we lost our baby
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- čas přidán 5. 02. 2022
- The story of losing our baby to trisomy 13. This is a very personal thing for us to talk about, but we thought it might help others going through something similar. My heart goes out to anyone thats been in this position. You are in my heart and my prayers. You're not alone.
my instagram: / saraijones
jalens instagram: / jalen.conway
my vlog channel: / heyitssarai
Disclaimer: I am not a medical professional. I'm sharing my personal experience. Consult a medical professional or healthcare provider if you're seeking medical advice, diagnoses, or treatment.
This video actually put me to tears--i cant imagine what you two are going through. Ill keep you both in my prayers, time will heal but he will always be with you.
Same 😩❤
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she’ll be fine.
Sarai, it’s been so long since we last talked but I wanted to let you know I am sending you both a huge heart of love. I can’t imagine what you went through and are still going through. He will be watching over you for forever. ❤️🌈
A rainbow🌈 baby is the baby that comes after losing one.
I love both of you
@@DIVINEKAOZ i thought it was a purple butterfly unless that’s when you have twins and 1 of them doesn’t make it
@@jacksononipad1319 yes that's correct.
I’m late to commenting, but something I learned that I share with my friends who have unfortunately had miscarriages is: the moment you become pregnant your dna is changed forever. You may not have him physically inside you anymore but his dna is now apart of yours so you will always carry a part of him around for the rest of your life ❤️❤️
Oh my goodness, this brought tears to my eyes 💕
This truly stuck with me your comment. I lost my son last month and it’s been extremely unbearable. Thank you for these words ♥️
"We're going to be the best parents ever..." You already guys are! ❤ Take your time.
This video brought me to tears..the fact that you went through all this footage just to share it with the world is so strong. You and your entire family are in my prayers. I love you Sarai ❤️😭
You and Jalen are so strong for sharing this with the world. Love you Sarai!! ❤
I had the same at 23 years old. Super unexpected. Baby passed away on his own at almost 15 weeks. I know your pain it’s unbelievable. A year later I can still barely function.
I am so incredibly sorry. I will pray for strength and healing for you ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss of your baby💔😭😭😭 that makes me want to cry hugs to you
Sending you so much love. This was heartbreaking to watch but I know this will help so many future families who go through the same thing or have a scare. Love you so much he will be with you forever 🤍
Being such a long time supporter, the loss of Seven aches my heart. You have always been my safe space since I was so young. I’m sixteen now and after years of looking up to you, I truly want to say I am sorry. You two don’t deserve this. I can see the love in both of your guys’ eyes every time you look at each other. It’s unconditional love. Jalen said it, you guys are going to be amazing parents one day and I know it for sure. Your passion for eachother shows that one day your next little munchkin is going to endure that same love and feel safe in y’all’s arms. I’m not religious, but I know somehow, somewhere, Seven is watching y’all. and always will be.
Sarai and Jalen, you guys are so strong and I can fathom how hard this is and will be for y’all. Please, do whatever you need, and whatever you can in your power, to heal.
beautifully said
The part where you were in your car crying, my heart shattered and I just wanted to reach through the screen and give you the biggest hug. I am sending you and Jalen many condolences and love. Your precious boy will never been forgotten.💙
the little footprints.. 🥺 I’m so sorry you both went through this. I lost my baby in November at 9 weeks, it was devastating. But this baby felt your love and no pain. You have gained an angel 👼
Lmao they monetized this video LMAO
@@Aaron-ru6ldshe gets paid for all of her videos. What’s your point?
@@leishaapark You have to go out of your way to put ads on a video, It's clear they are doing this only for the money.
You’re stronger than I am. My baby girl stopped moving when I was 36 weeks. I went into labor and just held her and hated a lot of things. It’s been 2 years and I still can’t really share anything about her. I have her ashes in my room. Thank you for this video.
Sorry hun😭💔❤🙏
I’m so, so sorry. When I was 20 weeks pregnant my baby was diagnosed with a fatal neural tube defect and I had to terminate my pregnancy. It was earth shattering. Praying for you guys ❤️
I’m so sorry for your loss
Am so sorry for your loss
Am sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry for your loss 😢❤
sending you guys love, you have an angel guiding you forever 💗
I can see the hurt in your eyes and hear it in your voices. I can’t imagine the emotions you guys have been going through. I’ve watched you for years and have been inspired by your strength and growth you’ve had. God will never leave you, just lean upon him and be there for each other. Sending so much love. ❤️
It’s crazy to me how someone left this in a voicemail. Test results of ANY concern should be discussed, not just left on a VM. I had an irregular PAP one time, and they didn’t leave a voicemail. I’m so sorry you are having to deal with this. Sending all my love.
