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This is towards your “hope that it lasts!”
thank you so much!
@@L3WGReacts The gas station analogy is not real. And we know most Brits are commoners, and are not raised in aristocracy. We're alot alike because most 98% of Americans were not raised in aristocracy, regardless of their origin.
@@L3WGReactssorry but I had to opine. American here of British/Ulster Scotts ancestry on paternal side & Irish(Lea)/Scottish (Wallace) and Dutch on maternal side. America has almost all those euphemisms, but what the Brit doesn't understand is the application is this way:
We're resillient and optimistic. When things take a downturn, we look up (christian value). When the going gets tough, the tough get going. It's darkest before the dawn. This too shall pass. These are encouraging euphemisms. BUT we have the other euphemisms too (calm before the storm or Murphys law - anything that can go wrong, will go wrong.) The difference is British are pessimistic and they interject the pessimistic sayings before anything has happened ... like a prediction. Americans use negative euphemisms to explain a situation that went badly *after* it happened ... like as a reflection. [Example: dude what happened!? Everything was going well yesterday. Oh man, It was the calm before the storm. ]
But Brits would say it in a pessimistic way BEFORE the storm happens.
British comedy focuses on buffoonery and ill-timed events. The laughing stock. American comedy also has the elements of the stooge. But there's usually a "straight-man" who adds sanity check. Look up old Laurel & Hardy, the Three Stooges, Golden Girls, (Slapstick comedy).
I hope that clarifies.
P.S. top-loading washers are the original design which were invented in America. We have 'frontloaders" ... which are becoming more popular. Depending on the brand the frontloader is typical more roomy. So able to wash larger items like quilts & comforters.
@@L3WGReacts OK 3rd the British who came here first were leaving religious persecution (adversity) AND bringing the Gospel of Salvation in Christ to Native Americans. (READ THE UNCUT VERSION OF THE "MAYFLOWER CO.PACT". Irish brought here as the first slaves and also came during the potato famine (adversity). Most Americans came her to make better for their lives and as religious refugees. This still goes on. So to your point, optimism and bravery came with us. Adversity is a challenge to be conquered.
I think Americans take failure as a learning experience not really a failure. We just learned we need to do something different to succeed. 🤷♀️
Supposedly when Edison was questioned about his numerous failures to create the first light bulb he stated these were not failures at all. He just discovered 100 ways you could not make a lightbulb.
@@craigscott2862love it!
@@craigscott2862💯🤔 First Step steal someone else's idea😂😂 that's the Thomas Edison way
Edison WASa crook
Technically stole from nikoli.
Don't let people tell you to be quiet. You are Absolutely an American inside. You would have been one of those optimistic British colonists who got on the boat. 😎
Yeah, Lewis; you'd fit right in here. If you went into an American bar you'd end up with a dozen new friends.
The guy who said "You miss 100 percent of the shots you don't take" is Canadian.
And we Americans love him!
Bless your heart, you’re an extrovert and would absolutely thrive in the USA 🇺🇸
Your channel is succesful not because of us, because of your personailty. You're funny, and witty, and cool to listen to. If you don't know something you just say so. I think it will continbue to grow if you just stay the real way that you are. You have the personality to take this channel far.
So true! I agree 100%! Lewis you have an amazing personality one automatically feels comfortable with you. You don't pretend to be someone you are not. You let you shine through! America would welcome you here. Continued good luck on making your dream come to fruitation! ❤
His energy ,always laughs and happy cheers me and makes me laugh 😂
Yes you are authentic and likeable and your energy is contagious and endearing!
Well said. When I watch him it feels like I’m hanging out with a homie smoking some blunts and having a few beers just chillin 😂
Absolutely!! He has an amazing personality! We would definitely welcome you into America with open arms.
When you said “I hope it lasts” I practically cried for you. Ok. So I’m old enough to be your mother. And I have 4 sons and a daughter. And if one of them said “I hope it lasts” about their success, I would sit them down and say “you keep working as hard as you’re working and enjoy what you’re doing. Keep your passion for it and enjoy every second. You’re working so hard, and I’m so proud of you for your success! If it DOESN’T last it’s because something better is next. You don’t always succeed, but you just pick yourself up and use that as a stepping stone to do better in the next thing. Never ever quit trying to have the life you want. Be sensible, be honest, and be brave.”
Yes!!!!!
Very well said! There is nothing wrong with saying "I hope it lasts!" Be wise with your decisions and I can't imagine it not lasting.. just go for whatever it is you want & set your heart on in life! You CAN do it!
Quick story
I was writing a list of things I wanted to do in the next year on Jan 1st.. anything.. big crazy things, little things, whatever you want. Make another copy of it. One you put in an envelope until next Jan 1st and the other you burn and send your desires out into the Universe..
One of the things I listed was I wanted to have a photograph of mine on an international (music?) cd. I actually forgot all about it because I couldn't even begin to think how I could make that happen.
Fast forward to early December of the next year.. My late partner was friends with a guy who owned a bar, who was friends with a guy named N eil Zaza! I never heard of him but he had a Christmas show coming up soon in Cleveland and Don managed to get us front row seats to his show.
I took my camera to the show and took dozens of pictures from front row. The light show was fantastic and my pictures turned out amazing. I shared them with his manager via email and it wasn't long before they Asked if they could use my pictures on his next cd. .. Not only did they use it on his cd, they also used it on their mailer the next year.
Neil Zaza is an Internationally known guitarist.. I had no clue but I was tickled pink.
Back to the list in the envelope.. well I had totally forgotten I put that desire to have a photo on a cd.. and damn if it didn't happen.
If you don't know who Neil Zaza is..
Check him out.. you might like him! He's pretty amazing.
Long story, but the moral of the story is.. dream.. put your desires out in the Universe and you'd be surprised how your dreams are answered. 🎉❤
Thanks, Mom!❤
“I hope it lasts” If this is your thought process be proactive with it, and start saving a percentage of your income for the what-ifs, because anything can happen, and when/if it does, more often than not, it's out of your control.
You are the type of person that the "American Dream" is tailor made for. The fact that you do a regular CZcams channel, and you're willing to learn speaks to that.
