That one 'once in a lifetime' friend was my bestfriend for 6 years 7 months and 28 days and said i was an attention seeker and ended it infront of my entire class ... All i wanted to fo was to cry but i was the one who always cheered up anyone in the class when they were upset so i just could not get the guts to..... Those words that she said struck my heart like a knife... And to add on to all of it she did that infront of my class teacher with whom i sat with during lunch... I could not even tell my parents because all they say is 'it happens to everyone, just forget it' i really hurts when the person you trusted more thwn anything or anyone hurts you...
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult situation with your former best friend. It's understandable that their hurtful words have deeply affected you, especially considering the long-standing bond you shared. It can be incredibly painful when someone we trust and care about turns against us. While I can provide some suggestions, please keep in mind that the best course of action may vary depending on the specifics of your situation. Here are a few possible ways to respond to the comment: Give yourself time to heal: It's important to allow yourself to process your emotions and heal from the pain caused by your friend's words. Take some time to focus on self-care, engage in activities that bring you joy, and surround yourself with supportive people. Express your feelings calmly: If you feel ready and comfortable, you may choose to have a conversation with your former friend to express how their words hurt you. Be calm and composed while explaining how their actions made you feel, giving them an opportunity to understand the impact of their behavior. Seek support from others: Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or even a counselor who can offer you guidance and support during this difficult time. Sharing your feelings with someone who can empathize can be therapeutic and help you gain perspective. Focus on your own growth: Use this experience as an opportunity for personal growth and self-reflection. Sometimes, difficult situations can lead to valuable lessons about ourselves and our relationships. Channel your energy into activities that help you grow and build your confidence. Remember, it's important to prioritize your well-being and surround yourself with people who support and appreciate you for who you are. While it may take time to fully heal from this painful experience, know that you have the strength to move forward and form new meaningful connections in the future.
Right I went almost 2 months without talking to them daily just due to different paths , but we can still laugh and talk like if we just saw each other again yesterday
Same, I work in the same place as my bestfriend and we hadn't seen each other for a couple months because of different shifts between us and last night I got suprised when she walked in the door and got teary and emotinal and we both ran into each others arms, she did first and we hugged really tight and she said she missed me so much and we started having a conversation like we never had stopped and then we were goofy towards each other the whole shift and she was rly rly sad I was leaving before her that she asked me to stay longer and then I texted her when she finished work and she didnt respond cause she was tired. Do u think she is my best friend? Btw the hug was really cute because I have always struggled with making friendships and always wanted a best friend, and the first she did was hug me and got emotinal because she hadnt seen me in so long and didnt talk to anyone else but me like I was important ❤😢
Same like we spend all of summer break without seeing each other yet we're still great friends after. Like we stayed friends even if we were separated for a few months.
your not alone 😭…i used to have a best friend and we did everything together but then she met this other girl and now she just talks to her, after all that i became friends with her and the girl she met and we became a trio except they always exclude me in everything… they invite each other for parties, sleepover, etc but never really invite me 😰 life has also been getting so boring cuz i don’t express myself i have social anxiety and super shy and everything:( my parents sign me up for classes and now my life is just about school and studying, what’s the point of life anymore?
i honestly don’t understand how some ppl stay strong for so long.. i wish i had a heart and mind that would stay positive most of the time. i always think down on everything and i can never find a reason to be truly positive and happy 💔
fr my bff is the best person I’ve ever met I’ve known her her whole life bc I was bffs w her brother for a little bit but yk when boys and girls take breaks from each other ig and guys can u pls like this bc my bff has been rlly sick lately
At this point.. Im soo lucky to have her.. She always try to comfort me whenever im sad even tho her own life is acc hell..and we comfort each other whenever we r at low.. Cheer each other up.. And whnever im afraid she makes me feel calm.. Whnever i cry she wont talk anything she will try to calm me down and wait untill i stop crying... She is always by my side... SHE'S THE ONLY ONE I GOT TO BE CRAZY WITH
Mine I know that my BFF is real because when I was in a though time he was always there for me and he knows how to cheer me up when I was sad, lastly he calls me every time I am active💓💓
I am so so grateful for my bestie she is the best thing to me I can never live without her she is my number 1 to talk too I love her so much she always confronts me when I'm sad she's always there in my lowest and highest moments I'm so so grateful for her she isn't any bestie she has something special in her words Can't explain Loly if Your reading this I'm so happy Your my bff I wish You the best best life❤❤
When I was 11 years old, my best friend Aliza teased me by saying , " One day I will leave you." And after five years she really left me. Now she is resting in heaven. I really miss her😭
My bestfriend for 5 years and 170 days stopped talking for a while recently. I said some bad things abt her and she did the same. She found someone else. We sorted things out but I'm not her bestfriend anymore. I still love her more than myself but I don't think she reciprocated. Today was her birthday party and I felt very left out at the party. Her new bestie and me are very good friends. I just really wish I could go back to 5th grade and give her one big hug telling her how thankful I am for her. I really hope things workout between us.
