
      @lyndapeoples8127 Před 4 lety +12

      Yolanda Marie... my eyes are already big and they got really big when I heard him say that! 😳

    • @Wavy-Waves
      @Wavy-Waves Před 4 lety +15

      Yolanda Marie LAWD HAVE MERCY!!! He is telling the truth. My cousin just married a Nigerian & it has been a nightmare. I told that fool don’t do it!

    • @Wavy-Waves
      @Wavy-Waves Před 4 lety +3

      Abisola Abiodun Girl start your CZcams channel first.

    • @kenyafromcali
      @kenyafromcali Před 4 lety +2

      Ma’am that was nothing but the truth!

  • @marquittadixon7761
    @marquittadixon7761 Před rokem +195

    This man is literally a comedian 🤣🤣🤣 but he dropping straight gems 💎 Thank you Tony!

  • @tiffanyharris9292
    @tiffanyharris9292 Před 3 lety +308

    For the single ladies this is great advice, I conducted myself in this same manner and my now fiancé said he appreciated the fact that I let him handle things yet he knew I had my own. Know your worth ladies and don't buy into what society says we should do.

  • @Best-ThingYouNeverHad
    @Best-ThingYouNeverHad Před 4 lety +728

    I been dating wrong like my whole life. Good I know now. Its not too late to get it right

    • @Empressintuition
      @Empressintuition Před 4 lety +7

      Ditto

    • @Kmillions77
      @Kmillions77 Před 4 lety +16

      Yes, same here! I wish I would of known all this before but glad I know now.

    • @Kmillions77
      @Kmillions77 Před 4 lety +5

      @@tiffanydiggs7625 yes, yes, yes bless you ❤

    • @ninasky3275
      @ninasky3275 Před 4 lety +6

      @@tiffanydiggs7625 yes thats right and we can teach our (future) children better

    • @uyiclementina6984
      @uyiclementina6984 Před 4 lety

      Hmmmm oh yes

  • @marquettawilson3712
    @marquettawilson3712 Před 4 lety +764

    When he said “ some of yall was raised by a worry wart, so everybody you meet you think they wanna chop you up and put you in their freezer” I hollered 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Steviecyanide444
    @Steviecyanide444 Před 2 lety +222

    I’m 20 with no type of guidance from either of my parents. I really needed this ✨

    • @Steviecyanide444
      @Steviecyanide444 Před 2 lety +14

      I been doin EVERYTHING wrong LMAOO

    • @xandriaborges
      @xandriaborges Před rokem +4

      You wanna be friends girl?!? Im turning 20 next month 😊

    • @avanoelle5333
      @avanoelle5333 Před rokem +11

      Same!! I’m pretty much reparenting myself. It’s a journey it’s hard af but I already feel so much better

    • @dimedavispresentstalkyospit
      @dimedavispresentstalkyospit Před rokem +8

      I appreciate yall for realizing this early on💯💯 keep educating yourself and surround yourself with ppl who are on your level.
      Be different from the crowd. The crowd is crowded for a reason and misleading one another

    • @sherikawilliams1466
      @sherikawilliams1466 Před rokem +1

      I was there am in my 30s learning this to teach my kids

  • @jamiepope9823
    @jamiepope9823 Před 2 lety +27

    Everytime I meet a new person, I come back to this video....this time I will follow the steps....

  • @jlove3371
    @jlove3371 Před 4 lety +657

    “This is a red flag if you meet a man and in the beginning all he’s doing is texting you”
    This is so correct and it’s my pet peeve...we’re grown, why text all day.

  • @chasafras
    @chasafras Před 4 lety +1304

    When he makes the woman’s voice when he’s explaining something 😂

    • @lzsunshine
      @lzsunshine Před 4 lety +55

      Whew chile! He pops that tongue and gets to going and I fall out every time. I have to rewind to actually listen to what he has said because the voice takes me out every single time.

    • @marilynking527
      @marilynking527 Před 4 lety +6

      Marie Minx yes 😂😂😂

    • @Radience100
      @Radience100 Před 4 lety +20

      Yes! It’s hilarious !!!!!!😂🤣

    • @blacklove2923
      @blacklove2923 Před 4 lety +12

      Funny right..😭😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @missj5564
      @missj5564 Před 4 lety +16

      He is hilarious when he does that.

  • @starlash-a
    @starlash-a Před rokem +21

    You need 10 hours to know if he crazy 🤣 this man pure Gold

  • @seahorn2058
    @seahorn2058 Před 3 lety +276

    “It’s not that we aim high and miss, it’s that we aim low and hit”. This blessed me Mr. Gaskins, God bless you🙏🏽

  • @logikgirl12
    @logikgirl12 Před 4 lety +424

    This is bulletproof! Any person dating like this would never be underappreciated or lied to. The grown boys would not have space to do their misdeeds, they would be dropped very early on!