I love your videos BECAUSE of your reactions. You come across as warm, genuine, kind, accepting, and fun. You will be so welcome when you visit the US. Believe me, you will fit right in. That's why you are getting so much support from Americans. We love you!
"What can go wrong will go wrong" is what we call Murphy's law. We see it as a warning and challenge. For us, it doesn't really mean that we're bound to fail. It's a reminder to expect the unexpected for success.
My family has learned how to roll with the punches, to get up and dust off our britches and try again!! lol
While what can go wrong will go wrong at the worst possible moment is sod's law.
What can go wrong will go wrong, and what can't go wrong will probably still go wrong.
I saw a poster about Murphy's law with examples and two of the examples I love:
1. A shortcut is the longest way between two points.
2. The light at the end of the tunnel is the headlight of an oncoming train.
I love them, because 1. you always get lost trying a shortcut. and 2. they always talk about the light at the end of the tunnel as heaven, well reality check it's death alright just not the way you imagined.
Did the Brits ever use "YOLO" (You Only Live Once) or "Send it", the challenge to someone, or the idea that this could get ugly, but someone needs to give it a try.
I think your optimism and outgoing personality is what draws you to America. You’re looking for like minded people to be around.
Yes. I really think he'd Love it Here, but let's be real, he has to travel a bit to find the place that's right for him. The choices may be overwhelming, but if he comes for vacation a few times in different States/Regions, do some research, he can find a place that's perfect for him to live as he travels around eating himself silly... And posting about it
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I’m biased, I’d recommend a cosmopolitan city on either coast (NYC or LA.) That’s only because I was born and raised in the former and have lots of family in the latter, I will say they’re no doubt VERY different. I have family in about 12 states and they’re all pretty great. My mom’s family is from rural PA and while the scenery is amazingly mountainous like Scotland I might not recommend it to a young traveler (buy a country house there.) Then again with the internet being what it is and with affordability being a concern my suggestion would be to come here and visit a few places and then decide. The Northeast (the east coast in general) is the oldest part of the country so much of it looks very European while elsewhere there are much newer cities and everything in between. One’s comfort level must be addressed but being young and ambitious is the main requirement.
@@The_Crucible714 I have the same experience with family and friends making changes to where they live because where they are isn't serving their needs and desires.
I'd like to see what's outside of California because I don't like what's happening here. But, my family is here and that's the most important to me. So, I'm trying to find someplace suitable for me in California since where I grew up is no longer as nice as it was then.
America is so vast and there are so many choices, he would really do better as a renter for the first several years and visit different regions, States, and cities before settling down for the long term.
I'd recommend that to anyone
We're screwed because Biden wants the Muslim votes.
My great grandfather was the only one of 13 kids who came to the US from Holland afrer the great war. He said that in Holland, you're born a farmer and you die a farmer, but in America, you can be born a pauper and die a king. By the end of his life, he and my Scottish immigrant great grandmother had owned 4 hotels, 2 resorts and had what they were most proud of, 6 kids, 48 grandkids and, at the time, 69 great grandkids. America is a place of endless possibilities, where the only thing holding you back is your own mind and willingness. A place where you can sow your Oats and then watch them grow out beyond the horizon.
I love your reactions. I noticed one difference in your words. You say “lower CLASS”. We say “poor people” or “working poor”. Our words express an open door. Words matter.
If someone in the US grows up in the projects, the successful people don't let it define who they are. Their biggest goal is to "get out" of that situation. You may be 'poor' but that can easily change. Being 'lower class' doesn't change.
Or lower socioeconomic
I think Brits are more cautious and self depracating and Americans are like yes! let's just do it!
Another thing I've noticed that that Brits tend to not get involved. I'm thinking of the time a man had a gun on a French train; Americans on the train tackled him. That's an American thing to do. Maybe it has something to do with Britain and much of Europe being invaded so many times? American has been completely autonomous (after we kicked the British out).; the thought of anyone invading is like "hell no".
Thomas Edison once said, "I haven't failed 1,000 times, I've proved 1,000 ways it won't work." (Paraphrased)
I think this sums up the true American spirit of picking yourself up and trying again.
Weather can be overcome, you can have a picnic in your living room.😊
I think there were some people with optimism still in the UK. 😂
lol Reminds me of Mark Twain and my struggle; "Quitting smoking is easy. I've done it a thousand times".
Edison: "Genius is one percent inspiration, ninety-nine percent electrocuting cats to make Nikola Tesla look bad." Not quite accurate, but still kinda true.
@@easein What worries me the most is second hand smoke. I look down and there's a smoke in my second hand! (Joke stolen from Alex Lifeson of Rush).
Edison was a thief and politician. I have no worse insult.
@@jeffidyle4957if 2nd hand smoke is bad for me, I better start smoking so I can at least get it when it's still healthy!
So,I'm an American who married a Brit,and one time when my father in law was here visiting we went to a restaurant. His food came and it wasn't what he ordered. He would NOT tell the waitress and send it back. I couldnt stand seeing him sit there trying to eat something he didn't want,so I called the waitress over and had her take it back. Well. He was SO embarrassed,which I found endearing but hysterically funny🤣
Lol
My husband is English and he won't send back either. Unless it's really horrible.
🤣100%! My ex husband is English and his parents were the same, when they visited. I remember the first time I experienced one of them getting the wrong order, and me telling them I’d call the server over; the look on their faces was one of horror, followed by a “heavens, no!” I was dumbfounded; I couldn’t wrap my head around why, it’s not like we were at a private home, for a dinner party!😂
So the next night, knowing that beneath all that ‘English’ they both had really good sense of humor’s, I decided to play a trick on my MIL. We had a reservation for the chef’s table at a restaurant where the chef was a good friend of mine, so I asked my friend to send out my MIL’s med-well steak order, raw. Not rare, but raw; otherwise plated normally, but with a raw piece of steak.
I was sitting next to her at dinner and we were heavy in conversation when our orders arrived. I pretended not to notice, as she squirmed ever so slightly in her chair, before I looked over at her. I could tell she was horrified, but at the same time she was actually trying to figure out how she was going to eat it.
