Leftists ARE Abusive, Here’s Proof - Therapists Speak Out
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- čas přidán 3. 04. 2021
- Leftist / democratic ideologies are being pushed on people in abusive, toxic ways.
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Please share the hell out of this video so we can get out of this nightmare.
I love your message about toxic behavior in general. Political or non-political, it’s something to really consider these days. Keep up the great content!!
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Been following you for a few months. Inspired by your bravery, impressed by your intelligence and awed by your empathy. I wish you good fortune in the battles to come. And I'm sharing the fuck out of this.
done and done
Thank you for this amazing content!!!! You're the only one in your lane lady keep it up!!!!
I have paid bills of friends who are the complete opposite of me politically, yet they say theyd unfriend anyone who was the opposite of them...and Im the bad guy.
@None ofyobizness and then people accuse you of being as bad as they are lol.
Last time I checked you didn't scream and yell at people for wrongthink.
@None ofyobizness I feel that, I may not understand a lot about things that I'm not but I don't mind learning differences of others I never would say someone was wrong for just being themselves I'm not sure what I am but I'm a registered republican only because the left is nuts and I'd vote independent if I knew one could win as president.
OMG SAME! Wow, you are a good person and an even better friend. Those ppl are so lucky and probably don't even realize it. Hope you and yours had a Happy Easter (if you celebrate).
@None ofyobizness I would say fascism is honest socialism
@@darrenayles5905 I'm a part of the problem. I need to change...this Easter is a good start. How we "fight" needs to change. I hope its a good one where you are too (I celebrate.)
“ social media has afforded people the luxury of saying disrespectful things about another person behind closed doors and at the comfort and safety of their home without getting punched in their face for it if they said it in person.”
- Mike Tyson
"Civilized men are more discourteous than savages because they know they can be impolite without having their skulls split, as a general thing."
- Robert E. Howard
It emboldens them every time they say something mean, offensive, and twisted without any consequences, on top of how many thump-ups they could get with those twisted comments.
To be fair, I've had these people say some nasty shit to my face, wanting me to punch them. They'll do anything to make you look bad. Luckily I was sober when they did this. If I had been drinking, it'd be over. For them.
But if you let words hurt you, they win
Sticks and stones
Yep. Luxury = comfort + convenience.
This video legitimately made me feel afraid. And not because I feel like Arielle is fearmongering, but she identified what scares me about the extreme progressive left that *I* have been unable to identify up till now.
I dismissed the whole thing, like a lot of people I know, because we figured it was a passing fad. It wasn't until I was sitting across from a girl in a college class who was a true believer. Over the course of the semester she systematically creeped me out on so many levels. I'm an older guy who worked half a lifetime in construction, I don't scare easy. But picturing this person in a position of power was terrifying.
@@rustyspigot1876 I have a couple family members I love and trusted who have changed dramatically since the 2016 election when progressive extremism started to show its ugly side. It's disturbing to think of them in this context, but I also see some things Arielle was talking about in them. It hurts. It scares me. And it makes me so very sad.
@@daetshadowbright3262 You're having a sane reaction to an insane dynamic. Do not let anyone bully you into self-doubt or despair. Arm yourself with knowledge, eat right, exercise and foster new relationships wherever possible. The people you love are still there, going through their own existential crisis, it is not your job to talk them into or out of anything. Your job is to stay strong for yourself, to weather the storm and work for the better tomorrow that is YOUR vision. I know that's easy to say, but even if it feels like it you are not alone. I may never see my niece again because her mother heard me say that a real feminist might have issues inviting biological males into girl's bathrooms and battered women's shelters. Her intellectual retort was that I'm a toxic white male. I barely caught myself from letting it go any further. Their arguments are built on sand and they know it, that's why they're so reactionary and paranoid. Do not indulge their lunacy. If you've got no one else to talk to feel free to bug me whenever. Otherwise, there is still joy to be found in this world, so go find it!
I know,right?
@Carry Peach I don't think I can agree with your assessment. Like anything and everything in our world, the internet has good things and bad things about it. But saying that it is solely responsible for misogyny feels wildly inaccurate to me. Misogyny existed long before the internet did and I feel that awareness of that has vastly improved in the internet era.
I'm not entirely sure what you mean by pornsickness, or the me/me interaction, and would love it if you can clarify.
As to the void of intimacy, as someone who essentially grew up online, I can say beyond shadow of a doubt that I have had a lot of meaningful relationships that have been exclusively online, and some led me to travel to places that I never thought that I would, specifically to meet the incredible people I met online, and was how my husband and I connected.
It's true that there are toxic environments online, and that the internet has its part to play, but it is a resource with no more fault than a library. The issue, as I see it, is that people have surrendered the ability to exercise critical thinking and have taken things that should be questioned as absolute and unquestionable. It's easier to take things at face value instead of asking why, and asking why can be uncomfortable when you're treated like an idiot by a person who believes they know better.