  • @Watchme411
    @Watchme411 Před 4 lety +192

    "eating peach cobbler" 😋🍑 & " singing on the microphone" 🗣🎤 🤣🤣😂😂... love the subliminals

    • @Wavy-Waves
      @Wavy-Waves Před 4 lety +13

      campbella 81 My slow 50 yr. old tail was lost for a minute.😂😂😂😂 I got it y’all. Y’all young folks is something else with these names.😳😂😂😂

    • @zelmahenry7300
      @zelmahenry7300 Před 4 lety +2

      😂😂😂😂eating peach cobbler and singing on the microphone

    • @lindaturner9018
      @lindaturner9018 Před 4 lety

      @@Wavy-Waves aá z

    • @skyshae3224
      @skyshae3224 Před 22 dny

      😂😂😂😂

  • @noig_donnypia5647
    @noig_donnypia5647 Před 2 měsíci +5

    When my husband finds me, I want Tony at the wedding. 💒 I’ve learned more from him in the few months of watching his videos than from my own father in the 10 years, he’s been home from prison. It’s never too late to get it right. I didn’t have the proper guidance but God sent us Tony. for the women that wanna do right but weren’t taking the right steps. I’m excited for the new chapter I’m starting. no more giving in.

  • @kimiko_111
    @kimiko_111 Před 3 lety +102

    "Broke, busted and disgusted" 😂😂😂

  • @chantico221
    @chantico221 Před 4 lety +260

    Where was this video 10 years ago lawd! Lol

  • @candybroadway3023
    @candybroadway3023 Před 4 lety +784

    Tony is the big brother I never had...you have enriched my life. You have made a difference.

  • @nursesrock4264
    @nursesrock4264 Před 3 lety +206

    This is the most important video you have ever posted, in my opinion. Step by step for the clueless and curious. It's definitely not a 1 or 2 time watch...it's a study and perfect type of lesson

    • @gorgeousreese9741
      @gorgeousreese9741 Před 2 lety +7

      Yesss I’ll definitely be studying and applying !

    • @donnahouston6958
      @donnahouston6958 Před 2 lety +8

      Wow i agree I have LISTEN To this Video like Three Times Before THIS Video Goodness I have made so many mistakes but this has really equipped me

  • @SmileyQueenlife
    @SmileyQueenlife Před 3 lety +161

    This guy is a lifesaver. I been going through these grown boys giving in and letting them have their way but no more !!!

    • @aliciabenson474
      @aliciabenson474 Před 3 lety +7

      You not alone 😫🙏🏽

    • @valeriew364
      @valeriew364 Před 2 lety +5

      Amen, I’m tired of bending for them.

    • @dorothymatthews6690
      @dorothymatthews6690 Před 2 lety +8

      Good for you Kaykay! Been there done that too. I've been celebrate for 10 years now and will remain so until marriage.

  • @krystavi05
    @krystavi05 Před 4 lety +500

    Where was this video when I was in my early twenties?! 😭😭😭
    I was told to save myself until marriage, but that's it. I wasn't given all this information, no red flags, no step-by-step instructions, not even clear boundary lines. Nothing. Just "no sex until marriage".
    I can't even begin to explain how necessary this video is! Thank you Tony Gaskins. You've made me feel much more capable of dating correctly with just this video. God continue to bless you!

    • @007stinkey
      @007stinkey Před 3 lety +19

      I needed it about 21 days ago 😭😭😭

    • @Shanakkk
      @Shanakkk Před 3 lety +4

      Never too late

    • @naturesgirl7447
      @naturesgirl7447 Před 3 lety +6

      I didn't get instructions neither

    • @golden_shaperson2419
      @golden_shaperson2419 Před 3 lety +1

      Sooo true

    • @shutit4024
      @shutit4024 Před 2 lety +2

      Sameeee I was only told once but not taught anything well I had friends having $ex and guess what I did?

  • @michellelucius7973
    @michellelucius7973 Před 4 lety +546

    This is so true a guy was texting after the third day I’m like is it a reason you can’t call me. He said yes I’m in a situation. After he told me the situation ( He live with a Woman) I stop reply and blocked him.

    • @traquilasmith2275
      @traquilasmith2275 Před 4 lety +20

      U did right for your self. Don't waste your time Or settle for less that was a sign from God. God knows the right man. God bless

    • @saiyansnake
      @saiyansnake Před 4 lety +12

      SMH, good riddance, that guy was a scum bag.

    • @manij1913
      @manij1913 Před 4 lety +31

      Michelle Lucius 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 instant BLOCK ...... that and “I live with my baby mama for the kids “ or “Sweetie we not together but you mine “ BBBLLLOOOCCCCKKKKKEEEDDDTTTT 😂

    • @MsSweets0211
      @MsSweets0211 Před 4 lety +2

      💪🏾

    • @Glamrocs
      @Glamrocs Před 4 lety +14

      🤦🏾‍♀️ Thank God you was wasn’t desperate for a man

  • @gracedean2957
    @gracedean2957 Před 3 lety +46

    My mom and dad said this is the way it was during their times in the 50s and 60s. They didn't understand this dating one-person thing. During their time they didn't have sex, they called it "courting" and you could court whomever you wanted until you decided to marry. When I was dating I would tell guys this and they immediately want to call me a hoe because in their head they are thinking about having sex when dating is just apart of getting to know someone. In getting to know someone, sex is not a requirement.