I was effing dying inside when I asked her, “didn’t you order your steak, med-well?” She answered simply, “I did.” So, I just said, “oh well, maybe it will be ok, just a lot more chewy.” I waited as long as I could (about 15 seconds) before I burst out laughing.🤣🤣🤣
My friend (chef) was laughing his ass off as he brought her perfectly cooked meal, and had the other plate removed. My MIL was so relieved that she started cracking up. Later, when the kitchen was out of the weeds, my friend pulled a chair up to the table, next to my MIL, and hung out with us. They had a laugh, and he explained to her that, at least here in the states, most chefs would prefer that you leave raving about how good the food was, as opposed to you just leaving and thinking that the chef was raving mad.😂
@@janedarc7731 Omg that's the funniest story I've heard in a long time 😂🤣😂Thank you for sharing that,you have no idea how bad I needed a good laugh this morning~!!🥩🤣🩵🩵🩵
My ex FIL would have been mortified😂
That's how we do it as Americans, Brits don't get that. It's ok though we'll help them out.
Great story I enjoyed it 😂
It's not ambitious, it's optimistic.
Americans just always turn things positive. We were raised with anything is possible; it's in our DNA
True
😂
Explain the trophies
80's baby here
Our mentality is when one door closes, another one opens. If you look back in your life, you can probably say the same. Almost always, when something (you think is )bad happens in your life, it’s usually for a reason and there was a better opportunity waiting for you on the other side. We adore you Lewis! Can’t wait to see your content when you finally get here!
Dude, you have earned your American card. Your openness and genuine interest without insults or partiality is endearing and makes listening to you fun! Well done !
Definitely! Dude, have you ever been to NYC? It’s a lot like the UK in that the city is comprised of a group of islands so parts of it are really crowded therefore we must be respectful of each other, but you’d fit right in. We love the Brits here, we’re like the naughty kids from all over Europe and the world who said screw you to the old establishment, ran away from home and formed our own (all inclusive) club. People are still dying to get here and -at the risk of starting a war in the comment section I can say that the truth will prevail as, with all it’s faults it’s still a pretty great place to be. So, you’re only a couple hundred years late… better late than never! 👍🏻
As an American, this is an interesting perspective. I grew up in a single-wide trailer in Appalachia. Went to state university and law school on scholarship. I guess that I’m “upperclass” now, but every friend I have went through the same sort of ascension. So….a lot of Americans (in my experience) are just hard workers figuring out what works for our lifestyle. Hard work, focus, and drive are definitely rewarded here.
It depends on what you make. You might be 'middle class'? CONGRATS on your hard work & overcoming the odds.👏👏👏👏My step grampa worked in the mines, payed in mine script. He left the mines when my uncle graduated college. My mom graduated first. They lived in the last street before the black neighborhood.
My British friend has a saying. "We British don't have a British dream because we are awake"
The "class" thing has a few examples in the media, movies, tv shows, etc. but, I think the best example of someone getting rich but everyone still looking down at her as being a lower class, even though she was from the US, is the Unsinkable Molly Brown. She was on the Titanic and, even though she was rich from her husband discovering oil, all the snooty, upper-class women talked about her behind her back and stuck their pointy noses up in the air, at her. However, when push came to shove and the SHTF, Molly was the one who took charge of the women of her group and saved quite a lot of people, including those who looked down on her. Watch the movie "Titanic" and you'll get exactly what I'm putting forth. Kathy Bates did a fine job portraying her.
You may be raised in the "project"Lewis, but you can pull yourself up by your bootstraps and make something out of yourself. Don't let your childhood or the country you live in define what you become. You're already well on the road to build your own dream. You define you! Best successes in the future!
The "American Dream" is a strong drive for so many of us that it is just a natural attitude. I quit my job because I decided it was time to be my own boss. Now, I am my own boss making what I made before working 75% less and making my own schedule. It never once dawned on me that maybe I wouldn't be able to do it.
Making what you made before? Don't consider that getting ahead.
British attitude L@@annfrost3323
@@annfrost3323you don’t know how much he was making and at what personal cost. He is making plenty of money working only 25% as many hours as he use to and works when he wants. His goal is financial success with very limited time expended. That is absolutely getting ahead.
"Getting ahead" by your definition is strictly monetary. Being his own boss and working 75% less than he did IS getting ahead for him and would be for me and most others as well. His life and his soul have gotten ahead, which is what IS most important.
@@annfrost3323Wait. Let me get this straight. You wouldn't consider it a Major improvement if you had a job making, let's say, $50K/year working 50-60 hours a week on a set schedule...
And then got Another job making the same $50K/year, but Now you can work 75% less -- no more than 15 hours/week, which is essentially Very part-time hours, by the way -- and choose your own schedule?
Please explain because I'm very curious How that's not a huge upgrade on every level
I moved recently to a new state and met a new friend in town she then introduced me to a friend she had and then I found out her friend is an L3WG Reacts fan! I love meeting fans of you! Keep a positive and keep going. Love you!
I love British comedy for its own style and American for its. I love dry, snarky, quick wit of British shows like Absolutely Fabulous: Patsy, usual vodka and cigarette in hand smirks with a satisfied smile, "The last mosquito that bit me had to check into the Betty Ford Cinic!"
(rehab)
Or Little Brittain USA: Bored hospital receptionist, no matter the type, severity, or urgency of the patient's condition, checks her computer to confirm the appointment, but repeatedly answers, in an annoyed monitoned voice, "Computer says no." The patients go from minor situations to ridiculous emergency situations, but still, "Computer says no." 😄
Then I also love when British humor juxtaposes quick wit, and clever, intelligent word play with complete childlike silliness. Like Monte Python: Question: What's brown and sounds like a bell? Answer: Dung! 😄
As far as the American Dream. It depends on who you are as to how difficult it is to achieve for you idividually, because of many things. That being said, I'd say there is an overall belief that as an american, you have an opportunity to improve your means and upward mobility is available. Many of us teach our kids they can be anybody they wat to be. There is just a discrepancy in the ease of accessibility to the dream to all communities. Few people here will ever tell you it is impossible or discourage from it. Most will cheer you on and then high five you for the successes, and encourage you from setbacks. Those success celebrations/recognitions we show others, believe it or not, gives your brain a shot of dopamine that promotes drive for further successes. That's the idea. It's just a question of who it is truly available to because we aren't all starting at the same starting g place by a long shot. A huge part of our culture was unable to begin any kind of wealth until very recently in our counrty's history. Anyway, just some thoughts.