This is all, of course, from my perspective and experience, and I mean no offence in my disagreement, so I hope that you'll clarify those two points to me so we can continue the discussion!
I've been emotionally, verbally, and physically abused as well. At best, these people are at just as bad as your average abuser, and at worst, they're even more dangerous.
STOP PLAYING THE VICTIM CARD, GOD!!!
@@dewilew2137 I'm not making excuses or justifying any actions on my behalf. All I've done is state that I've been abused myself. That's not playing the victim card.
@@dewilew2137 that was rude and uncalled for, he was not playing the victim, he lead with a life experience and stated an opinion that’s allowed!!!
@@dewilew2137 is it cuz he’s a guy? Ok, b. Stop playing the “only women get abused” card. Pathetic.
@@dewilew2137 Hi, my skull was almost cracked open by a leftist and I had to get 27 stitches. Stop gaslighting everyone.
i watched u when you first started CZcams and as a conservative lesbian its sooooooo crazy to see you grow through the years into this. I always assumed I'd be alone forever because no lesbian would ever date a conservative. Its really a breathe of fresh air to see not every famous lgbt is so anti-conservative. I appreciate you so much!!
Yeah it’s definitely not true that LGBT people are completely liberal. I’m a conservative Christian lesbian and my wife didn’t care much for politics but thought conservatives were racist, homophobic etc just because that’s what she’s always heard. Until she married one lol.
@@boozoochamp Agreed! A lot of us lgbt are not liberals and never have been. It cracks me up when I bump into other lesbians that act completely shocked when they find out I'm not a democrat like they automatically assumed. And they learn to avoid talking politics around me because I let them know how I disagree with their ignorant logic. I've had a few of them de-friend me, but that's okay, I don't need to associate with people like that.
"Conservative lesbian"....
I'll play a hunch that you're conventionally attractive. Not sure why. It just seems the way to bet.
@@deniveave4612 right! Fortunately because of my location I’m surrounded mostly by conservatives. However, I do get judged or assumptions made about me that I am anti- God and liberal just because I married a woman. Or they think I’m going to be flamingly flamboyantly gay and it’s solely because of the representation of gay people we have in the media and they all fit that stereotype of liberal, flamboyant, Christian bashing gay. Once people know my beliefs they never have a problem and are shocked and tell me how nice it was to meet someone “normal” who is gay. It’s sad really.
I may not be a lesbian, but I definitely shared this sentiment when looking at the gay community. There are people out there that share our values out there. I hope you find a lovely woman that'll cherish you for the wonderful person you are.
Personally I feel that extremism in any form is dangerous, no matter the reason for it.
Also one of my favorite things I was told about being a victim was "it's not your fault that something bad happened to you, but it is your responsibility to heal from it."
These are narcissistic manipulative people who shouldn't be associated with any person place or thing
Yep
I work with a narcissist , believe me it's no picnic.
No association with any nouns whatsoever
This was very uncomfortable to watch. Thank you Arielle for saying what most are afraid to say. My mental health has been so much better once I abandoned these toxic traits + anyone else who mirrors these behaviors. - Former Radical Leftist
Welcome to sanity friend... it's always so good to see people leaving that craziness.
They love transparency and they love accountability as long as THEY aren’t subject to the same treatment. Intersectional types don’t wanna be held accountable cause then their shitty behaviour will be brought to light.
Exactly! The way intersectional types avoid accountability personally reflects intersectional feminism's beliefs that feminism is responsible for tackling every injustice from racism to classism effectively spreading feminism so thin it can't be effective at anything.
Cancel culture, stalking of what someone likes or retweets on social media, refusal to befriend anyone with different politics(or even visit relatives with different politics), and overall demonization of those you disagree with or white straight cis and/or men by the Left is such a problem.
We are also to blame for letting these people have so much control over our culture and society.
Yeah... I think it's an issue as well.
The really f*cked up thing is the vast majority of people (I think) who espouse the notion that White, Hetero, Cis men are 'evil' are LITERALLY primarily White, Hetero, Did Men. The issue is that they are racked with 'White Guilt'.
They desperately need someone (ideally a Black dude) to grab them by the shoulders, shake them and tell them 'You're not responsible for the transgressions of a distant relative that you never knew'!
I remember seeing footage (presumably in Times Square). There were these Black Woman in chairs, and they were literally getting their feet washed by these White Men.
If I was there, I would have confronted them all and try to convince them to stop.
They don't realize the damage that they're doing.
Young White kids see this and they start feeling that Society Views them as 'the enemy' and they are liable to either commit suicide or become radicalized.
This is all a huge mess.
And... Here's the thing.
There ARE lots of Black Entertainers that feel the exact same way as myself, but none of them will talk, for fear of being cancelled.
Like I said... A giant mess.
Cancel culture is the standard discard and slander that cluster bs = abusers do after a break up with their victim.
I don't know how you deal with all the hate. Thank you for speaking
Giving a shit about them.
Ariel. you've managed to bring out what I've long felt but was unable to put into words. THANK YOU! This video DOES need to be spread far and wide.