  • @Naturalwoman730
    @Naturalwoman730 Před 3 lety +181

    Loose bootie, singing on the mic and hotdogging, u are too funny, this is so informative and entertaining at the same time. I love it

    • @cheryljones2009
      @cheryljones2009 Před 3 lety +6

      I've never even heard the term "hotdogging" & I'm 50 years old!!! 😆 lol

    • @DeeQJohnson
      @DeeQJohnson Před 3 lety +4

      What in the world is hotdogging😂

    • @shutit4024
      @shutit4024 Před 2 lety

      @@DeeQJohnson I think it means anal

  • @beauphomasterpiece3795
    @beauphomasterpiece3795 Před 4 lety +276

    Also I’d like to add do not drink anywhere with this person you are dating for at least 6-8 months in especially if you are celibate or abstinent. It can alter your decisions

    • @CeeceByrd
      @CeeceByrd Před 4 lety +8

      👏👏👏😊

    • @Denise_Cocoa
      @Denise_Cocoa Před 4 lety +18

      This is true but I’d like your opinion cuz I JUST had this conversation yesterday with a friend. She is dating a guy and wants to see him when he’s drinking/drunk so she can see how he behaves. Is he aggressive, mean, nasty, perverted, etc. What do you think about that perspective?

    • @Shae_3
      @Shae_3 Před 4 lety

      Yep

    • @hellosunshine3647
      @hellosunshine3647 Před 4 lety +19

      I had someone offer to cook me dinner and bring the wine. Df!! No sir, no thank! My coworker told me I was crazy for not accepting. But I barely drink as it is, I'm cleaning up my body, and I definitely will not drink with a man I'm getting to know. No! Stand on that!🙌

    • @hellosunshine3647
      @hellosunshine3647 Před 4 lety +3

      @@Denise_Cocoa that is interesting but can be dangerous? But I know some people drink on dates maybe one or two, but some people can hold their liquor well so it may require more. This is a hard one! I would say email tony with it. Hopefully we get an answer! Because I've dated a man who was an alcoholic and I had no clue until it was too late smh

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 Před 4 lety +405

    " A woman approaching a man is like a gizzel approaching a lion " basically your making it easy for them. Easy Prey

    • @elizabethschilling7178
      @elizabethschilling7178 Před 4 lety +10

      Great way of looking at this! Easy prey.

    • @msve3730
      @msve3730 Před 4 lety +13

      @@elizabethschilling7178 yup I was rethinking my entire life , I'm like man. Wtf was I doing

    • @traquilasmith2275
      @traquilasmith2275 Před 4 lety +3

      So true easy prey wow good point.

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 Před 4 lety +16

      ***Gazelle

    • @durbansaladyinaccra2173
      @durbansaladyinaccra2173 Před 4 lety +5

      @@nikkyshamz2696 I am in the same habit of correcting people's spelling. We should have been English teachers :D

  • @Godfavorsmi
    @Godfavorsmi Před 3 lety +76

    When he said “the bigger the Diamond the smaller the Love”, I automatically thought of Cardi B & Offset!😅

    • @doramawrie3741
      @doramawrie3741 Před 3 lety

      Lol Lovely Losja!!

    • @Mahogonykisses
      @Mahogonykisses Před 3 lety

      Thissssss partttt!!

    • @nikkinanette8807
      @nikkinanette8807 Před 2 lety +2

      I know people like that personally. Buying the chick a larger wedding ring within the 1st year, then throwing the upgrade ring 💍 in other women’s faces only to get a divorce a few years later.

  • @yvonneatsu5323
    @yvonneatsu5323 Před 2 lety +17

    I believe in living separately before getting married. No need to play house. Thnak you Tony Gaskins!

  • @lynmariah3539
    @lynmariah3539 Před 4 lety +164

    Father God I ask that you protect this Man , his mind as he continue to give us wisdom that we need . This generation NEEDS to hear this , you hear meeee! Satan is mad because he don’t want us to know this information , buttt God in your name I pray Amen🙏🏾

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 Před 4 lety +837

    The roles have drastically switched these days....Women are now the hunters/pursuers, and some if not most men are okay with this change in pace. It's never a woman's place to pursue a man, no matter what the circumstances may be. Women are only to be in position to receive their King, emphasis on KING!

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 Před 4 lety +26

      @Denetria Wright I agree Ms. Wright, we are attracted to each other physically for the most part, so this can easily put a woman in the position as the pursuer. Sadly there are some gorgeous people in this world but lack substance as well.

    • @fah232
      @fah232 Před 4 lety +34

      Right, I worked at a job and I have never seen women like these, they would walk up to men a just tell them what they want to do sexually to them.....I could never.

    • @queenofthesouth4205
      @queenofthesouth4205 Před 4 lety +3

      Thank you Mr Parker

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 Před 4 lety +27

      @@fah232 Sadly F A H it's becoming a custom or normality in today's society where women are agressive in their approach and have no problem being the pursuer. I do feel that this behavior can establish an expectation for some men where they may see the woman as being easy to sleep with. That's not the tone we need to set here. Women are Queens but not every woman acknowledge her royalty.

