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  • čas přidán 27. 08. 2024
  • If you're here for a reaction, please feel free to skip this one :)
    I felt I needed to share my reasons for not releasing as many reaction videos as I'd like to and to the Nightwish Army, an apology for missing my commitments of releasing a reaction video every other Wednesday. I hope you understand and stick with me! I'll be getting back to them VERY soon!
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Komentáře • 85

  • @pdutchie4924
    @pdutchie4924 Před 2 lety +7

    Very sorry for your headaches, don’t worry, we’re not going anywhere.
    See you again when you’re up for it. 🙋🏼‍♀️

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you, I'll be right as rain very soon! Got a few vidoes coming out this week that I recorded last week, just been taking longer than usual to edit etc.🤦
      Thanks again and definitely see you soon!! 🙏🙏🤘

  • @jonelvis7663
    @jonelvis7663 Před 2 lety +1

    Take your time hombre and look after yourself. You brings the smiles Marben with each and every video. I for one will not inscribe. Take care hombre.

  • @StarStuffGal321
    @StarStuffGal321 Před 2 lety +1

    So sorry you’re dealing with that. Cluster headaches are horrible. We will miss your energy and enthusiasm but will appreciate it even more when you’re back! So cool about the golf. I hope to see you on the world circuit. Take care!

  • @annemarienaude8161
    @annemarienaude8161 Před 2 lety +1

    I am so, so sorry to hear! That is terrible! I used to get clusters and migraines. Please rest if you can, it is difficult ... I know. Get well soon. We'll be here for you, stay strong and stay real.

  • @williamfricke4464
    @williamfricke4464 Před 2 lety +1

    oh dude! Those are so damned bad! I heard they hurt like nothing else. You just get better. No one needs to live in that kind of pain. Gonna be here, waiting for your honest reactions, we are not gonna leave.

  • @sagebooker
    @sagebooker Před 2 lety +1

    I totally sympathize and share out your pain. I suffer "only" from migraine headache and ony "sometimes" severe migraine. My app to deal with it explain really good the cluster headache, and I'm so relief each times that mines don't go to this point, that I genuinely sympathize with out. You have all our support, and we'll be there !

  • @helli0n824
    @helli0n824 Před 2 lety +1

    we -were- are here, world wide waiting for you to get better and beeing in the right mood - that makes that videos awefull !

  • @lisagubbins6772
    @lisagubbins6772 Před 2 lety +1

    Thankyou for sharing ...... so sorry that u suffer from this awful condition ..... hope that the docs come up a good pain management for u ..... hope u feel better soon ...... sending much love 💕 🤘🏼🤘🏼🤘🏼🖤🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

  • @carriebrooks3625
    @carriebrooks3625 Před 2 lety +1

    I'm sorry to hear about your cluster headaches and I hope the cycle ends quickly. I had daily migraines for months but luckily they are under control. Hopefully new research will help all who suffer with headaches. BTW I just recently found your channel and have been enjoying it very much. Thank you and take care.

  • @jenifferloor502
    @jenifferloor502 Před 2 lety +1

    Ey! Oh do not worry! I guess we all want you to feel good. Health is first and we all understand you need some time to get well. I also have very painful headaches and understand what is like cannot possibly do anything. Get well soon. Waiting for your next reaction video as soon as you feel good. XX from Madrid 🇪🇸

  • @phurtig9881
    @phurtig9881 Před 2 lety +2

    My heart goes for you. I know personally what that all means. All the best for you ❤

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate it 🙏❤️

  • @angeliquemondalimare2951
    @angeliquemondalimare2951 Před 2 lety +1

    Sorry to hear about your suffering. Look after yourself and please know we will wait for you :) hugs

  • @jacquisampson-marat5277
    @jacquisampson-marat5277 Před 2 lety +1

    As a Seasonal Migraine sufferer, I kind of get it. Health first hun; we will still be here when you get over this.

  • @eleonoragiacomazzi5775
    @eleonoragiacomazzi5775 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi Marben, so sorry to hear that you have this been suffering this condition for so long. Migraines are bad enough but these cluster headaches sound excruciating.
    Thankyou for opening up like this to us. Don't worry..this Subbie isn't going anywhere! 🤗 All the best ok !? 😎👍

  • @marbenthesaffa
    @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety

    Thank you EVERYONE for your support and kind words! It really means the absolute WORLD to me!! Much love ❤️

  • @claudiavo7830
    @claudiavo7830 Před 2 lety +1

    I can't even imagine what it must feel like. I had a dislocated sholder 2 or 3 times, but what you are describing here sounds like hell! Please don't worry about us. Take good care of yourself and do what you feel is right.
    Get well soon and best wishes from Germany.