Awh that's very sad I'm so sorry but I hope you sort out things or maybe try to find a new bestfriend! I understand your situation I also have a similar situation like this.. My bestfriend I know for 8 years me and her were very close we sit together,walk together almost everything together until 3rd grade a new student transferred to our school I was happy to know that but then pandemic era started and we saw each other again after the pandemic era then I was happy to see each other again (we're in 5th grade that time) she and that new student became close. She and her are very close even now.(present) she and her is literally the "popular" duo probably. But nobody probably knows that me and her is the old *BEST* duo. But I still trust her she's very kind to me she knows how to cheer me when I'm sad and looks after for me but I'm feeling left out when she's with her.
This made my day. I was scared to be me. I had a seizure and it brought back all these things that I thought I could finally get rid of and the craziest thing about everything is even though I couldn't love myself. Everybody just loved me no matter what and it was like. I'm having a seizure and scream at the top of my lungs and breaking s*** and all I asked for was to have some space because that's what I wanted, but during this I was able to go outside I was able. To be honest, I was able to talk to countless people I was able to inspire and love and I feel really, really sad and I almost feel like I want to just fake it and be happy. But it feels so good to feel sad because I can get rid of it. And I don't realize how many people love me. And it's not that you can't love somebody if you can't love yourself. It's that you're to love the right people and communicate. Because it's really hard out here and nobody really realizes what anyone's going through or how anyone's affected um. And even though part of me is trembling and scared and I feel like shaking, not like having a seizure right but just emotionally. I'm so glad because part of me was trying to beat something that didn't exist and all I had to do was give somebody a hug and cry and everybody would have gave me a hug and let me cry, but I was afraid they would run away. So I ran away from myself, but that's OK, because because one dayou will realize who you really are the impact you've Mand part of it is going through the negative. And it helps to just be honest and give love.
my best friend Always gives more priority to her other friends then me .she doesn't even sit with me because she thinks her friends will get hurt and won't talk with her .she expects me to always understand her situations. but she never understood mine 😃😃😃
Those all 5 signs are true for me but I’m so sad today my enemy is cheering my best friend and now MY BEST FRIEND IS CONCENTRATING ON MY ENEMY I’m so sad now my best friend is so weird to me😭😭😭 pray for me to get him back💔
U know u don’t have to do that just to make sure your freind is your real friend because there all different we all have different friends and they might do it a different way ❤
a best friend always respects you even when you're not with them anymore.
But my friend not...😭😩💔😿
@@_MOONCHILD_452same 😫🤏
TRUE
@@_MOONCHILD_452True…. We got in an argument and she just ignores me now…. She doesn’t even talk anymore…. She is just ✨THEY WERE KIDNAPPED BY OBAMA✨
Sometimes when i m sad my bestie calls me fat and I start laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
A bff who are never forget u even tho ur not with them.
this happened with me we had a big fight we were jailed for 3 months
after we came out we ignored for our whole lifes
make yourself your best friend. do not wait until it is too late
Truth :-)♡♡
You are right 😭😪
Tysm for the device I don't have any besties and I should make myself my bestie
That's boring
True....😢😢
I wish I had a bestie to see this:/….