    • @fah232
      @fah232 Před 4 lety +1

      @@chrisparker6249 Exactly

  • @kokokay9734
    @kokokay9734 Před rokem +12

    This is seriously the best dating advice I’ve seen thus far.

  • @radhikaraj7394
    @radhikaraj7394 Před 3 lety +28

    no eating that peach cobbler no singing on the microphone LOL! im done! Tony you are too good.

  • @ThatGyrlReese
    @ThatGyrlReese Před 4 lety +321

    “God know I’m home safe. I ain’t got to tell you I’m home safe. What you goin do if I’m ain’t home safe. Nuthing.” 🤣🤣 Tony is hilarious.

  • @phillyflytee9849
    @phillyflytee9849 Před 4 lety +215

    I dated a guy and within 2 months he asked me to be his gf. I could not be his gf because he did not have his own home.. I found out he was sleeping house to house couch to couch. Bye!!

    • @naram8282
      @naram8282 Před 4 lety +31

      I had the same scenario 🤣😂, on the third date that I’ve taken him for his bday, he asked to be his gf, ended up stuck with a ‘recovering’ addict in &out of sober homes, driving him around from a place to a place, doc app, spending money and energy on him because I felt sorry for him. What a waste of precious time:(

    • @princesssophiawise3560
      @princesssophiawise3560 Před 3 lety +8

      @@naram8282 woooooow! my jaw just dropped! wow!

    • @Ladydiva6590
      @Ladydiva6590 Před 3 lety +1

      😂😂😂

    • @Ladydiva6590
      @Ladydiva6590 Před 3 lety +10

      @@naram8282 wow My ex boyfriend would go to work everyday. Every time I would ask him about going out on a date. He would play broke . But he had the Audacity to ask me for sex I told him to keep it moving and Goodbye 👋🏾

    • @naram8282
      @naram8282 Před 3 lety +4

      @@Ladydiva6590
      Good for you sweetie😃👍
      We, women have to learn to take the higher road than cheapen ourselves

  • @itsarisventures
    @itsarisventures Před 2 lety +32

    Dating wrong my whole life I’ve paid for meals, supported a man allowed cheating and disrespect. Now I’ve been alone for 5 months and it’s the best time ever I’m learning more than I’ve ever learned . Can you do videos on women dating with kids

  • @TharaMesseroux1
    @TharaMesseroux1 Před 2 lety +65

    I am single now, but when I get married, I’ll let you know, Tony!💗 Thank you for taking the time to educate us! Be blessed!🍀🦋

  • @shereewhite4828
    @shereewhite4828 Před 4 lety +513

    All the single ladies, including myself, as well as single men, let's M.I.U.M!!!!! (MAKE IT UNTIL MARRIAGE! = Abstinent until marriage! Last month marked my 6th yr of being abstinent! 😊

    • @Wavy-Waves
      @Wavy-Waves Před 4 lety +27

      Sheree White So proud of you, because it can be difficult. Great example for all of us. Keep up the good work.

    • @shereewhite4828
      @shereewhite4828 Před 4 lety +46

      @@MichElle-py8lk While some are being sarcastic, God knows my heart & will honor my sacrifice. I shared my journey to inspire others. People give the award, God gives the reward.

    • @Wavy-Waves
      @Wavy-Waves Před 4 lety +33

      Beulah4ever Honey, don’t be upset with someone trying to do right & get it right. Why don’t you take a page out of her book? She is winning along with countless other women. How is your way of doing it working out for you? See when you do it the right way, it is rewarding. I have lived my entire life this way, waiting till marriage. My medals are: no stds, no unwanted pregnancies, no abortions, a husband who adored me, children whom I knew who their father was, without wandering, not worrying about if he is cheating, or really loves me, & true happiness to name a few. Instead of bashing this lady, learn from her. Allow her to motivate you to do the same & get a good husband. Don’t put a sister down. Remember the message was from a real man,she happens to be a great example, like me.😎

    • @bronicaloglesby3610
      @bronicaloglesby3610 Před 4 lety +8

      @@shereewhite4828
      Keep up the great work 👍
      It's a struggle but you are showing others through example of what God can do through you!

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 Před 4 lety +3

      Great job 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @violets711
    @violets711 Před 4 lety +314

    I made it through all 48 minutes and this video was totally worth it. My eyes are open now!

  • @rubikscube6722
    @rubikscube6722 Před 3 lety +45

    I got married at 30 and divorced at 40. If only I had access to this kind of advice before I got married. 100% of Tony’s advice in this video is true. I violated almost all of those things he forewarns here, and my exhusband did everything Tony forewarns of a selfish, shady man when I was dating him. Now looking to live the rest of my life with “me” at the forefront, not some stinking man. He needs to prove himself in every way the next time around 😂

  • @sephrah_precious
    @sephrah_precious Před 3 lety +64

    My head is killing me from all the laughing 😂🤣. Your straight face humour in this is too much! Honestly, great tips and I’m saving this video for when the time comes 🙏🏽.