  • @jeffbowden8367
    @jeffbowden8367 Před 2 lety +1

    You come first bro, your health is the most important thing. And, thank you dude, fukkin love how some dudes know its ok to talk about stuff like this ❤️🇬🇧

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety

      Hey Jeff! Thank you so much man, I really appreciate it! And anytime man, I firmly believe that sharing this sort of thing actually helps and also shows people out there that it's okay to talk about it. We are all human, we all have our shit and sometimes we need to reach out. There is nothing wrong with that at all!
      Thanks for the kind words man, really! It's amazing to see how much love is actually out there in this dark world of ours. ❤️🙏💪🤘

  • @marafontes2896
    @marafontes2896 Před 2 lety +1

    Take good care of your health first! We will be here when you return. Wishing you a speedy recovery. I get 3 types of migraines so I understand some of it.

  • @sterlingknight8087
    @sterlingknight8087 Před 2 lety +2

    Take care of yourself, Marben. We'll be here later. Lots of us have health problems that we deal with, and sometimes we have to adapt our life. I'm coming up on my one year anniversity of my heart transplant, and I can tell you that changed my life.
    So get yourself well, and we'll be here, man. You're part of the Nightwish family, how could we do anything else?

  • @scottb.4472
    @scottb.4472 Před 2 lety +1

    You are one of the good ones......trust me on this....lol..... Sometimes in life you have to be selfish and take care of you before something else takes over you........ Wish you God speed And a quick recovery!!!!
    And trust me we will all still be here.

  • @theascreations8740
    @theascreations8740 Před 2 lety +1

    Take care of youself...we will be here when you are ready again. Be well....

  • @jonnybnice
    @jonnybnice Před 2 lety +1

  • @Llelythefallgirl
    @Llelythefallgirl Před 2 lety +1

    Please take care of yourself! You deserve to rest and recover.

  • @bikik7929
    @bikik7929 Před 2 lety +9

    Health first of course, reactions can wait.. i think most of NW army understand and still be here when you're doing better❤ i suffer migraines and it is bad enough, can't really imagine suffering something worse than that..stay strong and thank you for being so open about that🤘🏻 lots of healing wibes and hugs🤗from Finland

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +3

      Hey! Thank you so much for the support and kind words! 🙏 sorry about your migraines! They are horrible in themselves!
      Thank you for understanding. The NW army truly are an amazing group!!! 🙏🙏🙏
      Thank you!!🙏🤗🤘

  • @robertbrown8576
    @robertbrown8576 Před 2 lety +1

    Take care of yourself, Bro! Looking forward to having you back when you are comfortable again. BE WELL!!!

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety

      Thanks Robert! I'll be releasing a few reactions this week that I recorded last week, as I get the energy to edit them but ill be back in full swing soon🙏💪🤘
      Thank you kind sir🙏

  • @maggie_galle7651
    @maggie_galle7651 Před 2 lety +1

    i'm a bit late to get to this video, but man! that sucks! take care of yourself first buddy, we're not going anywhere!
    i suffer from tention headaches, so i kind of have an idea how you probably feel. and have to say i'm sorry you have to go through that...
    finding the right meds, and dealing with side effects is a struggle on its own, i know. i hope you find the golden midway soon!
    until then, take care of yourself, and hang in there! sending you love and strength ♥

  • @aprilia6753
    @aprilia6753 Před 2 lety +1

    Sorry to hear that...Best wishes from Germany and i see you by your next NW reaction...take your time...🤘🙃👍

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety

      Thank you so much! 🙏 🙏 I'll see you at the next NW reaction hopefully really soon! Greetings from South Africa 🇿🇦 🤘

  • @Thnielsen85
    @Thnielsen85 Před rokem +1

    Just saw this video now. sorry I'm a bit late.
    Sorry to hear about your medical issues :( I know a little about severe headaches, I got a tripple cerebral thrombosis(blood clot in the brain) last year, and i had the worst headache ever! several times worse than i could ever imagine.. and it's probably not even half as bad as cluster headaches. Glad you found medication that helps, and I hope it makes the condition more manageable.
    Looking forward for more reactions, but take all the time you need, and take good care of yourself. Real life comes first :)
    Best of luck :)