A huge part of our population, not culture, sorry.
I think part of the reason Americans are more outgoing is that we understand how important it is to connect with other human beings. I met my best friend on a public bus because we decided to be polite and make conversation while we were riding instead of just sitting there being bored. If we just kept to ourselves I never would have gotten to know a really great person. If you smile at someone, even if they don't give one back, it's one more smile in the world.
Yet you have "rugged individualism",refuse to have universal healthcare,as it's socialist and tips are demanded for service instead of good,or outstanding,service in the rest of the world because you're not paid enough to keep a roof over your head.
Well said, I think that's a major strength a lot of us in the States have. We can tend to see things out of the gate, from more of a social perspective as the norm. I love that people around the world can respect and even love that about us 😊 We genuinely do care most of the time ❤
That's beautiful. I am extremely introverted, but I love smiling at strangers. Especially since the pandemic. Everyone is starving for kindness and to be seen. I hope you and your friend stay close for a very long time. 😊
Sadly, this aspect of Americanism is kind of dying. I blame it on smart phones. Ever see those insurance commercials cautioning young home buyers against becoming like their parents? Making small talk with strangers in line is one of the things it points out as something that only old, out of touch people do.
So true! I just made new friends with my dental assistant. She's invited me to a few D & D sessions now. I wasn't even into D&D! Random friends ftw.
Stop saying that you have no friends. You have hundreds of friends here. We love ur honesty and wittiness. If we knew you needed help and we could help...we would.
I will laugh out loud wherever I am if I feel like it. As I always heard in church, Make a joyful noise 😃
Im an American but I love British television. i would ask for British shows when I was toddler. i think it is way more sophisticated and relies on good writing and acting rather than huge production value. LOVE IT.
I am so much more proud to be an American compared to my friends. I think it’s because I grew up very poor, welfare and government housing (the projects) for a few years of my life, but I was able to become the top 1% in the USA for earnings. I can travel and live where I want. Why? I’m nothing special. No one expected much from me really, but because I was born here I was always made to believe I could do and be whatever I wanted….and I always felt the sky’s the limit. I’m incredibly grateful. I still feel to this day that anywhere other than here, my life would have been different. I feel incredibly blessed to be from here. Even with all of our issues, you have equal opportunity here, but that doesn’t always mean equal outcomes…. It means you have the opportunity to go for it.
congrats on your success. i think that is awesome. i grew up very poor as well (same same all the same) but was brought up in abusive households where i was told i COULDN'T do anything and should just off myself. it felt the same anywhere i went. so when i would hear "you can do it! you just gotta do it!" and worked extremely hard only to keep being kicked down, it was extremely depressing. i hope more people have had your experience than mine. i wouldn't wish that kind of bleakness on my worst enemy. though i still cling to the things i love, i am nowhere near the 1%.
@@aMdeniZen I wish you future happiness. Just know that you are worthy of good things no matter what people say to you. Your father (and mine) is the King (Jesus). God bless you 🙏🏻❤️
THIS! SO MICH this right here! That why America is known as the “Land of Opportunity”, and why much of the world population wants to come here. Sadly, natural born Americans take it so much for granted, and EXPECT “equity”. BS…good on ya. You worked hard, are accomplishing goals, and finding success. YOU TRULY ARE not only a shining example for others, you epitomize what being an American truly means. Again, congratulations, and best wishes for continued success.😊
My story exactly. Born and raised in a shack in West Virginia with alcoholic parents, we didn't even have running water. I left home at 15. My children grew up wanting for nothing. I retired a couple years ago and we're set for life as far as money goes. I worked like a dog to get it but I'd do it all again. Anything is possible in America.
You got it right! An American would not say “I hope it lasts”. They would ask “how can I make this bigger?”
Doesn’t matter where you grew up or which school, you have such an awesome personality and if you were my friend, I’d wanna hear your accent 24/7. It’s so charming and warm. You will be adored if you move here. Be open and talk as loud as you want and be yourself. You’ll be absolutely adored !!! 😊😊
I just recently found your channel and have been enjoying your videos. Watching you process information and have aha moments is great. 😊
I agree that people who came to America way back in the day had a wandering/ adventurous spirit. It was proven several times in our history. Like the pilgrims, the westward movement in covered wagons, then when the dustbowl happened and so many people packed up their lives and moved west again.
Each time they literally risked EVERYTHING, even their lives, for what they hoped would be better.
In a smaller but still very frightening way, I moved with nothing but my car, a blanket, pillow and a sack of clothes to a whole new state. I had no job, home, food, nothing. I did it to hope for a better life. It took about 6 months to get back on my feet. Another 1.5 years after that to realize my dream of a much improved life with my own house, a real job and ability to raise my son the way I wanted to raise him.
It struck me when you said " I hope it lasts". I don't think Americans are thinking that it will always continue, be at a job or a stroke of good luck, or a CZcams channel. I think the main attitude difference comes from the idea that we understand It won't last forever, but will enjoy the ride. When it's done we move on to the next thing. I feel like Brits know that it won't last, but they'll be sad that it ended.
That's what I was thinking. "I hope this lasts" vs. "Ima ride this rocket till the fuel runs out, woohoo!"
It's so interesting that the British say, "Hope for the best, but expect the worst" because Americans say, "Be prepared for the worst, but hope for the best." Just inverting the clauses changes the entire mood. I'm a retired American secondary English teacher whose mother's side of the family is of UK descent (although we've been stateside for centuries). My maternal grandmother (who was of English, Scottish, and Welsh descent) was also an English teacher. She instilled a great appreciation in me for the English language and literature. Many Brits and Americans don't realize that idioms, proverbs, and colloquialisms have extremely long shelf lives-- hundreds of years or more. Of course, Shakespeare created hundreds of them. The earliest American colonists came to America while he was still alive or shortly after his death. For that reason, I'm assuming that the outlook about hoping for the best came from Britain and was imported across the pond with the colonists. I wonder which is the original way of saying it?