I was thinking the same thing
I think this makes sense, she didn't pick up the call so the doctor left the voice mail so she could find out the news as soon as possible and the doctor also said to call her back.
You can designate on your chart if you are comfortable releasing results over VM or not
Some doctors have forms that if you check a certain box they can leave semi detailed voice mails/results. I know I checked it so my doctor would leave details
I would prefer to hear over voicemail then to have to call back and wait until the doctor is free, not knowing what is going on
My heart is out to you. I lost my pregnancy this past week. Don’t ever give up, your baby boy is watching you every step of the way. Guardian angel for life. 🤍 Hugs
I am so sorry for your loss ❤️❤️ praying for you
I’m sorry for your loss ❤️
Sending you love 💕
I am so sorry for your loss he or she is watching you too every step of the way sending you love and strenght ❤️
so so sorry for your loss ♥️
I’m so sorry about this
I’m very sorry for your loss and your family’s loss. Thank you for sharing your experience on here. I feel like this video will be SO helpful for so many people going through something similar. ❤️
I’m hesitant to watch this as I lost my daughter at 16.4 weeks. But it’s important that you know you’re not alone. I had a genetic test on her placenta and there were NO abnormalities. Her heart just stopped one day. I actually went into full blown labor and delivered her vaginally. It was devastating. It’s devastating knowing, it’s devastating not knowing. I am so, SO sorry for the loss of your angel baby. Sending healing thoughts❤️❤️
oh sarai, i’m so sorry about this. my mom went through a miscarriage and it was so hard for her. but she got through it with time and you will too. we all love you and ur for sure in our prayers
You two are in my heart, thoughts, and prayers DAILY!!!! Sending you so much healing love and comfort!!! Please please please take all the time you need to grieve, to heal, and to process everything! Seven is with you ALWAYS and I know he is still watching over you both so proud of your strength!!!!! He is with you!! 💙💙💙💙
Sarai, i'm so so sorry. Sending you both so much love. You're so brave to share your experience and i'm sure it will help so many people🤍
You can see the pain in his eyes and how much he's been crying. I'm sorry guys. I hope the best and healing to you
I can only imagine how hard it was to edit this. Please take all the time you and Jaylen need. Sending lots of love your way❤️❤️❤️
growing up watching your videos it feels like you’re my close friend who i’ve known for years and watching this video just completely breaks my heart into little pieces. i’m so upset that you have to go through something as awful as this but you don’t know how incredibly strong you are. take your time, grieve, go through the whole process and i know you will come out an even stronger person who can take on anything in life. love you and jalen so much, i’m so sorry for your loss. r.i.p. seven❤️
i’m in absolute tears 😭
this is really so heartbreaking, watching the beginning footage just made me so sad seeing how excited you and your families were. i’m sorry you’re going through this, i can’t even imagine, but i’m glad you guys have so many people in your life who are there for you and are doing their best to support and help you. big BIG hugs to both of you, take all the time and breaks you need. also seven is such a beautiful and unique name, i hope you continue to see 7s all around you so you’re reminded he’s always with you
This breaks my heart! Thank you for being so transparent and sharing your journey. Praying for peace during this difficult time.
From someone that struggles with infertility, thank you for using your platform to share your story. It’s not easy to open up about this topic, and I just wanted to let you know that you’re not alone. Struggling with pregnancy loss, and infertility is such an isolating experience. You are helping so many women feel less alone, and feel like they don’t have to keep their struggle to themselves. Healing is hard, and there’s no time frame to when you need to feel better. Grief comes in waves, but better days will come. Sending all the love your way!
The fact that I used to watch your hair routines 12 years ago and now you’re posting this..I feel like I grew up with you in a sense. I really feel for you and I am so sorry this happened. It’s hard to imagine a worse pain. We love you and support you.
I also feel the same way...