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před rokem +1

      Oh my word, that sounds really hectic! I can only imagine the pain you went through! Anything to do with 'headaches' is a terrible thing to experience!
      Thank you so much for the kind words, I really appreciate it!
      I'm in the clear for now until about December but now I'm overloaded with work🤦 So I don't get as much time as I'd like to do reactions but more to come very soon! I do miss it so much.
      Thanks again! Have a wonderful day 🤘

  • @alexandersteinmetz6857
    @alexandersteinmetz6857 Před 2 lety +2

    Well, nothing you have to clear up for me, i just enjoy, when and what you add, and foremost: STAY HEALTHY! did throw that at you everytime:) that here is for sure an social Interaction, in the End, its only Bits and Pixels, and you got exactly one Real Life, and one Helth to get along , so my next suggestion for you to listen to is your Doc!
    STay Healthy
    NWA Bavaria North

  • @OlettaLiano
    @OlettaLiano Před 2 lety +1

    Take care of yourself, dude. I'll be here when you're feeling better. 👍🤗

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey Oletta! I will most certainly and thank you, I really appreciate it!! 🙏

  • @antonylacroix6475
    @antonylacroix6475 Před 2 lety +1

    Take care from UK , been enjoying your Nightwish and Lovebites reactions -

  • @jessicakoster2543
    @jessicakoster2543 Před 2 lety +3

    I'm so sorry to hear about your health issues.
    Speaking as someone who suffers from hormone related migraines,
    headaches are the worst because they're in your head, there's no escaping it.
    The only blessing of them is how punctual they (usually) are.
    This way you can prepare for them and not be caught off guard.
    I really hope summer thing is a fluke, and you feel better soon.
    Take your time, we're not going anywhere.
    And I really appreciate you taking the effort of explaining what's going on.
    It wasn't necessary, but it is greatly appreciated.

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +1

      Hi Jessica! Thank you so much for the kind words and support! Sorry to hear about your migraines, they're are no fun either. And there is nothing you can really do, just have to wait it out! But you're so right, the punctuality of them makes it easier to prepare for but it also plays on the mind constantly which isn't pleasant but such is life I guess. We all have our problems🙏
      Thank you so much! I honestly really appreciate it! 🙏🙏🙏🤗

  • @ericlenouy8756
    @ericlenouy8756 Před 2 lety +1

    Take care of your health first, we can wait for the reactions ;-)
    💪

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +1

      Thanks Eric! 💪💪🤘 I'll be releasing a few videos this week that I recorded that week but will be in full swing again soon 🙏🤘

  • @annhelensjostrom9065
    @annhelensjostrom9065 Před 2 lety +1

    Feel better buddy ❤️

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey Annhelen! Thank you very much! I'll be right as rain soon😁🤘💪🙏❤️

  • @Kelsea-2002
    @Kelsea-2002 Před rokem +1

    I am sure that everyone can understand that it is impossible to make a video with such pain.Take the time you need. If someone can't accept that, you can certainly do without him.I wish you all the best;greetings from Kelsea NWA Germany

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před rokem +1

      Hi Kelsea. Thank you so much for the kind words, it really means so much to me! Majority have been really supportive and so kind about it it's actually so heart warming. Shows that there are so many beautiful souls out there and so many wonderful people!
      Thanks again, and thank you for taking the time to comment🙏🤘🤗

    • @Kelsea-2002
      @Kelsea-2002 Před rokem +1

      @@marbenthesaffa 🤗👍🤘It was a pleasure for me and Btw it is a matter of course to support people who feel bad.

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před rokem +1

      @@Kelsea-2002 Thank you again! That's really kind of you! 🙏🙏🤗

  • @chriso6719
    @chriso6719 Před 2 lety +1

    Sorry to hear. I've had regular migraine's before, and those are no fun.
    Health is a priority. CZcams is not. We'll still be here when you're ready.
    Take care of yourself.

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey Chris! Aah man, migraines are no fun either! Thank you, I really appreciate that! I will be releasing a few reactions this week that I recorded last week as I get the energy to edit them. Little late but oh well. But for NW I need and want all the energy I can get😁😁🙏🤘💪
      Thank you kind sir, same goes for you! 🙏

  • @bushman9222
    @bushman9222 Před 2 lety +1

    Hi Marben. Really sorry to hear about your health issues. I have a serious medical condition that interferes drastically with everyday life but at least I don't suffer any pain. Be assured that I will still be here when you have recovered and I wish you a speedy recovery. Take good care my friend.