Funny how I was (and still am) debating with some transgender people because I stated that I refuse to date a transman. It reminded me of being sixteen again, and being around so many people who were against my sexuality. It also reminded me of the depression I went through back then. There we times I just wanted to end it all, but luckily I pulled through and accepted myself and grew stronger as a result. People being offended by what you believe in, or who you are isn't your problem. It's their problem. If they're going out of their way to complain then that is a clear indicator.
Everyone should be comfortable with who they are. Who cares if you're a straight, white man who's a christian, or a muslim transwoman. Accept who you are, accept that there will be people that won't accept you & realize that there are external forces outside of your control and that you shouldn't let them effect you.
Be kind, be humble but know when to smack a bitch when it's needed.
Yesssss!!!!
Not only are they abusive. They are protected while doing it.
The problem with toxic friendships, just like with toxic relationships, is that a lot of people will be hesitant to leave because they don't want to admit that their own judgement was lacking in the first place nor do they want to accept that the time and energy they've invested has all been wasted.
This is so true, and while the Sunk Cost Fallacy really never should apply to interpersonal relationships, for some reason, the way we humans do it, we make it apply to interpersonal relationships. I try very hard (it's helped that my mum and I have been stumbling toward figuring out who is and isn't toxic in our lives and going from extremes to less extreme as we weed through them) to give people time to either "give them enough rope to hang themselves" (turn of phrase, CZcams) so I know that it's fully malicious, that they have no desire to change, or that they're so messed up that even trying to help will only drag me down with them. It's been one hell of a journey to go through but being booted bodily out of the RadicalKweer (yes I misspelled it on purpose ^_^) community for not conforming to their (very warped) thought policing of what was and wasn't good and what was and wasn't abuse (hint: only hets could commit abuse if you were anything other than natal-sex and het, you were scot-free) I found out really quickly what happens when a group with too much power over impressionable people can do and how those in charge can have it go to their heads.
It's hard to accept that you wasted time and effort but I also like to be grateful for these relationships because now I can see the problems whereas before I was blind to it. (If that makes sense)
@@Crisjola everythibg is subjected to the law of deminishing returns and eventually the law of negative returns, that's what happens when we humans have an excuse not to change and obtain some form of absolute power. A good book on this is the Vision of the Annointed by Thomas Sowell.
That gets easier with practice, and the more you know what it is
Being a part of the lgbt community and daring to question what community "leaders" tell us to do and say, has opened me up to a ton of attacks. I've finally just left them behind. But, it's super sad to see people I considered friends, who secretly agreed with me, turn their back and pretend to hate me
Same. I remember reading a thing that said "if you want to know the measure of a group, see how they treat those who leave it" and (iirc) while it was talking about cults and religion, it very much applies here. I lost friends when I was bodily thrown out for questioning things, and, worse, when I pointed out what they were peddling was child abuse and "they didn't think so" so they were right (even though I was one of those children being abused and had been told it was a "good" thing because it lead to my "awakening" and I was "lucky" to experience it "so young" and… wow is it disturbing.)
@@Crisjola Very culty stuff
Yep, had 2 ex GFs like that and oddly they were both the type that talks about left-wing politics constantly, had one throw my phone into a wall because my YT autoplayed a Tim Pool video.
@None ofyobizness Yeah, I think its because they see him as a gateway out of their orthodoxy, like the way they are with Arielle, the ones they demonize the most are the moderate ones that shine a bright light on just how insane they've become.
Benjamin Boyce is 100% spot on what he said. Thank you.
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He was at Evergreen when the college melted down a few years back
Benjamin is absolutely one of the best people on the platform.
“Gaslighting” has become such an overused term that the accusation of gaslighting has itself become a form of gaslighting
And they wonder why people become radicalized against them. They don't even realize they're directly responsible.
History will show that Arielle and a handful of others didn't only warn us, but fought tooth and nail to stem the tide of this hurricane of lunacy. So important for us to know we're not alone in this. So thanks Arielle, Karlyn, James, Benjamin and all the rest. Gad Saad Rules!
No, history will not show us because the insane left is winning and the winners write history. Future children will learn about what awful, racist, fascist, Nazis we are and how the Thought Police had to fix us or destroy us.
They'll all be unpersoned and all of their content sent down a memory hole.
@@sarsarsvintagejewelry I've recently been rereading 1984 and it's remarkable how analogous it is to our current cultural moment.
We are quite literally the French Resistance during WWII. We should start a network and get the word out.
@@sarsarsvintagejewelry Dear future historians, please note that we are the French Resistance and tried and passively resisted the Nazi’s destruction of society.
When people in comment sections attack someone as CisHet, than I know it's a loosing argument.
This is so fucking true. I have a friend who's "best friend" is a progressive professional victim who has being a big influence in making him into a "non-binary" pos that has become an unhealthy toxic person and has cut me off from them and made them hate me. It hurts i lost them and they cut me off and i wish this can stop one day... i tried what i could to keep a healthy relationship but that cant happen if the other person is involved.