    • @triciamokoena3156
      @triciamokoena3156 Před 2 lety +3

      I thought I was the only one who was laughing so hard at his straight face humour !
      But indeed great tips. It will separate the grown boys from potential husbands.

    • @LadyJefferson
      @LadyJefferson Před rokem +2

      You can at least take a walk around the lake and he can afford a slice of pizza ..

  • @jereline100
    @jereline100 Před 4 lety +162

    I'm going to save this video for when I start dating again and i'm going follow your every step. When I get married I'm inviting you to my wedding Tony 😅
    Be blessed 🙏🏾

    • @TharaMesseroux1
      @TharaMesseroux1 Před 2 lety +1

      I am single now, but when I get married, I’ll let you know too, Tony!💗 Thank you for taking the time to educate us! Be blessed!🍀🦋

  • @shaylatates1338
    @shaylatates1338 Před 4 lety +83

    “Struggling with your loose booty ways “ 😩🤣🤣🤣 I love Tony Gaskins god bless point blank perioddd!

  • @chantelcaldwell598
    @chantelcaldwell598 Před 3 lety +37

    Yes!!! I need a man who is confident and can lead!!! Show me some chivalry and effort!

  • @ramonaphillipsteach3284
    @ramonaphillipsteach3284 Před 3 lety +15

    I been married twice, once widowed. I did it the wrong way. Now God has healed my heart, I have forgiven my ex’s and myself. Got some therapy from past traumas. Today, I am ready, back at the gym, working on my brain, I know the Lord, we have a relationship. I am also an influencer. Thanks Tony!!!🙏🏽🙌🤗💕☀️

  • @ericabostwick4033
    @ericabostwick4033 Před 4 lety +278

    This is good step by step instructions....

  • @jerra_latrice
    @jerra_latrice Před 4 lety +101

    "God know I'm home safe."🤣

    • @marishalewis484
      @marishalewis484 Před 4 lety +4

      Jerra Latrice then he said I’m going to bed 🤣🤣🤣

    • @jerra_latrice
      @jerra_latrice Před 4 lety +4

      @@marishalewis484 Right!! That was hilarious!😂

  • @extinctionlevelevent1431
    @extinctionlevelevent1431 Před 4 lety +85

    From the mouth of Tupac:
    “If a man knows you’ll do anything for him, then he will RUN you.”
    “Ladies, you have ALL the power. Stand your ground and hold tight to your principles.”
    “You LEAD him...or you LEAVE him!”
    In other words...Push for what you want from a man, or you let him go!

  • @jooo-cfroot8281
    @jooo-cfroot8281 Před rokem +16

    It makes me sad that I made so many mistakes in the past but I was desperate just wanting to be loved and he played the exact games you mention 😢.
    Thank You Tony for your Honest approach….I can take it and I will use the knowledge!

  • @knightyknight5399
    @knightyknight5399 Před 4 lety +157

    Gave a guy my number and he was texting me 01:30 in the morning calling me honey and baby....That was a no from me...😣..Hes number was lost in a heart beat...

  • @Itsdannib
    @Itsdannib Před 4 lety +423

    This could have saved me so much time dealing with individuals but I’m on it now! Thanks Tony for the vid🙌🏽🙏🏽

    • @oliviahatchett9334
      @oliviahatchett9334 Před 4 lety +4

      I know I’m late, but I just said this to myself lol

    • @yolettahall4003
      @yolettahall4003 Před 4 lety +2

      Same here, better late than never 🦋🌹❤️❣️

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite Před 4 lety +8

      We live and we learn dear and it’s better late than never. Be good to yourself.

    • @btalley8198
      @btalley8198 Před 3 lety +4

      Deleting folks off my phone now...

    • @DanaEliz24
      @DanaEliz24 Před 3 lety +3

      I was just saying I wish I saw this 7 months ago ! God allowed us to see this video when we did for a reason so we are on it now Sis!!

  • @brittnyy113
    @brittnyy113 Před 2 lety +30

    I watched this video after talking to a guy for a few weeks and not being sure of where we were going...and literally the very next day, I used all the tips in the video to confidently have the big talk with the guy..... found out he was only looking for FWB, not a relationship! I had no idea of that before and he'dnever told me, because we'd never talked about it! We were going on nice dates, but never really talking and learning each other. Glad I watched this and was able to apply the tips, and save my time/emotions for someone serious.... it hurts ALOT! Because I really liked this guy, but I would've been more hurt if I'd given him the kitty and found out later he was playing me. I will use this video to guide me in the future!

    • @nicolemuse1164
      @nicolemuse1164 Před rokem +1

      I get ot but the signs were already there but glad you moved on

  • @thespiritualgospel555
    @thespiritualgospel555 Před 3 lety +37

    This my 5th time watching this I gotta get it rite 😂
    Update : still watching this video in 2021 trying this again before I get out there wish me look 😂

  • @msbubblyqueen3536
    @msbubblyqueen3536 Před 4 lety +101

    Omg this is a great one.. @43 yrs old i thought i was old fashion ..but this is the true basics ladies👍☺

  • @HeartOfGold..
    @HeartOfGold.. Před 4 lety +204

    Seems like this is going to be an informative video. I just turned 22 never had a Bf yet. Just taking notes and getting my personal life together. Waiting until the time is right in my life to be in a relationship. I don't want to give my time to the wrong man.