I don't know how to cheer up my best friend whenever she is sad but she knows how to cheer me up 😢❤🎉
Try to do something that she likes ❤
try hugging her ♥
@@iqramahamed5621 ok I will try
@@Its_me_Amiii okay 😊
A BFF always makes you feel happy when you’re sad . And never leaves you side 😊
My bestie was my everything but we separate because i changed school . Maybe oneday we meet again I miss her so much 😭
Same condition 😢 I love her so much but I know I meet again ❤
Same. but we didn't change school she changet the country
Same here , changed school and now missed her but still in contact 😔
Same condition
Same here
That one 'once in a lifetime' friend was my bestfriend for 6 years 7 months and 28 days and said i was an attention seeker and ended it infront of my entire class ... All i wanted to fo was to cry but i was the one who always cheered up anyone in the class when they were upset so i just could not get the guts to.....
Those words that she said struck my heart like a knife...
And to add on to all of it she did that infront of my class teacher with whom i sat with during lunch... I could not even tell my parents because all they say is 'it happens to everyone, just forget it' i really hurts when the person you trusted more thwn anything or anyone hurts you...
Sorry about that 😔😔
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult situation with your former best friend. It's understandable that their hurtful words have deeply affected you, especially considering the long-standing bond you shared. It can be incredibly painful when someone we trust and care about turns against us.
While I can provide some suggestions, please keep in mind that the best course of action may vary depending on the specifics of your situation. Here are a few possible ways to respond to the comment:
Give yourself time to heal: It's important to allow yourself to process your emotions and heal from the pain caused by your friend's words. Take some time to focus on self-care, engage in activities that bring you joy, and surround yourself with supportive people.
Express your feelings calmly: If you feel ready and comfortable, you may choose to have a conversation with your former friend to express how their words hurt you. Be calm and composed while explaining how their actions made you feel, giving them an opportunity to understand the impact of their behavior.
Seek support from others: Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or even a counselor who can offer you guidance and support during this difficult time. Sharing your feelings with someone who can empathize can be therapeutic and help you gain perspective.
Focus on your own growth: Use this experience as an opportunity for personal growth and self-reflection. Sometimes, difficult situations can lead to valuable lessons about ourselves and our relationships. Channel your energy into activities that help you grow and build your confidence.
Remember, it's important to prioritize your well-being and surround yourself with people who support and appreciate you for who you are. While it may take time to fully heal from this painful experience, know that you have the strength to move forward and form new meaningful connections in the future.
So what’s really the exact date is that your birthday when I gave you necklace 2014
That's so sad 😢 I never experienced but still I can feel the pain
So true .. people can hurt U .. especially in School..
Me and my best friend can not talk for like months and then go back to a conversation like we never left
Sameee
Me too 😂
Right I went almost 2 months without talking to them daily just due to different paths , but we can still laugh and talk like if we just saw each other again yesterday
Same, I work in the same place as my bestfriend and we hadn't seen each other for a couple months because of different shifts between us and last night I got suprised when she walked in the door and got teary and emotinal and we both ran into each others arms, she did first and we hugged really tight and she said she missed me so much and we started having a conversation like we never had stopped and then we were goofy towards each other the whole shift and she was rly rly sad I was leaving before her that she asked me to stay longer and then I texted her when she finished work and she didnt respond cause she was tired. Do u think she is my best friend? Btw the hug was really cute because I have always struggled with making friendships and always wanted a best friend, and the first she did was hug me and got emotinal because she hadnt seen me in so long and didnt talk to anyone else but me like I was important ❤😢
Same like we spend all of summer break without seeing each other yet we're still great friends after. Like we stayed friends even if we were separated for a few months.
Silence isn’t awkward it’s usually funny
Lol we are never silent 😶
Sometimes we can be so blessed. To have a Friend, a Lover, a Husband who is all of those things is very special. Thank you Darling xx 💕
Me who don't have a bestie/best friend 😣
Same...😢
your not alone 😭…i used to have a best friend and we did everything together but then she met this other girl and now she just talks to her, after all that i became friends with her and the girl she met and we became a trio except they always exclude me in everything… they invite each other for parties, sleepover, etc but never really invite me 😰 life has also been getting so boring cuz i don’t express myself i have social anxiety and super shy and everything:( my parents sign me up for classes and now my life is just about school and studying, what’s the point of life anymore?
