Why You Should Not Move to France in Your Late 20s

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  • čas přidán 20. 07. 2024
  • 0:00 Intro
    1:39 My school experience
    2:54 What's valuable at work
    3:21 We're addicted to being busy
    7:14 Rule 1
    7:36 Rule 2
    7:54 Rule 3
    8:09 Rule 4
    8:18 Rule 5
    Hi! my name is Joshua Balata and I'm an Indian Expat living in Paris. I am passionate about language learning and my content creation journey on youtube.
    Get in touch!
    ╰ Instagram: / joshuaaravind
    ╰ Website: joshuabalata.com
    ╰ linkedin: / joshuaaravind
    If you've ever dreamt of living the French Dream, with its whimsical feel, carefree lifestyle, and tantalizing culture? Moving to France might seem like an idyllic adventure, but it comes with its unique challenges, especially in your late 20s. In this video, I peel back the layers of the romanticized French life and share my experience of adulting in this country as a foreigner.
    🎥 Check out my previous video about living the French dream!
    • 4 reasons why I Moved ...
    See you in the next one!
    #keeplearning

Komentáře • 52

  • @lucienjeanbaptiste2474
    @lucienjeanbaptiste2474 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you so much Joshua! very informative and cool video!

  • @nehabawa5264
    @nehabawa5264 Před 9 měsíci

    It reminds me of the one conversation I had with you @hotbreads in early April.. its so refreshing to see some qualitative content like this! :))

  • @Ashilha
    @Ashilha Před 9 měsíci

    Thank you Joshua for making this video. I too do like useless things to comfort myself later which I regret. Seeing you doing lot of things inspiring me to do more. Learning a lot from you. Hands down 🙌🏻🎉

  • @boredsuhas
    @boredsuhas Před 11 měsíci

    This is amazingly relatable. The editing and storytelling is on point!

  • @NightSkyTower
    @NightSkyTower Před 10 měsíci

    Hey there.....amazing video, watching from Tokyo, your video showed up as i was researching about EDHEC ...thank you and keep it up Josh.

  • @bellatredjam7666
    @bellatredjam7666 Před 11 měsíci +4

    Very well put ou and honest. As immigrants we are so thirsty looking for Friends, relationships and stability that it's just so overwhelming sometimes. The only thing That helps is discipline ans routine and it takes motivation and courage. You sure have a lot Joshua ❤

  • @ThePlacidKatana
    @ThePlacidKatana Před 14 dny

    Man, I am in my extreme late 20s, moving to Paris this fall for my MSc, changing domains, very anxious about starting a new life in a new country with an absolutely different culture I'll have to adapt to and integrate with, and everything you said, each and every thing regarding the changes we go through in our late 20s, is so damn true, this video was like a reality check I needed man. I think I'll keep coming back to this video time and again man, thank you so much Josh! Hope to catch up with you in Paris someday.

    • @JoshuaBalata
      @JoshuaBalata  Před 13 dny +1

      Hey thanks for penning this down man. It’s going to be a challenging change, but you’re going to work through the right problems early on in your life as a foreigner here, as you don’t have the comfort of home. In time you will emerge proud of yourself and happy for having taken it head on🔥

  • @gauravkalidass
    @gauravkalidass Před 11 měsíci

    Wow. Fantastic storytelling, editing and everything Joshua. More power to you.

  • @auroren.2247
    @auroren.2247 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Tu as bien représenté les challenges de cette période de notre vie, super neat vidéo ;)

  • @user-lc6hk5tf2s
    @user-lc6hk5tf2s Před 4 měsíci

    Bro this is one of the valid content for young adults to built their future
    Thanks bro

  • @anupabasu
    @anupabasu Před 14 dny

    3:18 "we choose to stop doing important stuff to prioritise meaningless tasks" - Some life coach level truth bomb right there!!

  • @seustaceRotterdam
    @seustaceRotterdam Před 11 měsíci

    Subscribed! I am in my 50s now so I have a few things to say too! I don’t have regular TV, but stick to films 2-3 times a week, sometimes but not always related to language learning. Also this idea that we need to be 24/7 productive is something we need to loose. In Italian “il dolce far niente” in Bosnia “ ćejf”.

    • @JoshuaBalata
      @JoshuaBalata  Před 11 měsíci

      I completely agree! we should disconnect properly from work

  • @vidhyaabhi
    @vidhyaabhi Před 9 měsíci

    Hey Josh. Vanakkam from TN India. I am a recent subscriber to your channel. I like watching your videos, especially on learning new languages. All the best to you. Keep up the great work😊

  • @adhokshravishankar
    @adhokshravishankar Před 11 měsíci +3

    I'm in the last leg of my 20s and in India. I can relate to 90% of the things mentioned.