Dee you can't fix them. They chose their path. Maybe they need to do this for a while before they come back. A lot of people go toxic because they have issues with self hate and anger that they need to work through.
The fact you did not go with them shows you don't need that lesson, which shows you are more emotionally advanced.
This is less "the left" and more just crazy people on twitter. Leftism is a political and economic ideology, it doesn't mean there aren't bad, toxic Leftists. There are tons of good people that are conservative too, I just disagree with their economic ideals. It's the loudest people on both sides that we should all disregard.
I have seen almost all of these behaviors from both ends of the political spectrum. The extremist ends. Most people are not 100% of any party. We are constantly discussing the outliers because they get all the attention. We need to stop giving the extremists attention. Without attention, they have no power.
I had a sort of abusive friend who was really good at using words to manipulate. I remember her saying "You're being defensive," and I had the good sense to counter with "Yes, because you're attacking me, a defensive posture is the absolutely correct response." This was followed by "I'm not attacking you, I'm attacking your bullsh*t idea." So I had to come back with "My idea is correct, so I have to defend it." Suffice it to say, that didn't go over well. This was in the days when you could be friends with a liberal, so we got over it, but uhm, we don't talk any more.
guh arielle, babes, you regenerate my dying brains cells
@Kristopher Chavez girl...it’s just a saying 😂
@Juicy Smooyay PERIODT
@Kristopher Chavez Maybe if you cry and whine harder about it on CZcams, people will do what you want and stop using words. :)
@@islamisrightaboutwomen3440 yikes...you’re name...🤢
@@islamisrightaboutwomen3440 "some people deserve being abused" my man do you hear yourself?
I was listening to a certain news site where the word Terf came up and one said what does that mean and another guys says “...woman”.
I felt that he instantly sucked the gaslighting out of the term.
Serious Stockholm syndrome over there. They love their abusers.
If I wasn't in Facebook jail I'd totally share this
LOL.... doing things right!!! I used to get pissed off about being in fb jail... Now I’m like bring it on bitches! 😂
Only two kinds of people are in Fakebook jail.
I just got out. Ill put money on your books. Lol
Is one of those people a patriot because GUILTY 😎❤️🤍💙
I was ban-hammered on FB for sharing a funny meme mocking the current Vice President. Not kidding. Leaving FB and not getting on my army of Alts was the best thing I've ever done.
I lost two of my facebook accounts no fucking reason
Arielle, can you please also make a video about the trans movement alienating children from their parents?
I'm a heteroromantic asexual woman that is discussing having a child with my boyfriend once we get married and I'm terrified of what might happen to said child if they're ANYTHING like the two of us. Looking back at my childhood I was always non gender conforming and was a MASSIVE sci-fi nerd that that liked playing rough and tumble with the boys but luckily my mother was a techie that worked on computers and cars and my father's family runs towards artists despite his being a trucker so when people said "You shouldn't let her have the Thundercats big-wheel you should make her have the Barbie pink one" my parents told them ALL to leave me alone and let me like what I like because it's none of their business.
Had I been born in the 2000's exactly as I was in the 80's I'm convinced some do-gooder teacher would have convinced me I was trans and not just a male minded female. I can see myself waking up as a teen and realizing that I LIKE being a female despite my hobbies and mindset and being deeply traumatized by the time spent being talked into identifying as trans.
My BF isn't 100% straight and he's a very intelligent and artistic man that loves me for my mind more than anything else and he was bullied by family for not conforming strictly to their expectations despite not really doing anything straying that far from gender norms. His Latino side of the family was very intolerant of his creativity and intelligence.
If our daughter is like me and loves computers, tools, nerd stuff, etc. or our son is an artist/writer like his father I can 100% see these delusional asshats calling us bigots for not forcing a child to make life altering decisions while they still believe in Santa and the Ester Bunny despite both of us going through the same things and coming out happy and whole despite people trying to get us to change to fit their ideals.
This is why we are planning on home schooling as much as possible.
@@ShojoBakunyu Interesting. I too was a more "tomboy" type of girl. Artistic, always trying to achieve being different, taking shop class rather than cooking classes in highschool, getting along with boys more than girls cause girls were so dramatic! But never did I think I was anything but female. I'm now married with two kids and still know that I'm 100% straight but prefer stereotypical male dominated conversations about construction, building codes, and architecture, rather than more stereotypical female conversations like scrapbooking, other people's kids and fashion.
But you're right, if I were to be raised today, I think the far left would confuse me into thinking I'm something I'm not.
@@ShojoBakunyu I know this is a rather old post for the interwebs. I was a kid in the 70s and a teen in the 80s. I'm ever so grateful that my mother let me be the tomboy I was. She was one too, but didn't get to express it like me. I'd be terrified to be a kid now and be confused into thinking I was trans. I often said I wanted to be a boy or even let people think so. It wasn't that I wanted to be a boy or felt like I was one somehow. I just like boys activities more and got tired of being told girls dont do that. I'm glad I am not a young person now.