Fr my bestie Aalayah has always been there for me during my depression and deepest times I love her so much she deserves the world:))))
I wish I had a friend
😢I also lost my friend
By the way don't worry I am your friend
This made me rethink my entire friendship 💔
mine too
Me too
A most valuable best friend sign is to stop comparison
Yup.... . my bestie is really the best person I have ever got ❤️
🙃❤
@@_ghost_50_ introduction that pagli my bestie ❤️
@@MasterCubersafc 😑
A once in a lifetime friend, yes my own imagination ❤ Hehe 🤗
my friend is always help me wen I need help and my respects
I STRONGLY agree with Number 4
soooo trueeee🙏🏻🎶🙏🏻🌬👑🕊🙏🏻🎶🙏🏻
My besties are my bestiess❤❤
True also when u have a real best friend they will always defend u no matter what so will u right?
👇
A real best friend doesn't get jealous of you
I found my best friend. We will always be there for each other and I think she’s a miracle
i honestly don’t understand how some ppl stay strong for so long.. i wish i had a heart and mind that would stay positive most of the time. i always think down on everything and i can never find a reason to be truly positive and happy 💔
number 1,2, and 5 with both of my friends
Yes ❤
fr my bff is the best person I’ve ever met I’ve known her her whole life bc I was bffs w her brother for a little bit but yk when boys and girls take breaks from each other ig
and guys can u pls like this bc my bff has been rlly sick lately
best friends are those who support us in our life 🤞😔oh! I have a bestie but she is changed now😢♥️
It's True because i Have my Best Friend ❤Prarthana❤ she know how to cheer up me when iam sad
The people who have fake friends and best friend also 😢😢😢😢 .....
At this point.. Im soo lucky to have her.. She always try to comfort me whenever im sad even tho her own life is acc hell..and we comfort each other whenever we r at low.. Cheer each other up.. And whnever im afraid she makes me feel calm.. Whnever i cry she wont talk anything she will try to calm me down and wait untill i stop crying... She is always by my side... SHE'S THE ONLY ONE I GOT TO BE CRAZY WITH
My best friend has everything ❤ 💓 💕
When he/she is the one who made you sad😢
Mom❤❤❤
I have a bestfriend who has these 5 facts ❤❤❤❤
Love you bestie
4 oh my gawd.....so true
No. 4 is too good to be true
I only have one best friend an they are an online bestie bc social anxiety sucks an I am so blessed to have her in my life❤
Mine I know that my BFF is real because when I was in a though time he was always there for me and he knows how to cheer me up when I was sad, lastly he calls me every time I am active💓💓
My best friend is definitely my best friend
I am so so grateful for my bestie she is the best thing to me I can never live without her she is my number 1 to talk too I love her so much she always confronts me when I'm sad she's always there in my lowest and highest moments I'm so so grateful for her she isn't any bestie she has something special in her words Can't explain Loly if Your reading this I'm so happy Your my bff I wish You the best best life❤❤
Lucky you 👍💫
A best friend always makes u happy when ur having a bad day❤
When I was 11 years old, my best friend Aliza teased me by saying , " One day I will leave you."
And after five years she really left me. Now she is resting in heaven.
I really miss her😭
My bestfriend for 5 years and 170 days stopped talking for a while recently. I said some bad things abt her and she did the same. She found someone else. We sorted things out but I'm not her bestfriend anymore. I still love her more than myself but I don't think she reciprocated. Today was her birthday party and I felt very left out at the party. Her new bestie and me are very good friends. I just really wish I could go back to 5th grade and give her one big hug telling her how thankful I am for her. I really hope things workout between us.
Awh that's very sad I'm so sorry but I hope you sort out things or maybe try to find a new bestfriend! I understand your situation I also have a similar situation like this..
My bestfriend I know for 8 years me and her were very close we sit together,walk together almost everything together until 3rd grade a new student transferred to our school I was happy to know that but then pandemic era started and we saw each other again after the pandemic era then I was happy to see each other again (we're in 5th grade that time) she and that new student became close. She and her are very close even now.(present) she and her is literally the "popular" duo probably.
But nobody probably knows that me and her is the old *BEST* duo.
But I still trust her she's very kind to me she knows how to cheer me when I'm sad and looks after for me but I'm feeling left out when she's with her.
5/5
Exactly me and my bestie
You know they’re your best friend when you get separated during class
I dont have any friend😞🙁
But they give me hate💔
it is nice to be alone no friend
I love my bestie
Sometimes i feel like i have and Sometimes i feel like i dont have one 💔
"Foolish friends are more dangerous than intelligent enemies".......