I think I used to watch her in 2013/14 and recently just found her again… danggg
This video put me to tears. I can’t believe what you two are going through right now. I am so sorry for your loss, Take as much time as both of you need, and we will always be here with you guys! He will always be with us and watch over you guys! Thank you for sharing your experience on here, I know this will help a lot of family’s out there that are going through the same as you! I have watched you for a long time through all the good and bad, and I love you and support you so much! I’m sending you and your family lots of love and prayers!❤️❤️
Sending love, hugs & prayers. I am so sorry to hear that this happened. My heart breaks for you guys. May God surround you with peace and comfort during this difficult time ❤️❤️❤️
she had to go through all this footage and go thru all these emotions and my heartbreaks for them they are so strong sending love and prayers for you both
This was my thought she made a beautiful video sharing the experience and had to relive everything. This is heartbreaking 💔
i can’t even imagine what you’re going through, but i sent you so much love and strength, you’re not alone ! and i wish you so much well
As a labor and delivery nurse I am
Thinking of you guys. I have cared for multiple women with this condition in their pregnancy. You are not alone. You are strong, and you are so strong for sharing your story with the world. It’s something not a lot of people talk about. Thinking of you through this time ♥️
No one ever deserves this pain. You guys will be amazing parents one day and sevin will be looking down, loving you forever.
Been here since pizza, ranch and cherry coke and my heart breaks for you guys. My favorite people to watch by far. I’m so sorry you’re going through this pain❤️❤️
I’m so sorry. This is honestly heartbreaking to watch, it’s making me cry😭 you guys are my favourites 🥺❤️ all my love and prayers❤️
my heart goes out to you both , i can’t imagine what you’re going through & i’m so sorry this happened. he will forever be with you and in your hearts , everything is in Gods plan 🤍
I can’t imagine the pain you’re going through. I’m in tears and I just can pray for you guys. You guys are so strong. I just wish I could give you a hug so tight. God bless you and may He give you all the peace and rest you need🧡
I’m so sorry about this. I can’t believe that this happend to you guys. Sending prayers
This video brought me to tears..the fact that you went through all this footage just to share it with the world is so strong. You and your entire family are in my prayers. I love you Sarai ❤️
She has an editor thank god he's amazing to her
I just wanna thank you for sharing your story with us. That couldn’t have been easy for you or your family. I pray you guys get your rainbow baby 🌈 and I pray for your health mentally and physically.
This was a great dedication to the lost baby, and of how loved they were without even being here. You two are still a mom/dad despite the loss. Thanks for sharing the good and the bad of your life with us. We love y’all and you’re in my prayers.
This was so raw and real. I’m sending you both hugs. I’m so sorry for this devastating loss ❤️
So sorry for your loss. What you’re going through is unimaginable. My heart go eat out to you and your family. Stay strong, he’ll always be with you💙💙
My heart goes out to you and your family.
Also, thank you for sharing such a private part of your life with us. You are so incredibly strong.
I’m so sorry ❤️ My sister went through it a few months ago, and it’s much more common that society makes us think. Thank you for sharing this video, this topic shouldn’t be a taboo. Much love to you both and I’m sure god has a plan for you and you’ll have a healthy rainbow baby sooner than you think ❤️
sarai, i have been a follower for so many years at this point. i’ve always looked towards you as my older sister and you’ve held such a special place in my heart. i am so incredibly shocked at the news, and know there have been many tears shed for for you, jalen, and seven. i cried the whole video and continue to cry now. no one should ever have to go through this, but God knew you three would be able to handle it. like you said, you both will see seven again one day, and he will continue to love and support you both and your future children from above. i love you both more than words can express🖤 you’ve got people from all over the world thinking of you and praying for you. continue to stay strong.
When I tell you I was crying I mean I was bawling my eyes out the entire time. My heart hurts so bad for you guys. I’ve watched you Sarai since you were in high school and I can’t imagine what you are going through. You are such a tough cookie and inspire me every day. Nothing but love for you girl 💕💕💕💕
This is absolutely heartbreaking, I'm so sorry to you both. Hold onto eachother.