@@ShojoBakunyu forgive me for being naive but you are an asexual who has sex ?
Been saying this for a while. It feels like every abusive relationship I've had, but on a global level.
38 abusers disliked this video.
I am a 54 yr old Gay woman in a 22 year committed relationship with an amazing woman, and I lean conservative on many issues. I don’t secretly agree with you - I completely agree with you and am starting to be more vocal about it. It’s not always pretty but I don’t care anymore. Telling my friends I lean right is harder than coming out at 23. Insanity. Love your message!!!
When you're attacked then accused of being "defensive", instead of staying on point, respond in kind. Tell them you think they're a child rapist.
😂 yes
aw hell yeah Dr Karlyn Borysenko! I was hoping she'd make an appearance. 😁
I know i love her
Well as you know I’m on the left, but not to the extreme, and so I’ve not disassociated myself with you or anything like that - and as you’ve seen I've been attacked just for liking one of your Instagram photos. So I hear ya about people on the far left… just like on the far right, they’re way too extreme and close-minded to opposing views. There needs to be more middle ground! I mean, you and I don’t have a lot of the same beliefs, but I still support you to share yours even when they don't match mine, whereas some people who are supposedly “on the same side” as me will literally try to cancel me just for showing that support. 🤷♂️
Exactly that’s toxic behavior
Honestly this video was refreshing to see. I’m stuck in this abusive “friendship” with this super left liberal girl and she basically emotionally and verbally abuses me when I don’t agree with what she is saying, she’s made me question my sexuality (and sanity) multiple times when I am sure on what I am. I’m not sure how to break this off because I’m stuck in one of my classes with her and it’s one I really enjoy, that’s what makes it worse. She’s hypocritical and emotionally draining and her non stop talk about how left is better makes me wanna move away from the left perspective. Just venting here sorry to bother, love your videos ❤️
@Barbatos , I’m sorry you’re experiencing this. I can relate. Honestly, I would reeeally urge you to “move away from the left perspective” because that is a move away from lunacy and dishonesty; it has truly become a mind control cult. I’d also encourage you to tell your “friend” that you need some space, at the least. I had her twin as a “friend” a few years ago and I ended up writing her a letter thanking her for good stuff in the past but I told her that she and I had too little in common in the way we looked at things to be well suited to be friends. One of the best moves I ever made, and she and I stopped hanging out. What a relief! And zero regrets.
@@Featherfinder thanks for sharing your experience :) I would like to try and break it off and yeah I agree at this point the whole left view is like mind control. I have already moved away from that point of view since honestly because of her I couldn’t stand it. I hope you’re having a great day
I have experienced way, way more abusive behaviors toward me from my friends on the left than I ever have from anyone on the right. Its sickening. I am glad someone is speaking out about this. I have literally been bullied by these people online and in person in front of other people.
This chart is clearly relating to an “abusive relationship”….meaning a partner. I was in a relationship with a narcissist & this chart is the exact description. I’m not sure this circle chart can relate to an entire group of people…but if you want to…the “right” is guilty of everything on this list as well. So what’s the point?
This is a theory I’ve had for a while. I just thought if these people were like this in a relationship they would be the definition of a controlling / manipulative partner.
Sorry to hear your history of abuse. The level of judgement from the left is frightening. Thank goodness I moved my family to a small rural area away from most of the craziness. Portland then Atlanta was nowhere to raise kids and stay safe.
Thank you for sharing and stay strong.
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Allways speak your mind and never conform to anything that you dont Believe is right!
I've had acquaintances screenshot my posts and dm me randomly with "explain this". It made me stop supporting the social justice causes they claim to support
Just wanted to thank you for what you’re doing for the lgb community. As a young lesbian you played a big role in accepting my sexuality. Now you play a big role in me feeling more free to express my unpopular political beliefs as a lesbian. I know right wing lesbians are few and far between, but it feels good to know I’m not the only one. It can be especially troubling when the right still holds a lot of homophobia, and the gay community still hates the right, so you are definitely a sanctuary for me and people like me. Thank you for speaking up Arielle!
Amy, I feel the exact same way. I watched Arielle as a teenager while I was coming into my sexuality, and now I’ve re-discovered her right as I was having my political revolution. It’s nice to have Arielle there for the confusing times. Keep up the good fight 👍🏻
@@emilee3151 right back at you!!
I have a question…..as an older cis female: When you say you are a conservative lesbian…..Are you a libertarian? Small government? Fiscally conservative? A lover of the status quo? Or do you label yourself “conservative” because you don’t embrace “WOKE” dogma? If that’s the case, then over 90% of Americans would be “conservative”, including myself. And yet, I’m politically and socially a liberal. I believe government can be a force for good in a society. I believe in acceptance of difference, but I’m against “offensesensitivity” and culture of victimhood. I’m sure most WOKE people would label me a bigot. So, am I now a “conservative” by default?