    • @amazingasia_
      @amazingasia_ Před 4 lety +5

      Heart Of Gold I completely understand. Good for you!

    • @tierajohnson1556
      @tierajohnson1556 Před 4 lety +7

      stay that way girly you'll know when the time is right .

    • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
      @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect Před 4 lety +8

      Follow this advice to the last word and you'll be a-okay

    • @sha2408
      @sha2408 Před 4 lety +6

      Heart Of Gold you came to the absolute right place! Listen to every video! Get this knowledge!

    • @HeartOfGold..
      @HeartOfGold.. Před 4 lety +3

      @@sha2408 Thank you
      I have been watching his videos for a while now. All of them are so helpful. My goal is to binge all of them lol

  • @KB-tj4qb
    @KB-tj4qb Před 3 lety +27

    He said “you think everybody ready to chop you up “ that’s me 😂😂😂

  • @cierraselby8733
    @cierraselby8733 Před 4 lety +38

    I thought I had it all together, I've been dating all wrong. I'm ready to do this the right way, thanks Tony! This was enlightening AND hilarious!

  • @vhayashi7369
    @vhayashi7369 Před 4 lety +100

    I love how he uses words he doesn't know exactly what they mean but he says he's "going to use it because he likes the way it sounds!" 😂😂😂

  • @TiffanyBTV
    @TiffanyBTV Před 4 lety +117

    I Uber everywhere when going on dates. These ppl could be crazy. I don’t need anyone popping up at my house when things go bad. So far so good glad i stop letting ppl know where i live

    • @beauphomasterpiece3795
      @beauphomasterpiece3795 Před 4 lety +6

      TiffanyB TV that’s a good idea cause I’ve dated people who have access to systems so if they saw my car tag they can figure out where you live . Crazy yes

    • @wall47291
      @wall47291 Před 4 lety +1

      @@DatDyme980 me too

    • @TiffanyBTV
      @TiffanyBTV Před 4 lety

      IMPACT BEAUTY 😳😳😱😱😱

    • @m.williams3497
      @m.williams3497 Před 4 lety +5

      Nikki Doe the google number is my favorite I give it to everybody. Only ppl super close to me have my number

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 Před 4 lety +1

      TiffanyB TV when should you allow them to pick you up? On the second date or when your in a relationship?

  • @sharonjudd7786
    @sharonjudd7786 Před 4 lety +48

    I love your “gaskinisms” like “loose booty ways” or hot like Caesar’s” “look like the back of a 67 Chevy” “Dip that stick in aguafina” “no singing on the microphone or eating the peach cobbler🤣😝😝🤣😂. Tony you are the BEST! Love your channel.

  • @Letta0725
    @Letta0725 Před 4 lety +89

    Thank you Tony ,my dad never had talks with me. I been in alot of bad relationships and currently in an engagement that I'm really trying to make sure he is the right one. You are like the father/ big brother I wish I had. I just turned 31 and now just learning

    • @AwkMind
      @AwkMind Před 3 lety +4

      The same.. Wasted precious years looking for a replacement. Just learning now.

    • @francescalegrand6257
      @francescalegrand6257 Před 3 lety +15

      I'm just learning all of this currently. And, I will be 62 in a few weeks !!
      Better late than ever ??!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @kaydee_6644
    @kaydee_6644 Před 4 lety +158

    "One of them slices of pizza out that winda"😅🤣😆

  • @GoodGrief101
    @GoodGrief101 Před 4 lety +96

    I learned in my early twenties to not let a man buy me a drink. I did a few times while out with friend’s. Anyway, an eight dollar drink isn’t an investment in my time. It doesn’t give anyone the go ahead to follow anyone around and etc. I started being upfront and would let them know if you buy me a drink, do it because you want to, but don’t expect anything. I would get a drink and be left alone. Setting boundaries and being upfront is a must! Tony knows what he’s talking about. I wish that I could have known a lot of this stuff as soon as I turned 18 to avoid a lot of nonsense. Thank you and be blessed!

    • @prettygirllafarrah
      @prettygirllafarrah Před 4 lety +9

      LaVette I wish the same ! No one really taught us about dating and dating rules . We just went the flow 🤷🏾‍♀️.

    • @GoodGrief101
      @GoodGrief101 Před 4 lety +7

      prettygirllafarrah that’s true. My kid’s are teens and I probably over share. I wasn’t talked to 🙄and I want them to be smarter than I was.

    • @traquilasmith2275
      @traquilasmith2275 Před 4 lety +1

      Right so true i wish i knew this year's ago as well learning and growing now. 👏

    • @GoodGrief101
      @GoodGrief101 Před 4 lety

      Traquila Smith it’s nice to be 40 and waking all the way up!