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety

      Hi Bryan! Thank you very much! I'm really sorry to hear about you medical condition. Pain or no pain it's terrible! I hope you recover and get through it soon my friend!
      Thank you for the continued support, I really appreciate it! 🙏🙏🙏💪🤘

    • @bushman9222
      @bushman9222 Před 2 lety

      @@marbenthesaffa Unfortunately there will be no recovery but I'm still smiling so no worries. Thanks for your kind thoughts and I look forward to your next reaction in the near future. All the best squire.

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety

      @@bushman9222 I'm truly sorry to hear that Bryan! I'm glad you're still smiling though. Stay in there bud!! My thoughts are with you! 🙏🤘

    • @bushman9222
      @bushman9222 Před 2 lety

      @@marbenthesaffa Thanks Marben, much appreciated.

  • @kamilgodlewski1249
    @kamilgodlewski1249 Před 2 lety +1

    Hey man. I think I experienced something close 2 times, it was probably exercise exhaustion headache, would keep on for several days straight, even after I wake up, the pain is undescribable. I feel for you man, if you feel that regularly, that really sucks. Take care man!

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety

      Hey man! Ahh that's terrible, I feel you there. These types of headaches are no fun! Appreciate it man, take care🙏🙏🤘💪

  • @elaa.k.juutilainen5450
    @elaa.k.juutilainen5450 Před 2 lety +2

    So sorry to hear about your situation. Just take good care of yourself. Reactions can wait the day when you're ready. I'm NW fan from Tampere, Finland and also breast cancer fighter. Lots of power huggies!

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +3

      Hi Ela! Thank you so much! 🙏
      You keep fighting that fight!!! My thoughts are with you! Lots and lots of power hugs back at you 🤗🤗🤗

  • @hyperwolfy5704
    @hyperwolfy5704 Před 2 lety +1

    Your health is top priority. So you first focus on yourself. I enjoy your reactions and energy (even if I never comment ;p) but you indeed should never force yourself in to doing them when you are not feeling well. I might not know the feeling of cluster headaches myself (I do suffer from migraines) but my father also has cluster headaches and I know how terrible it is. Hopefully this batch of episodes will die down soon. I do believe that stress can trigger them to show up more. So please take it easy and take care of yourself.

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey! Thank you so much! I appreciate the kind words! Ahhh sorry to hear about your migraines, they are no fun either and sorry for your dad, I can certainly relate!
      Thank you, hopefully this cluster period doesn't last too long. I want to get back to smashing some reactions.
      Youre 100% right, stress does actually trigger them more often and in this day and age we are all under an immense amount of stress.
      Thank you again, I really appreciate it!! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @sandrafreudenthaler504
    @sandrafreudenthaler504 Před 2 lety +2

    I am so sorry that you are feeling so bad. Don't worry about the reaction videos. We all still be here. I wish you get better soon. Take good care of yourself! Greetings from Austria 😊😘

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +2

      Hi Sandra! Thank you very much! I really appreciate it! 🙏
      I will be releasing a few reactions this week that I recorded last week but for NW I want and need all my energy!! 🙏🙏

  • @timotimo4152
    @timotimo4152 Před 2 lety +3

    Sorry to hear that..take it easy and react whenever you feel good to go! Good to talk aout these things, I'd never heard of cluster headaches. Bon courage.

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +2

      Hey Timo! Thank you so much, I appreciate it! You're right, it's good to talk about it. It sucks but that's life hey. We just gotta keep our heads up and keep moving forward🤘🤘💪🙏

  • @stephanie.r382
    @stephanie.r382 Před 2 lety +1

    Ahh sounds awful what you are having to go through . Just post videos when you feel up to it , we will be here for you !

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +1

      Hi Stephanie! Thank you so much for the comment, I really appreciate it! 🙏🙏 I've got a few videos that I recorded last week that I'll be releasing this week. Took me longer than usual to edit but hopefully I'll be in full swing soon🙏
      Thanks again and thank you for the continued support! 🤗

    • @stephanie.r382
      @stephanie.r382 Před 2 lety +1

      @@marbenthesaffa we will look forward to them , take care of yourself x

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +1

      @@stephanie.r382 Thank you Stepanie, you too! X

  • @altiyuzalti
    @altiyuzalti Před 2 lety +1

    Hey Marben. Never heard of cluster headaches before. I googled it and I felt your struggle immediately. Sorry to hear that, it must be awful. But hey, you gotta just deal all the shit life keeps throwing at you, right? I said it before, I don't feel like I'm watching anoter reactor while watching your videos, I feel like I'm watching a good friend's reactions. I don't know what to say except sending positive vibes. We all need them, don't we? I hope you'll get much better soon. Thank you for being open about this.
    and I probably can speak for all; don't worry about us. we'll be around. We missed to see you. But first you just take good care of yourself. You'll make the videos whenever you feel fine and you want to.

