Planned My Mil's 50th Birthday Party, But While At the Event, She Gave a Speech Humiliating me...
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- čas přidán 17. 05. 2024
- Planned My Mil's 50th Birthday Party, But While At the Event, She Gave a Speech Humiliating me About My Past to Shame Me. Now I've Cut Her Off and the Whole Family is Blaming Me.
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If I were OP, I would have told Kelly, "Bish, you had ONE 50th birthday. You had ONE 50th birthday party, which I paid for. And what did you choose to do to celebrate and show your appreciation? You tried to publicly embarrass me while holding a glass of wine I paid for. You could have asked me about the situation before the party, but you didn't, because you couldn't possibly believe my success was based on my merits and my ethics. The best gift I could possibly give you is removing me from your presence for the rest of your life. Happy birthday."
the types of arguments i have while in shower
COME ON NOW WHILE CLASSY I'd have added more than a PLETHORA of swears too but yep that B had it coming and now she can enjoy the result!
@@nayanD69 fr! Best arguments come at me in the shower 😫
@@nayanD69 You need to up your speed of thinking then.
I grew up in a household where my father was quick witted and poked. I learned to poke back faster. The kind of arguments you think about later are what I fire off in their face.
You can get quick on that stuff by reading more and having wit jams with friends. Flyting is an amazing way to speed up your thinking.
@@Nempo13thanks bro. my fathers also witty and hence me too, but comparedly not even half as cool as him. but this is an area i wish to madter
Funny how kelly apologized privately but Humilated OP publicly. She's not sorry.
Who cares how Kelly feels bc she's a narcissist
The mental gymnastic required to give them rationality is too tiring.
You know it's narcissism when even the idea that the ball's in their court to make things right is enough to send them spiralling into blame games scapegoating and curse outs galore!
Those who try to force forgiveness were never sorry to begin with, NTA
The speech was a public attack. How about a public admission that she was with malicious and WRONG?
A narcissist admit they’re wrong? You might as well try and walk on water.
I'd have asked for Kelly to confess- in text- about every single malicious jab she had made to OP, starting from the day they met up until the incident.
Then, I'd have screenshotted the texts and shared them to everyone I could contact who was a part of the incident, and nobody else, via group chat, making sure that Kelly was there as well so that she could get a taste of her own medicine. I'd then cap it off with this message:
"You had no right to tell anyone anything about that day, regardless of whether or not you were misinformed. Your actions that day were nothing short of defamation and character assassination, and I want nothing to do with you, or anyone who is willing to defend your horrible actions after this. Let this be the end of the drama, and move on with your lives. Thank you."
Finally, I'd have blocked Kelly, as well as everyone else who decides to stay on her side.
Of course, this is if I were in OP's shoes, not as part of the wedding party. Idk if the wording made that clear or not.
Then again, I'm a spiteful, vindictive assailed when someone wrongs me to this degree.
Girl what's wrong with you? You should have asked her to pay you for your hardwork (referring to the birthday party) as soon as you had received her call 😭
Absolutely. Want forgiveness? Pay what you owe me and we'll see (only for me to then block her and never forgive her lol)
That doesn't sound like a family the OP is dealing with.. it sounds like a cult.. and Jonah obviously is pulling away from it clearly.
if she is truly sorry, she should make a public post explaining and apologizing.
8:57 She made that speech because she didn’t know the real story?? Don’t know why and how the story has anything to do with what you did. Even still, you told everyone there about her personal and business life which was very stupid. You clearly did this to humiliate her and it shows.
That family is a cult
MIL was sorry about not knowing whole story.
If MIL didn't know about this disgusting incident she would probably find something else to insult OP with.
Under 1 hour team! 👇
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Op’s husband is the best and op deserves him.
EXACTLY even it was true Who tf are to throw someone’s past in their face ? You just cut someone like that out of your life can’t have your future kids around that type of toxicity
I feel so sorry got you I hope that you had a better mil
CZcams, YOUR DRACONIAN AND NONSENSICAL ALGORITHM IS NOT GOING TO CENSOR ME! I'LL KEEP POSTING UNTIL MY COMMENT STAYS! /rant
Now, for the comment:
OP should take note of everyone who left the party to support the Monster-in-Law. Those are the people she needs to go NC with.
The husband is an absolute keeper.
I mean not everyone left in support, some left because the party was kinda over? like the birthday person left
Even if you didn't know the whole story, what genuine reason did you have for spilling it? Oh right, you don't.
The OP SHOULD NOT, UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES, forgive Kelly. She planned this all along and she knew what she was doing. She made her bed, and she needs to sleep in it. I would have said “you’ve made your decision, and I’ve made mine,” and then hang up.
The only reason MIL said that was to shame OP so why would she feel bad after learning the truth that doesn’t make any sense
I don't think that's how an NDA works, but interesting story I guess.
We love the green flag Husband. The women in his family sound culty tho.
Your not a drama queen and you are not the a hole
Like your channel
Under a day (3hrs for me!)
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It is normal for u too nott forgive then
MIL is trsh
This *has to* be AI-generated. Has to be. The post-er mentioned that the MIL’s intentions were always to make her (op) look bad. Yes, and logically the next question as follows is - and why were you trying to make (me) look bad? Of course, that’s never asked/discussed. A hollow, AI-generated piece of crap.
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