Liberals have homophobia too. They just hide it. I live in. Nyc. I have heard bigotry and homophobia from the left. Also let's face it this whole lgbtq is bs. Gay men and gay woman don't really like each other. Gay doesn't like bi and the Trans no one wants to date. It might be sad but this is the reality and it stands true today.
THANK YOU for mentioning the shocking history re-write over Stonewall! I was shocked when they pulled that crap. And I can't believe how many college educated friends I have who went along!
She knows zip about Stonewall .
Ms Arielle. I may not agree with you 100% of the time, but I really appreciate listening to your points of view. This is a great message and should be shared. It is okay to like and engage with someone you do not agree with. How else are we going to grow?
I dead ass have a friend who genuinely supports AOC's list, the idea of putting people who voted for and support Tump on something like a criminal offender list that makes it harder for them to get a job. We had that conversation months ago and I'm still shocked, I lost a lot of respect for her that day.
This is probably Arielle’s most eye-opening and astute video so far!
She’s spot-on when drawing comparisons between the progressive movement’s tactics and abusive partners!
Arielle, I love you!!! This video was like a year of therapy. I have a lesbian aunt who is constantly telling me everything I do wrong, how I’m self loathing and racist, all because I don’t conform to the gay lifestyle. I grew up bullied most of my life but the left and the LGBT community at large probably did the most damaging bullying than anyone in middle school. Thank you for reminding me I’m saner than they want me to believe I am.
Omg , I also have an Aunt who is gay but she’s very religious and would never say or do any of these things to me.
I was gonna make a video on this, beat me to it, ahahh. But obviously, it's good to have more vids by different people on this same topic to raise further awareness. I did, however, do a small series on it being a cult. Because it's been increasingly obvious that that is exactly what this is. A cyclical, societal abusive relationship. And people are getting bullied into becoming trans and remaining trans. I'm so glad you're calling it out for what it is, Arielle.
Do the video. The more voices the better.
Soooo glad you featured Benjamin Boyce, he needs more recognition for the awesome stuff he’s doing.
So true. Their behavior is like that of the abusive controlling spouse. Can't go anywhere, can't talk to anybody, can't have any money .......................
The activist let was my major reason for not coming out as trans, I didn't want to be seen as their group. Took me a mental breakdown and a depression to end up accepting who I am and start working towards my transition.
it is sad and ironic that the very people who claim are fighting for justice achived the opposite - already very acceptive majority is now fed up with LGBT community. I have to remind myself that there must be people from this community that are not crazy bullies who think they are the victims
We support you on the right. You get those surgeries, or whatever you are in need of, and I pray that it all goes perfectly for you!
Man, reminds me of a group of friends I used to be involved with. It's scary to think about. It's refreshing to get away from the toxic culture of the left, but at the same time it's a bit scary. It really is like leaving a cult...and I should know because I have left a cult before. Whatever happened to personal responsibility? Thanks for having more great videos. I followed you here thanks to Gothix!
Excellent video !
The real problem is that we have weak politicians that totally go along with this craziness!
Unfortunately, they can’t wake up from their perpetual abusive behavior because they truly believe they are of higher moral authority. These are the people types who supported the Reich. You’ll know where this is headed, right?
Had to google TERF because I always here it on the internet and still don’t know what the heck is going on 😂
This was the reason I "left the left" so to speak. I still consider myself a liberal; I'm pro homosexuality (I am gay after all), pro drug legalization, pro legalization of prostitution, I'm against the death penalty, pro equality between the sexes and races, anti-war, all of that but no longer a "leftist". It was the absolute dogma around it all and the demand for unquestioning subservience that made me go, "This...this is becoming a cult..." and I can't be bothered with any cult nonsense. And it just kept getting worse and worse. I remember feeling constant anxiety over saying the wrong thing and causing someone to have a complete meltdown. That's not healthy at all.
Now, if you're not a total Marxist, you may as well be a Nazi in their eyes. Sorry, but I've seen what Marxism has done and I want no part of that. They also refuse to consider that leftism can be taken too far (Holodomor? Oh that didn't count. The Great Leap Forward? Oh that wasn't really communism. Gulags? Oh they weren't really that bad. Could you imagine if someone said concentration camps weren't that bad?). 10 years ago, my views were called liberal, now, at best, they're moderate if not right of moderate. That really tells you something.
In 2014, I was considered the most liberal student in my politics class according to a political ideology scale. A few of my views have changed, but I mostly hold the same beliefs as I did then, and I'd definitely be considered moderate now. They have moved the bar to such an extreme that I just can't support it.