I'm an American and I absolutely love British comedy. Dry British comedy is everything. I love it
I’m from Texas & lived several years in the Pacific Northwest in Washington State. It was very beautiful but I have to admit the rain & lack of sun affected me a lot . Once I moved back to where it’s mostly sunny I instantly felt better . ( they say it’s a lack of vitamin D & sun exposure)
Living in Western Washington isn’t the PNW. The east side of Washington, I’m in Central Washington, we get 300 days of sun shine. People forget there’s more than just Seattle and the surrounding areas.
Yes, the weather affects us intensely. I moved to Canada from TX and the amount of light drove me to depression. Once I was back in TX, all better.
Yep. It's even got a name... Seasonal Affective Disorder, aka SAD. Places with more rain and grey tend to have an affect on your mood unless you Love that kind of weather.
Here in California, when it rains, not only do people prepare the couple days beforehand like it's freakin' Armageddon, but I know people who have lightbulbs with the same spectrum as the sun they put in when it's too grey during the week.
Uh... Full disclosure... I put in brighter bulbs if I know we'll have more than 2-3 days of grey weather. It never used to bother me, but I think it's because when I used to live at home, my family would be in one place doing stuff, we'd have a fire in the fireplace, lights would be on because there was activity all over the house, lots of hanging out in the kitchen warm with food from the oven and stove, love, togetherness, happiness, and all that kind of thing.
The rainy days brought knowledge that you'd come out of the wet and cold into the warmth of Home with everyone either already there or soon to be.
But, when you get your own place, that often gets toned down quite a bit and so... brighter light bulbs. haha
Western Washington weather is very similar to England. Also, the lack of sun being above the 45th parallel during winter. And both have different names for types of rain. However, only tourists use umbrellas 😆
You're right! Same here. I moved to the Puget Sound area in March. I got depressed within the first 3 months from what felt like constant rain and cloud cover. I feel like people are happier and warmer in the Sunbelt.
My husband and I both come from low-income families. We both entered the military when we were young. We worked hard, earned our degrees, and live comfortably. There is always a way; you just have to be open to new possibilities and work hard to seize them. When you look back on your life, you always regret the things you didn't try. So, give everything a shot. If you fail, pick yourself up and try again.
This! My husband and I both grew up in poverty as well. My husband also took the military route and used his GI Bill to get his degree. I worked multiple jobs at the same time and had roommates to make ends meet so that I could put myself through school. Where there's a will there's a way. If you fail, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and try a different route.
Can we agree that we're both great people? We feed on each other's music and make it better; we joined forces to create the COVID-19 vaccine, and the list goes on. I think we could use a bit of each other's complementary realistic and optimistic outlooks.
As far as idealism and realism go, Americans aren’t just crazy idealists who think everything’s going to go their way. All the expressions he used to show that Brits expect the worst are also commonly used here.
Someone in the comments below said you would've been one of those Brits that got on the boat to the New World. I agree, which is why you should get on a plane and come on over!!! Don't hesitate; research, make a plan and just do it❣️
You said, "I hope it lasts" regarding your success on this channel. Don't worry. Compared to other Brit reactors at least we Americans can understand your accent. You're also entertaining, curious and willing to learn. You have a positive attitude and you’re young. It’s fun to watch your enthusiasm and amazement about American things. So keep doing what you’re doing-I think you’re going to be around for a LONG time. 😃👍
I'm a born n raised proud Texan in San Antonio and can tell ya hell yeah, we love you Brits along with any other (legal) migrants. Y'all are are largely treated warmly as long as you ain't an asshat! (And at least eventually learn how to drive on our freeways if relocating to Texas) Lol happy to contribute a donation and show my support to, imho, the most genuine and entertaining reactor... Reactionist? Reactuber?... Dude who reacts on CZcams. And don't fall for that defeatist bullshit. It's a control tactic. He who loses in the mind before the battle has already lost the war. Being realistic with your goals isn't an opposing view to optimistic ambition and drive, it's the counterpart! And it's perfectly within your perview to achieve success with this reasonable endeavor given your momentum so don't stop this train dawg, just get it! Remember, If you eat the tapeworm of defeat, it'll consume the possibility of victory within!
On a separate note, I honestly didn't like this video much at all LMAO. I mean, he could be joking but it seemed like he actually thought this country was optimistic because happy people moved here then were.... abandoned by Britain? Ok sure, not actually being due to the country's birth being a result of settlers achieving the impossible and shoving their fists up the most powerful monarchs/army in the world, then proceeding to kick ass in just about every facet and quickly establishing themselves, not as the new king shits, we're not fond of monarchies, but instead as Dem Republican shits🤭. But my two cents are as productive as the candy that glues them to the bottom of a minivan's cupholder so 🤷🙅🤸🧖 stay high
Interesting video! I'm an American and have been watching endless hours of UK podcasts. I've confused the algorithm enough that now it sends me ads where all the actors speak with UK accents. LOL. It's funny to think that in the UK people are watching endless hours of US podcasts. Lewis, you're so funny and real I love watching your videos, but have to warn you that if you ever did come to America thinking all you have to do is go to a bar to make friends you're more likely to develop alcoholism than a bunch of friends. I've known far too many Americans who thought bars would be their ticket to friendships who ended up alcoholics instead. Americans are friendly, but the ones who hang out in bars regularly tend to feel sorry for themselves and are there to drown their sorrows, not make friends. And if they do be-friend you they'd likely be wanting money and favors from you. Now, if you have friends first you can always go to bars to celebrate with them, but if bars are your strategy for making friends in a new country it's not likely to go well. You're much more likely to make real lasting friends here if you take up a hobby, take some classes, volunteer or exercise.
I live in the U.S. My grandkids always say, “You can’t say can’t. You have to at least try.”
As an American, and as a person, I am 100% convinced you can do incredible things. That doesn’t mean doing those things are easy. It takes a ton of work and a lot of risk. But you should never let anyone or anything stop you from maximizing your life. Also, it’s AWESOME to hear you want to move to America!! Just remember to consider all of the states and don’t get caught up in just moving to the famous ones…lord knows I love them, but America is more than just Texas, New York and California. Best of luck 😊
My mom loved British humor and I grew up watching a lot of British television and movies. My moms favorite saying was "Hope for the best but prepare for the worst." I think I definitely carry that attitude of cautious optimism. In fact when I first married, something my husband and I had to work through was his positivity vs my negative realistic view on things.