  • @rohanrajput1753
    @rohanrajput1753 Před 23 dny

    Tbh very honest i feel the same way but unable to process it with my insight 😢communication i think this is one of the most human video abt life scenarios in youtube

    • @JoshuaBalata
      @JoshuaBalata  Před 23 dny

      Man this video is why I make videos, I’m so glad it helps you.
      Are you also in France ?

  • @jigar.shah5
    @jigar.shah5 Před 11 měsíci +1

    In my late 20s and moved to Paris recently - couldn't relate more!

  • @phl.p2459
    @phl.p2459 Před 11 měsíci

    That’s me Josh , thanks for the video haha

  • @varundeepsingh582
    @varundeepsingh582 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Hi joshua , following you from so long , I am in my 20s and planning to move to france for mim in around my mid 20s . Plz make a video what should be done in these years and how to excel it to make best move in france . Like what 3rd year students or passed out student should do to excel in theirs future in france ❤❤

    • @JoshuaBalata
      @JoshuaBalata  Před 11 měsíci

      Hey man, do check out the 'getting to know yourself' playlist on my channel. That's a great place to start. I would :
      1. Get to know myself - What are my strengths, what kind of work do I not enjoy?
      2. Find out jobs that would satisfy that definition
      3. Find the institutions who can take you there (MiM in France, work visa, ... )
      Good luck man! Tell me how it goes

  • @kishorekarthikeyan7259
    @kishorekarthikeyan7259 Před 11 měsíci

    This is highly relatable. Btw just noticed the "Balata" logo - it's sleek 🚀

  • @jidnyasavetal2302
    @jidnyasavetal2302 Před 10 měsíci

    im 23 😢 planning to move to france idk how i feel about it

  • @hamzahoussein
    @hamzahoussein Před 11 měsíci

    Stylé ta nouvelle vidéo frérot

  • @a.s2791
    @a.s2791 Před 2 měsíci

    Hey Joshua, what's the kanban software you're using to organise everything?

  • @HS-hi6wc
    @HS-hi6wc Před 11 měsíci +1

    As amazing as organisation and knowledge management systems can be- they also streamline us in a way where we forget to just "be". Just being is a luxury now, mainly b/c of the capitalistic 9-5 culture. The culture everywhere makes people feel like they're missing out and not "achieving" what they should. The journey isn't prioritized anymore, the world, employers, and even potential matches just see "achievements". Human worth is being defined by a world where there is constant information overload. No wonder stress is making people unwell and there's a link with autoimmune diseases as well. A loved one tells me, that extra hour of work that is physically killing you is not worth your health. But then again, very few have that privilege and some have to sacrifice their well-being just to put food on the table. The "systems" we live in are not compatible for human beings.
    Also late 20s are not the end of the world, and if anything, I feel like most of my strength and physical fitness gains are in my 30s b/c I have a more stable idea of where my strengths and weaknesses lie. It's a great time to experiment and have fun learning where your bodily strengths lie. I do not follow trends but i focus on improving my existing strengths and working on my weaknesses. Lower body was alwats my strength but after a foot injury, i learned the value of investing in my upper body and training it to be better, not perfect- just better.

    • @JoshuaBalata
      @JoshuaBalata  Před 11 měsíci

      You're spot on when you say "We forget to just be"
      Thanks for sharing!

  • @KiranKumarYT
    @KiranKumarYT Před 11 měsíci +1

    Need a whole new video on how not to be 'Meaninglessly Productive' :(

  • @reeha....7734
    @reeha....7734 Před 11 měsíci

    I am in my early 20s 😅 don't know what will happen in future taking some tips from your videos

    • @JoshuaBalata
      @JoshuaBalata  Před 11 měsíci

      Work hard and seek creative people, you've got this!

  • @user-gy9dq3ij3g
    @user-gy9dq3ij3g Před 7 měsíci

    Your professor,🤦🏿‍♂️Why would he do that, what is that student going to eat, being a student is expensive.
    Try to slow down, eat, sleep & drink water and plan, plan etc.
    I prioritize eating, sleeping and water.
    Without any of that I can't think.

  • @abhijeetmaharana7614
    @abhijeetmaharana7614 Před 11 měsíci

    We all can agree tbh being in the late 20s!!! Haha!! Hey Joshua I was wondering is it possible to meet-up in person, can schedule a meet or something!!! Or if you can share an email Id would be perfect!!!

    • @JoshuaBalata
      @JoshuaBalata  Před 11 měsíci

      Hello! I organised one earlier this year, but it's been a while since I planned a meetup, reach out via instagram!

  • @JayeshBoorle
    @JayeshBoorle Před 10 měsíci

    Me watching every video regarding mim and the last video be like - why u should not move to france💀 bruhh 😂

  • @Bumnauan
    @Bumnauan Před 11 měsíci

    Such a great video for former teenager 🤡

  • @user-gy9dq3ij3g
    @user-gy9dq3ij3g Před 7 měsíci

    Don't they use English?