I do have a question though, doesn’t the extreme right apply the same tactics? And why then the necessity to go to the conservative side? I’m not from the US, so I’m just trying to understand how the political landscape is developing
Reminds me of my (violent) dangerous ex so much to the point I feel like a chill down my spine and physically sick remembering certain things.
also this is just going to get worse and worse. like i have no friends now and people seem to have been so gas lighted that either they have accepted the cult or they shut down cutting themselves off from everyone. like my own family told me that they agreed with the belief that you can still be a racist if your wife or love is black, but my ex-fiance was black. which we broke up on good terms we just couldn't do a long distance relationship and she wanted to pursue her career which i didn't want to hold her back because i wanted to build a home, so it was life goals not be aligned and broke off the relationship in respectful way. but my own family when we were still together had even called her an uncle-you-know-what for me and her being concerned about the intentions of BLM after seeing a BLM mob beat up a mixed couple forcing the black woman to watch while they beat up her white boyfriend for mixing races. like i'm the enemy in my own family even though i'm the product of a mixed family, but because i pass as white if feel like this child who is treated by a parent who was abused by their previous partner and because the child reminds them of that partner they project and take their trauma out on me. the progressives only will accept you if you are white or mixed with white if you hate yourself because you're white or you say all whites are evil.
Life at the moment is not separated by politics or race anymore, even though these are an excuse to hate, but by good and evil. Good try to fix themselves, take responsibility and look after others. Evil is self hating and wants to destroy everything and everyone.
I sometimes wonder if the world will split in two down the track as we move further apart.
@None ofyobizness totally agree the sentiment and idea of black lives matter is a great idea, but the organization is not promoting the message of what their name conveys. but thank you for the response. it's just crazy that how toxic people have become and have become more and more tribal in their beliefs; they're becoming indoctrinated and turned radicalized. i should know for one i was indoctrinated when i did ranger, so as a civilian now i'm just looking at these people like. yo, you're being radicalized to justify an anger state of mind to justify violence towards another by dehumanizing them.
@@fluffybunny3178 you should listen to Michael malice he talks about what you're conveying; a peaceful divorce. because clearly what's happening now seems like the beginning of a civil war and i know as a Serb, so when i hear stories from my relatives about the fall of Yugoslavia and the Baltic wars; this moment in US history just echos the same mechanics.
@@malaciczahkhav2480 I think the earth keeps repeating history because those that truly run the world profit off these wars. Whether it is selling and using guns or human trafficking of the displaced.
America has more guns than people. Biden is just now ripping down the constitution and trying to get rid of guns. It wont work. The democrats will fall. The question is how bloody will it be considering the military are not on Bidens side.
Of course you can be racist and have a black partner. Sounds like you're very stupid. Your family is spot on
Arielle ❤️ you! Just like myself you are a strong lesbian. I lost a lot of friends on the left because I refused to be woke.
I am so proud of you. Thanks for holding your stance - I can’t possibly imagine the chagrin -Much chutzpah!
when that ben guy said ‘erosion of boundaries’...hoo period.
This is something I saw when I was in college....in the early 80s. The most "enlightened" people were the most intolerant and snooty. It was so crap. Crap. I changed a lot because of this. Guilty by association indeed. A super "no talk" world. And this is certainly NOT any way to progress,
Arielle you’re not fucked up for life and you shouldn’t allow yourself to fall into that head trip. This will only make you more aware of those around you and able to find people who are authentically in your corner. God Bless.
I guess this is a good reason to be single
My wife and I had noticed recently how the left are all about projection. It was so consistent! Just one of the cluster B behaviors typical of today's SJW left. Running across your work, Arielle, as well as the work of Joshua Slocum on his Disaffected podcast, fleshed out our understanding of the fascinating parallels between the behavior of today's activist left and that of the Cluster B personality disordered.
I have nothing to comment except this is the most honest video ever.
hardly .
Omg. As a future Therapist I really, really needed to hear this. This is the video I've been waiting for you to make. THANK YOU.
Yeah, lost my friendship with my BFF and her wife because I don't believe in the narrative, whether it is race, the eqaulity act, religion, heck even Dr. Seuss....sad.
The worst abusers are the ones that don't know they're abusers.
I have always been extremely liberal leaning and the older the get the more I find myself shifting towards a more moderate view. While I often don't agree with conservatives im increasingly seeing leftists as entitled brats. Its scary.
Funny enough i used to be considered liberal to but despite none of my views changing i have somehow become a far right conservative 😂
From one Arielle to another , dude, I really needed this video. Thank you so much for standing up for those that agree with you. You're the best!! Love from Israel!!! Ps if we have our Pride this year you MUST come!!!!! I'll show you all around
Send a message to trade pics of girls in uniforms
@@travisnolan9068 just Google it
Fantastic video, your assertion is very much in line with my experiences with both the Progressive Left and some of my former interpersonal relationships. It’s amazing how cyclical abuse is, some victims become perpetrators without even being conscious of it, while those that don’t go to sometimes extreme lengths to always be conscious of their behavior and how it effects those around them. I agree that the differential in this situation is a willingness to take accountability for their actions even when accountability means being socially uncomfortable, or in some cases a pariah.
Look at Arielle exposing the devil!! Go girl!