I’ve been a subscriber of Sarai since I was a kid. To see her grow and come into all her milestones it’s amazing. I’m truly sending all my prayers to you and Jalen. I’m in tears cause I couldn’t imagine going through this. God bless you guys 🙏🏾
I haven’t finished watching. But thank you for sharing your story. Such a vulnerable thing to talk about, but you’re helping so many people
I miscarried in October and again right after in November. Me and my husband bawled our eyes out watching this. We completely understand you guys and what you are going through. One second I want to be numb the next I want to cry the next I want to be so mad at my body. We are strong and we will have our babies one day. Sending all the positive vibes your way for the future. Loves
Sending love and prayers to you and your husband 😔🙏❤
@@kiamah7522 thank you so much ❤️
Praying for you, I’m so sorry. I’ve had several losses myself. I personally did go on to have 2 healthy, happy babies and I hope you go on to have your rainbow baby (or babies) in the near future as well. Sending positive vibes and “baby dust” your way ✨🤍
@@LaurenWoz421 taking all the good baby vibes thank you 🙏
Hope you’re doing well!
I can’t imagine of what you’re going through it breaks my heart to see you like this 😢 I’m sending my love to you guys stay strong 💕
I cannot imagine what you two are going through, this hurts my heart. 🥺 You guys are still considered amazing and loving parents! ❤️ You have an amazing guardian angel watching over you and your future kiddos. The next one will be your rainbow baby, and you guys will be amazing parents to them as well. 🌈 Sometimes the universe unfortunately doesn’t deal us the card we expected, and I am sending love to both of you. I am so sorry you and your families are going through this. You both are still such amazing parents for whenever the cards are dealt in your favor. Praying for you guys. ❤️
8 weeks currently & every day I’m terrified! I’m sorry you lost your baby boy. I will be praying for your entire family.
My heart goes out to your family. The pain is unexplainable and heart wrenching. I was in tears watching this as it took me back to my miscarriage. You never think it will happen to you until it does 😭 I pray the Lord provides you with comfort knowing Seven is watching over you guys. When you are ready I am sure he would love a sibling and that rainbow baby will be a blessing 💕
My daughter was stillborn at 20 weeks, we have no known cause. This video had me in tears for you, no couple ever deserves this. No words I can say can help your pain, but I am sending too many prayers & good vibes. There is no greater pain then loosing a child, lean on each other❤️ we did cremation aswell, and I know the feeling of having nothing of them😭 my heart is broken for you both. Our rainbow baby came a year and a month later, she was covered in Angel kisses, I truly believe her sister did that. You are never alone😭❤️
I miscarried a year ago and never told anybody but my bestfriend who passed away shorty after. I thought I felt okay and healed since then but this just hit different. I’m in tears. I’m sorry for your loss I’ve been watching u since were 16. Don’t give up!
Hey Sarai, I've been watching you since 2012. Watching you excited to tell your family, then crying in your car absolutely broke my heart and broke me out to tears alongside with you. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss... I can't even imagine the pain you and Jalen must be going through. I am sending you and your family so much love
oh sarai, there are no words to heal your pain. He will ALWAYS be with you. I am so happy you have jalen by your side and an amazing family to help you through these times. You both are so strong. This is a heartbreaking video but the small clips of you excited and telling your family were beautiful, and I know seven see's it, and I know he felt how much he was loved. Your rainbow baby is coming and can't wait to meet you. Stay strong my girl. ❤
I am so incredibly sorry for your loss. I can’t even begin to imagine what you’re going through, sending you all my love and strength 🌸
Wow, between yalls excitement and love and your family’s pure JOY reactions you have a wonderful world of support. Baby boy will ALWAYS be with you. I’m so sorry for your loss. Best parents ever.
This is so personal, thank you for sharing with us. Moments like this that is not immediately shared is why viewers should not ask personal questions in the comments. The content creator is going through Lord knows what and viewers are meddling posing reminder questions.
You both are so unbelievably strong, I can not even imagine. My heart goes out to you and your family, and God is watching over you and protecting you. We love you Seven
You’re so brave for sharing your story. Many women don’t speak about their loss but you’re helping a lot of us get through it just by sharing your journey. I’ve lost 4 babies and knowing I’m not alone is what got me through it.
Crying through this whole video, sending you all of my love and prayers. I can’t imagine how hard this is. There are no words.