  • @trinasworld9377
    @trinasworld9377 Před 3 lety +9

    I'm 50 and I see this with a lot of guys, they are easy to read.

  • @maryihezie1190
    @maryihezie1190 Před 7 dny

    That is so deep! "The bigger the diamond the smaller the love."~Tony Gaskins

  • @elizabethschilling7178
    @elizabethschilling7178 Před 4 lety +277

    Lol! Loose booty ways!! 🤦‍♀️😂😂

  • @TrueEssence100
    @TrueEssence100 Před 4 lety +112

    OMG..I'm hollering...."Loose booty ways"🤣🤣🤣

  • @lukreecelupe8849
    @lukreecelupe8849 Před rokem +4

    “Singing on the microphone” ? 😂😂😂😂😂👀 I have choked on my tea

  • @madonatadros2041
    @madonatadros2041 Před 2 lety +21

    This man has changed my life for the better. You are doing God’s work Tony! God is blessing you and your family.

  • @a.8774
    @a.8774 Před 4 lety +52

    I like it when Tony changes his voice to the feminine side 😀❤️

  • @MzSoulll
    @MzSoulll Před 4 lety +89

    "you still strugglin wit yo loose booty ways" - Tony Gaskins. lmaooo

  • @Jasmyne444
    @Jasmyne444 Před 4 lety +19

    This has changed my life. 🤯🤯🤯 God bless you 🙌🏾

  • @nadeanbowles3052
    @nadeanbowles3052 Před 3 lety +7

    “When we play mind games, everybody loses.” -TG. AMEN!!!!!!

  • @alicea561
    @alicea561 Před 4 lety +39

    Sometimes your heart needs more time to accept what your mind already knows

  • @mirandasmith8501
    @mirandasmith8501 Před 4 lety +135

    I don't have any brothers until now. Tony is the protective brother I always wanted. Thank you big bro, much love for you❤

  • @mariahconklin4150
    @mariahconklin4150 Před 2 lety +5

    He asked for my number. ☺️ What a good guy and he called me within 24 hrs. And he’s never been in a relationship. What a winner with a great mom. 🙏👏👏👏

  • @courtneyhoward9096
    @courtneyhoward9096 Před 6 měsíci +7

    Thank you, Tony, for this! My mom never taught me anything about dating except you have to be friends first (get to know them), My dad wasn't around, and my two older brothers didn't teach me anything. So I appreciate this information at 34 years old. Bless you 🙏🏾

  • @ashunt29
    @ashunt29 Před 4 lety +133

    I appreciate me some Tony Gaskins!!! He keeps it so real. He's like having a great guy friend who won't stir you wrong. He really looks out for women, we need to have support from a Christian man who tells his faults as a player but how he's changed his life around for the better. I love how he loves and incorporates his love for his wife in his videos. He paints pictures for me. Can't wait to get their book together or hear from her. She sounds like a strong woman. His messages are for free, that's priceless.

    • @devonadee858
      @devonadee858 Před 4 lety

      That book is going to be good!

    • @ashunt29
      @ashunt29 Před 4 lety +1

      @@p_tiffanii I will have to check Pastor Blakes out. Thank you for your recommendation. He reminds me of Chico Bean, the comedian, as far as his physical attributes.

    • @christinedozier2154
      @christinedozier2154 Před 2 lety

      Exactly!

  • @Beautifullybyg
    @Beautifullybyg Před 4 lety +54

    I'm going to revise my dating goals and expectations.

  • @nessacity
    @nessacity Před 4 lety +17

    I wish I had this info in my 20"s not my 40z geesh!

    • @francescalegrand6257
      @francescalegrand6257 Před 3 lety +2

      Don't feel badly Nessie! I will be 62 VERY SOON and I am JUST LEARNING ALL THIS NOW!! Never give up !

  • @davia1013able
    @davia1013able Před 3 lety +5

    His impressions of women are too funny 😂 😂😂

  • @begee5847
    @begee5847 Před 4 lety +35

    “A woman is a wife.” Be blessed ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @brownsugarglamour
    @brownsugarglamour Před 4 lety +119

    “Celibant” 😂😭😭💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

    • @ci.ci.1998
      @ci.ci.1998 Před 4 lety

      brownsugarglamour 😂😂😂💀💀💀💀

    • @jamiechang1561
      @jamiechang1561 Před 4 lety +3

      LMAO!!!!!! "Celibant. No you ain't because you can't spell it" 😂😂😂

  • @MsAries1968
    @MsAries1968 Před 2 lety +3

    Tony Gaskin saving generations.