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey Ozy! Ahhh thanks man, I really appreciate it! And thanks for googling it, it's so hard to explain. But yeah man, life throws some serious curve balls our way and we just need to duck and dive and move on. I feel at this point we've become friends and thanks for saying that! That's what I love about this channel, it's engaging with you and other like minded people, have a good time and just enjoying the beauty that is music!
      Thanks again Ozy and thank you for your continued support and also thanks for understanding. I'll be right as rain soon🤘💪 in the meantime I'll be releasing some reactions I did last week when I felt up to it but for any NW reactions I want to be tip top!
      Thanks my friend! 🙏🙏🤘💪

    • @altiyuzalti
      @altiyuzalti Před 2 lety +1

      @@marbenthesaffa exactly man. thank you for your kind words. we'll be waiting. stay strong!! 💪💪

  • @Musicality-66
    @Musicality-66 Před 2 lety +1

    My best friend has cluster headaches. She has a prescription for a nasal spray. If she feels it coming, she uses the spray and it prevent the cluster headache for developing further. If you are interested what the name of the spray is, let me know. I’ll ask her. Take care! 🙋‍♀️💕

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety

      Hi, ahhh please that would be amazing!!! The meds I'm on works and prevents them mostly but the side effect are terrible. I would really appreciate that!!! You're an absolute star 🌟 Thank you!🤗

    • @Musicality-66
      @Musicality-66 Před 2 lety +1

      @@marbenthesaffa My friend uses the nasal spray Imigran if she feels her migraine coming. She use twice per day a tablet called Verapamil to prevent cluster headaches. Sometimes she uses both. She has no side effects at all. I live in the Netherlands. Hope it will help you too. 🙋‍♀️💕

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety

      @@Musicality-66 Thank you so much!! I am actually on Verapamil which works like a bomb but for some reason causes the fatigue. I'm very interested in the nasal spray though! I'm going to chat to my Dr and see if she can give me a prescription for it! Thank you, I really appreciate the effort!! 🤗🙏

  • @davevanvuuren578
    @davevanvuuren578 Před 2 lety +1

    Listen boet, don't fool around with illness. You only have one life to live. Get treatment if possible and don't sweat the small stuff. We followers enjoy seeing the young discover music we grew up with. And yes, todays music does not come close EXCEPT, for the Scandinavian countries which has kept real music alive. I also suffer from an illness called old age. No cure. Just have to live with it and enjoy every moment that we are still breathing. We are not going anywhere. Dave south africa

  • @dalbertyn
    @dalbertyn Před 2 lety +1

    Shame man, I hope they go away for you. We've been having a very mild winter, so I hope it's not weather related for you... I had 2 co-workers who also have migraine/headache attacks and it's so debilitating :( glad that your work is understanding of your condition and lets you take time to recover. Don't stress about posting if you're not feeling well.

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey Danielle. Thank you! We have yeah and I have a feeling it's to do with this weird winter we're having. It's so strange but what can we do hey🤦 Yeah, im very fortunate that my work understands🙏
      Thanks Danielle, I'll be releasing a few reactions this week that I recorded last week, as I get the energy I edit them but I'll be back in full swing soon! Thanks for the continued support, I really appreciate it!! 🙏🙏🙏🤗

  • @rayalvarez4933
    @rayalvarez4933 Před 2 lety +1

    I’m sorry to hear of your health issue. I suffer from an autoimmune disease and I have started a new diet which has greatly improved my symptoms. Go to you tube and type in Dr. Shawn Baker, it may help. Good luck.

  • @jamieberrings9753
    @jamieberrings9753 Před 2 lety +1

    Cluster headaches are horrible. Right up there with Migraines. I know you can’t function. Take care and we will see you when you’re better.

    • @marbenthesaffa
      @marbenthesaffa  Před 2 lety +1

      Hey Jamie! Thank you, much appreciated!! Ill be dropping some videos this week that I recorded last week but will be in full swing again soon! :)