Americans absolutely love Brits! and that is 100% fact.
I will say it's really funny the few times I've seen the UK parliament how they speak in a very polite manner while ripping each other to shreds.😂
That is quite shocking. True brutality from Brit to Brit seems razor sharp. WOW.
Love watching Parliament. Hilarious! Mr. Pitt thinks he knows what he's talking about. Well sir. I can tell you that you dont!
We are all your friend Lewis. Thank you for such great content. I can't wait to see you trying the food you're receiving!
The part where he essentially says that the ancestors of America are the ones who got on the boats and stayed here is so true. If you have spare time, you should watch the series on the History Channel of “The Men Who Built America”. SO GOOD. While we may not agree with everything they did, you can see the sheer drive in each of them to build businesses, products, conveniences, etc. And these were men of the 1800s, which is when things really started. It really is a fascinating TV series.
My husband has an ancestor who grew up in the slums of London, came to America as an indentured servant, then became a soldier in the Revolutionary War where he became a war hero, worked his way up after he got out, and died a wealthy landowner. This is the origin story of many Americans. It’s not hard to believe in the American dream because it’s quite literally everyone’s family story.
I knew a psychiatric nurse from Seattle. I told her I had read they had the highest suicide rate in the nation (at that time) because of how many days it rained. She said it wasn't the rain. It was how many days they had grey skies. I love your channel! Your excitement and kindness are refreshing. You'd make a great American!
It’s really quite interesting the theory about something inherently optimistic about the colonists. But then I got to thinking, the colonist Lords who sponsored the settlers most often didn’t go on to personally inhabit the colonies they helped establish. Often people who were shipped off to colonies didn’t have many options. Many were indentured servants, or political exiles. Just some food for thought. But of course optimism and grit can be a learned character trait brought on by hardship, so maybe that is more like how that American trait evolved.
Lewis, as far as I'm concerned, you're a brother from another mother. Even though you have never met me or my family, the moment you cross that pond and get within living diastance from where I am, you are family, not just as a guest. You will have a place at my table in my home, and anybody with you is equally accepted. Why? It's how I was raised. I'm an 'old school' American who is proud to have your country as an ally against the forces of evil in this tired old world we occupy together. It's an honor to know you.
I've heard both sides my Mom was England & Dad was USA 😂😂😂❤❤ love them both ❣️ I guess that's why they truly did the "till death did they part" 54 years😅
Hmm same with me. Other than it lasted a much shorter time.
@@_Culling_ 😥 I'm sorry. It's difficult losing a parent, I knew my Dad would go soon because Mom went first, but had Dad gone first I'm sure Mom woulda lasted a couple more years.
My favorite British comedy " Keeping up appearance's "
I used to watch that as a kid on PBS (which showed British shows from the BBC) with my parents, lol.
"Hello, Mrs. Bucket!!"
"It's Bu-kay!" *rolls eyes* 😂
L3WG: “There’s no way that’s real.” Me (American): “That could be real, it’s not impossible.”
I met a lot of British people in LA. I remember one time they were pleasantly surprised by my Google Home device because it has a British accent. I hadn't told them before how much I enjoy the British accent.
I get happy to hear that British or any other people from outside the United States appreciate us or our country. We may be a powerful country but we're a very young country and it shows from time to time. Sometimes people take our naivete for stupidity.
Just keep doing what you are doing and it will last! You have a certain charisma and realness that people clearly enjoy.
Bro don’t ever change. You said you came from a lower class upbringing but you are already on your way. Just keep doing what you are doing and be yourself. Not that I have to tell you this I can tell you are well aware. It’s great to watch someone who is real and has real reactions to things. If you have people telling you to be quiet it just because you are self assured and enjoy life and that makes people that are just passing time uncomfortable.
As an American who loves British comedy, it's true. Blackadder, Toast of London, etc. All fall short of achieving well...anything.
As someone who is a 3rd generation American on one side of my family, I have memories of a group of my family telling me about their Swedish traditions. Now that those family members are gone, I have some nostalgia and want to know more. That's where it starts. Plus, just in my little hometown, we had at least half a dozen different European countries represented in the families. So lots of talking and questions happens when different groups live next door to each other.
Haha..I've always said that the best of Europe, Britain, Scotland and Ireland came over to America centuries ago. So get yourself over here Lewis! Some of my ancestors including badass Myles Standish (my 11th great grandfather) came over on the Mayflower in 1620. Happy Thanksgiving. He was at the first Thanksgiving at Plymouth Colony. Watching this in a break between roasting turkey and dressing, making gravy, mashed potatoes, yams, biscuits and pumpkin pie. When you are here, find yourself a nice Midwestern American farm girl, marry her and you will be a happy man for the rest of your life. :) BTW - we Americans will always have Britain's back, and we know you feel the same toward us. Cousins across the sea.
Yeah we're the regects and runaways! We said screw you guys.
No way i am also a direct descendant of myles standish too
Well Lewis, it definitely seems like you naturally have the aforementioned ”optimistic DNA” in your blood. 😊 EVERY video you upload is so fun, energetic, and generally optimistic-and it’s contagious my dude! As an American, you help put ME in a better mood after watching your reaction vids! If-or more optimistically, WHEN-you move here to the States, you’re gonna fit in with us crazy bunch just fine 😜
Keep doing what your doing man. It’s so fun to be on this journey with you as your channel continues to grow!
Back in elementary school teachers would tell a student who said 'I can't' "never say I can't, you're an Amer-I-can!"
We've been taught since before we could remember that we can do anything & to never give up. It definitely shows in our culture, good and bad
I’m a US Army Veteran from western Pennsylvania and I find the little differences between the countries and perspective really interesting keep up the good work 💪🏾
American here and I love his summary of the reasons for our differences, as well as the acknowledgement that we're very close in many ways. I love the illustration of the siblings separated at birth. That's how I've looked at it. Also, his explanation of the differences between American and British humor. I absolutely LOVE British humor. I grew up in the 70s and 80s and cut my teeth on the likes of Monty Python and Fawlty Towers (even Benny Hill, lol). Later my kids and I loved The IT Crowd and still constantly quote lines from our favorite episodes. I have many favorite current British comedians and totally "get" the differences between American and British humor. I love them both. This was a great video and he really did hit the nail on the head, although in exaggerated ways. Americans generally love the British for many reasons (and many of us trace our roots back to UK countries so we really are family in that way) and just want to be loved back. The best thing is that we can appreciate and value both cultures equally, nobody has to be the winner or the loser here.