  • @lynn4134
    @lynn4134 Před 8 měsíci +5

    This advice is 1000% on point! If you are dating do this and you will save yourself a lot of time point blank period lol. I just started dating again after a break up (and proper healing time) and came back for a refresher lol

  • @heychunkybutt2010
    @heychunkybutt2010 Před 4 lety +143

    Hot dang!! “I’m celibate no you not because you can’t even spell the word” I’m dying.... okay back to listening

    • @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect
      @Ms_T_Perfectly_Imperfect Před 4 lety +1

      😂😂😂

    • @marishalewis484
      @marishalewis484 Před 4 lety

      heychunkybutt2010 🤣🤣🤣

    • @nessparadis6948
      @nessparadis6948 Před 4 lety +3

      heychunkybutt2010 , he said celibant! 😂

    • @heychunkybutt2010
      @heychunkybutt2010 Před 4 lety +8

      Ness Paradis yeah I know but my autocorrect wouldn’t allow it 🤷🏽‍♀️ that’s how funny it was. He be dropping jewels and keep you laughing at the same time.

    • @nessparadis6948
      @nessparadis6948 Před 4 lety +2

      heychunkybutt2010 , right? I found it funny that he said celibant bc I coulda sworn I’ve heard someone say that! He’s too funny! I laugh AND learn a lot when I watch him.

  • @MzSoulll
    @MzSoulll Před 4 lety +89

    "You cant be over here looking like who shot John and forgot to kill him?!" 😭😭😭

  • @deymimartinez530
    @deymimartinez530 Před rokem +8

    BEST dating advice I've heard in my life. Thank you Tony.

  • @LIBqueen
    @LIBqueen Před rokem +4

    You have a lovely accent
    The American southern accent is adorable
    Subscribed! 😊

  • @shereewhite4828
    @shereewhite4828 Před 4 lety +71

    OMG!!!! This was soooooo informative for women & men of ALL AGES! I'm a 51yr old black woman who's very old fashioned! I agree 100% with what you've explained brother Tony. Women pleeeeease listen to this man, he's speaking the whole truth & nothing but the truth! Men take note on dating & courting, there's a difference. I'm so old school I still use blue magic grease & sulfur 8 grease! 😂😂😂 God bless you brother Tony. This message really blessed me.

    • @phyllisgoodnight9481
      @phyllisgoodnight9481 Před 3 lety +3

      He should teach this in the church's to the young ladies or the church should get the lesson and start teaching them. We need to do things God's way
      again.

    • @prossykemigisha1708
      @prossykemigisha1708 Před 3 lety +1

      @@phyllisgoodnight9481 Amen to that.

  • @ashleygoodrich3294
    @ashleygoodrich3294 Před 4 lety +83

    The next guy I meet I hope he doesn’t like dating like that cause we’ll have that in common. I’m so tired of running into men claiming “ We don’t have to do anything” then going Ghost just because I’m keeping my Legs closed🙄🙄 Dating is so annoying nowadays

    • @mwellsdr
      @mwellsdr Před 4 lety +2

      Sis I'm going through the shit right. Now.... you want everything in the world until I tell you... wont be no goosie in this coochie

    • @desire202
      @desire202 Před 4 lety +2

      Exhausting...

    • @ascelinek
      @ascelinek Před 3 lety +1

      Sis I’m tired, it’s the same cycle of grown boys over and over again. As soon as you don’t give it up then they skate right outta there 🙃

    • @xekaicithole3433
      @xekaicithole3433 Před 3 lety +2

      I have done this but still the guys go away.

    • @micheleantoinette8072
      @micheleantoinette8072 Před 3 lety +1

      Dating is so frustrating and a lot of it comes from dishonesty--- people unwilling to be upfront or hiding their true intentions... I've only just turned 30 this year and I'm already disheartened 😔.

  • @lasonjacade489
    @lasonjacade489 Před 2 lety +6

    I spit out my drink when Tony said” You can’t be hot dogging and eating peach cobbler.” I hollered!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 The way he put things appropriately is so funny! But, what about “ dipping that stick in some Aquafina phrase??? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This video has truly blessed me. Thank you, Tony

  • @MayfairJones
    @MayfairJones Před 2 lety +4

    Was Married for 23 years...Tony is Absolutely RIGHT ✅

  • @cubanadelrey
    @cubanadelrey Před 4 lety +53

    I was still struggling with my loose booty ways 😂😭

  • @bowleged1
    @bowleged1 Před 4 lety +23

    Soon as my phone said Tony Gaskins uploaded a new video I had a moment of Glee

  • @LadyJefferson
    @LadyJefferson Před rokem +3

    Lose his number...love it .such sage advice...thank you thank you thank you

  • @jr38499
    @jr38499 Před 3 lety +5

    This man is the TRUTH! He is on point!

  • @BA-hb9hh
    @BA-hb9hh Před 4 lety +31

    THIS VID SHOULD BE IN THE SCHOOL SYSTEM. BRAVO TO YOU FOR THIS FABULOUS VIDEO

    • @anitahobbs839
      @anitahobbs839 Před 3 lety +3

      Lol so true ! I needed this years ago !

  • @moriah9132
    @moriah9132 Před 4 lety +35

    We aim low and hit 😩 Lord, help us. I’m praying that God gives me the strength to date the right way.

  • @mariamichael1807
    @mariamichael1807 Před 3 lety +5

    I love this man and I’m 57 years old ………🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @staceys1028
    @staceys1028 Před rokem +3

    I have watched this video so many time, always need to refresh