Both extreme left and right are toxic. I feel like there is no good choice. For people like me who think for themselves, there is no party that represents my values.
Once again, another fantastic video. Please keep doing what you are doing. You are bold to keep stating your mind.
I’m literally surrounded by liberals and leftists and a great many of them are buying into woke narrative, but they’re not all the same about it. I’d say that, of the people I’ve known for years, the ones who were abusive before have found new tools with which to torment others in this new ideology. The ones who were always kind try to bend the messages to sound as tolerant as possible so as not to antagonize me. The latter mean well and I use my best Chris Voss skills to try and break through to them, but the former do sometimes behave exactly as you describe and it’s real hard. I mean I work with these people. Some of them want to sell services in the new DEI industry. It’s really, really hard.
Oh no treating minorities with respect must be hard for you to understand.
@@willcail How do you figure? Or are you being facetious?
So basically, these therapists are saying what we all already knew.
Most people don't want freedom; it means a lot of hard work and intellectual honesty of being responsible for their own lives.
I was kicked out of my household because I was unwilling to yield my objective perspective on all things political as a primary criteria for all household members to comply with in order for harmony to exist. I enjoy and welcome healthy debate. When invited to participate in a discussion I expect to feel free and safe at sharing my thoughts, experience, acquired facts and sources with the participants and in turn theirs with me.There is much to learn and ultimately to gain from this kind of social discourse.
Respect for people and the diversity they represent has the great potential to promote creative solutions to the benefit of all while enriching our personal lives too.
Thank you for having the courage to talk about these things, it's so important. ❤️
i had a therapist laugh out loud at me for telling her i went to a sorority party one time. the whole floor was invited, of course i was not invited back. but she thought it was so funny. and they aren't supposed to be judgmental.i am and always have had physical differences so it was not new to me to be rejected.
Anyone that's claims left or right is probably abusive
WOW this is freaking amazing. Having similar experiences in abusive relationships like you, Arielle, and you are SPOT ON about leftist lunacy. I couldn't explain it so succinctly like I can now after watching this video. THANK YOU!!! KEEP GOING!!!
Saw this noise start back in the early 90s. The Ex was a evergreen student. I was a private security contractor, so you can only imagine how >that< worked. Put up with it for 5 years. One day I grabbed my working gear and dropped off the paperwork and closed down the mutual bank account giving her all the mony in it. Never looked back and jave ZERO regrets walking. Leaving all the stuff.
Some times you must walk away. If and when that time comes don't worry about names or stuff pop smoke and BAIL
yeah right.
@@dewilew2137 ahem, funny enough sweetie, I am a nominally retiered skip tracer, the best man at my wedding is a retiered Green Beenie, one of the groomsmen is retiered EOD, and at one time the R5 director is a retiered red leg Viet Nam vet. You would be amazed at the number of retiered or active duty milatary and/or LEO that are happily part of fandom in general and Dragon Con in specific. Never make assumptions kiddo. It rarely ends well
I’m currently being abused in this way…it’s a living hell but I can’t give up because I love my kids…
The irony of leftists not being left wing in any way... Ask them about economics and worker's rights, see how far they get without mentioning identity.
I’m currently 15, and I’m not political anymore for a fucking reason and not cause I’m a minor. I’ve been in very toxic relationships with old friends who ALWAYS wanted me to do research about leftist stuff ESPECIALLY anti police so I can stay friends and help them on an lgbt page we ran for our school. They never let me have my own opinion and when I did they said I was ignorant, racist and a horrible person. They did most I saw in this video. Thank you for this! You are a powerful, lovely woman.
Share this video everywhere!! Let’s save as many people as we can from the abusive left! -
An ex leftist 🙂
I can't believe I have been through this with these type of people without even knowing it
Calling who you are or are not sexually attracted to, bigotry, is like calling the process of your internal digestion by your involuntary organs, a CHOICE?!?
I don't wanna directly say what u did in the video but I caught on, and I just wanna say thank you so frigging much made me feel so much less alone and gave me a genuine smile, thanks so much please keep it up and keep using it platform to speak on things everyone is scared to, brave moral soul x
I came to this conclusion last year when I noticed it was impossible to have a normal, friendly conversation or debate with anybody Left leaning. I’m an independent with liberal and conservative views so I find myself in the middle on some issues, definitely right on others and slightly left on others. I too was in an abusive relationship and the more 2020 went on, I kept saying.. geez Louise the Left are literally acting like my abusive ex narcissist. Like 💯 acting like it. Arielle, you always hit the nail right on it’s head! 👍🏻
I'm in an abusive relationship with my state Governor who has changed the rules continuously for the last year.
I just realised my government checked 13/15 before COVID, now they check all of them.
Oh well, guess I can’t do much anyway.
I love your videos! Thank you for your channel and honesty :)
It's a good and true message. The Left, at times, is truly sick by psychological definitions.
Why doesn't this video have more views?!! Oh yeah, because people don't want to hear the truth. Keep speaking, Arielle! So much love and respect to you!