Just curious. Any ancestors going back to revolutionary war days? Or any from the 20th century who served in the world wars. This can affect one's opinion on the US vs UK differences.
@@starmnsixty1209 my ancestors are a combination of Native American, Portuguese, Irish, Scottish, and Swedish. All of them except for the Natives came here from Britain or Europe at various times in history, some, yes, as far back as the early colonists. Many of my relatives fought in all the wars, sadly. But my immediate family and I don't get involved in any political grudges or racial nonsense because all the governments are corrupt, every culture's history is murderous, and all politicians are dirty rats. But I have no grudge toward the people of the world who are all forced to live under the rule of these corrupt leaders because, no matter where they are or what their heritage, ordinary people need and deserve love and kindness.
Oh my gosh yes! Loved thos but absolutely Peep show and That Mitchell and Web. We named our cat after one of web's characters. We quote that show even today. Smart humor is great humor.
@starmnsixty1209 dude no one cares about us and uk past relationships. My family came over on the boat with John Rolf, and served in all the wars.
Benny Hill was the best! I can still see his lecherous face with the scantilly clad ladies in their 2 piece bathing suits (which would NEVER fly in today's MeToo climate) during his skits, and hear the frenetic Benny Hill tune being played as he did his slapstick comedy. Such fun! He was a riot and I never missed watching him. Thank you, Brits, for Benny Hill! ❤ 🇺🇲🇬🇧
Some sayings I hear often and grew up with “Once you hit rock bottom, the only way is up”, “Things can only get better”, we also had a “Just do it” poster at school. Another saying we had at school was “try, try, and try again”. One field trip we went to see a play and the speaker there said “There are no mistakes, as long as you learn from them”. I think it’s also how we’ve been raised with group positivity. Like if someone is ever being self-depreciating we instantly stop them and disagree. We also don’t tend to allow people to be pessimistic all the time. Like we have the sayings don’t be such a negative nelly, Debby downer, party pooper, etc…
I’m Mexican American and I’ve watched Mrs. Brown boys every episode and loved every episode. that’s when you have to know that you were put on this earth to appreciate every human.and I was not put on earth to judge them for people for there differences.
I am a recent subscriber. You make me laugh! You are soo entertaining and funny. Keep up the good work! Btw, I am a 78 y/o woman and appreciate your content. We always like the Brits.
I'm American but I loved The Benny Hill Show! Hilarious!
British comedy is hilarious! I watch about 50/50 British and American youtube channels.
As an American I can honestly say that I think a balance would do wonders because sometimes American can be I little to ambitious so much so that people can loose everything they care about it the pursuit of something greater I think we get so caught up in making our life better that we tend to take the things we have for granted
I agree with the weather theory. 😂 Here in America we have several different climates to enjoy.
We Americans have been accused of having “an annoying talent for playing dumb.” I tend to agree with that statement, except it isn’t annoying. 😁
Love this video! When you come to America you absolutely need to vlog your experience!!
😂 My husband always tell me I talk too loud, lol. What's funny is he's just as loud. I think that Americans can be loud, especially when out at a public venue or when having an amusing conversation. We can get quite animated and loud but we're also having fun.😊
But,I don’t understand why the Brits see that as a negative thing. Why does that bother them to point that they dislike us for it. I don’t get it. There are things that they do that are different but I don’t dislike them for it.
I'm American through and through. Loud people are fine and can even raise morale and liven a place up. Crass obnoxious people are irritating. Kinda like the valley girl accent being equivalent to nails on a chalkboard.
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As an American, we say the same stuff, too. I've been known to say (& everyone I know), "What can go wrong WILL go wrong" & the like. If we're too positive, then when bad things happen, we can't handle when it all goes up in flames, ya know? It's a way to prepare for when things go sideways. In some ways, it's great to say to a kid that they can do anything if they set their minds to it, but not everyone can do what they want. Things happen beyond their control. One should tell their kids to go ahead & try the thing(s) they want to, but think about what to do when it doesn't work out otherwise, you're setting one up for failure. But, in my opinion, failure is just a learning process on what doesn't work or doesn't work at this time. Maybe in 10 years, it will be perfect to try again. It's just important to never give up. And if you think that the right path in life is to go this particular way & it doesn't pan out, it could lead you to another path where it will. In America, we tell ourselves it can only get better as a coping mechanism so we don't dwell on the negative, but inside we know what the reality is. At least this applies to everyone I know. We like to be prepared just in case. I prefer to stockpile certain things. That's how I was raised because you just never know what the future holds. But my BF doesn't like to because why? It's not like there's going to be a .... PANDEMIC, right??? My point was proven ;) Some things aren't always going to be available when you want it so be prepared. Just sayin'...
I think what he said about the religious ideologies are a massive reason for American idealism in general, and it is interesting to consider that people who took the risk of coming here must have passed on optimism ideals to their children, like “look here we are in the land of opportunity and can make our lives what we want with hard enough hard work and gumption” that’s definitely a dominant ideology here
The religious extremists of 17-18th century Europe came to the ‘new world’ and their legacy lives on. They are still extremists who are intolerant of other religious beliefs. This colors far too much of US legal territory and provides for legalized discrimination in the form of protection of religious beliefs.
The geography may play a part too, the US lets you go directly from the rainforest of the Olympic Peninsula to the Rockies to Death Valley to Everglades to the Great Plains to mega city… it’s easy to see opportunities when you can literally change your environment, practically at will.
25:10 we do love you all!!! It’s just funny how I picture UK though. I picture gray/cream stone buildings, clouds, lots of birds, and men and women on peacoats, tea instead of beer, and lots of soldiers walking around with weird hats. I KNOW that’s not how it is, but that’s how I picture it when people mention the UK.