This was how me and my best friend was but now I’ve ficked it up by not being there for her when she needed me most bc I was to busy revising
I love my best friend 🎉she comes to me, been friends for 5years.
😍😍😍😍😍😍wow
Me and simar will always be best friends❤❤
True 🎉🎉
My parents ❤❤
Yes, my, best, friend is, so, great, r, for, smile, my, heart❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
Meri best frnd jab mere sath hoti h to mai kabhi sad nahi hoti❤❤
What.
What do you mean
It’s translates to
When My best friend is with me I never feel sad
I agree with u @zakir4600❤
@@AlwaysTalesame
Yes that right and I’m beside my bestie in the class that’s why I talk to her every time like even in an important class
I'm a cheerer. But nobody else does it for me though. Glad, the bible never fails to comfort me when I'm lonely and sad.
Brother facts
So true 😢
And the one is a best friend who fights with you❤that is true friendship❤
Better you by twelve.
This book has the best take on friends u have seen.
my bestest friend I've ever had doesn't even feel like one at all.
True.
My gurl is my bestie!!❤❤
This made my day. I was scared to be me. I had a seizure and it brought back all these things that I thought I could finally get rid of and the craziest thing about everything is even though I couldn't love myself. Everybody just loved me no matter what and it was like. I'm having a seizure and scream at the top of my lungs and breaking s*** and all I asked for was to have some space because that's what I wanted, but during this I was able to go outside I was able. To be honest, I was able to talk to countless people I was able to inspire and love and I feel really, really sad and I almost feel like I want to just fake it and be happy. But it feels so good to feel sad because I can get rid of it. And I don't realize how many people love me. And it's not that you can't love somebody if you can't love yourself. It's that you're to love the right people and communicate. Because it's really hard out here and nobody really realizes what anyone's going through or how anyone's affected um. And even though part of me is trembling and scared and I feel like shaking, not like having a seizure right but just emotionally. I'm so glad because part of me was trying to beat something that didn't exist and all I had to do was give somebody a hug and cry and everybody would have gave me a hug and let me cry, but I was afraid they would run away. So I ran away from myself, but that's OK, because because one dayou will realize who you really are the impact you've Mand part of it is going through the negative. And it helps to just be honest and give love.
5 yep always and others yes
I love myself 😏😏I am my best friend ❤❤
I lost my bff and she so an true bff 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭I want her back
Nitya ❤
Means my best friend is my best friend 😅she is a true freind indeed
I have 5 best friend 😊😊
According to this i don't even have friend bro 😂 bestfriend is big deal 😂
Slay queen 💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻💅🏻
I miss my bestie 😭😭😭 so much
My entire friend’s personality in 30 seconds
It's 100 percent true... Even i met him online and he ended up by being my best friend.. it's been 4 years now..
my best friend Always gives more priority to her other friends then me .she doesn't even sit with me because she thinks her friends will get hurt and won't talk with her .she expects me to always understand her situations. but she never understood mine 😃😃😃
I got 4 she's truely a real bestie :)))
Luckyy I don't have real friends
Yes I have that type of best male bestfriend. This all rules decades to me and to all those are in 8
well... it hurts to realise that my best friend is online and we never saw each other
Those all 5 signs are true for me but I’m so sad today my enemy is cheering my best friend and now MY BEST FRIEND IS CONCENTRATING ON MY ENEMY I’m so sad now my best friend is so weird to me😭😭😭 pray for me to get him back💔
I have 2 friends like this, one is at another school and one is with me at this school. We have the best trio lol. I love them sm 💗💗
3/5,4/5...😂
Relate to all team
👇
It just make me cry and all the points are true and it's been 7 years to our friendship she says that we are sisters😊😊😊😊❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I want best friends 😞😞 may God give me best friends
Me and my bestie greeting eachother with an insult
My bestie: “Hey, rat”
Me: “ sup, fart flakes”
Everytime 😂
Everyone else has a best friend but me but still I'm grateful
😢 I lost my best friend
Best friends are all always together when thier life is about to end❤
U know u don’t have to do that just to make sure your freind is your real friend because there all different we all have different friends and they might do it a different way ❤
Things that your bestie needs to know
imagine having friends
So true
Dalila 🔮