I’m so sorry for your guys’s loss. I can’t even imagine. Sending you guys all the love in the world ❤️❤️❤️❤️
sending you both so much love & my condolences. i know there's no words that could take away this pain & hurt. stay strong jalen & sarai 💓💓
I’m so sorry for y’all’s loss!! It will never be easy but just know Seven is loved by all of us♥️♥️ keep yalls beautiful heads up
I’m so sorry, I can’t even imagine what y’all are going through. I will keep both of you in my prayers♥️
I bawled my eyes out throughout this whole video. Im so sorry, you and Jalen are both so strong for sharing this!
The pain, excitement and love was so abundant in this. I can feel every single emotion through the screen. We love you guys so so much. We’re thinking of you as you navigate through this hard time.❤️❤️❤️
This had me in tears. I can’t even imagine having to go through this. The Lord has a plan for y’all. He knew it was Seven’s time. Seven will always be watching y’all and he’ll always in your hearts. I will be praying for y’all and I am sending hugs. ❤️
Seeing y’all in pain brought me to tears. I’m sending my love💙 he will always be watching over you and his siblings to come. Love you
I’m so sorry for your loss , I feel your pain. He’s looking over you from above . Stay strong sending both of you love and hugs
I’ve followed you since I was a young teen. I’m so sorry you had to experience this, Sarai. Keeping you and your family in my prayers💛
i've been watching you since 2011. this truly breaks my heart, i couldn't stop crying. please take as much time as you need to recover we'll all be here waiting for you, i'm sending all my love to you both ❤
I can only imagine the emotions you guys are going threw! I am so sorry for your loss! Like you said and was told, he will always be first. Sending all my love to you and Jaylen ❤️
Wow this was tough to watch 😪cant even imagine what you guy's are going through. This sucks . Praying for you and your families . Seven was so loved ❤️
This video has me on a rollercoaster of emotions. I can hardly imagine what you two are going through.
Your baby boy is with you forever, and wherever you are. Always.
Sending you all the love and support.
He is looking out for you always.
Honestly I won’t try understand what you’re going through but time heals all wounds and you guys have so many great things in store for you in the future❤️
I’m so sorry! I just had my first baby and I can’t even imagine. This video literally made me cry! I wish you guys the best ahead and one day you will have a healthy baby!
My heart breaks for you both. I could not imagine going through something so hard. Sending all of the positivity and strength to you. 💔
Sending so much love to you both. As someone who has lost 2 babies, I feel your pain. ❤️ better days are coming and he’s with you 💙
Sending you both so much love and a hug! Everything happens for a reason. Stay strong 🤍
Oh I feel your pain in this, it brought me to tears. Praying 🙏 for you guys. I've never been through something like that so I can't even imagine the pain and heartbreak. Just try to stay strong and know Seven is always watching over yall!!! Sending lots of love your way 💗
I’m so sorry Sarai & Jalen. I wish you both so much love and strenght, you’ll get through this❤️
Bawling my eyes out and I’m only 6 min in.
The amount of love and joy for the lil babe.. my heart hurts extremely for you and Jalen. He will never be forgotten. ❤️
i’m sending y’all so much love right now 🥺💗 tears were rolling down my face as soon as you told jalen ): i know y’all are going though so much right now & i’ll try to send all the positivity your way 💟🕊
I've watched you since you were so young, and it breaks my heart that you're experiencing this pain. I'm so sorry for your loss. ♥
This tore my heart up. I cant even begin to imagine how you guys feel. I'm so sorry. 😥
There’s no words to take the pain you’re going through away, sending all my love and condolences to you both and your whole family❤️ xoxo
Watching this video when it first came out just tore a piece of my heart out for you, and little did I know I’d be experiencing the same thing just a year later. I just wanted to say thank you for sharing Seven’s story. Rewatching is helping me to cope with my loss and knowing that there might just be a bright side to these awfully dark days. I love you so much Sarai thank you for being a light in my life always
Can’t imagine how hard this must be for you two 🤍 Sending you both all my love and prayers ❤️
im so sorry serai, please remember this isn’t your fault. your family is with you 100% of the way. your amazing and im so sorry for your loss of your baby. remember he or she is a rainbow baby now. they are proud of you already💕
I’m so sorry for your loss 💔 He will always be with you
Ive been watching you since i was little, seeing this makes my heart shatter. You guys are so loved. ❤️
I literally cried watching this video your guys are in my thoughts and prayers I can't imagine how hard this truly is. We all love you!!