When I was in college I was studying Communications and one of the topics that truly stuck with me is the idea of Glocalization. Which is the idea of a local GLOBAL community, which is enforced by instant communication, entertainment, social media and of course the internet. In the past it could take days or months for information to reach the USA from places like the Middle East or Asia (global), however these days that timeframe is MINUTES just like your local community, hence the concept of glocalization. We as a species are more intertwined than most think and the concept of instant mass communication is further shortening the "distance" AND "difference" between countries and each other.
I think the American thought in your CZcams scenario would be more like “What can I do to keep this going?”
It’s like, “if I work even harder, I can sustain and grow this.”
Great reaction BTW
I think I can sum up the reasoning and START, MAYBE (?), of America’s positivity and ambition........ “Manifest Destiny!” We came here and started a country. We were at the bottom...... then we started expanding! People knew they could just move west for a better life! Then we decided we no longer wanted to be “under the thumb” of the United Kingdom. So we fought, WITH FAR LESS THAN THE UK, and WON our independence! After that we just kept growing and growing! NOW we are the most powerful country in the world. We are one of the youngest, yet the most powerful! 🤘🏻😝👍🏻
I'm born and raised in the USA by British parents. We were in England visiting family. My mom and auntie took my son (9 yrs old at the time) to Bournemouth. He saw some men playing cricket, so he walked over to the bleachers, sat down to watch. Mom and auntie saw him, and were freaking out. Turns out he had just sashayed in through the gate, which was open, and made himself at home. Mom and auntie are standing on the other side of the gate trying to get his attention because they daren't go it as it's a private club - members only. My son was just studying how to play and was going to ask them if he could play. 😂
Yesss! Love the IT crowd!
The class structure definitely makes sense, and there are remnants of it in very WASPy country clubs in the U.S.. I've seen old people that are nearly broke, talking shit about new money, based on where they went to school, how they made their fortune, etc.
This is what he meant about always being lower class even if we become wealthy, we will always be the ones that need to be told to quiet down so we do not embarrass the people around us. We just don't fit in with the upper class settings. Rich but still from the ghetto 😂. They will always know you did not come from money.
To me that's all the more reason to be proud of yourself when you succeed.
Can't wait to see you hit the million subscriber mark. 🎉
Yeah but, who cares? Classism is stupid and I say this with love England,…stop bankrolling the royal family.
The 99% of Americans who don’t care about being obscenely wealthy also don’t care about the class status of our peers.
Also, if I’m involved in an enthusiastic verbal exchange, I might be loud. However, I give zero f&cks about what another country thinks about it and will just continue to be myself. If some classist English person thinks it’s inappropriate, then I strongly suggest they “shove off” as well as “suck it”.
I'm a Texan in my 60's. I've done alot of traveling abroad and in the states. I've lived other places including traveling Europe for a couple years after college studying art. I moved back to Texas in 2006 because I was ready to be home. Even when I was young I found British humor HILARIOUS. I'm a BIG Monty Python fan. Also, Faulty Towers, Are You Being Served, Mrs Brown, Neighbors, etc. Great shows all. I love British humor. Yall can also say things that are rude and use cuss words and it doesn't sound ugly because of your accent. Lol Here is another example: There's a movie called "Death at a Funeral ". Originally a British fil m and so freaking funny!! So I'm channel surfing one night and I saw it was on. What a disappointment to find it was an American remake with all American actors. It was okay but barely. Many people here think that's the original. When tgey watch the original (British) made film; they fully understand what I'm saying!!! Hilarious. Don't sell your comedy short. It's great!!
It's because in America we are taught from a young age that we can be anything and if we fail then we just pick ourselves up and try again. Tomorrow is a new day!!
Reality doesn't factor in.
The idea of never being upper-class regardless of wealth is the concept of Old vs. New money. Old money looks down on new because they feel they just are a flash in the pan where you are part of a long dianisty of power.
The fast food industry developed as way to provide food that was consistent in quality, cleanliness and prepared in sanitary conditions. Back in the days you really took your chance and risked getting a food borne illness at dodgy " greasy spoon" restaurants
I think that since so many young people start out working in fast food places it helps Americans to learn how to positively interact with people and gives them confidence from a job well done👍 That goes a long way in learning how hard work pays off and at a young age.😊
Apparently, Seattle - where I live - gets a total of over 850 mm of rain on 150 days a year on average. Not quite as many rainy days as London, but apparently more actual precipitation.
6:17 this is a saying for when things aren't going well, it means to take a bad situation and make something good out of it.
America was founded by tough pioneers willing to risk everything for a better life. Look at the mountain men and the westward pioneers. They weren't afraid of hardship.
I don't think that was hardship...that was just how life was
Religious Freedom is why the first people left for America.
@@geminiecricket4798 is that what you think? What about the people who were always here?
@@chucks1781 Attacks by hostile natives, lack of roads, uncertain water supplies and food shortages could be considered hardships to people fresh off the boat. Or used to living in cities.
@@chucks1781 I thought we were talking about the Colonists? Not Native Americans.
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Okay so I was born and raised in a small town in Upstate NY and moved to California in 2019. And it was quite the culture shock. In NY it sounds like it was a lot like the UK, people being unmotivated and more pessimistic/"realistic" etc. so perhaps it does have something to do with the weather. But in general, NY was just slower paced and more relaxed. California is all go-go-go all about the hustle.
Hello from newburgh
I think this is one of the most genuine looks at the differences between the two without going in too deep and without putting either side down. The weather thing is a huge deal though because in areas of the country where the weather tends to be more like the UK, you do statistically find more depressed people with mood disorders. Compare that to some place like California where the rate of happiness is much higher, for many reasons, but great weather is always top of the list.
My parents were from different countries. My mom British and my dad Norwegian that immigrated to the USA when he was 3. He died when I was 8 years old when we lived in England. My mom and me and one brother came to the US in the 1970s. My older brother was drafted into the US Army to go to Vietnam. He was 29 when he died. In fact I’m the only one left but I have 2 children and 6 grandchildren from my kids. Life is short, enjoy it while you can.
With your accent you'll DEFINITELY meet many people! As long as you reflect their behavior. Some people go to the bar just to unwind, but many go to see & be seen lol